ProfessorOilNGas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
59	Question for those that "gave up."	Question For Men	ProfessorOilNGas	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 03:25 PM
4	Who are the bottom 20% of men, according to measurable characteristics?	Discussion	ProfessorOilNGas	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:57 AM

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4	Many men are fine with “misandrist” stereotypes as long as it targeted towards men they view as an out group. She's clearly lost the argument. Now she's throwing up a wall of rhetoric. Just take the "W" and ignore her bulverism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 10:46 PM
11	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world "A man who is over six feet tall, earns six figures, and has the emotional availability you crave is an extreme outlier. According to the U.S. Census Bureau (2020), only 1% of men fit this description." Does the census bureau test emotional availability? I must have missed that page last time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 06:27 PM
14	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world It's a good thing that, in fact, beggars can be choosers. They can always choose to accept nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 06:17 PM
-3	The delusion and ignorance of red/black pillers who compare women role in the gender hierarchy to the capitalist class And... block	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 04:35 PM
6	The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards. And... block.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 04:11 PM
12	Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive. Life is hard for the least sexually desirable males. They are the ones who remained unable to find women in youth for a normal relationship because their desirability was (and remained) too low given the existence of less women than men, their own standards and, in some places, men marrying multiple women. (There are about 105 males born for every 100 females.) Some numbers from the US census bureau: in 1970, non-Hispanic white people were much less likely to be in the never married category. In…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 04:36 PM
36	Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More Options " If an unattractive man was acting indifferent to women, he’s not going to suddenly attract a bunch of women, he’s not going to attract any women, they do not care if you are indifferent to them." How do people not see this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:28 PM
3	Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More Options Are we talking about a Joe average beta male? Or are we talking about a rock bottom omega male? A beta guy is in a friendzone? Cut contact with her and move on. Good red pill advice. An omega guy is in the friendzone? For heaven's sake, stay in that friendzone for a while, friend. Orbit her and supplicate the shit out of her as long as it means that you have actual real-life contact with a woman until you meet other women. It is literally better than nothing on your way of self-improvement. Abun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 04:25 PM
14	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? There seems to be a number of older omega males that have given up that post here: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fgol6m/question_for_those_that_gave_up/	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:56 PM
–	Women don’t actually want to be invisible, they just want selective attention. Exactly. Let the losers starve and not reproduce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 10:42 PM
–	More Men Are Getting Left Out on Dating Because They Won’t Comply with Modern Standards Exactly. One criticism of my "cut your losses and move on approach" is that, if one is willing to lower his standards enough, one can get somebody. My retort, however, is that, while this may be true, what those of us on the bottom of the Sexual Market Value (SMV) end up with simply will not fit the bill if our threshold of attraction is too high. In other words, if you got caviar tastes and a pizza face, you WILL NOT EVER attract a person you find attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:59 PM
–	More Men Are Getting Left Out on Dating Because They Won’t Comply with Modern Standards Kudos for accepting what we are, and redefining our expectations around that truth. Trying to be a winner when you are a loser is the most frustrating experience imaginable. So don’t try to be a winner. Instead, realize that even though you are a loser, accept the fact that you will have to work 10 times harder than winners to make half the progress. Be ok with that. Stop comparing yourself to other people and focus on what you can do to change and improve. Celebrate the small successes, because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:26 PM
–	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game Losers. Tech failures aside, there are no lifetime failures at twenty. MOST of us were filled with potential, promise, and great expectations. Anyone could turn out to be president of the U.S. or at least of a company. Few were bald, fat was still being passed off as muscle, and every man you knew was going to make it someday. So where did we failures go? I contend that there are just as many men now as there were when we were, say, twenty-three. We just don't recognize ourselves. Society doesn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 10:17 PM
–	Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess "I do not understand loser mentality, and I honestly don't think I ever will." Your understanding of the presence of losers is not a precondition to their existence. They're all around us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:23 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Let's focus on those undesirable men you mention for a moment. If I were a woman, I would not settle for a man as unattractive in so many ways. A woman who is willing to settle for such an desirable man may have much lower standards than the loser. Anyone with standards that low probably has a serious problem, and smart loserguys prefer to avoid women with serious problems. This realization led to my salvation. It really did. I realized that, in all probability, I could never get a woman. And ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 01:44 AM
1	Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess A version of the former, I suppose. Maybe what irrecoverable omega males should do to wring the best out of life is to remind themselves that relationships with women are but a small portion of life itself. One survey found that the average married couple has sex 92 times per year. That leaves 75 percent of the calendar sexless anyway. Isaac Newton never married and was said to have remained a virgin, and while he was certainly peculiar and at least somewhat socially dysfunctional, few members o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 07:34 PM
2	Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess And yet losers continue to proliferate! I am not interested in trying to determine how somebody got to "loserville." And there is an entire industry out there of self-help palaver that is aimed at lifting people from that morass. And still the losers come. I've been interested in trying to provide self-analysis tools to spare those who will never be able to make it romantically at least part of the pain chasing the unobtainable. What those on the bottom of the Sexual Market Value (SMV) end up wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 04:15 PM
1	Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate? Why bar those things? What should one do if they are grotesquely ugly or morbidly obese or have a horrifically bad personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 12:41 AM
3	Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess But what about omega males? The losers, the schmucks, the schleps. The guys who just can't get it done. The sad pathetic failures who should just hang it up. Being a loser doesn't mean you should be one of these idiots that keeps trying to play a game that is impossible for you to win, and that's what trp encourages. Men below 5'6 that are facially unattractive and imbibed with repulsive personalities are generally screwed and should have almost no expectations regarding their dating life. Those…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 07:16 PM
4	Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating pool Exactly. It's over for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 07:19 AM
–	When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A Man I love what you wrote. The transgressions that you have encountered are the types of thing that will constantly happen to second- and third-rate men. Wise "losers" tend to accept their station with time. But it is liberating. We are invisible. We can do anything and go anywhere and no one cares so long as we don't bother them. No responsibilities. The world is our monastery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 09:01 PM
1	What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day? Maybe what irrecoverable omega males should do to wring the best out of life is to remind themselves that relationships with women are but a small portion of life itself. One survey found that the average married couple has sex 92 times per year. That leaves 75 percent of the calendar sexless anyway. Isaac Newton never married and was said to have remained a virgin, and while he was certainly peculiar and at least somewhat socially dysfunctional, few members of homo sapiens sapiens have ever ris…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 06:20 PM
3	What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day? It sounds like you run in a statistically unlikely group. But more to the point. If I were a woman, I would not settle for a man as unattractive in so many ways as chronic loserguys. I've been interested in trying to provide self-analysis tools to spare those who will never be able to make it romantically at least part of the pain chasing the unobtainable. What those on the bottom of the Sexual Market Value (SMV) end up with simply will not fit the bill if our threshold of attraction is too high…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 04:23 PM
3	What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t? But why should the complete zeros have any confidence? The losers, the schmucks, the schleps. The guys who just can't get it done. The sad pathetic failures who should just hang it up. Being a loser doesn't mean you should be one of these idiots that keeps trying to play a game that is impossible for you to win. Men below 5'6 that are facially unattractive and imbibed with repulsive personalities are generally screwed and should have almost no expectations regarding their dating life. Those are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 05:34 PM
1	There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time. But what should the complete zeros do? The losers, the schmucks, the schleps.The guys who just can't get it done.The sad pathetic failures who should just hang it up. Being a loser doesn't mean you should be one of these idiots that keeps trying to play a game that is impossible for you to win. Men below 5'6 that are facially unattractive and imbibed with repulsive personalities are generally screwed and should have almost no expectations regarding their dating life. Those are the true incels th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 03:12 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man For being relatively successful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 12:54 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Yes, but how does that mean it's satire? I did things like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:20 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man I believe it's possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:24 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Satire? Why do you not believe that he can achieve these things?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 12:58 AM
4	Question for those that "gave up." Very well put. You've articulated something that I've thought about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 06:01 PM
10	Question for those that "gave up." I love what you wrote. Wise "losers" tend to accept their station with time. But it is liberating. We are invisible. We can do anything and go anywhere and no one cares so long as we don't bother them. No responsibilities. The world is our monastery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:11 AM
2	Question for those that "gave up." I understand about the violence. There remains a minority of men, mostly the obviously unattractive ones, that have odd revenge fantasies about how the women that ignored them before will somehow be lonely and unfulfilled in the future. Some will, but not because of the withheld attentions of these omega males. They were never in the game and nothing that they did or didn't do would ever have affected the dynamic in any event.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:08 AM
7	Question for those that "gave up." I guess that's understandable. Women don't want to be approached by men that they find undesirable. They don't want to be overtly oogled by men they find undesirable. Undesirable men that don't leave them alone are creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:05 AM
15	Question for those that "gave up." This is an outstanding couple of profiles. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 06:15 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? Being a loser doesn't mean you're an idiot. Men below 5'6 that are facially unattractive and imbibed with repulsive personalities are generally screwed and should have almost no expectations regarding their dating life. Those are the true incels that I feel bad for and understand why they're blackpillers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 02:27 AM
23	Why women, gals don't approach guys? Was discussing this with a woman and, in addition to what you said, also added that she is hesistant and discrete because, if the man says 'no' but word gets out, she will then be seen as a possibility for a bunch of guys in which she isn't interested. None of whom will then believe her typical "no" answer: I'm not looking to pair up right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 02:36 PM
–	Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor. Some women are. "Fuck off!" to a mere "hi"! Man, that is over the top.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 10:28 PM
–	Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor. This assumption that women will get upset if you ignore them depends on who you are. If you're someone with a high Sexual Market Value (SMV), your actions are far more likely to cause strife, whereas if your SMV is rock bottom, she will likely be relieved that you are ignoring her. In the relationship sense, I've "ignored" women for decades in that I don't bother to pursue. Not one women has ever in any way expressed being upset because of this. In fact, a couple of times, I've found women were …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 10:25 PM
–	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. Wise losers tend to accept their station with time. But it is liberating. We are invisible. We can do anything and go anywhere and no one cares so long as we don't bother them. No responsibilities. The world is our monastery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 12:52 PM
4	Low self-esteem and low confidence are good things, and a lot more people should have them. At the very bottom of the human male hierarchy are the irrecoverable social failures, the losers, zeros, schmucks, schleps... the “omega males.” No one writes about these guys; they are largest group at which few have ever taken a serious look. These are the least sexually desirable males and therefore are the ones who are unable to find a women for a healthy normal relationship because their desirability is too low given the existence of less women than men, the omega's own standards and, in so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:45 PM
8	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? Absolutely. If I were a woman, I would not settle for a man as unattractive in so many ways as I am. A woman who is willing to settle for me would have much lower standards than mine. Anyone with standards that low probably has a serious problem, and I prefer to avoid women with serious problems. Again, absolutely. This realization led to my salvation. It really did. I realized that, in all probability, I could never get a woman. And even if I eventually did, that woman would never meet the thre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 04:11 AM
1	Who are the bottom 20% of men, according to measurable characteristics? Because omega males are studiously ignored.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 04:21 PM
1	Who are the bottom 20% of men, according to measurable characteristics? The sexual marketplace exists whether you choose to see it or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 06:53 AM
1	Who are the bottom 20% of men, according to measurable characteristics? Omega males are studiously ignored. Some analysis is warranted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 06:41 AM
–	Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientists 55-year-old virgin here. Short, ugly, poor, high standards. There are a surprising number of us omega males out there. We are invisible. Absolutely no one cares about us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 08:03 PM