Procrastin8n Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
45	I need advice on being submissive in a bf/gf situation. It doesn’t work like that. You choose a man that is so amazing that you defer to him naturally- that you recognise has your best interest at heart and is willing and able to step up and lead - and that you are happy to follow. If a guy is demanding you to submit - something is wrong.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/18 09:18 AM
11	Going forward with a new relationship, navigating serious logistical difficulties I did it- I moved from Canada to Australia for a man I knew for a few months... 17 years and 2 kids later I have no regrets. - maybe think about going for a working holiday to Canada for a year and see if you like it there with him... easy to go home of it doesn’t work out but you will miss this chance if you don’t go.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/17 09:19 AM
2	I just got my first LTR and I'm 18 years old but how do I keep him? I'm not sure what your ethnicity has to do with any of this - any guy who cares about that stuff isn't worth your time and you should not even try to keep. Why do you feel he is out of your league?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/17 01:25 AM
7	Why wives spend all your money I remember hearing an interesting theory about this - being that women have evolved to be the "gatherer" in our hunter - gatherer past. A successful gatherer hoards food - the more the better. A big hoard of food equals safety for the woman and the experience of going shopping brings out that gatherer instinct and can cause women to buy (gather) more than they need. This is why it this kind of spending tends to be more of a problem for women. Feeling unsafe can make it worse. The best way to tac…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/17 05:02 AM
3	Number of Partners My husband never asked - but then I was only a teenager when we first got together so it was safe to assume the number was extremely low. He was my first and only LTR. I asked him him his number - just out of frank curiosity - he was young too so it was pretty low but higher than mine - which never bothered me. .. At the time I found his greater experience attractive. Personally I think lying about your sexual past is wrong. As for whether his N-count would have been a deal breaker for me - I gu…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/16 09:32 AM
2	Tips on finding like-minded and supportive friends? Honestly - your best bet is to make friends with the partners/wives of your boyfriend's friends. This will make things easy long term. You are going to end up spending time with these people anyways - you might as well invest some effort into these relationships. I moved across the planet to be with my husband over 15 years ago and didn't know anyone - but making friends within his social circle really helped. It doesn't matter if they are not RP..(most women haven't heard if it or have heard ba…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/16 06:02 AM
7	Advice for dating a man when you are making more money? I supported my husband while he studied and now he supports me to take care of the kids. It doesn't have to be a big deal unless you make it one. If he is insecure he may find it emasculating - but i doubt it as it is for a short amount of time and a clear purpose - getting a degree which will net him a higher income in the long term.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/16 10:47 AM
3	I've started hating my fellow woman. Not all women buy into that garbage and conduct themselves in that way. Have you heard of the men's rights activist Karen Straughan? https://www.youtube.com/user/girlwriteswhat She makes me proud of being a women by the example she sets as someone truly concerned about equality (what feminism should be!) I honestly don't associate with any woman like what you have described - but maybe Im just lucky - at my age most of my friends are married with a few kids and respect their husbands and themsel…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/16 05:55 AM
1	Pregnancy? This is the best advice!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/16 11:02 AM
2	Have hubs in room during birth? My Husband was there for both. First one was a planned homebirth and the second one was in the hospital as I was having some troubles and needed to be there just in case things got hairy. I have to say that he was a big help for me being there but I'm not sure it was easy for him. After the first one he seemed pretty overwhelmed by the experience. For that birth i was in active labor for over 24hours and I did tell him at one point to leave and get some sleep - he was pacing around the room and …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/16 10:58 AM
3	Ladies with SO/husband who travels - advise please! I sometimes need to pack for my husband for his work trips as he is often too busy to do so and will often get called away last minute and just doesn't have time. One tip - make sure you check the weather forecast for where he will be before you pack his clothes. My husband likes to pack light so I try to make sure I just pack clothes that are appropriate for where he will be - ie no coat if it is going to be hot. 2nd tip - get your husband to give you a list of all the stuff he is going to use …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/15 07:22 AM
1	Why do feminist's, time after time, try to tell men that feminism is for men too, When it clearly isn't? Like I said - it depends on your understanding of feminism - what you have posted here, whatever it is, is not in line with my understanding of feminism - . In any movement there are fringe elements that don't reflect the views of the whole. Unfortunately - the more provocative they are in their views the more people tend to share it around on the internet. Whats needed it a bigger push back with common sense. I consider myself a feminist in that I want both my children - my son and my daughter …	/r/MensRights	23/02/15 10:16 PM
–	Why do feminist's, time after time, try to tell men that feminism is for men too, When it clearly isn't? I think it depends on your understanding of feminism. I think feminism is for men in the same way that men's rights (like what is often discussed here) are for women too. I think both movements believe men and women should be treated equally under the law - not only in rights to vote, employment & education but ALSO in child custody divorce, etc. Maybe my understanding of feminism is wrong - I just thought it was about equality -- which is what I thought men's rights are about too? I think all h…	/r/MensRights	23/02/15 04:14 AM