Private_Capital1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?	Fundamentals	Private_Capital1	/r/seduction	02/09/24 03:21 PM

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0	For guys, why do you want a woman? Well I need to pump my erection into something duh	/r/seduction	10/02/25 03:07 PM
2	How can I overcome my fear of going into the city / bars alone? its simple math. As the number of people in a social group increases the unitary value diminishes.	/r/seduction	22/01/25 09:42 PM
-1	Does going to the gym make a big difference? nope , girls care about what you can do for them	/r/seduction	22/01/25 09:14 PM
1	How can I overcome my fear of going into the city / bars alone? Bro friends is impossible and serious women neither . In bars you will find occasional interaction with both sexes but dont expect the guys to throw themselves into the fire for you or the women to fawn over you or even keep in touch after an occasional ONS (if you can get it) The true human connection is in the country that you are from and want to leave. Cities are all about transactional , occasional and mostly impersonal. Because there are literally millions of people	/r/seduction	21/01/25 11:44 AM
4	You’ll Never Reach Your Potential Without Real Life Approaches The potential is higher when casting a huge net, and selecting the best fish afterwards but the feeling is better when the fish bites and it's you vs. him 1-1 and there is a clear victory if you manage to bring it on board	/r/seduction	09/01/25 04:49 PM
3	It seems everyone overthinks/ puts way too much information on here to focus on? This is something of a first world problems, the higher up you go on MASLOW pyramid of needs the more blurry solutions to "problems" become, and hence everybody spews their idea and no clear winner emerge so the abundance of information because it's a constant adding without any subtraction	/r/seduction	21/12/24 10:48 PM
2	Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ? Can be as easy as not having notifications on for tinder bro	/r/seduction	16/12/24 11:32 PM
2	Don't feel good enough no matter what The enemy within. Bro stop for a second and analyze the current reality. Sex is availible everywhere. Sex for self validation purposes can be as rare as your addiction to information and addiction to comparing yourself to others. Look deep within you and try to speak to the 15 year old who'd spit in your face even just knowing that you have money, a car, a general approximation of where the hookers are (both offline and online) and you pass on fucking them because "nah has to happen organically …	/r/seduction	26/11/24 06:32 PM
1	How to enjoy this stuff? You can use Seeking to find a SugarBabi , and also the main sites for escorts is tryst.link . Don't worry about the hookers part, that is the easy part, the hard part is to find bros who are also committed to the group and won't leave as soon as they hit some girl	/r/seduction	25/11/24 11:36 PM
2	How to enjoy this stuff? 4 words pal. Bro up, fuck hookers. It's the end of this road anyway, if you listen to the very greats like Dan Bilzerian etc. they all say the same thing, there is zero overlap between male passions and female passions, so they use fame to bang girls while spending time with the boys Spending money for hookers seems like it's remotely distant from using the fame to get girls, but it's basically how famous people operated too before social media for example when they were outside of their area of…	/r/seduction	25/11/24 10:43 PM
1	BEST Tinder Response to "What are you looking for?" "You". It's bold but when it works can transform a frigid girl (all girls asking what are you looking for are frigid) into possibly resurfacing their joy to meet somebody new	/r/seduction	21/11/24 05:14 PM
0	Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount? 10,000 ONS realistically only an escort can accumulate, so when she is out of the business because of burnout or bcuz has enough money those 10,000 don't matter because it was a job/service being provided without emotional involvement and I am not of the school of thought that pussy deteriorates with use	/r/seduction	20/11/24 04:59 PM
-1	Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount? ONS are okay, she could have had 10,000+ and I would be ok with it. THe fact is that as a man your value is in the stuff that you can provide her, if others before you provided her stuff than the bar of happiness becomes so high that you will never match it. For ONS it's impossible to provide such valiue. Like Melania Trump for example, she is married to the most powerful man in the world who has money made outside of politics on top of that and she can't even give him a smooch or at least a pec…	/r/seduction	20/11/24 04:50 PM
2	How to actually "lower my standards"? high standards are a sign of depression . Look up all those stories of people lifting the World Cup or the Lombardi Trophy and then feeling miserable afterwards. The nice trophy result should be the cherry on the cake of a good life, when it becomes the whole cake it means there is a probllem with meaning/psyche You shold learn from nature and fuck everything too, in a lifetime you can expect to get a few 10s as well, and you will be knowing what to do with all the practice	/r/seduction	20/11/24 01:46 AM
1	Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs? The problem is that there is an economic cost . Street approach is free and also you are guaranteed that she is living in that city to a much higher degree than bar/clubs. Especially big cities she might just be visiting	/r/seduction	17/11/24 12:48 AM
1	How to make women lust after you? The bar is higher for men, the only way this can happen is thanks to millions of dollars of publicity (eg. movie actors and musicians) or the mega luck of the draw of social media where a guy who is jacked (but like there are literally millions of them) gets somehow elevated by the algorithm. In the end it doesn't matter, when it happens to you (it won't happen) but say it happens you being a man are very analytic and dissective and you'd recognize that they only lust after you because of millio…	/r/seduction	12/11/24 02:12 PM
1	Body count has gone up 11 in the last year. 11 "Listen, just listen to the sustain" (shameless Spinal Tap reference). Jokes aside there is a third way. Close relationships with bros and use them as pump and dump	/r/seduction	10/11/24 07:03 PM
2	Do you think guys use the "I have a girlfriend line" to avoid rejection? Bro it's the investment that makes something worth. Fans can touch the Lombardi Trophy spending something like 300 bucks + travel to the Museum. It's the same trophy but they won't be in tears like a QB who invested 20 years of his life to touch it upon winning the SuperBowl What people are overly focusing in here is how hot a girl is and how easy it is. If you want true satisfaction you have to invest time and when stuff fall in place it will be your Super Bowl because it's your time investment…	/r/seduction	03/11/24 08:07 PM
1	If you are basing your self-worth on professional success you are self-sabotaging I am guilty of this, I need my pack of wolves, can't even focus on girls if my pack is scattered around in different direction or not as unified as it should be. I think it's normal anyways	/r/seduction	23/10/24 02:42 PM
0	Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore. Harvard...I don't have friends Bro you are in the worst place in the world to make friends, the higher the IQ of the surrounding population the harder it is to make a dent and attract people's attention. You are defacto competing for attention against SpaceX rocket launches, biotech news, political news of all sorts, Stock market up&downs. You cannot win. It's much, much easier to become a leader of a social group in a Brazilian favela or in a Belize slump (see John McCafee) as the people around…	/r/seduction	19/10/24 11:24 AM
1	I don’t understand clubs group of 6 guys and you go to the disco club instead of the strip club? Yall must be depressed . Curate and cherish male friendship as it’s a magic wand that transforms paying bitchues to suck yor dick from pathetic (as an individual activity) to exhilarating and really fun when done in groups especially on the way back in the car if you pay the strip club to take them home you feel like Gods , like bitch I paid your owner and now I temporarily own you, as a group you own them as a matter of fac…	/r/seduction	10/10/24 09:18 PM
1	I think I have peaked but I feel empty… You are focused on hollywood bringing about celebrities and supermodels. What I said happens daily in neighborhoods and inner cities and even rurally at the local level 🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	16/09/24 03:37 PM
1	I think I have peaked but I feel empty… How so? Stealing the girl of the local gangster or gang members means quite literally putting your life on the line , I fail to see how that isn’t thrilling . Also you could conspire together with the girl against the guy to put him in jail and steal his money while you fuck his girl, that ought to be very thrilling and profitable	/r/seduction	16/09/24 03:33 PM
1	I think I have peaked but I feel empty… 1) How? Not everyone has access to celebrieties 2) Men are not attracted to celebrity status or money or power that a woman has, it’s all about the beauty, supermodels are just 10s in the right places to become famous. They are not 15s or 20s, just 10s with the right connections. I agree that stealing the girl of a celebrity would also bring about lots of satisfaction, but realistically at the local level it can be just as thrilling to steal the girl of a bodybuilder or the girl of the local gan…	/r/seduction	16/09/24 03:26 PM
0	I think I have peaked but I feel empty… You can pretty much know when you have it in the bag for quite some time before it actually happens , that is why is less rewarding It’s what Mike Tyson trainer used to say him: “Why are you celebrating? You know you are supposed to beat that guy, are you even conscious of your capabilities? Do you realize what you are doing in training?” of course the old guns and the bookies were not surprised by Tyson but the leading up to fights with opponents and their camp being so confident in press confe…	/r/seduction	16/09/24 03:02 PM
1	How to beat the fear of rejection Once you remove the fear of rejection and the attack to the ego there is still the issue that an unsuccessful attempt means you are wasting time, so there is an underlying problem which goes beyond psychological reasons of fear of rejection. Could be that fear of rejection (in any domain ranging from women to work to hobbies....) is basically fear of wasting time. Given that we all have a limited amount of time (in a day/week/year/life) might be a mechanism that Nature installed in our heads to …	/r/seduction	14/09/24 11:16 PM
2	Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ? physical will always be better than online because there are some spots where only girls who are happy and dtf go. On the other hand you will never know the mood of an IG girl even if she follows you back The only girls who are always on a good mood on IG are the druggies and the ones who take steroids, for some reason they always reply to comments and dms	/r/seduction	12/09/24 04:56 PM
3	Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ? You need the girl to follow you in order for her to see the notification that you dm’ed her In the street the only thing holding you back is yourself and how low you are willing to go to get her attention	/r/seduction	12/09/24 04:48 PM
1	How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction? Good for you, I cant, the thinking through the attraction part i cannot do, I need by D to call the shots and guide me quite literally close to the one he fancies	/r/seduction	03/09/24 10:20 PM
-9	How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction? On the contrary this is what has happened for millions of years. The process was : Battle>Victory>Relief>Boner>Approach>Sex	/r/seduction	02/09/24 06:02 PM
-8	How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction? It’s not like she is Albert Einstein or Robert Oppenheimer , the reason to approach is sexual, if boner is not there then whats the point. You have to think through it that it you hit up the boner will come when needed, but thinking and social interaction should not be mixed	/r/seduction	02/09/24 04:49 PM