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Inner Game ProCatMasseuse/r/seduction31/12/20 04:00 PM
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ConversationProCatMasseuse/r/seduction26/12/20 03:11 AM
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Field ReportProCatMasseuse/r/seduction31/12/20 04:50 PM
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I certainly hope so.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:00 AM
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Be the dominant force in your life.
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:53 PM
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Basically be dominant and in control of your life and stay healthy.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:24 PM
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This might be the most un-heterosexual thing you could have said.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:22 PM
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Plot twist: it's her onlyfans
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:13 PM
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Step one would be to ignore everything I say because I too have negative game. Maybe try the opposite of what you've been doing.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 01:33 AM
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Okay you're overthinking this BIG time. You literally just said "this is how I feel but If I tell her then maybe shell think that I mean the opposite." The reason you are worried about it feeling canned is it is. The remedy for this is only compliment in the moment. Now im worried you heard me say they you need to wait for the right moment to open your can so I'll rephrase myself Only compliment people if it feels right.
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:55 AM
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Three words. Unsolicited dick pics.
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:50 AM
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Dude relax. Im 27 and have only had sex 3 times and haven't even busted due to nerves and a desensitized penis do to over masturbation. My top to you is to forget about chicks right now. Focus on losing weight. That is the most powerful thing you can do at the moment. Once you get into shape you'll feel a lot more confident because you had to work hard to get to where you are. You'll see a direct connection to working hard towards a goal and success. That is actually more attractive to a girl th…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:54 AM
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LSD is very cheap. One hit is like $10 max. Get it a shot.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 05:56 AM
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Okay but how is your facial hair?
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:48 PM
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Not true. She could be jealous.
/r/seduction11/03/21 08:37 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Not going to lie, its overwhelming at times trying to become someone(someone I like) at 26. What keeps me focused is the the same thing that overwhelms me which is I'm almost 30. Now is the time to act. What steps did you take to get to where you are and where exactly is that? How did you find balance in building a life while also living life? What I struggle with is trying to do everything all at once. I'll slow things down and make the smallest amount of progress then try…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 06:21 PM
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Just straight up say I really not intrested and talking over text would you like To get to know each other over coffee. Bitches are lazy nowadays so dont expect much to come of that. The real move is to have a baller Instagram with pics displaying high status and flirt over instagram a little before yall hangout. That's just how online dating goes now.
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:38 AM
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Honestly you're just bitching. You're in the tail end of your prime and you have your own life with a job that supports it. You're killing it from my perspective. I'm 26. I work 2 jobs and live with my parents. I have zero direction in life because I've wasted my life feeling sorry for myself and living like a pothead loser. I have no friends or any social skills/feeling of self worth to confidently make friends. I dont have a sense of self so I struggle connecting with people because I feel lik…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 07:17 AM
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I would recommend dating multiple women at a time so you can get a feel for what you like in a woman and what you definitely don't like in a woman. They are people too and just like other people some of them are really shitty. The hard part is telling the good from the bad because women interact and socialize with the world differently than men. Dating multiple women at a time will not only get you familiar with women, but also save you from having too hurt of feelings if things dont work out. T…
/r/seduction20/02/21 07:26 AM
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Thanks for elaborating on what to do and not to do to make people comfortable around you. Very valuable post.
/r/seduction20/02/21 05:24 AM
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At first I was skeptical but then I read your user name and now I think you might know something.
/r/seduction19/02/21 04:58 PM
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Dont worry. No matter how it goes it could always have been worse. One of the first dates I was on ended right after we ordered drinks. She literally said "so... I'm going to go. I'm about to have a panic attack" and then she left. I sent her a text asking her if she made it home okay and she didn't reply. But on another note; if you're competent enough to have conversations with people and connect with them how is this your first date? I feel like I cant make connections with people. Every conv…
/r/seduction18/02/21 06:10 AM
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Just replied to u/sawt0othgrin . Read my comment.
/r/seduction16/02/21 07:58 PM
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That's because you're afraid of people seeing through your facade. What's worse is because you're faking it, you fail to see any actual value you have. You see everything as all or nothing. If are working hard to improve yourself and you can learn to be honest with yourself and others you'll notice the anxiety fade. This takes time and your anxiety will still be flair up because it's how you've conditioned your body to react but if you learn to fight through it and see it for what it is, which i…
/r/seduction16/02/21 07:57 PM
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To be honest women naturally chase men without them having to do anything but take their pick. A good example of this is an elementary school playground. I was literally chased by girls all around the playground. If you're acting in an attractive way then women will make themselves available to you and you have to put in very little effort to "pull" them. The reason a lot of men chase women is because they dont have the natural ability to attract them. They rely on acting which is putting in eff…
/r/seduction15/02/21 06:16 PM
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Yeah but the key to the chase is to make her think she's chasing you even though you're in control the entire time. That's what OP wants advice on.
/r/seduction15/02/21 07:00 AM
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Become something they want and covertly advertise it. The key word here is covertly. You want them wanting to know more about you and what little you tell or show them should make them more interested rather than satisfied. She has to figure you out and the first step to that is being someone she wants to figure out. So basically work on yourself first and learn to seduce to women second. Be friendly while you're working on yourself so you keep up your social skills but dont focus on seducing th…
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:15 AM
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What I think it is is someone who stops talking when they've realized they've been rambling and the other person has probably heard enough to get the point. That's something I do anyway and it seems fitting to call that vocal pausing
/r/seduction06/02/21 05:41 AM
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Fuck that. Hang out with chicks if that's what you want to do. How she feels about you doesn't matter all that much as long as yall are both single. What hes getting at is spend more time around women. That will help you at least understand them better and is good social proof. Maybe the friendship wont last long but who cares. Just know what you're getting out of it.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 01:31 AM
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Because this isnt a game of tag it's just a form of communication.
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:04 AM
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Dont text her unless you want to talk to her. Dont respond just because you feel like you have to because that's where lame conversations come from and itll turn her off. The less you say the less likely you'll say something stupid that will fuck everything up. Really just plan to see her again and leave it at that.
/r/seduction30/01/21 03:23 AM
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Dont disparage my girlfriend like that.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 04:25 AM
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Read my comment. It's literally what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:24 PM
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The mac within by Tariq Nasheed is good. He also has a podcast/radio show you can find on youtube. I also recommend looking up this dude named rosebudd on youtube. Hes got some good content. Keep this stuff on your mind constantly and you'll soon change how you see and think about women. Also the rational male is fundamental red pill reading. Start here.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:00 AM
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I'd like to add that it's the times you worry that YOU NEED TO ACT. Dont let yourself confirm your suspicions that you cant do something. Always get after it when you're in doubt. Always get after it when you're anxious. These are the times that you'll teach yourself that things aren't as bad as your making them and you show yourself that you have control over your actions. That's powerful. This is something I'm currently working hard to overcome.
/r/seduction26/01/21 01:00 AM
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It seems that women qualify men differently as they get older. The older a man is the more experienced hes expected to be. Idk what I'm talking about tho because the only time I've had sex is when a chick was already set on fucking me before we even actually met (as in I didnt do anything but be around them. We might call these chicks whores). I dont have any game so to speak and definitely dont have any social skills. I'm 26 so I think my lack of experience is weighed more than my appearance. T…
/r/seduction24/01/21 07:43 PM
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Where do you live? Most guys in my are at least have nice clothes. And have a car. This advice is really only for guys fresh outta highschool.
/r/seduction24/01/21 07:13 PM
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Well that's fitting because douches help people feel better and more confident in themselves
/r/seduction22/01/21 06:41 PM
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That was a lengthy way to say nothing. He obviously knows he needs to be more confident he just doesn't know how. There's a reason he doesn't stand up for himself or backtracks what he says and that's what we should address. You cant help someone if you dont know what the actual problem is. Your advice is vague and therefore unhelpful. Take a look at my profile for examples of how to properly give advice. Not saying I'm an expert but people seem to take something from what I say.
/r/seduction22/01/21 06:14 PM
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Why do you back down from your "bold statements"? What are your intentions saying those things and what do you think the impact will be if you stood by them?
/r/seduction22/01/21 05:58 PM
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You didnt get at the root cause of his problem. You basically just told him to be himself which is exactly what hes struggling with. I dont think he'll read your comment and go "oh I get it now, thanks!" He has trouble being "knock[ed]...off center" so telling him that's what he should do isnt helpful. Tbh we dont have enough info to really help him so I think the best thing we can do is dig deeper and find out why he backs down then try and work on that.
/r/seduction22/01/21 05:56 PM
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This is actually somewhat helpful although it can lead to passivity which is not helpful.
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:56 PM
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This isnt really helpful.
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:55 PM
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So just to be clear, you're going to answer my rhetorical question but only after I pointed out that you got the question wrong and I'm the retard? Thanks for pointing that out man. Where did you learn to be so secure with yourself?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 11:16 PM
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Where do YOU get a cool $20 haircut. Fucking read moron.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 09:53 PM
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Happiness is always fleeting. It only exists in contrast to suffering. Your goal should be inner peace not happiness. You'll become very bitter if you're constantly chasing happiness. Just let it be and enjoy it when it arises.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 07:29 PM
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Where do you get a cool haircut for $20? Every $20 haircut I've gotten has been dog shit, lopsided, uneven, and nothing close to what I asked for.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 07:01 PM
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You're somehow turning a non problem into a problem. No one is saying dont have standards. Use your head for this one. Know what you like and dislike and screen for those qualities. You should at least want sex. Personally I like sex but maybe that's just me. Chicks know (or at the very least suspect) that men really only want sex so if they're into you then they will try and qualify themselves to you. They'll do this by getting you to think about sex ie: nudes, cheating on their bf ect. You see…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 05:32 AM
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Sand?
/r/seduction15/01/21 12:38 AM
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Well you know your obstacles now plan on how to overcome them. Your choices are car, your place, or a hotel and to be honest Hotel isn't really an option.
/r/seduction14/01/21 04:29 PM
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Sneak her in. Act confident, lead the way and assure her everything will be fine. No one will hear yall. No one will walk in. "Trust me"
/r/seduction14/01/21 06:05 AM
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Just bought the mack within. How'd you like it?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:54 AM
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Well the r/seduction sub reddit would be a good place to get started.
/r/seduction09/01/21 09:18 AM
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I think male hypergamy is the most Fitting. It's literally the same thing. Men and women both seek multiple partners to find the best Mates that best fills the need of their sexual imperative. Just because that imperative is different between the genders does not mean that the underlying force is different. That force is hypergamy as I understand it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 06:22 PM
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Not sure how you didnt pick up on this but I have read the sidebar. That's how I know about rollo tomassi and the rational male. But you're clearly smarter than I am and I so Help me understand why hypergamy stricktly applies to womans sexual imperative and not mens. What about the word hypergamy implies its exclusively female? what should we call mens sexual imperative if not hypergamy? And you're right again. Hyper means excessive so it's even more fitting for MSI.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 10:37 PM
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Hyper- excessive Gamy- relating to marital or sexual relationships. So going by that there is women's hypergamy and mens hypergamy For women it manifests itself by always being open for the best mate since they are naturally more invested/responsible for the child's wellbeing. For men it is to have as many offspring as possible. The most efficient way to do that is to fuck as many woman as possible. The reason hypergamy is associated exclusively to women is due to the socially constructed female…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 09:14 PM
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I read through the rational male twice and rollo tomassi's preventive medicine once. Hes the one who popularized the term in the manosphere and definitely mentions mens proclivity for abundance along with hypergamy everytime he talks about it. It wasn't an ignorant statement, just confusion. Offer actual advice next time Instead of being a douche that way you can actually add value to the community instead of making it a circle jerk. And really the word technically just means many intamate partn…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:37 PM
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Yeah looks like you're right. I assumed it was an umbrella term for our innate sexual nature. Turns out its stricktly used to describe the manifestation of that nature in women. Is there a word for what I described?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 02:54 PM
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Hypergamy is also the drive men feel to fuck everything with a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 06:36 AM
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Just have fun with the convo. Idk if that's a bullet proof plan bit it works for me. What do you do for a living? "I'm a gigalo" No what do you really do "Well I generally trade goods and or services in exchange for some type of compensation. Most of the time it's in the form of a weekly paycheck." "So you're really not going to tell me" "Lol are your conversations always this boring?" Boom. Done. You've established a playful vibe while also not getting too familiar with her. Dating is supposed …
/r/seduction07/01/21 06:11 AM
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If they're a manipulative needy bitch then they're a LVF. Anything outside of that is subjective.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 05:53 AM
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Yeah I mean that can help with discouragement but I just like to remind myself what is really going on which is I'm projecting my future wife (my ideal woman) on her. The feelings I have are for my future wife, not this chick i just met or am talking to. They are false. The intensity of the emotional aspects of attraction take years of rapport to build. (I dont have much experience with relationships but I'm sure it works similarly to trust) Reserve your intense emotional interest for someone wh…
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:38 AM
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critical hit its super effective
/r/seduction01/01/21 07:12 PM
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Lololol this is literally just you being a loser for no reason. I'm just replying to your comments with neutral intentions and you're responding back at how much you're "being owned" In a way I do own you. I bet you're gonna reply to this one as well. And if we're going to continue this back and forth please call me daddy.
/r/seduction01/01/21 04:35 PM
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Ah.. sure bud. Whatever you say.
/r/seduction01/01/21 03:55 PM
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Idk the proper procedure of not calling a girl back after we have sex but I'd imagine bumping into her is only as awkward as you make it.
/r/seduction01/01/21 03:45 PM
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This is a dont ask dont tell situation. If you talk about it you'll fuck it up.
/r/seduction01/01/21 02:49 PM
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Why would you make this post? Are you not receiving enough attention at home?
/r/seduction01/01/21 10:57 AM
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You just go one a date and escalate. If you make it to her place than you know you're at least in the right track. Then once yall hookup terminate all contact. Bahda-boom bahda-bing you just had a one night stand.
/r/seduction01/01/21 10:54 AM
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Ah my favorite book. Pick her up here, pick her up there by Dr. Seduss
/r/seduction01/01/21 10:29 AM
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1)"Oh really? Who told you that?" 2) I mean this one is really not even a test and can actually Segway into a fun conversation. "Yeah, probably old enough to be your daddy" 3) Move on. Why would you want to talk to someone who's first reaction is to call you ugly? Maybe when you're a pimp you can turn that around and play with it but right now you're still learning what women like, respond to, and want. Dont put up with that. Have standards for yourself. Otherwise you'll be the doormat for the d…
/r/seduction31/12/20 07:29 PM
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It seems like a step beyond visualizing. More like he said. It's a Live Action Role Play.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 07:13 PM
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I mean I wouldnt call it an issue. We all want to feel wanted and important. And honestly if you were truly interested in dating you would put in the effort needed to go out and get dates. I just use dating apps as a bonus. Use them as a tool rather than your whole game. The majority of your game has to be in person.
/r/seduction31/12/20 05:58 PM
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It's not about dating. It's about validation.
/r/seduction31/12/20 05:45 PM
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Because it's nice to feel wanted...??? Chicks get hit on a lot. Think about how many times you've talked to a woman because you wanted to get laid. Even if it was a mostly platonic conversation it was still a positive interaction that she had and she has those interactions often. Some of them escalating all the way to the bedroom. That's the womans POV.
/r/seduction31/12/20 05:13 PM
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Not so much that we think less of ourselves period. It's that we think too highly of women. Chivalry is a good example of this. We're taught to put women on a pedestal and to sacrifice our wants and needs for womans sake. It's not so much the actions themselves as it is the expectations of these actions that seem to be a major part of our (western) socialization.
/r/seduction31/12/20 04:54 PM
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You're trying to do too much all at once. Dont focus on winning the war at this point. Focus on winning tiny battles. Dont even think about getting laid. Think about having a good conversation. Once you're comfortable with that then work on physical escalation. That's going to take the longest time to get comfortable with but its basically 70% of seduction. Then move on to the sex part. Once you have the fundamentals down put it all together and wallah, you're a pimp. If these fundamentals are t…
/r/seduction31/12/20 04:47 PM
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Oh yeah for sure. I wasn't really suggesting repressing emotions, (because eventually something will give and it will be extreme) I was just giving yall my mindset at the time because I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels these things. My method for dealing with my emotions is large doses of heroin. I find a fresh spoon, slap some of that tar on there and transcend the emotional plane of existance that seems to control me. Just kidding. I really just focus in on what I'm feeling and why I'm fe…
/r/seduction31/12/20 04:25 PM
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Based on your response it seems your biggest obstacle is yourself. You're going to get no where with that defeated attitude. KILL THAT MINDSET RIGHT NOW. It doesn't serve you. You already answered your question in your statement. Dont follow advise from someone trying to sell you something. This isnt an exclusive rule as some people really just want to help people and selling books is just the name of the game (like jordan Peterson) but for the most part you want to avoid any "free" self help th…
/r/seduction28/12/20 07:09 PM
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Why? And 'field reports' are the closest thing to a scientific study you'll find. Sometimes people will even write up a play by play that is damn close to a legit lab report. Dont worry about this tho (unless its actually something you're interested in rather than some tool you're using to build confidence) just worry about going out and seeing what works for you.
/r/seduction28/12/20 01:10 PM
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Well I think if they're truly excited to see you then they shouldn't forget.
/r/seduction27/12/20 06:41 AM
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Dont worry about it. Focus on your game/method. She's not gonna pass fucking someone JUST because of their voice.
/r/seduction27/12/20 06:31 AM
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But it's all a game. Dont wish it was easier, wish you were better. Hes an opponent and learning to deal with an opponent is valuable and most definitely worth it. You're going to encounter guys like him out in the wild so it's best to take the opportunity for what it is and see what you can learn.
/r/seduction26/12/20 05:02 AM
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I say use him to your advantage. Make him look stupid so that you look good. Subletly look weak and vulnerable so he attacks you and figure out a way to turn it around and make him look insecure or whatever. Flip the script. Dont cut him out of your life because he could turn out to be a valuable resource.
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:47 AM
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It's a domination thing. You said it yourself. Hes attempting to raise his perceived social value by contrast. This can work in your favor if you know how to make him say stupid shit. Make him look dumb by baiting him into saying something stupid. Also dont try and read his actions. You're only trying to rationalize his behavior which is actually only rationalizing your not doing anything about it. Only focus on what you can do to improve your game.
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:28 AM
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Well only time will tell. I'll update when she responds. Thanks for your perspective. Also what do you think about the line by itself? I thought it was clever.
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:00 AM
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Yeah that's something I considered. I really was waiting for her to text me as I figured that because I had made the first actual move, the ball was in her court but I caved after I thought of that line. So do you think that could have negatively impacted her attraction towards me?
/r/seduction26/12/20 03:57 AM
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Well I guess we'll see. If it wasn't obvious, I've pretty new at this. I felt like because SHE approached ME she was looking for something more Physical. At what point would that work better?
/r/seduction26/12/20 03:24 AM
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