TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Prize_Willow_5325 Archive

View 0 posts and 561 comments by Prize_Willow_5325 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
–

That tracks, was on a brunch with my friend recently and two of his homegirls and this one blonde was ogling my biceps throughout, was a dental student as well so smart and attractive. Kinda crazy though how women have free reign to objectify men but not something I even care to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:57 PM
–

But did he see you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:33 PM
0

I feel like it's pretty easy to filter out men with bad intentions. Just don't sleep with them and if that's all they want they will self-select out of pursuit pretty fast. I also work with a lot of high performing men so maybe I am just better at judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:28 PM
0

I don't think the yes to the no's is really true, I think I've only approached maybe 6-8 women in my life and got either their number or Instagram each time and if I didn't it was typically since they had a boyfriend. I also only approached women either after my friends told me the women were looking at me or I somewhat knew them from the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:25 PM
–

Mechanical, just got my brothers old car and am about to drive across the nation so I’m getting like 3 years of maintenance done
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:34 PM
–

I can 2nd this, almost all DMs or direct women hitting on me has been by women a lot less attractive than me, or if they were good looking they were intoxicated which would go against my morals to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:27 PM
–

Yes easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:24 PM
–

Literally been getting car work done for 8 hours. Wonder if I bite the bullet take preworkout late and sleep in or skip the gym but I hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:18 PM
–

Having a wealthy older brother is nice, just got about $1,000 worth of clothes that he doesn't wear and quite a few still had their tags on them. Sometimes being the youngest brother is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:05 PM
–

Thank you! I think the move will be good as well I'm not stagnated yet I can feel the need for the change of pace as the rate of growth in my character definitely seems to have slowed down. It's actually crazy how delusional I am though in regards to this girl and I suspect it will take me a good time to fix myself but it's pretty much a perfect opportunity to focus on my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:18 AM
2

I'm flexible at this point, I lean towards being the traditional provider as in I earn a fair amount and would be totally fine with my wife being a SAHM, this being said if I had someone I really loved I realized I wouldn't mind being in a more supportive role for her and honestly I don't even think I would have a problem being a SAHD if she made enough money and really wanted to pursue her career as I've met maybe two highly passionate women who I would potentially do that for. This all being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:03 AM
–

Some of them are really good people and have great morals, care about others, are super competent, and other things both physical such as having a cute smile or attractive voice, or more personality based like being good to her friends and helping out others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:28 AM
–

I can't find women I want to spend money on though besides my mom. Not even a mommas boy just that I'd rather take my mom out and buy her a gift then someone who I don't think I could end up marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:58 PM
–

The thing that gets me is that former President Obama had better numbers than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:34 PM
–

Arabic food is so tasty though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:33 PM
–

Moving out of state end if this week which I am excited about and also grateful for since I have a really bad crush on one of my friends and she knows and wasn't interested back but I still have the crush which is annoying. The thing is that I try to claim to be this rational professional person so I should be able to not have feelings when they aren't being reciprocated but I guess my brain isn't getting the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:29 PM
–

Going to be honest the 1st shooting was in my view a tragic but legal shooting and the 2nd one is straight up a case of homicide at least from my limited legal understanding. Biggest takeaway from both is that ICE officers have some of the worst training of any law enforcement I've ever seen. The general consensus is that most federal agencies want you to have three years of beat work before going federal so you get to learn to protect others and yourself in a controlled way and work on other sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:26 PM
–

My gym is closed due to the snow and now I guess I'll just read or play games the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:33 PM
–

I think this trait skipped human woman considering the amount of single mothers there are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:07 PM
–

You just glossed over everything I said, having abs and 18-inch arms and a high paying salary is not normal it's well above the median or average or whatever metric you so desire. What women ask for and what they offer aren't aligned, so I'm a traditional guy and what I offer is someone who values family, is physically attractive, has a good career and what I want is someone who is somewhat attractive as in they are not overweight, has good morals as in they haven't slept around, and when it com…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:03 PM
–

Passing time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:57 PM
–

I'd argue that in comparison to what women want from a relationship and what men want the woman demand more. For me to be able to date the women I now can not only do I have to match them in physical appearance I also have to make more than them, bear the bulk of the dating costs, bear the bulk of the emotional labor, carry the conversations and if I have any moral standards that I want them to match I shouldn't even bother dating which is what I came to the conclusion of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:28 PM
–

Yeah micromanagers are the worst type of leaders, part time work is difficult since most people I know who have young kids either have a high earning man or one of them has a wfh job or a 3 on 4 off schedule like nursing. I assume you have already looked at wfh that you could potentially do? I also don't know your local economy or professional education but it sounds difficult and I really wish we did more for parents when it came to helping raise young kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:19 PM
–

This bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:15 PM
–

Moms are really easy, just take her to lunch or dinner, fill up her gas and get her a gift if she has said she wants something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:25 PM
–

What career do you currently work in and what are you thinking about switching to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:24 PM
–

It is what it is, men aren’t much better but I’m pretty much jaded to the concept of actually being loved for who I am as a person(my morals) as I’ve only received attention in terms of looks or career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:00 PM
–

It’s not what we value it’s what we are first judged for. I’d like to say I have pretty good morals but those didn’t matter until I made good money as a man and achieved a desirable physique. I’d even say that for about 60-80% of women morals don’t matter in my experience. There are women that morals matter to but I’ve only met one in the past six years which that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:56 PM
–

I'm too fatigued to workout. Haven't taken a rest day in 12 days and the nervous system fatigue is just too much. I'll have a great leg day tomorrow on the bright side, but I hate not working out as that is my main passtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:45 PM
–

I wish race shoes and running shoes were that cheap. Just got my first carbon plate shoes and was about $280
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:34 PM
–

I kinda think it happened when it comes to men being tired of women, my friend group is pretty high performing when it comes to career success and such and besides the men who have long term gf's from high school or college or are married no man really wants to date anymore even if they can. The most common thing I see is high income guys just having low stress fwbs situations with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:14 PM
2

I don't blame girls scout is the main program who merged it at people's coercing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:05 AM
5

Men need male spaces especially since they are often sacrificed for women's. Main example is boys scouts becoming just scouts but still having girl scouts. Also when it comes to relaxing men can never fully be relaxed when women are round when it comes to certain things like jokes or male on male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:55 PM
1

I think after modern standard Arabic I'll move onto farci and then Iraqi Arabic before calling it there. Won't be at the level I want for MSA until 2028 or 2029 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:49 PM
1

Literally my life haha, but I guess I was never super unattractive I just had a build that I needed to grow into and also came from a lower middle class background vs now professional class and money can easily make you more attractive with clothes and a nice haircut plus low end luxury goods. For the 2nd man, me in this case I was jaded and still am tbh since when it comes to how women treat me it's only ever been in terms of how I look good or am hot and never in terms of who I am as a person,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:08 PM
2

I've lost attraction to people I've liked in the past and vice versa, so I don't think they are contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:01 PM
–

Impossible, would rather be single. Attraction should not be the main part of a relationship but is still important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:04 PM
1

That makes sense since my parents were like that, I'm a tone down from then but still pretty socially conservative (not to be confused with the political conservatives).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:33 PM
1

It differs based on area, culture, and social class. I am from midwest and from a more socially conservative culture. Talking to multiple people is one thing, sleeping with multiple people is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:22 PM
0

I kinda doubt that, most well put together guys can get alright gf's if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:04 PM
1

Anything below 1.8 is beyond recoverable, a rebound of .11 is nothing in the grand scheme of things. I really wonder if it's just going to be a healthcare system breaking or old people dying in mass in homes for things to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:44 PM
2

Talking to a friend today and learned he broke up with his girl a couple months ago (for the final time, they were on and off multiple times) and he pretty much has four women on a rotation now. I don't really judge him as it sounds like all four are the ones pursuing him and he hasn't been misleading in any way regarding his current lack of desire for a relationship. I do think it also helps he will probably gross a quarter of a mil this year at 29 years old and is pretty handsome. The switch u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:57 PM
3

Dude I hate redpill, chasing tail is one of the least productive things men can do when it comes to this world. One reason I support people pairing up young and staying together is that is all that energy that is directed towards hookups is redirected towards things that matter like work or family. Just my opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:21 AM
3

Perhaps, thing is I’ve gotten to understand what I value and also who I am more in the past year and I’m actually happy things didn’t escalate with any of the women I’ve been on dates these past couple years. I’m also kinda in the phase of getting over someone else who I thought would have really worked but I guess I thought wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:24 AM
3

I don't want to get too much into the details, but she pretty much had a hoe phase for the past year and we don't really align morally now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:12 AM
0

I just ignore it as I'm leaving state anyways for work. When it comes to looks I don't mind saying this but as long as someone takes care of things within their control like weight I don't have super high standards tbh, for getting fat outside of pregnancy that is a factor within your control and it's a valid reason to break up with someone. For lingering interest there is zero and it's a done deal sorta thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:11 AM
4

I don't need active pursuit just that they had options and decided to choose me over others, like I have plenty of options now out of them would only pursue one if things went right and I'd like to be with someone who also has options but chooses me out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:45 PM
4

If another user posted this story, I would think it was fake, but I guess real life does sometimes follow tropes. Cut back to about 10 months ago I was finishing up my studies and took a friend to a Ball and we had a good night and I was interested in pursuing a relationship with her, she wasn't interested back but it is what it is. Back to the present I've started my career and about two weeks ago she starts acting all flirty with me and tries to follow me on Instagram (I removed and unfollowed…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:06 PM
–

I've debated it since I pretty much have a free shot to sleep with a D1 track athlete, but it would make me a hypocrite and also, I don't want to have to confess that sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:05 PM
–

The person I am talking about never really had a dry spell, only women he ever dated long term were 10/10s and between those unless he was working I pretty sure he ended up sleeping with someone at least once a week if not multiple people a week and the women he'd hookup with were still attractive just not compared to who he dated, so yeah men lower their physical standards to hookups while women up theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:03 PM
–

Is it tren in particular? As I get down in weight and dialed in on my sleep and supplements to boost test I found I prefer slimmer/feminine women a lot more than the past whereas I had less of a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:59 PM
–

I've known some extremely attractive men who have hooked up with chubby to overweight sorority girls since the girls were young and glammed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:50 PM
–

Disease and technology gap. Also, they fought like hell in the various Indian wars and got a lot of good licks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:29 PM
–

I like my current career too much so no, I also had the opportunity to date one of the live-in maids from I think Brazil or something(that was just her job she was not a live in maid with my family) and had no interest in that so I'm also good there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:23 PM
–

Custom archangel Michael battling Lucifer and full half sleeve from elbow to upper anterior delt and rear delt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:27 PM
–

Damm a nice tattoo is actually a crazy boost in attracting women, I did it for myself but the complements are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:30 PM
–

I did and they weren't interested, guess I don't have much to offer besides my looks and money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:00 AM
–

Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:14 AM
–

I don't watch streamers but a lot of people have them on a separate tab or monitor while they do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 12:47 AM
–

I have some long-term female friends who I've pretty much seen the light fade from their eyes as they got strung along by hookups and situationships. One reason why I'm so much pickier when it comes to who I date nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:35 PM
–

Not date and focus on your hobbies and community. This year outside of my career which is the primary focus I plan on getting to a blue belt in BJJ, pick up ball room dance as another hobby, and get back into reffing youth sports and maybe coaching in a year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:08 PM
–

What if we are already desirable to both men and woman but just want to find a partner who is not superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:53 PM
–

I'm not but also not the type of social scene I would've been in regardless due to my upbringing. I am quite sad that almost all single women I have met recently are now mentally unwell due to their hoe phase but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:12 PM
–

It’s a mixed retirement system, if you do 20 years you get a pension that is 40% of you three highest years/three but most people don’t don20 so they have the individual retirement account which is a tax advantaged account that people contribute up to 23,000 a year and the money is post-tax income so when you take it out say 40 years later you don’t pay taxes on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:53 PM
–

Better than non government sanctioned murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:03 AM
–

I think drone warfare is so lame that if an opponent uses it and doesn't have nukes I'd say we just nuke them and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:46 PM
–

They actually just stopped wearing hijabs since Gen Z women were like no and Gen Z guys were like yeah we also don't think they should have to wear them, and as seen by like how Gen Z has toppled at least three governments so far we kinda just can do things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:18 PM
–

Individual retirement account, pretty much the only way alongside a 401k for my generation to retire as SS will be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:16 PM
–

Ngl Iranian woman are lowkey baddies, saw some videos of them lighting cigarettes with a burning photo of their religious dictator and they are both physically attractive and mentally since they are willing to die for their beliefs. I guess I am a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:40 PM
–

Okay I may be in over my head as I've only helped men who had a lot more wiggle room when it came to calorie intake since the issue with small women like you is you have to get all your nutrient needs in with a very small amount of calories consumed. So, we have 30 lbs to lose or 105000 calories that may seem like a lot but once we break it down into workable units it won't be as bad. For someone else I might say to do a 500-calorie deficit but that would put you at around 1,400 calories a day w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:25 PM
–

How tall are you? Also, bf% if you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:56 PM
–

Seems pretty nutritionally balanced except for not too much fruit, are most of these things pre-packaged food from those stores or homemade, also what type of drinks? Four beers is different than four shots of vodka for calorie wise. Than do you think you eat around 3 main meals and 2-3 snacks? Also current weight, activity level and goal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:33 PM
–

What's your goals(Muscle gain, fat loss, maintain but recomp), dietary restrictions if any, main stores you shop at, diets you've tried in the past, time you want to take, what meals you typically eat with friends/family vs on your own, if you like to drink and how much. Also if you like to snack or any foods you really enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:24 PM
–

I got like three hours until I can go to sleep and am quite bored, anyone want me to tailor a nutrition plan to them or explain basic finance things for their Roth IRAs? Not a financial advisor or a nutritionist but I do have a pack and a lot of money for my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:53 PM
–

2 hours lifting, than an hour cardio and separate sport training.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:51 PM
–

have to train? I have a friend who does triathlons but I honestly don't think he trains more than 2 hours a day. Then the Xc runners from my college would typically do two runs a day and may a lift 3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:50 PM
–

I think the max you can work out a day without diminishing returns is about 4 hours. Two hours weightlifting, 30-60 cardio. Than some sort of sport like BJJ or even a physical hobby like line or ballroom dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:27 PM
–

I think I replied to your comment instead of another one mb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:08 PM
–

I agree at 25 after having dated some, at 18 I could have interpreted it as I'm busy but may still be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:51 PM
–

That's also fine, the other one with plans can is somewhat less straightforward then the one I gave and your 2nd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:48 PM
–

If she didn't want to go out with the man, I'd hope she would be somewhat direct and say something "Like sorry I'm not interested in that but thanks for the invite."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:49 PM
2

I would have before if I liked the person but I found my faith a little later in life that restricts me from having sex before marriage so the only way I would marry someone who had sex prior is if they were married and their husband died or if they were sexually assaulted (as a sin committed on you is not your own sin).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:41 PM
–

You think people woke up in Beijing earlier this week and said "Ah yes since the US has captured Maduro, we can now start our invasion of Taiwan."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:08 PM
–

The anti-USA coalition can’t stop taking Ls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:57 PM
–

I didn’t vote for Trump but that’s an insane statement to make
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:24 PM
1

Honestly sounds amazing, really wish my parents didn't move as much as they did growing up but can't change the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:24 AM
1

Would did you two start dating? Also are you two religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:01 PM
1

How old are you and your husband by chance? I feel like my view is pretty outdated in this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:11 PM
1

Generally speaking, in my experience women aren't as high quality as friends than men. I do have a couple female friends but it's more of I respond to and hang out with them when they invite me out and I'll typically do the same but I don't put as much effort as my male friends due to learned experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:24 PM
2

So I am a traditional man and when I do date it would be accurate to say I court as in I plan the dates, hold the door open, pay for the meal and all the little things(could be pulling out the chair, walking on the outside of the sidewalk, even gifts like flowers or chocolates). Big thing is I date for marriage though and don't want to hookup. This means that to me since sex is a non-factor and I expect restraint in whoever I marry I won't take out women who have any history. Courting as you des…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:56 PM
–

Lol I really triggered someone as they are going through and disliking all my comments, anyone want to admit to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:34 PM
–

I don’t care for ICE but the way the vehicle was used can be considered attempted murder and getting shot for that is not a crazy thing to occur. I only saw one video though so maybe I’m missing context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:37 AM
–

A lot of research shows that the less micromanaging an employee has the lower their stress and better health outcomes and the work is same if not better quality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:34 AM
–

They’re all dating other men or other women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:33 AM
3

I wouldn't care, I'm of the mind if you don't trust you partner enough with say shared bank accounts you don't trust them enough to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:13 AM
3

Maybe lower, I learned this past half year that I don't really value sex or being seen as physically attracted and outside of a relationship with the potential for marriage and kids I don't really feel attraction overly towards women in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:40 AM
2

I did that before with the person I've ever been most interested in and it really sucked when she turned me down, like everyone was supportive and it went back to normal after a couple months but that one experience is one of the biggest reasons I've mostly stopped dating as it was someone who I found attractive due to their personality and values vs just starting with physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:34 AM
–

Custom archangel Michael, very stereotypically but he did a fantastic job and it was a half sleeve on the upper arm into shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:46 AM
–

Have you tried religious dating apps or young adult groups at church?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:44 AM
–

Roughly 10 hours of tattooing between yesterday and today and I think it looks clean af. I guess adult money can make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:43 AM
–

True true, thing is most men won’t be in a position for this so they won’t realize why it’s so worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:38 AM
–

Your original one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:03 PM
–

To clarify there are plenty of women who are great and amazing people but due to either not wanting a family or other different values they are lets not say “good enough” for me but incompatible. When it comes to my past 6 years of dating I ran into only one person who I’d thought was compatible and they were not interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:02 PM
–

No unfortunately I don’t even get the mental benefits from helping others as some my friends do I just do it because it’s the right thing. Also there are people who are good enough but they are already married at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:55 PM
–

Yeah, but this is just objectively false lol, when it comes to helping others either through direct action, advice, service, or charity I'd say I am at least in the top 20% if not higher, but we would need a metric to measure this which you can pick if you like. But I am going to be biased towards myself of course so we could only judge by how others view me which seems to be positive both in my private life and public but this is the internet so I could just be making that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:58 PM
–

I'm very happy with the man I am today especially since I think I'll be able to become a good man in this life but I do lament that I will probably never have a partner who can meet my standards, and it would be unfair of me to apply that to people I date. I think back to how Marcus Aurelius or other great Men through history have described their wives often times their compassion, grace, and purity being mentioned and then I compare these women to the women in my life that I have to choose from…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:48 PM
2

If she met my other standards I don't think how she dressed would both me much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:22 PM
–

First 3 hours of the tattoo was chill but it actually started to hurt around 4+. 6-8 hours tomorrow will not be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:47 AM
–

I wonder how much environment plays into people being gay? Like two siblings seems pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:00 PM
2

I don't use tiktok or much social media and have not heard this term before, but I guess it applies to my view of dating. I cover all the costs in dating but only date woman who have the potential to be my marriage partner. Not broke either as I'm a top 10% and will be that or higher for the rest of my life. Also, in my view I should save my money for whoever I marry since if I do end up married whoever I'm with will also be able to share in the wealth I've grown through investing and prudent fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:16 PM
–

I'm 6'3 but tell people I'm 5'11 just to annoy men who are 5'11 and say they are 6'0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:59 PM
5

Has there really ever been any real money in redpill? I'd say maybe 3-5 men maybe became low multimillionaires but that's not really impressive by any metric when they seem to live soulless lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:48 PM
–

I think there is something to be said about Benevolent sexism. Was having brunch with a friend and two of his female friends and we were having a pretty good conversation about how both me and my friend are pretty traditional when it comes to dating as in paying for the dates and also being the archetypical man in the relationship and both of the ladies agreed, granted they are also from the midwest and Christian backgrounds but they are going to be dentists and will probably outearn or earn equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:42 PM
6

I think red pill method got patched, IRL most women just don't want hookups and from my perspective would rather have stable sex in a situationship or relationship than a random at a bar or party, most single women in my age cohort 22-28 typically have a guy they occasionally sleep with and try to pursue a relationship before getting turned down, that or they just stay single. Like Gen Z has a really low sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:20 PM
5

I'd say don't get to hung up about it, women's attraction changes like the weather and one moment she may be interested and the next not so much. I'd say just enjoy the flirting and if you like the person try to escalate but don't worry about it not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:37 PM
–

Thanks! I would show it if it wasn't so identifying and I hadn't made as many low-quality comments with this account
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:47 AM
–

I think a lot of things play into league, the bubbly 5'3 cheerleader who is slightly overweight but has an hourglass body is not out of the league of the 5'8 gym bro with a 6-pack since men and women are sexually dimorphic and have different standards. I'll use myself as an example I have an FFMI of around 26 which means a lot of muscles but the type of women I'm into who typically be considered athletic or petite and that can be achieved more through diet and running, so even if my match is som…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:34 AM
–

I'm excited getting a half sleeve over the next two days. I think I'll probably end up with one full arm sleeve and just call it there since in terms of price for a medium quality full sleeve seems it will cost roughly 9k max. The half sleeve is only 1,900 but forearm and the both parts of the inner arm and connection I think will total 8-9k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:12 AM
–

Idk I feel like a lot of women in the real world are starting to be more open about talking about these issues since both parties want to be happy. I'd honestly say the women online are the more extreme ones like the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:09 AM
–

Even in non dating it just makes life better, we all know that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:03 AM
–

Some chubby women who dress nice, and have good genetics are still attractive to plenty of women including fit guys. It's not like it needs to be a perfect ratio of fit men to fit women since plenty fit guys may have other things that make them unattractice. I had a pretty good physique for the past two years but just tapering in when it comes to clothing, haircut, and fine details like say using an eyelash curler or exfoliating lips can really make a man stand apart and be with an attractive wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:03 AM
–

I don't date strangers, every single woman I've been on a date with has either been from a place a already had a social group in. That could be the gym, school, or a social place like a run club. If you want I'd say pick up a hobby you enjoy that you can invite women to. A good one is ballroom dance, but pick what you personally enjoy but is also something that others can get into.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:01 AM
–

Are you talking about on dating apps or from social and friend groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:57 PM
–

Most of my friend group is young professionals and while many women don't mind making the same or more than their partners making a significant amount more is typically an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:46 PM
–

The bar isn't in hell but it's actually pretty low, if you're a single man making say 60k-90k a year have a good physique, and are somewhat pleasant as a person you can date some fairly well put together woman. All of those things as a man are controllable and not hard to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:21 PM
–

I don't care what Trump says tbh, he's a figurehead for the people who actually know how to enrich themselves (oligarchs). He doesn't know pretty much anything about running a country just like he doesn't know how to run a business. The biggest win out of all this is more freedom for people who know how Capitol works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:02 PM
–

Children born within marriages have more successful lives judging by almost all metrics. Society benefits from kids who have stability, good education, good nutrition, attention from parents and all the other things that come from a quality marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:56 PM
–

Did she tell you to write this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:31 PM
–

How is that a good thing? Marriage is generally speaking a pre-requisite for stable child rearing which is the moral thing (moral as in pertaining to the good of society)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:19 PM
–

Stable nation that invaded Kuwait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:52 PM
1

I don't know where they were the past 6 years, but I'd say in the span of 3-4 months I've had more attractive women into me than the past 6 years combined. Guess It's kinda true that once you hit a certain threshold as a man in terms of looks and money you can pretty much date most women. For sure had me jaded for a bit but now that I have my career and religion to focus on it's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:57 PM
2

We got a relatively stable nation that while not allied is more friendly than both Iran and Afghanistan. Also they are a counterbalance to Iran and we don't like to have all our eggs in one basket hence we have Israel, and Saudi Arabia + the gulf states on good terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:46 PM
2

Pakistan? I did not know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:44 PM
1

Somewhat, I'd overall say Iraq was successful as of 2026, Afghanistan not so much but even the initial entry of that war had less plans for long term success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:17 PM
1

Multiple reasons can exist for a single action, and for the same reason aid can have multiple reasons. China gives high interest loans with the caveat of getting deep water ports when countries default. All countries want to be Imperialistic and some treat others better. The US is one of the ones with better treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:16 PM
4

I'd be fine with that, don't care for Pakistan much with how they helped the Tailban.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:14 PM
2

We've had multiple shale revolutions we are good on oil. Also, we are having breakthroughs in Nuclear Energy and are energy independent. Oil is a useful resource but not of strategic importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:48 PM
1

Because military power is a tool in our arsenal to enforce our ideals upon the world. The US since becoming the Unipolar power back in 1990s with the fall of the Soviet Union has done more for uplifting people out of poverty, combating global issues like disease, strengthening women's rights and making advancements in medicine and science more so than any country in the history of Mankind. I'm so sick of dissidents who take anything the US does as a negative, it's how we got to the current point…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:42 PM
1

As I've gotten older I have so much my sympathy for women my age. Preface to what I'm about to say I do believe women have agency and are responsible for their own actions but so much has worked against the,. So many groups have worked together to influence women to live negative lives, social media and mainstream have sold the lie of the badass career women who gets to sleep around, have a successful career and also end up with the hallmark man, which has in turn led to short term flings in col…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:31 PM
2

Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:22 PM
3

Biceps being attractive are? I have had multiple of my female gym friends either comment on how big my arms are or feel them up, same for liking posts on insta talking about juicy biceps lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:21 PM
3

Taking out a known dictator in a five-hour operation alongside strategic military targets is quite far from a sustained invasion to take land. I loathe the current administration for plenty of reasons but from my limited understanding of the situation it seems like a good op. Thing is though people who are anti-American are going to see it in a negative light and pro-American people will support it regardless of the positive and negative reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:20 PM
6

Too much money and free time can have that effect. I think there is a balance between having a good job and a nice amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:26 PM
9

Money is big for happiness especially in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:13 PM
–

I sometimes say things about looks but only in context to other things and my comments don't get removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:05 PM
–

No ones is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:34 PM
–

I'd agree with not having outrageous standards but to me both partners should think the other is a 10/10 to them, and I'm not speaking of in terms of looks but the total joy that or value that each partner as a whole should add up to 10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:21 PM
–

Can you give some examples of what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:58 PM
–

Ehh not really, it's just tough to deal with creepy people of both genders. I've had female friends followed by homeless guys while going to church and when they reported it to the cops nothing happened and back in college while hosting I'd have middle-aged women feel up my back in a crowded bar so it's more that trash behavior done towards others is really hard to punish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:57 PM
–

It's bad advice for both genders, people should work on themselves and find a partner who compliments them. In my view for a while not relationship is perfect one where both parties think they got the better deal is one that is healthier than if either or both think they are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:24 PM
–

True, I've had issues with someone before but after wrestling we were drinking together later that same night. Sometimes men just need to let of some tension and then they can be good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:22 PM
–

Never met a single hot guy who did this and I know plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:21 PM
–

Are you employed yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:20 PM
–

Tight shirts typically only work on guys with a good v-taper. Think broad shoulders, minimal waist and a developed back. Also It's winter where I am so covering up is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:19 PM
–

Creepy old guys at the gym are the worst, was in the sauna and this old bald dude was 100% looking at my junk and when I moved from the doorway to a side area he came into the sauna and still looked over. Like I almost reported him but that stuff is so hard to prove. I guess shame on me for only having a towel and not covering up with athletic shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:08 PM
–

Happy new years everyone, may whatever goals you have for romance and friendships be fulfilled this year! Except for the red pillars since I think sleeping around is amoral, everyone else though best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:12 AM
–

Pretty much all her songs are good, I've never been to a concert before but now that I have disposable income I might if it was close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:11 AM
–

I mean you're American so I think it's your 1st amendment right, and for English slang it typically goes black culture then gay culture then straight woman for terms like gagged, slay and so on but there is a lot of crossover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:10 AM
–

I think I have a celebrity crush; this person is like an 11/10 to me https://youtu.be/uxjhN_Donfw?si=WHCvoainHFxjbUwc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:56 PM
–

Dude gay people appropriate the term gagged from black people or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:54 PM
–

Holy moly dude stop it with the self pity trash, women may have it better in dating but that pretty much where their advantage lies. Just go out and make money if you want easy access to women and take a vacation to east Asia if that's what you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:48 PM
–

I don't think there are any chads or Stacie's on here. Maybe some younger people who actively date since I don't think there are a lot of people my age range on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:26 PM
–

Business casual with sunglasses I guess? I honestly don't know the style term let me ask Chat. Here is what Chat says my style is "refined athletic smart-casual — with a strong lean toward modern American casual."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:58 PM
–

Clavicular subreddit is kinda crazy in that many of the guys on there are straight up hot but just have mental issues. If there was ever an argument for blue pill that sub would be it but blackpill at least accounts for being neurodivergent. The question is with so many men being single it would mean I rise in neurodivergent men on a mass scale which I don't think is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:35 PM
1

If what you mean is leaning into the stereotype you most fit I'd agree. It's what I did with the clean cut contractor look and the amount of attractive women into me is at a all-time high.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:29 PM
0

I think the advice of finding your niche and maximizing your attractiveness in that field is actually pretty good and more guys should try it. For example if your short but hairy go for the burly man look and get some nordic tattoos, braid your hair and lift heavy weights, or if your maybe more feminine lean into the metrosexual look and use an eyelash curler and try for the more clean shaven look. Also people need to dress in ways that benefits their body. For me I have a pretty good build from…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:49 PM
2

Perhaps 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:11 PM
2

Go to bed at 8pm. Might plan out next years investments since I’m going to see how much to dump into my Roth IRA tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:52 PM
–

Why the flying funion does my gym have holiday hours for New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day during weekdays? I get my workout in from 0500-0800 so I have time to clean up for work. Now I am sitting in my car for an hour and a half. Anyways how is everyone’s day going so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:59 AM
–

Depends on the body part and what I'm doing with it, basic tasks like walking, typing, and what not is automatic. Things like a bicep curl for the short head I'd be aware of the body part is and how it is moving and feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:32 PM
–

Tis is true I suppose, I'm not conservative but do prefer the non leftist approach as I think smarter individuals have more room for gain under lower taxes and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:56 PM
–

How do people not have it easy? I'd say most people struggle due to their own decisions or lack of foresight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:48 PM
–

I have found out that a lot of men once getting strong from normal gyms, switch to martial arts like MMA, BJJ, and even armored combat. It's crazy going from being one of the biggest guys in a gym to one of like 5 people out of 10 at a practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:33 AM
-1

So I am quite active socially, in the past at school now at work, at the local gym, a little bit in church and have a lot of male friends of all ages and older female friends think 40+ when I say there are more good men than women, what I mean is that their are more good men who want familes then their are good women who want families. There are plenty of good women who don't want families, but the imbalance comes into play when there are plenty of financially stable men who are socially well ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:10 PM
–

Providing food and shelter is the major way for males of most species to reproduce. Even as a man if you're making say 70k a year outside of large cities you can find someone who would want to have kids but they are probably below your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:59 PM
–

Having a hobby is actually pretty enjoyable, now that I have adult money I started doing BJJ and will pick up ballroom dance in the future I think. Issue is between weightlfiting, running, and BJJ I don't think I can add on another physical hobby. Next thing would be getting involved in volunteering, but I'll need to wait until I'm moving less for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:52 PM
–

It's not and I've never had any of my female friends blow up on me in terms of anger. It's quality of friendships as in making, sticking to plans, inviting me to go out vs planning the night. I'll give an easy example that's occurred in the past 7 months. All three of us graduated recently myself, my friend let's say Steve and other friend Samantha. Since graduation Steve has made sure to call when free, go out to dinner and lunches when in state and also go to church together, he also gave me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:18 PM
–

Both, also it's the opposite for me as I was religious up to around 13, took a 12 year break as I figured out college and then once I graduated and started my career have gotten back into my faith. Also from my point of view most men and women who are virgin are celibate by choice either due to religious values or lack of desire. For me if it wasn't for my religious values and only being attracted in the context of a relationship I would sleep around as I have the option to and logically it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:11 PM
–

My stance is women aren't bad it's women in my generation who engage in bad behavior due to the environment letting them. I have plenty of women I respect including family, older women at work, grandparents, community members and such forth. The main issue I have with women in my generation is they are just kinda not enjoyable to be friends with and lower quality compared to male ones and if not for men wanting sex from women most men would not put up with the bad behavior of women. Not saying m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:51 PM
–

I'm pretty good at telling how attractive people are, if you don't want to share pictures of yourself with strangers on the internet the other option is see who gives you signals of interest or hits on you in dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:47 PM
–

Are you a virgin for religious regions and does it bother you or do you value different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:44 PM
2

Yeah all those things are outside of what’s reasonable behavior on a man’s part and some even lean into criminal from my perspective. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:36 PM
0

I think face can be improved by alot of things, good diet for skin quality, white teeth, trimmed beard, if you really want to look good exfoliating and an eye lash curler can help plus things like having a good tan and even working on the muscles of the face by chewing gum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:10 AM
–

Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:11 AM
3

I had a conversation with a female cousin of mine who is pretty emotionally and intelligently smart and one thing I brought up is how men are the ones who are forced to be the ones who escalate when it comes to dates, I'll list multiple examples from my personal life. Quick caveat not all women are the same and many have preferences when it comes to how escalation should work but what I say I think stands for 50+ percent of heterosexual women. The first is that I was told by women that as a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:07 AM
3

Looksmaxxing while I hate the term would probably be the easiest way for below average or average men to gain access to relationships and if wanted casual sex. The gym, clothes, haircut, cologne, and other things can take most average men to good looking even if it takes a long time or some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:50 PM
–

True, I typically go for high end regular brands or low-end luxury since they seem to have the best balance between cost, quality and design.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:42 PM
1

Correct me if I'm wrong, but is porn not against the catholic faith on multiple levels?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:00 PM
1

Many companies are being bought or going bankrupt for many reasons, and others are doing fine and doing the buying. Fact is in a capitalist society merit will be rewarded provided that merit provides a return on investment, again I also said nice people with skills, since there are less well paying jobs than competent people so the competent and nice people will beat out the competent but less nice people as people want to enjoy who they are working with if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:59 PM
1

Buying halfway descent clothes for an outfits is more expensive than I remember. Dropped about $300 on just two pairs of jeans, two polos and a good pair of shoes to wear. On the bright side they should mix and match well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:26 PM
1

CPA' seem to be doing fine, same for nurses, police, lawyers, doctors and so forth. Also most good jobs have multiple qualified people who want them so of course they are going to go to the people who are nicer to work with if there is no difference or a marginal one in skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:24 PM
1

Even if we drafted women most would be unfit due to mental and physical issues, heck the standard US male is so unfit you think his female counterpart stands a better chance. The run and pushups would disqualify most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:03 PM
2

Care to elaborate? All my friends are pretty high performing and knew which careers needed filled or had connections plus skill so they are employed at or above peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:01 PM
1

Huh? That’s interesting I feel like if you’re going to restrict women’s sexuality you should at least be consistent about it. This being said I’m the opposite where I think women can dress as skimpy as they want but shouldn’t sleep around before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:56 PM
4

People get dm’s on here? Only ones I ever got where from that mentally ill guy a while back who thought we were all his ex or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:53 PM
2

Thank you, I’ve accepted just being the career bachelor who has a positive impact elsewhere. Helps that a lot of my role models are single men like Priests and high up military leaders like Mattis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:52 PM
2

In regards to dating or life? Dating 1/10 since I don’t have any hope, career 8/10 since I think I’ll be very high up in the future as long as I perform
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:44 PM
–

Tell me why I had a great run today but only got four and a half hours of sleep, sometimes human bodies annoy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:05 PM
–

I'm going to be in training with other men for special forces for the next 8 months :( I volunteered for it so I'm not complaining but maybe 2027 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:23 PM
–

It's sad, I'll probably have around 100k invested end of 2026 since I don't have a woman to spend money on :( I just started buying my friends lunch and presents since why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:48 PM
6

Makes sense to be, kinda like the closeted gay men in certain religious cultures that end up being miserable to their wives and abandoning their kids because they are living a life they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:45 PM
–

I got this <image> For turning every life decision into a spreadsheet formula and somehow making 4% reinvestment rates sound like a personal philosophy. The 4% is wrong though I typically aim for at least 8%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:32 PM
–

You speak arabic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:24 PM
–

It's not that she didn't like you it's just that you're not her preference. At the end of the day most men or women will have someone who likes them or many people and the other party doesn't like them and it's not a personal judgement but just preference and says nothing about the value of the person being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:23 PM
–

I tend to annoy both incels and feminists so I never know which one is downvoting my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:13 PM
–

I’m a guy who women have only been interested in from a physical standpoint and not wanted to date due to my personality and it’s honestly pretty depressing since at least if you’re unattractive you can say that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:12 AM
–

What truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:00 AM
1

Makes me think of one of my friends irl and how she has a pretty big past at this point and seems to hate men but then hookup with them but then regrets the hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:51 PM
1

I can only speak personally but yes, I think it's a rare occurrence though since the only reason I am in the position to reject them is due to having a now successful career and also have conventionally attractive features. Also, if it weren't due to my values I wouldn't reject these women and then I would no longer be a low-count man as I've given up casual maybe a half dozen to dozen times and that is without seeking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:47 PM
2

Most men are exposed to porn as kids and they don't have the tools or brain development to deal with avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:14 PM
1

For porn I'd say there is also no gay porn but overall I agree with everything you listed as amoral things that we would be better of with without as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:13 PM
1

Valid, there are healthy ways to lose weight while still eating food you enjoy and not doing any restrictive diets if you're interested feel free to send a dm it wouldn't take me long to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:39 PM
1

Damm if I didn't think it was immoral to make out with someone who is intoxicated I'd be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:21 PM
2

I've rewritten this twice and decided to go with a neutral tone. Would you like some tips for weightlifting to build some muscle and weight loss? I've helped multiple people lose significant weight and myself used to be quite fat 280lbs. If you're happy with how you are now that is what matters but fat distribution like that on a man can cause multiple health problems down the line but it's hard to tell from the sweater.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:46 PM
–

That's a rare case in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:42 PM
–

One thing that baffles me is women my age not having investments besides maybe the 5% match they get for their 401k. Many guys I know have investments ranging from 20k to a couple million depending on our ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:24 PM
–

I’m really curious at this point where my personality is going to lead as my competence has steadily increased but so has destructive habits and it’s probably going to end negatively for myself or others within I’d say three years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:03 AM
–

Are you actually daft? I said that in both of my posts but you seem to have the inability to take in information about others and contrast it against yourself, like I'm ending the convo here since I think you may be trolling, have a great weekend miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:26 PM
–

And that's your life, of my male friends the ones who slept around with they have issues with caring about women and one of my close female friends pretty much can't find a man due to her past. I'd even go as far to say as I don't personally know one person in my life who had plenty of casual sex and came out more fulfilled from it than others who didn't, again we can only really make judgements about these things based on our lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:08 PM
–

idk I think there are valid reasons to not want someone who slept around. The biggest for me is it's a sign of the inability to delay gratification similar to the marshmallow test, yes you can sleep around now(single marshmellow) or you can wait and marry someone who you love and mutually desire (two marshmallows). Not a perfect example since sometimes people can do both, also sleeping around is often a negative experience for women so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:55 PM
–

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:47 PM
–

After starting my career I stopped caring about politics outside of how it effects my portfolio and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:45 PM
–

Really easy tip for guys who prefer to play the tradional roles i.e wanting to wine and dine women. Do so only if they have no sexual past otherwise this will pop up. Otherwise this is my opinion so feel free to disagree but if your with someone who has hooked up or done ONS unless they have with you don't pay for the dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:23 PM
–

Because people value how they view themselves? Do you not have any internal thoughts and opinions on yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:03 PM
–

How is your physique social proof? You get self esteem by being good in what you value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:09 PM
–

They have deodorant packets you put in your shoes overnight, I use them quite often as I run and workout a lot so my shoes get smelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:14 PM
–

Career, money, competence, physique, quality mentors and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:13 PM
–

I'd agree, also I think you meant Even if he's not the best, not "He's the best"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:03 AM
2

What if you have no interest in someone from the get-go but find out they have similar values and morals and then develop attraction from there? For me looks aren't enough to warrant asking someone out, so I pretty much only have people that my friends recommend or those who I find have similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:43 PM
–

Unrelated to dating but as a man you should have a pretty big social group for work connections, mentorship, and just general friendship. No college class will tell you this but as a man you need mentorship to succeed both at work and in your personal life. If you don’t have mentors place yourself in a position to be mentored and to do that you need to show drive and be enjoyable to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:31 PM
–

I’m single but relatively happy, I honestly wish more guys could experience only being wanted for say their looks or salary since you’d realize that most female attention is worthless. Same for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:52 PM
–

Viking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:51 PM
–

Oh I don’t want to date them lol, I misunderstood your assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:45 PM
–

Stories like this always amaze me since the man seems so trash here, also I live by the line of not looking for a SO at church but it’s weird when older folks try to set me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:49 PM
–

All of my longterm female friends are less attractive than me and at best tied in terms of careers. That would be against hypergamy correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:45 PM
–

If you have a lethal face card, are extremely funny or a great physique you can still pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:32 PM
–

Brutal, my mom's side of the family is German and pretty much all the women are 5'9 or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:09 PM
–

It depends on social group and class, most of my friends who are in LTRs are happy but that is due to either both partners being high earners or the women being more traditional with a high earning husband. Most people I know who are single are due to by choice since the people they could date they have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:08 PM
–

What ethnicity and height are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:39 PM
–

Date whoever is mutually interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:10 PM
–

Huh? I'm lowkey autistic and even I don't flirt that bad. One thing I do agree with redpill men on is that women have no rizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:34 PM
–

I'd prefer someone who I find attractive but also mutually likes me and is a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:24 AM
–

Can I do the first but without the 10/10? The 2nd already happens so it's kinda irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:44 AM
–

Mansplaining time, you should generally speaking be having glucose in the form of sucralose or fructose before the gym, for Instance with my pre-workout I have it with 240ml of pomegranate juice which is roughly 30+ grams of carbs so I can burn through that for the workout. Than afterwards a protein shake and than a full meal with carbs and protein. If you like you can also have complex or simple carbs the night before and workout fasted if you're doing cardio since then you can use your fat sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:43 AM
–

Most men and women I know don’t really identify with conservative or liberal, and the ones who identity with liberal and make it their personality are low-key chopped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:58 PM
–

Going to be an almond mom I see
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:44 PM
–

What survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:44 PM
–

Delusions of grandeur, pretty sure this is an escape mechanism but I’m not psychohistory and don’t care to google something I know nothing about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:34 PM
–

Kinda same but I like my body to use for my career and physical competitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:13 PM
2

Gridrexx, Mrs_degree, lift and lurk and heck throw in Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:04 AM
1

I miss the one lawyer who was into morbidly obese woman, think he was possum or something. Him and the BMI guy would get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:58 PM
1

Nah I want the shortcut, wisdom 101 straight to my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:13 PM
1

What have you tried? I only know a couple women my age 25 who are single and they are all by choice and pursuing careers such as law school, medical or aviation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:31 PM
3

I cook for my brother, mom, friends, bake and whatnot. Anytime people try to play these weird games it's just a turnoff. Do what you want and enjoy with whoever you're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:11 PM
2

I wish I could learn from my mistakes without actually having to make them, especially if they involve inadvertently harming others or negatively effecting my own mental state. Don't get me wrong I have learned from the mistakes of others whether that is through mentorship, reading or just observation but certain lessons seemed to have to be learned by personal experience. To provide some clarity this is not about romantic relations but actually me must learning that sometimes information cannot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:05 PM
1

Weirdly enough the size and bf% is from athletic training, runs, combatives, compound lifts, weighted runs. I used to have the bodybuilder look but it’s slowly gone away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:44 PM
1

I am bluepill when it comes to that, also volcel due to religious reasons and being very close to asexual. Not often but I have turned down casual encounters about half a dozen times in the past 6 years (mostly past 2). Also, I think I am one of the few who doesn't complain about how women date here and dislike both red pill and just general hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:56 AM
1

This one is close, I am 231 and 6'3 so I win out in total mass, but your abs and v-taper are better. Vascularity is close but I'd say I slightly win or it's about the same. Overall, a super solid physique and top 1% for sure bro! Only major critqiue is you good use some more chest mass but I've always liked the look Arnold talked about where he imagined his pecs like armor and tried to build them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:53 AM
1

Damm why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:29 AM
1

25, I have a slightly older face due to military training and genetics but I'm not too worried since I have 5 brothers and they roughly have the same face in their 30s and 40s that they had in their 20s so it seems like it's just family genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:10 AM
1

I just posted I think his v-taper and lower abs are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:49 AM
1

Good V-taper but could use a little bit more mass on the chest. Still better than 99% of men. I'd say I have you beat on vascularity and size but I am also flexing in this photo and your relaxed. My lower abs are trash though due to fat storage and slight loose skin from years ago. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:29 AM
1

Then post body, also not joining the discord.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:52 AM
1

My way of passing the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:20 AM
1

Post body and have face blacked out or entire head. Unless you have tats I guess though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:20 AM
1

Then you admit defeat?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:20 AM
1

EE stands for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:19 AM
1

Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:05 AM
1

I am going to make the claim that I am the most ripped PPD male barring those who are on steroids, if you disagree post body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:05 AM
1

For most American's low carb can work since they are so fat but most high performing athletes eat a crazy amount of carbs and even sweets aren't off the table, ever seen the NBA players eating a whole bag of gummy bears?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:59 PM
1

That actually makes sense as the only times I am clearheaded are long runs or when I am food deprived. I do enjoy not thinking though which is nice as I probably score towards the extreme in of neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:32 PM
2

Food before bed is also something I don't like plus if you're busy during the day and not carful it's really easy to lose weight with an active lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:16 PM
0

I know I just didn't find it funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:15 PM
0

I using 10 as in 10/10 on the looks scale not in feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:48 PM
1

Like reading it made me feel bad for both the women and him in the situation, more bad for the women but casual sex can definitely mess with men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:42 PM
1

I'm at the point where I kind of hate eating, between weightlifting, running and bjj training I need to eat upwards of 4,000 calories a day with around 240 grams of protein and it's more of a chore than working out is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:34 PM
2

Better one lined up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:33 PM
2

Athletic women typically have more of an ass than tits and I value hard work so ass>boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:35 PM
3

Do you enjoy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:29 PM
1

Would you be willing to date long distance while I get to do cool military things for like three years before switching to making PowerPoints for the rest of my life? Also what culture and language would I be getting arranged married into?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:24 PM
2

I actually think people should fine someone who they think is a 10 or the best they can do and then wife them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:18 PM
1

Only if it's within the confines of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:18 PM
1

How old are you and what's your athletic background? Wrestling helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:17 PM
1

Just started so I don't know but I've had no issues so far. That being said I have a athletic background and have been consistently working out for 10+ years and am somewhat in the prime of my physical fitness. The older guy's 30+ seems to sometimes have injuries but most people do if they don't eat well and take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:03 PM
2

The classic root bear is gas, if you have the disposable income and want the taste of soda they are a good alternative, just get them in bulk at Costco though since individually they are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:07 PM
1

Nothing ever happens don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:00 PM
2

Got choked out multiple times at Bjj this morning so my throat is sore but learned a lot so pretty good, hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:58 PM
1

The Christmas themed olipops are so bad omg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:52 PM
–

I will say PPD users are quite good on making fun of both unemployed men and women so that’s something the men and women here can agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:19 AM
–

More reason to hate the French
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:46 AM
–

Small % of billions is still millions of criminals, I'm not against the premise that women have it easier in dating and thus act in unsavory ways, but I also don't stress about if I'm out with some friends and walk across a group of women if they're going to try and square up versus men I'm more on guard with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:45 AM
–

Just don't date women with any sexual history and pay for the dates. Perfect solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:56 PM
–

Don't know if this is true but I've heard german, american and british guys do this often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:49 PM
–

I know two men who these happened to lol, but more like they were married and one day the women just up and cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:43 PM
1

What ways have your father and uncles found?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:11 PM
–

I’m a man who’s worked with law enforcement and adjacent agencies and men are way worse than women if only due to the fact of their hormonal makeup making them more likely to commit crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:36 PM
–

Pretty sure it is average size
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:34 PM
–

I did not know I can't share videos so here is a snippet <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:30 PM
–

No I'll share a video but not sharing my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:25 PM
–

No but my biceps potentially could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:20 PM
–

2 upvotes and I'll do a forearm reveal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:07 PM
–

I forget if it was this subreddit or another one but the people who are going to be the ones most likely to post in response to comments like the original are the ones who are more attractive than the average user.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:09 PM
–

Ehh, I think I'm a decent judge of character and also try to be pretty mindful of who I roll with but each to their own. Your lived experiences dictate your worldview and an online stranger won't be able to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:00 PM
–

I think it depends on where you are looking and the type of men you have access to. In my field there is a lot of high earning men who also come from good moral backgrounds so as long as you're also a moral woman it's not too hard to find a good man to commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:41 PM
–

So educated women when given the opportunity choose to be stay at home moms potentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:35 PM
–

All the world's a stage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:58 PM
–

What a weird way of thinking, "Other people are mentally damaged due to their lived experiences so I should do them same to myself so I'm as damaged as them."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:05 PM
–

Not all lawyers are chads, in fact it kinda seems to be a coin toss if they are competent hardworking men or argumentative boys with an ego much too big for their suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:01 PM
–

I'm fine with long distance if the other person would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:46 PM
–

I'm so annoyed, accidently caught feelings but I'm about to go out of state forever so it would be a terrible time to try to start a relationship. On the bright side I should have some great runs these next couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 09:19 PM
–

White lol, I tried that first time I ever rolled and got choked out by a girl probably 70 lbs lighter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:51 PM
–

I think my muscle mass lets me wrestle roughly one belt up in Bjj, for instance if I had the skill of a blue belt, I think I would have about a 50/50 chance of beating an average fitness purple belt but maybe that is me being too optimistic since I have not competed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:32 PM
–

Being single and a high earner at any age it nice, many men are peter pans for a reason and it's that they can get most if not everything they want while single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:50 PM
–

Who is Nautical chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:20 AM
–

What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:01 AM
0

I've approached women in the past and will probably do so in the future once my career settles a bit but have not done so for the past 9 months and the biggest reason is just lack of interest and bad ROI in my eyes. I'm traditional when it comes to dating and every women, I've taken on dates so far I found I was incompatible with so unless a friend recommended someone to me or it's a mutual friend that I already know I have no desire to approach women. Also I've only found maybe a dozen women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:54 PM
–

Good for my stock then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:40 PM
–

Greatest goal would be to be a father and husband but secondary which is now what I am pursing would become a general officer or special forces commander. Lotta little goals as well like marathons, purple belt in multi-millionaire and be a multi millionaire(10+ million net worth) by 65.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:16 PM
–

I don't think people need to be medically castrated for this to happen, truth is besides a couple incels online a good portion of guys already dropped out of the dating game and don't talk about it same as many women have dropped out and found other avenues for fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:54 PM
–

That's a super bad look for him, at least in the military if you use you official aids to do personal business it can be an instant career ender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:53 PM
–

I love animals but I'm active-duty military and am about to be in at least 4 different states and potentially overseas in 2026 so I can't, otherwise I would since I have a pet cat that is with my mother now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:11 PM
–

Ehh I keep myself busy as in I have hobbies and friends, but I've progressively had to seek either more difficult challenges or engaged in more risk-taking activities. Like when I was 12 or 13 I had skyrim and that could keep me happy for summer break alongside football practice. Now that I am 25 I'm needing things like 3 hours of weightlifitng/running/bjj or another sport 6 days a week just to sleep at night and this is alongside wanting to go out at least twice a month with friends for things …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:58 PM
–

What supplements does everyone take? Here is mine Vitamin D supplement in the morning with water Prelockout Bucked High stim, and I have it with pomegranate juice Creatine 5 grams, lions mane mushroom 1 gram Ashwagandha 3,500 mg Fish oil and magnesium Just started Boron Glycinate today and will see how that works out in two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:52 PM
–

I'm fine with taking a bullet at this point, better than 60+ years of boredom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:48 PM
–

I find Competent women super-hot but they all just want to focus on their careers instead of having a family, like I guess it's fine since I'll just go jump out of planes and topple some foreign governments, but I'd rather have a family tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:34 PM
3

One of my close friends just landed a defense contractor job, make 90k for entry level and he’ll be out earning me probably most of our careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:39 PM
–

gross
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:41 PM
–

Physical fitness level(one mile time, resting heart rate), Salary, Social class of parents (what jobs and money they make), sports you may have done, state/world location (NYC is harder for women for instance)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:39 PM
–

It's been like that for a while for me, even seem to be doing pretty well but if it's not a game you enjoy what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:35 PM
–

Nah I go to a college gym and all the athletes are literally working out in tights and sports bras, like I'm just trying to do my workout bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:32 PM
–

Unless you plan to marry her N-count doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:31 PM
–

I take some natural supplements plus eat right and it boosts test, which is great for gym, recovery and running but is annoying in terms of libido being high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:06 PM
–

If the fitness influencer stuff annoys you that's fair, but from a networking and friendship perspective the gym has been pretty great for me. Also have gotten good part time jobs or helped others get jobs through connections I've made at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:54 PM
–

I've never heard of a guy doing this, the greatest extent is rejection lifts or breakup lifts which is probably a healthier way of dealing with something than what other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:53 PM
–

If they wanted me to I would but I'm probably not going to go out of the way to move them to the inside if they started walking on the outside. I'm completely neutral on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:28 PM
2

So I treat my female friends same as my male friends and this actually ends up with me pruning most female friends since they are worse when it comes to things such as not canceling plans, inviting me out for events, giving gifts/covering lunch(most of my male friends and myself typically go back and forth for paying for lunch or just getting eachother gifts or drinks but women don’t reciprocate hence they don’t get gifts). In all seriousness one thing I don’t do to my female friends is be super…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:26 PM
–

I'd say for me it's whether or not they're marriage material as in I don't put in effort into women if I determine they aren't. For my friend group I'd say most make similar efforts towards their significant others/spouses and they all range in attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:31 PM
–

I can't help but feel like a lot of complaints men and women have about dating roughly translate into them not being happy with their place in the marketplace per say. First example men want casual sex from women (low supply) while offering very little if they are the average guy since their looks, wealth or personality without a significant outlier aren't enough for the women to want to be with them. The second example ties in with example one and I'll use a real-life example. One of my best fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:26 PM
–

I mean use it as an opportunity to assume more power and skills in a way that makes your job more valuable and harder to fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:05 PM
–

One of my friends met his wife on bumble but it was also on a college campus with a good gender ration and pre-covid. I think we can confidently say that in 2025 dating apps are pretty much a wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:52 PM
–

I don't think women are gold diggers or they are bad at it. I know plenty of guys who make top 10% income and are on their way to be multimillionaires or have mid to high 6 figure jobs or will soon and they generally don't seem to be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:02 AM
–

Remind me of a friend who got on the mike Mentzer train and ended up turning into jack skeleton. For maintaining it might be good but Mike was also on gear
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:01 AM
–

Ehh, unless you have terrible genetics getting ripped helps with face, body, how you carry yourself and a lot which does translate to dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:31 AM
1

I'm not going to but I think an argument could be made that the reasons no one cares deeply about those three issues besides those who have been affected or know someone affected are that they disproportionately harm men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:03 PM
–

I just prune as needed, I still have a lot of long term acquaintances and sometimes those people shift into friends as our paths align and others fall out due to shifting values and priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:59 AM
-2

No, Humanae Vitae (July 25, 1968)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:41 PM
–

Damm sorry to hear that, if someone I'm responsible for tries to spend the holidays alone either thanksgiving or Christmas I'd literally bring them to my families.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:18 PM
–

Remember reading something a while back about how some south American country had its male population decimated due to multiple factors and it pretty much led to men being the ones being pursued or at least having a lot easier time dating and I could see that playing out in Russia at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:12 PM
0

People who want to have kids will and the ones who don't won't. It will balance out and the people who lean towards having kids will pass those traits and behaviors on. Only issue is that one of those traits seems to be lower IQ on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:34 PM
1

Maybe in 40 years I'll be like that, I plan on being the boring invest $30,000 a year and retire a multimillionaire wealthy instead of the business owner wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:39 PM
1

Everything, Turkey, Smoked Turkey, Rolls, Potatoes, Green bean casserole, at least three types of pies, more turkey and plenty of cookies as well. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:35 PM
1

I have a weird lull in my work until about February of next year, so I've been here a lot recently to pass the time but you're on even more than me I feel like is all haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:34 PM
1

Are you retired?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:07 PM
1

Not all are but I have pretty high standards all around and at the end of the day not being ran through is only one alongside say being compassionate, intelligence and of course having an interest in me and also being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:34 PM
1

This shits kinda getting annoying day after day, just don’t marry a girl with a history and this is a non issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:28 PM
1

Yes but counterargument by and large they’ve failed in the education and raising families category since in the US at least we have an uneducated mass and single mothers have terrribke outcomes for their children as I’m sure you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:11 PM
1

25, and yes but not much due to not having the disposable income or time. Unlike many of the women here I did not come from an upper middle class/upper class background so I could not freely take women out as I can now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:10 AM
3

Yeah but I played my cards right so I'm good. Same for most of my family. College not providing an easy path into a high paying career has been a trend we could see half a decade ago and those who failed to react in time I don't have much sympathy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:57 PM
3

Ehh you just take advantage of the capitalistic system to protect your investments like the wealthy class do and if you decide you can leverage your wealth for dating or just spend it on yourself and family like I plan to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:57 PM
2

I agree, I don't date anymore and have a fair amount of good male friends and only one good female friend as women due to my life experiences are worse friends on average, so they get cut out. I'm sure you know this but on a societal level women still rely on men for public aid and defense but I don't use that as an argument for any dating reasons just stating a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:48 PM
7

I just finished the initial grind per say and know have a pretty good career job and the grind was worth it in terms of the connections I now have, quality friendships and income of course. The biggest gripe that I had was no one ever invested in me while I was still a student even though you could literally look at my post grad expected income. Now I am extremely grateful for the position I am in but the women who I have to choose from I just have no interest in, they are attractive career driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:21 PM
6

Pretty sure this is a bad faith post, but I'll respond anyway. Men need women in general in order to have a family also romantic fulfillment. Most other areas of life's needs such as food, shelter, friendship can all be achieved by a man on his own and a women is either not needed or a detriment in many of those areas (food and shelter translates to money) but most men either want two things from women. Companionship which includes friendship and physical connection and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:11 PM
–

Damm I feel like that's crazy long for a cold, I started to get one Saturday. Took Sunday as a rest day and have just been chugging orange juice and and will be about 100% by Thursday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:56 PM
–

Getting comments while working is always weird, in my experience it has mostly always been gay men and older wealthy women but in my new job while doing events it's been young women as in not the kind you want attention from and those are always awkward experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:21 PM
–

Why not sweets instead and you can just say oh I was baking and made some extra for my friends to try
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:01 AM
–

Family, friends, god
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:36 PM
–

Don't be a stressor in his life and be someone he enjoys seeing whenever you meet him, in short if your generally just a nice person. I've noticed multiple of my high achieving male friends (nothing crazy but top earners or at least top 20% for state) married women who are just generally nice individuals. Also being good looking helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:18 PM
–

Good, can't wait for tomorrow when I can workout. How has your day been?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:45 PM
–

Yes, personal and religious values being the main reason why and also that I've turned down casual sex/sex outside of marriage in the past and don't plan on suddenly changing my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:43 PM
–

I mean college at this point for alot of people actually has a negative ROI so it might not be good for men if programs to get them in are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:38 PM
–

It would not bother me at all as you are a stranger and the internet and I already knew I needed to take a rest day but I find them boring hence what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:19 PM
2

I promised god I’d take a rest day tomorrow as it’s been at least 10 days without one but left in that I can do cardio so I’m debating how far to run tomorrow. At least 4 but no more than 10 miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:45 AM
–

I hope you never end up married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:46 PM
–

Maybe once she loses enough weight the healthy bmi guy will date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:44 PM
2

I mean I'm good, I understand the system pretty well and things like sports gambling benefit me since I'm pretty invested in the market for my age, but looking out for others when it doesn't personally benefit ourselves is something that we used to value as a society, but I suppose not anymore. Similar to public healthcare being good for society but I already have good coverage or school lunch's and breakfasts being free for kids even if I'd make the lunches myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:46 PM
4

Eh there is a direct link between the legalization of online sports gambling and bankruptcy and debt amongst young men but very little action seems to be directed to address it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:36 PM
–

Terrible advice, best way to know your attractive is to marry someone who you have shared values with and you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:14 PM
0

Valid I suppose, read through more of the post and it seems pretty consistent and guess my conclusion from this is as long as it's consensually and legal men should do what they want since women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:05 PM
1

Oh I just wanted to have a conversation as it's a debate post and I think the topic is interesting. Have a good day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:57 PM
–

I'm getting tinder ads for some reason and it seems to have slightly mid women matching with above average men and I just find it funny which is all since it seems to be setting them up to have negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:52 PM
-2

I can understand your perspective but I'm going to present my personal experience with age gap relationships where the man is older. So, for this case I'll be speaking from a personal basis. From 18-25 I have had pretty consistent values when it comes to being family-oriented, career focused and helping others in my personal life. The biggest difference is I know have a well-paying career and am more attractive look-wise. Honestly it would have been preferred for me to be married or at least eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:48 PM
–

What type of dancing should I learn? I’ve always been interested in ballroom as it seems more pattern based which suits my strengths and I finally have gained some athleticism over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:04 PM
–

I would honestly change the title to murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:22 AM
5

Yeah thing is once you realize this as a man that women can't really process your worries or care to as a man it makes things a lot simpler since you don't have to worry about expressing any concerns to them. Like if you want to be in a relationship, it's quite simple be competent and have solid control of your emotions and as long as you don't care too much about the longevity of the relationship or if the person, you're with would be a good parent you're going to do fine in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:45 AM
–

So I'm gen z and to be honest I think both the men and women are pretty smart in my generation, but this leads to a zero sum game. Women take the action of having sex with men above their league which they are free to do so but the logical response from men is to either try and become the ones women hook up with which is not the type of guy which is good for long term relationships or dropping out since if you date someone who hooked up but made you wait that' a pretty bad deal from the man's pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:30 AM
–

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:51 PM
2

I’d like to have a family in the future since I think I’d enjoy being a father and husband but it’s no longer a necessity as I have other things in life I derive value from. I do believe in marriage as something that god gave us to limit human suffering and chaos but it oftentimes doesn’t work since we don’t follow his guidance in other areas. In terms of dating the goal would be marriage but I no longer actively date as I never enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:27 AM
1

Both are pretty solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:22 PM
2

About half of the women, I've been in talking stages with I've learned have done similar behavior and I stopped going on dates with them as soon as I learned. One of the many reasons I mostly stopped dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:53 PM
1

I don't use dating apps but IRL I have always been able to go on dates with women significantly more attractive than any I would ever match with. I would also swipe left on pretty much 19/20 women, so I just stopped using the apps due to a combination of personality issues I found in their profiles and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:38 PM
–

Does anyone actually care about age gap relationships outside the internet? My dad was 10 years older than my mom and that's always been a consistent trend in my older family members and while my current generation seems to talk negative about it online I've seen plenty of women when I was in college and now outside date guys up to a decade older. Also not poor women dating 50 year old sugar daddies but women from stable families who have good careers lined up dating mid to late 20s guys who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:59 AM
1

Women do have a mental developmental advantage compared to men from early teens through early 20s and it balances out or maybe even tilts towards men's favor around 25. This is seen by test scores, valedictorian rates and even in physical traits where young girls are actually faster than young boys for a short period. I don't know if it's the maturity as you use it but the brain development start time and speed of development is different which is why educators have put forth ideas of red shirti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:13 AM
3

Bro you'd be praying to the devil then not god
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:05 AM
4

Almost thought about dating again but realized I just needed to pet a dog for a bit, thank god for animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:52 PM
–

Might be the winner, what do you work as? I am assuming you own a farm but that's a shot in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:07 PM
–

Damm we got an odd bunch of us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:05 PM
–

around 8pm but sometimes earlier, rarely later. That is if I am control of when I sleep though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:55 PM
–

So we're tied for first then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:44 PM
–

Anyone here wake up earlier than me? I typically wake up around 4am but sometimes earlier like 3am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:36 PM
1

It's annoying in how I'll miss out on some investment contributions which is annoying but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:39 PM
4

Damm, sub died died.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:37 PM
1

It’s just started but after working an event going to hit a good lift then do some chores and probably finish watching boots on Netflix. How has yours been so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:35 PM
1

Sound like a story from the old testament to be honest, B, but A is a close contender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:15 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:14 AM
–

Yeah because people will drink, smoke, waste money, have kids when not ready and many others reasons. Success in life is not some random thing that happens it’s typically predated by years if not decades of positive decisions made both others or oneself. It’s also not fair. If I ever have kids I’ll make sure they are situated in a more advantageous position than others. Learn to play the game better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:32 PM
–

I mean yeah, wealth is correlated with iq. Not smart? Work more hours then and don't have vices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:47 PM
–

Skill issue tbh, not hard to be successful if your smart and hardworking in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:09 PM
–

Yes this is pretty much exactly what I'm talking about. Both of them dealt with the breakup in negative ways. My male friend started a new long term relationship instantly with processing anything which is what he was taught and is good at, and his new relationship was/is with a great women who he I believe he likes the idea of more than who she was and my female friend used men who didn't really care about her for short term validation. Both of them cooked themselves in their own way and honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:44 PM
–

I like work but if there's nothing I haven't gotten done I don't think about it so it's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:37 PM
–

No go for a walk and chew some gum instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:18 PM
–

Having really close female friends has really made me more sympathetic towards women but also less attracted. For one of my best friends her long term ex broke up with her since she didn't want kids, and he knew he wanted to be a family men and that's kinda valid. But he now has issues with his current girl since he has a pretty amazing career opportunity that he will most likely have to sacrifice his current relationship for. I don't blame him since he is also one of my best friends and in our …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:10 PM
–

2nd is a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:59 PM
–

I don't mind I got a stable job for at least the next decade, so a crash benefits me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:58 PM
–

Do you work in a stressful job?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:51 PM
–

German guy who lived in Thailand? I'm super suspect of western men who go abroad unless it's for business since I've done internships in the past and a lot of criminal men like to do illegal things there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:51 PM
–

I thought I was working tommorow but learned I wasen't and was kinda annoyed since I didn't make any plans but one of my close friends is also just chilling for the night which made me feel better. Also pretty sleep deprived so might head to bed here at 7pm and then wake up around 3am to run
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:11 PM
–

How'd you start? I am defiantly leaning towards beginning to be a binge drinker as I pretty much hate life outside of work and whenever I get with friends I feel like I need to have long night to make up for not going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:06 PM
–

It's not that they don't know it's that as the man in this case it would be your responsibility to drive the conversation and spark interest. I don't use dating apps for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:04 PM
–

Does this bring back memories for anyone Liberty`s Kids: Opening Theme Song
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:15 PM
–

I'll be moving every three years or less for the rest of my life (active duty military officer) unfortunately I love work and have all the early markers of having a successful career and being a workaholic runs in my family (dad and closet brother). Money will be nice though, so I'll be able to fly to visit friends when I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:14 PM
–

I've been out with my friends multiple times this week, the issue is one is about to move out of state, and I'll also be moving out of state in a couple months as well. Like I can make new friends but it's kinda depressing making connections with people every couple years and then them fading. I understand it's just part of life and I'll probably get over it but for now it kinda sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:07 PM
–

Is it bad that as soon as I get off work I get depressed? Like I make good money but as soon as I finish gym/run and then work I hate having the evening free. Would be great if I could work 10 hours everyday but sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:59 PM
–

The general population is so physically unfit it's actually insane. Due to my career and hobbies most of my friends and peers are physically active but I was doing an event on a college campus recently and the young lads and gals were so out of shape it was quite embarrassing frankly. Even the sorority girls and frat guys seem to be pudgy but then it was also interesting since for the few people who were fit, they leaned towards looking like they had advanced physiques. I do think about how if e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:19 AM
3

Member back when PPD would have 1k to 2k daily thread comments? I member. Kinda meta here but I think the reason this place has mostly died down is most people have pretty much solidified their views and what decisions they will make based off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:47 AM
1

Grades don't matter overly much once you get to the real-world bar medicine/engineering (only product level not management)/ and a couple other fields where it requires a certain level of intelligence. Most of the wealthy people I know or ones who have wealthy parents have connections and know how to talk to others well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:10 AM
1

I don't really care for politics too much, my wealth will increase more under republicans so if I did vote it would be for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:54 AM
–

Having abs and being lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:14 PM
1

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:24 PM
2

The dating one they hated men and was mostly certain people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:24 PM
–

Have your tried though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:24 PM
–

Have a yearly salary of over 100k, pass ranger school, get made a godfather of at least one of my friend groups kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:07 PM
–

What led you to have this belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:46 PM
–

I never did waves but used to be pretty depressed about most likely never having a family, however once I realized money is pretty nice my desire for a relationship has pretty much faded. Like it's hard to be sad with a old fashioned in hand, cheeseburger in the other and the game on at your favorite local spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:21 PM
–

Is it really training if it ain't raining?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:19 PM
–

I went to a commuter college, and it worked out in terms of education, professional friend group and career. Most of the friends I ended up making were from the campus or local partner gym. Also from what I found out unless its a major state school most of the people who go to parties are kind of losers, as in they drop out after 2 semesters and then have a lot of college debt on top of a low end job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:47 PM
2

What the heck is everyone's obsession with average, every person has different values and what one finds outstanding another may find mediocre. What matters is finding someone who finds what you bring to the table outstanding and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:32 PM
1

1st, also I'm 90% sure my hair stylist today was autistic. Very good haircut but she took about an hour and kept on touching my face and head and not in the wiping hair off kind of way. Also, I've had probably dozens of haircuts at this place and never once did they take this long or touch me so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:24 PM
0

Build shoulders then for a v-taper
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:23 PM
8

<image> I'd honestly say this is one of my worse photos as the lighting, tan, and shaving are all meh here. But myself and multiple of my friends are at or around this bodyfat and none of us do gear. Just consistent lifting/cardio while working or as med or law students.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:57 PM
3

No you don’t, myself and plenty others maintain abs or bf% from 7-15% year round. It’s basic science and discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:06 PM
1

Have a beach photo then, run outside shirtless, go to a pool party. There are methods to show off the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:41 PM
3

Then they can lose the weight to get to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:40 PM
–

Redditors are so pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:16 PM
–

Try to get addicted to the gym or running
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:05 AM
–

I've never watched that show but my brother had to show me that clip and I honestly thought of so many men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:05 AM
14

If your an average man 5'6-5'11, working out to the point of noticeable abs, v-taper, and good vascularity will make you look better. Same for a hairstyle and type that fits your face, and other things. Heck I even have looked at male models videos and they recommend good tips like using an eyelash curler or a basic exfoliating routine all things that are pretty basic, also smell is a large one and well the cologne brand doesn't matter smelling nice does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:02 AM
–

Time for a part time job, I'd recommend officiating sports, being a server(look at steakhouses or higher end dining) or bartending best time per hour for college students from what I found.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:05 PM
–

Go about my day lol, I go to a gym with a lot of athletes and students so at least in terms of looks I probably see hundreds of attractive women a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:16 AM
1

What we would need is to have the percentages for those who answered that and tie it to their previous number of partners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:14 AM
–

I don’t know I’m not a scientist, also don’t really care enough about this topic to argue it ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:55 PM
–

It’s pretty much impossible to separate environmental factors from genetic ones. I’d be curious if any twin studies on homosexuality should be done. I kinda also have your view if people grow up in a stable environment and aren’t groomed they’ll probably end up straight, also if no chemicals or other things ng a effect their natural hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:09 AM
2

Weird, make sure you stretch before you work out, maybe foam roll and also are hydrated and have some carbs in you. Random muscle tweaks do happen though, so is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:33 AM
3

Men are just evil
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:31 AM
2

Yeah I can’t give a certain number but many people are only religious due to social pressures and don’t take it seriously. Was it an ex husband or boyfriend since depending on most abrahamic faiths if he was sleeping around before marriage he was already probably a light believer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:30 AM
2

I’d rather have a family than political power/financial power but I guess the ladder is better the neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:22 AM
2

Hip thrust or glute kickbacks or another lift that injured it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:21 AM
1

I’m in a career that pretty much forced me to learn people skills and also just chat with pretty much everyone I meet. I used to keep a list of names in my gym notebook of everyone I would meet and talk to but at around 50+ I learned I had to stop being so social since you can only have so many quality friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:13 AM
1

I know multiple men who gun collections ranging from 20k-600k that and nice cars. Men make multiple large purchases and women make many small purchases when it comes to consumer behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:12 AM
3

Nah I just reread some texts and decided I’m good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:06 AM
1

The person I’m talking about who wanted to sleep around but couldn’t was after the relationship ended if I wasn’t clear which is my error. I know a lot of different people and for my current friend group most are married or in ltr’s and have not cheated. Also you can be friends with people and still disagree with their decisions such as my best home girl who is a little bit a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:45 AM
3

Going out to a nicer restaurant with about 10-13 friends of mine to celebrate me starting my career job. Might get intoxicated and message my friend who I’ve gotten turned down by and still have feelings for but haven’t decided yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:59 AM
4

Might make a post on this but I think I found out why I dislike most of the men on here. I was talking to an acquaintance of mine at the gym at we got to the topic of his dating life as he had a long term girlfriend for a couple years and long story short he wasn’t looking for any new relationship but was just wanting to hookup but failing. And this got me thinking pretty much every man I’ve met in my life bar maybe 2 would hook up with plenty of women if they had the opportunity so when they co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:46 PM
–

I’d say for settling is when the pros of the relationship badly outweigh the cons, or say outside pressure is a major motivator of the relationship such as financial or social.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:00 AM
–

Third date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:11 AM
–

I’m not saying men and women should expect their partner to be 100% what they want but I think if the settling is too great it’s an overall negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:11 AM
–

Would it not make people unhappy in the long run though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:10 AM
–

Is settling really something people should be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:24 AM
–

For high school no they track attendance. In college if I could do the work on my own there are multiple courses I skipped either half or more of but I had overall a 3.9 undergrad and 3.9 grad GPA and that’s just because the time to get a 4.0 vs 3.9 is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:15 AM
–

I don’t mind cooking, however there will be multiple periods in my career where I’d either be away from my family or be working 12 hour days and I want my kids to have the same nutritious meals I did growing up so my wife would also have to be able to cook to a high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:12 AM
–

Is there any benefits to skyr vs normal Greek yogurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:03 AM
–

What specific policies that are in the democratic platform do you not support?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:32 AM
1

Not trying to, just been seeing a lot on how bad the economy is but it seems good from my perspective. Most people who I know are employed or about to be employed and while the salaries are pretty low at the federal level but good at the state. Also a lot of people I know decided to live with family instead of rent which has allowed them to have money for a down payment, investments or other ways of being stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:55 PM
1

Makes sense I have heard that tariffs have done a number of American businesses and especially small ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:53 PM
1

Not trying to just like to test the waters sometimes to see how different people are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:52 PM
2

Just doing a vibe check but who here 21-29 has a full time career job after graduation that makes at least median income for their state? Me and my friends all seem to have lucked out and got good jobs but I keep hearing talks of a recession and I want to see if there’s anything to it. Also please respond if you do have a good job or don’t since I don’t want only people who siding get one to chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:42 AM
1

Yeah a lot of young women don’t understand that men will sleep with someone they have no intention of dating. Guys in the wrong here but what you said about women not making it easy for guys would be good if they just were consistent in their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:53 AM
1

Two protein shakes with fairlife milk, a home run meat lovers pizza, turkey slices and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 02:11 AM
–

Honestly maybe you should avoid this subreddit or maybe Reddit and other social media in its entirety. I used to have more negative opinions about women until I touched grass for a couple years and while I do lean more towards the idea that women are very rational and cutthroat when it comes to dating my conclusion is that men would be the same if not worse if given the chance which has helped me not dislike women. I’d even go as far to say they my dislike for men is much greater than my dislike…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:00 PM
–

Yeah that’s super weird and probably falls under harassment, any other reasons why you seem to dislike men as a whole or is it just men on this subreddit that you don’t like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:45 PM
–

Can you give me some examples? When it comes to convicted crime such as rape lower class men commit a disproportionate amount but you could argue that upper class men are better and not getting convicted. Like I believe everything you’re saying just I think there is nuance to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:58 PM
–

I do feel sorry for you, sounds like you got dealt a bad hand. Not surprised by the male relative part as they’re the most likely to abuse daughters/nieces but the male bullying threw me off at it’s often male on male bullying and female on female. Also confused about the adult objectification/assault. Do you come from a lower income background? My guess is there is a disconnect between your lived experiences and the men here in terms of social background. Since in my sphere middle-upper middle …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:52 PM
–

Yeah it’s not fun, there were 5 Catholics in my program besides me and 3 are married, another will probably be married in 1 year and then there’s me left and another woman but you kinda start questioning if it’s worth it since I’m 25 and genuinely wondering if I’ll end up a priest which I hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:03 AM
–

Plenty of hardworking men out there, just hard to find since they’re at work haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:10 AM
–

Catholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:59 AM
–

I’m the opposite I think part of being a man is the will to power and then possessing the values to make the right choices with it. The issue is people with good values give up power those who would use it for their own personal gain will swoop in and take control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:58 AM
–

How much were those guys making, my brother never went to college but is in the top 10% earners for our state so thats kinda a nonfactor?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:55 AM
–

The Vikings pretty much turned into the nobility of a lot of England, France, and Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:50 AM
–

Not really true, if your skinny but besides that average upper class guys are going to expect a lot more in terms of being a partner than just not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:47 AM
–

The world moves along, all in all we’re still in an era of economic prosperity and scientific advancement. If your smart and hardworking you’ll probably succeed as long as your not overly unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:40 AM
–

Are you from a western country?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:08 AM
–

Depends on age range and how good looking a guy is. Just from my anecdotal experience I’ve gotten a lot more attention from women aged 18-25 now that I’m 25 than when I was 18 and a lot of that can probably be contributed into me coming into my physique more and also nicer clothes and food from having a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:22 AM
–

If you don’t have it yet money, after that get good food and shelter, and after that quality friends. Then pick some things you value like volunteering, religion, and focus on those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:18 AM
–

If a man has good morals, is attractive and has a good job he’s going to have many women interested in him. Your just rewording pre-selection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:16 AM
–

Extremely, I know their are diminishing returns but in terms of happiness; more money, more prestige/power, and good looks are all things I’ve improved upon over time and have made my life significantly better. It helps that they are typically tied together as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:28 AM
1

No use listing them out. But my standards are insanely high, I’m pretty much a suit personality wise and a perfectionist so I’ve worked on myself to the point where I pretty much expect a female version of myself which I don’t exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:29 PM
0

I’m fairly religious and would only date someone who shares my beliefs which cancels out most of the world. I will be living overseas for about a year though in the next three years which will be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:27 AM
2

I think I’m cooked chat. I just got my real job that I’ll be starting soon so in terms of career, finances and looks I’ll be set. However I pretty much have ceased to run into women who meet my standards for long term relationships. I even have a good amount of homegirls but even they’ve said they don’t know anyone who would be a good match. Guess I’ll go to a nice restaurant with my mom instead but still it sucks because I want a family but I was looking at the stats and for my age range 25 abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:09 AM
1

20 minutes for like 3 hours then, not bad. Was it a hike?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:46 AM
1

What was the pace?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:29 AM
1

I somewhat agree but you have the know about these opportunities and have the stability to pursue them. I’ve had this take before but if your still poor by 25-30 your probably either unintelligent, lazy, or unlucky. Perhaps a combination of those three as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:28 AM
1

First off I’m sorry you had a rough night in regards to that and it’s never fun to feel unattractive. I do have a question though, was your intention just to get hit in for a self-esteem boost or to find someone you vibe with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:24 AM
1

I chose my profession which I knew was going to make marriage/family more difficult to find and I don’t regret it as I never found someone who I wanted to be with long term that also wanted me. This being said if I did have a great woman and she’d stay I’d be willing to change from my current profession to one I desire less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:11 AM
3

Why would she just not date another religious person, honestly at that point just become a nun, also red flag on the boyfriend for pressuring her like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:54 AM
–

First one is your fault, 2nd can be improved with time, third is probably due to being fat, see number one and three
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:46 AM
–

Why would you consider yourself low value, overweight, short, bad job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:38 AM
–

An untalked about advantage of being a woman is you spend less on food by a significant amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:37 AM
–

Is it? gen Z is quite conservative when it comes to sexual views and religion compared to millennials. Also I think being more sexually conservative is no longer considered a conservative point same for being more unrestricted being a liberal point. What I mean is young people may be socially progressive in many areas but sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:16 AM
–

This is another reason why I believe encouraging abstinence until marriage is a positive, besides it being what is told in the scripture it also prevents any issues of retroactive jealous in men and women so they can freely give to eachother without having to think about if the other person got laid by another with less effort on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:19 AM
–

I mean my gym also has a lot of people I know. When it comes to progress I’ve pretty much stalled as I’ve reached roughly what I think is my natty limit since my FFMI index is about 26 at 230lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:32 AM
–

Video games are interesting to me since if I have the free time I’d rather spend it lifting or running, or if lucky and schedules line up with friends. Not saying I don’t play them but it’s more of a last resort when everything else needed for the day is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:18 AM
–

That’s somewhat true I’d say. Same for fulfillment if you can’t get a sense of meaning from having a family you’re going to have to get more from your career or say religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:03 AM
–

I can see we have some differing points when it comes to what we both view as fulfillment. Just to preface my goals and morals are shaped by my parents and my beliefs and neither of them set sex as a goal but having a family could be one instead. And while maybe you can’t imagine men not not having sex as a major goal people have different desires and goals and just because someone may hold a different view doesn’t mean they’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:01 AM
–

Is think it’s fine to say make having a family as a goal but as a man who pretty much achieved the capability of having one but can’t due to his career and lack of women wanting families I caution young men on having goals related to Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:28 AM
–

I was, but the focus on not getting laid seems like putting the cart before the horse. There are 100% issues with the dating scene but until a guy is in shape and has his career on track he has much better uses of his time than debating about them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:13 AM
–

Honestly I kinda dislike how much men have let the conversation of men and boys not doing well derail into complaints about not getting laid. To me issues like suicide, porn addiction, gambling addiction, lack of success in school, lack of good careers, lack of healthy friendships, lack of faith(personal opinion), are all worse for men then not getting laid. And to be honest if men had good jobs and took care of themselves I honestly think a lot of the make loneliness epidemic would go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:04 AM
–

Yeah so I’m from a middle class background but have a fair amount of cousins in the upper middle class and even a couple borderline upper class and from what I’ve seen dating it pretty much easy mode for them. People are smart and if a guys parents are wealthy he’s probably going to be wealthy as well so he’s a safe bet to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:54 AM
–

Honestly it’s the rich thing, looks matter but not nearly as much as having a good job. Could be a recession indicator idk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:51 AM
–

I mean ignoring the religious aspect of abstinence until marriage another benefit is that if both men and women wait there is no resentment and thoughts of infidelity and if both partners work on themselves and only marry when they are certain that the partner is the one this entire issue goes away. Women also get a better deal as to be married men need to work harder when it comes to proving themselves whether that is in finances or fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:27 AM
–

What two weeks of college does to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:23 AM
–

Yeah that reasoning makes sense if I was married for 30 years like you then out of one I’d probably not want to be in a relationship again either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:47 AM
–

That’s valid, is it due to already being married or none of the options offering relationships interest you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:26 AM
–

I don’t think it will as all my friends who engaged in hookup culture long term seem to have regretted it both male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:01 AM
–

But none that you would pursue?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:59 AM
–

I don’t think these really holds true for our current generation. Just looking at marriage rates women would rather be single than marry someone they’re not into which is a large positive for both men and women plus kids. What I’m seeing is middle class religious people paired off pretty early and the only people still getting married in my social groups are pretty well off and come from good families and most either dated maybe 1-3 long term partners before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:19 AM
–

As in relationship options?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:06 AM
–

If you feel something is wrong then maybe it is? You acknowledge the damage that you can do by sleeping with someone outside of a relationship so that’s good, maybe you should place your effort on finding someone with similar values to form a meaningful relationship with and only thing consider sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:04 AM
1

Cleaning actually takes a lot of work, I do the chores since I move with my older brother and between dishes, lawn, vacuuming and mopping it’s at least 3 extra hours of labor a week but I only pay $250 just covering my utilities so it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:32 AM
1

If we’re talking high school jocks who didn’t go to college vs the math nerd who got a master’s in accounting than yes needs do better. If it’s the d1 quarterback who’s father owns a multimillion dollar company in his hometown than the jocks win out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:26 AM
1

Sydney honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:24 AM
1

3 scoops of protein, two cups of whole milk, 6 slices of aged white cheddar, 4 eggs, 16 slices of turkey and some sourdough bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:04 AM
1

Relationships occurring or not occurring really depend on what the man offers and what he wants and what the women offers and what she wants. For instance I’m quite fortunate and have a pretty good career so what I can offer to a woman is say if we’re married a house, stability, companionship, father for our children and more, I’d also consider myself by conventional standards to be fairly good looking. Then when it comes for what women offer me the biggest are going to be love, companionship, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:20 AM
1

I want a family and it’s a common part of the human experience, no psyop involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:57 AM
-1

I kinda agree with you that it’s odd when a man doesn’t initiate due to the social expectations but I’d also assume people will just take it as lack of interest and move on. For the questions and physical contact that’s just an area that you will have to accept that a double standard exists. Unwanted male contact is extremely guarded against but the opposite is not true and that’s two to two reasons, one men from a safety standpoint have less to worry about from women and two social expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:50 AM
2

Is English your first language? Anyway I think I may be able to somewhat answer your question depending on if I understand it right. First off not to sound dismissive but you kinda sound like your asexual or at least lean towards that. Asking if you have a girlfriend for instance can be seen as checking if your already taken, and if you have a good job, are professional and also attractive your going to receive interest from women. There are times when I’ve been hyper focused on my career and of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:09 AM
1

If she’s into you your flirting skill won’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:31 AM
2

Can names be an ick since both of those make me uninterested. 2nd though since I like animals and we can just move someone without a lot of grass or has snow year round.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:10 AM
–

Most likely emotional immaturity and lack of female friends irl to give them alternative perspectives. I used to be more dismissive of women’s emotions but understand now that they have their own issues that are just as bad if not worse then men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:46 AM
–

I have fairly traditional values and only date for marriage and also have a career that makes me move often. It’s not too complex but mostly just a lack of people with similar values combined with also having to either find someone who does long distance or would move with me. I also understand why both of those are dealbreakers for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:50 AM
–

That comment is more in regards to my friends who mostly meet women through places like school, work, gym and mutual hobbies. If we’re talking about me personally I don’t really have anyone to date due to a difference in values compared to most of my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:42 AM
–

I’ve been touching a lot of grass recently and at least in terms of hooking up if your an average looking guy with a job, somewhat works out, and doesn’t hate women you can get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:39 AM
–

I’d recommend looking at someone who has achieved great success in something your passionate about and then get to know what they did to get there, that could be a professor, business owner and such. You should also see what hobbies they do/did when younger and potentially adopt on of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:39 PM
–

Do you have any older men in your life who you look up to, either at school, work, friends from the gym, or family. The process of having a mentor is not just I like who this person is or represents but is oftentimes someone who you share common values and or interests and you gain experience though asking them questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:38 AM
1

You’d have to do a HSA and just the 401k match, I’m not as familiar with those I don’t know the guys full situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:08 AM
1

I’ll believe you as I’m not familiar at all with Aussie living conditions. Only thing that is weird for me in the US is that as long as people have good jobs it doesn’t really seem bad and standard of living is fairly high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:07 AM
1

Don’t you guys have even a worse housing market than us?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:32 AM
1

I mean are you already contributing your max to your Roth IRA. You should have $7,000 in for this year and if you have any type of debt that is high interest then it should paid off. Depending on your situation I’d still split the rent with someone as having less costs is nice as it lets you do things like make sure you have a healthy emergency fund an a reliable car.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:43 AM
–

Why is it wrong for people to be born into wealth? I come from a lower-middle class background myself but I also work quite hard to ensure that if I ever had a family of my own they would get an ever better start in life then me and that would be due to my own merit that they are able to enjoy that. Also at least from a prosperity generating perspective the current capitalistic model we have while not perfect has done wonders for lowering global poverty and leading to countless scientific advanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:46 AM
–

What I’m about to say may sound somewhat Darwinian in nature and I’m not set in this viewpoint but would just like to share it. I don’t know if we actually want to create a society where say an average intelligence person can get everything they want as quite frankly even the poor in the United States live quite lavash lives compared to most humans throughout history, I am talking in terms of access to good tasting food, plumbing, hot water, modern electronics, various forms of low cost entertai…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:33 AM
–

I’m 24 and my degree was in Policy Analysis and I got minor from a business minor from a top business school and also one in Arabic. Most of my friends are in similar positions making anywhere from 50k-100k plus and they all got degrees in good fields like accounting, law or high paying fields construction management. I do agree that hard work does not equal success but it helps. In my view to be successful in America it’s a combination of who you know, your skill set/degree/trade, how hardworki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:08 AM
–

I would agree with the boomer answer in this case, when I was in college and during summers I worked lower paying service industry jobs and now that I graduated I have a higher paying slightly higher skill job and again at the end of this year I start my career job which is again higher pay and better benefits. It’s a natural progression from low level low skill jobs to higher entry higher skill jobs and then when you get older you move to more executive positions and then can switch to retireme…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:00 AM
–

I would say parents have a basic obligation of food and shelter until a child can be self supporting due to their part in creating such child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:56 AM
–

How are you measuring how miserable men were in the past compared to how miserable they are today? Personally most men I know are relatively happy with their lives and ones who are maybe satisfied but not super happy are ones who wanted a family but can’t find good partners for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:54 AM
–

I would say it’s after college that you really get to experience the things you want. At least in my experience I was on scholarship and never had the funds to go out and pretty much lived a frugal life for my college days but now that I’ve graduated and got a decent job life’s a lot better in terms of getting what I want or experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:23 AM
–

You put in work to make money that you can then use on your own interests and invest in capital to make more money for things like retirement. Money can also be used to improve physical attraction though better foods, gym, clothes and a couple other things so no working to make money is not slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:14 AM
–

I mean yeah in your scenario that makes sense, but would you say the majority of men in relationships hold contempt for their partner and just have them as a placeholder?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:12 AM
2

I’m a pretty outgoing guy and have been hit on by men at places I’ve worked, the gym, and while at both normal bars or more mixed and never had a problem with it. People are generally respectful when they approach others and you can easily single that your straight and no gay guy is going to continue to bother you after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:56 AM
6

You may be explaining it in a poor way. I’ve never meant a women who would sleep with a man she is not attracted to but this reverse is not true with I’d say at least half of men willing to sleep with someone they don’t find super attractive just because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:05 PM
6

In the frat party Scenario that I’ve seen it’s more like a slightly above Average guy Hooking up with a woman who is unattractive but only due to her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:04 PM
10

Sleeping with slightly overweight to obese women. Honestly seen a lot of frat guys do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:19 AM
–

Having a friend group should help with the loneliness and then a dog or cat is good to keep you company
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:18 AM
1

You need to correct your grammar and spelling, it makes this unreadable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:39 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter