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/r/seduction19/10/25 12:45 AM
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you literally had a 1 min interaction, got a smile and now you are obsessing about it, right? certainly not "the best opportunity I've ever had." sure you can think about what you would do next time but the beating yourself up doesn't change the behavior. WHAT SPECIFIC ACTION WOULD YOU DO NEXT TIME?
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:23 AM
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You probably haven’t had a conversation like that because she pulled back and that’s why you have seen her less. Women have many sly ways to avoid creepy old guys that are hitting on them. Having a perfect one liner that will “lead” to something else tells me you don’t really understand female attraction and you are not dealing w reality and maybe why you focused on fantasy land from years ago
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:16 AM
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Well that’s good insight but mentally you aren’t in a place where this will work out. Get some therapy if you need it. Have coffee with her or something, keep it casual. Don’t be the weird guy that’s salivating and being overly sexual and making her uncomfortable. Mike pilinski wrote some pick up books a long time ago. Not sure if they still are around but they will help you…I think it’s called without embarrassment
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:13 AM
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The fact you are focused on not saying some corny sexual advancelines from a few years ago is super obsessive. You need to find more people to hang out with and more activities to take your mind off of this. Hobbies, sports, actives, friends, family, etc.
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:08 AM
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You are WAY overthinking it and become obsessive stalker. Who cares what she said 4 years ago one night after drinks. It doesn’t matter. Enjoy her company go out with her friends and if something happens, fine. But it’s unlikely and you are giving off massive beta male apologetic energy. Maybe if you find some girls while you are out w her in groups it will increase your attractiveness…but why are you so focused on the past? You’re not living in the now.
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:06 AM
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Doubtful that is it. You lack confidence deep down. That’s the real issue. Get some therapy and find a good. CBT book and start learning how to correct your distorted thoughts.
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:35 PM
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Also find some daily committed social interaction with PEOPLE ..old young men women etc. could be lunch w coworkers, drinks with a friend. Make it a routine DAILY. This will fix the social anxiety and help your social interactions. You shouldnt be focused on “picking up girls” you should be focused on havin*fun social interactions and eventually that leads you wherever you want to go. Without being weird. So ya you don’t need to Go to bars or learn weird pickup stuff.
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:24 PM
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This is loser talk. Focus on your inner work instead of “if then” thinking. This is actually such nonsense because it’s a loser story and will prevent u from changing
/r/seduction22/10/22 05:33 PM
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hey how old are you? 20's?
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:22 AM
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Yep. If u have social anxiety do it. You can start to extend the conversation. You are too in your head. You need to get OUT of your head and into interactions talking to people like a normal person. And if u actually do this it will turn off this inner dialogue. Go do 10 today and report back. Don’t keyboard jockey and think about why it won’t work…that’s not actually being open to feedback and that’s being in your head.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:47 PM
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Yes there is but try to not do this. Look up cognitive behavioral therapy for social anxiety. Master your emotions and don’t rely on drugs. Start by asking people if they know the time - men and women - and just initiate daily small talk, Obviously keep your phone hidden and don’t wear a watch. Do that 10 times a day to start
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:30 PM
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If you don’t want random hook ups, then don’t do it.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:55 AM
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Listen to his advice. Spot on.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:21 AM
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Stop “cold approaching” ​ stat having REAL convos w women during the day. ​ mindset
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:57 AM
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what city are you doing this in? what age are you and the women you are approaching?
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:23 PM
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You have the wrong mindset. Just be interesting, able to flirt, some humor and ability to have good engaging conversations.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:31 AM
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you have too many limiting beliefs and self judgment - that is the voice in your head you need to turn off. go out with no expectations and view it as "how can I have an enjoyable time tonight?" and come up with some answers for yourself. turn off all the negative talk. you can't do it overnight. in the short run find something positive to focus on before you go out to take your mind out of the repetitive negative.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:39 AM
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That’s NOT a “shit test” - stop using this word. you’re talking to a drunk girl. Maybe you are approaching wrong too hard to tell. But don’t take thing seriously on the dance floor. People that are dancing aren’t usually there to have conversations or rando guy hitting on them.
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:11 AM
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you don't have "chemistry" - you have attention. so it sounds like you're not used to that and confusing the signal. she is out having a good time. sometimes women get bored and like to flirt when in relationships. it's a way for them to boost their own self esteem. in short you are probably mis reading the situation. the proper way to deal with this is to engage with her friends. ask if she has any single friends. don't hit on the married women but she probably has a friend for you...
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:13 PM
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For the attention and to have options. Don’t take it personally…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:31 AM
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oh, sarcastic humor doesn't always translate well online especially when people use hyperbolic language to get attention. sounds like the guy is solid. and in general yes just start taking to girls about random things...that IS the way. not some online course.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:15 PM
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why u calling him a "sociopath"? too many guys start to "study game" and instead of learning say 10 helpful tips and then going and implementing them, they become "keyboard jokes' arguing about the "right way" to do things. yeah, talk to girls...just like you would a random stranger. if you do that w/o hitting on them, or being inappropriate (including being a clown or way too much "high energy" like some coaches teach), you will go very far...
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:42 PM
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Eh, don’t overthink this. You should have done it differently but ping the guy about studying and eventually the girls will show up…problem solved
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:05 PM
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ah, good question. but you won't like the answer. the problem is you have a dismissive condescending vibe. The simple answer is to ask HER what types of things she likes and follow up by showing interest in her answers and good follow up questions. not like grilling in a job interview, but to show you actually have interest. ​ the problem...is your attitude. you are not open. and it comes across here. so any "technique" won't fix it b/c no matter what great advice people give you, your tone and …
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:56 AM
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Congrats. She was just testing you. Keep it chill and who knows what will happen. If you don’t over think and over analyze it she will be back one day… ​ PS - you are not a virgin anymore now. So like everyone else you can stop thinkinG about it. Who cares that she teased you about being a virgin? You had sex with her! all the people focusing on her comment are not being winners…
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:54 AM
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In general, stop thinking bout “pickup” and “PUA” and live a quality life. If you have fun and interesting friends, generally that will take you down the proper path. And interesting friends should include women of course, not a bunch of random guys that want to “sarge” - that’s very 2000 ish.
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:43 AM
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good for you. pay attention to your internal dialogue "despite totally failing at..." ​ NO. you did not fail. this is what you thought inside. But...it doesn't really matter, right? because the reality is you got the number and that is what you wanted to do to move things forward.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:39 AM
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Get in shape. Join a workout program to meet people. Baby steps. Get in shape and the rest will come together one step at a time…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:12 AM
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