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| 117 | "Ultimatum" and a Culture of Boundary-Shaming | RANT | ProfessionalPee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:47 PM |
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| 3 | I have no wordsIm disgusted by the fact she had to make an edit because people are MAD SHES NOT HAVING SEX? It doesnt matter if she has a reason or not, thats her personal fucking choice! We gave a word for intercourse when somebody doesn't want to have that intercourse. Its called rape. "Urgh why arent you kindly letting him rape you? Smh" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:50 PM |
| 7 | Men will complain about the mental health of their girlfriends as if they aren’t the problem. This guy can’t deal with his depressed girlfriend but his comment history reveals something different.He claims she has an eating disorder but browses tons of feederism porn. It's pretty clear he's the source of the issues here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:00 AM |
| 12 | Men will complain about the mental health of their girlfriends as if they aren’t the problem. This guy can’t deal with his depressed girlfriend but his comment history reveals something different.Makes me find it odd he complains about having to cook for her...what exactly is he making her eat? I genuinely wonder how much of this is him being fucking insane and making shit up. She has an "eating disorder" but he browses tons of extreme feeder type porn. He hates having to cook for her but yet.... Makes me wonder if most of his complaints are him being delusional in the first place. How high is the bet that without him she'd have almost no mental issues and he's the sole source of them? S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Happy Valentine’s day! Proudly celebrating single this year! (New account bc other got hacked by scrotes who got mad at my heavy lifts) ❤️Incredible! Totally goals ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 7 | I/we need your helpIf you can get victims of this who have escaped at all, they are an EXTREMELY powerful voice. If you know of any, push them to the forefront of speech if it is at all safe for them to do so now, especially when trying to find allies! As much as I'd like for them to understand it happens whether they see victims or not, a big part of the pornhub takedown was enlisting sympathetic men, mostly by having the victims speak out to prove it happened at all. Victims generate more sympathy than objective… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 21 | I/we need your helpMany people in china have figured various ways to get around the filter for many reasons, not just porn tbh. Playing games banned for stupid reasons like religious iconography is one of them. Although many say the government also gives its golden boys easier unfiltered access so I imagine that plays into it if you're a government official. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 63 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...THIS. Dumb scrotes pretend they don't know the point of alimony is to support the wife who put her career on hold for him- lost opportunities, less future job prospects too, and unpaid household work. Alimony in most cases is much less than what he really owes her lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?I've always done it myself. Block exists for a reason lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 4 | The words we use: Is he a male or a man? Is she a female or a woman?That is a true estimate, male and female are for livestock or medical situations and man and woman is referring to people. The only case I use male or female is if its medically relevent to the statement (ie, the fact that males have higher testosterone and get angrier a lot more, or that females have periods and males dont. Medical type statements) if you see somebody passing call a man a male or (much more common) a woman a female they generally do not have respect for the gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:54 AM |
| 6 | True statement, wrong conclusion. Why "be a hoe"? Why not "focus on yourself, love yourself, level up"?Was about to say this. That's a man lmao hes speaking for what would benefit him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes."Bro work it out!!" No, HE can work his shit out. It's not OP's responsibility to train a literal fucking toddler to be a decent person. Hes a grown ass adult but acts like an infant. Not her problem, she shouldnt waste her time on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 122 | Y’all ever see something so true it lowkey makes you wanna cry because everything seems so hopeless?Same here. And when I admitted to it they went "why didnt you tell us earlier durrr??" Well, when the first thing you say when accusations of rape come at your favorite little golden boy politician is "THEYRE LYING TO RUIN HIS CAREER DURRR" obviously you're not communicating it's safe to tell you. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 26 | I said “men are actually awful” and this is the response I’m getting. I said this in response to a woman who said that she was harassed by a man. why is there more outrage over a statement instead of the fact women are literally being harassed?If his reaction to somebody having experienced so much harrassment from a specific group is "BUT NOT ALL OF US DOE" and not "I'm so sorry, what can we do to help?" Then he is part of the problem. Period. Victims' realities >>>>> abusers' egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:18 AM |
| 27 | This post on the front page makes me want to barf"I never asked to be a weekend father." Now pretending for a second this isn't a larp post by a tilted incel, let's address this: I have been unfortunately involved with CPS a LOT. (One side of the family is generally pretty yikes and yeah.) I can assure you they barely do fuckall. Their number 1 priority is reuniting the biological parents wot hmm the child. If he wanted more than a weekend he would get it. If he really didn't have a say in the matter he is so ridiculously unfit he must be doin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 11 | An Ideal relationshipNot having one in the literal sense is normally a lie. Ones who aren't lying to cheat etc, that is HVM who don't really use social media, tend to have the accounts and can provide them but don't post on them basically. Like you'll ask and they'll be like "oh my insta is (insert here), I don't really use it much though." And you check and indeed, there's maybe 4 posts on it from a year ago most recently, for example. It's extremely rare for one to genuinely not have ANY social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 10 | Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"Hadn't heard that one, thanks for telling me. I figured there's be something else on him. I don't follow manson too closely so I wouldn't know all the deets. All things being considered, I feel thankful not to have seen people defending him near me...yet. Whoever does is earning themselves a block and delete for sure, I 100% believe her that he's a POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:56 PM |
| 36 | Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"There ARE more. There's an infamous recording out there of him having a fan at a house party do some pretty nasty shit. Including some really drunk ones. He won't release the full recording even though he has it. 100% there's abuse in his history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 87 | She explains it perfectlyLove her energy and confidence! She's staying winning, I can say that much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 0 | wanna hear how bad it used to be? watch Fran Leibowitz's specialI'm sorry but... the fact that 50's range men weren't the men in question in the 70's is kind of a fact. :/ you can't just say "that isn't true because it hurts my feelings." I'm sorry, it's not that those men aren't misogynists too, but like it's pure math to figure out that they can't have been the men doing this particular thing when they were babies during that time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Vile monster confesses to SHOOTING his wife’s beloved pet cat. Wife makes excuses for her deranged spouse, and basically ends the post with “Gosh, men are so dang silly, aren’t they??” Sigh. R.I.P. to the poor kitty, honestly.100%. He probably poisoned the cat when pellets didn't work. Anybody with half a brain cell to rub on itself know you're not going to get charges pressed for asking the vet to help your own cat, they'll believe it's an accident since you brought the cat in anyhow. He was just covering his ass and this OP somehow believes him... about 3 years later hes gonna offhandedly mention how he saw the cat eat rat poison but "oh he seemed fine so I didnt mention it haha" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:59 AM |
| 13 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videos"Why are you mad? At the end of the day you have the absolute honor to have to bear all of his burdens for him with none of the potential benefit!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:55 AM |
| 10 | HV friendships?I think while it's good to have standards for friendships obviously, you also need to evaluate how they make you feel. Some people just don't vibe together well, some do. The biggest sign is if you assigned a time to split for the night and you're both like "awww that sucks, bye!" Because you actually enjoyed the time a lot. If you catch yourself eyeing the clock for the time you can politely leave you really aren't friends unless there's some circumstance that influences you needing to leave li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:44 PM |
| 82 | Why do men pm women of this sub to ask questions about things they could easily google?This is the one. They don't actually care about what you have to say they just wanna go "AHA!" and clip some part out to crazymake you. Just block and ignore lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:37 PM |
| 44 | Almost burnt outAs somebody who was once that girl? You probably had a lasting impact on her. It only takes one right person to help somebody realize that what's done to them isn't right. I know that associating pain with brushing my hair made me avoid it at all costs, hopefully she feels a bit better about things and it'll help her try and take care of herself in the future. It takes time to unlearn the programming that "brushing = pain," but having just one person brush your hair correctly (my aunt for me) he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Most of the comments are praising him for COmMuniCatINg."Hold on, open relationships are very normal" No they're not. Quit going cope mode and stop pulling the other crabs in the bucket down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 46 | Suggesting couples counseling can be a form of gaslighting. This lady could have died in the shower while pregnant and her husband got mad at her for being upset he wouldn't answer her, after her begging him to just answer his phone. It pissed me off to see "counseling" suggested here& it's upvoted.If he doesn't care enough to not let this happen already, he doesn't care enough to benefit from any form of therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 7 | So disheartening to see posts like these...gotta remind myself that Reddit is especially misogynistic and not reflective of all men, but like. holy shitLiterally. When I worked a janitor job, most of the people on the floor (the men were lazy bums except exactly 2) at any given time were women. They've seen women work these jobs, they really just don't notice anything but onlyfans because they're pornsick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:30 PM |
| 7 | Lowkey can't wait for my hair to turn gray 👀Ugh, big same. My family has a history of completely white graying hair so I'm really excited!!! I love how it looks like snow and everything, graying isn't as bad as society wants you to believe. The only concerns are actual bodily function failure, but your beauty changes and remains beautiful through the change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men."This woman who has the means to buy herself fine jewelry is definitely seething and coping over my epic own!"- guy who is hating from a cracked screen on an empty stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 15 | One of the three jewellery pieces I bought myself for Christmas. I am also selling the gifts my NV ex bought me so I can put the money towards something I actually like. I will put my comment in the thread belowI'm so glad for you now! So much support for not changing for a man's benefit alone under pressure. I can tell you're a really strong woman and you're gonna go far in life ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 14 | NoBoDy ReALLy uNdErStAnDs MeIn context I can see specifying guy, but tbh it's for both genders. Serious pickmeisha vibes from all the girls I've heard it from. In general, if the whole entire world smells like shit, you need to check your shoes, because people don't just abandon their friends on a mass scale for no reason. If everybody really leaves them, they saw something you didn't yet. EDIT: I'm sorry, I should specify I don't mean crazy ex, that's pretty much just a male statement. I was more referring to the pic wher… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:24 PM |
| 147 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingThe moment I saw them making fun of a SCAR I knew I was gonna be mad to read this. You never, EVER make fun of somebody's scar. You never know how deeply they are affected by having it or whatever caused it. Scars are especially deep cuts and at best it was probably a painful accident, at worst it could be an extremely traumatic incident (the fact it's large and facial makes this all the more possible.) What an absolutely disgusting, soulless thing to do to anybody, much less your girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏Of course. But my point is that teenage girls shouldn't bother with them when they haven't yet learned to be better people, it sure isn't their fault that other boys are raised terribly and need to be left to their own until then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 64 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏The best advice I have ever given another person was being a teenager and telling other teenage girls to not even bother dating and this is why. Teenage boys are notorious for being borderline animals compared to teenage girls, they need that extra time to mature and it isn't worth if for teenage girls to spend time they could be using doing anything else to appeal to the average teen boy's hormones and pathological narcissism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:01 AM |
| 19 | 🤡 They just never stop, do they? Between the audacity to ruin a girl’s future and the pick me behaviour, idk what’s worse tbh."I love my husband" But does your husband love you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 18 | This libfem meme directed at us so-called SWERFs makes me sad. :(Honestly the things phrased as "bad" in the squares here say a whole lot more about whoever made this LOL. "Stop pointing out my voluntary prostitute privilege!!" Wow so crazy of us to point out that you dont get to speak for it being a good idea when you're in the top .001% of people doing well off of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Saw this going viral on FB. Pick me’s are in the replies saying “hE jUsT wAnTs tO sEe tHe ReAL yOu!”Bold of them to assume I didnt long leave the guy LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:24 AM |
| 5 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Yep, it says a lot that I never feel unsafe stating the facts here. The only reason I even use an alt is to not be tracked irl/not have my other posts discredited by nvm who see me posting here. But i never fear any vitriol on this sub itself, it's so well modded ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:28 PM |
| 31 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.None of it. The appropriate response to snideness is being snide back. Breaking things and symbolic violence is not equal. If his reaction to "dont hit me" from a partner is to get mad and not just feel bad immediately then hes a garbage can either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 45 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.I think it's the way society internalizes it being the womans fault for "just choosing wrong," instead of holding the man responsible for his actions or acknowledging how insidious it can be to begin with. By the time we realize, the idea that "it's my fault for choosing wrong," has been so deeply internalized that the thought of admitting it brings up feelings of shame that run so deep we cant even identify them at the time. This makes it harder because without being able to identify it, the id… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:17 PM |
| 18 | In his term, fwb was a relationshipIt is! An abusive one (; | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:54 PM |
| 19 | More normalisation of porn.When she (objectification) but also let's me (descriptions of abuse) and she says (concerned statement on her part) (Creepy smile of a weirdo) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 8 | So many gems from unpopular opinions today. This person just sounds lazy, or they want someone who's easier to control. Notice how it's women in their past? 🤔 Red flags all over the place.Yes, particularly in the south. It's super cringe. They get dad daughter guns shirts too, I hate it. My dad is like that and it's as stupid as it sounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 101 | You hate to see it. Black men degrading their own kind.And it's TRUE, when's the last time anybody ever asked "I wonder what Twista is up to?" Crazy that he feels entitled to choose between his nonexistant options, hating from a cracked screen and an empty stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 137 | Why I Hate the Push toward Older MenIt's okay, you can just call it child rape. Older men predating on underage girls to the point of impregnation is child rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:33 AM |
| 18 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsBig same. A lot of people on this thread are saying "dont tell them" but like...why are you being willfully ignorant of your NVM partner? If they react that way it is on them, kick him out lmao. My partner knows and he isnt that way, HVM dont do that. Part of FDS is knowing not to hide yourself to appease a man or avoid confronting his behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 6 | That's still not that bad, my ex has a collection of beer bottles and rotting takeout leftovers in his room... 🤢Yes, mainly because there's nothing in the interest of a good husband to keep from his wife financially. As far as a normal person is concerned, having your wife do it if she wants is less paperwork, and there's no motivating reason to actively keep her from it than to hide something sketchy. American HVM have a unified partnership mindset and will, at the minimum, volunteer basic info about the finances and grant a significant amount of influence over them willingly to their wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 27 | We don't get to participate because of our views."You aren't being banned for your views, you're just being banned for your views" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:34 AM |
| 8 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩Scott pilgrim is among other things a cheater, and overall he likes Ramona primarily because he likes any girl he can get. It's literally the thing where a guy accepts a date just because hes desperate then replaces her the moment he gets a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 22 | I'll just be single then lolThis is it. The definitive answer, really. It also strongly accounts for why FDS isn't really necessary in gay relationships (women will treat other women right by default and gay men tend to treat each other right as well, bc in both cases they're on the same level gender-wise.) Het relationships are to some degree naturally dangerous for the woman because the world we live in is geared towards excusing her abuse by men. So het women have to be careful when interacting with men, especially on s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 14 | Yeah, by “missed out on so many games” you mean “be a minimally involved father by dedicating some more of my time to working and taking care of my wife and child as I should?”If he likes playstations he should've picked up littlebigplanet to play with his kids and maybe he wouldnt "miss out" by being reasonable instead of locking himself in a room alone with one controller smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:15 PM |
| 27 | Yeah, by “missed out on so many games” you mean “be a minimally involved father by dedicating some more of my time to working and taking care of my wife and child as I should?”Omfg THANK YOU. Like, I don't hate when men play video games because I do too. And not every single person who plays them is an idiot. Even men who play games can be just fine. (double entendre there aside.) But the fact that he acts like he couldn't embed his gaming into his life in a reasonable way is the LVM part. He could have played some reasonable and fun games with his kids as fun time with dad (I know I'd have LOVED that as a kid if my parents would game with me lol) as a side thing to h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 33 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩You know, the sentiment that scott pilgrim did something to a generation of women is somewhat true. Not because it made them dye their hair but because it encouraged them to do it for a worthless loser who doesn't deserve them... Scott pilgrim boys are always the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 11 | "Ultimatum" and a Culture of Boundary-ShamingThat is true, the problem is that people criticize the person who is pushed to make one and not the person treating them badly in the first place, encouraging them to never have that boundary at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:55 AM |
| 15 | "Ultimatum" and a Culture of Boundary-ShamingI absolutely agree that you shouldn't need to in the first place. But normally when people criticize making them, they're criticizing the fact you feel that way at all, not the person who you put them on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Raise your hand if you’re tired of hearing women being told to lower their standards! 👋"Why not lower your standards?" How abt you lower yours to stop feeling entitled to women lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 36 | “Guys make better friends” 🙄Ain't that the truth? I've been a lot of places and amongst other things this is no more apparent than social media like discord. Open discords that are primarily men are garbage. Drama constantly. Open discords that are primarily women, while also bad (simply because open discords tend to suck ime) tend to be a LOT nicer, calmer, more civil, and have more intelligent and meaningful conversation. It's a difference of the chat being some dork spamming slurs and screaming in VC at each other and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 19 | "We want to make you happy. The fact is, we love when you orgasm almost as much as we love it when we do."Men's favorite hobby is vaulting over the barrier to women-only spaces enough to call it an olympic sport. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:41 PM |
| 74 | What happens when men solely run a countryIt's so, so common to use "culture" as an excuse to treat people like garbage. I'm literally native and if I point out how terrible many native people treat each other on reserves etc (lots of alcoholism and child abuse to start) people look at me like I've grown a second head because "oh but the culture is so beautiful!" Yeah and you know what isn't beautiful? Abusing your children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:35 PM |
| 19 | If you have to drop hints, then he doesn’t really want you.Yeah. And it's on her right hand so I dont think that's an engagement ring, just a ring she wanted. If anything it's a good sign he picked up and got her what she wanted. Although we admittedly cant tell all that much from the info we have in the post alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:28 PM |
| 16 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)If he can afford all that he can afford to treat you right lmao. He doesn't love you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:47 AM |
| 5 | As he neglects her making her wait for his “hobby” she assumes the position of an object, for his convenience only, instead of a human with their own wants and needs. Gaslights herself that this is so great, rest of the subreddit full of video game/porn addicts chime in with approvalSo true! I'm okay with watching a friend game if it's something interactive for me too. But way too many dudes fancy themselves streamers lmao. Like...I'll watch silent hill gameplay. I won't watch a copypaste shooter gameplay where absolutely nothing of value is happening for the audience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:44 AM |
| 40 | Celebrating small victories by being supportive and encouraging is always wholesome to me :’)Aww! You love to see supportive boyfriends <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:27 AM |
| 15 | These are the same men who make "sexual jokes" on someone's mother, sister, a female teacher, literally any random woman even their own, doesn't matter because porn has gotten rid of their last bit of empathy!Can I just say I appreciate the firmness of the last sentence? All too often people are actually given a choice to be decent people with souls. Really tired of "oh it's okay uwu our opinions are different uwuwuwu" on things that are literally life changing to one person but not to the person who wont just have some damn empathy. Society has gotten too soft on soulless behavior like trying to DEBAAAATE things that shouldn't be debatable in the first place because of how obviously bad it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:20 PM |
| 107 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭"I'm going in" Sure havent seen it, bucko. Believe it or not the mods actually care here 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:09 AM |
| 18 | Why waste an award to say this?Imagine if he spent that 5 bucks on body wash lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 15 | While women are busy talking about real problems, men discuss why we shouldn't have women's day..."Men can have breast cancer too"Yeah, average day on reddit. Take a drink every time somebody brings up IQ as if it's some holy magic number and find yourself passed out the next day, yet still wishing you drank more... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 16 | Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex."Of which I already knew, but-" Okay...so it's your own fault then?? Stop blaming your gf for you being too much of a dipshit to leave when you were incompatible. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:58 AM |
| 30 | Pickmesha getting triggered on behalf of men because a girl said men shouldn't be praised for doing the bare minimum as parents as if it's a super hero achievement."Men and women are different which is how god designed it" Oh, separate but equal...that never goes wrong does it? What a totally not terrible idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:04 PM |
| 68 | Oof does she tell it like it is lol wait until the endExcept it does harm people. Pretending because you are marginalized in one way means you're exempt from the privilege you have in another is a way of escaping responsibility. She isn't being a pickme anymore than we are for pointing out the pity of women who act to other women's detriment. Just because we are a marginalized group (women) doesn't mean those of us who are white don't have white privilege. It means we lack male privilege. That does not excuse those of us who are white from the ways… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:06 AM |
| 144 | Oof does she tell it like it is lol wait until the endOkay but "you cant demisexual your way out of white privilege, baby!" Was also spot on, she speaks facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Duck hunting is akin to breathing for duck hunters and wives should be happy that their spouse abandons their family 60 days every year. This post is viral and the comments are so awful. And- where im from, duck hunters literally only sleep, eat, work and duck hunt during duck season.It doesnt take two months to shoot ducks, that's just the entirety of when they're in season. They bag multiple ducks. But it is by no means necessary to spend that much time doing so, you can most certainly bag one and go home without being an inconsiderate asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Interview with incel. Literally if you follow FDS vetting, you'll figure out a guy is incelish in 1 minute"Women don't have diverse taste but men do" Except it isnt women bragging about how they always order chicken tenders at fancy restaurants as an adult, lol. What a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Interview with incel. Literally if you follow FDS vetting, you'll figure out a guy is incelish in 1 minuteSpot on, I knew a guy like that once. He bragged about how if he met me before he'd be an asshole at that moment and was dumbfounded when I told him "if you were still an incel we wouldn't be talking period." Still abandoned him even though I was a pickme back then because he was a complete groomer. (I was maybe 14 and he was 19, tried to show me porn and rape scenes from anime for some ungodly reason. Mentioned that he used a porn game to recreate his 8 year old oc...) Just because they aren't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:59 PM |
| 26 | And they wonder why we call them incels...I'm cackling i- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 88 | Elisabetta Sirani, a true Queen.Fr. Throw rocks at rapists is a platform that has my support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:04 PM |
| 9 | How about neither?I ain't building shit, hire a carpenter lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:47 PM |
| 6 | The Misogyny is Coming From Inside the House."Unlike us women" Damn does she know that other women have been the ones watching out for her this whole time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:39 PM |
| 244 | Elisabetta Sirani, a true Queen.Even better, it's based off a real story. Iirc it was a greek woman and a roman general. Bonus: she threw rocks at him down there until he died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:32 PM |
| 8 | Let us treat our wives as our motherI mean, good for you, but people should just say what they want when asked. Simple as. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:40 AM |
| 14 | Let us treat our wives as our motherIf he wanted something he could just have said so, she explicitly asked him and he denied it. Then his praise is on her for ignoring what he said, he literally normalizes just straight up lying and expecting her to be a mind reader for him. First it's snacks when shes out, then its actual relationship problems that he just expects her to know. The single act isnt harmful, it's the precedent hes setting where he is not responsible for himself at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:09 AM |
| 15 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.Yep. Men have had thousands of years to decide on their social values and beliefs to normalize whether or not we wanted them and these are what they chose. The presentation as if this is some grand oppression is simply nonsense, if they wanted to normalize going to therapy for themselves they could have. But now that women want equality now it's time to cry about the woes they caused themselves... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:06 AM |
| 31 | Scrote on r/divorce is surprised his wife left him when she caught him watching porn. He refers to women as "random sluts" and thinks his wife should be fine with his porn use since she's hot."I dont know how to fix this. Help." You do, you just dont like the answer because it doesnt prop up your world view. Too late now because shes wisened up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 12 | Calls his wife a “total bitch” 2 months postpartum and almost no one is calling out the disrespectLmao hes literally a manchild. Crying boohoo on the internet because mom wants to be with her child... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:44 PM |
| 40 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)It's very interesting he claims to want to "undo the problem" yet hes still interjecting his dick into her problems as always. MUH PEANIZ SEZ BREAST ALTERATION BAD ONLY THE MOST PERFECT NATURAL BEWBZ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 22 | Sean Connery’s death has inspired the manosphere to start saying the quiet & implied part of their whole ethos out loud.That's the thing. The actual women who support it are the type who think they're immune. "Oh I'm the same way!" What they don't realize is that isn't okay to do at all, but it's especially stupid to think that you can take on a 200 pound male as a 140 pound female. They don't understand that, like it or not (I certainly dont lol), women just tend to not hold a candle to the physical strength of the average man. Your average woman could not take on an average man in a fight, and the pickmes suppo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:25 AM |
| 17 | Same men want women to approach them first and blame them for having "high" standards and not liking their pathetic ass.... ugh...LOL man I wonder if this guy got rejected by a swiss woman....the sour grapes are so obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 112 | r/sex told an ABUSE SURVIVOR not to be scared of someone who wants to STRANGLE and HIT her 🤡🤡🤡If somebody told us the girl down the street was strangled to death and raped by her boyfriend we would say that fucking terrible. So why is it okay to reddit when somebody says they want to do so before actually doing it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:34 AM |
| 45 | So sad :( the future is not brightThere was literally a drama because people were banned from participating from a sub if underage and they auto banned people who self identified as teens on r/teenagers... And then those people came to the mods proving themselves to be like 20 somethings. Or older. To summarize, I can almost certainly say that nobody in that screenshot is an actual teenage girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 154 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this...I like how he sarcastically went "oh should I have negged you or something??" As if he wasnt literally doing that already. What a dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 09:28 AM |
| 8 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Yeah it's so ew. My older brother is like this and good god it's so painfully dumb when I'd hear him scream "OH MY FUCKING GOOOOOOD" over league or something. Like...does it matter that much man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Literally this. I find that some men play video games but arent this bad. It's the ones that actually call it a "hobby" and not just playing games that are a huge problem. If it's all they do they are addicts and it shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 20 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Lol yep. AITA equivalates "manchild" to calling women "whores" for some reason. Even though manchild is completely true in this case and most of the cases you get banned for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, I got asked if I do travel and accommodation at work. I'm an ENGINEER.Ugh, typical. On the brighter side of things, you at least aren't being bothered by the self-shown LVM for those things. Still seems obnoxious though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 56 | Ladies, I got asked if I do travel and accommodation at work. I'm an ENGINEER.What the fuck lmao. "What do you do" "I'm a lawyer" "okay but did you actually go to law school tho" how the fuck do they think you're a lawyer without going to law school? Lvm can be insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 16 | I just ordered her book, ngl.Yeah basically. France loves to take a walk around strategy to avoid admitting to their disgusting practices. A lot of countries do, but France has managed to get so many people to believe it that blatant pedophilia gets supported, which is insane to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 41 | Apparently I wasn't actually having fun because I didn't drink.LOL loser. Imagine not wanting to be fully aware to enjoy the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:43 PM |
| 84 | I just ordered her book, ngl.Oh no you dont understand, Mignonnes is ACKCHYUHLEE about how child abuse is bad, that's why they exploited real children to show us that! UwU Really, france has fucking terrible opinions 99% of the time regarding their media management. Not liking men because they rape bad, liking child pornography is like, just an opinion bro dont worry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 7 | This woman posted about her ex threatening/stalking her, contacting her family, breaking into her house, etc., this smooth brained waste of oxygen decides to bring up the fact that “men can’t be violated when girls go through their phone” and some stupid pick-me agreeing with him.SHE DIDN'T EVEN DO IT THO. SHE ISN'T LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE. What a fucking dweeb. "me me me!!!" Stfu loser, swear to god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 3 | NVM always think that you bring single is somehow a sign of your “lack” of worthHe thinks just because he's incel that everybody single is LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Age gapsTHANK YOU. So many women brush it off as "you're just jealous" and I feel so so bad for them. Why would I be jealous of your dusty abusive cunt of a bf....i am WARNING YOU because i am so worried about what hes going to do to you! But you can never seem to convince them. Poor things project their own sense of love onto these creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 30 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowPretty much. They feel that they can be very complacent because they make the assumption that girls are as complacent as they are, in reality women are raised to be constantly working because of the culture that "men do, women are" resulting in the necessity for extra effort to get to the same spot. So (TRP that is) men just feel they can have jack shit for hobbies and still be more than, when in reality they're just doing nothing and rotting away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:14 AM |
| 33 | FDS will be increasing the amount of low quality memes/videos we remove at our discretionEspecially since r/fdssuperfans already covers that type of thing anyways (text drama from mgtow) so posting arguing here is redundant and misplaced (not to mention breaking the handbook as far as interaction intentionally with nvm) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:07 AM |
| 16 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)Being pushed away from stem is so true. My high school's stem and robotics is ALL MEN. Last year it wasnt. They actually harrassed the only 2 women out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:02 AM |
| 7 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treeI am so sorry. But like others I have to point out- that wasn't a "prank." That was just property destruction, abuse. You don't destroy 7 years of daily work into a masterful art as a "prank." If he destroyed a display at an art center he would be arrested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 12 | Hope she drops this pathetic scrote, rooting for the FDS-minded momYep, he told on himself. He acted as if he totally does stuff but right there he pointed out that her saying he even takes out the fucking garbage is a bold faced lie, he's a manchild who does nothing for even his own good much less her's. God, he just sounds like such a loser. Imagine thinking anything but "I should do some chores" when even traditional women who were raised to deal with it point out that you do nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 5 | I felt my brain cells vanish after reading this"Don't lose a good firefighter because he occasionally commits arson" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 9 | Took your advice and got me and my daughter flowers because you need to take care of yourself first!!I'm so so happy to hear, she's going to love it! It's always wonderful to see good moms thriving with their children! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 28 | Took your advice and got me and my daughter flowers because you need to take care of yourself first!!I'm so happy for you guys <3 My parents used to bring me home flowers too, and it really helped my self esteem and brightened my day even though I was super depressed back then. You never know how much those little things help your kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Sis, just leave during the dateI just can't help but pity her for wasting the time to let him keep going. I wish she'd have found an out early the moment he started getting stupid... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 82 | Another gem from IncelwithouthateLOL it's funny that they all have a blatant fetish for women of different races than them yet present it as if they're the desperate ones. Like...black, hispanic, etc women have PLENTY of options that aren't uggo incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:01 PM |
| 12 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatNot just her, but him too. He's not working either... This woman is a saint. Too good for this sinful LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 15 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal."Oh boohoo, woe is me, I Jack off to rape and I feel bad!!!" ....don't do it, then? Fuckin yikes yo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:24 AM |
| 8 | Is this seriously the standard for “better than most”?Poor girl. She should've walked out the moment he proposed a threesome, their relationship's been a dead man walking this whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:23 PM |
| 9 | She didn't even bother reading from fds cause apparently its sexist but i said literally the same stuff as fds ,she agreed.Yeah, but there's still a significant amount of other scrotes and painfully misled pickmeishas who interpret the good content here as bad. For every queen who finds this place and starts to level up, another one thinks "if I bash this place maybe I'll look really woke! What terrible rude women, unlike me!" And a thousand men agree and updoot her while also blatantly disrespecting her as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 12 | She didn't even bother reading from fds cause apparently its sexist but i said literally the same stuff as fds ,she agreed.Absolutely the same situation here. For some reason they count on people just assuming whatever bs claim they make is correct while linking the sub to see for yourself...and people just assume it IS correct! If everybody who saw FDS linked as an example of "antifeminist hate sub" actually took the time to give it a fair look, they'd soon see that it's only called a hate sub because scrotes mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 58 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.The way she BRINGS IT TO HIM too....I'm really boutta puke. He hardly even spares her a glance after all she did for him...really goes to show what all that effort gets you on a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:43 PM |
| 29 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Awesome stuff! The more bitter LVM cry about it the stronger we get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 20 | This is a great argument against BDSM, rape fantasies, and other kinks. It’s the same reason why we shouldn’t be okay with pedos saying “it’s just a fantasy, I don’t mean any harm”Reddit only loves hating on pedophiles when it let's then get lots of updoots and an excuse to go over their sick murder fantasies. In reality, the murder fantasies are to kill anybody, but they know if they said it's a pedo people will let them say it. They never want to call out pedophiles when it doesn't suit them. For example, saying loli is pedophilia sets them off because that's personal to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 7 | This is exactly what liberal feminism gets us 🤢Quite frankly, I think she's just a rare example of a female pedophile. While most of the time its scrotes, there's a few abhorrent women too. It doesn't help that she mentioned being abused as a child...she's just continuing the cycle. And she's getting away with it because she's branding it as "feminism." If she isn't a pedo herself, shes the biggest pickmeisha in history to sexualize those poor girls for the creepy men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 4 | but where is the lie?????And then it goes one of two ways: They do need the help of those orgs but refuse to take it because of hubris, or They don't need them but they just can't stand the thought of letting women be cared about for more than 1 split second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:26 PM |
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