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I used to think I was dominant for a long time because a lot of what was portrayed in soc media, in terms of relationships affirmed that if you weren't the one, then you're the other and the idea of being submissive makes me physically ill. Turns out I just hate being bossed around and don't belong in that structure at all. None of which is to say that I think power exchange relationships are superior to vanilla relationships, or that they are "the natural order of things." But there's nothing w…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 05:52 PM
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I never understood why people are so fixated on a dominant/submissive or leader/follower dynamic like there's no other way to navigate relationships. The nature of those dynamics seem really primitive to me. Nothing against you OP, your post just got me thinking about the dynamic in general.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 02:26 PM
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Doesn't the issue somewhat follow the likes of mid women being good enough for sex but not for a relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:19 PM
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Nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:02 PM
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They are OBSESSED with it on the Discord. It isn't really a coincidence if you think about it. This sub is in itself obsessed with the psychology of the sexes/genders. Especially Redpill types who try to "understand female nature" to game women. MBTI is a concept that comes in handy to them, even if it's mostly bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:58 AM
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Same here, would have expected more as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:44 AM
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I've been going through the same in my teen years, so it's definitely not anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:45 AM
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one less thing to distract me from dwelling on what I feel are my misfortunes. Sounds like you're making yourself purposely more miserable by ditching it all. Isolation leads to depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:22 PM
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Funny that. I'm the strict opposite. I know I'm very solitary but asked the question to know about other people's social thresholds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:19 PM
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How does having next to zero social bonds affect your psyche?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:32 PM
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I can't understand how people can casually claim they hate about half of the population. I know some women mean it as a hyperbole, but it never sits right with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:34 PM
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Sounds like my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:03 PM
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Honestly, you're greatly overestimating the luck older men have with young women. Unless they're rich, they can write that dream off. When it comes strictly to looks, younger men fare way better. Also, divorced men have a lot of baggage. They're often bitter and jaded. As a young woman, I'm not going near the guaranteed drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:48 AM
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Neither is your ex for the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:00 AM
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These types are usually good at targeting vulnerable women. They avoid me like the pest, and I couldn't be happier about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:18 PM
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What's with the amount of QFW today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:14 PM
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Rating people on a scale from 1-10 is so ludicrous to me. It's been my personal pet peeve for a while ever since seeing it getting normalised online. I find it awfully dehumanising.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:25 PM
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A good amount, unfortunately. I'm well aware that a good portion of men are held back by legal/social consequences alone. Remove those, and it's a freeway for them. Gisele did the smart thing to make the case public. The perpetrators don't deserve privacy. However, knowing my country, I don't have much faith in the legal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:31 AM
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While the characters might be fiction, the act itself is very real and involves people that often times get abused in the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:56 AM
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Written work requires more imagination, ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:54 AM
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Being fictional and not involving real people for one. The implicit nature of written work vs. explicit imagery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:35 PM
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Porn is disgusting. Why would I watch strangers fuck on a screen. I hate how it's become so normalised. People who defend it are weird. People who ruin their relationship/ marriage because of it are mentally weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:39 PM
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Mate just pulled out twitter its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:01 PM
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The cope is part of the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:44 PM
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For real. I thought being seen as sexually competent was a compliment, but apparently not according to this thread, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:28 PM
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Yo absolutely. Being taller doesn't make up for a busted face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:31 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:55 PM
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Some do, unfortunately. I won't deny that there are women who are repulsed by a guy who gets no "play," so to speak. Some do not want to teach them how to do it either. I think what most women mean when they say they'd want a guy with some experience is previous relationship experience or a few hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:07 PM
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No we don't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:22 AM
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Generalities. Hookup culture exists if you're putting yourself IN THERE. Of course, you'll be surrounded by it if you're willingly joining it or trying to. My entire point is that hookup culture isn't as slapped in your face in real life as online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:11 PM
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It absolutely is. No it isn't. You can avoid it by not putting yourself in the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:51 PM
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That hookup culture isn't as present in real life as it's depicted online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:56 PM
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Wasn't the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:51 PM
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Because it is apparent that it’s effecting Gen Z I only hear about "hookup culture" online. In the realm of grass touchers you'd actively have to put yourself out in the casual scene to have access.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:28 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:19 PM
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Never did probably 30%. I believe the majority tried maybe one or twice to quench their curiosity. I wouldn't go as far as call them promiscuous for it. Those are probably 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:09 PM
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The ones who do casual or those who don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:48 PM
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any woman who isn't virgin isn't a valid potential for a relationship. It tells me they think of women as possessions. To own and consume. Unsurprisingly, it's an ideal upheld by religious folk and mysoginists. Both are notorious for treating women as people. Having a preference for low count people because of how you view physical intimacy is fine, treating everyone who doesn't fit this ideal as "ran through whores with no value" is not. Whatever the number is, It does not remove their humanity…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:58 AM
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The number of "promiscuous" women is grossly overexagerated. I believe the combination of resentment and fear inflates these numbers. On average, women have lower than 10 partners in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:26 AM
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below the hotter guys they chose to sleep with during their 20s, those guys got sex without having to do all that much What about the women who explicitly didn't sleep around? Should they also get lied to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:32 AM
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Ironically, the "effortless" effect requires lots of maintenance. Good diet, enough exercise, fashion consciousness... I remember in school, if you wore too much makeup or wore "comfy" sportswear clothing, you'd get bullied. My parents never allowed me to wear leggings at home, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:59 AM
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Yeah I've seen this sub before. Crazy. I can't imagine being this much of a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:14 PM
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This comment section is one big contradiction. Lots of men in the comments say they don't want to attend because the women there are leftovers or aren't attractive. Well, if they can pull anyone themselves by other means, then the truth is that their aren't better than these women. Cry me a river boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:37 AM
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It's socially acceptable to be a single woman. It's not. In the past, they used to be called Spinsters. Nowadays, people lose their shit over "cat ladies." Single women have always been looked down upon but have learned to power through the shame geared towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:37 AM
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This feels like a US issue. Coffee dates aren't even the norm here in Europe. In fact, any activity where you spend time together can be a good setting for a date, like going for a walk in the park, for example. Splitting the bill is also standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:23 AM
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The act of commenting "strawman, no true Scotsman, ad Hominem" etc is such reddit nerd speak. Makes you want to shove these people in lockers again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:12 PM
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It is an accusation. can consider anyone who ends a relationship over his a complete irrational idiot. Which they absolutely are. That's entirely your opinion. People have theirs. They can ignore yours if they want, it doesn't make them "irrational". They should be shamed. Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:01 PM
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Yeah, it is an accusation of cheating. Why else would they verify it ? Swapping babies is not an occurrence. It's an argument used to hide behind the fear. You women need to get over this and allow the men to verify and be comfortable that they are the actual fathers of their kids, and without repercussions. We don't have to get over anything. You're free to demand a test, and we're free to react to it however you want. Assume the consequences of your actions. I can certainly decide what I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:44 PM
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Sometimes them being cautious is justified and I don't mind stepping up and show her she can put her trust in me. That's very thoughtful, but in general, women have no concrete means to verify and can only hope, so the best a man can do is eliminate any doubts he possibly can. What would be your solution for those that actually got through paternity fraud, some even went to jail for kids that aren't theirs? They should've known beforehand? The woman deserves to get legally penalised if she's bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:35 PM
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First of all, congrats to your niece and her fiance. I wish them well. The only important is how I as a woman feel. It's weird. Expecting and getting a child is one of the biggest sacrifices a woman can make. You're sacrificing your body, financial prospects, and often your mental health. The "feelings" part is more of an aftermatch of going through all of these sacrifices only for your spouse to have doubts in your loyalty. It's absolutely devastating, and the trust can't be recovered in many c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:08 PM
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The mental gymnastics on this topic are getting stale. It is an accusation of cheating. But if discovered, women need to understand and accept it. They're free to do what they judge best. You're in no position to decide that since you aren't in their shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:52 PM
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The stakes are also high for the woman carrying the child. She's left in a vulnerable position, and the man can just leave. Doesn't she fully trust the man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:48 PM
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I dont think you want to acknowledge that women place blind trust in the men they're having a child with as well. The woman can be abandoned by the father, or the guy can turn into an asshole or cheat while they're pregnant, and she'd be stuck with him once the child is born. There's no way for them to "verify" that the man won't give up on them. And, since I see this coming: the "you should have chosen better" can be equally applied to the paternity test discourse, so don't try arguing that rou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:40 PM
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Man, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:08 PM
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The picture is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:02 PM
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I genuinely don't care how you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:01 PM
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My DMs are closed. It's a must for this community. Also don't doxx yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:58 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:52 PM
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I will wait in my ivory tower.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:52 PM
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Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:50 PM
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I put my selfishness on the line every time - I maximise my own pleasure and satisifaction because that is life. Why would I give a fuck for another persons reasons? Thats their concern, not mine. Likewise, why would these women care about putting out if it's not what they want ? Why would they give a fuck about what their wants ? It's not their concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:49 PM
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I sure do believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:37 PM
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I feel like “independent women” whose identity and purpose has nothing to do with men are kind of selfish. On the contrary, I think that wanting women to have an identity and purpose that actively involves men is entitled. They should be free to choose their purpose and that may or not involve men. Men should also be free to choose their own path. literally do need each other when it comes to conceiving a child. I want kids, I need a woman to be my partner to do so. If that's your motivation, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:33 PM
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The results suggest that most women care about a plethora of factors that aren't solely based on physical attraction. The discarding of these secondary charts and obsession about the physical ratings of the former ones indirectly prove the men's chart. It's a funny thing to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:53 PM
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I think the worst of it is that the other part of the blog post never gets mentioned. You know, the part where two-thirds of men message the top third most attractive women and women despite not giving lots of PHYSICAL high ratings were still messaging men on a bell curve. This would suggest men care far more about physical attractiveness, which makes it kind of ironic that they're glossing over it each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:36 PM
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This and the "women initiate 70% of divorces" got to be the gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:30 PM
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But authoritarian personalities prefer a hierarchy and therefore assume that, once those they/ the system oppresses get "power" they will maintain a hierarchy but place the oppressors in the role of the oppressed. This tracks with the way some men are obsessed with feminism because they think it will lead to a reversal of roles when the goal was, and still is, equity (excluding some radfems). Very interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:19 AM
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French here. Affairs are not the norm wtf. The paternity tests require a court order because private institutions don't have the right to collect DNA samples. There's a biometric law that forbids the collection of genetic information without valid legal claim. That's why ethnic census isn't a thing here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:10 AM
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I get this feeling. I don't want to be a guy because, frankly, I like being female, and men have their own issues that I don't want to spend another lifetime getting adjusted to. However, the pressure about your looks as a woman is unbearable. Especially when you yourself can't be arsed about appearances. I want to be seen as ambitious, competent, smart and dependable to the people around me, but knowing my looks is the only thing that matters makes me deeply sad and resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:45 PM
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that's pretty much the life of an unattractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:27 PM
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Alright, you're ridiculous. Have a great evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:52 PM
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But it's not necessarily true either. Besides, recovery should be the main goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:48 PM
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Someone thinking like that shouldn't have kids in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah, but I don't get why you're saying a male 6 should only go for 7 or higher then. Another 6 is not dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:44 PM
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Well then, those people would be dating their looksmatches then ? I'm not following the initial argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:40 PM
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? Statistically, that's not possible. Or do you mean there are as many 7+ men as there are 7+ men ? In this case, it would be even in looks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:37 PM
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That's only going to lead to more misery in men because there aren't enough 7+ women to go for. The competition for these women is going to be much, much fierce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:32 PM
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Two of them are not gendered. I'd doubt sergeants are better paid than most jobs, tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:14 PM
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Redpillers actively hate "boss babes" which are the ones who financially contribute. I doubt they'd feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:11 PM
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Get an actual argument please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:41 PM
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It leaves out the vast majority of women who work and contribute financially to society. If anything, it makes it look like traditional stay at home women are mooching off society ? Besides, it also leaves out the men who also don't work and benefit from the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:31 PM
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This is probably the most braindead take I've read on this sub in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:25 PM
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Men are forced to pay benefits to women other than their friends and family at the state's gun point and under threat of imprisonment. Women are also paying money that benefit people who aren't friends of family. It's called taxes. Everyone has them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:22 PM
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Nerd rage on full display.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:02 PM
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OP, you can't be serious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:07 AM
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I'm saying it doesn't ruin society. Yes people like that do exist and its really shitty for the men but society won't collapse because of some people engaging in behaviours like this. It's really ridiculous to think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:26 PM
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What audacity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:22 PM
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It's shitty but it does not ruin society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:17 PM
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. I will shame them for ruining society and you can keep calling me an incel Again, that's really overexagerated but it tracks with religious brainwash. I never mentioned incels in any shape of form but it's great to be self aware I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:13 PM
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Trying to make debates personal is extremely juvenile Pot, meet kettle. I am from a religious bg lol Yeah, that's mighty obvious. I'm Catholic myself, but I don't see the point of trying to shame people who engage in casual and then turn their life around. I don't know their lives, and neither do interact with them. Going on a full-blown fit is quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:47 PM
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Any increase is a good enough reason for hoes to stay away from ruining lives. Sometimes it was just a period in their time when they wanted to experiment. Sometimes virgins feel FOMO and start cheating. It's really a gamble in the end. You should step off from hyperbolic thinking. Especially considering paternal fraud still ain't a crime I think if this would get classified as a crime then so has to be child abandonment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:27 PM
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I don’t find these attractive. From what I've read from these "pair bonding" studies is that it only ever so slightly increases their chances to cheat compared to say virgins so "ruining their lives" would be a far fetched statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:20 PM
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Wouldn't that also apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:08 PM
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look for stability after being a hoe is beyond me. You're consciously destroying someone's life by that Why would be having sex with other men in the past ruin someone's life ? That's quite the leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:57 PM
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You really brought up the sour grapes in this thread 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:47 PM
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Again, no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:13 AM
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This question always causes people to self-report.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:58 PM
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You've made no tangible argument. I've decided to expand my view about your previous comment mentioning hypergamy. Work on your triggers. The "trigger" being men slapping hypergamy on everything to blame women when they're acting in similar ways. Yes, falsehoods are pretty upsetting indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:41 PM
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Oh, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:05 PM
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Yeah yeah I'm aware of these issues. The question was more rhetoric than anything. They simply don't care if these guys take over and burn you in a cage. Do you think they actually cared about LGBT people at any point? You were just a useful tool for them to gain power. I've never supported them in the first place. The right hates me too, so I just do me and stick it to extremists of either side. It doesn't help that my country's political landscape have been hijacked by retarded American politi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:48 PM
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nor the influx of citizens from the common wealth who have flooded here since the Europeans went home. Brexit means Brexit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:35 PM
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I don't understand why Islam gets this much support from the left and then label the slightest criticism as islamophobia. I'm a queer woman myself. Why would I support people who side with fundamentalists who clearly hate my existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:26 PM
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I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:24 PM
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I think there isn't much of a class issue in America because the country is relatively "young" and never had to go through feudalism. I'm european, and in many societies, class is still a big issue and is not only correlated with how much money you make. Generally speaking, the higher you get up in classes, the more education and property ownership matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:23 PM
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Well then, don't date them. As a fit guy, I will not date overweight girls. I'm fit myself and will not date overweight men either, yet it doesn't stop them from trying. It's not "a few" either. People punching above their weight is a people issue, not exclusively a female one. Also, hypergamy refers to the action of marrying someone of higher socialeconomic or educational status to elevate theirs. It's a relic of older times when marrying up was often the only way a woman could raise her social…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:05 PM
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I used to look for DnD groups when I was younger. At this time, I didn't care if they were majoritarly male, but time and time again, I've had guys confess to me who ended up resentful and made the atmosphere so bad I've had to leave. I've had it some times too when I've had several ones being into me and you could feel the tension. I have a friend who has a group, but he doesn't want me to join because It would cause drama. I've resorted to being in a female majority group, and it's much, much …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:09 AM
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This comment covers such blatant delusion that it almost makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:46 AM
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My mom had a working class background and ended up marrying my dad, who came from an upper middle class one. She really struggled to gain the slightest bit of approval from my dad's family and was treated badly for years. All of the paired up men around me also have gfs with comparable education levels. Hell, even my brother exclusively dates highly educated women. The "they don't care" is the biggest cope ever. They might not care about it if it's for short term, but they absolutely look at it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:36 PM
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Yeah I see it more in the way of "Can you be happy for me when I'm achieving things in life?" I don't want them to get all hot under the collar when I'm talking about my studies/career, but if they don't show any interest in things that I've invested a lot of time and effort into, then why bother with them in the first place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:26 PM
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Sure, there are weirdos like that. And there are men who break up or cheat because of other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:00 AM
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This just looks like women want men's needs in a relationship to be conditional and optional but women's needs to be mandatory and non-negotiable. No, you're grasping at straws. If the guy does not feel like it but the woman wants to, then she's in the wrong for pushing it too. I'm pretty sure "fistfighting armed robbers on motorcycles" isn't in the standard vows either, There's mutual duty for protection in a relationship. We're in the 21st century, not in the 19th. If some randoms on reddit ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:58 AM
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Okay 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:09 AM
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What do you gain from this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:49 AM
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Dunno, man. Catfishing people online isn't what most well-adjusted people do. But we're on PPD, so we're all a bit unhinged anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:47 AM
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It's insane what kinda stuff people will brush under the carpet just because you're attractive. It's been a real social crutch for me. I would have never gotten this much grace if I've stayed unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:12 AM
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Mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:47 AM
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Do people genuinely find this attractive ? Like for real ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:44 AM
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None other than sexual and romantic exclusivity. Overall, the same duties at the man really. It's not different than a relationship in that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:54 PM
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For what.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:48 PM
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Murdering them outside the womb, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:29 PM
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Ewww.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:20 PM
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Out of topic, but why do people feel the need to censor everything? We all know what you mean, so why not just write Rape ? It's annoying as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:15 PM
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I'm pretty sure "consents to sex whenever I want to" isn't in the standard vows. Also, isn't this post about relationships in general ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:46 PM
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Pro-natalist here. We just don't want you to murder any more babies. Funny knowing you lot start disappearing once the children have been born. Unless you and your peers start to finance, care, and adopt those children in orphanages, you do not have a right to speak on the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:23 PM
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It's interesting when you combine it with the disdain men here have with being a stepfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:44 PM
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I think the rage is mostly due to women having the choice to live a life that doesn't revolve around men and appealing to their fantasies. Lots of them can't cope with that, so they lash out. Popular insults targeting exactly that, think "boss babes" or "cat ladies".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:08 PM
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This could lead to market effects (i.e., price inflation) that would effectively reduce the purchasing power of single, childless adults. In a way, it would encourage people to have kids if they get more benefits than if they were single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:29 PM
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Posting here because I agree with the permise: I agree, and the more I see about falling birthrates and rage against single women, the more I think it's not an unrelated coincidence. I dont want children myself but encourage any woman who wants to have them. But realistically, nothing is done on a societal level to encourage women who might be on the fence about it. House prices are high, motherhood requires a huge self-sacrifice.. and what do we get when we decide the pros are not worth the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:21 PM
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She's saying she rejects cold approaches. Not telling men not to approach in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:13 PM
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Social skills isn't assigned to just one sex. That's just sexist. Likewise, skills regarding ambition aren't assigned to one sex. That, too, would be sexist. And yes, more often than not a woman who waste her youth on education/career often are in fields that are male dominated and require years of training. Are there exceptions, sure. That's false. There are many professions that require extensive education that aren't "male dominated" like for example in the medical field, literature snd socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:34 AM
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Also, women like this spend years trying to climb male dominated fields often lose their feminity and act more like men. No, they do not. You need a good amount of people skills that are traditional seen as feminine, to be able to soar the ranks. That's a redpiller lie and a weird attempt to shame women focusing on anything else than being in servitude to a guy. Neither does it mean the woman participated in male dominated fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:39 PM
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No, we just twerk, eat hot chips and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:27 PM
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Tomboys can be pretty hot. Love me some muscle mommies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:21 PM
2

Same brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:17 PM
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It wasn't particularly about my social circle but more like an overall statement about what I'm seeing happening around in real life. People still predominantly get into relationships by acquaintances or friends. Cold approaching is definelty on the niche side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:17 PM
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Asexual people make up less than 5% of the populace, so yes, your unique perspective is far from typical. Reading comprehension fails at the word people apparently. Or do you think I exclusively surround myself with asexuals ? …what harm has been done??? There isn't lol ? it's just strange to go off by that metric alone and not much different than OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:03 PM
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As an asexual person, you are in a very small minority of the populace, so I will just say that your personal feelings represent a unique perspective. They aren't. Most of the people I know exclusively date within their social circle. It's much safer and more enjoyable. he doesn’t bother you any further following rejection, what harm has been done? The difference is that you would know more about the person besides looks. I mean if you want to start a romantic pursuit on apperances alone you cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:55 PM
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Yeah, it's either attempt a romantic relationship with a stranger (online) or attempt a romantic relationship with a stranger (in real life).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:43 PM
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And many women complain about their male friends approaching them, feeling deceived, objectified, etc If feelings developed and the guy confessed respectfully, then I don't see the problem. Women who think like that are strange. See my other comment under my thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:39 PM
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Men often put themselves in the friendzone. If they've been romantically rejected and don't wish to entertain a platonic relationship anymore, then nothing is stopping them from leaving. This is like a dog crying in front of an open gate. It also legitimizes men seeking a relationship via friendship which many women see as an ulterior motive I find this stupid in the first place. Unfortunately, there will always be men with ulterior motives, but a guy doesn't turn into and asshole because he dar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:27 PM
0

Hanging out with them as friends... you don't have to go in there with a romantic interest. You're essentially missing a step.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:19 PM
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I've never liked being cold approached on the street because it's essentially OLD that's being forced on me. I don't understand how people can see someone and think "yup I'd want to date them" when they know absolutely nothing about them but their appearance. It's like putting the cart before the horse. On the flip side, I didn't mind being approached at the gym. I see it as a public place where people can meet besides doing sports. It's probably an unpopular take (at least online), but I heavil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:05 PM
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I disagree with the statement although I'm aware that might be partially because I'm asexual and don't experience that type of attraction in the first place. I find impulses to be a bad metric since they're very volatile and not dependable. They happen as soon as they depart. On the contrary, I find an intended and conscious stream of emotional investment to be the highest form of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:59 PM
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Why does physical attraction always get framed as the holy grail ? You can desire and love a person in many other ways that don't revolve around physicality. It does not mean you're less attracted to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:50 PM
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Because the sub is called "femalepessimist" so they're going to be negative about the opposite gender. They're unstable individuals. Where the fuck do you people even find these subs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:32 PM
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"It's not about gender roles" while also using a term being thrown to shame women who don’t build their lives around housekeeping and children, aka. traditional gender roles for females...Might want to work on your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:28 PM
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If a guy says they've got a dadbod, then I'm always going to assume they're overweight. It's pretty much the same for women who call themselves thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:40 AM
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I've always read "dadbod" as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:59 AM
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They have people's best interest at heart and act on it. As in being interested in people's lives (ask questions and listen), helping out when they can, knowing how to defuse conflict, etc... there's no secret, really. I remember falling hard for a guy after we've been in an argument with someone else, to which he said in the aftermatch that he does not want to hurt the third person and felt quite bad when he wasn't on the best terms with them. It's been years, and I'm still not over him tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:10 AM
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"Cat lady" has become the catch-all shaming term for any woman who doesn't fit/doesn't want to fit traditional gender roles. Broken record.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:18 AM
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Damn 700 people. My hermit ass could never lol. If you don’t mind me asking, are you planning on getting married or not at all? I don’t crave to be in a relationship because I'm a very solitary person coupled with an asexual personality. However I wouldn't be against marriage if I'm feeling comfortable with someone and the opportunity presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:08 PM
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Congrats on your to-be marriage ! I was raised in a traditional household where my dad worked, and my mom stayed at home. I remember once asking my mom if she regretted abandoning her career to raise us, and she told me honestly: "Yeah, sometimes I do feel like that.". I'm appreciative of all of her sacrifices she made to be able to care for us and regularly thank her. I wouldn't be there without my mom's efforts. I dont strive to be a homemaker myself because I'm not that type of person, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:46 PM
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I'm french myself, and I don't get it either. As a woman, you sacrifice a lot physically, emotionally and professionally when you get children. I would not be comfortable having children without the legal binding. Men who call marriage "a piece of paper" are a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:20 PM
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Not OP, but for me personally, I look for how men treat others and their friends. If they're genuinely warm, kind, and attentive towards people. They're usually good indicators that a man will be well emotionally adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:12 PM
2

Being asexual means the absence of sexual attraction, but you can experience romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:49 PM
2

Paternity tests fall under DNA testing, which is prohibited in France. Especially commercialised DNA testing since it's not supervised by state institutions. Race census or really anything else related to DNA testing is illegal. These restrictions are in place, so personal genetic information can not be retrieved or commercialised by private companies. You can request a paternity test legally by court if you wish so. I only see this ever blow up on reddit. I don't think I've ever heard anyone sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:25 PM
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They've got their own right to demand a paternity test as I have to walk out of the relationship once It's proven. It's a major breach of trust nonetheless. They can raise the kid alone then. After all its theirs, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:37 PM
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"I'm pretty neutral at first encounter and then change attitude according to the person I'm talking to." No because I don't feel the need to be a cunt to someone who's being civil to me. It's been an excellent run so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:18 AM
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It will either attract Machievallian types who understand this 'formula' and how to manipulate it, because this kind of "strong boss babe" posturing is like prey to abusers, they see it all the time. It isn't like this in my experience because the abusive ones rarely want to put effort into "unlocking" it and move to an "easier" target instead. Acting like an agressive cunt from the get go will get you nothing that's true. I'm pretty neutral at first encounter and then change attitude according …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:12 AM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:55 PM
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Women and men have common interests when people aren't hard bent on gender roles. but seeing as you identify as asexual & are openly hostile I don’t imagine you want to talk about this in good faith. The comment I'm replying to is hostile itself. My sexuality means nothing about my "lack of faith," that's you seeing ghosts and drawing conclusions out of nowhere. No matter how you think about it, men HAVE to cold approach. Even at one of these functions you are talking about or even one of those …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:02 PM
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k.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:34 PM
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I wish I could upvote you a thousand times more. This is exactly why I hate being cold approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:01 AM
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She's saying women like it when you want to build a connection with them based on common interests. Getting cold approached randomly because someone finds you visually attractive isn't enough. You: do you hate men ???? Maybe YOU go outside buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:51 AM
2

That sounds like a gamble, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:03 PM
2

That is why I've said "lots" because each time there is a thread about asking men if a woman having a career/education matters there's a flood of "we don't give a shit".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:56 PM
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What are you even waffling about. No critical thinking ? Do you think degrees get given for free or what, especially in STEM ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:46 PM
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I dont know what makes them think a virgin is going to turn into a rabid sex kitten.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:42 PM
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That's a really niche example, and people would still be able to reject them for it if they think it will be a bother in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:30 AM
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Scrap bisexual (don't care as long as attracted to women), left wing (don't care about politics as long as they aren't an extremist), and feminist and it's pretty much my list for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:23 AM
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I think they mean no mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:15 AM
1

I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:11 AM
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It's interesting how lots of men swear they don't care about a woman's education/career, but a good amount of the comments here state they want an educated partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:08 AM
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It's interesting how lots of men swear they don't care about a woman's education/career, but a good amount of the comments here want an educated partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:07 AM
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No, they're your problem. The men are also fat as shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:40 AM
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Not today unfortunately 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:53 PM
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Hey DA then maybe don't suggest people to physically meet up in person on a sub where people post borderline dehumanising garbage about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:27 PM
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I'm not trying to get myself killed. Awful idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:18 PM
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I've got my own bone to pick with radfems like such. If you're not subjecting yourself to traditional roles, you've got no business telling others to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:53 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:49 PM
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I'm afraid that's what either gender does. I've seen more men than I'd like to who want a traditional wife, but act anything like but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:47 PM
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There's truth to that. I know several who are the points I've mentioned but don't necessarily participate in a community or very nonchalantly. Not to mention that things like sexuality aren't choices by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:43 PM
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That's definitely not doing its job lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:31 PM
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You should consider joining the Olympics with how far of a reach that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:28 PM
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I said could because I've met several types of "I'm financially successful, handsome and own a house, yet no woman wants me sob" and they turned to be douches who want people to worship them and throw a tantrum when people aren't impressed by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:25 PM
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Could also be that the guy is a douchebag. I've known several engineers with no self-awareness and really insufferable. They've been brushed off all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:08 AM
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Shit we've been exposed. I need to fly back to the hive and report to my sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:02 AM
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As a bio-engineering major all of their "scientific" talk makes me want to tear my hair out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:10 PM
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Are you alright ? That's quite the leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:57 PM
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How exactly is being queer, being for equal rights and carrying for the environment negative ? Not everyone with those traits is a die-hard twitter activist. It sounds like complete projection on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:42 PM
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Yeah, I do, I've caught some several times. Stopped others from falling on the deep end and pulled my brother out of it by myself. I assure you, lol, you truly have no clue how we operate. At first this actually annoyed me about women, how blind you are. But now I have just accepted it. We can be ourselves with impunity and you will just not see it. There is no worse blindness than those those who refuse to see. Yeah, I do. You lot share all of it online for free. The rest of it is pattern recog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:33 PM
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But to be totally honest, that would repel basally all men regardless of whether or not they ever even heard of the Red Pill. How so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:28 PM
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They can fake their personality all they want but betray themselves by the kind of manipulation tactics that they employ. On the contrary, I like seeing those discussions because it gives me a deep dive into how these people operate from a safe distance. Keep up shooting yourself in the foot gents. It's of irredeemable value to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:11 PM
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Great take. However, I'd like to add that what class you move in also dictates the ideal in addition to cultural background.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:57 PM
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I remember arguing with someone on this sub months ago (different account) about how women can be attracted to K-pop Idols and the like. It was like talking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:46 PM
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I don’t see people start fights because they don't ask these type of weird question. That's why you're here, after all, to not do it in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:53 PM
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Eh ? Who raised YOU mate ? Asking entitled dumb shit in public gets you decked regardless of gender. Doing a whole post about feminism being the reason you can't date falls into that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:44 PM
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It's a public sub. I'll talk if I want to. Asking this kind of question in public would get you kicked in the balls rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:26 PM
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Yeah we would because your question is ridiculous and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:43 AM
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He needs at least 3 PhDs to be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:32 AM
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I think like you too. I'm from a very educated circle and wouldn't date someone without a university degree myself. Don't care if this offends the goober here, they do the same thing with looks but apparently that's not shallow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:08 AM
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My brother went down the road when he learned about his ex getting married. The fact he lived alone really aggravated the situation. What eventually got him out of it was a shared effort from me and his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:01 PM
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I dont see how that's a problem, considering that I've got no trouble finding someone in this environment for long-term commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:55 PM
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This is average in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:28 PM
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And if you admit to have worries about your safety, then you're labelled a terf or a bigot and deserve to get your life ruined 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:59 AM
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I remember talking about relationships with my roommate once, and she said she's been in a situationship and a ton of other details that didn't sound rosey... I didn't have the heart to tell her she was a side piece at the time. I think lots of women are definitely aware, but hope their efforts will pay in the end...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:24 PM
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Huh? The guy in question is jacked and is an electrical engineer. They've already met in real life too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:18 PM
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lolol, I'm not German. I just live there for my studies. I'm french haha. But I agree , they're solid and trustworthy people. Almost all of my friends are German nowadays. We’re from Munich/Liechtenstein originally. Came over after WWII. You're from the US right ? I know they have a huge amount of Germans there. One of my friends also got family in the US. Totally understand. Feeling uncomfortable/guys doing it in that way is not cool. I had some men coming up to me who were visibly anxious tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:00 PM
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I saw her when I visited my old university. She was walking and I just stopped her for bullshit directions then asked her for her number. You probably had a casual conversation, the chemistry was good, and you ended up meeting again. I'm not against that at all. I've had men intentionally approaching me and ask a bunch of personal questions, and that's uncomfortable. I live in Germany. Approaching people out of the blue is definitely also strange itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:44 PM
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The key word here is romantic interest. I'm a stranger, not a potential love interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:35 PM
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I've explained in a comment that I heavily dislike being approached with romantic intent since the guy knows nothing about me but my looks. I don't mind casual talk itself. So how are we supposed to meet new people? Work is a good idea... No idea how it works in the US, but my parents met at work and my brother is currently dating someone he met at work. Online communities are great, too. Both of my friends met their current bfs over Discord and Overwatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:22 PM
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I just say I'm not interested. I don't see the point in dragging in out. Luckily, I didn't have any problems so far. I’m not interested in 98% of the dudes who try to cold approach me at all I dont really mind being approached in a casual setting. When, for example, chating with someone next to me on the train, grocery store line, etc... I dislike being romantically approached when the guy knows nothing about me but my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:17 PM
1

I'm supposed to settle for an obese single mom with a low IQ That doesn't even reflect reality wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:40 PM
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Being short is not a death sentence, christ. When you only pine for the top while not being the perfect beauty standard, of course, you're going to get rejected in the majority of cases. It's called being realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:35 PM
1

Being bitter about not having access to these people certainly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:25 PM
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No, your issue is that the only women you find hot "require 8 figures." That's in the realm of top beauty influencers. They get the top because they are the top themselves. If you're bothered by it, either rise up to their level or shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:21 PM
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I'm not the one getting priced out of dating. It's a skill issue on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:11 PM
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Most definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:08 PM
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Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:39 PM
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I've started getting regularly approached after a huge glow up around 20. At first, I didn't know how to cope and would give out my number, but I ghosted everyone at the end. Nowadays I wave people off politely. I don't mind having a chat with someone, but I'd never go go on a date with someone who cold approached me. It's strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:08 PM
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When will losers on this sub understand that men wanting to fuck your holes isn't the holy grail of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:47 AM
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Oh you sure would do great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:38 AM
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You want my confidence, my wit, my superior intellect and my fat bank balance You should consider a career in stand-up comedy. Your skills are remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:34 AM
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No, a lot of them straight up want to pass up their emotions as "facts and logic," when it's anything but.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:21 PM
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To be fair, the "trad wife" is more of a status symbol than anything. Lots of dudes are obsessed with the idea because it validates their sense of masculinity. Then, of course, it all comes to crash down when faced with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:53 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:40 PM
3

Incorrect, but have a nice evening regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:38 PM
3

You're not the brightest star in the galaxy aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:37 PM
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No, you just can't read. Destitute means the one who lacks the means to provide financially for themselves. Doesn't matter if it's a woman or a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:24 PM
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They're in favour of the partner who's the most destitute. If I'd marry a broke guy I'd get fucked over too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:20 PM
3

Statistics show what exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:17 PM
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You need to stop watching manosphere stuff it's liquifying your brain. The paranoia of being taken advantage of in a potential divorce is as ridiculous as the women who think every dude is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:16 PM
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Who cares. Do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:10 PM
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You're the same guy who said if you'd be a woman, you'd rope yourself and leave kids to fend for themselves if the traditional union didn’twork out. The moron was a factual statement since you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:55 PM
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You're a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:59 PM
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Be careful not to cut yourself on your edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:51 PM
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I wouldn't because it's beyond stupid, irrational, and irresponsible to have someone be the sole financial provider of a household. Guy potentially being an abuser is one thing, but the guy could also become terminally ill, become a cripple or die of a sudden death and then you're left with little to no job experience (and education) to fend for your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:49 PM
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Ever consider that they're most likely not the same demographic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:22 PM
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You're contradicting yourself. People aren't going to tolerate affairs/bullshit in their relationships. The point that people seem to miss is that people won't care about other people's intimate lives since that's considered a private matter. Monogamy still seems like the dominant type of relationship, although I do admit that I live in the Catholic cluster of the country, so that might differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:46 PM
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That's a stereotype. Haven't met someone who's alright with affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:17 PM
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Honestly, that's validating as a french lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:16 PM
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