| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | how to pickup a girl at the pool? | Conversation | Professional-Ad676 | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:32 AM |
| 8 | what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it) | Conversation | Professional-Ad676 | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | time manegment spinning plates | Lifestyle | Professional-Ad676 | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | losing girls with the same mistake over and over | Conversation | Professional-Ad676 | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 07:15 PM |
| 0 | approaching girls at night? | Outer Game | Professional-Ad676 | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:10 AM |
| 0 | why doesn't she post anything on social media | Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broad | Professional-Ad676 | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:45 PM |
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| 1 | what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it)If they were fuckable I wouldn't really have a problem | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it)This is actually genius bro!, that's why I love reddit. I'm gonna take sometime to chose the best strategy, but what you offered is genius, I can do that to both girls lol. There doesn't even need to be a second girl for this to work! Genius | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it)I like this answer, I agree I think lying is a bad thing and it always comes back to bite you in the ass. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | what's the nicet/kindest way to tell a girl you're not interested? (without actually saying it)You realize I'm a guy right? | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Men what is your opinion on Female Body hair?I'm Arab and I can tell you I never met any guy who likes hair on a female body, ever. The only two places where you wanna see hair is on her head and eye brows, everywhere else is best clean from hair. I don't know where you got this misconception from but girls here wax everything.. hair is very repulsive on girls where I'm from. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | What if I just said this? Would it work?What makes you think asking a girl if she wanna hang out us not acceptable?! How else are you gonna fuck her if you're not willing to invite her to your place?! | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 12:26 PM |
| 3 | What is good sex?Best sex I had the girl let me take full control.. when all she wants is to satisfy me. The worst I had was a girl telling me not to grab her head.. or if she asks you if you're gonna cum soon (like she's in a hurry to get this over with) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 0 | She said i talk too muchIt's a shit test and seems like you didn't pass it | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderIt is because you have to carry the conversation, girls don't put in the effort to keep the conversation intressting or flowing, they just go with what you give them. And at some point you don't have the energy or the creativity to keep texting.. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderYeah a couple of girls told me if a guy talks to them that means he's interested so if he stops texting and then comes back that means he's bored and using them for fun/attention/validation.. (basically what girls do to guys) Even tho in my case I usually stop texting because there's nothing to say. the conversations become dull (good morning, how's your day, good night...) there's nothing to say.. so I take a little break until there's something to talk about. Or in another situation I had; I j… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:51 PM |
| 27 | Absence makes the heart grow fonderIn my personal experience it only makes things worse, and the girl moves on. Even when a girl is interested she losses intresst if you ghost her for a while.. I run into this problem often, I be talking to a girl, things going well, the I either get bored, or maybe something happens and I don't text her for a week or two, and from there is over the girl is not I interested once you come back. It's like once you start talking to them consistently they expect you to keep texting them everyday. And… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meLove is not real, welcome to the real world buddy. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | How do I talk to and make progress with the gym receptionist?You already have a narrative, you know her from school.. That's a great opener and something you both have in common. Even if she didn't go to your school that's a good way to start a conversation. From there if you display confident body language and eye contact and show interest in a fun flirty way you could get somewhere.. Once you feel the girl likes you or she's giving you good signs takedown her number or social media.. Note if you for example strat talking to this girl everyday and slowly… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:25 AM |
| -5 | how to pickup a girl at the pool?I don't think that would be a good opener tbh.. This post isn't really for me to pick up girls at rivers, I just wanted to see what would people do in that situation. The real challenge in that situation is that nobody has a phone so you can't take down a girl's number or insragram.. unless you leave the water with her go back to where your stuff is at and get your phone.. But why would a girl leave the water and all the fun to go sit in the hot sun? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | how to pickup a girl at the pool?Assuming she says yes what's your next move | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | how to pickup a girl at the pool?Love this 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | how to pickup a girl at the pool?Lol, he did make an intire dialog | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 10 | how to pickup a girl at the pool?Very creative, where do.you go from there? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepThat's my point | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach?I'm not saying he should pull I'm just saying he should keep the objective in mind, his subconscious should always be looking for the lay. I used to train in Brazilian jujitsu, it's one of the hardest martial arts when you're new. For the first 4 or 5 I didn't tap anyone. Meaning I would go to the gym practice the techniques And drill everything, And at the end of class I would roll (spar) with everyone. And every night I would get tapped by almost everybody go home many times I was frustrated, … | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:01 PM |
| 4 | QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach?i dissagree with this idea, that you shouldn't try to get laid... how the fuck are you supposed to get laid if it's not even in your intentions, that's like saying you wanna learn to swim but never touch water and when your good enough at swimming on land then you'll get in the water. NO, you learn to swim by actually atempting to swim, yes it's harder, it's scarier, it's more frustraighting, but it's the only option you have. either that or you're lying to yourself. sure in the begging put smal… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | 33 yo male looking towards having kids but not living togetherbro, kids who grow up in a singles parent household are at a massive disadvantage in life, if you don't want to make any sacrifices to be a father, then don't become a father. neither the kid nor the woman deserve this | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Is this a test?it might be a test but if you say no to the date, she's not gonna wanna go to a date with you next time. she only delayed it by and hour it's not a big deal, tell her no problem but your gonna have to make it up to me or something funny like that.. also don't seem bothered by the guy, pretend she never mentioned him | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:43 PM |
| -5 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepTell her to go on a date with you if she wants to get fucked properly by man Instead of her girlfriend | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Is this is test from her?He deleted the post, can you tell me what the question was | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!There are some contradictions in what you say, because originally you said that shit tests are a sign of insecurity by the man because he sees.the woman as a superior and you speak from experience. But then you changed it to you we're the chaser in the relationship and the man grew cold and checked out emotionally, which means he was never threatened by you leaving.. on the contrary he was bored. Well if that's the case then why would he feel the need to play games or shit test you?! The example… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 6 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?i have many pickup courses and books, i'm just too lazy to watch and read everything.. i'm gonna have a break from college for the summer so i'm planning to consume all the information i have, and go out and try it. wish me luck | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:02 AM |
| 8 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?the real question is how do you get her to come to your place | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!well when i was talking about shit testing girls i meant in the process of attracting her, or even disqualifying her.. but in your example you talk about it from a relationship stand point.. i think you used the term shit test in different ways.. but instead of debating what a shit test is i'll offer you this opinion: gaming a girl you're dating is a good thing for both the girl and the guy. see males and females are wired differently and attraction works in deferent ways in their brains; female… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!challenge their opinions, make them wanna qualify themselves to you, be subtly unimpressed by the lame shit they say. all girls hear all the time is how beautiful and smart they are so they're not used to someone seeing them for who they really are.. if a girl makes a statement you don't agree with ask her why she thinks the way she does, and if she's somewhat interested she'll want to explain herself and win your approval.. it's more so a push pull thing, also you can make a statement, for exam… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.Very true but the volume you get on dating apps is 10x better than real life.. so it's still a better bet from a numbers game perspective. Let's say in one day you swipe in 200 girls and 5% swipe back, that's 10 girls a day. That's good if you ask me | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Etiquette for a man going to a bar alone?I'm actually in the same boat as you, I wanna start going out alone. Another thing I keep thinking about is I drink alcohol so it would probably be somewhat awkward to go to bars, but I really wanna do it to build my skills. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!I'm glad you said that.. now according to you're definition why would a man be considered inscure if he shit tested a woman? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!You have no idea what a shit test is | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:34 AM |
| 2 | approaching girls at night?Bro don't talk about what women like don't like 😂😂 I would bet my last dollar you don't get any pussy.. I can tell by the way you talk no female would ever wanna associate with you, you give off very weak SJW soyboy vibes. I don't even know what you're so butthurt about. I'm just a dude that asked a question on a seduction subreddit.. what made you feel the urge to go to my profile and research everything I did in the last year just to find things you disagree with and talk shit?! You have some … | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | approaching girls at night?I can't believe the amount of things you got wrong in one comment. 1. I don't approach girls at night that's why I asked if should 2. I'm 176 lbs I bench 2 plates, I'm not jacked by any means but not scrawny 3. The girl I thought about approaching is a girl I already came across 5 times in the street and I do find her very attractive 4. I'm actually trying to use game in my daily life instead of going out specifically to game women, hence I thought about doing while I'm on my way home from the s… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 10 | Guys shit test you too!True i do shit test girls, but mostly not to disqualify them. I do it more so to make them chase. Like a push pull thing | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:53 AM |
| 26 | Guys shit test you too!Yeah but only men get shit tested.. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | One pet, 2 girls.You only live once | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What's the state of PUA community/companies in 2022? (Been out of the game for 10 years)top PUA's i know of today alex from playing with fire austin summers kyle froonjan Karisma King A G hayden i might be forgetting some people but these are the only legit pickup and dating coaches i can think of | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:30 PM |
| 5 | What’s the psychological reasoning behind this behavior?The technical term for it is anti slut defense, it's actually very well known in game.. if a girl says that it basically means she's gonna have sex with you, this is her last shit test. The reason they do that is to not come off as sluts because from an evolutionary standpoint women must be accepted by the tribe to survive, so they can't risk being socially outcast. Also this gives her plausible deny-ability which basically means it takes the responsibility of her shoulders, (it's not her fault … | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:47 PM |
| 57 | Where can I meet girls with the “girl next door” vibe?daygame probably is the best option, you find the normal nice girls who aren't out there to get attention or feed their ego, they're just girls either shopping or working or going about their day. but i'm a beginner so take my advice with a grain of salt | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?i don't think you should learn skills to pick up girls (other than social skills). but one thing i noticed is girls like strength, i got heavy into lifting last year and i'm obviously looking better which girls seem to like, but also i work with girls and they're always struggling to open a jar or unscrew something so they ask me to help them and i do it effortlessly of course, and i notice they really like that. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me a picture of her in a bikiniyeah she just wants the validation, you have to give her very minimal validation to keep her hooked and try to set up the date, if she keeps ignoring the meeting up part, move on. or if you want ask for nudes, maybe she'll send some (better than nothing) | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | losing girls with the same mistake over and overok, since everyone is shitting on me i'm gonna explain further. the girls i'm talking about one of them was from a college nearby, but because of the pandemic she went back to her parents house because all the classes we're on online (she lived far away), that's one example.. so in her case i got bored from texting and stopped talking for a couple of weeks, and she removed my account... there are more examples, but what would you do in this specific situation. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | losing girls with the same mistake over and oversome times random some times girls from cold approach | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinesshonestly bro, just learn to accept it. you won't have pussy available to you at all times, and that's ok. there's more to life than pussy. i'm all for working on your social skills and meeting women etc... but what i came to realize is pussy is not that important. and you can love yourself without it | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 07:02 AM |
| 12 | How do you guys begin sex when you are with a gir?i'm not qualified to talk about this but, in my opinion this is what you should do. it doesn't matter what you say or what you talk about, maintain eye contact, good relaxed posture, get close to her physically, touch her subtly at first, touch her hand/shoulder, then touch her hair (you can talk about anything but your body is doing all the work). then go for a kiss, when you kiss her, don't ask for permission, but also don't go too fast, do it in a slow confident manner, when ever you feel lik… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel resentful of how they were brought up to view sex?i don't feel resentful towards anything. hate and resentment rottens the soul imo | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | A Slight Attitude Adjustmenti mean in the end of the day the only reason to do it is to be happy, so if you feel like pick up is making you unhappy then you're putting too much pressure on yourself. i have that kind of personality where i'm not satisfied until i achieve my goal type thing, and i found i'm never satisfied with this mentality and it makes you not appreciate anything, and you're always comparing yourself to someone. and it can get toxic and you'll just quit. my advice is whatever you do in life have fun doing… | /r/seduction | 23/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 10 | A Slight Attitude Adjustmentfor people who are hard core in pick up this is a solid piece of advice, you don't need to be perfect! this post is awesome because it emphasizes this point. one of the most discouraging things in the PUA community is the idea that you have to be perfect, both in game and life to attract women. you have to have tons of social skills, you have to know how to deal perfectly with any situation, you have to be confident in all aspects of life, and there's that pressure to have a perfect job/car/clot… | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between being genuinely nice vs. a nice guy? Does it matter?well, you answerd the question, but yeah being genuinely a nice person is awesome. but girls might think you're faking it to get in her pants, so you have to show confidence and not give girls too much investment to balance it out. just make sure you're not needy, and the girl would like you a lot more, especially if you're genuinely nice | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Top 3 Martial Arts for physical confidence, beginnersmaybe we judge martial arts differently, i judge them purely on how effective they are as a from of fighting, nothing else maters to me, i only care about if i can use it to defend my self or not. everything else is garbage in my opinion. i wasn't gonna say that but every martial art you chose had a traditional sense to it, i think your in love with the idea of traditions and gi's. you letteraly chose judo over wrestling even tho wrestling is leaps and bounds better than judo. as a general rule … | /r/seduction | 16/10/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Top 3 Martial Arts for physical confidence, beginnerslisten man, i'm not gonna argue with you i read a little of your story and i know exactly where you're comming from. you're an old school guy with a closed mindset, you've seen what your martial art can do and everyone that doesn't belleive in old school TKD is a moron, ok fair enough. you should checkout kwonkicker on youtube he's also an old school TKD guy, who actually went to thailand and fought a thai. TKD does have very powerful kicks and fast, and also nice footwork, but it has so many we… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Top 3 Martial Arts for physical confidence, beginnersi agree 100% these karate and tkd nerds keep trying to push the narrative that their martial arts are better for self defense even tho it's been proven a million times already that it's not true. also what's with the "you need to be a dedicated fighter to train muay thai" shit?? it's actually harder to learn all that BS in tkd schools which never helps you in a real fight, than learning a simple jab-cross-leg kick. why can't you just admit your martial art is largely BS and there are way more ef… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Top 3 Martial Arts for physical confidence, beginnerslisten man, with all due respect unarmed combat is my passion in life, i've probably spent more time analyzing fight footage and watching expert fight analysis than you spent time training. I know 4 years isn't considered much, but let's be honest one year in a legit boxing gym, is better than 10 in a karate or Aikido or kung fu or any of these martial arts. ask anyone who ever fought kickboxing/MMA. the literature on what works has already been written and it's widely agreed upon, organizations… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that every time I get in a relationship with a woman they treat me well for the first 2-3 months then they start disrespecting me and treating me like shit?sure thing brother!, keep your head and hopefuly the next one treats you like a king | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that every time I get in a relationship with a woman they treat me well for the first 2-3 months then they start disrespecting me and treating me like shit?maybe you're too nice and you don't set boundaries in your relationships, this is especially true if it happens in a pattern. women are like toddlers, they keep trying to see what they can get away with and keep pushing the limits. but your job is to be a man and put her in her place, i don't mean that in a negative way, but women want to feel like they're with a dominant man who has standards. if you don't show any of these signs the woman starts loosing respect and attraction for you, and that… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Top 3 Martial Arts for physical confidence, beginnersas a guy who's obsessed with martial arts and fighting, (i watched thousands of mma/boxing fights). i've been training in boxing/mauy thai/ brazilian juijitsu for the last 4 years of my life. and i think every young man should learn how to fight (defend himself). before i tell you what martial arts i recommend i have to tell you this: if you chose an ineffective martial art you will not become more confident or secure, you'd only do yourself a disservice, and waste valuable time of your life. as… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 08:02 PM |
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