ProductiveAussie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Hit me like a punch to the gut It doesn’t mean that she’s labelled it as unwanted junk. Probably being kind to return it to you as the relationship is over. It sounds like it’s bringing you grief so you should sell it and use the money to get yourself something nice like a belt, new wallet, smart watch, shoes, etc. A splurge gift of an amount, brand or indulgence that you normally wouldn’t.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 01:11 PM
3	If you have children, do you wish your Ex a “Happy Mother’s Day “ ? No. Not out of spite, she is not your mother and leave that to your kids. You can help them with cards and gifts.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 01:57 AM
5	Her birthday is coming up - first since separation You’re separated, maintain the boundaries and don’t be a clinger. Nothing from you. No card, present or text. Encourage your kids to write a card / message and leave it at that teaching them to be kind and respectful to their mother. Teaching them this should reflect back to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 01:57 AM
1	How do you know when it's time? Once the thought of divorce enters your head or you suspect it in your partner’s, the relationship is over. It may not happen straight away, but best to separate before it gets unpleasant.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/26 06:34 AM
3	Men who didn’t maintain friendships/a support system during your marriage - how have you managed the loneliness? Choose a gym where they do team or small group training such as Fitstop or F45. You’ll meet and interact with new but also regular people. When you move out consider trying a shared house temporarily.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/26 04:36 AM
2	Possible job loss during divorce Join your union (if you have one) for employment advice & protection. Start seeing a psychologist for your mental health. Put yourself #1.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/26 10:04 AM
1	Wedding ring At the point of separation living apart as it is meaningless	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/26 05:59 AM
1	Have you ever gotten back with someone you rejected? Nope. Keep it as friends and look elsewhere for a relationship. Otherwise you’ll end up with this situationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/26 12:10 AM
5	Do you get Mother's Day gifts for your ex? "From the kids" Depends on how old your kids are. If younger than writing age, ask them if they’d like to make a drawing for her. Primary school age, buy cards and they can write a message. If they want to buy something, give a small amount of money and they can choose something from the shops. I think a message is highly appreciated and sufficient. No gift is necessary and if the kids say they don’t want to, respect their wishes as the gesture is from them and not you.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/26 12:20 AM
1	Divorcing after 2.5 years , no joint assets - financial disclosure question If she doesn’t know about the crypto don’t disclose. Even if questioned (which I doubt) it failed, you lost the drive, if on cloud you forgot the password. The retirement account unfortunately needs to be disclosed.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 12:59 PM
1	Should I feel bad? No you’re not. Give her 4 weeks notice which is reasonable to leave in her trailer. Tell her verbally, that you’ll be confirming by text and put it in writing so you have a leg to stand on. Then if she doesn’t leave by the date you can call the police. You need to cut ties and she needs to be independent. You need to cut off any codependent relationship. Obviously the dog is joint so you can make shared arrangements regarding that. Otherwise you’ll be creating muddy waters and no boundaries.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 09:03 AM
1	My empty house feels so lonely. Rent 1 or 2 rooms. Extra cash & people around.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 09:53 AM