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ConversationProgress-Competitive/r/seduction06/03/22 10:03 AM
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-7

Go register as a sex offender you fucking pedo
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:18 AM
-8

Yea that big of an age gap is gross
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:43 AM
2

Well I don’t know… don’t men cheat more? And don’t women have a high rate of divorcing their husbands because the husbands have given up?
/r/seduction07/08/24 04:29 PM
4

Hahaha that’s funny, I’ve heart the opposite. That every happy marriage has the man more in love with the woman
/r/seduction06/08/24 07:57 PM
51

They stop courting her. The dating should never stop.
/r/seduction06/08/24 07:56 PM
16

I mean you’re not going to like this but if you’re only looking for sex, then the “short term relationship” option is going to come off as creepy for people who are not into that, and ideal for people who are. You can’t only want sex and NOT come off as creepy to girls who are reaaallyy into love and relationships.
/r/seduction20/07/24 01:26 PM
5

Yes 🙌
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:24 PM
-20

Yea, I’m so sorry for shaming a creepy old man for hitting on and grooming a young person
/r/seduction21/08/23 02:55 PM
5

Who said a 35 year old woman can’t get pregnant??
/r/seduction21/08/23 02:55 PM
-36

20 year olds still have very under developed brains, it’s like talking to a child. What do you even talk about with a 20 year old??? It’s so weird and gross. Just find a 40 year old woman your own age Jesus
/r/seduction21/08/23 02:13 PM
-23

Why are you hitting on a girl that wasn’t even a fetus while you were graduating highschool???
/r/seduction21/08/23 02:09 PM
1

What the fuck??
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:47 PM
2

This is true, I’d (20F) say I get approached like once every 3 months, maybe? During the day at least. If I go out clubbing or to a bar, then that’s different, but for long term partners, I’d much rather meet them during the day. So, if you see a girl who doesn’t look look too busy (like she isn’t studying/working super hard, or on the phone), and she’s alone (I prefer being approached when I’m alone, but in a public place so I feel safe), then go for it. If she gives any indication at all that …
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:31 AM
1

By shame, I meant, “what a shame” lolll, and what’s the price of precious?
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:11 PM
1

And the Pete Davidson phenomenon is evidence of that hahah… I agree with your description of him, and yet, the majority of girls would jump at him
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:11 AM
1

Nahhh I disagree… maybe, however, this is just me and the people that I choose to surround myself with, because I personally have deleted Instagram, and 2 of my girlfriends have flip phones because they hate social media so much😂 But I also have many friends who aren’t so “extreme” and I’ve had these conversations with big groups of girls at bars and such, and all I’ve heard is that looks are important only in the beginning, then they don’t matter anymore. If a guy has a bad personality from the…
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:09 AM
1

Awwwwww, shame :(
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:19 PM
1

Yea haha, but while some people have a resting bitch face, others have a resting “approach me” face, so sometimes it’s impossible to know unless you go for it
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:14 AM
1

Ooooo that’s different, and that hurts a lot more, if you actually know her :( I hope this hasn’t happened to you often
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:11 AM
2

Yea exactly, even if they’re like my dream guy, they’re still a stranger invading my personal space when I really wanna be alone. In all cases similar to that, I (and I can imagine, others like me) would reject them
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:07 AM
1

Yeaaaa, I wouldn’t blame this on them being women, I would blame this on them being insecure about themselves, and they take it out on you because you’ve put yourself in a vulnerable place by going up to them and hitting on them, which they know is scary and difficult
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:05 AM
2

Fair enough❤️That’s true, we’re all little awkward high school kids deep inside
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:06 AM
1

That’s a really good mindset, also, that’s a bit rude of them.
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:05 AM
2

Ehhhh… I don’t know, it’s not really like that. You can convince yourself that it is, but unless you’re famous or a supermodel, most girls will get hit on just like every once in awhile, more so if you’re out clubbing or something obviously, but it’s not like every girl just has a list of hundreds of guys to choose from whenever they want, and girls most of the time won’t respond to DMs because that’s not how you want to meet people. Although, I can’t speak for all women, this is just my persona…
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:59 AM
2

I’m sorry that you’ve had experiences with people like this, but there are bad people everywhere, and women like that are definitely absolutely not the majority. Also, it’s scary making the first move, and I think for a lot girls, they want to show the guy that they like him, so he makes a move, so they don’t have to. It’s a little cowardly, but it’s not evil.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:55 AM
2

While I am 100% sure that those women exist, from a woman in the dating world, with many female friends, I promise you that this is not the majority. From what I know at least. I don’t think having a negative view of women, created by an unusual and bad experience with a single, or few, women, that creates assumptions for all women, is useful or beneficial for anyone
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:51 AM
2

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:46 AM
2

Okay, if this post doesn’t help you and you have other ways to soften the rejection blow, then that’s awesome! I’m trying to give a female perspective that might help some guys who are new in the brutal dating world maybe to not feel as bad or discouraged. I agree with that more females should approach men, honestly I would more, it’s just really fucking scary😂 knowing that for myself, I have a lot of respect for guys who do it, and do it well
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:43 AM
2

Hahahaha with your encouragement, I will!
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:40 AM
1

So true. This makes a lot of sense
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:40 AM
1

That’s true
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:37 AM
2

🥺 Try not to, although I know that’s harder to do than say, as long as you’re trying to improve yourself, inside and out, then I think you’re a good person, and you shouldn’t feel put down just because someone doesn’t have the capacity for you
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:37 AM
3

I mean yea, the better you look, the better your chances, but… just look at Pete Davidson, at the end of the day, for most women, humour and personality trump looks
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:35 AM
2

I mean, if you fuck up the approach then you kinda should take it personally so you can reflect and learn from it, but as I said, if the encounter was good, and she still rejects you, then there’s little more you can do
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:42 PM
1

Yes, that’s what I’m trying to say. It I met him at a party, for example, which I would only go to if I was in a social mood, open to meeting new people, etc, then I definitely would’ve hooked up with him
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:37 PM
1

Done! Thanks
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:42 PM
6

I agree, the majority of men here really support each other and I love that, I’ve just seen bad bits here and there
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:27 PM
3

Yea and I mean, I know that I have pretty specific tastes, and if I do, then other people also do, so if I’m rejected by someone, that doesn’t need to mean that I’m super flawed, I’m just not what they want, and that’s okay. I’m what someone else wants, I just need to find that person
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:25 PM
5

That’s a good analogy!
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:23 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:23 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:22 PM
1

There are many nice things I can think of that dicks are useful for haha
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:21 PM
4

Woah woah woah Mr Cool Guy
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:18 PM
2

Is this a prostitution offer?😂
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:15 PM
3

Look, I’m sorry that girls in your life have treated you so badly that you now assume all girls are manipulative game players, I’m not going to argue with you, I’m not going to try and prove you wrong, but truly, the way that I, and all the girls I know, treat guys is simple: If I like a guy who is hitting on me (and I’m in the mood for dating), I go for it, if not, then I don’t. I don’t have time or energy for games, or for planning out some kind of dating strategy. Again, I’m sorry for you tha…
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:12 PM
4

Bradley Cooper is too old for me
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:56 PM
3

Awww thanks, that’s kind of you
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:55 PM
3

That makes no sense, I like a guy, so I reject him, so I can find another guy… that I also like?
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:54 PM
3

Hahahaha, I literally use Brad Pitt as an example of an exception in another comment. Is Brad Pitt the pinnacle of male beauty?
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:02 PM
7

You’re right. I probably will never know how rough it is for guys, the only thing I can do is offer my perspective. When I do reject guys, I also try to do it as nicely as possible, but rejection is rejection and I know it’s disappointing either way
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:00 PM
27

That’s good for you, and that’s the mindset that everyone should have, but unfortunately some people don’t. I’ve had some bad experiences with guys who got very angry after I rejected them, and on this subreddit I’ve read guys’ comments who really take it personally and it begins to skew their view on women. Being able to take rejection is a life skill that not everyone learns easily
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:06 PM
18

That’s a good point! I just feel like maybe on this subreddit, there’s a lot of guys who kind of internalise rejections in a way that isn’t beneficial for anyone, so this post is trying to counteract that. But very valid and true point
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:01 PM
2

Well… I mean, if you fuck up in your approach, like you’re way too aggressive, or whatever, then maybe you should take it a little personally, and by that I mean reflect on it, and her reaction/response, in order to see what you can do differently next time. But in the case that everything went seemingly well and she had a good reaction, but still rejected you, and you’re wondering why, then this post could be an explanation why
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:25 PM
4

Thanks! And that’s great! I think this is important to remember, because the dating world is so brutal. I can’t speak for all women, but personally, I would prefer if it was not in the direct earshot of several people. While the interaction is between two strangers, it still is somewhat intimate because of the nature of the conversation. I would still want other people around, just because I don’t know your intentions and there’s safety in being able to call for help, but if I like you, I want o…
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:21 PM
5

Thank you 🙏🏼 mood really determines so much, and it’s impossible to tell from an outsider’s perspective what mood someone has, all you can do is hit, and if you miss, then that’s okay
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:15 PM
3

Exactly, act like you asked some generic question, got your answer, and now you move on
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:12 PM
9

Thanks! I agree, many times I’ve been on this sub and seen conversations about approaching women, or just about women in general, between guys, that have been SO OFF the mark, and wrong, that I felt like I had to say this. For example, I’ve read guys say that women get off on rejecting guys, and just this generally negative view on women, and while I’m sure those types of women exist, it absolutely is not the majority (like I’ve never met a girl like this in my life, and I have had very many fem…
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:02 PM
39

Thanks for your question, I’ll try to answer it as objectively as I can. It really depends on the time and place, and who I’m with. This also depends on the person, I can’t speak for all women. Personally, I prefer being approached when I’m alone, but in a public place with people around. It really just depends on so many different factors, but I’d say that if a woman doesn’t look super busy (like intensely studying, or on the phone), and she’s alone, shoot your shot and just go for it. Swallow …
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:51 PM
5

I agree with the numbers game. There is definitely an element of luck, you just need to find someone who is in a place where they are ready to accept prospective partners.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:47 AM
11

Hahaha, I feel like we’re running in circles. My action was emotional, not logical; emotionally, I felt drained from travelling, and I had been dreaming of sitting somewhere quiet with a cappuccino and read; emotionally, I felt anti-social. I’m not trying to argue with you, I just know how I felt in the moment, and I don’t relate to your assessment. He turned me on, we were laughing a lot, he was charming and I liked him a lot, but I put myself first. You can read my other comments where maybe I…
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:45 AM
19

Exactly!! That too! When making this post I didn’t even consider all those other factors. Sometimes, you just don’t have space in your mind for taking in a new person, no matter who or what they are, or how they present themselves!
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:55 AM
21

You’re right. My desire for socialisation, conversation, and getting to know someone new was missing
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:51 AM
10

I don’t really think that “Prince Charming” exists. Maybe if a naked, young Brad Pit came swinging from the ceiling covered in golden powder, I’d reconsider, but alas, all I wanted to do was sit alone somewhere with a cappuccino and read. I was feeling anti-social, and I just wanted to be alone. It would take A LOT for a guy to change that for me, when I’m in that kind of mindset, and I know that I’m not alone in that, amongst women. Edit: but thanks back, I do feel bad rejecting guys, and I oft…
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:50 AM
10

He was attractive, funny, and kind. Honestly, my type of guy. So no… you’re wrong.
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:31 AM
2

I almost wanna upvote because of how much your comment made me laugh 😂 It’s okay though, I know you’re just projecting how you feel about yourself
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:48 PM
1

Sex is different for women than it is for men
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:42 PM
2

Thanks, this is exactly the right attitude to have and one that will get you women, as long as it’s genuine
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:41 PM
3

Thanks for that. I joined this sub in case someone ever needed help or asked a question that I possibly could’ve answered, but honestly I’ve decided that I’m gonna leave because I’m grossed out by the men here.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:40 PM
0

Hahahahaha. I was gonna say the same to you. Real women are here telling you exactly what you need to hear and you aren’t listening.
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:06 PM
0

If a woman has sex early into the relationship, then she’s a slut. If a woman is cautious about being called/viewed as a slut and waits before having sex then she’s a mind-game playing, manipulative gaslighter. We will never win.
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:05 PM
-2

You’re just proving her right. And she is completely correct. You’re on this subreddit for a reason, how about you actually listen to the feedback real women give you instead of sitting in a corner, sulking and feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:01 PM
3

So true
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:59 PM
-1

That’s not what poly means. Look it up :)
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:11 PM
-4

Ah… now I see why you’re on this subreddit
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:11 PM
1

Freud lol
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:37 PM
3

This is true. I’m not defending her either. Even if you’re not exclusive with someone, you should still be cautious about going around and sleeping with other people if you don’t want to hurt the person you’re dating. Be completely transparent and communicate.
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:34 PM
1

Okay and???? Just because she’s open to polyamorous relationships doesn’t mean you can go around screwing other people without telling her first. You’re just using that as an excuse so you don’t have to feel bad about cheating. If you really cared about her and the relationship that you had with her, then you should have been open and told her first. It’s so simple.
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:31 PM
4

WHAT????? Hahahahhaha so… you cheated on her, while you were on a trip… with her… and then you were surprised when she blocked you?
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:24 PM
-7

It’s not mind games. The body is a sacred and vulnerable place, allowing someone inside is scary and although you trust her, she obviously doesn’t trust you enough to let you into this sacred space. If you care about her, then you’ll wait, if you’re too horny, go to tinder.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:19 PM
-5

Withholding sex doesn’t exist. She is not withholding sex. Why? Because to say that she is withholding something implies an entitlement to the thing you are not receiving. You are not entitled to sex EVER. Not even if you buy her flowers, not even if you buy her dinner, not even if she kisses you, not even if she gets you hard, not even if she says she wants sex and then changes her mind. She owes you 0 (ZERO) sex. Therefore, she is not withholding sex. If you want your dick wet then go on tinde…
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:17 PM
1

Rejection or regret
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:54 AM
4

Yea wtf?
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:54 AM
46

This is like… one of the first posts that I actually liked on this subreddit. I agree with all the points and thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:02 AM
3

Why not? If it comes up naturally in conversation
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:01 AM
2

Yea hahahaha wtf, if she’s uncomfortable then don’t touch her until she touches you
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:25 AM
6

It takes strength to be vulnerable. As long as you don’t turn it into a therapy sesh, I like guys who are in tune with the negative aspects of their personality. It shows a certain level of self reflection, awareness, and even willingness to self improve. But like… really, don’t overdo it. There’s a fine line between a vulnerable, bonding moment and an emotional baggage dump.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:23 AM
2

I feel like the most important DO here is ask questions and listen to her. Especially the listen part. There’s nothing more off putting than realising a guys not even listening to you.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:16 AM
15

Both
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:03 PM
8

RIGHT!?!?! I was talking to my boyfriend about this and he was like “yea this is how guys think.” And now I’m scared that every time I go out from now on I’ll just feel like I have a target on my back.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:00 PM
2

It’s terrible that men don’t have support systems, which is why I think all people, men especially, should go to counselling. Even if you aren’t suicidal or mentally ill, it’s so important to have an emotional outlet, which men generally don’t have. It’s really terrible. It’s also terrible that there are women who break hearts... but I mean, of course there are. There are bad men and women everywhere, but just because there are bad people doesn’t mean that you have to convince yourself that EVER…
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:56 PM
2

It might not be pity? She might actually be a nice girl who just wants to be friends with him or might actually realise that still has feelings? Would that be impossible?
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:47 PM
7

Hahaha who hurt you? This is not every girl. Any guy that thinks like this is absolutely an idiot. Some girls dig for attention yes, but the majority of girls (and people in general) just want deep and honest connections. Who wouldn’t??
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:05 PM
1

That’s a bit judgemental, no? He has every right to be confused about her hot and cold behaviour.
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:53 PM
3

Yes. Point on
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:44 AM
23

Exactly. Creepy ass
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:40 AM
2

You’re so creepy. Maybe all the girls you talked to felt the creep vibes and that’s why you can’t “get girls.”
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:34 AM
1

Hahaha I like the sandwich story. I tried to post on r/askmen but they have this rule where you need a certain number of karma to post and I’m new to Reddit :(
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:50 PM
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