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Probably a sign you did something correctly TBH but chicks always need to try and desexualize men they can no longer be with. Obviously this is done by pointing the finger at the man
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:23 PM
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That’s what a redpilled man should look like from a woman’s perspective. It’s funny because those are the exact ones that they fall in love with/would do anything for/would go back to anytime.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:08 PM
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Don’t worry about SGM quite yet but definitely read when you have the chance. Immersion (comfort) helps with really good sex and that can take a few months to build. Chances are the first few times with a new partner will be a bit awkward until you two are more comfortable with each other. Foreplay is a must. Finger/eat her out (try licking clit while also fingering vag with ‘come here’ motion at same time. Use long firm body strokes before the sex as well, run your hands down her back, arms, le…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:45 PM
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It could possibly make you more Machiavellian which will likely help you achieve your goals what ever they might be. I have what sounds like a similar upbringing (except the A+s heh), literally had to start practicing smiling in the mirror at age 19 because self esteem was so low. Now at 28 after a decade of self improvement I’m arrogant a f and have a pretty sick life which I’m proud of.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:38 PM
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Lol right. Mine never usually smokes weed and I think just used as an excuse to start shit and have an insane emotional outburst. Had to deal with her BS and she wouldn’t give me my phone back and then her meth head neighbour was literally banging shit and yelling on her balcony next door so I had to go out and get her to stfu as well. I was livid lol.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:33 PM
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Just had a girl go ape shit after taking a hit of my joint. Like full on trying to beat the shit out of me took my phone and wouldn’t give it back, accusing me of doing sketchy shit with not evidence. Never smoking weed with a plate who doesn’t smoke it regularly again
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:19 PM
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To build comfort with a girl who I plan on keeping in my life for a while. For example maybe one day I’ll mention I’m worried I’ve been a bad son to my Parrents because I don’t visit them as much as I used to and then a few days later ask her “so you think I’m a bad son to my Parrents?” In a way that shows I care what she things (I actually don’t)
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:08 PM
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The short answer is definitely yes that is beta. How ever when I need to build a bit of comfort in a relationship after a while I will fake a couple minor insecurities to show I’m human. In the past I have followed up with this by asking for validation on them. The point is to make her feel like you’re not “too perfect” so she doesn’t get uneasy not for your own gratification. But that’s just what I do
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:01 PM
2

I totally get that man. Represents an amount of investment lost
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:56 AM
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Ignore the behaviour
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:28 AM
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Might be totally out of your control especially since you’ve never met her. Anna is against the idea of you based on what your plate has told her. Sucks but happens. The way I see it is you never want to be the guy girls talk about and say “he was really sweet, I feel really bad, I hope he finds someone” ect You’re doing it right if you’re the guy she’s calling toxic, psychopathic or says stuff like “I don’t know why I was with him for so long”
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:19 AM
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Nice I guess it’s hard to demote
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:09 AM
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Only have about 7,000 followers but I link it in my tinder/hinge/bumble bios and have noticed a huge difference. Most of the dates bring it up and want to talk about it even. I’ve had a couple DM me but mostly I use it to compliment my game. It’s mostly memes I make related to the industry i work in, a bit hesitant to link but if you DM me I might sauce
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:05 AM
1

Less attention, do you guys ever go out? Or strictly meet for fucking
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:07 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:07 PM
1

Demote
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:08 PM
2

Interesting, why is it better at night??
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:07 PM
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Check out u/OmLaLa’s guide to online dating it can be found in side bar under the link ‘everything OmLaLa ever wrote’ Was such a game changer for me and especially effective with hotter chicks. Basically it’s made to make you appear less invested then the girl is and get her wondering what makes you so special. Best part about it is it’s hands down the best way to maintain frame during app/texting before meet up
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:20 PM
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I do not think it’s a shit test lol
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:47 PM
4

Great comment
/r/askTRP06/05/21 07:14 PM
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Don’t send confirmation text. Show up, wait 20 mins. Do not contact her what’s so ever if she flakes. Don’t ask if she’s on her way or anything. If she flakes chances are she will message you next few days apologizing for not showing up. Say it’s all good you didn’t either. Might land you real date
/r/askTRP06/05/21 07:13 PM
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Don’t confirm text
/r/askTRP06/05/21 07:11 PM
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So good thank you
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:19 PM
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You bet. Another thing I’ve found helpful is if it’s a walk or something and it’s going really well but the walk is almost over I always hit them with “hey well I guess this is the end of the walk but I’m having a lot of fun would you like to grab a patio beer?” Getting them to follow you to multiple locations is great because it makes it more spontaneous and more of an adventure for them plus it shows you as a leader and an attractive amount of impulsivity
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:38 PM
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A high follower Instagram has been doing wonders for me. It’s not even a personal one but it’s obviously me who runs it and I make sure to post a pic of myself every so often
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:33 PM
1

Best account I have seen.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:30 PM
2

That’s about the right amount of time IMO I mean I doubt 5 or 6 days would be “desperate” but as long as you’re not 1-3 days I think you’re showing enough restraint
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:28 PM
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Walks and drinks are good. If you take her for drinks make sure you go to multiple places in one night. If it’s someone I just want to fuck once I take them for drinks if it’s some one I want to plate I take them antiquing (trust me on this one). Personally if it’s someone I’m more into I just go for kiss close first date and try to fuck second date. I’m really blessed to live in a city with a really good walking trail system and I even live near a place where there is a type of chickadee that w…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:25 PM
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I don’t understand this at all
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:04 PM
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Not necessarily a big deal. The important thing is you escalated and ended on a high note. Not sure what your goal with this girl is but it seems like you’re still in the game. Just text for logistics, arrange the next date and try then
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:03 PM
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So you could join?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:06 PM
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I feel like what she did was somewhat of a shit test. Had a girl I was with who we would always jokingly call each other “pussy” or “bitch” get super upset after I did it one time one day. Being too alpha is possible depending on your goals. You need to instil some comfort/stability and even the occasional insecurity on your end if you want more of LTR long term thing. They do get uneasy if you’re too perfectly alpha.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:05 PM
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That’s true in a sense but I guess my question is what if this thing I want to do is beta? If I enjoyed buying girls lavish presents on the first date it would be alpha because I’m getting to do what I want but it would likely be beta from the girls perspective and a sign of over investment. Wondering where kissing and non sexual physical intimacy land on the alpha - beta behaviour scale
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:00 PM
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Nice that’s a good mindset. I see to many guys with the idea that they can have a woman who is so into them she doesn’t mind being exclusive to someone who is not exclusive with them. Or guys who want harems of girls who don’t sleep with other men. Best is to just not give a shit if little princess is getting waxed and become such a fucking weapon she won’t want to fuck anyone but you
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:46 PM
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Never been in one myself but I feel like not being sexually judgemental in anyway all throughout the relationship paired with never getting jealous yourself would be a solid foundation to have before bringing up that is something you’d be into. I usually tell girls I’m seeing I’m totally ok with them having girlfriends of their own/sleeping with other girls. Going to start being completely indifferent to their extracurricular sexual desires to the point of being cool with them fucking other guys…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:29 PM
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No I don’t think so. Likely just because she’s new and a 10/10.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:25 PM
3

Great comment
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:19 PM
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Reading this has me wondering if kissing is kind of beta... usually I’m pretty affectionate, even with the most casual of plates. I genuinely enjoy cuddling and whispering sweet nothings and stuff but maybe this is low value behaviour even if the girl responds well to it. Oh well. I’m doing it for my enjoyment.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:16 PM
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Just do your normal routine and fuck her. Unless you’re specifically looking for an LTR? If so that’s kind of a red flag on her part
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:28 PM
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Ask her to hang out outside of school: dog walk, walk, hike, coffee, antiquing (my go to), bike ride. Make intentions clear during this time
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:25 PM
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I’m a pretty bad friend tbh. Spend most of my social energy on girls or platonic girl friends with hopes it will lead to meeting more girls.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:01 PM
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Basically a change in several superficial/appearance things that really work for me paired with acting arrogant as shit. Also have a career that is really taking off and decent social media presence.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:49 PM
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I would ride the line of plausible deniability up until sex with hopes I could figure it out before then. It’s not a crime to get a minors phone number
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:06 PM
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Ignor
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:53 PM
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Best comment.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:30 PM
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Yeah that’s a good sign for sure. I hope she is right brother and never stop self improving
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:04 PM
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Totally depends. Might be best when you first meet someone to keep it as short as possible but you also should look for opportunities to demonstrate value and get to know things about her. Regardless over staying your welcome is never good and you don’t want to give her your life storey. Always leave them wanting more
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:03 PM
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You strike me as more reactive and less the approaching type so in that case basically all unnecessary female attention is good (if you wouldn’t mind throwing a fuck into them). I’ve gone through a huge jump in SMV in the last year and notice it all over the place it’s fucking awesome. I Feel like a 18F whos just discovered the CC. Get smiles from girls, look up and see them staring at me. But also sometimes they go out of their way to give me a hard time to test my frame. Had a female security …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:53 PM
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Great question and TBH I don’t know. I had a bi polar plate and I would always just ignore it when she got “the sads” I see it as just another way they try to manipulate our blue pill ways by getting us to react/save them. Made the extremely stupid decision to LTR a BPD girl a couple of years ago and it was literally the worst period of my life. One of those things I would almost say everyone should do once to truly understand what it’s like and vette for it properly.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:44 PM
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Nice work on the date brother The sad vibe is a huge red flag for me. Have you ever dated someone with BPD or someone who is bi polar?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:31 PM
2

Good call. You should have no worries man even if shit should pop off. Enjoy
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:29 PM
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DM’d you
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:28 PM
3

I hope things work out for you man but it’s around now - the 6 month mark the other shoe will drop. Also it shouldn’t bother you but I would definitely assume she’s been through the CC if she is that age and good looking Nothing worse then ending up with some one who views you as a provider AWALT
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:21 PM
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I definitely wouldn’t say it’s necessarily beta, but I think you would have been better off not being worried at all. The mere fact she did it right in front of you makes it seem like it was more to turn your screws then because she secretly wants to be with that guy. I’m in an LTR myself and am dealing with a way worse but similar situation. Last LTR I ever get into.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:18 PM
2

I’m in a similar boat brother. Good question. How long have you been dating? I’m going to guess less then 5 months
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:02 PM
2

I think you messed up by showing jealousy and crying. Almost every chick in an LTR pulls this kind of shit after a while and it’s best to just ignore. Hope you’re spinning some plates and are ready to walk because at the very least you just gave her a bit of power and control over you by showing her what she can use as a stick Best of luck brother
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:58 PM
1

Yeah I think you’re right. How do I remote to plate??
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:42 PM
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That’s a really good analogy thanks
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:15 PM
1

Thanks also bro great comment. I appreciate it
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:13 PM
2

Thanks for the one actually answer to my question, appreciate it. Might be over thinking it
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:24 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:23 AM
1

I didn’t really even plan or try to show her the text/photos she kind of snatched my phone and I didn’t protest. Definitely not fixated on creating jealousy in her just wondering if it is better to reward or punish female jealousy.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:16 AM
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Like I said in my post yeah I know she was getting piped. Don’t really care mostly use her for sex. Not really sure why everyone in this thread thinks I’m emotionally attached to this girl lol yes I’m super cucked and beta thanks for answering my question guys haha
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:14 AM
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I didn’t really go out of my way to show her. Yeah I definitely feel this going no where good. Hypothetically what would have been the better way to handle this situation?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:11 AM
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It was actually should I punish or reward female jellies. What am I missing from the side bar?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:09 AM
1

What am I missing from the sidebar?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:08 AM
1

She is HB9.5 to boost social status
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:08 AM
2

Definitely a lesson I learned on this one
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:07 AM
1

Thanks glad I wasn’t alone in thinking that
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:06 AM
-1

I have met the girl before and she says I can go to her place and do what ever I want with her
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:05 AM
2

Didn’t see her as long term prospect, was planning on ending things just before the 1 year mark This chick has what I assume to be a triple digit n count and has been in porn not sure if that changes anything
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:45 AM
2

But yes absolutely agree, last time I get a gf for sure
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:23 AM
2

Also just a note I maintained frame when she told me and even after but the concept as a whole was a bit overwhelming. Yes I know she’s not my girl and it’s just my turn but I at least want some comfort with a gf
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:22 AM
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By punish I meant withhold attention
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:20 AM
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True and I knew she did but the concept of a guy she will certainly fuck after our relationship and she’s going to go hang with him made me feel uneasy if that makes sense. When does LTR start? What is Gf of 5 months?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:20 AM
-10

So should I drop my plates to spare her feelings? I doubt she has grounds to terminate based on that
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:52 PM
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So when I execute the hangouts with my new plates should I keep it on the DL? It’s likely she will ask what I’m doing should I paint the picture like the hang outs are strictly platonic or imply more? Also to her initial reaction of jealousy how should I handle it?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:39 PM
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I’m the total opposite where as I have an especially ugly face but I have a really good body. I would recommend working out as at the very least it would make you feel more confident. Start small and work your way up. I’m working 15-16 hour days almost non stop to finish a construction project I’m working on and can’t hit the gym but still do either 250 push ups or 220 squats each morning (only takes 16-20 mins) because that way at least I feel good
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:36 PM
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I guess to keep her interested in me. I’ve heard it can be beneficial to have the woman be jealous /preselection / competition anxiety.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:27 PM
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