ProducerNYC90 Archive

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2	My biggest fear of cold approach wasn't rejection, it was about the judgments of everyone else because it made me question my own value system and identity. I've come to a conclusion which ended up solving the main anxiety that I had for approaching. Cold approach is very hard. Forget people judging, worry about how the girl feels. Many might not like it or find it weird or creepy. And many will love it and be amazed by your balls to go up to her.	/r/seduction	21/02/20 03:55 AM
3	Cold approaching is NOT meant for the streets. This is completely wrong and based on your limiting beliefs. Warriors are made in the winter. Winter is great time for training before the spring and summer. Also, there's never a perfect place to approach a girl. Street, subway, park, coffee shop, all of these will get results in you develop the proper skill sets.	/r/seduction	20/02/20 03:02 PM
3	My biggest fear of cold approach wasn't rejection, it was about the judgments of everyone else because it made me question my own value system and identity. I've come to a conclusion which ended up solving the main anxiety that I had for approaching. I started to read, then saw how long this was. Seems like you need to stay off this forum and take some action in the real world. Go and talk to more girls, stop it with this mental procrastination.	/r/seduction	20/02/20 02:58 PM
3	Anything more powerful than mysterymethod/Todd V? You cant do mind control on girls lol. If she's not into you, then approach another one NEXT.	/r/seduction	20/02/20 02:56 PM
1	i'm getting better at interacting with girls the more i go out Great work. And in time, it won't be from "dumb luck", but from actual skill.	/r/seduction	17/02/20 05:58 PM
5	What are some mistakes you made in your younger years? Drinking alcohol and smoking weed.	/r/seduction	15/02/20 03:57 PM
2	What are the tips that helped you the most? Approach 20-30 new girls a week. Download the day game beginner PDF from tom torero website. That is all you need to start, the important thing is to do a ton of approaching. The theory isnt important. What's important is you get tons of facetime with new girls. The girl is your mirror. You will be rejected numerous times and that is where you learn the most. A book can't teach you how to seduce, the game is played infield.	/r/seduction	14/02/20 07:04 PM
1	Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot? My question to you is, does it really matter what she's thinking or why she's acting that way? No, it is out of your control and completely irrelevant. The main reason she flakes is because your initial interaction with her was not strong enough. If you have strong connection the first time you approach her, then the texting doesn't matter since she's already attracted. Even then, she can still flake if she's in massive abundance or has a lot going on in her life. To overcome this, you just need…	/r/seduction	14/02/20 01:32 AM
1	Asked out a girl in my class on Tuesday Lol you must be very new to the game.	/r/seduction	14/02/20 01:25 AM
5	This is why you're freezing up when you see your dream girl: This is inner game procrastination. Go out and approach 30 girls a week and you'll gradually become more comfortable around hotter girls. There's no overnight mindset shift, you need gradual progression. Just like the gym or a learning an instrument. You don't magically think, "I can be really jacked", and then talk BS for weeks before starting. You go to the gym and put the work in. Same as game. Stop thinking and start doing.	/r/seduction	14/02/20 01:24 AM
1	Success in the 30s Girls attractiveness peaks at 22-23. Guys peak at 35-40. Just basic Biology, guys grow into their face, have sharper features and jawline and can become more musuclar.	/r/seduction	12/02/20 07:43 PM
1	What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ? Yeah believe over a girl over a guy who has been through this. Never trust a girl's words, only her actions. You have much to learn.	/r/seduction	12/02/20 02:43 AM
2	What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ? Don't listen to me then and learn the hard way. She has already friend zoned you. No girl who is sexually attracted would ever ask to bring her friend.	/r/seduction	11/02/20 12:07 PM
6	What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ? I was thinking the same but this will not work. She will not give you access to her single friends, will just use your for attention.	/r/seduction	11/02/20 04:05 AM
17	What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ? No way. Be dominant, tell her "I'm thinking this would be a date with just me and you". You're probably already friend zoned but whatever you do, do not go with her and her friend. If she won't come alone, then chase new girls. Ive made this mistake. You'll turn into another one of her fanboys for attention, while another alpha guy fucks her later that night. This is the reality of the sexual marketplace.	/r/seduction	11/02/20 04:04 AM
2	Any in depth guides on texting game? It’s my Achilles heel. Texting is supposed to be very light and flirty. That main point of texting is to schedule her out to meet in person. Everything else is fluff. A great strategy is photo pings, sending a funny photo that reminds you of her or her actions.	/r/seduction	10/02/20 09:48 PM
1	100 approaches in a month - end of the month Also I never ask for Instagram and I always go for the number. Instagram is only good if you're really good looking or if your account has that movie star vibe (tons of followers, cool travel, lota of girls). Otherwise, you are just another one of her followers trying to DM her and she could flake.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 09:17 PM
1	100 approaches in a month - end of the month Great start, just a comment on the below: "If a girl seems upset, tired, nervous, worried...". No, this is just avoidance. There is never a perfect time to approach and not approaching a girl who seems upset or mean is just approaching anxiety and fear of rejection. For example, Friday a approached a girl on the street who was clearly in a bad mood. She wasn't too receptive and was pretty rude, and then said her gay best stood her up for dinner. I suggested she come get a drink with me instead, …	/r/seduction	04/02/20 09:02 PM
4	My biggest regret in game so far +3 things I learned from it. Been beating myself over it for days now. Never again Guys don't understand that real game is going out and actively doing 5-20 approaches. Volume is the key to success. One failed interaction is nothing but a warmup set.	/r/seduction	01/01/20 04:43 PM
1	Approached a Girl at the Gym Today Approaching women at random will not get you results. The best guys in the world only covert 3% and it takes 5k-10,000 approaches to get to that level. This gym girl will most likely flake.	/r/seduction	12/12/19 08:48 PM
1	Approached a Girl at the Gym Today The amount of time you're taking to analyze this one approach could be spent approaching ten other girls. Getting results takes volume, like a minimum of 5-10 approahes in one session. Took me 80 daygame approaches to get my first lay. One flakey number is nothing. It's great you approached but keep it going. Girls give out numbers like free wine at art galleries.	/r/seduction	12/12/19 08:08 PM
1	Does anyone feel you have more success with women when you don't make them a priority? You can still get women if you are unattractive. Believe me, I'm no oil canvas painting. Yes it is obviously more difficult. But by approaching you'll find girls who are attracted to confidence, charisma, and with.	/r/seduction	11/12/19 01:13 PM
1	Forcing IOI’s This is just avoidance and why lees than 1% of guys actually do pickup. It's supposed to hard and awkward but the rewards are amazing. Guys with your mindset will stay in this mode for years putting it off and just never approach a girl.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 07:45 PM
1	Does anyone feel you have more success with women when you don't make them a priority? Yes, but your confusing his meaning. He still approached thousands of girls to develop game. His disinterest is referring to when he would open group sets, and ignore the hottest girl to spark attraction. Far, far different from "working on yourself and career" and not worrying about girls. That's crazy, if you don't have amazing looks, you have to approach and chase tons of women there is no other way.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 07:40 PM
1	Does anyone feel you have more success with women when you don't make them a priority? Even if you meet women through these methods, you won't have the practice and skillsets necessary to seduce hotter women. Unless you have amazing looks, you need to cold approach hundreds of girls consistently to get good.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 07:37 PM
-2	Does anyone feel you have more success with women when you don't make them a priority? Your bike is more important than sleeping with hotter, younger girls? Lifestyle game is a joke and only works for guys who are really good looking and already in abundance. Average guys have to approach or else they're left with scraps.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 07:35 PM
2	Does anyone feel you have more success with women when you don't make them a priority? I disagree. Most guys who say they are busy with other things and are fine not dating women are lieing. Sex is a natural need that must be met to live a healthy life. Girls will not magically manifest themselves if you just ignore them and "work on yourself". Working on yourself is great and mandatory as well, but if you're not sleeping with women you need to go out and approach girls. Unless you're in top the 15% in terms of male looks, you will just not have time social and sex life you want b…	/r/seduction	10/12/19 07:33 PM
2	little Field report First thing you should do is drop those lame opinion and indirect openers. Only go direct and you'll have better results. All these hocus pocus opinion openers, the girls can see right through it. If anything it demontrates you are low value because she senses you're too afraid to be honest and direct. "Sorry, literally just saw you and thought you looked really cute, I had to say". Right away she knows your intention and youll quickly filter out girls who aren't interested. And the girl will kn…	/r/seduction	10/12/19 06:05 PM
1	Forcing IOI’s You can't get a frame of reference without taking massive action!! Reading and meditating won't give you any real world frame of reference. And approaching girls will indeed clear your mind. When you talk to a hot girl on the street or subway, everything stops and you are completely lost in the moment. That is not faking anything it being genuine. Keep telling guys to work on inner game, next thing you know they'll be 40 and still haven't done anything.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 05:56 PM
3	I haven't approached for shit and of course, I have nothing to show for it either. I try to tell myself not to make the excuses I have, but they seem pretty valid & rational to me. I'm not even going to hide it, I can't see a reality where I'm successful with women. I want to change that. Your insecurities are completely irrelevant because you can't change them. What you can do is workout more and eat healthy, read/work on public speaking and vocal projection, and most importantly approach. Even 10 approaches a week to start is better than none. The more you approach, the more your eye contact, body language, and impprovisational skills will improve. And eventually you'll encounter girls who are attracted and who will come out on dates. I'm 6'2 male five (being generous). At the …	/r/seduction	10/12/19 05:45 PM
1	Forcing IOI’s Outer game first. Outer game and massive action is what develops inner game. You'll learn more from approaching 10 girls in one day then reading 10 theory or philosophical books. "Working on inner game" is just procrastination.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 05:36 PM
1	Messaging a cute girl on IG Just DM her and move onto the next. Instagram is like Tinder. Mildly attractive girls will get dozens of messages a day and the only way to get her on IG is 1. You already know her from real life, or 2. You're in the top 15% of males for looks. Focusing on one girl is insanity, you need to build a sales funnel. I approached 8 girls on Saturday, and only have one girl texting me back from those 8. It is about massive volume. You need to be texting 4-5 girls at any given time, preferably from cold…	/r/seduction	10/12/19 01:51 PM
1	Why Tinder doesn't work for you Tinder is useless because every guy and his mother are using it. Be a man, grow a pair, and approach women in public. Stop hiding behind a screen. You can have the greatest photos in the world. If you're not photogenic or just not that attractive, you will NEVER get hot girls on Tinder. Even a mildly attractive girl who matches with you and has a convo, will always flake for a better option. This is because your value is based totally on your looks. By approacching in public, you can display oth…	/r/seduction	03/12/19 01:47 PM
5	I'm absolutely stuck on my early game and looking if other people ever broke through this. Everything he said is intelligent and the raw truth. Brilliantly spoken. First off, you need to start approaching and work your way up to 25-50 girls a week. This will desentisize you to the inner fear of rejection, and remove most of the nervous stuttering you're experiencing. If you know a good coach, you can take a bootcamp or follow their content. Unfortunately there are so many poor coaches giving out sub part advice on seduction. The real king Tom Torero is unfortunately off the grid, hope…	/r/seduction	02/12/19 11:37 PM
2	My experience at RSD Freetour in Montreal. "Working on yourself first". Too many people read this as an excuse to procrastinate, watch more videos, read more books and movies etc.. The best way to work on yourself from game perspective is too approach a ton of girls. Stop putting off the doing and just do. You'll learn more from approaching one girl than watching 50 infield videos.	/r/seduction	01/12/19 11:21 PM
1	How do I stop making excuses to approach women, anytime, anywhere? And on riding the wave, I find that by approach number 8 or 10, all fear is completely diminished and I will literally approach any girl. Just fight through that first hour and its amazing the super power you can gain when all anxiety is gone.	/r/seduction	01/12/19 05:01 PM
1	How do I stop making excuses to approach women, anytime, anywhere? The key is to go out a few times a week. With repetitions and consistency, you condition the brain to desensitize the social anxiety. It is like piano lessons or boxing, you can't get good by practicing once a week for 4 hours. Much better to practice 4 times a week for an hour each session. Also with day game, it is essential to push through the first 5-10 sets and gain momentum. I've been having a problem recently where my second or third approach leads to an instant date and at the end I say …	/r/seduction	01/12/19 04:59 PM
1	Never asking a girl to do anything ever again. Approach 100 more girls this week	/r/seduction	30/11/19 11:13 PM
3	Never asking a girl to do anything ever again. I have an easy solution. Stop online dating. Until you start approaching in the street and other daytime venues, you will never understand the real ladder of rejection. A girl rejecting you online is the lowest level. Try getting girls on dates, having make outs and almost sex, and then have her ghost you the next day. Don't complain unless you've actually experienced these higher levels of rejection.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 04:37 PM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store And one in three for Todd V is complete lie if this is for daygame. The London guys ive seen have excellent charisma and delivery, not sure what you're talking about. Matter of fact, your numbers are starting to sound like bullshit.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 08:24 PM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store This was from Tom Torero and only for day game. And the data has held up from dozens of other day gamers around the world. Anything higher than 1 in 30 for day game seems suspicious.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 08:22 PM
2	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store Ive been doing it about a year, but a very low volume of approaches (150 day game, maybe 75 bar game). If you're getting 2 in 13 you must have male model looks. The best guys in the world get 1 in 30.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 04:04 PM
1	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? Keep having this mindset and you'll lose out on many opportunities	/r/seduction	29/11/19 03:27 PM
2	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store Thank you, and you have the right mindset. Keep approaching and talking action and remember all u need is one win. Also, you can definitely get 1/15 consistently. This is my average after 150 approaches and I still consider myself a beginner.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 03:54 AM
6	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store Yeah, and the next day out he can get 5 numbers and 2 dates. It can be random, but my current stats are one date for every 15 approaches. That means if I just lay one out of every 6 dates, I have sex with one in 90 which to me is better than tinder or bars. I can approach 90 in two weeks if I really go hard. Took me 80 approaches to get my first lay.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 03:07 AM
22	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store This is London Day game model 101	/r/seduction	29/11/19 03:04 AM
1	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? Thank you man, I appreciate your insight. Especially in the modern arena where girls literally have hundreds of options, you have to be aggressive and stand out. It is the furthest thing from being needy. Needy is texting everyday, or texting "hey, did you see my last text?!" when she doesn't respond.	/r/seduction	29/11/19 03:02 AM
1	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? Whether you are the best option or not, you have to be aggressive and stand out. Girls have infinite options in these modern times (dozen dating apps, instagram, snapchat, facebook, social circle, clubs, bars, work, meet ups etc..). So even if you are the best and have ridiculous abundance and a high sexual market value, most hot, high value girls will not put the effort in to chase you and they expect you to do the work. You can think 'im alpha, im not gonna be a beta male and chase". That's fi…	/r/seduction	29/11/19 02:58 AM
2	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? Exactly. And everything is always based on her response. If she responds with a lame low investment statement, then she is busy and you can end the conversation. Then rengage in two-three days. If she stops responding all together then you can move on (but only after you try maybe one more time in a week or so) There's just this bullshit mindset in the community that "if she's not investing, just end it and move on to the next, we are too alpha to chase". No this is complete bullshit. It is your…	/r/seduction	29/11/19 02:48 AM
1	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? When a girl is texting five other guys (which she most definitely is), it I your job to remain top of her mind. You did this by following up consistently or shell disappear. Unless she is six or below	/r/seduction	28/11/19 10:57 PM
6	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? You're not asking for a date every time you text. You're just engaging a conversation and see how when responds. In cities like New York if you don't pursue aggressively they will.flake due to massive amount if options	/r/seduction	27/11/19 09:44 PM
1	Night Game Or Daytime? Which one should you do? An in depth explanation of the pros and cons to both. I have two night game (really bar game) lays and one day game lay. Night game typically has a higher flake rate because the girl is less likely to remember you especially if she was drinking. Day game on the other hand, the girls will definitely remember you. It is rare that someone approaches you in the day. The girls ive been on dates with from day game have been the hottest, and overall better results. But in America, you can only really do day game successful in New York City due to the pede…	/r/seduction	27/11/19 07:32 PM
2	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? I usually do the day after for day game. For.night game, I may text that night so they have my number, then a follow up next afternoon.	/r/seduction	27/11/19 07:25 PM
5	After getting the number, how long do you wait to text and how do you usually go about it? Aggressively pursue her until she stops responding for good or ghosts. And by aggressive I dont mean a ton of texts. Just every two to three days, with goal of getting her on a date. I told this to my friend recently, who disagreed and gave up on a girl who wasn't investing. Two weeks later she texted him out of the blue. This proves girls want a guy who will lead and aggressively pursue her to come out.	/r/seduction	27/11/19 07:25 PM
1	Ghosted by every approach. Feeling discouraged Again, don't overanalyze. Do 100 approaches. It took me 80 daygame approaches to get my first lay. At 150, I've had about 10 first dates, still only one lay. You need massive volume to get good.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 03:37 PM
1	Ghosted by every approach. Feeling discouraged Lmao you can't diagnose behavior until youve done at least 100 approaches. 5 is too small of a sample size.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 02:22 PM
1	Ghosted by every approach. Feeling discouraged Five is not enough of a sample size to analyze. Approach 100 girls and then you'll have a better idea where you stand. This takes serious volume to get good. 5 approaches is like saying you just started playing piano, it's been five days and your frustrated because you can't play any songs. This is a serious skillset that takes repetiton and infield action to develop.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 01:55 PM
1	[FR] Three Numbers in Four Sets Girls give out numbers like pocket change to the homeless. I only track approach-to-dates now because numbers mean nothing if they don't convert.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 01:20 AM
9	Holy shit she said yes No dinners until after sex, and especially not on a first date.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 01:16 AM
1	Asked out a girl in person for the first time yesterday! Just type in "day game" in YouTube and you'll start your journey down the rabbit hole.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:45 PM
1	Asked out a girl in person for the first time yesterday! These are all your limiting beliefs. Ive dated many girls whom I've met in public places, I just met a new one yesterday. And it does take several hours but again, what is your alternative? Tinder is a flawed system, and you can do bar game but that takes several hours as well.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:39 PM
1	Asked out a girl in person for the first time yesterday! Thats what it takes to get the girls you want. I still haven't found a better alternative.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:18 PM
3	Asked out a girl in person for the first time yesterday! She probably didn't lie, this was just to make a point. The more you approach, the more comfortable and confident you'll be, making it more likely she'll be attracted to you. Many girls will lie if they're not into you just to avoid awkward rejection. To approach 20, you would have to be in a major city like New York. The most I've ever done is 13 in a day. But even 5 is good, whether grocery or book stores, subway, campus, or street (in big city).	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:06 PM
1	Field Reports - The Fastest Way To Get Good With Woman!! (karisma king) Thank you mate and I appreciate the reply. I will give your channel a subscribe.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:00 PM
1	Asked out a girl in person for the first time yesterday! Dont be her friend. But great job, now go out tomorrow and ask 20 girls out. This is how you build momentum ans develop a strong vibe. You'll eliminate nervousness and then maybe the girl wont lie this time and say she has a boyfriend .	/r/seduction	24/11/19 03:20 PM
6	Right Girl, Wrong Time Girls cheat all the time, and don't be foolish to think your girl is any different. This is just basically evolutionary biology, if she chooses to cheat then it is on her not him. Unfortunately this is the reality of the game, it isn't all rainbows, roses, and sunsets.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 03:18 PM
-5	Right Girl, Wrong Time This is basic evolutionary biology. Message her, pursue her aggressively and take her out.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 03:16 PM
1	Field Reports - The Fastest Way To Get Good With Woman!! (karisma king) Seducer*	/r/seduction	24/11/19 03:14 PM
2	Field Reports - The Fastest Way To Get Good With Woman!! (karisma king) I don't trust this guy, he said Tom Torero was a bad secured.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 03:14 PM
-2	[meta] I feel like way too many posts are deleted, and a lot of good content is lost One way to solve this? Get off of these forums. They are a waste of time and just procrastination. Want to get better with girls? Approach thousands and go on hundreds of dates. With repeated failures you will learn more about social dynamics and how to properly interact with women. Not by reading 1,000 character sob stories of a guy who is complaining about the girl who friend zoned him and now won't respond to his texts. You think the winners are coming on here? No. They are in the field fucki…	/r/seduction	21/11/19 10:07 PM
1	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. Best comment I've ever seen on here.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 03:53 AM
1	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. It's just for evolutionary reasons. They have to make sure you're a man and not a mouse.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 03:51 AM
1	How does one learn to have an abundance mindset and actually get girl's whilst doing so Definitely never contact her again, regardless of whether or not you have abundance. You need to eliminate the neediness mindset. As soon as a girl shows clear signs she's not interested, I'll never text again.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 09:38 PM
1	How can I stop thinking about this girl? I hope this wasn't an online girl that you never even met. And if she was someone you had already met in real life, then go out today and this weekend and do as many approaches as you can. You'll forget about her right away.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 07:54 PM
1	How did this guy get to this point despite all his experiences? Do you think he might just be going through depression? He sounds like a complete bullshit artist. 7 days a week from 10pm-3am? Most bars and clubs are dead on Sunday through Tuesday. And 3-4 lays a month, 100 total? Even if this was all true and he did lose passion and had burnout, he would not have crippling anxiety now and be afraid to make eye contact with girls. He sounds like he made the whole thing up.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 07:52 PM
1	Anyone really good at text game? I want to pay you for some help. Unfortunately, text game does not apply to Tinder. You can have the best messages, openers, and text conversations in the world, yet a girl will flake last minute if she finds another match who is more attractive. Tinder is 90% looks, 5% messages, and 5% additional status (college, job, degree, hobbies etc.) Now in cold approach pickup (meeting girls in day or at bars/clubs) text game is much more powerful since it is a follow up to your initial face to face interaction. You cannot replace face …	/r/seduction	20/11/19 07:46 PM
2	How does one learn to have an abundance mindset and actually get girl's whilst doing so Approach 100 more girls and you won't even be thinking about this one. And if you're lucky, it will spark some jealousy and she may initiate something sexual with you.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 07:37 PM
7	Picking Up A Hot Girl In Warsaw Poland \| Daygame Infield Hilarious how all these guys criticize yet they cannot do one approach. I think it was very solid, she was clearly invested and he had some great challenges. Only thing I questioned is the whole "mystery persona" by not revealing his job. I personally like to give something away about my background so she has an incentive to come out. However this may be his tested strategy and if it works for him then excellent. Also, to whoever says he got the date, a number or Instagram does not mean a date w…	/r/seduction	20/11/19 07:34 PM
1	How do people go on so many dates Daytime approaching on the weekend, my favorite method. Though it works best in pedestrian cities with over 1 million people. You need high volume of approaches to get good and to find available girls who are attracted to you.	/r/seduction	18/11/19 10:22 PM
1	I prefer the feeling of my bones breaking than the feeling I got Congratulations on actually approaching, 99% of guys won't even do that. Secondly, congrats for approaching a "3 set". This is very difficult to do especially before warming up. I suggest warming up on girls who are alone and in general, I only approach girls who are alone in the day. Replace the word "weird" with "random". Saying it is a weird is a lack of confidence. You have to believe that talking to a girl and giving her a compliment is completely normal, which it is. Understand that it all…	/r/seduction	18/11/19 07:07 PM
1	It's so demotivating to approach in the winter because it gets dark by like 5pm and even the mood with the weather gets you feeling like shit. When do you guys usually daygame in the winter? It depends on your city. As the top day gamers have said, if you want to get results in the US, you have to go to NYC. An infinite amount of pedestrian foot traffic allows for sustainable approaching all year long. For smaller cities, maybe hit the malls, grocery stores, coffee shops, etc. But you really need volume to get good.	/r/seduction	18/11/19 06:00 PM
3	First approach but not sure if it went well or not (Unsure of her body language) Never approach a woman with kids. Also, you should aim to do a minimum of 5-10 approaches per session in day game. Daygame has a very low hit rate and you need massive volume of approaches. Aside from the hitrate, the volume will develop your skills and get you more comfortable with talking to women. I've done about 150 daygame approaches, multiple dates, and sex with one girl. Guys who get good are doing 30-50 approaches a week, which can only be done in larger pesestrian cities. It might be be…	/r/seduction	18/11/19 05:56 PM
4	The Girl That Ghosted: A Story of Redemption When I'm approaching a lot and have multiple dates a week, I'll get ghosted a few times a month. I've ran into two girls who ghosted me from the summer already. This is just the current culture and sexual marketplace. No big deal, desensitize and on to the next. You should be getting ghosted frequently if you're playing the game properly. Volume, volume, volume...	/r/seduction	18/11/19 05:36 PM
0	Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid.. Agreed. She must have been weirded out. Never have I ever texted a date request on the first text. You have to keep it light and playful, use some recall humor and see howhow she responds. If shebstarts to invest, then by all means go for the date request. But no gym, a coffee or drink. Gym is way too friendly and weird for a first date.	/r/seduction	18/11/19 05:28 PM