| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Anyone notice how Facebook and other social media brings out the worst in toxic Pickme behavior? | DISCUSSION | PrisonIsBoring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How to not be a Pickme for a HVM? | SEEKING ADVICE | PrisonIsBoring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 57 | Don't Forget - It's Okay. You Learned.My shit ex cheated on me with a literal pornstar and my biggest regret is not dumping him sooner. My self esteem took such a dive. I want to hate myself for how stupid I was but I had to learn somehow—nobody was there to teach me this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Major makeup brand posts this on Facebook with the caption “hey, at least it’s the thought that counts??”. Chaos ensues in the comments.The accuracy is painful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 05:20 PM |
| 26 | Ain't that the truth.HV trait = literally never mentioning ex’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 20 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?My mother was a garbage person but also a massive Pickme. Never could be content being on her own and went through dozens of extremely low value men/had kids with multiple losers. All my older sisters grew up being exactly like that. I watched men beat on them, and they would still chase them It took a pretty long time for me to see how deeply ingrained the Pickme mindset has been and to reroute my thoughts and intentions. Anything I learned from my mothers’ and sisters’ behavior had only been t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careMe @ literally every man I’ve interacted with romantically. No more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:18 AM |
| 14 | Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic (Reposting bc I keep effing up the title...)Fucking tea of the century. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Just Called Out a Group of LVMGood for you. I have lost my polite, smile and laugh it off attitude. I’m not going to take it anymore, nobody should. You are allowed to take up space, be visible, and be heard. Don’t let them make a fool of you for their enjoyment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:56 AM |
| 15 | Proud to be a Judge Judy ass bitch 😚Oops, sorry for having standards that don’t include hating myself and dissing myself on a daily basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Nothings as thin as the LVM’s ego!Oof. Gottem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:46 PM |
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