ProdiLemaj Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Got no response after this except for a laughing emoji reaction. Any advice? Keep in mind this is my boss from work… That whole exchange was corny on your part. She doesnr seem interested to begin with, but trying to bang your married boss is a horrible idea to begin with. You need to abort immediately and hope she doesn’t try to go to HR on you.	/r/seduction	22/07/26 06:01 AM
1	What's the most women you've had in your roster at any given time? What roster? Lmao	/r/seduction	09/02/26 11:19 PM
3	How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women? The girls you’re talking about literally have athletes, musicians, actors, and businessmen in their DMs. They get invited to clubs and sit in the VIP section. They get brand endorsements and get to travel all over. So yes, they find themselves in the orbit of higher-status men all the time. I’m sure there are sone of them who date “normal” men they met in the gym or something. But a lot of them have access to higher status men. So yeah bro, they’re not gonna settle for a 9 to 5 guy when they can…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 09:06 PM
3	Is my female coworker coming onto me? She’s tryna fuck and I’d 100% be doing it if I were you.	/r/seduction	08/01/26 12:56 PM
3	How often do girls hit you up/approach you? Lol, never.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 10:09 AM
1	Why am I only approached by women I’m not attracted to? Attractive women typically don’t approach men first because they don’t have to. Men are always coming onto them. Less attractive women don’t get as much attention from men, therefore they feel more compelled to take the initiative in approaching them.	/r/seduction	29/09/25 06:21 PM
67	Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired? Went to see a movie with a girl, she was rubbing on me the entire time. She was borderline feral by the time we got back to the crib lol	/r/seduction	27/09/25 01:23 PM
1	Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ? My height doesn’t help, but no I don’t think that’s the reason. I’ve seen guys my height and shorter have consistent success with women. Ultimately I just think I lack the charisma needed to attract women. I have difficulty connecting with them on a romantic level and always get placed in the friend category.	/r/seduction	24/09/25 05:24 PM
0	Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ? More or less. No matches on dating apps, no responses to DM slides, turned down or ignored when approaching in person, went on one date recently and got ghosted after.	/r/seduction	24/09/25 02:35 PM
8	Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ? 5’7” and I’m failing miserably in dating. I’ve seen shorter guys than me be successful though. Charisma goes a long way, I just don’t have any.	/r/seduction	24/09/25 12:34 PM
2	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? My extremely low level of self-esteem, confidence, and charisma.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 05:32 PM
1	Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles? They’re tryna get hit with the trader stroke	/r/seduction	16/06/22 07:10 PM
6	Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bed You can break down the female anatomy and the science behind sex all day, but a lot of women don’t care about that. I couldn’t even begin to count the amount of times I’ve heard women say they want a big dick, or that a small one is a dealbreaker. It doesn’t mean you can’t find a girl, have good sex, or have her love you, but you’ll never be the ideal and you just have to be at peace with that.	/r/seduction	08/03/22 02:44 PM
45	if young men in US are having sex 3x less than they were a decade ago but female rate has stayed the same, how are we supposed to believe there’s any hope for us?? The dating market is rough out here for average men, but it is what it is. All you can do is try to get your money up, hit the gym, dress nice, and most importantly, actually put yourself out there and approach women. All this looking at statistics and feeling sorry for yourself is pointless. Average guys pull girls too, I see it all the time.	/r/seduction	03/01/22 03:37 AM
7	Just got rejected by the girl i loved Look man, I had a girl I swore was the one around 15 years old. I was totally infatuated with her, built her up in my head as some sort of Angel. I was really sad when she ended up dating another guy. But I soon realized it wasn’t love, it was just a crush. She ended up cheating on the guy years later when she went to college, and she probably would’ve did the same thing to me had I been the one she chose back in high school. Trust me, you don’t know what real love is yet, there will be plenty m…	/r/seduction	23/12/21 04:51 PM
5	Fuck buddy acting crazy Chick is crazy bro, run for the hills	/r/seduction	23/12/21 11:35 AM
2	Last minute date cancellation/flake. How did I respond? Anytime a woman flakes on a date, it should be on her to reschedule. If I were you, I wouldn’t even bother contacting her again. If she really wants to reschedule, she’d hit you up and offer a new date and time. If she can’t be bother to do that, she’s just into you and you don’t need to waste any more of your time dealing with her,	/r/seduction	23/12/21 03:18 AM
79	My little bro has had more sexual experience than me… Your brother might be an anomaly, but most guys on average aren’t constantly getting DMed by girls or added on Snapchat, most women don’t make the first move in any form. Stop comparing yourself to your little brother, and let go of this idea of women DMing you. Just put yourself out there and go talk to some girls, get some numbers, set up some dates. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t gonna get you any girls.	/r/seduction	23/12/21 03:10 AM
2	[deleted by user] Solid advice here, and to add on to #9, all your arguing and pleading is actually just going to make you look even more weak and unattractive to her. You’re better off just accepting the rejection and moving on with your dignity intact.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 11:57 PM
1	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you Observe how she responds to the scenario. If she returns his energy, then I know she’s for the streets and I need to leave her. Other than that, if she respects me, then she’ll shut him down instantly, and I should only have to intervene if he continues to be pushy.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 02:49 PM
0	How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy" If all men completely stopped approaching women, the same girls saying that would have a meltdown. Just approach a girl respectfully. Get in, introduce yourself, get the number, and get out. Don’t hover around her, don’t make a big deal if she says no, just be cool about it. As long as you do that, it shouldn’t be considered “creepy”.	/r/seduction	18/12/21 10:48 AM
5	Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it? Well I’ve never picked up a random girl in public and smashed the same day. I smashed one chick I met on Facebook the same night, and I smashed one chick that I met via some mutual friends on the first night. The Facebook one was just horny, thought I was attractive, and agreed to let me pick her up, didn’t really use any game on her at all. The chick I met through friends, I wasn’t really that flirtatious with her or using game on her either, we were just having friendly conversation through th…	/r/seduction	15/12/21 01:35 AM
1	If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women? Are these other guys you’re mentions needy or are they just territorial. When a guy is too emotional and clingy, it can turn a woman off. When a guy is territorial and sets boundaries for a woman, while some women will find that toxic and misogynist, other women are actually turned on by such a guy.	/r/seduction	14/12/21 09:44 PM
45	Do women know when a guy is horny as they are dancing on him in the club? No, they’re completely oblivious to a man’s horniness when they gyrate their posteriors on his crotch. They are actually under the impression that we are performing a ritual to summon the rain for the benefit of our crops. They view the erection in our pants as a rod used to attract the precipitation, and that the dancing is merely for agricultural purposes.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 01:48 AM
1	What’s the fastest way to loose your virginity Get a prostitute, duh	/r/seduction	04/11/21 05:29 PM
2	I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out. Look bro, based off all the things I’ve read you saying in the thread, the only thing standing in your way of success is you. Such as your comment about “I’m sure women have better things to do than talk to me”. That’s your problem, you talk down on yourself and put women on a pedestal. Understand this, women are not these perfect goddesses you’ve built them up to be in your head. They eat, sleep, poop, and get sick like you do. They’re insecure about their looks, hair, weight, breast size, butt…	/r/seduction	26/10/21 10:03 PM
1	[deleted by user] This chick is crazy and she’s playing games with your emotions. She’s toxic and manipulative and you should just let her go, cause it’s only gonna get worse if you continue to entertain her. A chick actually worth dating will communicate to you exactly what she wants, won’t be floppy floppy, and won’t leave you hanging. Never be afraid to cut a chick off fam, simping will lead you to nowhere but heartbreak and empty pockets.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 09:38 PM
13	How do I avoid boyfriend vibes? Honestly, all the things you listed are the reason they’re catching feelings. It sounds backwards but when women know you’re not always available, and that you have other options, it makes them more attracted to you. Also, if you’re really putting it down on them in the bedroom, that’s gonna do it too. Honestly this isn’t the worst problem to have bro, it’s much better than the reverse.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 06:29 PM
2	Do girls even try for guys? I consider myself an average looking guy, like 6/7ish out of 10. And at my current age of 26, I can count on one hand the amount of times a girl has actually came on to me. The vast majority of women are not going to make the first move, cause they don’t have to. If you want a GF or even just a girl to smash, you’re gonna have to start approaching these girls and starting up a conversation. If you see a girl you think that’s staring at you, that’s a likely sign she’s interested. So just start ap…	/r/seduction	08/10/21 01:50 AM
1	[deleted by user] Honestly, you’re just being assertive enough bro. You’re overthinking things way too much. She’s hung out with you multiple times, she’s setting up a future link with you at the end of the current one, she’s not moving away when you moved close to her. Women aren’t going to make those kind of moves typically, that’s up to you. You wanna cuddle with her, just put your arm around her and do it. You wanna kiss her, just grab her and do it. Escalate accordingly of course, don’t just go 0 to 100. But…	/r/seduction	06/10/21 02:39 AM
1	How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with? That’s fine, you don’t have to settle. Just accept that fact that you’ll possibly be alone for a very long time, if not for life 🤷🏾‍♂️	/r/seduction	03/10/21 01:40 AM
2	How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with? There really isn’t a good answer to that question bro. I would say the church, but most of the girls I know that go to church aren’t even virgins. The average age women lose their virginity is 17 years old. It’s easier for guys to be virgins longer than women as well because a decent looking woman could proposition virtually any guy and he’d be down, whereas guys have to go through a lot more hoops to sleep with women. I mention all of this to say, you’re gonna be hard-pressed to find a girl tha…	/r/seduction	02/10/21 11:59 PM
1	How i seduced the one who feared intimacy This was a very wholesome and heartwarming thing to read. He’s a very lucky man to find such a considerate, affectionate, and nurturing woman. You really tapped into the emotional and spiritual elements that come along with one’s sexualities and desires. You took into consideration what he needed and displayed admirable patience with him. You made him feel comfortable, respected his boundaries and the concept of consent, and helped him to rediscover his sexuality in an organic way. I could only …	/r/seduction	01/10/21 09:42 PM
3	[deleted by user] Handled it perfectly, she sounds like a very toxic and immature individual, you’re better off without her my guy	/r/seduction	23/08/21 07:17 PM
64	I did my first cold approach ever! Good for you man, but just to let you know, her telling you she broke up with her boyfriend and she wasn’t even into him like that to begin with was most likely a wide-open invitation for you to make a move on her. If she wasn’t ready or felt pressured, she would let you know herself, so don’t ever reject yourself before the girl even has the chance to. On the flip side of that coin though, since you know she just got out of a relationship, don’t start falling for her too quickly. Just take some…	/r/seduction	07/07/21 01:09 PM
1	Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit. Yeah, “be yourself” sounds like good advice, and it’s not completely wrong, but it’s reductive. If “yourself” is an overweight loser who stays with their mom, has no job, no car, who does nothing all day but play video games and fap to porn, then you’re most likely not going to be attractive to women. You have to work on yourself, get in the gym, stack your money up, buy some decent outfits, get haircuts, keep your hygiene in tact, find productive things to do with your time. Become the best ver…	/r/seduction	02/07/21 04:04 PM
2	How should I respond to this? Your ex is just lonely, insecure, and running game on you, don’t fall for it. Her rebound didn’t work out, now she wants to go running back to you until she can find another substitute. If you still want to fuck her, by all means, go for it, but only if you can keep your feelings separate from the sex. You’re setting yourself up for heartbreak if let her back in emotionally.	/r/seduction	19/04/21 10:12 PM
1	Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny. I’m an introvert, so aloofness has always been my thing, but I definitely don’t have women knocking at my door, though I guess that could be because my physical appearance is average at best. I also suck at starting conversations with strangers and have the charisma of a brick. So I’ve got rough road ahead of me, if I want to be Mr. Bold.	/r/seduction	13/04/21 03:23 AM
19	Got laid in a Library You forgot the part at the end of the story when you snap out of the daydream lol	/r/seduction	04/04/21 09:55 PM
1	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. It makes sense if you understand the need for validation and attention a lot of women have internally, but those are the type of women you should avoid. They’re never satisfied with anything, no amount of attention is enough, and they thrive off drama.	/r/seduction	01/04/21 02:38 AM
3	DON'T compliment their bodies or face, Compliment their STYLE. Both points are true in this discussion, it really depends on the person. As a girl who is probably used to hearing people say she’s beautiful, I can understand the waning appeal. As a guy though, I can say, it’s rare that my appearance is ever complimented, but it definitely makes my day when it does happen. Of course, I appreciate being complimented on my clothes or any other attribute as well.	/r/seduction	30/03/21 07:36 PM
6	I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I asked She was not clearly flirting with you, she was just being friendly, extroverted, and telling a playful joke. That’s just how some people are, not everyone is a no-nonsense introvert that’s just hi-and-bye with everyone they’re not interested in, some people just have a sense of humor with everyone. And seeing that her job is in customer service, it makes sense for her to be good with people. Honestly, if she was really interested in you, she probably would’ve gave you her number, moving or not, …	/r/seduction	29/03/21 11:41 AM
2	Advice on sticky situation Honestly, that’s just how women will do you man. Maybe you did something specifically that turned her off, but without specific details, I can’t say. Maybe she had an initial attraction to you, but quickly realized there wasn’t any real chemistry. Maybe she met another guy she was attracted to more, maybe her ex hit her up, maybe she’s just got a lot going on, the possibilities are endless. Whatever the case may be, it doesn’t matter. If a girl has ghosted you, don’t bother trying to regain her …	/r/seduction	26/03/21 01:45 AM
4	The game is simple.. try to get rejected I’m not even the same person, you were initially talking to my guy lol	/r/seduction	25/03/21 04:11 PM
3	The game is simple.. try to get rejected Well here in South Carolina, everything is pretty much open and masks and social distancing are rarely enforced anywhere 🤷🏾‍♂️	/r/seduction	25/03/21 01:26 PM