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ProBonoPUA/r/seduction25/09/10 01:59 AM
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Or you can elevate
/r/seduction18/02/11 08:22 PM
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If you're looking for tl;dr material, try clicking on a link that doesn't say [FR]. This ain't the place for brevity.
/r/seduction06/12/10 03:51 AM
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HB3 I do believe you may be... how to put it... "doing it wrong."
/r/seduction01/12/10 06:03 AM
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Guys, this one is perfect! Can we keep her?
/r/seduction01/12/10 05:59 AM
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What happened to you is what has happened to everyone; you are a victim of circumstance. Yes, there are things you could have done better: you could have incorporated your friend into the interaction, preventing him from breaking the flow and keeping her invested and related to the conversation while showing that you aren't desperately trying to dominate her attention. (Holy tacked-on phrases, Batman) Ultimately, though, it sounds like she had an urgent and important (Stephen Covey's 1st quadran…
/r/seduction01/12/10 05:57 AM
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I would argue that this is an essential first step in the "seduction process," what we call "inner game" in the lingo. Any grizzled veteran of seddit will tell you that without that confidence and self-mastery, you won't get anywhere. The difference here is that you have made it seem like you consider self-confidence and seduction to be mutually exclusive objects, which they most certainly aren't.
/r/seduction01/12/10 05:51 AM
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Wait, so we're NOT supposed to wear jeans one size too big, box-cut polos with one button done, and wide-set shoes that have never been untied?
/r/seduction09/11/10 12:26 AM
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I believe that this was a more successful night than you think it was. I just have one piece of advice for you: isolate, isolate, isolate.
/r/seduction14/10/10 05:09 AM
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Agreed. A+, would use on a random chick in a bar.
/r/seduction12/10/10 04:49 AM
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You've made your point, now get the hell out. It's not like he f-closed her or anything. He's got a great thing going, and it sounds like this night boosted his confidence through the roof. Don't kill the buzz just because some married chick was out to get wild.
/r/seduction12/10/10 03:26 AM
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Yeah, bitches love the vanilla :P
/r/seduction12/10/10 03:11 AM
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Honestly, I would have done the same thing as you. That being said, it probably would have been a good idea to go for the kiss much earlier to avoid the accidental LJBF. You probably could have easily kept it sexual if you had escalated a bit after the foot fetish shtick, instead of keeping it neutral. I think you're right on with the plan to keep the next date ostensibly casual. No matter what, though, if you want this to turn into something, you'll have to escalate like hell. Initiate kino as …
/r/seduction12/10/10 12:43 AM
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I wanna match wits with her under my covers, basking in our after sex glow. I wanna be close enough to her to be able to call her up without anything in particular to say. Can I steal these lyrics and write a million-album hit? Please? You care far too much for this girl to let anything else happen. Go for it, as it seems that she reciprocates these feelings, otherwise she wouldn't be hanging out with you so much. Hell, if it goes well, I'll write those words you wrote into a song that you can g…
/r/seduction11/10/10 11:50 PM
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Be polite. Be efficient. Have a plan to fuck everyone you meet.
/r/seduction11/10/10 07:25 PM
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Upvoted for a great cologne, but I cannot stress how much of an individual thing scent is. Be sure to try out an odor before buying if you can. Acqua di Gio is, IIRC, the current best-selling cologne in the US, and it's that way for a reason. Hell, Old Spice is used by a ton of people, including me, and I get compliments on how men should smell like me all the time. Just because a ton of people use it doesn't necessarily mean it's bad. I personally use cologne only when I'm going to be in an int…
/r/seduction06/10/10 09:57 AM
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You don't need to necessarily try to open while you're in transit. I've found that waiting in line at a dining hall is perfect for opening: college food is shit and it's a great starter for a conversation that you can segue into nearly anything. Take advantage of every time you might make an innocent comment to someone waiting in line or sitting near you, and turn it into a mini conversation. Every single bloody time you might make an innocent comment about something, make it bigger, draw more i…
/r/seduction06/10/10 09:49 AM
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Definitely a case of bad luck and crazy chicks. I was wondering why this was a fail until I got to the very bottom of your post; everything seemed to be going great. Just keep doing more of the same. If a girl has you alone in her room so she can "sing songs she wrote and play guitar," she wants to bang you. You just got the one broad in a million who decides that her naked ass and lack of a thong don't give you any expectations.
/r/seduction06/10/10 09:36 AM
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Yeah, I got that impression. Point still stands.
/r/seduction29/09/10 07:44 PM
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This. Too many times I see guys thinking of negging as "giving shit," when what it really means is to subtly tease her. And then we come to the other problem, which is people not really knowing how to tease. You wouldn't go up to a random girl and say "Your hair looks funny." Be sure that your teasing is related to her current train of thought. Also, a neg doesn't need to be ostensibly negative; if a girl was wearing a brightly-colored skirt, you might remark that it's an "interesting" color, wi…
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:40 AM
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\solemnly bows to new_player** Great job, man. You just got more done in a night than most guys will do in several weeks of sarging. I agree that you had shitty luck with your ex's friends; if possible, you might have tried to isolate her more from them, but I don't know the exact context and this might not have been viable. I seriously love the tattoo opener: it was perfectly situational and initiated playful kino right off the bat. Props. I'm not a huge fan of opening sets with the "critical d…
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:48 PM
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I swear, anyone sufficiently educated about pickup is going to be paranoid about letting their girlfriends anywhere out of their sight. Note to self: when in LTR, continue domestic sarging to retain interest and value.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:21 AM
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Relevant, and yet somehow completely unimportant. If we analogize mathematics to be equivalent to pickup, then we're the mathematicians that demonstrate full rigor and then some because we're enjoying life too damn much. Sure, you might argue that pickup is unnecessary, bigoted, silly, or even stupid (and all of these are true on some level), but the fact is that this is what we enjoy doing, and we think it helps us. You might as well tell us there is no purpose to life.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:13 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:07 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:07 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:07 AM
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Personal Foul: Improper use of meme in subreddit
/r/seduction26/09/10 07:07 AM
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Fuck if I know. Go find out for yourself.
/r/seduction25/09/10 04:59 AM
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excellent tool Emphasis mine. It's a tool and nothing else. It's not an avenue for approach, and it's definitely not an acceptable way to start hitting on people who've probably friendzoned you. TLDR: Facebook =/= good frame
/r/seduction15/09/10 05:49 AM
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*facepalms* Using pickup on friends is not a good idea. Bonus points for terrible, terrible, creepy, goober-ass-douchebag pickup. On another note, this chick is annoyed that someone is looking at her photos? That she posted on Facebook? Ur doin it wrong.
/r/seduction15/09/10 05:43 AM
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Complete with shitty music and upsales.
/r/seduction13/09/10 09:31 AM
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I love you.
/r/seduction13/09/10 09:19 AM
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Near Bethlehem/Allentown. PM for details.
/r/seduction13/09/10 08:43 AM
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I like this. It avoids calling the girl fat (this is key); negs are for elevating you, not depreciating her. I was about to throw out some alternate ideas, but then I realized that like so many other openers, once you have the concept down the possibilities are practically endless.
/r/seduction13/09/10 08:42 AM
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I hate this situation. A lot of the time if you start making excuses for not being available, they just get more obsessed. Then the stalking begins. I'm currently in this situation and don't know how to get out. Best of luck to you, man.
/r/seduction13/09/10 08:27 AM
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^ this ^ Ever single bloody conversation, the chick will throw these pitiful puppy dog eyes at me and ask me for some serious advice with some problem that she has. I fall for it every time, unless I'm in that sweet spot of inebriation where I've still got clarity but can easily become an overenthusiastic, lovable douchebag.
/r/seduction13/09/10 08:25 AM
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To paraphrase Freud: "Sometimes watching a movie is just watching a movie." But that's just for LJBF-type shit. Even so, if she plays xbox, just tell her that you'll crush her at halo or whatever the hell she plays. Then you can initiate kino as she starts to kick your ass (there are about a million ways of doing this, think them up yourself). All in all, congrats, you got this one in the sack. I mean bag.
/r/seduction13/09/10 08:22 AM
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This. I would definitely (but subtly) try to figure out why she was "acting weird." You did good, kid.
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:03 PM
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Dammit, I wasn't thinking. I wanted my breakfast :)
/r/seduction31/08/10 05:58 PM
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I'm actually a sophomore, and I'm only in the class because of some bureaucratic bullshit. I'm going to be posting a few more FRs in the coming weeks regarding sets I've opened lately, and further development. My current stumbling block (as it is with most people) is escalation, but I'm working at it. The great thing is that since one of my fields of study is acting, what I learn about stage acting and pickup, respectively, is ridiculously applicable to the other.
/r/seduction31/08/10 05:58 PM
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I'm not sure, but I can never say it like that in conversation. It seems chunky and unformed when I say it :/
/r/seduction31/08/10 05:54 PM
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A canned opener is an opening line or series of lines you use to try to initiate conversation with a HB. You memorize them like a joke, and then repeat them verbatim, as if they came "right out of the can." By their nature they are usually bland and come across as awkward and tryhard. Some say that using a canned opener sardonically can work, setting you up as the "funny guy" or "happy-go-lucky guy," but it really isn't something I would recommend. Seriously, don't use these lines. A related (bu…
/r/seduction31/08/10 04:16 PM
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Oh, and the new girl is fucking awesome That's what I like to see, some foresight and optimism! You make us all proud. Wear a black belt next time you're out (preferably with said HB8, but any other hot girl would count as well), as a sign of our approval.
/r/seduction29/08/10 12:25 AM
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Usually if this happens to me I'll open the new guy, and then play the two off each other. 99% of the time the interloper knows bugger about pickup and goes looking for easier prey; the other 1% it's the chick's boyfriend.
/r/seduction26/08/10 04:10 AM
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I'll say it. James Bond. What?
/r/seduction26/08/10 03:59 AM
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