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ProfessorRedPill/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:15 AM
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Just so I can be real clear about this... any time you encounter an organization that seems like they are there for your benefit... be a little suspicious of shit like that.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:22 PM
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I don't know if it's personal or not as to why r/marriedredpill isn't on r/theredpill 's sidebar. As someone who is in the know, the answer is yes. Why? Many people feel "alpha" is about leading groups. Let's be serious here. Would people with that mindset start pimping new groups for you to defect to? Look at it this way. Do you really think that people who mod subreddits are your friend? Really? You can expect my ban in 3-2-1. People at marriedredpill aren't you're friend, either. They do some…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:14 PM
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You agreed to something. Then the terms changed, but you continued to agree. These girls may not intend to be manipulative like that, but a lot of salepeople use this technique. It's called "consistency" in some circles. You agreed, and even though the terms have changed afterward, you feel like you still should "agree." Other people will absolutely try this jedi mind trick on you, so you need to be aware of it, and wary. You didn't really "slip up" that much. Basically, you got $40 instead of t…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 10:36 PM
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Yes, it's a real thing. Now, my question is... Is a sigma male just a label that betas give themselves to excuse their social isolation and to flip their negative traits into positives? For some people, probably yes. But some others could give a flying fuck about leading groups unless the group will start negatively affecting them somehow. The difference is that sigma males make capable leaders, but they are reluctant. A sigma male would rather puppeteer a little as needed, and wouldn't care for…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:45 PM
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Not sure about your location and customs, but if an american girl says "what" like that, she is usually asking you to state your intentions. (physically or otherwise.) She is somewhat asking for physical escalation. Talking is usually the wrong move.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 11:55 PM
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Usually... "what" = "kiss me" You were hesitant, and she tried to give you a friendly nudge, while maintaining plausible deniability. (She wasn't asking for anything.)
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:36 PM
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she wants him in her life Why? She never went this crazy before, yelling at me , packing things and going away saying that is the end of our relationship. Because you were right that she does not deserve to be trusted, and she knows it. All she has left is emotional bullshit. The big fact you know is that she lied to you for whatever reason, proved herself untrustworthy, and both of you know that. Here is what sucks. Often, in this case, the guy gives in because she's running dread to a high lev…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:28 PM
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My personal view is that once in an LTR, the shit tests end. Not really. If you have a competent girl, she's always getting new offers and will always do what nature implores her to do... keep testing for fitness so she can jump off the fucking ship in time. That's just female nature. If you really like women, you have to be accepting of female nature, and not be mad about it. It's just part of the deal if you like quality women.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 08:17 PM
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Well, i can understand financial problems and stuff but i really need that money to pay my uni and room. Maybe now is the time to see if you can fly on your own. You're 22, right? The thing is, i dont know how can i handle this as a man. How can i talk to him about it. You can't, really. You can ask as dependent offspring, but that's not a man to man talk. It will probably not hurt you to ask.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:47 PM
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I think that guy just had some confrontational energy in general. I didn't know him, but he knew some people in my group. I don't think it was really intended for other people to notice... maybe it was more of a personal amog toward me. He didn't really know what to do when I went limp, kept talking, lost his train of thought entirely.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 06:21 PM
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I usually start that one off with a first text of "I have some really good news." Just to hang them a little.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:54 PM
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Probably not. Maybe she'll change her mind and get together with you. But acknowledging the vibe she's giving you will probably not help. And, what is the payoff anyway? She's gonna leave in a few days no matter what. She may even be in an LDR with someone you don't know about, and she wanted to test the waters with you one last time.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:47 PM
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For whatever reason, she was fucking you good-bye. Several things point to that, but this for sure... She texts saying she "thinks so , but she may be late due to her having to see her uncle" (was in jail, mooching off the family specifically my exes mother , and is now homeless), and that maybe we could do it another time (I had only asked her at this point if she had ever been to a planetarium, never gave her time or offer to go. She's pretty much telling you that her shitty uncle is more impo…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:40 PM
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I'd become an admirer of Joseph Gordon-Levitt because of Don Jon. There was nothing stealth about that bluepill nonsense. Maybe you need to watch it again.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:37 PM
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Do not release his hand. I had someone try that on me not too long ago. I just let my hand and arm go limp. Then they were standing there holding my limpy hand until they finally let go and it dropped. Gotta say, it was pretty funny and they looked extremely strange in front of a lot of people. I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 07:29 PM
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Ten days later she texts me and want to "talk about what happened". crickets
/r/askTRP11/08/15 10:41 PM
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That's the woman answer, for anyone that missed it.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 10:31 PM
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40-50 feet away from me and not close enough to voice my disapproval. Be honest with yourself. Seriously, you aren't doing yourself any favors by coming in here and asking everyone to validate your own hamster. If that kid fell into a pool 50 feet away from you and couldn't swim, then what? Too far? Seriously... I don't care what your reasons were for wanting to be a white knight, or for not being a white knight, but you should do a better job of figuring that out for yourself. Why make people h…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 01:06 AM
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I think to myself "hot girls wouldn't date someone who plays 10 hours a day". That's the argument/thinking I want to ditch. First of all, ditch the bullshit thinking because it's simply not true. Would hot girls turn down Brad Pitt if they found out he plays video games 10 hours per day? Fuck no. They'd suddenly love video games. So first off, get a grip on reality. Video games aren't stopping girls from dating Brad Pitt, and video games aren't stopping girls from dating you, either. To simplify…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 12:47 AM
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My friend said they called me "vibe killer" and that i'm awkward to be around and so on (I kind of agree, I can't seem to fit in in this group and so my actions are nervous). Don't try to fix yourself with that group, but definitely take that seriously in case it is true, and something you need to fix. One guy in this group was my best friend ever and he fell for a chick that is against me (don't know why - I once told him that I really liked this chick few years ago too - maybe this) and she's …
/r/askTRP10/08/15 12:30 AM
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I have the mentality of "fuck everyone else, I can do it" Read your title, and start getting a realistic feel for yourself. You don't have that mentality at all. Anyone go through this and have some advice or kind words? Kind words? You go girl! I don't seem to be getting much support from anyone. That's because no one gives a shit about you or your "business" and the sooner you learn that, the better off you'll be. And if you somehow make a success out of yourself despite yourself... when peopl…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 12:19 AM
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In that case... it means the crew is a giant bunch of pussies. The problem is not that she is a vegan. The problem is that she tells other people what to eat, and those other people do it. 2 problems, and neither of them is that she is a vegan. If she ate your preferred diet and forced your pussy ass crew to eat it, it would still be the same problem it is now.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 12:10 AM
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What does "vegan" have to do with anything? I've had a lot of plates in my time, and the vegans/vegetarians have always been the fittest, especially past 25 or so.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 12:03 AM
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Answers to: Why do you want to be with me when you could get any girl? She has no intentions of fucking you. She thinks you're a clown and she wants to see you jump through hoops.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:55 PM
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Once a girl lightly crashed on my motorcycle with her scooter. Office Woman: Oh u r such a nice guy. The question that pops in my head is... Why? How? She would have never let someone leave after damaging her property like that. There are two ways to take this. She thinks you're a 'nice guy' because you took a utilitarian approach to the situation and lessened the impact for all involved. Or she thinks you're a "Nice Guy" because it was a girl who hit you, and you gave her a pussy pass. She prob…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:52 PM
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They are the easiest girl to train or teach if you are successful, however they are usually uneducated, and thus if you fail to 'train' them, they can go off the rails more quickly and join a feminist ideology later on if you let them or if they are heavily exposed to it. What country are you talking about?
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:40 PM
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You're clearly asking the wrong person anyway. You want to wife up a ho? Go find some ghetto girls.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:39 PM
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The following types of women are more likely to be more 'rp'; Country girls Socioeconomically very low girls. You are out of your mind.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:36 PM
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My only setback is that I have no options. That's not a setback. That's an answer.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:33 PM
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Saw your pics. Forget cutting. Bulk first. There's no reason to cut at all. I'm not ripping on you, either. Make sure you are getting sufficient protein. The biggest mistake I see people of your build make is that they don't lift heavy enough or hard enough. Lift as hard as you can, drink sufficient water, and eat reasonable amounts of food. You have a lot of time to deal with micromanaging food, lifts, rest, etc. Ok, one other big mistake is overtraining. Lift 3 times per week, different muscle…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:32 PM
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Other people are reading your post. When a 9/10 girl cold approaches a guy, he needs to take a critical eye. Sounds like you know everything, though. Good luck.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 11:21 PM
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My question is... How to proceed from here? Figure out what kind of scam she's running.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 09:12 PM
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Why would angry expectations would be helpful?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 09:08 PM
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Kratom isn't very addictive until someone tries to quit after regular use. Then it becomes a world ending event, unless they use a good taper schedule.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:40 PM
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Some people can use things responsibly. Tolerance builds way faster than caffeine, and withdrawal is so much worse than "bad." Why assume nobody can handle their shit, and then understate those things?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:37 PM
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Then maybe he's just really inexperienced with women. It looks to me like he's fooling himself about various things so he will be less hurt. OP says... It's not that she'll take another cock soon, because my SMV was higher than hers and way higher than her social circle's, it's going to take her a while to be over me. That's EXACTLY why a girl will jump on a cock. "The fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone new." That's how they play it. Either that, or they go fuck somebody, an…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 05:28 PM
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I would personally just agree quickly and change the subject to something more positive. The longer you talk about a negative subject with a girl, the more likely you'll get associated with those negative feelings. There are times where creating negative feelings in a girl may have some purpose, but this isn't one of them.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:58 PM
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Sociopaths care. so·ci·o·path: a person with a personality disorder manifesting itself in extreme antisocial attitudes and behavior and a lack of conscience. Yes, sociopaths care about themselves. OP is listing reasons why his ex-girlfriend won't be on another cock. He cares about that.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:52 PM
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Wanted to say something humorous, different from "oh i feel so sorry that you're stressed, i'm gonna cry for you ..." Fair enough... Actually I don't remember perfectly, it was the usual bullshit about the "stressful university life", I said something like let's not tell that our life is stressing to a carpenter or a mine worker or something like that. To most girls, that won't be humorous. To a girl, that will usually sound like "I heard what you said, but your feelings are unimportant to me." …
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:30 PM
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The only remorse I feel is the loss of control. It's not that she'll take another cock soon, because my SMV was higher than hers and way higher than her social circle's, it's going to take her a while to be over me. You're delusional. The fact that you even mentioned it says you are concerned about it. The fact that you deny it tells me you don't live in reality. If she's not already on a new cock, she will be by the weekend. I know for a fact I alpha widowed this girl, and she'll be back in a w…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:12 PM
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OK, here are are a few more, guy centric if you need it... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8WLa6umgdw Rob Thomas - Talking about orbiters http://www.vevo.com/watch/chris-brown/Loyal-%28Explicit%29/USRV81400126 Chris Brown - hypergamy Am I the only person who finds these things interesting?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:44 AM
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I listen to all of the sounds around me, and evaluate from there. What the fuck do you do? Close your ears somehow?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:43 AM
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Here is something else interesting to me... Avril Lavigne is somewhat aware of herself and where her power lies, and relates in that manner. She's an emotional girl, who writes about emotional girl shit. Not true for this horrid example... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrUvu1mlWco Why is there a difference between those two? Why is the latter such a slutty attention whore? I think they're both talented enough to do either, or to play to either audience. But I think most objective guys would ag…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:40 AM
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“What would you like to eat?” People hate making decisions on food. Especially women. "I dunno, what do you want to eat?" is LTR death on a platter. Seriously, I did it for decades, thinking I was helping the situation. (Many LTRs, many different types of girls... same thing... not a good idea.) "Make me a sandwich" works way better. I had no fucking idea for so long.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:50 AM
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That's not a shit test. As of this time, she doesn't want to fuck you. It sounds like you are way overestimating yourself here, or you wouldn't suggest this... agree and amplify "Clearly, its the worst idea ever. Can only end in trouble for us both. It'll be terribly awkward, and definitely no fun at all..." That won't help you at all in this situation. She's not interested.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 02:31 AM
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What's your end game to all this? From a personal standpoint, how do you see the RP philosophy benefiting your life? Happiness. Next minute... next hour... next week, 20 years from now... whatever time horizon you like. It changes, for me. Its, at best, reactionary and antagonistic. Nah, not for me. Is the selfish embrace of hedonism an acceptable end? Is there anything more? If not satisfaction of desires, then what else? If you're going to look at how the world works, then that appears to be t…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:11 AM
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lol, wow. Play of the fucking year.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 03:50 AM
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Dread game is essentially punishment/negative feedback. Nah, not really. That's shit game. Dread game, done properly, is more of a vacuum. I think of it like this... You can never say this, but this is the gist... "There's something missing in my life, and I have other girls who are auditioning to fix it. If you aren't interested, someone else is." Dread game is abundance mentality while being in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:45 AM
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However, you want to be SURE you are in the right before going to the mat with a retail worker... ? Why "go to the mat" at all? If that charge was on your contract when you signed and took out the equipment, it's on YOU to have read the contract. You're probably not a lawyer, and neither is the retail clerk. Nor is anyone going to court over it. One can come out on top by being assertive without being aggressive; challenge the policy but don't belittle the person whose job it is to push it. The …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:35 AM
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"counseling" = "Let's see if I can find a 'trusted third party' to agree with me."
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 03:04 AM
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Suggestion: Take A Break From Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:27 AM
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"You're making her uncomfortable" = "You and her both are making ME uncomfortable" He's losing the race pretty badly at that point.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:24 AM
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In a LTR, how do you respond when you are clearly outclassed in SMV? Multiple examples; person giving value to group by taking us sailing on his boat, Lead singer of a very popular band at a party. The first was not by his own merit, daddy's money, but the second is all real. I refuse to submit but don't want to be desperate. Why are you in that group? You're leaving some details out, that might be helpful. You could give a similar description, and also be RUNNING that group. Or not care, etc. Y…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 11:32 PM
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Fair enough. Upvoted. The ultimate purpose of a military is to destroy enemies of the state Here is where we quickly diverge. I believe the purpose of a military is to protect the populace/people. The populace/people have a vested interest. If the purpose of a military is to protect the state, then we wind up exactly where we are. What is and is not "acceptable" is meaningless. Disagree. It is meaningful. Money will only go so far. Even in your model of the people protecting "the state," it will…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:21 PM
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Think of it like this... There was a time in the US where people felt women shouldn't work. As women entered the workforce, it affected males in general. More job-seekers drive down the price of labor. Men will necessarily earn less, as women come into the workforce. But overall, the economy strengthens. More economic players equal more efficiency. Now we are just counting things in deaths, instead of dollars.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:54 PM
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I can take only one thing from this: I am now bearing witness to the utter destruction of history's most powerful military, not by an external threat, but because its true nature is utterly forgotten by our fat, weak and slothful populace. What is the "true nature?" At what point in the past do you believe things were right? We will likely disagree on some things here. I find these sorts of things particularly bothersome for other reasons. People have already accepted that it's ok to send young …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:37 PM
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You hold eye contact for longer with people. (confidence) "Eye contact" and "staring" is a beta trait. So many people fuck that up so often... Why the fuck do people think that they are starting a staring contest with me? lol, wtf? I can't count the number of people who tell me that you need to stare a dog down, because when the dog looks away, it means that you won a staring contest and the dog is giving up. It's the opposite. The dog looks away because you are so non-threatening, that he doesn…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 09:47 PM
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Is this a shit test, or should I give up? One more really interesting troll. Really, not bad.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 06:09 AM
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lol. First World TRP bro problems. What the fuck is wrong with ya'll?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 05:23 AM
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This is a very clever troll. Best I've seen in days.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 04:59 AM
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She recently said she wants to get high together so she can "explore my mind". I know these kinds of girls... She opens up to others when she is "high," and thinks you will too. Solipsism. I say go for it... as far as "high" with her. But keep your shit together. If you start emoting on her, you will lose this chick. She wants to find out that you are secretly a prince in another country. She doesn't want to find out that your calm exterior is hiding a fucked up person that really needs help. (N…
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:30 PM
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They are usually worth watching, but don't get oneitis. You'll find a lot of RSD orbiters in these parts. (cue the downvotes... lol)
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:21 PM
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Here's my question: How much should I divulge to her? I was emotionally/physically abused as a child by a mother with borderline personality disorder so I have a lot to potentially share. Share that with someone else. Seriously, anyone but her. Here's my concern: she's fascinated by my brain and constantly asks me questions about what I am thinking, trying to uncover my secrets and insecurities, trying to get me to "open up" to her, per se. She's likely an ENFJ type... she's used to lots of vali…
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:15 PM
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Is writing in this journal helping me?
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:58 PM
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It depends on the girl. Now, why would I say that? It seems I'm saying all girls are not the same... and such a sentiment will get you banned from these subs. I say that... because it is reality. There are some attractive girls who aren't interested in fucking everybody, because they care about protecting their reputation, and every now and then, some care about protecting their future... Call me crazy, but many women are worried about looking like a used up ho. Some women are actually worried a…
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:55 PM
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Last time we hooked up she said: "you'll miss me". Based on your facts, she meant it, and she was right.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:13 PM
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And for further analysis... I know I didn't point this out sooner, but the guy in the video made it a point to keep his eyes on the "boyfriend" early in the video. They knew they were doing shady shit that could result in ugly consequences. Essentially, that german dipshit was a dark triad type. His only concern was that he might get injured as a result of his behavior. Personally, in that situation, I kinda like fucking with those people... "Yes, you might get injured as a result of your behavi…
/r/askTRP31/10/14 03:56 AM
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I noticed that my post above keeps looking like a yo-yo as far as upvotes/downvotes. I was not saying what everyone should do. I was just saying what I would do. I'm average build, nothing special. However, when I employ a tactic like that, it is taken seriously. I look serious when I say "you're way too close to me." (and I do have a bit of a knack for presence.) I also mean it, so that kinda helps too. My main point was that this interaction was completely wrong from the beginning. You have tw…
/r/askTRP31/10/14 02:21 AM
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My female roommate is telling me she has feeling for me, based on no evidence. Why would the female roommate tell him the other girl has feelings for him? Not just her.... but "friends." They are not willing to accept that the girl just wanted to fuck him because the girl wanted to fuck him. If the female roommate wanted him for herself (if they view him as high value), the female roommate wouldn't be encouraging him to LTR her. I stand by my original analysis for now.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:59 AM
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I don't know what use a lawyer could be here. Ask one. Edit: Ask three.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:43 AM
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Governments... Farmers of people... tax collectors... "Rulers."
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:35 AM
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I'd like you to be able to talk about this, but unfortunately, you are potentially doxxing yourself. If you're really working on things like that, you should know better than to out yourself in the future.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:24 AM
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As soon as those two guys walk up around the sides of us, I stop with her, give them a serious look, and say "You guys are way too close to me." Although, at that point, I'm most worried that there's a scam or pick-pocket going on. But from there on out, she knows they're potentially dangerous I don't really care what they say after that. They were already way too close to me, and acting shady. The problem here is that this guy and his girl were probably hammered, and don't have very good situat…
/r/askTRP30/10/14 01:41 PM
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Good point, but it depends on your social skill level. I'm all for people being competent at their jobs. That's #1. At the same time, you have to navigate socially too, and that also goes for professions dominated by males. They might not be so cut-throat and you will not have to deal with white-knighting... but at the end of the day, you'll still have a social landscape to navigate. Take trades, for instance. Plumbers, welders, roofer, electricians, etc, etc. We'd agree those are male dominated…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:48 PM
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Here's the deal. This might hurt a little. Your friends (and female roommate) believe you have a low SMV and that you must have taken advantage of this girl, so they are shaming you for it. They're not willing to believe the girl liked you and wanted to fuck you. But from where I stand, that looks like the truth. That's rude of your friends, imo. Even if the girl you fucked has feelings for you (as your female roommate suggests), you haven't done anything wrong here, and you don't owe this girl …
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:19 PM
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My brain is telling me he is being assertive, but I cannot put my finger on the reason why. I know that when I am drunk I become like that and ask other male friends to play certain songs for me and shit like that. Why is this behaviour assertive? It sounds to me like maybe he wants to befriend you so he can use your things as his own. You're using the word "assertive." I would agree. A lot of people here will equate "assertive" with "aggressive." Based on what little I can tell, it is not aggre…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:26 PM
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You're in a fairly good position to dread game her, believe it or not. Stop giving this person advice. Please. This is so far out of reality, I'm finding it hard to address. She kicked him out at her earliest opportunity. There's no fucking "dread game" here. Just stop giving advice about this scenario, please.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:11 PM
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What behaviors of mine would get under her skin and show me as the winner? Absolutely, that is the wrong question. The correct question is "How can I deal with her so she has the least negative impact on my life, and the least negative impact on my child's life.?" I can't let this bitch win. lol, man. It's not just her. It's her, the court system, every white knight she knows, and several other categories of people I won't even get into. She might be the most horrible person on the planet, but y…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:09 PM
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He's allowed to want what he wants, and expect whatever he wants from a girl in a relationship. I like girls who cook, clean, and suck dick. Why would that bother you?
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:02 PM
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Does shit testing ever stop ? No. Do most women continue shit testing you even in a LTR? Yes. Oh gawd yes, but you can pick one who does it infrequently. You still need to stay on top of your shit. Once you are good at recognizing them and blowing past them, they get kinda fun. Now and then, you get bonus points if you can get her to smile because she knows in her core that she's just being ridiculous.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 06:54 PM
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This is why you need to game chicks at work, even if you aren't fucking them. For whatever reason, this girl really disliked you.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 06:44 PM
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She's boring. And it's also par for the course. But there are more interesting girls out there. You just can't expect everyone to be interesting, because a lot of people aren't.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 06:34 PM
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So I stopped her and told her that what she was doing was offensive at the very least and she needed to stop. Do not engage an LTR in nonsense. You actually legitimized her bullshit and made this worse on yourself. (and her). She immediately says "I have some ideas but you're going to tell me they're stupid and be negative etc." My response: "lolol... ok, then don't tell me." You could have avoided nearly everything after her statement, but she actually won when you started addressing it. I unde…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:23 PM
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This is all you need to know. No girl who wants to fuck you will ever have a problem making her schedule work. Yep, and then she invited him out in a group, asking about his friends. It sounds like OP overestimated the success of the first date, or messed up in between somehow.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:15 PM
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Did you make a real effort to fuck her? she wants me to be some toolbox ready to help her out when in need. Yes, true. You can be that while fucking her, or be that without fucking her. Go for it. Take your chance at fucking her. If you don;t, you will friendzone yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:26 AM
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Exactly what do you gain by involving yourself in that nonsense? Really, what do you gain? What do you stand to lose by involving yourself in that nonsense? Add that nonsense together and then tell us the end value. I'm curious.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 01:17 AM
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'hey if i ever need help with this i know where to find u' Or 'ah nice printer i could use that sometimes' srsly? That's an invitation to fuck if you play it right. I find it really difficult to deal with chicks like that and its a huge turnoff. If i really wanted and had the courage i could of banged her but i didnt even want it anymore after this shit. Should've fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:08 AM
2

This is what they call "bragsplaining." As you explained it, you have ZERO problem.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:01 AM
2

No idea without more details. It's easy for me (and everyone) to be a Monday morning quarterback.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 12:51 AM
2

lol. Why didn't you say so to begin with? That's an entirely different post, and would get higher quality answers for what you need. I personally won't invite cops into my world, but if that is your goal, it's pretty easy. I'd advise against it... I started to list some ways to get cops involved without you being a complainant, but I deleted it because I can't do it in good conscience. Ask such in some other subs and you can make it happen.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:05 PM
1

seems like she was fishing for dread or something. In that case, maybe she was fishing for a reason to get out of the relationship without looking like "the bad guy?" They do that a lot. They want to save face socially.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:55 PM
1

I'm sympathetic to that, but it leaves you with 2 choices. You either have to insert yourself into the situation, or you have to deal with the discomfort of staying in the situation. You already expressed that the other participants prefer the discomfort of staying in the situation. (Talking to her family, etc.) What are your other options? I'd find a new roommate and leave them with the lease. You didn't ask for this nonsense, and your roommates aren't doing anything to fix a situation that is …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:30 PM
1

How long should I be soft nexting? Perpetuity. A "soft next" is ignoring her. A "hard next" is telling her to fuck off and never call you again. A "soft next" lets her go on her way until she comes back. There's not a set amount of time for you to let her off the hook, because you pretty much released her at that point until she comes back and deals with whatever she did to cause the "soft next" in the first place. If she's a 4 month LTR, neither really apply. Is this really an LTR? Does she thi…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:20 PM
1

I'll try to say this in the most simple way I can think of. Powertalk is having "plausible deniability" while getting across particular points to particular people. Powertalk can be active or passive. In a passive scenario, someone might ask you a question that everyone knows you can answer truthfully. Instead, you respond with a shoulder shrug and "Not sure." It's powertalk because your "not sure" indicates that you're withholding information for some reason. It's "powertalk" when those around …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 08:09 PM
1

I'm pretty sure she craves the attention, drama and victimhood. Then you need to kick her out, or remove yourself from the situation by finding a new place to live. Listen... If her boyfriend isn't going to take care of it, then why should you?? If she is allowing this to happen and it is fucking with your head by causing you anxiety where you live, through no fault of your own, then it is YOU that needs to act here. She said she wants to talk to her mom. BF says let's talk to her family first. …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 07:49 PM
2

Try this for a quote... it's simpler and easier - "They rationalize actions after the fact."
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 12:10 PM
1

I can't help but get facial muscle twitches trying to smile, and a constant, unconscious movement that diverts my gaze. I honestly feel like I've smoked too much weed inb4 "Don't smoke weed." That's probably not the cause of that. But it won't hurt to quit weed for awhile to prove it to yourself. At one time, I was a horrible public speaker. It had nothing to do with weed. It had everything to do with not being comfortable in front of a crowd. It had everything to do with not being able to recov…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 09:05 PM
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She said she has me figured out and I'm a pussy. lol. Bail. She has no respect for you, and that's unlikely to change. Not only that, but she sounds particularly vindictive and nasty. She's purposely trying to push your buttons in a most blatant way, and people like that are fucking toxic.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 08:34 PM
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Yeah the OP is suffering from some real "truth hurts" angst. I think it's more of a tendency here to call everything "hamster." I usually think of "hamster" as where people manipulate themselves. They rationalize actions after the fact. She was being manipulative, but I don't believe she was fooling herself... She intended to fool others. That's what the horse sound was. It pretty much said "I can't believe you're asking me that. Here comes a bunch of shit I don't believe, but some people will. …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:12 PM
3

and are probably more comfortable facing conflict with a group. The wording there is a little confusing. I think I know what you mean. I think you mean that women are more comfortable facing conflict if they have back-up. I would say that is true for everyone. In fact, it separates alpha males from others. Do you want to go to war by yourself? Probably not. You're better off building some coalitions first, behind the scenes. I think you are right that women often share a "community frame." That'…
/r/askTRP07/10/14 08:04 PM
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This was not a "hamster" as some of you have mentioned. And she doesn't despise her orbiters. She took time to answer because she was looking for the most socially acceptable answer before she replied verbally. Her hesitation (and ridiculous horse sound) was actually a small bit of powertalk in addition to being a stalling tactic. Once she gathered herself, she gave the most socially acceptable answer. It was the answer that kept women happy, while giving orbiters hope. It was the answer that ke…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:44 PM
3

LOL. You are absolutely right. This is why it has traditionally been women that are the biggest "slut-shamers." They want to keep the price of pussy high, by whatever means they have. At the same time, it is also high value men that are against prostitution. They're fucking all of the girls they want anyway, and they'd prefer less disease transmission. Same with adultery. It's traditionally been a fact of life that high value men will have mistresses. Low value men? NO, not happening. High value…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:07 PM
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Lucky for him, it's encouraging that he had to ask that.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:35 PM
1

lol. Dr. Phil gives obvious advice to the oblivious. If you like Dr. Phil, be sure to check out Suze Orman for financial advice. She'll tell you everything you need to know if you're pants-on-head retarded.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:54 AM
5

In a broader sense, how do you deal when someone makes little impositions upon your desires, space, and preferences, and you want it to stop, but don't want to get mad or be perceived as troublesome? /r/INTJproblems
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:30 PM
1

1) You're related by blood 2) She's dating your friend (from personal experience, this is never worth it) Game them too. "Game" is getting people to like you and do what you want them to do. There are few exceptions, and sisters and friends' girlfriends don't qualify. Um, but don't fuck your sister or your friends' girlfriends. DO game them and get them to do other things.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:27 PM
8

Where people are inherently narcissistic, so if you are infatuated with someone. Mirror them. As someone who has known some narcissistic females... NO NO NO. Don't mirror them. Run.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:19 PM
2

So I guess that is sort of anecdotal and I should retract "Many people..." LMAO. Yes, do that. 88,000 people died in the US due to alcohol consumption in 2011. If you said "many people" die due to alcohol, I would accept that. I'd accept "many people" as even 5k or 6k, or some other arbitrary number, but definitely not your "many people." If you Google, LSD and suicide, deaths, etc. Do the same with alcohol. Being drunk might cause some suicides, but those suicides probably aren't even attribute…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:14 PM
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I highly doubt there are tens of youths who take LSD every year and jump to their deaths. If that were true, it would be all over the news. The drug warriors own that medium.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:56 PM
0

Still never tried shrooms, though they would be the only "harder" drug I would consider. Not doing LSD. Neither of those are really "harder" drugs. I'm almost certain you won't try to fly off of a building. No one else does, so why would you? Do what you want of course, but don't believe everything you hear.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:53 PM
2

"video games are bad" if they are an escape. "drugs are bad" if they are an escape. "fapping is bad" if it is an escape. "stuff is bad" if it is an escape.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:35 AM
1

Going one step further, if you're in a non-exclusive relationship; then what's the problem? Does loyalty matter to you? Even when I have a harem 3 deep, loyalty still matters to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:29 AM
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Nice title. No way am I reading that giant wall of text. I got shit to do.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:26 AM
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When I was 25, I masturbated 3-4 times per day, whether I was fucking some chick or not. And I was doing plenty good. So no, whacking off doesn't make you a failure at anything. Is whacking off keeping you from doing other important things? If so, then that is a problem.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:25 AM
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"Is it a date?" "It's an orgy. Wear something hot, or they won't let you in." In that case, you just deflected her need to define the situation by making it stupid. And then you told her what to do, and stated your interest. Escalate very soon into the interaction, or you're wasting your time.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:17 AM
2

Flute. "Keep it on the low down." "Down low." "No doubt."
/r/askTRP26/09/14 07:33 AM
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Her: "Babe I miss you." Me (about 45 min later): "Did I go somewhere" Too soon. She took forever to text you, and you replied in 45 minutes.
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1.) There aren't, really. Sure, I'm giving up banging some young hotties. But I have my own hottie on standby, bang 7-8 times a week with little effort, leaving me with more time to pursue money, hobbies, etc. Keep in mind, that I'm 40+. If I got rid of this chick that constantly cooks, cleans, and fucks with small efforts on my part, I'd be looking for a new one. I'm not turning down chicks at frat parties every weekend. I made those rounds already, so I know what's out there. 2.) That is reall…
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