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Yea and It’s actually something I’ve thought about before committing to make sure I wasn’t bullshitting myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/22 02:16 AM
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I’m continuing to remind myself that my validation is internal and not tied to sex. Being aware of when I am initiating sex for validation and stopping. Also quit consuming weed as I felt it was hindering my progress. I haven’t had too much of the negative results of having an overly anxious girl, but that last incident was a little surprising. However, I do think she’s suppressing it so she doesn’t scare me off. Overall Im happy with how things are going, but it’s something I’ll monitor.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/22 01:51 PM
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OYS #28 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 172lbs, BF% 13%. Committed monogamous Goal and Mission: Be happy, have the freedom to do what I want when I want. I took a break from OYS and MRP, I felt I was posting the same shit without getting anywhere and got called out for it. During those two months, I went on a month long trip overseas to see some family. I had surgery for a deviated septum and got my nose straightened out. Took a long break from working, and my business is slowly bleeding out due …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/22 10:14 PM
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OYS #27 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 172lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG, Unplugged Alpha Lifts: DL 265lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 185x6. Gym 5/7. Goal and Mission: Be happy, have the freedom to do what I want when I want. Personal/Mindset/Relationships: After going through some of HSP posts on TRP, per Rpeeds suggestions, I came across https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 09:21 AM
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OYS #27 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 172lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG, Unplugged Alpha Lifts: DL 265lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 185x6. Gym 5/7. Goal and Mission: Be happy, have the freedom to do what I want when I want. Personal/Mindset/Relationships: After going through some of HSP posts on TRP, per Rpeeds suggestions, I came across https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 04:09 AM
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Great advice thanks IZ. I will take a look at man in the world's posts. It's tough when feelings are involved. I don't do stupid shit because of them but sometimes I feel like I have far too many feels. I now understand that it's impossible to say that there won't be any feelings. It's about not acting on them in a stupid, unattractive way rather than completely burying them. I don't want to be hurt again but that's also not based in reality. Atleast with RP I'll be able to manage risk better an…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/22 11:20 PM
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It's fake/an act because for example, I want to text/call her but I intentionally don't because I'm afraid of coming off as needy or beta. So I'm not acting congruent. I'm afraid of my emotions and feels. I don't allow myself to do what I act or act how I want because I don't want to come across as needy/beta. This makes me entirely in the other person's frame. And i just realized that my not give a fuck attitude is because i give too many fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/22 10:39 PM
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Fuck Blarg, this is amazingly helpful, thank you. The above quote being a covert contract, dancing monkey, and inauthentic. Can you clarify this? The fact that I'm choosing not to be funny/joke around because I think it would make me look weak and beta is me operating in the other person's frame? I can see that. Its also the very second you can reprioritize the rest of your day even if she gives a no. Even if she's still there. You arent obligated to entertain her for the rest of the night if sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 05:04 PM
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Thanks for the comments RPeed. These are all really great suggestions and Ill do my homework. My head does feel messed up at times and I'm struggling with fundamental RP mental models still, madonna/whore, oneitis, validation, it comes and it goes. Some days i think I'm completely past it and can fully accept women for who they are, then out of no where i find myself hamstering, filled with anxiety and anger. During these times I want to act in a way where it will calm my feelings down but at le…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 04:22 PM
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OYS #26 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 170lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG, Unplugged Alpha Lifts: DL 265lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 185x6. Gym 5/7 Goal and Mission: Be happy, have the freedom to do what I want when I want. Personal/Mindset/Relationships: Been gone for three weeks traveling, moving, and catching covid, but have been continuing to work on my mindset and RP jo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 06:22 PM
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lmao
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 02:58 AM
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Goal has always been to be more attractive and less unattractive. Being attractive makes me happy. I do it in hopes that I will get more sex from various women and be able to successfully manage an LTR when that time comes. I know that being attractive might not get this specific bitch to like me or any specific bitch but I know that there are other bitches out there who will be into me and want to be with me. I want to increase my baseline alpha because I believe that is the most beneficial for…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 10:44 PM
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Yea good reminder. Can't be butthurt if they fuck other dudes if you're the one who said they could and don't want commitment.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 07:40 PM
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Got it. Yea this covert contract is done. I'm going to be more direct and overt about my wants while continuing to focus on myself and my goals. If she wants to come aboard cool if not then thats cool too, but I'm going to live a happy life and get what I want from a relationship or plates whether its with her or someone else. If you told her your didn't want exclusivity why did she think that what you wanted was for her to be blowing tyrone? Did you tell her specifically that you want to her to…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 07:17 PM
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Hypergamy is monogamy as Whisper taught us. This makes sense now. Yea, i was actin in fear, like a lil bitch, and with covert contracts. Typing this out here helped me see the covert contracts and how I was acting. Thanks for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 06:48 PM
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Thanks IZ. If you're top tier and clear about what you want (this may be the snag and something for you to figure out and then communicate) she'll provide the rest if invested. This is key. I told her that i don't want to commit and that things are too soon, so she gave me what I wanted. Now I want to commit but have been expressing this covertly and it's caused her to back away a little. This covert contract had me being more careful about what I said and acted. That's what covert contract do. …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 06:23 PM
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Yea that’s what I meant hahaha
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 05:25 PM
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I always appreciate your reports aussie. As someone also spinning plates and dating, it's nice to see your notes on how you're managing your relationships, your internal frame and mental models.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 05:01 PM
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Appreciate the comments Blarg. ​ So you gotta ask yourself again: What do I want? Do I want to slay heaps of pussy with minimal commitment? Alpha. Do I want to actually be who I am? Less alpha. I still have some unattractive behaviors that I'm working through. The goal is to be more attractive and less unattractive. Initially i was just wanting to spin plates and fuck with minimal commitment. Over the course of 3 months and many dates, this plate has shown me that she is worthy of commitment and…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 04:53 PM
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This is great, thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 06:51 AM
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OYS #25 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 172lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG, Unplugged Alpha Lifts: DL 315lb x5, Squat 250x8, Bench 185x6. DB Press 70lb x 10. Went to the gym 5/7 days. Goal and Mission: Be happy, have the freedom to do what I want when I want. Business/Finances: Back on the ball here. Business is good and going well. Exploring other side hustles/investments …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 06:39 AM
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You’re totally right and I am and was completely aware of all of this. Like how can I tell a bitch to be monogamous and not talk to other men when I’m fucking other bitches and talking to them. All of this she knows. You’re right, I do like this woman more than the other ones I had previously. I had a talk with her when we grabbed drinks and told her what I didn’t like. I understand I’m still talking and fucking other bitches. Will a women ever stay monogamous and not talk to other men yet while…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/22 08:41 PM
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I think a part of it is I feel like I would be cashing in prematurely as I’m only 28. Another part is I also want to have a clearer picture of my mission and goals before committing to a monogamous ltr. Spinning plates have been a lot of work. Week after week of seeing multiple women and going on dates I felt myself burning out. But then the flip side is if a bitch is providing meaningful and consistent value then there’s nothing more I would want. But for a bitch to provide value that’s a force…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/22 08:33 PM
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At this moment most likely 2 plates with one back up, and eventually a monogamous LTR. Thanks for the check. I read the thread between you and some of the other guys from last week which provided me with some good perspectives
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/22 05:30 PM
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I felt angry but was controlled. I was aware of it and was open about it when asked. I just got silent while I thought about how to handle it and what I wanted to do. I mean I cancelled reservations a couple hours before and packed my bag and left. I told her I was annoyed about it at the time, which I was. When we grabbed drinks last night I told her “I don’t see women who dm other guys” and her reaction to that was almost a giddiness bc now I made the boundary clear and she has direction
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/22 01:09 AM
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OYS #24 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 169lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG, Unplugged Alpha Lifts: DL 265lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 155x10. Consistent, pushing hard at the gym lately and loving the feeling of being sore again. Goal and Mission: I read unplugged alpha and found the parts on happiness and the mission very eye opening. I need to go back to actually do the exer…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 11:26 PM
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OYS #24 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 169lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG, Unplugged Alpha Lifts: DL 265lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 155x10. Consistent, pushing hard at the gym lately and loving the feeling of being sore again. Goal and Mission: I read unplugged alpha and found the parts on happiness and the mission very eye opening. I need to go back to actually do the exer…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 11:17 PM
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Absolutely and noted. I’ll give this a try on my next OYS. Thanks impatient
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/22 08:42 PM
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Just basic things like awalt, hypergamy and game. I don’t forget them, honestly I don’t think I can ever forget them. Reminding myself of it helps me stay grounded in a way when it comes to spinning plates
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/22 06:40 AM
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Now I need to take the time to figure out what I want. I’m reading the part of unchained man right now where he talks about this and it’s been pretty helpful
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/22 06:31 AM
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What I mean is I need to consciously remind myself of certain mental models or rp theories. What I want with my relationships or in life? Like a mission?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/22 03:33 AM
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Most are using me too, i provide them with fun, escape and they like the attention of a high value man. A couple of them try to add value, (i.e., cooking, doing laundry, cleaning my place, massages) Do you think you’re the prize if you’re worried about the “caliber” of women? I knew i was going to get called for this, by caliber I just meant hot and good looking. Thanks for the reminder and reframe. I don't know if any women can help my life in those meaningful ways. There are women however that…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 09:10 PM
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OYS #23 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 169lbs, BF% 13%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG. Lifts: DL 265lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 155x10. Consistent and continuing to make good progress. Goal and Mission: I don’t know what my mission is right now but my goal is to be a man who is self actualized, disciplined, and is not afraid to pursue. Business/Finances: I’ve been putting some stuff I …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 08:13 PM
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So you’re a weak, fat fuck with no job. Your entire OYS is about what you’re going to do. How about actually doing something
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 05:19 PM
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Weekly, I still go on dates with new women at least once a week. And my main plate knows im fucking multiple women other than her bc I told her and still sticks around and I haven’t really received any grief about it. I have a very natural beta game which I think works in my favor in this case. I get very overt investment signals from her. So far I haven’t received any ultimatums. It’s either she’s fucking other dudes or it’s the women would rather share an alpha rather than settle for a beta th…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 07:07 AM
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For context I have three consistent plates right now. My main plate is a little better looking than the other two and I get along with her the best. I also feel like she has the right feminine energy for me so it’s easy to get sucked in, like you said. But those are the reasons why I made her my “main” plate. And all that means is I give her more of my time than the other plates. I find I constantly have to remind myself of AWALT. It’s like weights on a free diver and with her it feels like the …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/22 08:30 PM
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This called out some bullshit in me. Thanks for the check
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/22 06:02 AM
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What are your stats?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/22 07:56 PM
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I do still suffer from trying to get validation but these days I can spot that pretty quickly. I wanted to get out of town and invited her along because I thought she would add to the experience and she did and I had a great time.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/22 06:35 AM
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I see. Either way it doesn’t matter just curious to hear if the collar meant something deeper than the obvious or had some sort of spell that was broken when it came off or some shit haha. I don’t know much about the life except from what you’ve shared and don’t know if I would ever want to live that lifestyle, but it’s interesting to hear about from you and follow your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:19 PM
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Few months ago the permanent Collar accidently came unlocked when daughter was brushing wife’s hair. Three hours later and I had a feral bitch on my hands. Why would she turn into a feral bitch with the collar accidently coming off? Can't you just put it back on?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 10:18 PM
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I see what you mean. Maybe i'll create a separate category for women. The wellbeing isn't attributed to getting my dick wet, it's more from coming to the realization and acceptance of who I am and calibrating the tools and models here at RP to best serve me and my goals. I never really struggled from getting my dick wet, however, I struggled with the BP conditioning and oneitis. My t levels were around the 400 range. I didn't hop on TRT to juice and gain muscle, although it makes it easier. I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 10:01 PM
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OYS #22 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 169lbs, BF% 14%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP, Day Bang, SMG. Lifts: DL 250lb x10, Squat 225x8, Bench 155x10. I’ve been making steady progress on my lifts and weight gain but I went from 10.2% bf to 14% bf in 2 months and my skeletal muscle mass is down. Not what I want happening. Since starting TRT a couple weeks ago I gained about 8 pounds. I think the bf an…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 08:19 PM
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Point taken. Had to read this a few times and mull it over but this provided me with some really great insight and understanding. I feel like I can being to stop thinking in "RP" I think you are letting the aspect of your life that encompasses the pursuit of pussy be your guiding star, which in turn is why it feels like everything you do is couched "RP principles" This is exactly it. I'm always thinking about pussy and getting pussy. I still get validation from fucking. You can read on here from…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 11:26 PM
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Excellent stuff on the plate spinning! Great reminder that they just want their emotions stoked. I've found that removing time/attention has been an excellent way to achieve this. So I rarely text my girls unless it's for logistics. You say you would like a girlfriend but remember they should be the ones asking you what we are.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 03:08 AM
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OYS #21 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 167lbs, BF% 11.3%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), HTWFAIP, Day Bang (50%), SMG (20%). Lifts: DL 250lb x10, Squat 205x10, Bench 155x10. Making steady progress on lifts and gaining mass. Goal and Mission: My mission is to always be better, and build something greater than myself that will last after I'm gone. Be a man who is self actualized, disciplined, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 02:58 AM
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Work out fasted in the mornings and try intermittent fasting. I very casually lost 35 pounds in three months doing these things. However, i was working out every day, but wasn't counting calories, weighing food and eating whatever the fuck i wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 02:21 AM
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I don’t care. His whole paragraph on respect and entitlement is retarded. Its “this is how an alpha is and how a wife of a alpha acts” it’s retarded and lacks mental point of origin
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 06:18 PM
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Man u hit me with a fog then a broken record but ended up DEERing, you stupid motherfucker. Were you just pushing buttons and doing what was “right” or “alpha” without any congruence?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 01:35 AM
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I wouldn’t take lifting advice from a fat fuck. Your first paragraph on respect and entitlement. I’m an AlphaLion, respect, alpha this alpha that, blah blah blah. Lol dude seriously?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 12:39 AM
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Goddamn you’re fucking retarded. Shut your fucking mouth. Quit fucking talking you stupid motherfucker. You’re in no position to be asking for anything and you have a glaring covert contract. Also cuddles aren’t free, pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 12:10 AM
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How often do you watch porn and jerk off? Have you had your hormones tested?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 12:03 AM
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How long have you been here? How many OYS's have you posted? This whole thing reads to me like a checklist. I pushed red pill buttons and got results.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/22 11:19 PM
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OYS #20 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 163lbs, BF% 10.3%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (80%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), HTWFAIP, Day Bang (50%), SMG (20%). Lifts: OHP 95lbx10, BP 160x10, Squat 185x10, BOR 135x10, DL 250x10. Had a session with a really great trainer at the gym. Did some body scans to measure BF%, fat free muscle, etc, discussed nutrition, and goals. Weight is slowly going up. Form is looking solid and made s…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/22 10:54 PM
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Play retarded games, win retarded prizes
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/22 09:47 PM
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The recent petty argument/conversation started because she wanted to clean my desk while I was working, and I said no thanks. She tried to insist, and I said no again. That's it. Why did you say no? She notices that you're making a change to be attractive and she doesn't like that. Keep your head now, shut the fuck up and keep trodding forward. After a couple days of the silent treatment, it sounds like your wife wanted to provide value. Her thought was probably, hey my man is doing shit to be a…
/r/askMRP11/02/22 08:55 PM
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Not a lawyer but I would assume not. From reading advice here on divorce you want to show as little assets and as much liabilities as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/22 08:30 AM
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Of course, fully intend to have a nice flow. I fucked her again last night. I'll keep her as a plate now and find two more. From there I'll calibrate
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 06:44 AM
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My initial thoughts were that my plate was trying to monkey branch (the guy recently got a new very high paying/status job). This matters to you. Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 06:38 AM
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Lift or work. I’ve been channeling my emotions into my work the past couple months and lifting. Your feelings have to go somewhere. I just reread your OYS and the most actionable advice I can give is you need to sleep. Doesn’t matter if everything is going fucking great in your life, if you’re not getting 7+ hours of sleep your emotions and hormones are going to be fucked. Matthew Walker is a neuroscientist at Stanford/Harvard or some shit and is doing a lot of work on sleep studies. Check him o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 05:08 AM
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Letting go is the first step. Your feelings are going to fucking suck. It did for me a lot and it still does sometimes. Although I’m hyper aware of my feelings and emotions I don’t let it drive my actions and decisions. Once you start seeing results from decisions, actions, thoughts in the right direction, your feelings and emotions become less shitty. Everyone has their own journey, focusing and comparing with other people doesn’t do you any good. Don’t do anything that doesn’t do you any good …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 07:21 PM
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I’d rather be the Shang to your chi
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 04:58 AM
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Did you just read steels post on how you’re not shit and decided to sprinkle some of your frou frou faggot dust and repost it? The contradictions in your post is hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 04:33 AM
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Let go of the self induced pressure man, that shit isn’t helping. I know it’s easier said than done but it sounds like you’re putting in the work. You’re reading, posting on OYS, lifting, etc. Continue to read and listen to the advice here and your mind will slowly change. Learn which mental models are healthy and you need to adopt and filter every action, decision and thought through the new mental model. After some time you will adopt the new mental models. The biggest one for me was rational …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 04:18 AM
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What the fuck is this?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 03:57 AM
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I was checking the messages on the app from other bitches
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 01:03 AM
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OYS #19 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 161lbs, BF% 11.5%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG x2, TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), HTWFAIP, Day Bang (50%), SMG (20%). Lifts: OHP 105 x 5, BP 160x10, Squat 185x10, BOR 135x5, DL 200x8. Back in the gym again after a week and a half off hiatus. Feeling fucking good lifting again. Chatted up one of the trainers today and have an assessment scheduled. Started greyskull's program per impatien…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:16 PM
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I’ve heard of the Eisenhower matrix before and it’s something I’ve intuitively been doing here and there but it might be a good idea to filter everything through that matrix. I know what my goal is for the year so knowing that and running the to-dos through the matrix might help accelerate and free up some bandwidth. It gets complicated though when the goal is scale to x but without the adequate pieces and system in place to sustain x it would be inefficient. Margin are really great but leverage…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/22 05:25 AM
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OYS #18 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 158lbs, BF% 11.5%. Dating Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), HTWFAIP, Day Bang (50%) Lifts: DB Press 70lb x 5, OHP 105 x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 245x1, BOR 135 x 5, DL 295x1. Consistent. Had a consult for TRT and they wanted to put me on clomid. After researching it I said fuck that and am looking for another clinic that can get me T and HCG instead. …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/22 11:17 PM
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My ego would describe this variously as introverted, strong and silent, mysterious, etc. I’m just afraid. I don't know what I'm afraid of or afraid about. But I have a very hard time letting people in and being honest. Turning a vice into a virtue. Because you're still a nice guy. If i hide the bad, people will accept me and love me and i will have a problem free life.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/22 04:25 AM
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OYS #17 - Another nuke Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 162lbs, BF% 11.5%. Single Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), HTWFAIP, Fucc Files (40%), Day Bang (40%) Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, OHP 105 x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 245x1, BOR 135 x 5, DL 295x1. Consistent. Goal and Mission: Be self actualized. A man who knows what he truly wants and goes after it. Become free. Work/Career/Finances: Las…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/22 04:07 AM
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I appreciate the break down on your OLD process. I had a coffee date this afternoon. Tried to escalate and pull after an hour and thirty. She agreed to drinks back at my place but gave me some LMR on the drive back and ended up just dropping me off. after an hour and a half of rapport, push pull and kino me "You want to grab a drink?" her "sure!" me "You just want to grab a drink at my place? I have a patio we can hang out on" her "Uhm i guess so.... but i might have to meet my friend soon" me "…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/22 02:09 AM
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alphawolf69RP420
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 04:17 AM
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Thanks for noticing my existence
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 10:39 PM
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The main reason why I’ve decided to adjust my OLD game to more texty was bc I’m so busy that I would have to schedule dates two weeks in advance, and messaging a little more is allowing me to buy some time. I’ve also realized that my logistics and OLD game was nonexistent. I would get dates “scheduled” first msg, get the number, but I would have to schedule for two weeks out. I wouldn’t send anything for the next two weeks, until the day before and would have the women flake. I’m a horrible text…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 10:37 PM
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You’re right, I want to start doing more day game/night game. I’ve been trying to find people to go out with and have been using the lack of a social circle as an excuse to not night game. I’ve been using the fact that I haven’t finished day bang as an excuse to not day game. Also using my work as an excuse. I’ve been larping in this area. Thanks for calling me out on it
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 05:27 AM
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In my case it’s highly unlikely or extremely difficult. You need people to point that shit for you. That’s why even kings and queens had their advisors, dukes, bishops, consultants etc
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 10:31 PM
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Reading through the first 1/3 of this I was wondering if our comment thread had anything to do with this post, then i found that you linked it at the bottom. You broke down something that I've struggled with my entire life. I think everyone here knows I have a big fat fucking ego and it's something I'm working on but it still blinds me, which is why i post and engage here when I can. My stubbornness and fat pride doesn't help. I've tried using the simple models of "you ain't shit" and "you don't…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 08:06 PM
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OYS #16 Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 162lbs, BF% 11.5%. Single Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), HTWFAIP, Fucc Files (40%), Day Bang (40%) Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, OHP 105 x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 245x1, BOR 135 x 5, DL 295x1 Goal is to get to 170lb, 13%. I have stripped my identity from the gym. I no longer feel the obligation to go every single day. I took the "health is a lifesty…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 05:57 PM
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Your 'identity" has landed you here. You have to be willing to nuke your marriage and lose your wife. As long as you're afraid of that you will be easily manipulated and in your wife's frame. I read this and all i smell is I'm too lazy to put the work in. Or maybe the pain from being bp isn't bad enough to where you don't even question taking action and doing the work like it was for me
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 10:19 PM
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This is true, internalizing only comes from reading and learning the concepts coupled with consistent actions that are aligned with the tools and what you've read.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 10:03 PM
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Rambo doesn't need to imply that you're in a thoughtless action loop. I would venture to say that 99% of the men here Rambo to a degree when starting out. It's almost a necessary step and I would even go as far as to say the right step when starting out to a certain degree. You have to take action then observe and orient. You have to go and smash all the red pill buttons to see how you can map it your individual case. Report here and have guys help you orient. If you don't go out and take action…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 09:59 PM
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I don't want to; and she doesn't fit my mission. I stayed with relatives over the holidays and got a lot of well meaning inquiry about my state of mind, and my reasons for leaving. I tried to answer the questions, since I care about the people asking them, and don't want to give a dismissive "because I want to" answer. I found that whenever I started to drift away from the simple answers, and I started to question this myself, I began looking for ways to justify myself. And yet, I only feel that…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 09:50 PM
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It could be fun or it could be anxiety ridden and terrifying depending on the person. Regardless of the outcome of the interaction I still learned something. I got a rep in and I’m a better man for it. I could end up making a new friend, fucking the girl or be told to fuck off, regardless I’m better for it and I’m doing it for me
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 04:09 AM
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I was decently social premrp, but never did it for ME. Same actions but from different mental models. I've noticed that socializing with strangers from my own mental point of origin actually makes me more social because it's about me now. I want to get better. It's building MY social skills. It will make ME better
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/22 08:21 PM
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Covert contract? If I become an MRP man life will become easier? It won't. The work doesn't stop, the problems don't stop, you just learn better tools to handle shit accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/22 08:15 PM
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And I think that may ring somewhat true here. Is stonewalling yourself by only allowing self inquiry to go as shallow as "because I want to" some form of protection because you feel confident that the decision that what you have isnt worth staying for, but the decision that you need to explore to figure out what you do want feels inadequate? That's a lot of mental masturbation. I would refer back to WISNIFG and the bill of assertive rights.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/22 08:06 PM
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OYS #15 - Burn it down, build it up Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 162lbs, BF% 11.5%. Single Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP. Reading financial books these days and always rereading the sidebar. Fucc Files (20%), Day Bang (40%) Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, OHP 105 x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 245x1, BOR 135 x 5, DL 295x1 Goal is to get …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 06:00 AM
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Yea I skipped squats in my workout yesterday. I might do it depending on how my lower back and hips feel tomorrow. An injury is the last thing I want
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 11:20 PM
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OYS #14 - Your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 161lbs, BF% 11.5%. Single Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP. Reading financial books these days and always rereading the sidebar. Fucc Files (20%), Day Bang (40%) Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, OHP 95 x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 245x1, BO…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 09:35 PM
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A relationship is a woman’s responsibility. As a high value man your attention, affection and commitment are your rewards only to be given to someone who is “worthy”. You have oneitis. You are pedestalizing this woman. There is no such thing as the one. “Raised in a strict family, said she never did a one night stand” You’re ego invested in a narcissistic fantasy. Read the books and sidebar.
/r/askMRP27/12/21 02:19 PM
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So when a man sacrifices for a woman and puts her first, it's normal. Both to her and to him. It earns him no points in her mind, and feels right and normal to him. Which is why men are so easily manipulated. Our ego is involved and women inherently know this. Makes sense why they manipulate with emotions. But you're right, we can't blame them for being them. Shit tests is interchangeable with fitness test, and we like for women to test us. It makes us stronger and builds us up. We should welcom…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/21 06:11 AM
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Not past tense, failed. You fail and are failing. Stfu, read, lift
/r/askMRP24/12/21 05:30 AM
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I should’ve been more specific in my post. I felt the need to down play it more to my friends once I couldn’t hide it from them bc I didn’t want them to feel bad I was doing shit with my life while they go out and party in their free times. We all have the same 24 hours in a day. But I shouldn’t feel bad for their emotions or their insecurities.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/21 05:24 AM
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Yea exactly. I’m aware I’ve got a lot of fucked up nice guy mental models. Getting my philosophy house in order and working through reframing it. Thx. I appreciate the questions, I’ve read it a few times and it’s something I’m thinking over. I might take the taking care of my parents out of my mission. It’s not necessarily a need it’s more something that I would like to do. I don’t frame my decisions or actions around it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/21 03:19 AM
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I forgot about this post, thanks for the link. It’s exactly how I feel about it. After I closed the first two deals it came to a point where I could no longer hide it from my friends and they were all so shocked. I played it off thinking about 48lp, Make your results and wins seem effortless. They just saw the results and had no idea I was planning this for years and working tirelessly on it for a month
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/21 03:17 AM
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OYS #13 - There's no honor in suffering Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 161lbs, BF% 11.5%. Spinning plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP. Reading financial books these days and always rereading the sidebar. Fucc Files (20%), Day Bang (40%) Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, OHP 95 x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 245x1, BOR 135 x 5, DL 295x1 Goa…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/21 06:43 AM
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I read a personal journal entry earlier today , it was something that I had written earlier this year, pre mrp, it was about giving from a place of no expectations. You get what you give ten folds. Not to sound too new age frou frou but I believe the universe works this way. You give value and as a result, receive. Problem is that most folks give with a covert contract or give from a place of fear and scarcity. I think the goal here for most men is to ultimately become a self actualized man and …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/21 06:06 AM
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I don’t know if awareness is the right word to identify potential. I see it more as a sixth sense. Just a knowing that there is something better or potential. Doesn’t have to manifest from the cortex, our spinal cord is a part of the brain but it’s also connected to our eyes, ears, nerves so any stimulation automatically sends messages and gets processed subconsciously. Like when you run, it’s impossible for your brain to produce the chemical that makes you anxious. Your eyes or brain seeing pas…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/21 05:44 AM
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You don't become free by holding on to anger. You don't become free without valuing yourself, loving yourself, and liking yourself first. And you can't know what you truly want and go after it if you don't truly, deeply, and confidently love and like and value the person that you are, and the raw potential that you have inside of you. So you need to ask yourself: are your current thoughts and feelings helping you get closer to realizing your vision, or are they driving you further from it? Your …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 11:08 PM
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It’s a shit mental model but it also makes me focus too much on the outcome which can make my frame crumble easily. By that I mean, I start to benchmark these women against a list of “ideal”values aka “the fantasy”. And it can easily make me compromise and revert back to “nice guy” tendencies. I realized that I need to just focus on the present, have fun and be open to the endless possibilities.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 05:37 PM
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This really resonated with me to. The “I pride myself on being low maintenance and can do everything on my own” mindset. Also the internal dialogue you have “come on do this, don’t be such a x” is something I tell myself multiple times a day. And it all stems from my experiences during my formative years as well. Your post and realizations have given me a lot of think about in my own life, damn. I want to add for Nice Guys our survival mechanisms deny us from getting our needs met in healthy way…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 04:51 PM
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Deep down I believe I do, but right now it's hard to like myself. I haven't really thought about it. I've been so pissed off and hateful towards myself. Lifting heavy isn't helping, but maybe i need to lift heavier. I should look into joining an MMA gym
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 07:19 AM
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Yea Rollo talks about it and he bases it off the five stages of grief by Kubler Ross. Yea i've been going through it for past three months in various degrees.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 07:18 AM
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This is actually great perspective, thank you. It reminds me of a book i read a while back called art of possibilities and it's actually a great book for helping cultivate an idea of abundance through how we frame things. I know this subreddit is big on having an abundance mindset. It might be worthwhile to revisit that book again. I realize i've been intentionally stepping on my own dick. I think I just need to get out of my own head. I need to go back to enjoying the game and the process and b…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 07:15 AM
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Definitely still a bit of anger there and it’s at myself I know if I’m angry at women I’m projecting. I am sad that women are not what I thought they should be. It’s made me close myself off a lot. It’s made me afraid to show emotion and be vulnerable. Thanks for that clarification.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 12:07 AM
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I couldn’t care less about where the date goes or how they view me. I seriously have no fucks left to give anymore. What I’m trying to say is that these dates feel pointless because women are women, so why date or even try unless you’re just trying to fuck? And I’ve fucked plenty of women and have no interests in just fucking, it gets boring quick and it’s the same routine, I like to go deep with one woman. Maybe I just need to allow myself to be more vulnerable. Previously I think I may have at…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 12:05 AM
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This is great advice. The last two dates I found myself “looking” for red flags and comparing them to a list of values. I noticed this after my last date. My thinking is that, since in reality this tradcon fantasy is fake, why even bother dating or trying with women other than to fuck? Or since women aren’t what I thought they were or how I thought they should be, why date or game unless you’re trying to get your dick wet. I’m trying to find value in what women can offer, and struggling
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 11:56 PM
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OYS #12 - Loneliness, Hope, and Meaning Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 158lbs, BF% 11%. Spinning plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP. Reading financial books these days and always rereading the sidebar. Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, BP 180x3, Squat 225x3, BOR 135 x 8. Goal is to get to 170lb, 11%. Switched up my plan this week…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 08:26 PM
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What I’m saying is your head is so far up your wife’s ass that if she so much as chooses to cough you will start dancing. Let me dumb it down for you. Women manipulate with their emotions and in your case maybe your children. You clearly are bothered by her emotions, you try not to show it and be stoic but she senses that you are bothered which in turn bothers her. Go lift, do your own shit, get out of your wife’s frame.
/r/askMRP13/12/21 09:51 PM
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Why are you trying to “regulate” your wife’s emotions? Shes going to feel what and how she feels. It sounds like you’re scared of her emotions and are walking on egg shells.
/r/askMRP13/12/21 06:04 PM
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You should follow your wife and join the navy and once you become manly enough maybe she’ll let you get on your knees and spit shine her shoes
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 09:52 PM
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OYS #11 - Sadness and acceptance Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 160lbs, BF% 11.5%. Spinning plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, BP 175x3, Squat 225x3, DL 200x5. Goal is to get to 170lb, 11%. I either worked out or lifted every day this week. I have been on my PHAT program for about 6 weeks now and…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 08:06 PM
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Listen I know exactly what you’re doing here. You’re posting this garbage hoping to be validated for your shitty behaviors. Bullying other people to bring them down just to make yourself “appear high status” does not make you high status. You want testosterone from being high status? Go do actual high status shit and become high status. Go lift, go make 6 figures, be financially free, dress nicely, groom, eat well, work on your social skills and game. In other words do the actual fucking work. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 07:47 AM
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This type of behavior would work to an extent. I agree. But what you’re doing is you’re putting the people around you down and “emasculating” them to make yourself seem higher value. When in reality you’re not high value at all, you’re an asshole with an inflated ego. No inner game and eventually your fragile little ego will be exposed. This is a garbage post and I hope people don’t take this literally.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 06:55 AM
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Hey Rian, I've seen most of your videos man. It's actually your earlier videos from two years back where you cook and break down different posts that have helped me the most. I'm eagerly waiting for you to complete your second book, hope it's coming along well.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 04:28 PM
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Yea it's great for cathartic relief and if you're just new to the space it's a great way to smack some sense into you but after a certain point the shit just becomes toxic. It's enlightening but the real work doesn't happen there.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 04:23 PM
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Thanks for this breakdown. It makes a lot of sense. I need to let this anger go and it starts with forgiving myself. That red pill is a bitter bitch. I did some reflecting after yours and u/muzzy_W0e replies and noticed that the past three months have been a long grieving process of swallowing the red pill and accepting it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 04:20 PM
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Thanks for this dude. This triggered something in me as soon as I read it and the floodgates busted open.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 02:46 AM
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I don't know, it depends who's asking. I see what you're saying and it could be true. You're right in that I think a lot of my identity was outsourced to the women in my life. To go a step further i think it's because I was ego invested in the trad con fantasy of marriage and kids and had no confidence. You're saying I could be angry at women because I see the past me in them. The one that has derived so much of my identity from them and the relationship, and I hate that version of me because it…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 07:26 PM
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OYS #10 - Killing the oneitis and gaining confidence Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 160lbs, BF% 11.5%. Spinning plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, Robert Kiyosaki 1 and 2 Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, BP 175x3, Squat 225x3, DL 200x5. Goal is to get to 170lb, 11%. I worked out every day this week. I don't miss when it comes t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 06:44 PM
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Big facts. I think I know where it’s stemming from. It’s a combination of social conditioning and my fear of abandonment but mostly the latter since I’m aware of the gynocentric world we’re in and it’s agenda. I’ll save you the details but long story short I moved around a lot as a child. Went to three different elementary schools, two middle schools, and two different high schools. I was constantly losing friends and forced to make new friends. I believe growing up in such an environment has cr…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 08:10 PM
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True, it’s something to be aware of but not invest in
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 03:18 PM
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Discipline is why I’ve lasted and will last here. I get that, it’s more like nos on a Ferrari and I’m enjoying the extra boost
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 05:13 AM
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OYS #9 - Still Unfucking Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 160lbs, BF% 11.5%. Spinning plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, Robert Kiyosaki 1 and 2 Fitness: DB Press 70lb x 5, BP 175x3, Squat 225x3, DL 200x3. Goal is to get to 170lb, 11%. Slowly increasing weight. I feel like i might be plateauing, I don't feel as sore after my…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 01:34 AM
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I’m in
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 05:34 PM
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OYS #8 - More plates Stats: Late 20s, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 161lbs, BF% 11.5%. Plates Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG x2, WISNIFG (currently re reading), TRM x2, Pook x2, MAP (70%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, Robert Kiyosaki 1 and 2 Fitness: DB Press 65lb x 5, BP 175x3, Squat 225x3, DL 200x3. Goal is to get to 170lb, 11%. I completed marathon couple weeks ago. It was tough but I was able to get into a meditative state when …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/21 05:04 AM
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I’m trying to man. I really do want to fix my shit. I know I’m not owed shit and I have accepted that. I think I’m trying to find reasons to stay in this relationship when deep down I don’t want to anymore, for some reason I can’t explain.. I then think about what’s wrong with this relationship? And I can’t think of any good reasons why I should end it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 09:02 PM
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I did cancel my plans with her for the weekend. I didn't say because you don't respect me enough to tell me if you're going out with your friends I'm going to pull my time and commitment. I just simply said "this weekend is cancelled". In hindsight i shouldve continued to STFU and not call her out on it and cancel the weekend. At the time I couldn't think of a way to pull my time without appearing like I was butthurt
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 08:03 PM
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I don’t need someone who respects me, it’s either they do or they don’t. Whether it’s a plate, a wife, an LTR, or a buddy, doesn’t matter, I don’t need for anyone to respect me. I’ll just adjust time and commitment accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 07:38 PM
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I don’t need her to respect me. I’ll just next her if she doesn’t which is what I was going to do Saturday. I was committed to this relationship before I found mrp. But if she gets nexted and I’m ever in another LTR it will only be with someone who respects and honors me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 07:21 PM
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It felt like she didn’t even respect me enough to tell me that she was going out. When I asked her why she didn’t inform me she said no reason and brought up the weekend before when I didn’t inform her that I was going surfing a couple hours away with a friend. It was a shit test and I failed. In hindsight I shouldn’t have said anything about it. It’s funny because I didn’t initially and STFUd and we had a great call. After we hung up it popped up into my mind again and that’s when I texted her …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 06:57 PM
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my libido still feels different. I realized this week that’s because the neediness is gone. I used to NEED to fuck because it’s how I got validation. Now I WANT to fuck because I like it. It felt like my libido had dropped but I think the desperation is just gone from it Interesting insight. My libido has been going through the same the past couple weeks. When you're laying in bed with your girl and you don't have a hard on, you can still "want" to fuck, and get yourself hard in no time. But are…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 05:49 PM
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I’m going to take a swing and say your meeting some mother type needs with this woman. I don’t know what your exact mommy issue might be but I’m thinking you’ve got one. Focus on why you’re so needy with her and fix that rather than trying to control her and get her to behave a certain way. Yea, I was needy with her because she gave me validation and fulfilled my fantasy. My body crying over this was finally accepting the truth and it was a sign that I'm finally passed the anger phase. I was fin…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 05:40 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 157.2lbs, BF% 11%. In exclusive relationship less than 1 year. Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TRM x2, Pook, MAP (50%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, Stone sidebar series. Fitness: Lifting (5 day split PHAT. Dumbbell press 65x5, Squat 205x5, Bench 155x5) plus marathon training. Goal is 170lb and 12%BF by summer next year. Goal and Mission: Be a man who takes actions. Be abl…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 04:49 PM
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Ah yes shitty comfort test. It was difficult at the time to figure out bc she was being avoidant and apathetic, normally I would’ve just stfu and ignored but in this case that would’ve only made things worse
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/21 01:05 AM
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This was a crystal clear shit test dude. And you gave comfort and failed. You took on a cocky alpha frame you couldn't hold and she dismantled that shit expertly. I can see why you would think it's a shit test but I still think that it was a comfort test. I don't have issue getting sex from her, I lead and she follows, she's very submissive to me. While I was drilling her with these questions and exhibiting that "cocky alpha" frame, I felt cheap and it felt like i was kicking an injured dog. She…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/21 08:21 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 157.2lbs, BF% 11%. In exclusive relationship less than 1 year. Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TRM, Pook, MAP (50%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (60%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, Stone sidebar series. Fitness: Lifting, 5 day split PHAT. Dumbbell press 65x5, Squat 205x5, Bench 155x5. Back to training for marathon, running about 25 miles per week. Goal is 170lb and 12%BF by summer next year. Goal and Missio…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/21 04:03 AM
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What is identity? What is your identity? It’s such a fluid thing that I think most peoples answers will depend on who they’re talking to. Say you want to start writing and want to make it a habit, so you say you’re going to write everyday for at least 10 minutes. When do you actually become a writer? After your first page? After the first week? After the first month? After your first book? When do you shift your mental models and become a man? What is a man? Someone who takes action? Puts his go…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 05:47 AM
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STFU, don’t tell her what you’re reading or anything about what goes on here, and lift and read. Focus on yourself. Quit spilling your emotions to her it’s fucking unattractive.
/r/askMRP16/10/21 02:27 AM
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While in the anger phase what I want is to get “back” at her and take my anger out on her which leads to me doing the “opposite” of what she wants even if what she wants to do is what I “want” to do. Now that I’m out of the anger phase for the most part, I am practicing doing what I want and if it’s also happens to be what she wants as well, great. If not oh well it’s doesn’t matter. I believe outcome independence or for me it’s finally not being validation seeking that needs to come first then …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 05:57 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 154.2lbs, BF% 11%. In exclusive relationship less than 1 year. Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TRM, Pook, MAP (30%), TWOTSM, Preventative Medicine, Mystery Method, 48LP (40%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, Stone sidebar series. Fitness: Lifting, 5 day split PHAT. Dumbbell press 65x5, Squat 185x5, Bench 155x5. Back to training for marathon, running about 25 miles per week. I've been looking pretty big lately especially after a nice …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 04:48 PM
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Keep projecting more. How does one actually read the sidebar and the books and can post something like this. I feel like I’m missing something. Maybe it’s the ego. Or maybe you’re literally autistic.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 04:12 AM
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Your mission should always be your priority. Your wife may kick and scream and beg for you to not go but deep down she will love you for going. If you caved in and stayed she would’ve resented you because you just told her you’re weak and sway easily
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 08:40 PM
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Any boundaries you try to establish won’t work because you have no frame. You need to develop a mindset of abundance and work on developing your frame. Until then STFU, read, and lift. Keep a close eye on her, watch her behaviors, but maintain NGAF. Do you have any thoughts that she could be cheating? If this is too hard for you to do without blowing yourself up and telling your wife about it then just stfu, lift and read. Focus on yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 08:25 PM
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OYS #4 Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 153.6lbs, BF% 10%. In exclusive relationship less than 1 year. Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TRM, Pook, MAP (20%), TWOTSM, Mystery Method, TRM YR 2 (50%), 48LP (30%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians), HTWFAIP, OYS for a Year, Stone sidebar series. Fitness: Lifting, 5 day split PHAT. Dumbbell press 60x5, Squat 175x5, Bench 155x5. Few weeks out from marathon and need to up miles so running about 30 miles per week. Goal and Mission: Be a man who…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 09:54 PM
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This is gold actually, you made me realize I do have an ego attachment, I don’t want her to break up with me not because I have oneitis but because of my ego
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/21 04:04 PM
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I don’t think I’ve sabotaged it in a way where my gf isn’t interested anymore, she’s been chasing me like never before. Saying she wants me to meet her parents, go to her hometown, meet her family, getting me gifts, offering to buy me dinner, etc. I have the frame now but my frame is that of a paper bag and I don’t think I’m leading well bc well like you said I don’t know what it is that I want. What do you want sounds like it should be such a simple question, but for a man whose entire lifes pu…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/21 04:00 PM
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You’re right it could’ve started off a lot better
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/21 03:12 AM
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OYS #3 Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 153.6lbs, BF% 10%. In exclusive relationship 6 months. Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TRM, Pook, MAP (20%), TWOTSM (75%), Mystery Method, 48LP (30%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians 2 chapters), HTWFAIP, OYS for a Year, Rian Stone sidebar series. Fitness: Race went well. It's been a week and I've started a strength/hypertrophy program that's a 4 day split. I also signed up for a marathon so going to be running on top of my lifting program. Bod…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 05:40 PM
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What are you talking about with pendulum and that stfu, dngaf, lifting are EXTREME methods to have it in a middle ground? You’re a fucking retard. Those things are actually the habits and actions of a man. It’s continuous and never ending. It to build your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/21 05:31 PM
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Bc I have oneitis and lack an abundance mindset. I’m trying to get over it but it’s been a difficult process
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 05:06 AM
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Sex is still a form of validation for you and that pussy is on a pedestal. Go read Horn’s sex and validation post. Until you completely detach your validation from sex, your wife will continue to have power over you. and your advances will come across as needy and desperate.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 09:09 PM
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How the fuck have you been at this shit for almost two years and still not recognize the most blatant biggest covert contract. You’re doing RP for her, in hopes that she will fuck you. You got to let her go man, are you willing to nuke your marriage? You said that you try to apply that passion to your wife and work with the assumption that it would be reciprocated, then wrote to say it wasn’t a covert contract. Holy fuck dude, quit lying to yourself. How do you lack that much self awareness? Let…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 08:27 PM
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Why did you go to her after and say you thought about your response (“out”) and that your reply was gay. You already said it, so own it. Seems to me like you were seeking validation for your gay response. Also quit texting her that you want to have sex, you sound like a child asking mommy for a lollipop, it sounds gay as fuck. You’re still operating entirely in her frame and she owns u
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 08:00 PM
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Do you even lift bro? Have you read the sidebar? Maybe she isn’t fucking you because you’re an unattractive pos and texting another guy cause you’re a boring drunk captain. Don’t blame your lack of intimacy and sex as her fault and to her addictions. It’s your fault. When you look in the mirror would you fuck yourself? You say you’re no longer willing to live with limited intimacy and sex, what are you going to do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 09:55 PM
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What’s the mystery method you read and how did you fuck things up with gas station girl? I couldn’t find anything in your previous OYS
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 09:45 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'9", Wt: 152.7lbs, BF% 9.5%. In exclusive relationship 6 months. Readings: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, TRM, Pook (35%), 48LP (30%), The Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians 2 chapters), HTWFAIP, OYS for a Year, 20+ videos of Rian Stone sidebar series. Fitness: Race day is approaching, I have been primarily focusing on my training program. Still lifting a minimum of 2 times per week. Muscles are getting bigger. After my races I plan on adopting a full time lifting spli…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 05:50 PM
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You're right I don't know what I want. I know what i want in the big picture, in regards to my health, finances, relationships, family, etc. But not with this. I don't want to be in a long-distance relationship, period. But I don't know if I'll be able to break up with her due to my oneitis. In reality I probably would break up with her if she was forced to leave, but if she starts crying and telling me all these things about how we could make it work and start telling me compromises, I don't kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/21 04:33 AM
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I've thought about this, and you're somewhat right. More accurately, I think I'm substituting her frame for an RP frame and such frame isn't my true yet, bc i don't have a frame.. It's going to take time to become fully RP and unplugged, I understand that yet, this is still better than the previous Nice Guy frame i had (which was authentically my frame due to 28 years of environmental conditioning). It does come and go in waves though, and this is a positive indicator for me because i see it as …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/21 04:05 AM
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Sex: It's been great. I get my dick sucked whenever i want and fuck whenever I want. I am coming from a place of abundance and only fucking because I truly want to. I am trying to train her so that she only gets my cock if she's being a good girl and doing things that I like (i.e., cooking, being affectionate, feminine, etc). I dominate her and fuck her good. I call her my little slut and she obeys me when I tell her to get on her knees and pull my cock out and put it in her mouth. I make her cu…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 05:35 AM
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OYS #1Stats: Age 28, Ht: 5'8", Wt: 152lbs, BF% 9.5%. In exclusive relationship 6 months. Readings: Sidebar, NNMNG, How to win friends and influence people, 48LP (30%), WISNIFG (60%), 20 videos of Rian Stone sidebar series, The Rational Male, all of u/HornsOfApathy first year 30+ OYS. The Bible (finished Proverbs) and 3 chapters into Ecclesiastes. Fitness: I've lifted for several years and used to be pretty "big", 170lbs, 13% BF. In recent years I've done away with lifting and focused more on HII…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 05:33 AM
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Ok guess I’ll start lifting again lol. No problem. I’m already fucking jacked, shredded and aesthetic as fuck from lifting all throughout college and being lean from im training but ok I’ll start gaining “mass”
/r/askMRP27/08/21 01:29 AM
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Guarantee you my training is five times more intense than your 5 days a week at the gym splits lol. Fuck outta here
/r/askMRP27/08/21 01:14 AM
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This is married red pill? Plates don’t apply in ltr or mrp
/r/askMRP27/08/21 01:11 AM
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Why because I'm not even peaked in regard to my SMV and she's entering the wall and it seems stupid that I'm asking about this?
/r/askMRP27/08/21 12:49 AM
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Yea I know, i had oneitis, i think i mentioned it. I also suffered from idealism. But i quickly fixed that i got my frame back and she noticed. I don't know if i was rash with breaking up with her though. SInce i had my frame i could've just kept going
/r/askMRP27/08/21 12:41 AM
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Yea I know huge red flags. Her never having a serious relationship previously.. About the parents, i think i can understand that, they live in another city and she wants to be certain before telling them. IDK though, someone please enlighten me.
/r/askMRP27/08/21 12:38 AM
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Accidently responded from my other account. I don't lift anymore, maybe once a week and it's focused on strengthening lower body. I'm currently in a training program for ironman. But that is not the point
/r/askMRP27/08/21 12:36 AM
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Thanks for your insight. All guys can be a little insecure at times. I admit i was bending over backwards for her in the beginning which may have ruined my value but i quickly fixed that. Generally speaking though i am very confident in myself and am aware of my value and abilities which is why i felt the need to break up with her. I wasn't going to deal with being a placeholder for a second given me knowing what my value is. She quickly came back to me and tried to resolve things but i brushed …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 11:02 PM
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That's what i think to but having back and forths in my mind. Can't think straight right now.. I broke up with her but then i remember the times she tried to put the effort in to meeting my needs and making things work. I admit i got oneitis in the beginning and caught myself after she broke up with me the first time and became much more red pilled in my behavior which in turn made her start chasing me. I think i did win the frame over towards the end but then I still ended it..
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 09:48 PM
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Not sure if you allow males to post here but i need a RPW perspective. TRP can be very RADICAL.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 09:19 PM
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