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Progress_Set/r/askMRP19/08/17 08:26 AM
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Progress_Set/r/askMRP01/11/17 03:54 PM
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These posts are needed. Its easy to get lost when searching for answers because most men come from one place of betadom, but the simple answer for them doesnt apply to other types (career rambos, omegas). Its when child autists like me start playing with dynomite and think the tl;dr is good enough. There are no shortcuts to MRP and only after internalization can you customize a proper MAP. You also have to kill the ego to make it work right. Thats the fourth pillar of MRP. (Alpha, Beta, Frame/Vi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 12:52 AM
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You never find RP soon enough.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 01:39 AM
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I'm confused. Pressure flip?
/r/askMRP14/11/17 09:35 PM
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Stop blaming your LTR for your lack of time management skills. Want to do something, make time for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 08:01 PM
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Fifth OYS Week 34 RP Stats Height: 6' 4" Weight: 180 lbs BMI: 24 Age: 26, wife 23 Income: 50+k, Wife 25+k & in Grad school Reading NMMNG 100% WISNIFG 100% MMSLP 50% Rational Male 100% Way of Men 100% Goals Lifting: Missed one day last week because I decided to go play board games with the wife and a few mutual friends. This makes twice in a row I've missed a Friday, and I'm thinking about adjusting my routine if it happens again. I prioritize social activities over lifting on Fridays, so Saturda…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 07:39 PM
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Jordan Peterson talks about this a bit. Basically you don't feel happyness by achiving a goal, you feel it by doing something meaningfull. When you achive your goal, you stop doing anything meaningful, and you're left without a purpose. Stop thinking that achiving goals makes you happy. If you're an explorer, your not happy in a city, even if its one you just discovered.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 06:09 PM
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Bro, don't do what I did. Not fun. You're the one with issues asking for help, not him.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 05:33 PM
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somebody read the whole thing. You learn more that way
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:53 PM
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You wore womens clothes? Are traps gay?
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:41 PM
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You should start by getting out of her frame. I'm still new here, but I can tell your in it. I need to learn to modify the code of the matrix covertly as not to alert Agent Smith. My wife found MRP the very same day I did and she's brought it up constantly ever since. IT'S STILL WORKING. Stop worring if she's gonna get mad at you, stop tip toeing around her. DO YOU. It sounds like your crossing off the list of common MRP to-do'ers. It doesn't sound like you have your own vision yet. Your MAP sho…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:19 PM
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You came here to argue. It doesn't take much vision to see that bucko
/r/RPChristians10/11/17 03:31 PM
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I would tend to agree with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/17 03:24 PM
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Alpha is an individual with high social standing. A pastor in a church, or the high school quarterback. It also implies competency. Theres kind quarterbacks, and jerk quarterbacks. Most quarterbacks are alpha, few are sociopaths.
/r/RPChristians10/11/17 02:05 PM
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Why did you ask a question you already made up your mind about?
/r/RPChristians10/11/17 02:02 PM
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Ive always had a problem with 'I will' statements because I never follow thru. So I'm going to start using them and I'm also going to make sure I live up to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 02:59 AM
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Fourth OYS Week 33 RP Stats Height: 6' 4" Weight: 180 lbs BMI: 24 Age: 26, wife 23 Income: 50+k, Wife 25+k & in Grad school Reading NMMNG 100% WISNIFG 100% MMSLP 45% Rational Male 100% Way of Men 100% Goals Lifting: I've been sore most of the past week, so thats good. I did miss a day of lifting because my rotator cuff, instead went for a hike. Back in the gym this week and upped my weights. I plan to try for a max this Friday. Reading: Not much progress. I've been going over that complete train…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 07:07 PM
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Ya, your right. I didn't want to hear it, but I needed it. Next weeks OYS will not be fun.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 03:45 PM
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Ya I'm burnt to a crisp. Needed it, but damn. I did a bit of recon before, not in a month or so. Like I said earlier somewhere, female friends and a fat fuck orbiter 500 miles away.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 11:13 PM
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Alpha_As_Wolf made progress before the rage quit. Can you do the same? Time will tell. I've learned to let tomorrow take care of itself.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 06:28 PM
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Cool beans lol
/r/askMRP01/11/17 06:24 PM
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After reading all the responses, I think you hit the nail on the head. Insead of trying to 'draw a boundry' like an autistic fuck I should have moved it along playfully. I'm going to have to re-read IFGWISN because I'm lacking in those skills.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 06:17 PM
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Then why did you bother with a reply back? Maybe we can read it together over some hot coco! ;)
/r/askMRP01/11/17 06:00 PM
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Whatever man. I can't take you seriously when you're more angry about it than my wife. Your blood pressure prescription needs a refil.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:52 PM
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I'm not nearly as buthurt as you make me out to be. I'm trying to pull out of her frame and she reacted badly. I failed at handling the fallout, I admit, but I chose this hill to die on. And not out of buthurt. Thanks for trying to help, but this didn't add a bunch of value.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:32 PM
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What makes you think I'm holding muli-day grudges?
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:10 PM
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Thanks bro.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 04:46 PM
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She came home around 11. This would have been much bigger if she didn't come home. I went back into the house prepared to draw a red line on that one TBH.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 04:31 PM
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I didn't feel like I was being moody. I was disapointed because I had wanted a movie night but felt like it turned into a shit test. I wanted it to move on but she withdrew and became pouty, thats the reason this dragged out as long as it did. Ready BBP's comment, I think I blew my shot to wrap it up becuase I missed the 'apology.' Thats on me though. I probably did blow some bigger ammo on that then I had to. If I was smart I would have said what you suggested. Thanks for that.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 04:29 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I didn't realize that the offer to help was in the same vien as an apology. I did get a vibe that she got upset all over again, so now I can see why. Do you think that your point about questions holds true when she's asking for an explination of my behavior? I said all that because she asked why I did something and then started qualifying everything/framing the situation. I didn't want to answer and adopt her frame by doing so.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 04:27 PM
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This was properly formatted in the origional FR. Let me fix it.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 04:13 PM
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Sexy time comes before punchy time. Dont you watch boxing?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 01:33 PM
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Third OYS Week 32 RP Stats Height: 6' 4" Weight: 180 lbs BMI: 24 Age: 26, wife 23 Income: 50+k, Wife 25+k & in Grad school Reading NMMNG 100% IFGWISN 100% MMSLP 35% Rational Male 100% Way of Men 100% Goals Lifting: I've been to the gym three times since last OYS, so I'm keeping up with my goal. It feels good to be sore again. My shoulder is starting to hurt again, so I didn't push as hard as I wanted to yesterday. I'm adding a focused workout plan to my medium term goals. I will max out when I g…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:02 AM
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I find it telling how you went strait to, "What should I read next" instead of "what should I do next." Bucko, you can have all the knowledge in the world and it dont mean shit if it just sits in that small brain of yours gathering dust. My suggestion, dont read anything else until you've intergrated what you've already learned into your actions. This means you 'act out these principles' before you've had a chance to think about what you want to do. Knowing is shit, action is paramount.
/r/askMRP31/10/17 05:56 PM
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If my wife is naked and Im horny I fuck her. What kind of faggot jacks off in front of his wife?
/r/askMRP28/10/17 12:22 AM
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I bet she fucked Chad for her birthday instead.
/r/askMRP27/10/17 06:35 PM
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Fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 04:39 PM
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But did Jack learn his lesson? If not he's in for round two.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 04:38 PM
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9 days in, but six posts already? GTFO and --------------> Sidebar
/r/askMRP26/10/17 12:40 PM
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Cool. Im glad y'all are reading it. So you and the other guys around here also realize I didnt decide to start lifting after 31 weeks of reading. I quit for two months because of a move and because I was, unknowingly, in my wife's frame. I still have a lot of work to do yet. I remember you from my origional dumpster fire back in the spring (different account). I appreciated your words and honesty then, and I want to make it clear I've been putting in work. If I recall correcly your the mod that …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 08:05 PM
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I don't mind the hazing, I get the need for it. Its helped me cause where there's butthurt there's beta. But if you're going to haze, at least look like you put in the effort to read the post.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 07:01 PM
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Would you like a cookie?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 03:21 PM
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See you in a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 02:31 PM
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The fact you think I havent picked up anything heavy yet means neither of you bothered to read the fucking post.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 12:14 PM
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Wait, so doesnt that mean im at negative weeks? Two days lifting doesnt count as consistant now does it?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 12:28 AM
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** Second OYS** ** 31st Week MRP** Lifting Last week I posted that I know I need to go to the gym but wasnt doing it. Fellas, this was a bombshell. After reading the resposes and thinking about it, I realized this was because I was still living in my wife's frame. I had been lifting regularly back in the spring when I started my journey, but quit when I moved out of my apartment and lost access to the onsite gym. My wife at some point suggested I work out at her school. I was living in her frame…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 07:35 PM
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The problem is I don't want it bad enough. If I wanted it, I would do it. I'm not doing it so I must not want it bad enough. Thats what I need to change. I need to want it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 12:36 AM
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First OYS ever. Weights: A fucking joke. I dont lift. I dont want it badly enough I guess. 6' 4" at 180 is thin, but I get a belly if I dont watch it. One day Im gonna learn that I need to lift the hard way. I excersise, but I dont lift. Everytime I get started I burn out. I dont want it badly enough. I need to lift. Chores: I've gotten consistant at doing what I need to do around the house. No longer do problems come about cause I was a lazy fuck. I need to focus on tackeling bigger project suc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 07:48 PM
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Ah, thanks for digging it up
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 11:26 PM
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Hes a 3 month old account, this sub is far older than that. See what the elders around here have to say about it, not me or him.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 10:50 PM
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Do you want her beside you as you chase your dreams, then marry her. If you arent 100% sure you want marriage, dont do it. You'd be playing with two people's life cause you dont know what you want.
/r/askMRP07/10/17 10:22 PM
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For me at least, Rambo was a phase. I think unavoidable for most men like you say. I went rambo when, I knew I neeed to change, had a rough outline down in my mind, and was in the anger phase of unplugging. At this point I was trying to do everything at once, and trying to get to where I wanted as quickly as possible. Add a bit of resentment and its a bad spot to be for both man and woman. I think I snapped out of it when I realized, its a marathon not a sprint, and I wasnt making things go any …
/r/askMRP14/09/17 07:48 PM
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You are putting way to much on her plate without offering solutions. You are also completely in her frame. Next time you fuck up like this, and it will happen again, save yourself with OYS and frame. For example, you've just told her you need to be home and she's calling you a dick, now is when you say something like, "Heres the timetable of what to do and when so we both get what we want (OYS)." Do it in a way thay doesnt get you butthurt and just focus on guiding her to do what needs to be don…
/r/askMRP01/09/17 05:25 PM
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She left you because she knows she can do much better. The dude thats shes begging to fuck her bareback wouldnt make such a pussy ass post. Grow up and sort yourself out.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 04:20 PM
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Articulation turns covert contracts into boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 07:09 PM
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Dude, Ive been resetful and angry towards my woman for 3 months. Damn near drove her away. Im not going to moralize it, but if you want her around kill that resentment and butthurt. Its not about your fucking feelings, those belong to your wife, stop stealing them. Be the type of man that saves your marriage or get a divorce, but KILL THE BUTTHURT.
/r/askMRP27/08/17 05:16 AM
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If you are mad your wife cheated, get over it or ghost her. The only reason you should cheat is if you dont get the quality/quantity sex you want. Dont cheat to 'get back at her' or to 'even the score.' Thats weak. Read the sidebar again. Also, she fucked him and she's probably fucked other dudes too.
/r/askMRP24/08/17 10:01 PM
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I'll check out that book, thanks for the recomendation. Im not going to go point by point, not worth your time, but it gives me some things to think about. Thanks boss.
/r/askMRP20/08/17 11:33 PM
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Maybe. Save the man not the marriage.
/r/askMRP19/08/17 02:30 PM
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This was easily the most valuable comment. Im obviously still butthurt about her attitude. Thanks for the clarity brother.
/r/askMRP19/08/17 02:29 PM
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Im confused here because I cant tell is if she is going to follow or not. I moved across the country to be with her as she goes to school (pre MRP) Im totally ok with adjusting the MAP to include her wants/desires as long as I get meaning and success for myself now that I've already committed. Abundance mentality tells me that we can both win and adjusting for her is a nice challenge Ive started to enjoy. I need to delve out if she will follow or not so I can decide if I will divorce or not and …
/r/askMRP19/08/17 02:27 PM
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How would you delve out the line between hitting thats overlookable and not. I can take punch she gives but if she decides to go for effectiveness, we do have guns in the house.
/r/askMRP19/08/17 02:14 PM
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Have you ever talked overtly about your expectations for self restraint and discipline or has it been her just following your lead? My wife is very stubborn and will do the opposite if commanded (rambo style). Im not so worried about her laying hands if its a phase, but Im worried about her restment and having guns in the house.
/r/askMRP19/08/17 02:11 PM
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Lol
/r/askMRP19/08/17 02:03 PM
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Unless you want to be with your wife, I think its a great tool to maintain frame. You act as if this post is 'correct' until you decide to put on absolute OI and reavaluate your commitment. Never reavaluating is beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 04:42 AM
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Theres a lot I cant comment on, but its best to find someone on the old fashion end of the spectrum and definately no feminists.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 05:52 AM
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Im not saying dont draw lines, Im saying dont leave such an easy negative image for her to remember. Unless your on the way out, then I get it.
/r/askMRP01/07/17 01:59 AM
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Why laugh in her face. This isnt a competition where the one who wins is the one who inflicts the most emotional damage. You dont have to agree, just STFU.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 10:57 PM
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Im fairly new here, but it seems counter productive to cancel because she is late, and then not give her the reason. It sounds like your just butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 08:04 PM
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Have you tried telling her not to be late. From your post it sounds like a covert contract. Be on time and we'll go on vacation together. Since she didnt get home on time, now she cant go as a punishment? Try being upfront with her and tell her what you expect of her. P.s. dont 'activate' the vacation. You've sown that crop, now reap it. P.p.s. r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 08:01 PM
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For the love of God learn to edit your post instead of commenting to it. My 6 year old has better internet skills than you.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:26 PM
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Listen to Jordan Peterson. Is Jordan Peterson a spokesman or authority for RP theory? I didn't think so. And she can have sex with you if she wanted to because she doesn't have to, it's the same with you. If she wants to have sex and you don't want to, but she is FORCING you to have sex when you ABSOLUTELY don't want to: that's rape. And vice versa. So it is not only the women's job as a gatekeeper of sex, because you bear half the responsibility. You don't seem to understand. We're discussing g…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:11 PM
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