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| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?To be totally honest, I wasn’t even thinking about eating anymore with the “this Dick” part. It was more of a what you want in general type of thing. I’m not a huge getting my dick sucked kinda guy as surprising as that may be 🤷♂️. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I can already see the porno script lmfao. Eventually he’ll ask “well then what the fuck DO you want?” And you’ll be like “this Dick” while grabbing the crotch of his pants. He’ll be stunned for a second and then it’ll go full porno mode. What could possible go wrong? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?It’s been happening to guys with their wives/gf’s for decades, and we all hate it, but it doesn’t ever seem to break up the relationships. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?Oh I’ve got one that has worked for millions (possibly billions) of women in the past. It is quite possibly the most rage inducing phenomenon ever for guys. You ready? Say you are hungry, and then shoot down all of his suggestions. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I mean, you said you wanted to inspire hate lol | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?That’s a good question. You could try to be possessive over him when it comes to the ex-FWB. If you pulled the “you can’t hang out with her.” Card I’d be like “I can hangout with whoever the fuck I want.” And now you’ve started a fight lol. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Triggering emotional responses in men: why do men love which that they also hate?I’d agree that men CAN only love and hate the same things. But I don’t necessarily agree that trying to cause hate within a man will simultaneously cause him to love you. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:51 PM |
| 7 | Proof no reason to fear rejectionI think yes and no. For a guy (unless you are super good looking), there is a novelty to getting hit on. So even if it’s a gay dude, it’s like “hey, somebody thought I was hot tonight 😃!” So even though the answer is no, you are probably going to smile and be cool about the rejection. Vs for attractive women who get hit on all the time, there is no novelty to it anymore, which means you can get the bad rejections. This probably doesn’t happen too often, but your comparison isn’t really apples to… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Club Night GameWhat kinda words do you go with? I need a little help getting started. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Where's that instructional video...It’s Nina Hartley. Good luck boss.ymmv though because every girl is gonna like different shit. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I posted my photo on photo feeler and my photo got rated low because people thought it was a fake photo.Ah… yeah it’s possible. Idk I’ve met some women that were legitimately just amazingly genetically blessed before. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 09:14 PM |
| 0 | I posted my photo on photo feeler and my photo got rated low because people thought it was a fake photo.? | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I posted my photo on photo feeler and my photo got rated low because people thought it was a fake photo.So long as the photos are actually legit (non-edited) I’d take it as a major compliment. They’re basically saying “you are so beautiful, we don’t believe anyone is actually this beautiful without cheating.” | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Guys with sisters do better with womenI have two sisters, one of which I’m extremely close to. I guess this has been good from a “women are just normal people” sense, so I don’t really have an issue making female friends. However, because we aren’t Alabama siblings, this has helped me ZERO with escalation/flirting/etc to take things beyond a platonic level. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?So what some advice to boost self-esteem? | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.It’s happened before because people make shit up and then it becomes he said she said bs. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.Yeah he could’ve. And if you weren’t feeling it, you could’ve reported him to HR. He’s gotta maintain plausible deniability so in case shit hits the fan he can just say “no I meant as friends like a whole group of us coworkers bonding.” If he’s akss you out for real, he’s fucked if you decide to not be cool about rejecting him. Idk what you don’t get about that. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.They file an Hr complaint and you get fired. If you work at Walmart, not a big deal. If you have a corporate job making $120k/year, it’s a big deal. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:03 AM |
| 12 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.He said “we should hang out sometime” with a wink! That was your opportunity to go “yeah we should.” Lol I’m in a similar situation with a girl at work and I (as the guy) have to be VERY careful to not get an HR violation. You gotta take the reigns here homie. You (as the girl) are much less likely to catch the hands of the HR assholes if this doesn’t go perfectly. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:01 AM |
| 12 | Let's chat about being creepy.Not terrible advice in general, but I also agree with some of the other guys on here. Like both can be true simultaneously. For example, when interacting with this girl at work, I try to keep things very profesional because I don’t want an HR situation on my hands. She mentioned that I have the mysterious Edward Cullen from Twilight vibes because she thinks I’m attractive. Or I could just be awkward and “creepy” with the same “mysterious” behavior. The mysterious broody guy is a pretty common tr… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:43 PM |
| 4 | How to not get friendzoned by a girl?I think you can gain attraction though via personality. I know multiple couples that have been dating for years now that started off just meeting through XYZ and then a while later they ended up dating. Maybe this doesn’t work for the quick fuck scene, but lots of women are down to date a friend for LTR. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Need advice (23 year old mildly autistic virgin guy) ?I needed to hear that last part. I’m just like OP (just turned 24). I should just focus on enjoying the full life that I have. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Need advice (23 year old mildly autistic virgin guy) ?Agree. And the few times women have “liked” me (I let slip through my fingers but that’s for another time), I was engrossed in pursuing other things which made me attractive. I stopped focusing on girls and instead just focused on making no as many friends as possible, getting shredded, and graduating summa cum laude in college. Turn out a shredded guy who is really smart, high achieving, and social is pretty attractive no matter how awkward he is. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shitHe’s from Asia so take it with a grain of salt. When I studied abroad there, people would occasionally want to touch my hair or take a picture with me (I’m white) and they were SO shy about it. Like the boldest one of the group would come up super nervous while their friends would be watching for the answer. And then we’d take the picture and they’d pretty much run away right after. No small talk about what I’m doing there, if I speak Chinese, what they are doing in that part of China (living Vs… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Is medication the answer? Jacked but incredibly shy and awkwardI’m not familiar with that. What is that used for? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | going deep not wideYeah I’m an expert at that already. The question is getting the convo to that deeper level from the small talk first 5 mins. Once we get going, I’ve had conversations with women literally last 4+ hours before. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.How is this related to my comment lol? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 12:49 PM |
| 3 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.Who is pointing fingers? No one “game” is going to work on every single girl. You just take the L and move on. Doesn’t mean your game doesn’t work unless you notice a trend that it NEVER works. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Is medication the answer? Jacked but incredibly shy and awkwardI know how you feel man. I’m actually looking into getting evaluated for autism/adhd myself right now. I’ve been putting it off for a while, but it’s probably time to just get a straight answer and start attacking self growth tenaciously. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:39 PM |
| 10 | Is medication the answer? Jacked but incredibly shy and awkwardHonestly why not try a psychiatric evaluation first before jumping to medication. Because I have news for ya, if you are autistic there ISN’T medication. And if you have ADHD, the medications are designed to help you focus, but the results on rejection sensitivity are mixed at best. You are more likely going to get more out of some therapy/coaching than medication. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Gameplan for newbies by a newbie :)I’m not even sure what drive by complements is though lol. Maybe I just figuring it out intuitively. Is it where you are just passing by someone and notice something you like and be like “hey I like your shirt” without even stopping what you were doing? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Gameplan for newbies by a newbie :)Is drive by complements what I think it is? I honestly wasn’t even doing it for game purposes but just started doing it to make other people feel good and get comfortable saying what I really think. It does generate some good social momentum though I must say. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | going deep not wideWell I’m an excellent finisher 😏. I just need a little help transitioning from small talk to big talk. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 0 | going deep not wideYou got some deep convos starters you’d be willing to share? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.Bro you took this comment way too personally. All the OC meant is that the other shit you are saying is right, but don’t automatically assume you did something “wrong” and need contradictory advice from others. Just keep trying until you find someone attracted to you. He never said not to try. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 7 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?What did you say to hit on her? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 3 | I think that I have become so accustomed to putting women on a pedestal that now, I cannot imagine a life where I’m the “one in charge” all of the time.Thank you for the escalation ladder!!! I’ve done so much self work to get over my confidence issues and I am finally confident enough to “make moves” but I don’t know WHAT the moves actually are. This will help me a lot man! | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...Yeah he says he knows when to make moves, but gives no tangible examples of said “moves”, which isn’t super helpful. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Hmm I’m like sort of in the “wtf” camp and sort of in the “how can I learn from this guy camp”. Let me explain. I’m in the “wtf” camp because if I had this guy’s abilities, I wouldn’t use them the way he’s using them at all. But because I am unable to sexualization myself AT ALL, my ability to learn from this guy would translate to like 3% of what he has, which is the amount of sexualization I need to achieve what I want: successful relationships. Rn women think I’m gay or uninterested in them 9… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:26 PM |
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