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I just went and looked and saw it’s removed and I’m so sad I didn’t get to read that hilarity 🤣
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:21 AM
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While I don’t disagree, this advice goes against the holy grail reading of “She Comes First” which I think should be required reading for almost any guy posting in this sub 😂
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:18 AM
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Nothing beats reading a wall of text with so much detail and emotion to get to the replies and get this ^ as the response. I’m dead. 🤣
/r/seduction28/07/22 09:43 PM
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I commented some strategy I’ve used. but I would tend to agree with you. They are there usually with a big group of friends and all about the good vibes. The only type of festival where I think this could be different is a country music festival. If you can country two-step, it’s pretty easy
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:00 AM
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Just came from a music festival. Easiest thing to do is have a conversation starter. I had refractor glasses that are all trippy when you put them on. I’d be near a girl, make eye contact while dancing and say “want to see something cool?” Then hand her the glasses to try on. Worked really well. I called them “the friend maker” cause it’s easy to make friends with them as a prop. Another method is have something like a sticker to hand out as a gift. There are these “You are Beautiful” stickers y…
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:58 AM
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A lot of this is actually childhood trauma that women (and men) play out as adults. If their parents treated them like shit, they will seek out partners that repeat that pattern for them. Once you understand human psychology, you can understand the behaviours of people you interact with is largely traced back to their upbringing
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:34 PM
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Good advice in that first sentence, haha. Yep, pretty easy opener. Only thing that could be tricky is how loud it can be.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:02 AM
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Read "Models" by Mark Manson. As someone who got back into things a few months ago, that book and this sub has been pretty helpful.
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:46 PM
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Solid advice. So many people live life based on programming from other people and don't actually take the time to figure out what they want. Speaking from experience.
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:27 PM
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Totally. It was healing for me but I did find it odd how many ppl had done dozens and dozens of ceremonies
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:28 PM
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I ask because I got back from an ayahuasca retreat two weeks ago. Very transformational experience
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:04 PM
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Going to clubs only to pick up women, yeah I would agree. Going to clubs/bars/venues because you want to be there outside of the women (friend's birthday party, a concert, dj, celebration with friends, etc) then you'll be able to enjoy the evening and the "night game" will just be an organic branch-off from the authentic reason you went to the venue to begin with. Edit: Typo
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:42 PM
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Your username...Are you actually a shaman? lol
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:38 PM
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No response if you’re trying to “seduce her.” Unless you’re exclusive, then I think you should hype the hell outta your girl with a nice comment.
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:04 AM
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A very powerful plant medicine, haha. But a lot of personal work before that. Been working with a coach since June and it all came together in my mind like a big puzzle that I could conceptualize how all the pieces fit together. They call it “10 years of therapy” in a night for this reason. I don’t believe it’s that simple, it’s not a magic bullet but I now have the awareness of myself and what I need to do moving forward to be a better person and have better relationships.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:07 AM
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Great post. I just completed a 3-night ayahuasca retreat and all of your practical takeaways were the things that I was able to do throughout the weekend. Realized that I was finding validation in women's perception of me and my level of worthiness was tied to that. Ties back to how I was raised and the relationship growing up with my mom. The pre-retreat diet and the therapy, journalling, the inner-child work and forgiving myself and processing pain and grief that I had suppressed were all extr…
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:08 AM
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This realization has come from experience so you may or may not feel this way but I can confidently say now that sex without a connection is really just a waste of time and energy. Once you have the awareness and control to not try to have sex with any woman that gives you attention is when you tap into another level of living. For a long time I’d find my level of self-worth tied to women and their level of affection to me. Once you become grounded in yourself, women that you don’t find interest…
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:57 AM
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I posted on here about my experience with a girl like this. Go check it out if you want but yeah… these girls just get so much attention they don’t have to develop much of a personality to have plenty of dudes worshipping their feet.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:51 AM
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Why the hostility? I thought the 6 steps were laid out well, and the 3 phases of mastering honest signals was helpful.
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:33 AM
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One of the best value-giving/self-promotion posts I’ve read on here. Kudos, OP
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:07 PM
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I’ve said this on other posts, but a majority of guys that I see in this sub that are lacking the “inner game” would benefit from therapy. Childhood trauma manifests in ways we will most likely never understand without an unbiased, professional, outside perspective. Happy that therapy helped you, the negative stigma around it is keeping a lot of men lonely, depressed and lacking.
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:33 PM
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Self-loathing will get you nowhere. Read the wiki, read this sub regularly, ask questions and improve. I’d imagine 90% of guys or more on here have had nights like this so just take it as a lesson and use it to be better next time.
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:02 AM
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This advice should be in the Wiki, great advice
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:52 AM
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This is the way
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:22 AM
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Considering it's the third date? Yeah. If you don't kiss her or make a move she's going to wonder what's wrong with her or you and that won't be good for anyone's self-confidence haha. Read the WIKI for good insight on body language.
/r/seduction21/01/22 12:02 AM
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In private it should be easier. Get her to help around the kitchen or something and you’ll “bump into each other” enough that you should be able to get a moment when the energy feels right.
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:35 PM
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Break the physical barrier early. If you sit down for the movie and you haven’t gotten the tension going yet, you’ll make it awkward unless she cuddles right up to you. Get some kissing in the kitchen before you even eat, and the rest will be much easier.
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:20 PM
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Thankfully it’s pretty much all inbound but yeah that’s why I’ve been looking to do more of central and South America for now. Looking at Medellin for the month of March!
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:29 PM
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I’m doing sales calls so majority of clients are PST to EST. It’d be doable, it’d just be working evenings late instead of the 10-5 I’m usually working now. I’ve never done a shift in time zones like that so I guess I don’t know how my performance would be affected
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:55 PM
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Quoting Andrew Henderson from Nomad Capitalist, I love it. Would love to get over to Eastern Europe, my job is remote but North American time. Hope to switch that up!
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:48 AM
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You’ll hear the same thing that you’ve probably read elsewhere on this sub about going to the gym, reading, joining groups you’re interested in, etc. This is clearly an inner game challenge. I’d get a coach or therapist. Hire someone that you would want to be like. From where you’re starting, you’ll see leaps and bounds of personal growth. I think you should focus on making new buddies and finding camaraderie with other guys. The loneliness piece of this will become less intense when you have go…
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:31 AM
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If you can afford it, see a professional and get some counselling. Or hire a life coach. A lot of times these symptoms are manifested from the environment we are raised in. Speaking from experience.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:06 AM
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Really good advice. Guys typically suck at sitting with their feelings and processing
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:00 AM
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This is facts. Most men fantasize about unlimited sex, money and travel and find out that it’s all very unfulfilling in isolation.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:51 AM
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Thanks bro, yeah will send you a message. Appreciate the replies. Super helpful
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:03 AM
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Your username gave me a laugh. And yep, I agree. But it's a lesson learned and I've gotten a lot of valuable insight from the experience.
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:01 PM
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You don't sound like you like this girl. Yet you are going on multiple dates, choosing dates that aren't exactly conducive to creating a casual/sexy vibe, and not making moves. Then later you claim you want something more serious. Why? Also, I'm not just thinking about reciprocation, especially when it comes to hotter women who aren't as reactive at the start. This is where self-belief and not being needy for those super overt signals you might get with other women comes in. These are skills tha…
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:00 PM
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But I am a little more enlightened than I was yesterday
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:21 PM
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Makes total sense. Needed to find out for myself though to believe it 😂
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:20 PM
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Appreciate that, man. I see how my post could’ve come across as arrogant perhaps but sometimes it’s tough to dissect tone over a Reddit post. Will bring more stories to the table. This sub is valuable and needs more quality posts.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:00 PM
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Oops, totally did not mean to reply to this comment. Using Reddit on my phone. After some reflection, I think she likely picked up that I wasn’t finding her super interesting and is using the “wandering eyes” as her way to put the blame on me. Maybe a mistake on my part but when I would give her space to tell me something about herself or ask a question in return, I would briefly people watch around me instead of staring incessantly at her while I would wait for her to stir the conversation. Her…
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:00 PM
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Appreciate that, was just trying to be honest how it went from my perspective. Got some feedback that’ll make me a better individual 👍🏼
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah I gave her 2 more opportunities after coffee to draw the conclusion that she was boring. Is that a mistake? Perhaps after the dinner I should’ve pulled back, but as I said in another comment, I was curious as to how this would go as I’ve never really dated a woman like this before and I wanted the lessons out of it if anything.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:33 PM
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Hey man, I really appreciate this reply. Will be saving it. I made this post to get feedback from the community and learn how to be a better individual and hopefully someone else can take a lesson from it as well. I’ll try to reply more fully later 👍🏼
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:26 PM
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I agree with your first paragraph. To your Second paragraph, I was curious how this would go. First time dating a woman like this for me so yes, I spent more time with her than I maybe should’ve because I wanted to learn. Most of my dating has been with me holding the frame, so this was a new experience for me. Reading the comments I for sure made some mistakes looking back, but if I hadn’t spent the time I wouldn’t have the lessons to take away.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:18 PM
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Maybe it’s just where I live but horse girls are true to the stereotype and usually super high maintenance, which she is/was.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:12 PM
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Mobile Reddit is the worst, I thought the post was long enough without dragging it out about how the conversation was rough and could summarize it, and I’m 30 next month. Disagree on the portraying “behaviours.” She doesn’t own me, and there was no disrespectful behaviour conducted. Some of the other comments about her picking up that I wasn’t finding her interesting are more accurate.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:08 PM
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Great comment
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:57 PM
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Good insight. How would you suggest I handle the phone call/shit test tomorrow? (Assuming I want to see her again)
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:47 AM
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Totally agree. A less mature version of me would’ve tried to impress her so hard and taken it as hit to the ego after her voice memo. Now, my whole mentality was “why would I even go out with you” and yeah she’d be fun for a night or two but ultimately there’s no substance long term. My message to this sub would be to shift the thought process around these type of women.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:40 AM
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How nobody else has said this is beyond me. Hahahaha the OP responses with the emojis for me dead 😂
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:13 AM
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The big takeaway here: Be honest. The majority of guys I see comment in this sub would benefit from therapy, it’s not just for couples or people who are depressed. There’s also a lot of low self-esteem and self-worth I see, which contributes to codependent behaviour. I say this because I’ve been there. A great way to attract women is to be 100% confident in what you can’t control about yourself, and committed to improving the things you can.
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:31 AM
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Last sentence is the best one
/r/seduction15/11/21 03:00 AM
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