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| 1 | You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel?I don’t understand how this is a problem. You have the right to say now and they have the right to take care of themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?Just by reading all your comments I do see your position a bit like a red flag for anyone looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?Watching movies and working out isn’t good enough. Why didn’t you ever want a relationship? Do you want one now? Yes it’s a red flag for a girl especially If she’s looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What's the female equivalent of "manning up?"Feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:49 AM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingMost men try and woo women, even the average ones so they can have sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 10:51 AM |
| 8 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?I met a very attractive guy once who told me he duck taped a woman and left her in a hotel room for 2 days where he’d go and see her throughout the time. This is a definition of creepy and good looking and that was the end of that guy. Blocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:14 AM |
| 7 | How much do you think being a woman’s best lover ever matters?My best lover ever is always the one I’m currently with. I guess things get better and better :) (40f) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?I would say that 85% have been average to above average. 5% were small and 10% were enormous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | In what situation is it ok/ not ok for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex (or whatever they’re attracted to)Seriously the dumbest things sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 6 | In what situation is it ok/ not ok for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex (or whatever they’re attracted to)Well my friend told me that he has lots of single female friends who all want to marry him haha I think to myself if that’s what he wanted then why is he still seeing me and why doesn’t he go out with them. I have disconnected from him emotionally after that comment though as I don’t want to get hurt. I guess it depends what type of friends they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a widower or widow with children? Would you date someone with children if you yourself had children?I’m a single mum and usually my time off is on weekends so based on that I wouldn’t dad a single dad because usually they have their kids on weekends. No other reason except for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Women, what are you insecure about?I like your perspective so I’m going to think of it like that from now on and not take it as personal. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Women, what are you insecure about?Both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Women, what are you insecure about?Haha got it! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women, what are you insecure about?So having sex makes me a slut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Women, what are you insecure about?Men I’ve been with call me their slut, I’m not a slut I don’t even sleep around but it has come out of the mouth of a couple of guys now so I’m insecure about looking or acting like a slut if that’s even possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | How can people separate love from sex in regard to casual encounters or LTRs?I’m a woman and sometimes I can but almost every man I’ve met has told me they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 9 | Woman users of OLD apps; how many matches on average a month do you actually get?I’m 40f and only on one site. I get roughly around 20 a month and I probably reply to about 5 and meet one or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?I think these days it’s harder to find a high value man therefore not that women don’t want it. It’s harder to find and won’t invest in anything lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.They can outsource anything which a woman used to do in the 1950s that’s why. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.The more educated or successful a woman is the more selective she becomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.Yes I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:44 AM |
| 2 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.That’s true. A smaller income wouldn’t be a turn off for me. An older man by 5yrs would be ok but any more than that they would have to be in a better situation financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:43 AM |
| 5 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.This was hard to understand until I got to your second last paragraph and it all made sense, you are completely right. As a 40f there is no way a man earning the same as I do would seriously date me when for him there are 30yr old women at his feet as well even if those girls are earning less they would be younger, child bearing ect.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:29 AM |
| 0 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"I don’t think I can treat anyone like garbage. Looks like I’ll be alone forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 10 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?I’m an active person so I would go with someone fitness focused but I think ultramarathoner is too intense and like the others have said, this training would take up a lot of his time. He looks overly independent in his photos. The height is also a factor but not a deal breaker, I would swipe on that height to see what his personality is like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?100% always pick men who are so good and wrong for me at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"Haha well you definitely don’t get any of those from a hookup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"You’ve got it so wrong. Boyfriend or girlfriend material means you’re worth more than just sex. Trust, respect and honesty, taking time to know someone and have them part of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.Athletic or leaner people in general just look healthier and not obsessed either. That’s what makes them attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.I remember reading that. It was lots of tourists who hooked up with him not locals and more so because it was exotic, if a guy lived in a cave or shack in your own neighbourhood then he wouldn’t be so lucky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | The female sexual strategy (hypergamy) cannot be understood without reference to the male sexual strategy (polygamy).I agree with this I’ve seen it first hand, being a female I’m attracted to ambition and as a lower second physicality I’m not even remotely interested in anyone who lacks ambition. I have met men who will have accidentally slipped and said after sex that it could have been anyone there with them they just needed sex, more than one man has said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 04:40 PM |
| 0 | What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women?Well as a woman this is what my ‘ex’ husband expected of me: To do all the jobs women in the 1950s did including running the household, working on ‘outside’ jobs as well as inside jobs, funding and preparing all meals, work full time over 40hrs a week, pay most bills as well as taking care of our three kids, doing all the running around for them, taking sick leave when they are sick, navigating school holidays while working full time. Needless to say it felt like he just rocked up and lived the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?At the moment (40f) I don’t see anything bad about being single. I really enjoy just doing my own thing when I want to. When I’m older though it would be nice to have some company but only if the feelings are mutual and the relationship is meant to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person?Wrong intuition, i trust them and never expect it to be a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Triggered by a confident woman.Hahaha neither do I! So looks like I’ll be single forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Triggered by a confident woman.I think men do find confident women attractive I mean who wouldn’t. If I met a man who had low confidence I would be thinking again. I think it’s natural though for men to want some element of being something special for a woman, like a hero, which means being overly confident might not get you a man. These are 2 examples, there’s one girl stuck in a tower, a man arrives to save her, she gets to the bottom, they fall in love… There’s another girl in a tower and she thinks stuff that, I’m confide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What average man can do to become attractive ?The question is what can an average man do to become attractive? Wealth you could try but there is no way an average man can count in genetics unless he was already gifted in that area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 3 | What average man can do to become attractive ?Good Hygiene and grooming is the single most important thing even people who think they are not attractive can go to make themselves look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI think it’s harder for men to commit to women who are attractive, confident and independent and a lot of times these are the women who end up feeling used. Women who do find men to commit have a needy component to them which makes them desirable. Thing of a prince saving the princess in the castle. If she could get down on her own she is probably not going to find the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 08:58 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.I’m 40f I maintain a healthy lifestyle, mind and body, have a good job, have hobbies, am easy going, I make time for people but overall I’m not constantly going out. My baggage is I have kids but I am free pretty much every weekend. I prefer meeting men who are either my age or a bit older. Men my age I might feel intimidated by my independence and might find younger women easier to mould, a lot of older men in their 50s that I’ve come across have more baggage than I do including age related hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up intention vs relationship intention?So right if they sit and chat without meeting they are not your hook up you are friend zoned | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂That’s so funny it’s usually the same line and grammar is the only difference. I’m so horny IM SO HORNY!! (Sends no txt just a DP) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | On the ground outside...Poor megan, did she not ask the right questions before meeting with him hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:59 AM |
| 4 | In this episode of “which kind of maid am I today?” we’re hair-cutting maids.When I was married - a few moons ago now thank god. My ex would make me cut his hair and then I’d have to cut my sons because he refused to ‘pay’ for it. Then my dad finds out so I had to cut his hair and I became the busiest unqualified barber on the street. I thank the universe that I don’t have to do that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedYou misread that - I love to pay but if they jump straight to the ok thanks then yes I won’t see them again. The same way if a girl doesn’t offer. I feel sorry for you that you’re living in a feminist world and you hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedJust don’t go on dates with women if you prefer suicide over dealing with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 06:44 AM |
| 4 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedI’m a female and when I go on a date that’s the big test, I offer to pay genuinely, if they don’t haggle a bit and offer to pay and they jump to the ok thanks - that’s it I don’t care how nice you are I’m out. If they ask to split the bill that is even worse. Either offer to pay the whole thing or nothing at all. Edit to say that I absolutely like to pay however jumping to the ‘ok thanks’ is the fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:20 PM |
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