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| 22 | 24f and I want to break up with my bf 25m bc he's redpilledThe absolute last thing you should do is marry a red-pilled man. Please don't do that to yourself. Carry on seeing him if you want, as long as you're focussing on your career and life goals and he makes you happy, but do not marry, buy property with, or have children with, a red piller, for the love of god. The content he consumes is a window into his brain, his heart, his values. He needs to cut it out and get help if he ever wants the relationship to progress with you (or any woman). | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/26 08:58 PM |
| 6 | What should a man have before even trying a dating or relationship?Glad I could be of some help! | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/26 11:06 AM |
| 23 | What should a man have before even trying a dating or relationship?A man does not need to be particularly attractive. Everything you list is acceptable. The main requirements are to have a somewhat frequent hygiene schedule - regularly brushed teeth, somewhat regularly showered, clean clothes. Insecurity and trauma are both acceptable human conditions. Many people with fluctuating mental health are in relationships. The main thing is that serious mental health concerns are being addressed - serious mental health conditions such as psychosis, bipolar and major d… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/26 09:30 AM |
| 12 | Blackpilling experiences: what to do?A picture doesn't show personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/26 02:43 PM |
| 11 | Blackpilling experiences: what to do?Ok man, clearly you would understand better how women think than me, a literal woman... I've sat through many conversations where women talk about how they thought a man was really attractive until they got to know him and realised he was an asshole, and now he's just ugly to them. A pretty face might be enough to get you a date, but you need an actual personality to close the deal. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/26 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Blackpilling experiences: what to do?No, it's because conventionally attractive men are often fuckbois and arrogant assholes who never had to develop a personality. Average looking men with good personalities do very well in the dating pool. Most women are not jaw-dropping themselves. And seriously, I cannot emphasise enough how much women's attraction is based on who the person is, not what the person looks like. I've dated obese men because I was really attracted to them as people. They became sexy to me because of who they are a… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/26 02:18 PM |
| 18 | Blackpilling experiences: what to do?I am a woman. I have dated several men who didn't look like 'chads', just because I liked them as people. People become more attractive when you fall in love with them. My type is feminine looking skinny guys who are kind of androgynous. Just like how not all men are attracted to the same types of women. The idea that there is only one type of attractive person is very flawed, especially when it comes to what women find attractive in men. I am not jaw-droppingly attractive either, very few peopl… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 6 | I might have destroyed my first ever relationship because of my incel thoughtsHi, I am a woman. I just wanted to let you know, 5.5 inches is plenty and I am more than happy with that. Most women are too worried about what they look like naked to worry about what you look like! When I like someone, they look automatically more attractive to me. It's great that you are speaking to a therapist. They might be right about you having body dysmorphia. You were obviously attractive enough for this girl to be interested in you. There will be other girls. Focus on your thoughts and… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/26 09:33 AM |
| 12 | Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman?Good thanks! I never had any problems. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/26 02:06 PM |
| 11 | Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman?All of my 7 boyfriends have been either short, nerdy, non-dominant or a combo of all three. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/26 12:13 PM |
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