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| 1 | Work on yourself is useless adviceI would argue that 0.1% applies to everyone 6/10 and below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Work on yourself is useless adviceI've never wanted to be a bodybuilder or look good. I just like being stupid strong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Work on yourself is useless adviceYou should want to be really strong regardless of whether women like it. Honestly, being jacked isn't that much of an advantage in my opinion, so if that's the only reason you're doing it, I think you could be better of spending time elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:20 AM |
| 1 | If you remove or Ignore the "mens fault" and "woman are beutiful" whats left?I had some guy tell me how easy Tinder was and he was surprised how everyone was saying it was difficult and they get no matches. Then I met the girl he met from Tinder. All I can say is that it isn't who I would have picked. She was pretty big. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:13 AM |
| 1 | If you remove or Ignore the "mens fault" and "woman are beutiful" whats left?I think it's by design. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.You’re acting like a choice only counts if you get the final say. Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:59 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.Beggars can't be choosers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:56 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.There isn't really any such thing as bad sex for a man. I am fully stimulated if my penis is inside a vagina. There's not much more fancy stuff you can do to me beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:51 AM |
| – | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.I actually think this accounts for a lot of the "overweight" and "obesity" statistics. Do any of those account for bodyfat percentage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:47 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.You're confusing the cause and effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How Common is it For Male Relationship Partners to Misbehave So As to Cause Lasting Emotional HarmWell, just because they won the cheeseburgers doesn't mean they can't like you too. Sex is always going to make men feel accomplished and give them bragging rights so if you're traumatized by that, you probably shouldn't date men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about man/women ratio in the esexWell, if the OF is indeed detected, that has nothing to do with being an attractive woman then. Unless if you are implying that every attractive woman these days has onlyfans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching, myths and experiencesI think you meant trust them, but thrust them is a funny typo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Some men need to wake up and realise that being single and being lonely are not the same thingI think what isn't captured in this comment is that there should be a sense of urgency. A lot of times hyping things up to the point of being depressed about it is where one can draw the motivation to do what needs to be done. If you're just kinda meh about relationships, as a dude you aren't just going to randomly drop into one. You have to yearn for it so that you actually push the boundaries of your own comfort zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Some men need to wake up and realise that being single and being lonely are not the same thingI think your perspective is 100% correct. The trouble for me is that when I embrace this, I cut off my effort from pursuing a relationship entirely. Never have I ever been able to have such a lackadaisical attitude around having someone to sleep with, and been able to sleep with someone. It doesn't work that way for me. So, answer me this. If you're content without a woman, why would you do anything outside of your comfort zone to get one? If doing something out of your comfort zone is the only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.It's certainly possible for 59% of women to be SLEEPING with 15% of men. That just means that 15% of men is rather busy with multiple different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.This is a good way to describe why I thought this argument was wrong. I couldn't quite put it into words. Yeah, the desperate ones willing to do all sorts of degenerate stuff aren't even the ones getting some as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.It doesn't even have to be men debasing themselves for women to have overwhelming leverage. You overstate the amount of "debasing" going on. You guys exaggerate basic interaction between men and women as "debasing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"How do you think your kid feels about being considered "labor" and not a human being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isI'm just saying you don't want to be in the uncertainty stage of this scenario. Not fun. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"I agree that it's sad that stay at home motherhood is viewed this way, but I also think that I would really like just staying home and raising my kids more than sucking up to some boss that I hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:11 PM |
| – | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"It's also your kid though, and not the hired help's kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:09 PM |
| – | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isYou don't want to be in this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isThe thing about the perception that you somehow leveled up and don't want her anymore is that, you don't know for sure whether they want you, and maybe you're just gassing yourself up. You don't really know for sure whether anyone likes you until you try to cash in on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenMaybe not when you're in your prime and can get porked down left and right, but how about when you're 80 and no one cares about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:57 PM |
| 0 | It isn't fair to think autistic men have it worse than autistic women in dating or any part of lifeI don't think men experience this PTSD you speak of because they aren't socialized to take any sexual advance as a brutal assault. Most men would take ego boosts from being "sexually assaulted" and probably wouldn't even conceptualize it as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenWomen are obviously the drug dealer in the context of sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with womenSex between two people who actually want sex is an equal exchange. Getting men to pay for stuff only comes with the false promise of sex, so it is a scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:31 PM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.If you think men putting their foot down would change that much, you don't really understand the leverage involved. Women have all the leverage. At a certain point, women have the final say in all of these matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.You've got the cause and effect confused. Billy the cuck is willing to do all that because the women don't like him and he's got no other option. Him suddenly saying "ok now I want to date super models with 0 body count" is not going to change the fact that he's incapable of pulling that caliber of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.You don't really have the full context of anything you're talking about because you don't know about other people's sex lives. I also think you overestimate the effect that these things have on the dating market. It's mostly social media, which allows us to see the very best looking women and men, that makes us all want someone who's very good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:00 PM |
| – | Thirsty Men undercutting other Men that have principles, destroyed the value off Men, and we wont recover from this.You can't rely on the will of others to create any change. I actually think we already have a bunch of guys going their own way already and it doesn't change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why Low-Attachment FWB/Companionship Can Be Healthier Than Traditional RelationshipsThis is all good until you enter old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I think another reason I latched on to this is because at a certain point, I concluded that life is meaningless. There's no reason to do anything. We'll all die eventually. If I don't think "what if me dying is just what THEY want?" It's hard for me to be motivated to do anything. | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I guess maybe it's not even about their respect. It's about proving I can get my needs met without relying on "people's respect". It's about getting into a leveraged position where I can exact my revenge by living a much better life than these people who are so judgmental and full of disdain. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I'm not asexual though. It's not that I wouldn't enjoy the company of women if it came easy, but it doesn't. It's always work for me. I really doubt that everyone with a girlfriend is just some zen master that didn't take any pride in their ability to bag that woman. Part of me felt snubbed by all of womankind by that first girl, so I guess I just hold a chip on my shoulder for that. I wouldn't want to get to know another one just for them to ghost me for no reason. I really do want to invest em… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Found out we’re incompatible during the first date. I’m learning to stop simping.A better idea for how to add physical touch is getting her attention to the point she puts her phone down and then maybe find an excuse to grab her hands in the center of the table. Going to the other side after already establishing that you were sitting across from each other might have been awkward for her. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 02:55 AM |
| 6 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreDid you give examples on how to become more handsome and popular? That might be where the criticism comes from. It kinda feels like saying "just exist with hot women liking you". | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 02:34 AM |
| 3 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreHow do you deal with that voice that says "now they don't deserve this new and improved me because they didn't like me before"? It's really bad. Like, I can only motivate myself to pursue women out of this desire to prove to myself and other dudes that I can do it. Otherwise, I don't find anything pleasant about being "an improved" version of myself that someone else gets to cash in on. I don't really want to think this way, but it's like I can't help it. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I appreciate that I was able to hash out this mindset with you. The thing is, I totally agree with what you said. I can even somewhat find the better mindset you're talking about when I'm on my own by myself. When I really think about it, I can even empathize with women not liking this mindset that I have. However, the problem is, if I don't view things this way, my fire and motivation I have to pursue women is pretty much nonexistent. For physical pleasure I can just use my hand. If I want to t… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 01:58 AM |
| 1 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I don't think anyone can guarantee that it's not a numbers game. Trying to find the right "method" will just make you keep on switching from method to method when you inevitably don't have a 100% success rate. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 01:35 AM |
| 7 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?I'm no player by any means, but I agree strongly with this. The times where I thought I must be fumbling this bad were the times when I actually got laid. When I thought I was being all smooth, I would get a number, and then she'd just not text back when I went to text. It got really frustrating to me to the point where I don't know how to get the desire to continue. I like something based on merit where it's like "if I do this, I succeed". Somehow women are like, if I act like a complete buffoo… | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 01:24 AM |
| 3 | So, I got my first lay from cold approach. What am I supposed to do next?Honestly, I relate a lot to what OP says and I came to the same conclusion you gave about how they can sense the vibe of me being uncomfortable. I haven't approached in forever, but I got laid here and there when I did. It was mostly from dating apps, but just like OP I got lucky a time or two from cold approach. Changing my mindset on this feels impossible though. I really respect myself for the ability I developed to feel fear but act regardless, but it still seems like somehow I have to get t… | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 01:17 AM |
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