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Fundamentals ProfessorTresor/r/seduction28/04/24 01:28 PM
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Field ReportProfessorTresor/r/seduction09/06/24 11:22 PM
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Thank you for this encouraging reminder to focus on the process and growth without getting too caught up in results and achievement.
/r/seduction10/06/24 04:08 PM
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So to summarise, the sorts of things I wanted to say were presumptuous and inappropriate to lead with, which I guess I knew on some level which probably contributed to my inability to approach. Instead, you suggest I need to lead by honestly and explicitly establishing my intent (e.g. to hit on her, e.g. because I like her style and would regret not asking to meet her), which has the dual function of eliminating concerns about having a possibly duplicitous hidden agenda, and of giving her an opp…
/r/seduction10/06/24 02:02 AM
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Yes, I agree. For instance, if the best way to build confidence is to practice, then isn't practice the most important? But if the best way to have practice is to have discipline, then discipline is most important. But, etc... The question presupposes a hierarchical ordering of fundamentals, when actually maybe it's more of a spaghetti bowl of fundamentals 😅 or some other structure. Thanks for your contribution to the discussion!
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:12 PM
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What did you mean to imply?
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:14 PM
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Very true. It does seem like it's just a numbers game at the core.
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:41 PM
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Can you elaborate on what you mean when you say "you see women for what they really are"?
/r/seduction29/04/24 03:02 PM
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Hmm. I must respectfully disagree. Although I have no doubt many women behave and think in the manner you describe, in my experience women are not, as a rule, shallow and insecure. No doubt that being tall and good looking is an important factor in attraction though.
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:59 PM
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Doesn't that follow from confidence?
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:57 PM
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Are you speaking from first-hand experience?
/r/seduction29/04/24 01:45 PM
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Would you mind elaborating what you mean by a foundation of lasting value?
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:44 AM
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Yes, that seems reasonable. Supposing though that one wishes to improve their success in relationships, for some definition of success (e.g. date more people, or people who are more attractive, or have more sex, or, or, or...), what would you say is most essential?
/r/seduction29/04/24 12:43 AM
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In my experience, therapy can be extremely helpful.
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:39 PM
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I'll be sure to check out his books and follow up on his website (https://www.askmystery.com/). Anywhere else I should look? Nothing but respect for such a clearly influential person. He has clearly achieved a lot despite many challenges.
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:04 PM
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Makes sense. I guess Mystery, at least as portrayed in The Game is pretty clearly lacking in the genuine self-acceptance/confidence department / leaning towards self-hatred. For at least one definition of attractive that would seem to illustrate your point.
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:54 PM
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Very important, and not to be overlooked. I guess it would be difficult to feel genuinely confident if you smell bad too 💩
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:38 PM
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My hero!
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:54 PM
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Of course it couldn't be quick and easy 😂 Thanks again for your perspective.
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:53 PM
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I appreciate your helpful and parsimonious perspective. Your advice on improving psychology is to get therapy. How did you go about maxing out your looks?
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:30 PM
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Ok, so confidence is essential but is not alone enough to make one attractive, just as strength alone does not make a good fighter. That seems reasonable. What would be the "technique" of seduction, then? E.g. how does one encourage another to feel comfortable and relaxed?
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:10 PM
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Citation please? 🥺😱😆 But seriously, if you (or anyone else here) can link us to the actual study I would be fascinated to read it.
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:02 PM
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I lend my support to this man's advice.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:57 PM
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Competence definitely seems fundamental. This is another factor that seems woven into the underlying fabric of well-being...
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:50 PM
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Interesting. I would have assumed it would flow the other way--confidence results in not giving a shit--or maybe in both directions?
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:48 PM
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And how is one meant to do that? It's a common truism that one must be happy to make others happy; is confidence and competence and inner joy kind of a pre-req to making an exceptional connection and bring good feelings to those around you, or do you know a way to directly access these things without confidence?
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:46 PM
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I'm no expert here, but I think a cold approach is a cold approach and the advice is more or less the same regardless of who is in the company of your interest. Just approach, open, confidently be yourself, and do your best to have a pleasant interaction with these strangers. Yes?
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:19 PM
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