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| – | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"It's also your kid though, and not the hired help's kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:09 PM |
| – | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isYou don't want to be in this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:06 PM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.If you think men putting their foot down would change that much, you don't really understand the leverage involved. Women have all the leverage. At a certain point, women have the final say in all of these matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:21 PM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.You can't rely on the will of others to create any change. I actually think we already have a bunch of guys going their own way already and it doesn't change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I think another reason I latched on to this is because at a certain point, I concluded that life is meaningless. There's no reason to do anything. We'll all die eventually. If I don't think "what if me dying is just what THEY want?" It's hard for me to be motivated to do anything. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I guess maybe it's not even about their respect. It's about proving I can get my needs met without relying on "people's respect". It's about getting into a leveraged position where I can exact my revenge by living a much better life than these people who are so judgmental and full of disdain. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I'm not asexual though. It's not that I wouldn't enjoy the company of women if it came easy, but it doesn't. It's always work for me. I really doubt that everyone with a girlfriend is just some zen master that didn't take any pride in their ability to bag that woman. Part of me felt snubbed by all of womankind by that first girl, so I guess I just hold a chip on my shoulder for that. I wouldn't want to get to know another one just for them to ghost me for no reason. I really do want to invest em… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 05:51 PM |
| 6 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreDid you give examples on how to become more handsome and popular? That might be where the criticism comes from. It kinda feels like saying "just exist with hot women liking you". | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 02:34 AM |
| 3 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreHow do you deal with that voice that says "now they don't deserve this new and improved me because they didn't like me before"? It's really bad. Like, I can only motivate myself to pursue women out of this desire to prove to myself and other dudes that I can do it. Otherwise, I don't find anything pleasant about being "an improved" version of myself that someone else gets to cash in on. I don't really want to think this way, but it's like I can't help it. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I appreciate that I was able to hash out this mindset with you. The thing is, I totally agree with what you said. I can even somewhat find the better mindset you're talking about when I'm on my own by myself. When I really think about it, I can even empathize with women not liking this mindset that I have. However, the problem is, if I don't view things this way, my fire and motivation I have to pursue women is pretty much nonexistent. For physical pleasure I can just use my hand. If I want to t… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 01:58 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I don't think anyone can guarantee that it's not a numbers game. Trying to find the right "method" will just make you keep on switching from method to method when you inevitably don't have a 100% success rate. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 01:35 AM |
| 7 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I'm no player by any means, but I agree strongly with this. The times where I thought I must be fumbling this bad were the times when I actually got laid. When I thought I was being all smooth, I would get a number, and then she'd just not text back when I went to text. It got really frustrating to me to the point where I don't know how to get the desire to continue. I like something based on merit where it's like "if I do this, I succeed". Somehow women are like, if I act like a complete buffoo… | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 01:24 AM |
| 3 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?Honestly, I relate a lot to what OP says and I came to the same conclusion you gave about how they can sense the vibe of me being uncomfortable. I haven't approached in forever, but I got laid here and there when I did. It was mostly from dating apps, but just like OP I got lucky a time or two from cold approach. Changing my mindset on this feels impossible though. I really respect myself for the ability I developed to feel fear but act regardless, but it still seems like somehow I have to get t… | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 01:17 AM |
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