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| 77 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizing | Professor_Meep | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 03:24 AM | |
| 51 | Contradictions of body count policing | Professor_Meep | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/23 08:45 PM | |
| 1 | Spam filter | Professor_Meep | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 06:37 AM |
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| 1 | How do women feel about OF girls absorbing 80% of male discretionary income?Looks like you need to work on your geography if you don't even know you're in N America, Canada is indeed part of N America, and nowadays considered to be much better even than the US. So yes you're privileged and likely always have been if your family found the means to obtain legal residence in Canada. Keep up the attitude of superiority though, it's sure to get you far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:53 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenOf course male victims were wiped out from human history, the way people don't even know Rwanda genocide was exclusively about killing men You need to give up on trying to teach history lessons, you're pretty awful at it. Half a million Rwandan women were raped, sexually mutilated, or murdered. Sexual violence was the defining part of that genocide, there were almost as many rape victims as murder victims. It wasn't a genocide directed at males, it was an ethnic genocide perpetrated against the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:34 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenf a greater proportion or almost all heterosexual men did not give this type of participation and financing to these companies, platforms, outlets, or individual women. The sex industry in this capacity would not exist or be very minimal Slut shaming is one of the greatest male hypocrisies. Very few men completely abstain from the consumption of sex work. Even if you're not paying for your porn you're still using and dependent on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:13 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenI've had the privilege of having met/known many decent men in my lifetime, and would like to believe that most men are not full-fledged narcissists. However 1) many studies (not just the ones linked by OP) do show that there is a much higher tendency for narcissistic & sociopathic traits among males vs females; 2) the incidence, severity and displays of male narcissism are growing, thanks to the explosion in popularity of RP and the manosphere which teach and promote narcissism and emotional abu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How do women feel about OF girls absorbing 80% of male discretionary income?So you look down on your fellow countrywomen for not having access to the same privileges that you do? Doing in-person sexwork in a developing country like Colombia isn't comparable to OF or sexwork in a place like the US it's a completely different context. It's much less lucrative and more dangerous and I can only imagine that the majority of the women there in SW do so out of need and because they have no other viable way to make a decent income. You're obviously in an enviable position seein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?Obviously not every prior girlfriend a guy has is the best possible for him and the following ones are downgrades, that wouldn't make any sense. Likewise it would be stupid/arrogant for every subsequent woman to assume she's the best just because she's the one he ended up with. I made that comment based on admissions I've heard in these scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:46 PM |
| 14 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?where your ex treated you like shit but you see on social media how much more he's into his new gf. This is super common. A guy gets out of a relationship, spends a good bit of time single finding out it's not that easy to attract/maintain interest from women, then treats the next one considerably better than the last because he's afraid of going through the experience of being single/sexless for an unknown period of time again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:17 AM |
| 12 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?Because it's all about possession, they see women as items to possess and therefore the idea of someone else having "more" of that triggers the shit out of them, even if it was in the past and doesn't apply anymore. Unfortunately even a lot of normal appearing men view their girlfriends/wives as possessions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:09 AM |
| 8 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?Another day, another boilerplate inc3l post on PPD. This is just a standard inc3l obsession that rarely even plays out in real life. Most of the time if a woman was comfortable doing a sexual activity with an ex she will be with her future partners as well. If it happens the other way around it's because she tried something she didn't like and didn't want to do it again. "Oh no, god forbid my imaginary hypothetical girlfriend had anal once with her ex and she won't do it with me!! Such an injust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:54 AM |
| 11 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?Yeah this is just a standard incel obsession that rarely even happens in real life. Most of the time if a woman was comfortable doing a sexual activity with an ex she will be with her future partners as well. If anything people often get more sexually adventurous with time. And if it happens the other way around it's because she tried something she didn't like and didn't want to do it again. "Oh no, god forbid my imaginary hypothetical girlfriend had anal once with her ex and she won't do it wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How do women feel about OF girls absorbing 80% of male discretionary income?Far more families who love their kids all the same cuz they're not doing anything wrong. most girls don't fully even choose to go into it because it's something they truly enjoy. Really dumb argument because most people work to pay the bills not because they truly enjoy their work. Most people wouldn't be working their jobs if they didn't have to. It's not illogical, depraved or a last resort to have a job that's not only far more lucrative than most but also offers far more freedom than most. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:27 AM |
| 3 | How do women feel about OF girls absorbing 80% of male discretionary income?Most families aren't crazy enough to stop loving or be ashamed of their kid for doing something that benefits them financially at little to no risk without harming others. it should be illegal for both men and woman to participate in any type of sex work activity. This is irrational to the point of being infantile. Prohibition never works. Furthermore some governments have recognized that sexwork fulfills a critical need for access to intimacy for men who don't have it and therefore now actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How do women feel about OF girls absorbing 80% of male discretionary income?Your opinions don't pay them or affect their bottom line in any way so they don't care what you think lol. They're making $$$, on their own terms, schedule and behind the safety of a screen. It's always the most insecure women who have such a strong negative opinion about SW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 11:11 PM |
| 0 | How do women feel about OF girls absorbing 80% of male discretionary income?Your opinions don't pay them or affect their bottom line in any way so they don't care what you think lol. They're making $$$, on their own terms, schedule and behind the safety of a screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: Ugly PPD members, why are you using dating apps?Guess you haven't noticed but women pick men that are pretty mediocre in looks, often to the point of being straight up ugly. Quite a few times I've seen men you'd assume would never have a chance end up married. One dude looked like your typical scrawny ugly-faced incel and had Crohn's on top of it, he still managed to get married by 25 despite having to go to the hospital literally clogged up with shit all the time. The reverse also applies but women definitely are more compromising with looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | What is therapy supposed to accomplish?Yeah, I'd concur with that. I had a whole lot of unprocessed trauma and just kept adding on to it because I wasn't in therapy. Friends, S/Os and family don't have the professional capacity to help with your trauma (and might themselves be a source of it) - plus they have their own stuff to deal with and you can't just dump your baggage on them all the time. I never talked about most of my shit until I saw a therapist and when you wait that long it just becomes this massive buildup you're suppres… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 4 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?This is why most of you here can't be taken seriously because your priorities are someone who fits your specific physical parameters, like some kind of sex doll. There's no value of anything beyond physical or otherwise tangible services provided (sex & domestic work) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeI love larp accounts with female-presenting avatars, super normal people | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeThere's a huge range in verbal abuse and the corresponding level of danger it poses. Strangers cussing at each other is one thing and something I wouldn't intervene in either. Someone threatening to literally rape another person is a completely different story. Not even attempting to intervene or get help in that kind of a situation is hugely callous and irresponsible. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 08:28 AM |
| 6 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeHaving access to women who who fit your standards of attractiveness just for being a normal half-decent person isn't the "least reward." You're not entitled to time, attention, love and intimacy from women who match your criteria just because you're not a complete piece of shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Yesterday A Man Verbally Attacked MeGet a life you mutant. People have the right to exist and be left alone, hard concept for you to understand I know. Not needing a man also means not needing to be abused by one. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 07:42 AM |
| 13 | What is therapy supposed to accomplish?You're not likely to find quality therapy on campus. Between the fact that they're probably not employing licensed psychologists + the workload from being responsible for an entire campus, most of the time the offered counseling isn't going to be that thorough or helpful. Even selecting from the pool of local psychologists can be challenging because they're not of uniform quality plus their ability to relate to you varies depending on who you are and who they are. Therapy is still incredibly ben… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?That's complete lunacy. Divorcing your wife over lying over something trivial like that? It happened TWICE and ostensibly YEARS ago, it's not like it's something she was routinely doing all the way up until she met him. People make this melodramatic big deal about "lying" but it's no surprise that women aren't upfront about this stuff when they're shamed and punished disproportionately for something otherwise relatively trivial. Whoever that guy is is a toxic buffoon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?Couldn't agree more. The people who are most fixated on this issue are insecure men, and it never became such a prevalent/important topic of discussion until recently in the past few years with the rise of incels/RP. They are the ones who've weaponized and normalized the body count thing as payback for their lack of sexual viability and/or insecurities. It's normal for romantic partners to ask about previous relationship history but the whole body count emphasis was really never such a common ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?How does him having more than her - or not - matter in any way?? A man doesn't need to have more sex partners than his girlfriend/wife did for the relationship to be compatible/harmonious, that's ridiculous. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?The suggestion that she or anyone else is hiding some shameful, dirty, harmful secret by not specifying their exact number of sex partner is absurd and melodramatic. Two people who meet at the age of 30+ obviously have a past and that past includes having sex with other people, presumably they both understand that as it's completely normal. The details of who and how many sex partners isn't important unless it's something that's going to negatively affect or jeopardize a relationship, such as ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Red pill music???Melodic techno and trance will change your life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E9nrKitD05g&t=1217s | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/23 12:10 AM |
| – | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?3? Try 80% of the male userbase on this sub. Of course the scenario specifics don't apply to all, but they say the same things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?OP, I think it might be helpful for you to google autogynephilia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?Why are guys becoming so girly these days? Hey, you want to be desired and lusted after? Go to a gay bar and enjoy the attention you are going to get. Sure, you might not be attracted to men, but a hole is a hole. Why not try it? You might just like it. Word. Autogynephilia, that's what this is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:26 AM |
| 7 | Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else?It's years of pent up rage from not getting what they think they're entitled to. The reason why the show is so successful is because it attracts a lot of resentful miserable men and provides a sanctuary where they can openly be as repulsive and spiteful as they want to be, without any fear of judgment or correction. I mean these malcontents are so pathetic and easily triggered that they're willing to literally blow money on sending in their roasts to get read aloud (if they're lucky enough for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 16 | Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else?It's a very deliberate formula, they stick with dumb rachet-type superficial women because that's what get's a reaction (and therefore $) from their audience. The more the women fit the stereotype of all the features they dislike (ghetto, dumb, loud, aggressive, materialistic) the more their audience gets their rage boners spasming. And the quicker the superchats pour in ($). On the rare occasions that they'll feature women who are more intelligent and put together, they're always the lone excep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?This is such a dumb response to what I said that I fail to see what was even the point of typing it out. I wasn't advocating for being an asshole because of not caring what people think, literally the opposite. Like did you bother even trying to read what I said in the first place? If your point is don't be an asshole because what other people think doesn't matter, then why aren't you saying that to the person I replied to? Because that corresponds far better with what he was saying than what I … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/23 05:52 PM |
| 8 | I legitimately hate men now and am heartbrokenou would have value even if you lived by yourself in a cabin and never spoke to another individual again for the rest of your life I'm ngl, I literally dream of doing that all the time 🤣 And I'd give zero fucks about what anyone thinks about it | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?I've seen that cop out a thousand times already. Using other people's immorality as a scapegoat is pretty fucking weak, are you doing everything in life just for validation from others or are you independent enough to have character and set and live by your own standards? Sholud we all just be sociopaths because there are people who get what they want in spite of being evil assholes? There's science backing up the fact that doing good things provides people with fulfillment and happiness, you do… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyBanning abortion is an incel revenge fantasy that's been recycled here a million times here already. If your response to being told you should use contraception is that abortion should be banned, then your whole fixation with this subject has absolutely nothing to do with either logic or fairness. Nothing about that even remotely makes sense. If you think you should be able to ejaculate inside women with zero responsibility or consequences, which is literally what you're saying- then yes, sex is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal imply"Paper abortion" isn't a substitute for contraception, just like abortion isn't. 65% of all women are using contraception, that's 47 million compared with only 615,000 abortions per year. Women aren't using abortion as a contraception substitute contrary to what right wing loonies and incels/RP men claim. If you don't want to get a women pregnant use condoms or get a vasectomy. The onus doesn't only fall on women, if you raw dog a woman and she gets pregnant that's as much your fault as it is he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?Your hurt people when you lie to them and use them, pursuit of sex is not an excuse for manipulating and exploiting people. I'm not even a Christian. I'm an atheist. I just don't like fucking hypocrites, I'm all about not needing religion to be a good person but apparently that doesn't work in your case. Go to church and learn how to actually apply the values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Stop telling men they need a woman, and how much better a wife will make their life.I totally agree, I just find it funny because according to these malcontent's own narrative they're the ones who fit all the criteria and should be getting pussy handed to them on a platter, but they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 14 | Stop telling men they need a woman, and how much better a wife will make their life.I swear every single man who gets called out here is conveniently a 6 figure earner, tall and fit and yet somehow has been cruelly denied an adequate mate. Either the majority of them are full of shit or there's something seriously psychologically wrong with them, or possibly both. Most of them have sociopathic traits and aren't even trying to hide it, so there's that for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.It's a Princeton study that's been conducted for 25 years. I can assure you that their researchers are far more statistically proficient than you are. It's literally considered the gold standard for these kind of nationally representative sociological surveys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:07 AM |
| 3 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?Red pilled women??? Pretty select audience, very few of them. The kind of women RP men seem to be targeting themselves too are superficial gold diggers | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 02:24 AM |
| 3 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?Honestly I was thinking about this today, and the biggest thing that stands out to me is being a good person. I know this is the complete opposite of all the contrarian bs RP tells you, but it's true and pretty intuitive so it's not hard to understand. Yes I've also been with someone who was totally emotionally abusive but that was an outlier while I was still really young, before I really understood what narcissism was because there wasn't a huge mainstream awareness of it like there is now. Th… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.every single what is reported?? You think court system data is just some arbitrary mess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 01:32 AM |
| 17 | Is playing video games an ick be honest?His first instinct in the morning (on his days off) was to turn on the PS4 and play for 12-16 hours. On days he worked, the PS4 went on as soon as he got home. Oh hellllllllllllll no. Attn: All men, this is the quickest way to kill your wife's/girlfriend's sexual interest in you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Is playing video games an ick be honest?Totally depends on how much and if they have other interests. An hour or so a day is acceptable with maybe a couple/few hours on weekend days, cuz I definitely don't need to be around someone constantly. Anything much more than that and it's gonna be a problem, just too much of a fundamental difference in tastes/interests. Same thing with dudes who are super into sports, that's just not my type. My vibe is more intellectual/cultural/outdoorsy. I met a young dude some time ago who said he was in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.Hmm let's see here ~ 14% of fathers with child support debt are jailed for that debt Dads owing more than $10,000 in child support debt are more than three times as likely to go to jail for unpaid child support, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.doesn’t have the right to be notified of being a father? Dude your argument makes no sense. You can't establish paternity without a man's or his relatives involvement. Most of the time when a father isn't involved with the pregnancy or the birth it's because he is the one who very willfully chose not to participate, not the other way around. There's no established precedent of pregnant women abandoning fathers-to-be, it's literally the opposite. The whole RP/ incel bs is predicated on all these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.First of all, safe haven laws are very restrictive, in most states the baby has to be less than a month old if not younger. It's not like you can have a kid and months later get rid of them. If a father were to drop a new born baby off at the fire department with out a mothers permission it would be kidnapping. Yeah that's also complete bs. Where are you pulling this out of, your ass? In all states but 3 either parent can avail of safe haven laws, not just the mom. And there's zero evidence that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:22 PM |
| 3 | As promised, here is the (first, another one in press) article published from our project which recruited here!A rare gem indeed. Though I feel anti-red pill is going to become increasingly more relevant as the sycophants from this recent RP boom start crawling out of the abyss once they realize it doesn't actually work, it just makes you a POS. At least I hope 😐 | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 03:54 PM |
| 5 | As promised, here is the (first, another one in press) article published from our project which recruited here!This is amazing. It's so nice to finally have the validation of peer-reviewed for all the shit I've been saying for a long time now. I hope more studies will continue to be conducted and that more participants will contribute to them, because sharing their experiences especially for academic study is so critically important. This could be a huge part of dismantling this blight or at the very least reducing future victims by making women aware of the dangers of involvement with RP men. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?You have nothing in life if you have no character. The ultimate mark of a man is being a good person. That's all that's left when you leave this life and all anyone remembers you for, how you make them feel not your looks or your money. I've done a lot of dumb shit in my life but I haven't hurt others and that's the one thing that actually differentiates someone from average in a hyper-individualistic self-obsessed world. Yes I know this sub and RP in general is a cesspool of degenerates and you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 02:26 PM |
| 10 | Women getting all these degrees is really just intrasexual warfare the upper classes and beta males trying to take all the women. At least astrology has had cultural and academic significance since ancient times, even though now recognized as a pseudoscience.. This is just a particularly creative edition of incel revenge fantasies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:50 AM |
| 11 | Women getting all these degrees is really just intrasexual warfare the upper classes and beta males trying to take all the women.Just like me, he was fine without women until He wasn't And that's when all h*** breaks loose for us men. This right here explains so much of the incel phenomenon. Dudes who never gave a shit about moving on beyond the "girls have cooties" stage and now all of a sudden when they finally realize they actually need women they're pissed they're not readily available to them b/c they never bothered cultivating social acumen with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Using bullshit "science" and self deluded garbage to justify being cruel to women - how can "red pill/manosphere" stuff ever be considered legitimate if they tolerate this community?You lose all credibility when you reference an IFS survey, and on top of it have the gumption to say it's actually reliable. Learn how to identify credible sources ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 05:15 AM |
| 5 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?"look, I'm not looking for something serious ok? I'm just dating around" explanation hit them up and they start processing it correctly, usually after sex, I'm a christian, I respect christian and traditional values, and while I don't go to church I believe in God , but I just don't think there is something wrong with sex, unless you're actually hurting someone. Your whole essay is a confession about being a hypocrite with no character. Pretty shitty that you had to get these women to have sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 05:08 AM |
| 12 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?I'm gonna guess those women probably didn't know he was fucking them at the same time as multiple other women. This particular guy was constantly dating new women and never seemed to get attached to one. Once they got an inkling about this going on they dipped. Lot of effort to constantly be refreshing your supply of available sex partners, even as someone good looking and well to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:53 AM |
| 7 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?My response was specifically about the situation OP was describing, an average dude having multiple women willingly and knowingly fucking him at the same time is a very rare situation. In another comment someone else described what the real scenario of men fucking multiple women actually looks like. College-aged extroverted decent-looking guys randomly hooking up with girls, some of whom stick around for a bit and others not. That's not a "rotation" though because these women aren't on demand, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 09:26 PM |
| 5 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?He has a virgin fetish so he would only date girls who were 14-16 and feign long term mating to get them to have sex with him then he would break up Yikes. How much older was he than these girls?? Sounds like a good situation to get your door bust down by an angry dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:29 PM |
| 7 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?Yeah, this is a far more realistic depiction of any kind of "harem" or plate-spinning situation and by far the one that occurs most frequently. It also is usually something only feasible in a man's 20s, when he's in college and has an active social life surrounded by young women who are okay with just having a "good time" instead of a relationship. If this is what people are calling their "harem" - and by the sounds of what people are claiming in the comments it indeed is - then there's plenty o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:27 PM |
| 11 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?This sounds like red pill wet dream fantasy fiction. Thereotically it's possible but happens so rarely, especially among average-ish men, that there's no point in even entertaining this as anything other than a fantasy. Very few average men (and by average I mean men that aren't good-looking multimilionaires) are able to willingly get multiple women to concurrently have sex with them. The reason being that there's no reward in this situation for a woman, so very few will sign up for such an arra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:12 PM |
| – | Dating outside the US is easier for menJust trying to help you not waste thousands of dollars you'll have better luck in SE Asia, women are more desperate there 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers and their mothersI don't identify with radfems or really strongly support any feminist movement in general (their take on sex work disgusts me) but RP is far worse and more dangerous than any feminist movement, and it has way more adherents than feminism does. I mean RP literally teaches and promotes deliberate abuse. Feminism does not. It also closely overlaps with most of the incel axioms, which is directly responsible for producing violence. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | You should absolutely pay child supportThere have been a number of cases where men have successfully sued women for using their semen to inseminate themselves without their knowledge. It's obviously an unfortunate thing that it happens at all, but statistically there is SUCH a low chance of that happening to a guy especially one who isn't famous/rich, that there's no point in a man even worrying about that. I personally have always been against the whole "baby trapping" thing. At the same time there are nuances to this issue. If a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | You should absolutely pay child supportNone of that makes any sense. That's just more incel revenge fantasies. First of all we all know human nature is to have sex, that's why lack of sex ed and abortion bans don't work. Second of all, less casual sex doesn't benefit men. We already have a huge contingent of them complaining about how women are too selective and won't have sex with them. Women becoming more selective will definitely, definitely NOT benefit the men complaining about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | You should absolutely pay child supportYup. Yup. and Yup. Infinite similar examples to this, happens all the time. Incels talk like "shitty" men come with warning labels on them, just like sexual assault victims do apparently. They don't know that people change over the course of their lifetimes, they think just because they're the same poorly adjusted malcontents that they were as teenager losers that everyone else' stays the exact same too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | You should absolutely pay child supportBrings up a scenario that never happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | You should absolutely pay child supportThe case you're referring to is disgusting and pretty much universally recognized as such, I would absolutely participate in a campaign to ensure that's made illegal. I've heard of exactly one instance of that happening. Eliminating abortion has nothing to do with any of the absurdly illogical points men are trying to make here. It won't stop that specific scenario you referenced. And it certainly won't end child support because it directly results in more men having to pay child support. Keepin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | You should absolutely pay child supportAccount created yesterday that's glorifying inceldom, what a surprise. What number of account are you on now? 46th??? You're just going to keep getting banned. You're wasting your time. Go back to incel.is where you can circlejerk with your buddies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:38 PM |
| 3 | You should absolutely pay child supportSure sounds nice that according to you if my girlfriend steals my sperm out of my condom to get pregnant I am somehow responsible for that. I think women universally consider that wrong and condemn that, aside from the very small percentage of psychos who would do that. Furthermore, though there unfortunately exists a sizeable number of women who do this, a huge portion of women are opposed to "baby trapping" and carrying out a pregnancy against a man's wishes. Most abortion advocates do not sup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | You should absolutely pay child support🤢🤢🤢 🤮🤮🤮 Tell me you're chronically sexless w/o telling me you're chronically sexless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:10 PM |
| 3 | You should absolutely pay child supportJust like sexual assault victims aren't readily identifiable and can't be "vetted out" neither are many, many deadbeat dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | You should absolutely pay child supportNo one talks like that boomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:02 PM |
| 2 | You should absolutely pay child supportIncel revenge fantasies. If you don't like men having to pay child support then you would unwaveringly support abortion. PERIOD. Abortion outlaws directly result in more men having to pay child support. You knock up a girl (which you won't, that's why you don't care) then you are now legally responsible for a child, end of story 0 chance for an abortion whatsoever. Child support every single time any man impregnates a woman. This is what you are advocating for, and you call yourself a man's righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | You should absolutely pay child supportAhh yes more incel revenge fantasies, how can an incel even survive w/o salivating over his revenge fantasies. I find it very interesting how in the wake of the Roe v Wade Dobbs decision, the reaction I saw from most men online was gloating delightfully, patting each other on the backs, and taking a lot of pleasure in the fact that apparently according to them, women are now getting payback for men having to pay child support. "We're going to make those stupid sluts pay for making us pay child s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating outside the US is easier for men"By and large" ....wait you're saying this and you've never spent significant let alone any time there yourself lololol? I've lived in Europe, I knew a few American men who were in relationships with European women but they were working and living there and highly educated. In general American men are definitely not viewed as more desirable than European men, many times it's much the opposite and that's not really news or surprising because the typical male American personality isn't favored in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Dating outside the US is easier for menNot in Europe, American men aren't in demand there because their European counterparts are better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 07:08 PM |
| 12 | Dating outside the US is easier for menDating in Europe is not only easier for men, it's easier for women too. European men tend to be more even-tempered, reasonable and less ego-centric than American men. Among a number of other superior traits. People in Europe in general just have a much healthier mentality than their American counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingGood luck screening out sexual assault victims who make up over a quarter of the female population. There aren't readily apparent signs contrary to the incel rhetoric | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:04 PM |
| 4 | The obsession the manosphere has with "single older miserable women" is bizarre.Yup. Then they get mad that that small minority of women who align with their inordinate beauty standards via weaves and tons of cosmetic procedures aren't interested in them, because they spent tons $ and effort to get there and don't feel inclined to throw it away on an average Joe. Oh and also shame these women for the means in which they paid for these things, since sex work often tends to be the only viable way to attain tens of thousands that can be blown on cosmetic frills. But they'll ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:00 PM |
| 5 | what's your opinion on the ex mysoginst sub culture?I'm very glad that you've recognized that inceldom/RP is illogical, the list of contradictions is truly endless. For Woman to be kind to them to bring them out of it. Vs battling their fairly easily proven wrong logic It's not women's duty to rehabilitate these people, especially when they've literally made an identity for themselves of hating and degrading women. Women are not the stand-in therapists for poorly adjusted men, they should be seeing the people who are actually paid for this work b… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is self-contradictory.Buddy the list of contradictions of RP is endless, I could easily come up with a dozen off the top of my head. Unfortunately a shit ton of people are too delusional and defiant to acknowledge any of these contradictions despite them being fairly obvious. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/23 12:52 PM |
| 23 | The obsession the manosphere has with "single older miserable women" is bizarre.Wow, that tweet is fucking disgusting. 34 million views on that shit and hateful coomers circlejerking about her supposed obsolescence. She literally doesn't look any different, she just isn't wearing a big ass wig. Not sure if men realize it or not but 95% of women don't have hair that looks like Danearys Targaryen. That's why it's a wig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:30 PM |
| 3 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingYeah, and because of that heterosexual casual sex was pretty uncommon for men. Men weren't strategizing how to trick and manipulate multiple women into having sex with them concurrently i.e "plate spin" the way that red pill men do now. Men actually had to court women and put in a lot more emotional effort for a women to consider them as suitable prospects for marriage. There was less emphasis on looks on both sides because beauty standards were yet to become so cutthroat thanks to the advent of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Demographic Survey Discussion Weekly Discussion Threadis this a biker club? sounds like an interesting life lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Demographic Survey Discussion Weekly Discussion Threada lot of men 40+ have also at some point seen sex workers so that ups the number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Demographic Survey Discussion Weekly Discussion Threadit'd be more helpful if they just clarified what the hell that rule even means, because the enforcement is ambiguous as hell. it certainly doesn't mean that pro-incel/blackpill content is banned, or that anti-incel/blackpill content is condoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Demographic Survey Discussion Weekly Discussion Threadwell you also rejects posts from people who've posted in non-offensive subs like exredpill, so the discussion trends toward one side of the spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Demographic Survey Discussion Weekly Discussion ThreadDo you exclusively prefer females 5'2" and under, or just children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Are my standards too high or are many peoples standards too low?I'm 5'8 and I've had men make a much bigger deal out of my height than the other way around...in fact I've never commented on a shorter man's height. But I've also had a couple boyfriends who weren't any taller than me and I don't think either of us really gave a shit. Both of them also had plenty of other girlfriends, so height certainly wasn't limiting them in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Are my standards too high or are many peoples standards too low?Just wondering what your particular set of physical preferences are that you're routinely finding difficulty getting intimate with your female counterparts. You can't force yourself to be attracted to what you're not, but it does make things difficult if your preferences are indeed that narrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?Yeah so I don't gauge the prevalence of things based on what maladjusted men in this sub have to say, you're not exactly the demographic that I look for validation from. I'ved dated men and know/ have talked to many others who've dated men, so I have a much better perception of how commonly men ask their partners this than you do, since you're a dude and therefore ostensibly not in the position to even be asked this question from men in the first place. You have no idea how often men are asking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingRight. And there's no benefit to being with a man w/ a body count fixation, unless he has very purposely chosen to remain abstinent until marriage and you've done the same because you both share those values. Otherwise a man's body count fixation is 100% attributable to either his own insecurities about his sexual prowess as many men here have acknowledged, which doesn't bode well for a relationship - and/or because of deep-rooted misogyny which also doesn't bode well for a relationship. It's hy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts? 😂Well that sucks. Guess he should have "vetted better" like the manosphere loves to say. Cuz this isn't a typical representation of a relationship. It happens but most aren't this unbalanced with one partner pulling all the weight, whether that's the man or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingWhere is this a common occurrence? Maybe that's happened to you and if so, it is pretty crass but also anecdotal, I haven't heard of women routinely shaming men with trade jobs for not having college degrees. I have friends who make good money in these fields, some do much better than the average person w a "professional" job, there's no shame in "blue collar" work. I also know a number of women w/ "desk jobs' who have partners with trade jobs, it's hardly uncommon. Also the whole "jobs women do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 11:32 AM |
| 3 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingFurther contradictions of body count policing: "Red pilled" men have a tendency to believe they are entitled to the most attractive women. They also have a fixation with body counts and want their highly attractive female partner to only have a couple prior sex partners, some even have the absurd expectation of this partner being a virgin. This overlap is only common among hot women who marry very young and therefore aren't available to them in the first place, and/or hot women who come from and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingA reasonable take that is sorely lacking in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 10:04 AM |
| 6 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anything"I enjoy taking advantage of and benefiting from an atmosphere where women freely exercise their sexuality. Afterwards I shame them for it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 10:01 AM |
| 6 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingI mean...you're the one who's doing a character analysis of OP off of their OP history and somehow declaring that they're "literally everything people want to screen out" - on the basis of what, really not clear. The fact that it appears they were sexually assaulted?? You do know 1/4 women experience sexual assault before even reaching the age of 18? How tf do you go about screening out such a huge portion of the female population, especially when there's no outward/uniform signs?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:50 AM |
| 3 | "Body count" metrics don't really help determine anythingThe whole body count policing movement pushed by incels/red pill men is contradictory af. First of all, they say they want women with few sexual partners and even go to the extent of saying they want virgins. At the same time they complain that women don't give enough sex, that it's too difficult to finding women willing to have sex part with them. So how in TF would women having fewer/no prior sex partners do anything to improve or benefit them in any way whatsoever?? **If women were to have fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?Seeing how the risk/reward for women of engaging in sex with a new partner is very disproportionate especially nowadays why would it be surprising that some choose to financially benefit from it instead of giving it out for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?Not a common question. If it is, how come the term "body count" only started being used recently?? This never was even a thing until red pill/inceldom achieved huge mainstream popularity a couple years ago. They are the ones who've weaponized and normalized the body count thing as payback for their lack of sexual viability. Sure it's normal for romantic partners to ask about your previous relationship history but the whole body count emphasis was really never such a common male fixation until ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?(notice how these comments saying this don't reveal the number more often than not). Interesting. You didn't even indicate your own body count, why do you feel people wshould feel inclined to tell you theirs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?I've never been asked by any of my significant others about my body count. Relationship history sure, but that also wasn't really ever much of a concern for them. Everything I've heard from women indicates they aren't commonly getting asked about their body count either, unless their partner/romantic interest has taken a recent interest in parroting red pill/inc3l axioms. This never was even a thing until red pill/inceldom achieved huge mainstream popularity a couple years ago. They are the ones… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Most people are average and they are happy000000.1% of actual sexless males ever commit a crime because of that So, you don't get to just pull shit out of your ass and present it as statistically factual, that's not how shit works. I don't know if you have any understanding of statistics or for htat fact basic arithmetic, seeing how 4 billion men * 0.0000001 is only 400 men and needless to say there are millions of more men who are single/not having regular sex than that who commit violent crimes. You could say "the majority of sexless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Most people are average and they are happyMore single young women than men. Wow what an amazing revelation that defies everything that says otherwise including the incel narrative. Groundbreaking, truly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.🙄 I hope you're not serious!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:28 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.Neither gender needs the other more than the other needs them, that doesn't make any sense. Unless you're suggesting that men can just transfer their sexual and emotional needs to other men. Don't give me the whole "men are stronger" spiel either, because the same way that's an established fact is the same way that it's an established fact that there's critical areas where women are more capable than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.I love how you're looking to two women who are on opposing extremes to gauge your perceptions instead of average women who wouldn't fall into either of these categories - You know, the majority of women who aren't purposely not seeking out bad boys and raving about how good sex is with them or shaming the minority of women who engage in this kind of behavior either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:07 AM |
| 9 | Most people are average and they are happyWhat's worse, cat ladies who are at peace with their lives and the world or embittered men who are resentful and angry with society? The former is harmless while the latter has proved to not be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Most people are average and they are happyThat's great but you're also still very young based on what you've said here and have yet to experience marriage for any extended length of time, so extrapolating what you've personally seen to everyone else isn't necessarily accurate. People in the first 5 years or so of marriage have a different outlook than people who've been married 15+ years. Only about half of marriages last 20 years +. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Most people are average and they are happyI don't know, I think OP is actually young and somewhat inexperienced themselves, seeing how they said they were a teenager when they were learning about all the inc3l tropes, which only cemented into a standard narrative roughly a decade ago. They're probably mid 20s-ish and have yet to have been married for any extended period of time. While the incel narrative is full of hyperbole and contradictions, this notion that most people have happy fulfilling lives is also not really correct either. E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:26 AM |
| 11 | why so many redpills are atheists?Have no idea what the religion breakdown is for RP men but I assume a huge portion are just LARPing when they rant about the superiority of traditionalism- they've never adhered to that lifestyle in any meaningful way themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?The truth is the women are sex. Objects and men are success objects You literally just said women are sex objects and men are success objects. And yet you're claiming women objectify men more than men objectify women?? Make it make sense. The level of brainrot going on among so many of you seems to be terminal. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadSo answer me this. If women have just as high of a tendency to be predators as men, how come the huge vast majority of people caught with CP (which is done with FORENSICS, not victim accounts) are men???? More than NINETY-NINE PERCENT (99.3%( of CP offenders are men. I'd love to hear what kind of nonsense you're going to come up with to explain that. There's thousands of years of documented history, firsthand victim accounts and statistical evidence showing men are much likely to be assault perp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Which man would you pick?Dude what? Women have to be engaging and show interest in men too, they don't always have to take as much initiative but they definitely have to know how to interact with them. A lot of the time nowadays women are showing just as much initiative/effort as men. Most men aren't going to be interested in someone who's just a cold unreceptive wall, not even for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Which man would you pick?Flirting is literally just friendly banter and throwing compliments in here and there. Slowly escalating if they show signs of engaging and returning interest. I don't think women are as cryptic as a lot of guys in the pill communities make it out to be. Yes there's an element of playing hard to get sometimes but usually it's not that hard to tell they're interested because they maintain eye contact, they return compliments, they laugh, have receptive body language. Now if someone is suffering f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Which man would you pick?Being well socialized/interacting with women is a different story for some men apparently. Some treat women like they're some kind of foreign species. Others do the opposite, interacting with them like they're another man and doing shit like only talking/caring about video games and sports which women tend to not have much interest in. Flirting is literally just friendly banter and throwing compliments in here and there, that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion Thread$300 is definitely very close to average in the US, in fact you can definitely find cheaper than that but at the approx $300 mark you absolutely can find quite attractive, reputable worthwhile providers. Are they going to be "10" bonafide model material - no, but well within the range of conventionally attractive, in shape, well groomed etc. If you want "instagram model" material with all the plastic features sure you're going to have to spend more than that, probably double if not more. Then ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:28 AM |
| 3 | I am in a normal relationship and it’s a world of difference.My heart breaks for you and what you had to go through with this human filth. You have very strong character to have weathered through and overcame this misery, there are many who probably would have a mental breakdown over a situation like this because this kind of abuse is seriously not a joke. Emotional abuse often is much worse than physical because the damage is long term, people can suffer from a lifetime of trauma after going through this stuff. And for that reason I'm not exaggerating wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadYou are not special on the basis of being white/American/European. There are hundreds of millions of you and the popular destinations for sex tourism are all teeming with Westerners. If you go to some African country like Burundi or some remote islands like Micronesia yes you'll be special for being white/Western. Not Thailand, the Philippines, Vietnam etc. and definitely not Eastern Europe or LatAm where white people make up the vast majority or huge portion of the population. It's also not "ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadTell me what you think I'm wrong about. Then I'll tell you how I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadYeah and as you well know dating isn't the same thing as marriage. You're in PH for a reason, women there are less selective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadYou're never getting an Eastern European woman lmfao. At least definitely not one with any options ETA - You're just gonna keep getting your accounts suspended. Might as well not waste your time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadAnd of course you're saying this based on your own personal experience, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadAlllll of this. It's funny because the majority of the men who are raving about how much better women in developing countries are have never even been there, let alone had sex with them. For the few who actually have who go around gloating about their success overseas, it seems they're just high off the thrill of getting any sex/attention, which may be less readily available in the US for all kinds of reasons. Does it actually translate into better relationships though? There's yet to really be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadProbably because of the other things you are saying/doing. Most women in principle would have nothing wrong with that arrangement and in fact are looking for just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadIt's childish. You're not special because you tell yourself you are, just like women who use the equivalent saying aren't special because they tell themselves they are either. And you're definitely not special on the basis of being white/American/European. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadBecause the reality is the vast majority of people aren't special, regardless of their gender. And you're certainly not special because of your race/nationality. No one should expect to be "celebrated" - you're a human being, not a deity, and that expectation points to narcissism, delusions of grandeur and an unwarranted inflated ego. You should be treated as you are, like a human being. Human beings are deserving of love, at least many are but not all. If the expression were "loved" instead of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadHoly SHIT though the prices in the USA are forking inn--sane! The women are not even all that attractive and they charge just insane amounts. I have travelled both in the army when I was younger and in business. So, I took a trip to Germany to one of the FKK clubs and holy shit I would never bother with trying this in the states No it's not. Sex work in the US is more expensive because to start with 1) It's relative to wages and cost of services, which in general are much higher here than they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:22 AM |
| -1 | Which man would you pick?It's not about flirting, it's about being well-socialized and knowing how to interact with women on a basic human-to-human level. Being capable of carrying a conversation. Most men who are in relationships and get laid do that in spite of not being skilled at flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Which man would you pick?Yeah, this hypothetical scenario they're posing doesn't make any sense, it's a pointless exercise in trying to bait people into affirming their preconceived notions. In real life there'd obviously be additional information that'd help explain the differences between the two and other influencing factors. Without being given any of that information we're left to make assumptions which OP will use to confirm his biases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion Thread"Go where we're celebrated not tolerated" is the passport bro equivalent of "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best." It's cringe and absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadYeah and it's disgusting no matter whether it's a male or female teacher doing the abusing. And I fully believe every one of them should go to prison. Let's say there's 10 incidents of female teacher sex abuse every day in the US, which there's no indication that it's that high. Even at that high of a prevalence it would still be massively dwarfed by the number of sexual assaults committed by male perpetrators every day in the US. Men were never even pointing out these female teacher predators u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadLook up anecdotal vs empirical because you clearly don't know the difference. But sure go ahead and reinvent all of human history and tell us how women are are committing sexual violence as often as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadI don't know if you're a kid or what, but your single anecdotal experience has fuck all to do with the prevalence of male vs female predators and the likelihood of getting reported based on gender. That's like me saying a man robbed me and I didn't report it, therefore men get reported less often for theft. Sorry that happened to you but your single experience or even a number of anecdotal experiences doesn't reflect the prevalence of men being reported for assault vs women in any meaningful way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:25 AM |
| -1 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadMen are reported more Source??? You can't just pull that out of your ass and present it as factual. That's not how shit works. There's no statistical data that reflects that male sexual predators are more likely to be reported than female sexual predators. Men make up the majority of sexual assault perpetrators (98% in the US, with a 6.5% felony conviction rate for reported sexual assaults) because they have a higher tendency to sexually assault than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Question: how did you get over the fear/thought of being betrayed or cheated on?I think what the person you're replying to was trying to explain went right over your head. No person is infallible. It's not as simple as people with your view make it out to be. People can stray in a relationship for all kinds of reasons that don't necessarily have anything to do with their love or attraction to their partner. Most long-term marriages eventually involve some degree of straying because humans aren't innately wired for life-long monogamy. It's healthier to understand that and ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Question: how did you get over the fear/thought of being betrayed or cheated on?This is the most helpful and nuanced take on cheating that I've ever seen on Reddit. A lot of people could benefit from understanding this. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Yeah, because you're an over-indulged petulant child whose parents never taught them that life isn't fair. Nobody owes you anything. You are not special. Hundreds of millions of men and women existed before you who didn't/rarely had sex and they didn't become whiny insufferable degenerates because of it. In fact many of them went on to accomplish great things that defy human limitations despite having little to no sex. Stop being a slave to your baby carrot and get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 08:30 AM |
| 0 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Your entire post history says otherwise, as does countless others from this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themWe can start with the 2 trillion that goes to the military. 30-40% of which is spent literally just on supplying water. Also the foreign interest spending. It'll never happen though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themUnfortunately most of this sub and the population in general is too braindead to understand what you're saying, but I hear you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them"The world won't end for another 10 billion years" is the low IQ response from the people who choose to be completely oblivious about what's happening in real time around them. The planet continuing to exist for billions of years doesn't mean the same thing as continuing to be able to sustain life on the scale it is now. The people who hate humanity are the ones who consciously choose to introduce life into a world where existence increasingly means suffering, since basic necessities are only go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Well that's your problem, beggars can't be choosers. Why should anyone be giving you free sex when your motivation for it is feeling superiority and domination over someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: attractive RP men SHOULD care more about a woman’s financial status and intellectSpare yourself the wasted time, effort and humiliation and stick to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:37 AM |
| 13 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Pretty sure they were talking about "ugly" primarily figuratively and not literally, seeing how everything they referenced are character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:10 AM |
| 10 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Not the "non-transactional" sexual market but it does make sex accessible to all men. And while transactional sex may not be your preferred option it's still much better than nothing at all. When it's made safe and easily accessible it results in benefits for society like reduced violence and rape as shown by multiple studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:03 AM |
| 11 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…This, not so much now but women would and should fear the repercussions of men physically, not that men would beat the shit out of women so much now but women do live with the constant fear of men because we as men could quite literally bounce their heads off the sidewalk like a pinball machine, the thought is always in their brain because we are physically superior as a collective You're saying bouncing a woman's head on the sidewalk would be the instinctual male response to hearing women say t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 06:46 AM |
| -1 | CMV: attractive RP men SHOULD care more about a woman’s financial status and intellectAlso, no where in my post did I lament the lack of attractive and well rounded women in my own personal life lmao. This is where you lost me and you came across as a bitter femcel with an axe to grind against men. Please stop contributing to my post from here on out because you are an intellectually dishonest debater and confidently misconstrued and misinterpreted my post due to your warped views. You literally wrote an entire post about how repulsed you are by women who don't have anything to o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 08:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: attractive RP men SHOULD care more about a woman’s financial status and intellectMaybe if men yourself included didn't treat looks as the all-defining entry level barrier and dismiss personality, intellect and character as an afterthought, there would be more women out there striving for greatness in these areas. It takes a good bit of time, effort and money to keep up with beauty standards these days so it's really not surprising that the women who are most concerned with meeting them have a tendency for vanity, as opposed to valuing intellect or being a good person. L.A is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Im starting r/exredpill2 so we can post media (vids, links, pics, cross posting)I just wish the filtering wasn't so inconsistent on this sub. I tried posting something the other day about how abuse is the only defining element of RP and the spam filter wouldn't let me even though I didn't use any offensive words or anything...meanwhile people with negative karma who clearly are just bad faith trolls litter the sub with comments/posts all the time. So would make sense if another sub is created that the settings are different to fill in the gap | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are people so scared of being single?I mean you could have easily looked it up? Couldn't find the same one but this was a widely circulated survey from the Washington Post with about the same results. 28% men vs 18% women https://pbs.twimg.com/media/D205FUnU8AI6FyY.jpg I also saw an Italian study where the gap was much narrower but not going to spend the time looking for it. You can find it on google scholar. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?Idk where you are, but if it's the Western world especially the US, there's a very very high chance that either you or your friend is full of shit. A young hot escort who you say is 10/10 and prefers to live with and fuck some guy she's not into just for a place to stay instead of making money on her own and enjoying her freedom??? Yeah, doesn't really exist outside of fantasies. You say she does this because she doesn't want to have to fuck "old ugly guys" - well say rent is $1500, that'd only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?JFC THANK YOU. Took me scrolling through the whole damn thread to finally find a single person with some common sense. This story is complete bullshit. NO 10/10 or even 8/10 escort is opting to live with and fuck some dude she's not into just to have her bills paid. They'd choose making their own $ and having freedom any day over that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?If your idea of prostitution is some archaic stereotype where women are plying their wares openly on the street and their first introduction to a man is right then and there, then yeah it's dangerous. Most sex workers work indoors these days, not sure if you noticed. And since they have to be contacted via phone/email they have the option of screening everyone before even meeting. Many require screening which often means ID before meeting a client. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are people so scared of being single?Yeah, these neckbeards seem to think that sex is some intensely vigorous activity. I guess when you sit on your ass all day it probably seems that way. In reality when it comes to cardiovascular benefit, regular exercise is going to outdo sex almost every time. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Why are people so scared of being single?Most people aren't having sex that's vigorous enough to raise your heart level for a long enough amount of time to make it anywhere near comparable to exercise. People wildly overestimate the effort and calories exerted from sex. The average duration for sex is only around 5-10 minutes. Yeah, having sex is better than doing nothing at all. If you're a neckbeard who does nothing but sit on your ass all day having sex might seem like a vigorous activity. But in reality regular exercise is going to… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Why are people so scared of being single?People - especially the pill/incel communities who are the most petulant about their singlehood- forget that there has always been a significant portion of the population throughout history that remained single/mostly single. And it never was such a huge issue as it is now, to the point that groups have organized to rally against and condemn the opposite sex because of their singlehood/lack of sexual viability. Historically it has actually always been single women who suffered the most on accoun… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Why are people so scared of being single?Looooll yeah, having more sex can lower your risk of heart disease - the same way that going to the gym, biking and even walking can lower your risk of heart disease. It's not that sex is some magical remedy for heart disease, it lowers your risk because it's a physical activity the same as any other physical activity does. In fact there's a lot of activities that would be far more beneficial for your heart than sex. You don't have to have sex for good cardio health. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 07:31 AM |
| 6 | Manosphere guys and the dark triad100%. It's hard to say how many of these guys are simply emulating dark triad traits and how many are innately dark triad. But once a person spends a significant amount of time emulating these traits they no longer have to emulate, they become dark triad. RP is pretty blatantly unethical because it's not only misogynistic but abusive so I'm sure it tends to attract men who already lack moral integrity. I've seen a number of red pill/ black pill guys on reddit openly disclosing and even boasting … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Manosphere guys and the dark triadIncels and RP types can claim that they are better because they won't play these manipulative games, or they can claim women are worse morally for liking these types. I agree with pretty much everything you're saying, but just want to point out that RP literally is all about manipulation and emotional abuse. Aside from the very generic self improvement fluff that's all it amounts to. So they have no claim to moral superiority when they're doing/ promoting the same kind of abusive behaviors that … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 09:12 PM |
| 7 | Hey r/exredpill, question; How do I tell my girlfriend that she sucks at being a girlfriend?Is she struggling with work or mental health issues? Just going off what you're saying yes it does sound very unfair. But of course we don't know if there's more to the story and if she might be dealing with things that are causing her to not feel like cleaning and helping out. Not saying that's necessarily an excuse, but just that there's a possibility that it's not purely because of laziness or trying to take advantage of you. Absent any real reason for what's going on and any desire to change… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 09:03 PM |
| 7 | (21m) Why is getting girls so hard for me and what should I do?Porn and excessive masturbation is hugely destructive. As a sex worker I can tell you that I know of a number of young men who absolutely destroyed their sexual functioning due to their porn addictions/ over masturbation. They condition themselves to only be able to respond to the specific stimuli of porn and their own masturbation technique and cannot perform at all with an actual human being....unless they're using their own hand. It' really sad to see a young man whose sexual functioning is w… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 06:20 AM |
| 5 | Why do red pill YouTube channels exist? They’re all sexist and should be removed from YouTube. On a side note I really love this subreddit. I really hope it always exists it’s helped me a lot.I've been bewildered by this myself, especially because recently I've encountered some RP channels that are even more blatantly hateful than the ones I was familiar with. A lot of them are not only extremely misogynistic but especially disparaging of black women too, it's disgusting. This kind of rhetoric would never be allowed about trans people for example. I have no idea why Youtube is tolerating this stuff. I think a big part of the problem is that collectively women aren't doing anything ab… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 05:48 AM |
| 5 | No longer redpilled!Awesome to hear. As long as you stick to your improved mindset I think you will have a lot of good things ahead of you. I gotta say I'm a new fan of Destiny myself. Never knew who he was before until recently, I just dismissed him as another dime-a-dozen streamer. Then I saw some of the videos he put out on Taint and his debates with FnF and Pearl and I was very pleasantly surprised. He's like the first person they've debated who's actually a very worthy opponent and giving these guys a run for … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 05:27 AM |
| 4 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.Attractiveness is hardly all about weight, if it were it'd be much easier for people to meet beauty standards. There are lots of slim women who would not be considered attractive by most men and would be passed over in favor of a significantly heavier woman who has a pretty face or nice curves. That's why the popularity of plastic surgery has surged because it's hardly just about being slim. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 10:54 PM |
| 10 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.It's an increasing trend and many recent incidents of mass violence have been perpetrated by someone who has a connection to incel-related communities. Even though the number of perpetrators is small relative to the population it's still significant because they're literally all men committing this violence with the exception of 1. Women by and large aren't the ones committing violence in general- 90% of murderers, 95% of serious domestic violence perpetrators, and 98% of rapists are men. Ther… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 10:04 AM |
| 18 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?So how would the average guy go about maintaining a relationship without game? If you think it's acceptable to emotionally abuse women (because that's exactly what RP tactics are) in order to try to get sex out of them, then you're a sociopath. There is no excuse for manipulating and mistreating someone, least of all sex. And these tactics hardly work well in the first place, because stable well-adjusted women generally don't like being abused, have been warned about these tactics and will leave… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 08:36 AM |
| 2 | What is Creepiness?I don't have links for random comments interspersed throughout months of different posts. Ridiculous expectation. That's like asking for links of comments from men who admit to manipulating/lying to women for sex - most of us who've been here for some time have seen it happening, even if isn't all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:56 AM |
| 6 | What is Creepiness?Literally I've seen men in this sub talk about how it's more unpleasant and embarrassing for them to simply be within the vicinity of an ugly woman than it is to be near an ugly man. Ugly women get mocked far more often than men, so don't even try to go there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | What is Creepiness?That was a grand total of ONE influencer who did that and she got absolutely blasted by hate comments for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:36 AM |
| 7 | What is Creepiness?Yes there is. There's billions of women who are considered inferior by the crazy high beauty standards imposed on them. These people desire partners too, and in spite of the RP/incel lies it's men who place a much higher value on looks and expect more attractiveness than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:32 AM |
| 10 | What is Creepiness?Yup, so do I - one who has horrible Crohn's on top of that. Got married and had kids. These people find someone because they're willing to be rational and temper their expectations accordingly, instead of thinking they're entitled to attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What is Creepiness?Women have been asking for vulnerability and communication from men for a long time and complaining about their emotional unavailability. The only thing that's really stopping men from expressing their feelings is themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:23 AM |
| 5 | What is Creepiness?Not everyone is entitled to or even deserves a partner. A significant portion of people throughout history remained single/mostly single and it was never made to be such a huge issue until now. I think a lot of the problem is people nowadays just assume that they're entitled to having love and affection from someone, as if by virtue of being born there's supposed to be someone for them. Life is not fair, and inc3ls should have learned that long before they even entered puberty. There are far wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:20 AM |
| 2 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.Well if someone is married and their partner has been denying them sex for a long time aren't they effectively an incel? The fact that they're married doesn't change the fact that they're not getting sex, and by virtue of being married they're not supposed to seek sex outside of the relationship....women are particularly ostracized for being the cheater in a marriage. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 06:27 AM |
| 5 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.It's always fun how they take very isolated instances or even a SINGLE instance of a woman doing something and then hyperbolize it as some common phenomenon. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 06:20 AM |
| 11 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.Most men are emotionally unavailable, narcissistic unable to do any sort of emotional/mental work in the relationship, have to be entertained like small children. No woman wants this. Especially not the kind of woman you want to be with long-term. Yes, yes, yes and yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 06:18 AM |
| 18 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.he DHS literally classified incels as a terrorist group https://www.hstoday.us/featured/with-focus-on-domestic-extremism-be-vigilant-for-escalating-incel-threat/ Once the national security state classified lonely females as terrorists, then we'll talk. That's because there aren't any women who are lashing out at society due to their self-professed documented hatred of men by committing mass murders. Once that starts happening then we can talk and agree that misandry is as legitimate of a problem… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 06:13 AM |
| -7 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.Going to speak to the women mastering the are of friendship: I agree the socialization of women encourages express their emotions more, making it easier to create deep friendships. I disagree. The fact that women tend to be better socialized unfortunately often doesn't translate into better friendships. One thing that RP does get right is that women can be much faker and more spiteful with each other than men are with each other. It's sadly far too common for women to shit-talk and back stab eac… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 05:42 AM |
| -8 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.Disagree. When the late 20s+ set in, women rather dramatically divert their attention to settling down, their partners and families and away from friendships. All of a sudden the lion's share of their attention goes to their partner or to finding a partner, and once they're settled down they tend to only associate with women who are on the same trajectory. The single friends get dropped to the wayside and very far down on the list of priorities. A lot of this is obviously due to societal pressur… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 05:42 AM |
| 6 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"You just completely pulled that out of your ass. There's no available statistical data on the percentage of childless women who are regretful, any informal polling I've seen of this demographic widely indicates they are indeed NOT regretful and live fulfilling lives enjoying their freedom without kids. In tandem with that, very few parents indicate that they are regretful either. But that's because acknowledging regret as a parent is EXTREMELY taboo, especially for mothers, and it's easier to ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more women like sports?totally agree. there's arguably nothing more autistic than a full grown man screaming at a TV screen, especially when they're all by themselves. I frequently have lone men temporarily occupying the units next to mine, and the steady screaming on football days is just full-on retahded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more women like sports?I don't see how you can't recognize how reductive and frankly inane your post is. It's like asking why don't more men like gardening or cooking, it's just a dumb question to ask because a) it's stupidly oversimplified and b) if you really wanted a hermeneutic explanation, you could probably find a wealth of research articles that would address this. I don't think anyone in this sub is denying the fact that broadly speaking, there are some general differences between sexes. Such as men being stro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 07:11 AM |
| 4 | 'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...'Just because he's a ginger doesn't mean he's unattractive. He's certainly above average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do women expect men to not be insecure? We are human beings not robots.You obviously have some massive character flaws if those words accurately describe you and you're having trouble getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:10 PM |
| 2 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.I'd argue that most attractive women are to some degree "party girls" in their early- mid 20s, even if only briefly. The exceptions are really only for those of a conservative/religious background, those who married or had kids really early. It's so ubiquitous that you'd almost have to wonder what's "off" with them if they never had an active social life that included some partying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 10:35 AM |
| 9 | Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose OptionsFor the majority of the male population there isn't some kind of obvious demarcation that separates the good and bad into two distinct groups. First of all, the ones who are blatantly bad like that long list of tropes you named i.e killers, criminals, "bad bois", people who immediately register as hotheaded, abusive, sociopathic, narcissistic etc. - are a minority of the population. There's a far, far bigger subset of the male population that has any assortment of undesirable traits that either … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose OptionsFor the majority of the male population there isn't some kind of obvious demarcation that separates the good and bad into two distinct groups. First of all, the ones who are blatantly bad, i.e have a record, are in active addiction, immediately register as hotheaded, abusive, sociopathic, narcissistic etc. - are a minority of the population. There's a far, far bigger subset of the male population that has any assortment of undesirable traits that either seem minor to begin with, or don't present… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:26 AM |
| 40 | Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose OptionsLiterally. Man's just came up with a whole ass story and then presents it as some kind of factual analysis of this stranger's life. What level of delusional do you have to be on to feel the need to do this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose OptionsCongrats, you've reached unhinged levels of delusion and psychosis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:28 AM |
| 11 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?I think a lot of women under 30 nowadays have basically converged in personality and interests because of TikTok and Instagram. I think that probably applies equally to both men and women. Video games don't count as an interest and neither does makeup. I don't really think RP men give a shit about women's interests and personalities though, otherwise they wouldn't endlessly insist on 18-22 y/o's being vastly preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?But he really likes SpongeBob, and wears SpongeBob merch. And has the energy of the show too. Kinda hard to see a woman be aroused by that in her late 20’s Yoooo! You took me out with that one lmfao. It's just so hard to picture a man in his late 20s being obsessed with spongebob to the point of wearing that shit, unless they're like some extreme nerd/weirdo whose social/mental development is stunted. But that doesn't sound like that describes your friend. Have you pointed out to him that it's w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Just because something is odd doesn't mean it makes any sense to be completely oblivious to it. You can take the person I replied to as an example, his post history is full of hateful comments about women. He devotes an inordinate amount of his time to raging about women. Meanwhile he's an admittedly gay man who confesses to sucking married men's dicks behind their wives' backs. Which that in itself is hardly unusual, but most gay men who allow themselves to be used as disposable orifices by str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Out of redpill but still feeling bad about my heightTheses surgeries rarely result in 5+ inches. There's no way to know how much you'll get until after months and months of painful recovery. Even if you did add 5 inches it would likely make your proportions look odd. Long legs with a shorter torso doesn't really look good on a man. Also $120k???? Does it seriously cost that much, because if so that just makes it even more insane. Spending 6 figures for the chance of adding a couple inches is absurd. I could maybe maybe somewhat understand if you … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/23 06:13 AM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Nobody is following your social media you dullard. Reddit isn't a place for you to spam your social media, nobody is here for that. You're literally just parroting the same tired ass RP/incel axioms that every other clown has been repeating ad nauseum since 2010. Nothing groundbreaking or noteworthy whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.I hate to break it to you but you're not going to win any favors from straight men by hating women. They're still not going to want you for anything other than at most, an object with very short term usage. Straight men either ignore you or use you because you're more promiscuous than woman, then immediately discard you. They'll never allow you to be anything more than a secret, they're too embarrassed to acknowledge you. They'll never leave their wives or girlfriends for you. The fact that you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.You need serious psychological intervention. Although it's debatable if psychologists can treat literal brainrot. At this point you should just be institutionalized for the sake of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 11:42 PM |
| 11 | Out of redpill but still feeling bad about my heightThis post is yet more countless evidence of how RP, BP, incel ideologies totally warp the minds of young men and destroy their self-worth. 5'9" isn't even short at all. No one looking at this objectively from the outside would think you're short or that this makes any sense. But RP and the other related garbage ideologies would have you believing that you should consider leg lengthening surgery. Absolutely absurd. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/23 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.What is with this phenomenon of gay men resenting women?? What's the logic of resenting women when you don't even involve yourself with them? I've seen a couple of posts from formerly closeted men who admit to becoming RP and very misogynistic just as means of dealing with their own insecurities about their sexuality. Why do gay men hate women so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Success (and wealth) can actually worsen your dating experience as a manGood practical advice but unfortunately they're very rarely willing to do that lol. They think they should be entitled to "9's" & "10"s and that having money/being fit will be enough to make the most attractive women want them, when that's really not the case in a normal non-transactional relationship. Comfortability and familiarity with women isn't something that can be faked and acquiring muscles/money isn't gonna automatically make them be viewed as worthy partner. Or even someone women want … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Contradictions of body count policingJust look at this channel for example: https://youtube.com/@arakotv This fucking guy started his channel 16 months ago and is at 700k subs with crappy reaction videos. Pulling somewhere around 40 million views per month. $80,000 per month for just feeding the RP ragers. Dude this is insanity. $0 million views per month there are people who've spent a decade building their channel and don't get those numbers, this guy is pulling that with low effort repetitive garbage that just shits on women and… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/23 08:28 AM |
| 5 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Stop repeating your pedo/hebephilia defense. Literally nothing about is rooted in biology or anthropology. Biological evidence indicates that humans did not evolve a strategy of early fertility, and that a sexual focus on pubescents would be maladaptive. There is no empirical basis for the assumption that hebephilia was associated with increased reproductive success and evolutionary adaptedness. Studies show that adults had more children, and thus more adaptive success than hebephiles. And anthr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Some of them remain at the maturity level they were as teenagers, because they never progress socially and emotionally beyond that. So it's not difficult to see this person only being capable of attraction to people who are at the corresponding age of his maturity level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Ooof!👏 This is worthy of a post of it's own, but unfortunately it's very evident where the mods loyalties stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.Then don't complain about being shamed for being an incel/a sexually deprived man because everything you say speaks to you being one. And technically it's your choice if you've slept around a lot so while I don't personally do it I don't see why other people can't Exactly, so men who want casual sex/many sex partners shouldn't be shaming women who do the same. Their ability to have sex predicates upon the willingness of women to have sex with them, so not only is it 100% hypocritical to shame … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Contradictions of body count policingSeriously dude, this guy just completely doesn't get it. He thinks these men who literally behave the SAME way as those genuinely wanting relationships - are walking red flags that are detectable, and women are just blind to them because they're dumb. He thinks it's a question of outsmarting women, when falling victim to keen manipulators has really nothing to do with intelligence. He says he thinks women are as capable as men, when all the stuff he says clearly betrays that. Just wow. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Contradictions of body count policingWouldn't at all disagree with what you're saying I just chose not to focus on that point here because I wanted to directly counter their arguments. The point of this post was addressing their primary points of contention 1. Women should have few or preferably even no partners & 2. Women don't put out easily enough and for most men it's hard to find women willing to have sex. Which those two things happen to be completely contradictory so I framed it in direct response to those supposed "facts." | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Success (and wealth) can actually worsen your dating experience as a manI think the thing is when you're pursuing a normal non-transactional relationship, women don't really care that much about your success and money because it doesn't affect them. Especially in the beginning stages of meeting someone. Sure it's definitely an advantage when compared to someone who is broke and unemployed, but there isn't much of a distinction between you and someone else who is secure financially but makes considerably less money. When you meet women they're likely impressed by you… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Contradictions of body count policingThere aren't very many women who have body counts of in the ballpark of 40. I'd say the average for millenials/gen Z would be somewhere around 10, quite possibly even less. I should clarify that it's not that women don't enjoy sex. They certainly do but for different reasons, a woman's ability to enjoy sex is based on mental/emotional connection. Connection can enhance a man's enjoyment of sex but it's generally not needed for them to achieve orgasm or desire sex. Women are generally deterred fr… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 09:34 AM |
| 5 | Contradictions of body count policingYour response speaks to your complete lack of understanding of this dynamic, which TBF is understandable as a man who has no personal experience with it or even dealing with men on a romantic level in the first place. It's hard to appreciate just how effective men can be at manipulating someone into having sex when you've never been in this position. How are women supposed to distinguish between a man who does everything to indicate they are interested in them, expresses feelings/intentions and … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Contradictions of body count policingFirst of all I don't think it is that the problem of getting laid for men doesn't exist in India. It's true that it's probably less pronounced because the phenomenon of arranged marriage/matchmaking which makes it so that people are able to find someone who is comparable to them in background, education, values and looks. It removes the difficulty of having to find this person on their own and makes it so that even the less appealing people are able to find a match who is approximate to them . A… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 08:14 AM |
| 8 | Contradictions of body count policingOn point. It's interesting how these same exact RP goons say "never let a woman make you wait for sex," how no woman is worth waiting for and yet they want a woman who is chaste and hasn't put out before them. Does that make any sense?? Are they seriously that delusional to think they're so superior to other men that women should only be having sex with them?? Or are they literally trying to target children, cuz none of it makes sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 06:56 AM |
| 5 | Contradictions of body count policingI know for me, it’s a turn off if a woman participates in hook up culture, or has such bad taste in men that her long-term relations end up being short and frequent that they might as well be hook up culture. You're speaking from the perspective of not knowing/understanding that men frequently manipulate and lie to women to get them to have sex with them. They put on a front of courting them, being emotionally invested and wanting to pursue a relationship. Then after having sex after however man… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Contradictions of body count policingPrior to the agricultural revolution paternity of a child was not of concern to men. Both men and women were polygamous/polyamorous, and the children born from these interactions were looked after by all of the group. There was no distinction between what child was born to which man. Men did not begin owning/overseeing women like property until after farming became the norm, when owning land and having your own children to work the fields became a means of acquiring power. Countless studies abou… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Contradictions of body count policingAlso policing in body counts (which is something the RP community actually talks about wanting to do in earnest) would still result in the outcome of women being even more selective of who they have sex with and in turn less opportunities for men to have sex. Women would be far less willing to have sex without any sort of tradeoff if they know they are going to be very heavily stigmatized and ostracized for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 02:43 AM |
| 9 | Contradictions of body count policingThe thing is there aren't these two distinct populations of women like they make it out to be. Most women want relationships, they're not having sex out of a purely physical need but a desire to have a relationship. A lot of women who have higher body counts have just been lied to by a number of men who are willing to manipulate them and put up a front of being interested/invested to get them to have sex. It's not that they were going around and fucking whatever "Chad" was available out of a sol… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Good aspects to the red pill?The idea that anybody needs RP to teach them self-improvement is absolute retardation. Physical exercise has been around since the beginning of time. There's literally millions of videos from experts who can teach you fitness, nutrition, finance, meditation, interpersonal skills, psychology, etc. Not only do they not have anything to do with RP but most of them are far more effective teaching material than any RP content There's also thousands and thousands of self improvement books dating back … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/23 10:19 AM |
| 6 | Worst Redpill creatorTotally agree with everything you said. Pretty much all the RP characters are varying degrees of toxic but Myron is a soulless malignant narcissist who doesn't have even a shred of empathy. He's the type of guy who would betray anyone and leave them to rot if it meant saving his own ass. I think it's very likely he'll end up a sad lonely old man unless he literally buys a wife which seems to be his plan anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/23 09:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightThat's not because of any natural/independent phenomenon. "The world is becoming RP" only because of social media pushing it and indoctrinating people. Society is becoming increasingly less hypergamous, not more. An increasing number of men make equal or even less income than their female partners. How could the world be becoming more RP when the whole core principle it rests on is becoming increasingly less relevant to the real world??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:45 PM |
| 11 | CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill lightOh it's worse than just RP light. This sub has clearly become a refuge for bitter incels now that basically all of their own subs have been eliminated. A lot of them do very little to hide it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:23 PM |
| 6 | Worst Redpill creatorWell Taint is obviously the worst one of all because aside from being a literal human trafficker/slave master, he's the one who's responsible for propelling RP to such massive heights of mainstream popularity that even young school boys are literally worshiping him as a hero. "Myron Gaines" aka Amrou Fudl somehow manages to come off even worse in some regards even if he hasn't technically broken the law. I think his level of malice for women may go even deeper than Taint's, as inconceivable as t… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Worst Redpill creatorIt's telling that just about all the comments on YT I read from guys say they'd love to have her as a sister. Very few indicate they see her "wife material." I don't think you can be anymore of a pick me than she is. She's literally playing for their team and yet it still hasn't seemed to improve her romantic prospects in any way. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingThat's insane. I absolutely would make sure that those shitbags answer for their malfeasance by exposing them in any way possible. People should not be able to get away with this stuff, I truly believe that intentionally inflicted emotional/mental abuse can be way worse than any other. I had a boss who harassed and tormented me for over a year long after I was no longer working with him just because he thought it was fun. Can't do anything about it legally because he was doing it via VOIP number… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingThat's a good clarification yes. A good relationship will involve both working together as a team for each other's mutual benefit. RP and the other related ideologies are all about purely looking out for your own interests and getting what you want. The other person's interests are a mere afterthought, if they're even taken into consideration at all. Of course people are humans and have flaws, make mistakes etc that sometimes need to be corrected but that involves either bringing that to their a… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingAgreed. Back when I was dealing with this stuff, PUA, RP, etc. was still a niche thing and there wasn't nearly as much mainstream awareness of narcissistic abuse, trauma bonding and gaslighting. If there had been I think I would've figured out what was going on much earlier and it could've saved me a lot of torment. So I'm relieved that young women are being taught to recognize these behaviors and that they're seeing mainstream media condemning people like Andrew Taint, Fresh and Fit, Kevin Samu… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingThat's heartbreaking and the worst part about it is these people who are willing to put others through this psychological torment don't really give a shit about the damage they do to them. If anything they get satisfaction from knowing that they fucked someone up. I went through years of narcissistic abuse that destroyed me in the prime of my life. This was before knowledge of this stuff was mainstream so I didn't what was being done to me. Even now years later I have not fully recovered and not… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingOh I completely agree, it's wrong to do any of this stuff irrespective of gender or whether it's intentional or not. Though I think it's more insidious when it's done consciously and purposely. Most people who decide to use these strategies in earnest have to know that it's at least ethically questionable, even though it obviously isn't being marketed to them as abuse | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingYeah that is true. It is very frightening that there are people who are skilled enough manipulators that they can fuck with you psychologically without you being conscious of it. I will say I agree with the other commenter that most who are skilled to that degree of manipulation probably have it embedded in their personality, it's not just something that they picked up from RP alone. Was the guy open about his RP beliefs or did you put two-and-two together from his manipulation tactics? I do thi… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 03:37 PM |
| 16 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingExactly, desirable women can see right through all of these narc games and don't want any part of that shit. Most women nowadays are hyper-aware of these kind of manipulation tactics starting very early in adulthood- b/c not only are they intuitive but they've heard about them, been warned about them and probably already encountered some asshole who tried to use this shit on them. RP can only really be effective for rich men who are trying to attract gold diggers that want their $ bad enough to … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 08:37 AM |
| 9 | Men, you need female role models in your lifeYup. You need to understand and appreciate women on a basic human level first by being capable of being friends with them. A lot of men have no concept of that and and then they wonder why they don't have romantic success | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 01:24 AM |
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