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Being under the poverty line doesn't excuse you from being responsible for your kids.
/r/MensRights10/12/25 03:03 AM
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I'm not a sexist, and that's not what I'm saying at all. If, as a man, you don't want kids, you have a responsibility to use contraception or get a vasectomy if you're absolutely certain. If you want kids, you need to marry someone who also wants them. If you marry someone who is unable to safely carry the pregnancy, you need to look at alternatives such as adoption or surrogacy.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 09:41 AM
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Coercive control is abhorrent behaviour and illegal in many jurisdictions, so if you engage in it I hope it does turn against you
/r/MensRights23/11/25 08:28 AM
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There are some decisions that are hers and hers alone. What you're asking for is coercive control.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 07:55 AM
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That's probably a conversation you need to have before getting married, but if she doesn't want carry a baby you can't force her.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 07:49 AM
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If you're a man, maybe you should do something to prevent an unwanted pregnancy in the first place. Giving men comparible rights to an abortion would disincentivise condom use, meaning more women would have to go through a painful and traumatic abortion. Always use a condom, and check that it didn't break. The morning after pill is painless, but as the name implies, it needs to be taken the morning after.
/r/MensRights23/11/25 07:38 AM
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No that's the reality of the situation. You created the situation, now take responsibility for it
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:36 AM
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No you made your choice when you had unprotected sex. That choice is equally important to the outcome. This wasn't thrust upon you, you made conscious actions to create this situation.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:32 AM
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No it means "my body, my choice, my consequences" and "your sperm, your unprotected sex, your consequences" exist together with a common outcome
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:16 AM
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It shouldn't work like that. "Your body, your choice" is absolutely correct, but the consequences have to be shared. For it to be fair, "your sperm, your unprotected sex, your consequences" also needs to apply
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:08 AM
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No I'm not ignoring anything. You on the other hand, are taking one thing out of a chain of events and acting like it occurred spontaneously in isolation. You're either ignoring the full story, or suggesting that men should be allowed to demand that a woman has an abortion. If it's the latter, that makes you no better than the anti-abortion crowd
/r/MensRights14/11/25 08:00 AM
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Your missing the point. You also made choices that led to the pregnancy. You should also face consequences for those choices Have unprotected sex. Or have your partner lie about using protection. Always use your own protection, unless it's with a long-term committed partner. The pill does nothing for STIs. Or when the protection fails. That's it, right? Condoms are 97% effective, but they're also impenetrable by sperm. The 3% failure rate is by user error. If it does fail, own up to it immediate…
/r/MensRights14/11/25 07:36 AM
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I could say exactly the same thing about you. I'm not ignoring anything. What I'm saying is that you have the responsibility to use a condom if you don't want a baby. Therefore, through basic cause and effect, if the woman decides not to go through an abortion, you becoming a father is your own fault because you caused the pregnancy by not using a condom or using it incorrectly. Do you know how you get pregnant? Do you know how to prevent a pregnancy? If you answer no to either of these question…
/r/MensRights13/11/25 10:37 PM
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I'm not ignoring the important part you are. A woman's response to an unwanted pregnancy doesn't nullify the man's actions that caused it.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 10:03 PM
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What am I doing?
/r/MensRights13/11/25 07:07 PM
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I'm not ignoring anything. Look, don't worry, you'll never have to face this problem yourself, so it doesn't concern you
/r/MensRights13/11/25 09:02 AM
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I'm not ignoring anything.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:23 AM
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It does, it's just not the answer you want. The only reason you would have an unwanted pregnancy is failure to use contraception. Therefore, it is your choice to prevent the pregnancy, and it is your responsibility and consequence, though not nearly as much as the poor woman who has to carry the baby or put herself through an abortion, which is not a pleasant experience.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:19 AM
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You wouldn't be in that situation if you'd used a condom.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:13 AM
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No, your choice to not use a condom, your consequence. Why is this so hard?
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:06 AM
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Don't ignore your responsibility to use protection. Ah unwanted pregnancy is your consequence for your poor choices, not hers
/r/MensRights13/11/25 08:02 AM
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Whether the woman keeps the child is entirely her choice. You made yours when you had unprotected sex
/r/MensRights13/11/25 07:58 AM
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No I'm not ignoring them at all. You however are clearly ignoring the fact that men have an important role to play in preventing unwanted pregnancies.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 07:45 AM
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No, "your choice (to not use a condom), your consequences"
/r/MensRights13/11/25 07:24 AM
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Most people, regardless of gender, aren't that analytical about finding a partner. How driven you are will fluctuate throughout your life. If you love your partner, you won't abandon them if they feel burnt out.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 04:03 AM
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It does, if you allow one person to take all the credit, other team members will leave. I was in a team leader position in a previous job, and I never took credit for someone else's work, and my team had a near perfect staff engagement score.
/r/MensRights13/11/25 02:59 AM
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If it was her idea, she deserves the credit for it. Pretty straightforward really. Maybe next time he'll remember to give credit for other people's ideas
/r/MensRights13/11/25 02:33 AM
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That's a pile of sexist BS. Of all the men I know, the ones with the worst jobs got married the youngest. If you have no other redeeming attributes, having an impressive job title might help get a few first dates, but it won't help you get married. Besides, the people who hold those high level positions are at an age where they've been married for years, if not decades already
/r/MensRights13/11/25 02:20 AM
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The higher up you go, merit becomes less important. If it was based on merit, you'd have an equal split between men and women in high level positions. You get a C-level position based on connections, not merit, and this doesn't affect company performance that much because the CEO isn't really a deciding factor. You can have the best CEO in the world, but if the staff doing the actual work are no good, the company will fail. A business also doesn't need to be as good as it can be. It just needs t…
/r/MensRights12/11/25 10:22 PM
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Most issues facing women are caused by men, most issues facing men are caused by other men.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 10:12 PM
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Your choice in this scenario, was to not wear a condom. That choice has consequences. If she decides to have an abortion, you need to provide support throughout that process because it's not as easy as you think. If she chooses to have the baby, then you should take responsibility to help raise it. If you can't do that, you can disappear from her life and you won't be recorded on the birth certificate, but know that you're an arsehole man child who can't take responsibility for their actions
/r/MensRights12/11/25 09:55 PM
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You'll end up with someone who's equal to you. If you're struggling to find a partner, it's because you're none of the things you listed and your standards are too high.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 08:11 PM
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Or simply your sperm, your consequences. Think before you don't use a condom. Having said that, you do have a choice if she wants the baby and you don't, leave your name off the birth certificate so you can't make a custody claim, and leave.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 08:42 AM
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It absolutely should be, but if they choose not to, the man can't wash their hands of any responsibility.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 07:44 AM
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Please provide examples. What discrimination do men face when starting a family? The only one I can think of is stigma around taking extended parental leave, which mostly comes from other men
/r/MensRights12/11/25 07:23 AM
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Your sperm, your choice, your consequences
/r/MensRights12/11/25 06:57 AM
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Men could take parental leave too, you know. All kids have two parents. Stop expecting women to take full responsibility for them.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 06:18 AM
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