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Idk- I think it is relationship dependent. We pay the bills. We do the things that need to get done around the house. We buy groceries. We shovel the driveway. We take the garbage out. Etc. Etc. Never felt that way until I met my partner. Maybe one person does it most of the time - but I dont really feel likes its you do this so I do that. Its more, these are the things need to get done so we will get them done. If we both didn't contribute it wouldn't be a partnership and teamwork - but its not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:47 AM
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My partner is genuinely so attractive. When I met him I was on the phone with my best friend and I said "oh no hes so hot" and hung up. But I wouldnt have been able to do a FWB with him for very long. I was LOCKED IN after meeting him. Lost all interest in everyone else. All my eggs went into one basket and I crossed my fingers and toes lmao. If he just wanted to sleep with me I would have lost my mind and probably would have been a lil crazy and it wouldn't have worked out. Thankfully, he is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:25 PM
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I everyone is different with their standards and everyone male or female SHOULD be picky. Your life partner is someone you have to spend everyday with. Experience your parents dying with. Possibly experience birth/ raising children with. Making major life decisions with. A partner is someone we'll pick up traits from because you spend so much time with them. Choosing a partner is probably the biggest decision you'll make in your life. So I dont feel like there is such thing as too picky. HOWEVER…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:54 PM
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I mean, the majority of men and women who can't get into a relationship im sure are pretty similarly awkward and have similar feelings around it. But I would like to say, I haven't heard of women running people over with cars and shooting up schools because they can't get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:10 PM
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Actually it is quite sad if any adult is basing their value and "entitlement" on opposite sex attention. I honestly feel like it's a therapy worthy issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:42 PM
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To an extent I kinda feel bad for them because it seems like most of them are just begging to be seen and accepted and loved. And it's so counter productive because they will never be seen and accepted and feel truly loved when they're putting up this kind of facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:26 PM
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TRUE. It's like a thing, a feeling, a vibe. No idea where it comes from. And usually I know if they have it or don't immediately. And men always say it's attractiveness because I've also liked guys who aren't the most attractive but they had the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:24 AM
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Ok let me correct myself. Women are more likely to be seriously injured or die from domestic abuse. And generally violent crimes is such a broad term, the nature of the violence is different. Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes when its gang and/or drug related- or a fight at the bar. Women live like men in addition to taking on the traditional caretaker role. And again, not minimizing the male experience here, of course there are shitty things about being male - i just think it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:34 AM
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I mean, tell that to my friends who have kids who want me to have kids, and my boyfriends family, and my family. And I do want kids, but I know what expectation will come from my partner when having them. Most men I know that don't have kids haven't changed a diaper, where most women I know were changing diapers when they were like 12/13. Western world or not, there are definitely still unspoken expectations and social norms that are quite traditional, despite if a woman works or not - and tbh i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:40 AM
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Here's my take as a woman: women push humans out of their genitals and usually if there is a breakup it's easier for a man to walk away from it. Not to mention women are expected (not always but more often than not) to be the main caregiver (even when they work full time jobs too) women are more likely to be sexually assaulted, kidnapped, and harassed. women are more likely to be victims of domestic violence women need to prove their assertiveness in the workplace if they want to move up more so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:13 AM
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I love that a man is acting like he understands OUR hormones better than we do 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:00 AM
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Ngl my thoughts and emotions do fluctuate pretty bad because of my hormones. But I try hold myself to not saying anything for at least an hour or 2 if something is bothering me- because more times than not I give it an hour and I'm totally fine. With that being said though, I am aware of what's going on and I'm sure most adult women are too. I certainly wouldn't fall out of love with someone because of my hormonal internal temper tantrums lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:13 AM
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Why would you put this thought into my head lmfao. I love my boyfriend dearly and I hope he sees me as his forever person 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:49 AM
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Romantic relationships aren’t unconditional, but that doesn’t mean love isn’t. You can definitely break up with someone because they are horrible to you in the relationship and still love them - like wish the best for them and care about them. But obviously there are conditions and boundaries to a relationship, that’s with any kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:40 PM
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I’ve honestly heard men say some pretty unhinged things to one another that would not fly in a female friendship- at least not for me. And it makes me so uncomfortable being around it, I can often see the guy that’s the butt of the joke upset/uncomfortable but just ignores the comment, they all laugh, and move on. And then they all act like buddies after. But there is no way the joke doesn’t phase them at all, men have feelings too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:06 PM
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To be honest, if I was in a bet for money, I'd bet on 94.5% than 5.5%. Even if it was 15% vs 85%. It's statistics. It's math. Yes, some people falsely accuse, but most people don't. So what will we do? Treat 100% of people like they're like when it's 5%-15% of people lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:30 AM
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Not all women are attracted to shitty guys. If that's the type of girl you're attracted to, that's absolutely something you need to work on yourself - same as the girls attracted to shit guys. Although my boyfriend is so attractive sometimes when I look at him I feel a bit discombobulated LOL the most attractive thing about him is how considerate, self-aware, respectful, and empathetic he is towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:27 AM
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If she gets the ick she doesn’t like you or it’s a commitment issue that’s manifested in a way that the person doesn’t like anyone and therefore won’t commit to anyone. Not the same as a porn addict. Might be some correlation between porn addiction and commitment issues though, not always but also sometimes. But definitely not the same imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:30 PM
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Kind of agree, actually, I think the lies that have been told about Trump generally have helped him win, not even just by feminists. It makes people think people are just making things up about him so he doesn't win (which they have) - but the reality once you get through all the BS - he just isn't an ideal president lmao. Neither is Harris imo. How does the US have a population of over 300 million, and these are the two primary candidates LOL. It's kind of ridiculous. Trump is a comedy act by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:01 AM
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Being their brains are more wired for physical success than me because they’re more logical in what they feel will make them happy- and I’m more emotional, so I care more about the emotional aspect of a happy life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:28 AM
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I would argue that social competence is important to a degree. If a first date isn’t a little awkward, I start over thinking their genuineness- so I’d like to say authenticity is more important, and social competency is equal to attractiveness. At least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:14 AM
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I can only speak for myself, but I don’t think making more money and having a house is high on my priority list for finding a life long partner. I generally look for someone I can admire for things they’re better than me at and vice versa. So let’s say there is a scale of certain qualities, if we use the 16 personalities test as an example on a scale of 1-10 I might be a 5 on making my decisions based on feeling, and a 2 based on logic- so I might be attracted to someone that’s a 4 or 5 on makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:47 AM
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I literally don’t know a single woman who doesn’t want to “seem shallow” so they make up an excuse of why they won’t date you. We do this so we don’t hurt your feelings. You would rather a woman say “I don’t want to date you, I think you’re ugly”?? And looks and personality BOTH matter in a relationship where you’re choosing your partner. I wouldn’t date someone I thought was ugly and I wouldn’t date someone who I didn’t like them as a person/ their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:38 PM
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It’s a validation and worth thing, for at least most of these women. What more validation can you get than sleeping with someone who is the most part inaccessible to most other women. Even if it’s a handful at once, it’s a handful out of an entire concert. Same thing goes for women who date shitty guys, the guy cheats, treats her like shit, but promises she’s the one he truly loves out of all the other women. Makes you feel validated and special. And unless you have a solid foundation of self wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:20 PM
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I don’t think it’s dehumanizing, but obviously categorizing people as low or high value is a shitty thing to do. If you don’t want to date someone because they don’t check whatever boxes you need checked fine, but saying oh they’re low value seems totally unnecessary and mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:25 PM
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I think most people can recognize that there are a lot of shitty people, and when you date around you find them. But when it’s gender specific like that, it’s clear you have had no good experiences or maybe 1. Women walking around saying all men only care about sex, have no moral compass when it comes to sex and will cheat because they’re all so horny at all times, and you have to treat them like shit and test them and do xyz. It’s clear these women both haven’t had a healthy relationship, and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:35 PM
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10000% - then when they get into a cycle of dating shitty people or where emotional intimacy is absent, they go back on TRP to cry about it- feeding into what they’re saying on there. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:16 AM
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Putting women in a box and saying all women are xyz make these kind of men more comfortable and make dating feel more attainable when you remove the abstract aspect of people. A generalization can be used for both genders- but that’s all redpill is, a generalization from men who have had bad experiences with women, for men who seem to have never had a healthy connection with a woman. It’s essentially the same as some women saying all men cheat, you have to treat men like shit to keep them, blah,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:05 AM
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Don’t know how people are doing 0/100 relationships in this economy. I swear both people have to be making 80k plus a year to have a child comfortably. And that’s assuming you’re not paying $3000 in rent for a 2 bedroom house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:36 PM
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This is wrong and not even debatable. Of course kindness and decency matter. They matter just as much as physical attraction, unless you have a low self esteem and like to be treated like shit on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:28 PM
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In my experience, if I want to be calmed down and given realistic advice I’ll go to one of my guy cousins or my boyfriend. If I want to cry and wallow and just be supported/ hyped up I’ll go to my girl friends. Gotta have a well rounded support system 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:45 PM
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Not really just an “alternative” when it involves so many horrible societal consequences. And I still think this is a self confidence issue if you have to be fucking a bunch of prostitutes to bring home 1 average looking girl. Whole post is ignorant, and self destructive. But do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:16 AM
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I love seeing an actual logical comment in this sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:17 AM
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Didn’t say anything about that at all. Your post is about increasing confidence so you will feel less pushed around by the sexuality of women who are not hookers. If you already had that confidence this wouldn’t be an issue. I’m not sure what you’re not understanding about that, it’s pretty black and white- but whatever you say macho man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:07 AM
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You said in your post you felt that you could speak to an average woman because you knew you could get sex somewhere else. That very clearly speaks to your confidence about being able to get sex. I didn’t say anything about the motivation about getting sex. I said you feel like you have to get sex to get more sex. If you were confident enough in the first place it wouldn’t have been an issue to pick up a girl at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:47 PM
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Why wouldn’t trafficking be a valid debate point in a discussion about an industry where it is most prevalent? Trafficking in America is different than trafficking in third world countries. Women get into “relationships” where they are abused and threatened and forced to do sex work and the money they are making is going directly to that person. Not to mention there is no age verification ESPECIALLY for people working independently. Fair enough that some women like to do it, some men want to go-…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:02 PM
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Being sex trafficked vs getting underpaid is not an equivalent comparison. I know the risks of going to a hooker, I know the risks of being a hooker and I personally don’t like those risks, and wouldn’t want a partner who likes or ignores those risks. Frankly, I’m not knowledgeable enough to give you a whole run down of every single statistic on every single social issue and compare it with you. I just know I don’t like it, and I don’t like the idea of it for the reasons I’ve already listed. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:00 PM
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But you would intentionally be putting yourself into a situation where sex trafficking is known to happen when going to a hooker. Anyway, you wanna go to hookers go for it- but does not align with my morals and values and therefore I wouldn’t date someone who does. And don’t think it’s something that should be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:51 PM
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As I mentioned already, sex trafficking is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:45 PM
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I’m making a case of why I think men going to hookers is gross. You know if you’re raping someone and it’s not consensual at the bar. Would I date a rapist no. When you’re going to a prostitute you don’t know if it’s consensual or not. So would I want to date someone who sees them? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:32 PM
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https://freedomandcitizenship.columbia.edu/ipv-history#:~:text=The%20social%20acceptance%20of%20wife,“The%20Rule%20of%20Thumb.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:30 PM
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Not all prostitution situations are consensual. Look up statistics on trafficking in just North America alone. Look up people who got out of the industry and listen to their stories. Laws about prostitution didn’t come out of someone’s ass, there a reason it’s illegal. So no, it is not the exact same thing with money involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:28 PM
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I’m morally “grandstanding” on why a guy hooking up with a prostitute is gross to me- based on social issues that come along with it. Intimacy was a very small part of that. And I think hooking up with a random person from the bar also shows lack of respect for intimacy, except it doesn’t come with the looming societal consequences and danger that prostitution does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:22 PM
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Right. And do you see how upset thinking about that makes you feel? It’s because it’s not normalized. Beating your wife was normalized and even encouraged in America for a really long time. To keep them in line. I’m relating rape and abuse to this post that is about women, of course this happens to men and boys, no where in my comment did I say it didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:13 PM
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And then I suppose beating women would have the same consequences for men. When the risk of another human is much greater in comparison to your “consequence” it just seems like a really unthought out perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:09 PM
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Sex work is mainly frowned upon because of the human trafficking and abuse that inevitably ends up coming with it, whether or not some girls want to do it or not is irrelevant. You’d really never know the difference anyway. It also shows a lack of appreciation for intimacy. I get it, men love boobs and hitting their cave man chests- but personally, I wouldn’t want to be with someone who would risk sleeping with someone who is in a potentially dangerous situation, and paying for it, simply becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:45 PM
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I have been in one situationship in my entire life that lasted like 2 years. I was young and literally so obsessed. He treated me like his girlfriend except it was a big secret. We’d sneak out in the middle of the night to hang out, he’d steal his grandmas car to see me 😂😂 He made a big thing about how messed up his family is, and he doesn’t want to get me involved in it because I’m so perfect and he loves me so much. Then eventually I cut it off because I’d matured a bit and realized well I’m o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:59 PM
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Guess it would depend on the person - but emotional vulnerability is really important to me, mainly because I do this thing with everyone in my life to give as little info as possible when needing to discuss or disclose something personal and I would like to be able to just share myself with someone and explain things to my partner wholesomely- and if the guy doesn’t do the same and show vulnerability I don’t want to, or get scared off or embarrassed because I’m a pretty closed off person and am…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:54 PM
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Ideally, wouldn’t both people like each other the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:46 AM
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I don’t know why we can’t reasonably say it’s both people’s fault? Logically if 2 people are involved would they not both be at fault? And then the child suffers. Both genders need to make better choices when it comes to sex and love so we don’t fuck up the planet with a bunch of traumatized, unwell humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:49 PM
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Think maybe you’ve spent too much time on reddit? There are more ways to give than monetarily. I think people who actually love each other do their best to make each others lives easier in whatever ways they can and where they can. And people who love each other usually say things like they’re so empathetic, they’re so funny, they’re so smart, they’re so interesting, etc. I don’t think the issue is just women, people get into transactional relationships because they’re settling for less than lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:12 PM
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Don’t know if I’d ever intentionally go for someone famous or whatever, kind of seems like a headache - unless they were really really great. I talked to a couple YouTube famous band guys when I was 17- and all they wanted was sexual stuff and when I refused they stopped talking to me lmfao. So I grew out of that pretty quickly. If someone was famous and had strong morals and values and was respected because of their character that would be more admirable I guess because it is easier to not be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:23 PM
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Men who cheat are actually so low value. They put themselves and the people they’re in a relationship with at risk of stds, risk of getting someone pregnant and then having to pay child support which will take away from their family or the family they plan to have with someone else. And not to mention it shows lack of integrity, empathy, self esteem, self control, and loyalty. All qualities that are important to women. It is honestly the stupidest take I’ve heard. Anyone who says otherwise is sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:41 PM
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This is ridiculous. That’s what think lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:49 AM
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I honestly don’t think most men or women are equipped to have this kind of relationship. There is a mutual respect and trust that needs to be had. Men don’t just get to boss the women around with their masculinity. If we’re talking more traditional roles, men lead, women guide. Women GUIDE. Not women are bossed around by the dominant personality in the relationship. Relationships with traditional masc/fem roles seems completely lost on majority of people. Where men make decisions and women advis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:37 AM
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This post implies all women date guys they’re unattracted to or players or it’s assuming all men are one or the other. Neither are true. I do my best to avoid both people I’m unattracted to and “players” when dating. And I can say for the first 2, if it is someone I’m attracted to, I’m avoiding them. 3 passion is good in a relationship, but considering 90% of the time you’re not banging, enjoying each others time together outside of that is more important. And for 4, if someone is judging someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:56 AM
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I would need all of these to date someone but it would probably be grouped in what I would look at first, second, and third: [8, 25, 9, 18] [22, 1, 26, 13, 2, 17, 6] [3, 4, 12] And then the rest I don’t care about all that much and are probably equal, as long as they are respectful of my opinion, don’t have kids, and have a job. Lmao. Kinda feel like this is a tall order given the answers on here- I always wondered how people find so many people they like enough to date- this explains it lmfaooo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:18 AM
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I would assume most of the women on this sub don’t like hookup culture- and most of the ones who do aren’t going to comment “I like hookup culture” on a post about how easily women get casual sex, because women tend to brag less about their sexual encounters. And this is a debate sub after all- so why would they just comment to agree? Some women do, some women don’t. Some women are more lonely than others, some women feel satisfied with casual sex. Just drives home the point that “all women” or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:17 PM
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Since all women are evil we have to assume nothing she does is by accident, so she definitely intentionally removed her lid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:53 PM
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Ya, it’s kind of like a bathtub plug, except roughly the size of a baby’s head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:46 PM
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Don’t be ridiculous, we obviously have a lid for the hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:40 PM
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Ya but commenter said women don’t care about sex, so long term that is equal to 0 holes. And even if on the off chance she is a freak of nature and does like sex, everyone knows vaginas don’t work right anymore once they have kids. It stays the same size as the babies head!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:10 PM
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That’s right, all women are out to get you. Honestly, if all women are evil, manipulative, bitches- why don’t you just date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:31 PM
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Lmfao what are painted on orgasm lips?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:01 PM
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If someone says they don’t like having casual sex and the other person intentionally manipulates them to believe it isn’t casual sex to use their body to jerk off into- id say that’s pretty selfish and shitty regardless if you want to call it using someone or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:47 PM
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😂😂😂 ok Pierre, chill out In the words of the lovely OP, no one asked about you 😂
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 10:11 PM
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Well I’m a female- and you’re making claims about them? You can’t seem to perceive any view that doesn’t validate your shit self esteem and ego clearly.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:58 PM
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I always wait for the guy to make the move of posting first or putting it in a relationship status online- I usually follow the guys lead that’s just my relationship style… so not sure you’ve got all “females” covered here
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:46 PM
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Finally, a man who just GETS IT. Bow down to your Satan loving superiors. Thx 😘
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:17 PM
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Ugh. No one on this sub cares about feelings and admiration. If you want an arranged marriage you should really just say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:00 PM
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Oh yes very femoid. BRB I’m being beat rn! I’m so in love 😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:00 AM
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Oh yes, can confirm, I only go for men who are currently incarcerated, are drug dealers, drug addicts, or abusers. Definitely wouldn't like a nice guy that I have things in common with, who treats me well, and appreciates me. Ugh gross. Who would like that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:58 PM
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I more mean continuing seeing people. I’m usually pretty good at sussing people out by their behaviour. I’ve never been wrong about someone after 4 or 5 dates- which is definitely a lot less time than years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:30 PM
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Or only date men who see women as people also?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:25 PM
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When I was younger I was a mover lmfao. I never see the gender thing as a barrier actually- even though I play a more passive, supportive role in my personal life- I'm the opposite in my work life. And if I need money to survive I need money to survive. I'm not doing a labour job anymore, but if I needed to, I definitely would. I might not be as strong as a man, biologically, but I work hard and that always shows- and I always build rapport with everyone I work for/with which helps. So in any la…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:14 AM
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Ethical non monogamy lmao. I personally like the term swingers much better.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 09:44 PM
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Of course women are going to do more before having kids because they have less responsibility. If both people are working equal hours, and a kid is added as an additional huge responsibility- obviously responsibilities will need to be redistributed? This seems like common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:05 AM
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Finallllyyyyyy, a post on here I can really get behind. I have been thinking the same thing! So many people on here try so hard to fit everyone into a box to make themselves comfortable, but the reality is humans are complex beings that are multifaceted and ever changing based on media they consume, people they hang around, life experience, etc. Not everyone is shitty and selfish- although if you spend too long on this sub and a few others I can think of, it can be hard to remember that when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:05 PM
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Because we like to be satans little minions as usual duh
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 12:55 AM
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Where are these peoples mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:53 PM
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CC zz,, I’m Sure be a a
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:45 PM
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What are the exact statistics on women aged 30-40 having children with a chromosome defect? Like what is the percentage? And is the percentage you’re talking about directly related to birth age going up? Or is the birth defect percentage a multitude of factors thrown into one and then placed next to the birthing age going up? Again I am yet to meet anyone who has had a child in their 30s that has had a child with a birth defect or even significant issues getting pregnant that they didn’t have al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:14 PM
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Right this is very true- I’ve literally never met anyone in their 30s where their kids have had defects? The worst I’ve heard is a woman in her mid-late 40s having a difficult time getting and keeping a pregnancy. But also how wild that people base others “value” on something that is completely natural and out of a woman’s control??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:09 PM
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Where is the evidence for this? I know a lot of people who have had children in their 30s and not one of them had an unhealthy child. Late 30s-40s is generally the age people need to worry about complications. And usually if you’re healthy complications at this age don’t even happen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:04 PM
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Ohhh here we go. You know maybe if people learnt to choose their life partners based on moral compass, values, integrity, empathy, etc. like things that are actually significant to a long term partnership, instead of being so hyper fixated on dating 18-24 year olds because somehow the 2 year age gap between a 24 year old and a 26 year old has this mysterious value that is formed out of thin air- you’d have better dating experiences. And if we’re talking strictly looks, I’ve seen 20 year olds loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:33 PM
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Gunna have to disagree- as much as we’d love to put everyone in a box to ease our insecurities or validate them, we can’t. People are people, they’re nuanced and everyone has different patterns and expectations. If you make someone feel unattractive, unappreciated, and/or uncomfortable or you’re treating them like shit or trust has been broken, obviously they’re not going to want to have sex with you very often. And I think that goes for all genders lmao. How quickly someone sleeps with you feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:30 PM
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I’m a hopeless romantic and I absolutely did not want to read this today 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:01 PM
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Sorry what? 😂 This is giving - ran into an old family member who is now a tweaker and is trying to pitch a business deal because he heard you took a business class in college. He will only take the money earned to buy drugs once though. It’ll be a no from me 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:32 PM
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What I am saying by we are more emotionally driven (for the most part since I understand that not everyone is exactly the same), I would not sleep with someone who I’m not emotionally attracted to- where I find men don’t as often need that emotional attachment like women do for sex. Of course sex is important, to both genders- but I do think it’s incredibly primal to brag about how many people you have slept with and running around like it’s some kind of award. Obviously, to some extent we are a…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 04:26 PM
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So what I’ve got from this, is you’d like women to be a little more humble because it’s making all you horny-sex driven men jealous. LOL I think there is definitely a good debate in this conversation about how women are more often emotionally driven and men are more often sex driven and that is why women can more easily sleep with more people if they chose to. Although I’m not really sure it’s an achievement for either gender. It is kind of weird to me that so many people are at such a primal le…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 03:46 PM
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