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Hey brother, I'm sorry that you are in a bad place dating wise, it's got to be hard being child free like that. Most women are going to have kids, or want them. About your vasectomy though... it may be reversible. I had a micro vas reversal done 16 years ago and had kids before getting another vasectomy. FYI: Just in case you ever change your mind, you want to make having a child an option, or want to have an easier time dating. Good luck out there. 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 02:15 AM
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Your issues are likely psychological. When I was in my mid 40's my testosterone levels dipped and I began to worry about getting ED. That worry caused ED, I started using viagra and regained my confidence. I now can have fun times without using viagra. When I spoke to my Doctor about this she agreed that the issue was psychological not physical. You likely have some issues that you should discuss with a therapist. So go get some blue pills and talk to a therapist.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 12:27 PM
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I had pain after my first vasectomy, the reversal actually fixed it. I'm pain free bro. Its a real thing read about reversals, getting rid of vasectomy pain is part of the marketing.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 12:31 PM
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I paid $5k USD. I made that decision when I had 3 kids and nearly divorced my wife 17 years ago. We went to therapy and pulled our marriage out of a nose dive. I got the reversal 2 years later and had another daughter and son.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 06:49 AM
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Its called micro vas reversal. It usually works under 10 years post vasectomy. Its going to cost anywhere from $5k to $15k.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 03:34 AM
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Yes, I had mine reversed and had 2 more kids afterwards. I then got another vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 03:01 AM
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They are on YouTube as well.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 12:22 PM
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Now that women make their own money the need for the protector / provider no longer exists. Additionally, social media and its ability for mass communication has completely disrupted our dating / marriage relationships. So its partially FOMO, hypergamy, and no longer needing men to provide for them.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 03:39 PM
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Based.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 10:16 PM
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Men are not attracted to a woman's status or wealth. Those are things women are attracted to. I know several men who make 6 figures, are educated, and fit who happily married waitresses. These women had very little status or wealth. What made them attractive to my friends was their youth, beauty, kindness, compassionate and nurturing personalities. Regardless, I wouldn't marry again without a prenuptial agreement in place. Only a fool would marry without one especially knowing that 49% of all ma…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 08:57 PM
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Keep gray rocking her bro. Keep your distance. She wants her cake and to eat it too. She wants to keep you as a friend and emotional support while chasing other men. Nope, she doesn't get to do that to you. Be strong.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/25 03:46 PM
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Brother, You fucked up by hitting her back. She definitely deserved it,but now you may have opened yourself up to prosecution. I would take photos of your injuries and call the cops. I think you should get out and get away from your wife. You need time and space to decide what you are going to do. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 09:19 PM
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Here in California, they would have put an additional felony charge of child endangerment on her for every kid in the car. They also would have charged her with felony DUI with injury. She would have been in prison for several years and be stripped of custody by DCFS.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/25 04:21 PM
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Drink, f@ck, and kill things. Family, friends, gym, and therapy are healthier.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/25 07:35 PM
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She did that to herself. Now she's bitter and hates men. Classic! 🤌🏽
/r/MensRights08/11/24 11:00 PM
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Women predominantly work in the service industry, medical field, administrative jobs, or in academia. The same jobs they worked 100 years ago. 100 years of women's liberation and they still work in the same fields. They do not work in fields that build, maintain, create, or protect society.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:34 AM
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Brother, She murdered your marriage as soon as she started cheating with her AP. You need to let go of the marriage. It was murdered by her hand, and a legal divorce is in process. Don't be faithful to people who are unfaithful to you. Give respect and loyalty to the loyal. The unfaithful deserve, neither, only contempt. Take off your wedding ring and start that healing journey. Gym, friends, and therapy. Be on the level with your new gf and let her know you are still damaged. That it may take a…
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 01:13 AM
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I'm glad that things worked out for them. Growing up in a broken dysfunctional family made me very curious about why my parents were the people they were. The more I dug, the more I found out. Truthfully, they were both immature, broken people who had unresolved issues. These unresolved issues caused them to make foolish decisions that led to their divorce. Understanding them helped me accept them for who they were and to let go of my hurt and resentment. I chose not to repeat their mistakes and…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 02:21 PM
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My father is my 2nd marriage success story. He married my mom when she was an 18-year-old, and he was 26. He had 3 sons with my mom but had a rocky marriage. He went to law school and became a lawyer, and it went to his head. He started cheating on my mom and eventually got caught. My mom divorced him after being married for 8 or so years. She got primary custody, alimony, and child support. Getting divorced and losing custody broke him and sent him into a bit of a drunk hoe phase. Lots of women…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 01:49 PM
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Wise man spitting straight facts. 🔥
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 03:29 AM
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Happy 42nd Birthday! 🎂
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 06:19 AM
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Brother, I'm sorry that she betrayed you and lied to you. You didn't deserve that at all. 2 things can be true simultaneously: She was young, immature, stupid and broken girl. That her betrayal was without excuse. The truth is, you married very young. You were blinded by your love for her, and you didn't look for the red flags. Sadly, you married a broken, foolish girl, who hurt you badly. There is never a good reason to cheat. You will never get the "Why" answer from her that will soothe your p…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 06:31 AM
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They would never blame any other group for the actions of the individual unless they are considered oppressors. Remember kids, according to leftist ideology: The oppressed ( AKA minorities, women, LGBT, etc) are never held accountable for their actions, and must be protected at all costs. & The oppressors ( AKA white people, men, Christians, straights, etc) are to be punished, reviled, and discriminated against for fairness and to make society equal.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 05:35 AM
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She's a strong, empowered woman who is the equal of any man. Why does she need men to protect her? Sounds like she desires all the freedom of feminist liberation and yet desires the protection of the patriarchy. You can't have both. You are either equal to a man or a lady who requires protection.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 10:23 AM
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UpdateMe!
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 05:54 PM
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Brother, She hides her phone from you. 🚩 She deletes texts. 🚩 She's always texting / calling him. 🚩 She went on a date with him. 🚩 There are more redlags flying here than at a Chinese military parade! You can't trust her. She has been gaslighting you for years. No trust, no relationship. I would assume the worst. She's having an emotional affair and / or a physical affair. Talk to a lawyer. Make an exit plan. Get out and start living a better life. UpdateMe!
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 12:35 AM
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He has been wronged by her. He deserves to feel some sort of justice if he chooses to. Not everyone can suck up abuse and carry on like you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 09:02 PM
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He should stay there. She needs consequences, and he needs justice, though. Anyone who disagrees is just an apologist for the unfaithful and pro infidelity.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 06:41 PM
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Her getting fired and a sense of justice having been served. He should expose her as the cheating filth that she is to anyone who will listen. Reap her reputation and get her fired. He should trash her to all their mutual friends and share the evidence as proof. Being the bigger person is overrated.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 06:23 PM
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It's called vengeance. Retribution. Giving her consequences for violating her marriage vows and cheating at work. He deserves payback.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 06:16 PM
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Go meet with the director. Let him know that your STBXW cheated on you with bozo while at gym at least 3 x. Play him the recording. Ask him if it is within company policy for instructors to engage in sexual affairs with their students and if they are allowed to have sex at work? Nuke her to everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 05:15 PM
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She probably has attachment issues. She may be self sabotaging her relationship because of them. Ask her to go to therapy to figure out what she wants and deal with her childhood trauma. You can talk about divorce afterwards. People with childhood trauma and drug addict parents often develop avoidant attachment. They will self sabotage their relationships, get bored easily, cheat, etc. Attachment Theory
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 02:47 PM
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We need to have women get drafted too. It's their feminist duty to serve just like men, right?
/r/MensRights17/06/24 01:51 AM
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UpdateMe!
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 11:34 AM
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I worked in a female majority industry years ago, and I'm so happy I left. So much fucking drama, and man did they sandbag. Being in a male majority field now is so much easier in comparison. We know our jobs and have clear and open communication. We work together easily and have a clear chain of command. Life is good.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 11:35 AM
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Did you know she had all these alphabet soup mental disorders when you were dating? 😬 I got a few rules: 1 Always be the crazy one in the relationship. 2 Never. I mean, never stick your 🍆 in 🤪. Good luck with your nightmare ex bro.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 08:37 AM
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Yes, I would. I'm not going to raise a child she chose to have with another man, even if it were with a sperm donor.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 12:32 AM
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The ADL is a leftist run hate group.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 10:40 PM
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Sad, but true.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 03:10 AM
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Keep your chin up, champ. You are going to come out of this better off. Your struggles have all been worthwhile because you are free of a woman who didn't love you. It's like you are recovering from cancer surgery and chemo. Soon, you will be all better bro.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:40 PM
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That makes sense. She was just trying to justify her infidelity. I take it you divorced her? How are you doing now?
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:21 PM
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I'm so sorry, brother. So, she sabotaged her relationship with you because she was afraid of losing you? She's mental.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:14 PM
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Not every woman can handle a guy being a stay at home Dad. Hell, some women can't even handle having a sick husband. I know my wife wouldn't ever want me to be a stay at home Dad. She would be insanely jealous, but then again, she's super traditional and a stay at home mom. Hopefully, it works out for him.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:08 PM
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Take some time to work on yourself and recover from this. Get a passport and go have some fun. 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:01 PM
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Brother, Your story is unfortunately becoming very common. I warn guys all the time about becoming stay at home dads. The lack of respect that follows, the infidelity, then divorce, It's so common that it's becoming a meme.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 10:39 PM
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Sit by the river long enough, and you will see the body of your enemy float by.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 05:44 PM
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You know the joke. Women... accountability... kryptonite.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 09:03 AM
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That likely wasn't a cop. We use work phones or call from blocked numbers.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 06:52 PM
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Brother, It sounds like you just got out of an abusive relationship. It's common for people to have doubts after a breakup or divorce. You are doing great and are making great changes in your life, so be kind to yourself. Schedule to meet with a therapist to talk about your past trauma and insecurities, ok? Therapy helps and you don't want to drag your unresolved issues from your past into any future relationships you have. Story time: Don't tell anyone, but I'm only 5'7". I'm a Cuban / American…
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 10:53 AM
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Brother has tripled his net worth to $3,000,000 since 2020. He also gets paid approx 1k per episode of Days of Our Lives, so he's probably making over $240k from that alone. He's also a voice actor with multiple revenue streams. Child support is based on a matrix that takes into account their incomes and their standard of living prior to divorce. It's only that high because he's making bank bro. 💰💵 There's a whole other convo to be had about fault vs no fault divorce and about making marriage an…
/r/MensRights04/01/24 07:56 AM
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I'm sorry, brother. You should cross post this in r/deadbedrooms, too. I couldn't live in a sexless marriage, with neither passion nor affection.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:38 PM
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Brother, The grass is greener where it is watered. You two have neglected the romantic aspect of your marriage for too long. Get into couples counseling and try something radical like a 30-day sex challenge. Try to reignite the fire before you even think about divorce. Only lawyers win in divorce. Good luck 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:03 PM
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Brother, You need to follow the advice above. Record your conversation with her. Let her know that you are done chasing after her. ( Seriously! Stop with the pick me dance) Tell her you will be filing for divorce after NYE. Tell her that Mr. Side Guy can keep her, that you dont want to be with an unfaithful woman, and that you are no one's second choice. Go low contact with her and avoid doing anything with her or as a family. Move her into another room and do an in home separation. Give her the…
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 07:37 AM
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Happy Cakeday! 🎊🎉🥳🎂
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 07:26 AM
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Our parents do not always make the best decisions or teach us the correct lessons. I wish mine did. I wish my family wasn't torn by infidelity and addiction. I learned to seek wisdom young and decided to make better choices than my parents. I decided that if I couldn't have a good family for my childhood, that I would make one for my children. I found an amazing woman and made her my wife. 23 happy years later, we have 5 children and have adopted another one. 3 boys, 3 girls. Final score. Go mak…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:27 PM
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I'm sorry, bro. You didn't deserve any if that.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 02:55 PM
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My own mother said she had her tubes tied because she didn't want to have 4 boys. She said if she had another boy, she would have killed herself. Thanks for that, mom. There's nothing like having someone who never wanted to be a parent as a mom. 0/10 would not recommend.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 02:28 PM
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UpdateMe!
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 05:46 PM
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Fucking Chad! Legend 🏆
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 06:59 AM
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A lot of times, we are tortured by what we don't know. Our minds attempt to fill in the blanks, and we are visited with constant images of their betrayal. Know who, when, where, why, and how may really help you. Just be prepared for lies. It's typical for cheaters to engage in what's called D.A.R.V.O. Deny Attack Reverse Victim Offender. She will minimize what she has done to save herself. Attack you for leaving her abandoning your marriage and child. Then blame you for her affair. IE: You worke…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 10:42 PM
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I completely understand. You may want to eventually meet with her to get a confession out of her and see how deep that rabbit hole went. Here are some subs that could really help you. Lots of resources, advice, pinned comments, etc. There are a lot of book, video, and therapy recommendations that will help you. r/SurvivingInfidelity r/SupportForBetrayed r/AsOneAfterInfidelity We internet strangers are here for you brother!
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 10:07 PM
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I called it. They love their granddaughter and are torn about what's happened to you. On one hand they want to support you, but ideally they would love to see you reconciled and happy.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 09:40 PM
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If you are set on divorce, and NC is a fault state, you may want to feign reconciliation. Ask for a timeline of the affair and a full disclosure letter admitting her infidelity. Make her confess to your family, hers, and all your friends what she did. Then, divorce her with all the evidence you collected. Make sure you get into therapy so you can talk to a professional about what's going on ok?
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 09:38 PM
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Exactly bro. Preach 🙏🏽
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 07:54 PM
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He's trying to help. Tell your Dad you just need his support and love right now. God may hate divorce, but he allows it for adultery. Just remember your parents have also lost a daughter in law and a granddaughter too. They may push hard for yall to reconcile.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 07:54 PM
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Nah, bro. There is nothing to be ashamed of. You trusted your wife because you loved her. That's perfectly reasonable. Your pain and anguish are also understandable. You obviously had your doubts about her. So often, we disregard red flags in our partners' behavior because of our love for them. It's devastating when we learn 💔 about our wives' betrayal of us. We understand you. Your parents, friends, will understand too. Call your work and talk to your boss. Let them know what happened and ask f…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 07:48 PM
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Don't do that. Whatever you do, stay alive. You are your own worst enemy right now. Your life will improve, I promise you. Have faith 🙏🏽.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 07:42 PM
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I know, brother. I'm so sorry. Your woman did you wrong, and likely has not been faithful or a good wife to you for a long while. There are good women out there who will be faithful, love you, and give you a family of your own. You just need to survive these dark days. You retreated into your pain and self isolated after you found out, you thought about dying and ending yourself. Those are classic signs of depression. You reached out to your parents, and that's a huge step forward. That shows th…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 07:38 PM
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Life is going to get better. The darkness in your heart and mind will not last forever. One day soon your grief will change to rage. Use that to fuel your transformation. Burn like a Phoenix and rise out of the ashes of your former life. Become the best version of you possible, and make her regret ever cheating on you. You can either be the reason for your success or the cause of your self-destruction, choose to believe in a better future for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 07:23 PM
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I'm happy for you. You deserve a win after the year you have had. There are brighter days ahead, so keep moving forward. 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 06:03 AM
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If you do, you should ask for a post nuptial agreement that has an infidelity clause limiting alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 09:06 PM
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It makes it harder for these terrorists to run away, humiliates them, and helps to control them. It's a win-win.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 05:21 AM
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Bro. She's probably got a guy on the side while you are away. That's why she's going to hotels. Get into her phone or check her iCloud. I bet you will find pay dirt there.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 05:23 AM
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She had 4 without anesthesia. She's a beast and a force of nature. 💘
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:48 AM
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Most of my Gen X female friends married the guy they dated in high school or college. They had 2 kids in their 30s and are still married. Some are working part-time, but most are full-time. My wife is the anomaly. She has been married for 23 years, has six kids, and has been a stay at home mom for 22 years.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 03:19 AM
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Brother, I'm glad you got into individual therapy for your abusive tendencies and depression buddy. Keep hitting the gym and focus on becoming the ideal version of you. You have a lot of growing to do. Her leaving you can either destroy you or be the catalyst for change. Let the end of your marriage be the reason you are a better man. We can't change our pasts, but we can use our pain, loss, and regret as fuel for a better future. Good luck buddy 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 07:16 PM
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Sounds like there was a failed attempt at monkey branching and / or a possible affair that may have caused the separation. I would ask for complete transparency and dig. Get into her phone and accounts. Try to get in contact with the guy and see if their stories match up. She may have been having an EA - PA and used the separation to try to replace you. Don't be her plan B.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 12:06 AM
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Sorry brother 😞
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 01:19 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 12:29 AM
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Republicans in Texas are trying to get rid of no fault divorce. Ride this out until they do, then divorce her. I'm sure you have enough evidence to prove her infidelity in court and would likely get the lions share of the assets and no alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 05:35 AM
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Update Me!
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 01:06 AM
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You gave it your best shot. I'm sorry she hurt you bro.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 05:27 AM
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Brother, I'm sorry that happened to you. The sad truth is that the greatest indicator of future performance is past behavior. AKA, once a cheater, always a cheater. Sorry bro.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 05:14 AM
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Brother, Chances are that she was already having an emotional affair or physical affair with him while you were still together. This is called monkey branching, and a lot of women do it. They never leave a relationship until they have a backup man ready to go. Good luck 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 06:30 AM
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I live in California, and I'm able to do it. I'm just a street cop too. The only way we have been able to do it is by always buying used cars and living far away from the major cities.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 07:07 PM
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OP, Sounds like your family and friends are all feminists who don't support you. Don't you know you chose wrong! How dare you! 😆 My wife always wanted to be a stay at home mom. (SAHM) I did everything I could to make her dream come true. We had 5 children throughout or 23 year marriage, and are currently adopting our 6th. Some of my more liberal friends look at my life and think we are crazy, but we are the norm among my conservative Christian friends whose wives are SAHM and have 4 to 6 kids. G…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 04:59 AM
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Get away from this sucia ASAP. Any woman with an Only Fans is not worth your time.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 09:19 AM
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Women occupy service and intellectual jobs revolving around helping people live better lives. Yes, these are important jobs, but overall are not critical jobs.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:42 PM
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Men overwhelmingly occupy positions in fields that are critically important and underpin society. Occupational breakdown by gender Everything you see around you, was built, and maintained by men. From mechanics, construction workers, welders, to engineers, men are the ones building and maintaining the world around you.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:16 PM
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Everything
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:32 PM
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For the same reason that females in movies are all hot. Sex sells baby. They want thirsty women buying tickets too.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:26 PM
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Good for you, brother! Get into therapy with her and make your marriage work for the both of you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:51 AM
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Brother, You should go to court and petition for joint custody. That way you can have your kids more often. Try to get a support system going to help you with them. It will totally be worth it. Good luck brother 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 12:05 AM
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OP, In my opinion, if you can stay friends with your wife, then there is no reason you can't work things out. I've been married for almost 23 years, we've had our bad times for sure, but open communication and marriage counseling have always saved the day. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 06:24 PM
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Sometimes, separation and emotionally distancing from your STBX can make them realize what they are going to lose. She may also feel sad and lonely and want your comfort.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 01:47 AM
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No. I love going down on my wife. It's not beta at all. She's a SAHM, and she treats me like a king.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 10:16 PM
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Don't be her plan B. Never be anyone's plan B. You deserve to have a woman who loves you and wants you. Make yourself into the best version of you, and go find that woman. 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 05:56 PM
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OP, Tell her, "I want a divorce because you lied, cheated on me, and continue to cheat on me to this very day." Save copies of all the email etc so you have proof. Hell, record the conversation for posterity sake. Good luck OP 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/23 05:54 AM
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OP, I know NYC has a very lefty reputation but there are still traditional conservatives there. I would look at guys who work in traditional conservative jobs. Police, Fire, Military. Additionally going to a conservative mosque or church in NYC would be a good idea. Also NYC has a Republican club that meets for parties. I would try to join and go there. Good luck out there! 👍🏽
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 03:21 PM
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The 180° https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 01:20 PM
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Grey Rock: The grey rock method is where you deliberately act unresponsive or unengaged so that an abusive person will lose interest in you. Abusive people thrive on emotions and drama. When you act indifferent and don't show your emotions, they may lose interest and stop bothering you. This is known as “grey rocking.”
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 01:17 PM
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Do the Grey Rock, Low Contact, or 180 on her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 12:27 PM
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86MadMax, I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. I was an ugly duckling too, depressed in my youth, and had a lot of problems growing up. I felt alone and unloved for a very long time. I eventually got out of my depression and worked on myself. I was still pretty overweight when I met my wife and only got bigger once I was married. By the time I was 28 and a father of 2 kids, I was 265 at 5'8". I decided to lose weight for my health a career change. I lost 90 lbs in 9 months, by running and…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 05:36 AM
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OP, In my experience, most men who would want a stay at home wife also want children. My wife was a stay at home for only a year before we decided to have children. Good luck out there OP
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 08:10 AM
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R/Offmychest appears to be run by some hyper liberals. They banned me for participating in R/Prolife.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 11:35 PM
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I married a wonderful, faithful Christian girl who wanted to be a SAHM. 23 years later, we have 6 kids and are still happily married. 80% of all affairs happen at work. Why would you risk that?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 09:52 PM
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OP, Totally play nice with her until you get everything sorted in court. Tell her you love her and just want her to be happy and free to live her life. While she's happy with you, go to court and get a 50/50 parenting plan set up. If she gets sour grapes before you do this, she can hide your kid from you for months before you go to court and try to make you a weekend only Dad with extremely limited visitation and high levels of child support. Good luck OP 👍🏽
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 07:50 AM
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