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| 2 | Alimony QuestionIn all honesty the wage disparity is not significant enough to justify a large amount of alimony. You are probably not far from retirement, so it will probably not be that bad or for that long. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Alimony QuestionFirst, I would always have your own attorney. Her side is to represent her. There are great attorneys that will help this process and not make it contentious. My lawyer was one such individual. Our attorneys were able to work something out. It sounds like you are at about the right place. I would add that alimony is a calculation but there are some inputs that are up for debate. My ex was significantly under paid while she worked for her parents. We had a wage study done that resulted in saying … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 05:22 PM |
| 7 | It can get worse.Then state reps and seeing who is competing against her next election cycle. I would make this judge regret the day she picked out of state people over in state voters. Sound like that is her competitors slogan right there. I don't know about you, but every extra dime I had would go to defeating her or her boss (if appointed) in the next election cycle. State reps should change the law so it favors you next time or the next time she fucks up. When she fucks up and it sounds like she is already o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 04:15 PM |
| 5 | It can get worse.Sorry to hear this. That is very shitty. Did your lawyer think you have good grounds for appeal? I would contact your local state reps and tell them your story. They should change the law to favor the in state parent. California and a bunch of other states favor the in state remaining parent. This judge sounds like gave the army guy a break and shouldn't have done it. Usually this is only done when the parent remaining has a past of DV or abuse. Judges if appointed have a boss and you should com… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man submit to a second (or third) destruction in divorce?Met the love of my life and wanted to marry her. We both signed a prenup agreement prior to our marriage. The way we look at the prenuptial agreement is deciding while we are still in love how we want our divorce to go if we fall out of love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 02:45 PM |
| 13 | What to do after getting fucked?I think moving to Thailand unless you plan on staying there and never seeing your kids is not a good option. First, you probably have to renounce your citizenship or you will have to pay taxes for any us income, pensions or retirement, all of which the child support agency can get to. If you really think that is the best option you should just think that you are going to lose all your assets or any cash not taken with you. Even inheritance, the child support agency can get to. Becoming disabled … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it?Technically any divorce decree is going to have disparaging remarks section of it. A section that says you shall not disparage the other parent. You should be careful about telling the kids items during the divorce that would disparage the other parent. This could be looked in by the court unfavorably. It is there to protect the children. I think you can be honest with your kids if they ask the questions. This honesty should include phrases to not disparage your co parent. For instance, take own… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/23 01:37 AM |
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