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This isn't just rap. Google the term groupie. They're probably having a blast in the back. Doin some drugs, smokin weed, fuckin. Is someone a bad person for having kids with multiple people? Is everyone who does drugs a bad person? Where does the quality of someone's character come from? Could the asshole really be the "nice guy" creating an internet post judging strangers, who didn't even notice him? Rappers are fascinating people. Can you imagine the stories they have? Everyone here should try…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:22 PM
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The less time evaluating strangers you've never met, the better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:07 PM
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On dating apps, yes. One of the most important aspects of life is finding your significant other. We've simplified that down to an app. Like ordering a table on Amazon. It's not a perfect system. There's posts here every day about how lopsided the gender ratio is on apps. That's because the women on there aren't reflective of the women who don't want to use dating apps. There's an unlimited amount of dudes on there for women, so why shouldn't they search for the perfect match while they're on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:48 PM
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Kinda tip toeing around my question my guy. We agreed Leo gives status. Are you guys funny? Are you so confident in yourself that you pass that onto someone else and improve their confidence? Do you have hobbies and passions? Do you have the same passions as a 19 year old?? Orrr do y’all just want relationships with kids? Cmon. If you’re this passionate about this topic you think you’d have some reasons why…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:58 PM
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I’m asking what y’all on here have to offer young beautiful women. I’ll wait for your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:22 PM
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Why is this the subject of the month?? Are you asking if the parents perspective might change if they find out that the 40 year old who's fucking their teenage daughter "looks young"? As if their thought process was "It's creepy this 40 year old, this adult is choosing our 19 year old but oh wait, he's got a 6 pack, say less fam, do you want to fuck my wife too Chad Gigacock?? No, any good parent would see the red flags. If you find yourself constantly defending this idea, that alone should show…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:11 PM
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Yes. He has something to offer them. So what does anyone who frequents this subreddit have to offer younger beautiful women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:05 PM
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It's clearly in a grey area if there's a post every day about the same thing. If it was perfectly moral why does everyone get this defensive about it? Just do it if it's ok. There's a running joke about Leonardo DiCaprio dating women younger than 24. That dude isn't freaking out defending it every day on these bizarre subreddits. It raises red flags when people post these unprovoked. It kinda sounds like ya'll wanna hop off of these threads, leave the basement and find someone who had homeroom l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:47 PM
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Well one demographic is being murdered by police unfairly and wildly disproportionally for generations and the other wants to fuck someone who was in high school last year. I've asked before-why are they going after kids?? What do they have in common?? Have you talked to a 20 year old lately??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:35 PM
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For starters, most of the dudes getting all worked up defending the age gap aren't going to get that opportunity so why get so defensive about something you'll never even do? I think it'd be a lot better if they just said "I'm going for someone younger than me because they're attractive and won't see my red flags. Having things in common or being at the same place in our lives don't matter because I only care about this person's looks and inexperience, mainly because I'm not confident in my own"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:28 PM
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The biggest irony is all the dudes fussing about high N counts realistically don't ever have to worry about that since they aren't going to get the opportunity with those women or any of the others. So to your analogy, it's like worrying about smoking and being very opinionated about smoking...but you're never going to smoke, so why fuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:34 PM
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Life is about experiences, not reading about them. They can prepare you for what might happen but everyone is different. Someone with a double digit N count can be a great wife. Someone with 0 might want to learn what else is out there and start cheating. You never know. That's why we're alive, it's a game, go experience it instead of reading everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:59 PM
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This subreddit is not the most accurate place to be getting your sexual knowledge from. Studies, especially for things like these are far from accurate. How many people are honest with their answers? How many of them are even being honest with themselves? Who's been polled? I haven't, have you? This page is just an echo chamber of most dudes who haven't actually experienced most of the things they're so confident about knowing. Arguing with women who are giving first hand advice, directly from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:49 PM
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A LTR can end because the other person cheated, someone had to move for work or any other reason. Trying both is a great way to experience life. I agree that if someone is hopping from LTR to LTR that's a red flag. But even that requires context of why are they hopping from LTR to LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:43 PM
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Curious why it's only a little wrong in a committed relationship. What's still wrong there? What's wrong with sleeping with a rando on a whim? Two consenting adults having an enjoyable night together seems alright lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:26 PM
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Not the worst counter argument, but a lot of people who have casual sex have also been in at least one LTR. One thing I don't understand on here, everyone says how unbearable it is to imagine their person having casual sex from their past but they don't think that women in relationships haven't done more sexual things with established partners? Women in LTR's probably have wayyy more sex than single women. They've done more next level sexual things to keep their sex life in their relationship fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:02 PM
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...what's the discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:15 PM
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The more sex you have the more likely you are to figure out what you like and what you don't like. Variety is the spice of life and there's a lot out there so explore it if you can. Don't most companies want someone with experience? If you're more experienced you can also help your partner who doesn't have as much experience. The "consequences" are getting to know what you like/dislike and having a lot of fun memories and experiences lol. Opposed to the goofballs on here who have no experiences …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:21 AM
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Hmm, that seems to be the way YOU think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:34 PM
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This couldn’t be more wrong. How is it a competition? How do you win?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:37 PM
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Yeah the experience part is what most of the dudes on here have a hard time with. They view that as a negative thing. When in reality, you should want someone who's experienced those things. To figure themselves out. Find out what they do and don't like through the up's and down's. No one is guaranteed not to cheat, but if you find the right person for you, who you vibe and match with, who considers how you feel and is always willing to push and apply themselves, yeah that sounds like a good per…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:36 PM
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What is this? The first person doesn't love you, but like a robot once legal paper is signed they act like they do? And then the one who seems like they would love you since they know the shitty people who are out there, might be the one who cheats? "They're ready for marriage means they've gotten their experiences they needed and want one person, that's the biggest point of marriage. None of this makes any sense. ​ Buy a realistic sex doll if you want the first one, or partake in a real relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:27 PM
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Yes, it's capitalism dating. You know the ratio is off balance, so invest in yourself if you want success. When a business hires someone they want the most qualified and appealing candidate. The same is for a relationship. No one is entitled to anything. This isn't communist dating. The women are going to choose who they want to choose, there is no right choice, we're all at different places in our lives and looking for different things. You can make yourself a more appealing choice or keep cryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:44 PM
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Everything with you guys has to be extreme equals lol. Do the characteristics I listed of small dick energy sound fun to be around? Go ahead and start using those terms, no one's gonna stop you lol. I'm sure most crabby bitchy women have nasty cooches that smell like sour kraut. The irony is that they're also probably the tight ones since they're not getting any. Maybe the small dicked crabby men should get with the unsightly women with bad pussies. Their untouched tight vaginas will match with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:35 PM
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Why could this be?? After reading the insight and analysis that the dudes on this sub about women regarding I can't imagine why they'd rather stay single than be paired off with gentlemen like these.../s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:31 PM
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Big dick energy is someone do doesn't care. You see rappers or basketball players wearing the most outrageous or ridiculous things and they don't care, they're confident about it. They're overly comfortable being themselves. ​ Small dick energy is the opposite. Constantly angry, complaining, blaming other people for problems. Compensating for it by buying massive Jeeps with oversized tires or wildly expensive cars. Self centered. ​ Not only would they want the bigger dick, but the first person s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:20 AM
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Yes, no many under 5'9 has ever gotten laid or had a woman interested in them. It's deffffinitely the height turning women away and not that award winning personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:58 AM
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They're all probably enjoying their life. Not even aware how lucky they are that their time talking to you ended. You seem like a terrible, self centered person to be around. Judging the 6 or so matches you've acquired over the years. What even is this post? Do you think life is going to get easier for you? That slightly muscled body is going to turn into flab, the jadedness that leads to judging strangers and posting a bizarre post flexing how you talked with the opposite sex is only going to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:56 AM
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Oh boy, nope. Everyone is different. Porn is very exaggerated like theatre. Mayyybe some amateur porn videos and how to's could help get you started but don't use porn as a template of what you think you should be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:18 AM
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The same sub that is worried about a woman getting pregnant while both people are using birth control AND they're pulling out (not going to happen) says most cheating and abuse are overexaggerated. I guess this is what we get for trying to talk some sense into basement dwellers that don't actually interact with people-especially women, they just read random internet articles and circle-jerk their out of touch with reality opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:14 PM
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What do you think the odds are that they're BOTH using protection AND he doesn't even finish inside of her and they get pregnant?? At this point you're arguing just to argue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:48 PM
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It's terrifying these people are out there. What happened in someone's life that they feel the urge to vilify single moms-and just ignore the deadbeat dads who are the ones who left? And blame pregnancy 100% on the women when it takes a dudes cum to make a kid. The only good thing is they'll never get close enough to a women to ruin her life but its horrifying that they're among us in their mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:44 PM
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So if the mom wants to get a divorce because the dad is abusive or cheating, she should have to pay for all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:26 PM
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Probably not the best to call some people are stupid when you don't even use the right homonym 5 words in to your post lol. It's the women who made the mistake? Doesn't it seem like the dude made a mistake letting his cum get her pregnant since he's the one who didn't think ahead and was surprised there would be changes when he BLEW HIS LOAD INSIDE OF HER?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:25 PM
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Are you for real? Are you referring to precum? As if that's from a man's raw dick? It takes a man and a woman to get pregnant. A mutual decision. There's no virgin Mary's. Women aren't getting pregnant on their own. It takes a dude's raw dick and cum/precum. How are you even trying to argue that? So please, reassure me you understand how kids are made because it terrifyingly seems like you have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:21 PM
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How often is that happening? There's also dudes poking holes in condoms to lock women down. Some dudes start with it on and take it off. Gasp, both genders can be shitty. The good news is there's no chance a woman will let you near them, especially intimately, so these are all scenario's that you don't have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:54 AM
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Trapped them? You know they have to cum inside of the woman, right? Do you know how kids are made? It takes two lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:22 AM
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This is one of the dumbest posts I've ever seen on here. An odd spin on women hating posts. It's a woman's job not to get pregnant? Does she get pregnant on her own or does someone else not know how to control their load and nut inside of her? Where's the dads? You're going to blame the parent who actually sticks around instead of the one who dips out? You know alcohol use is down, right? You know who raised the biggest generation of alcoholics? The silent generation, who raised the boomers. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:21 AM
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Dumb or not, It was a book about having sex lol. We can hopefully agree women read that when they were horny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:42 PM
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You’re right that they’re 100% different. One leaves more to the imagination and the other one is very in your face. I just mean there’s a lot of horny women out there if those novels are/were so popular
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:33 PM
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There’s absolutely still slut shaming. Again-what phenomenon is there right now? Because that only seems to be a big deal on this subreddit but nowhere in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:29 PM
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Have you ever watched amateur porn? Lotta women taking part in that, having sex with their bf's or fwbs, and very much enjoying it lol. Do you remember how popular the 50 shades of grey were?? That was pretty much all women reading that kinky stuff. A lot of horny reading
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:22 PM
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What phenomenon? Do you understand women are probably pretty horny if they’re reading kinky things like 50 shades of grey? For generations women had to pretend they’re not as horny or they’re labeled sluts. Read the scarlet letter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:09 PM
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Two people are starving. One resorts to eating paper and dirt. One doesn’t. It doesn’t mean the second person is less hungry. They just won’t eat dirt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:03 PM
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Wasn’t 50 shades of grey the number one book for years? Was it just dudes reading that kinky sex shit? The majority of women definitely watch porn lol talk to some women in real life. Women are horny as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:02 PM
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Are there not women watching porn and in the porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:12 PM
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Just because standards are different doesn't mean one gender is hornier than the other. You can't generalize 8 billion people. Some are hornier than others. Why are all these hook up apps also full of women? Yes, there's more men. But there's a shit load of women too. You can say standards may be lower but not sex drive. 3-5 years of looking good? None of this makes any sense and seems like way more internet time than interacting with people in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:10 PM
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For starters, easier to control is creepy af. You shouldn't "control" your partner. Right there is why people say there's something wrong with this mindset. Its a power thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:08 PM
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It's a shit show on here lol. It's easy to understand though, sex is a basic need. If you haven't had it and feel like you never will its easy to get mad at everyone else, the women giving it and the men getting to do it. Unfortunately it's easy to then think it's the only important thing and life will get significantly better once you have it. There's going to be a lot of disappointed people when they finally have it and realize it doesn't change that much because the love is missing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:38 AM
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Most dudes on here obsess about sex because they haven't had it and think that's what they're missing and their life will drastically change when they finally have it. But you're right, love is what they're missing and should be looking for. Having someone listen to you, understand the weird/unique person that you are, thinking about you and taking care of you is so much more important and rewarding than just sex. And obviously when you mix the two is the best thing you can find. But they just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:19 AM
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But when she started dating him he NEVER had sex even once! But she was ok with that? But now she’s mad because he hasn’t practiced in months? That’s not how it works lol. Why would this be a problem for her when she literally started dating and then married a virgin??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:57 PM
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You're right that we all biologically want to reproduce, but even that can be argued by how many people are in relationships and decide they don't want kids. It's becoming a problem because there aren't going to be enough people to work and support the older generation. The real problem is they're not loved. We allll need love. To be cared for, listened to and understood. Because they haven't had sex they think that's what they're missing out on, and that's the answer. But once they've had meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:42 PM
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I mean, pretty much everyone who hasn't had a lot of sex isn't going to be great at it. Why hasn't he gotten better at sex with years of practice? Why did she marry him if he's bad at sex and that's apparently important for her? Finally, isn't she also not having sex? A VolCel if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:32 PM
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Men in mom's basement has nothing to do with women. That's their laziness. Their satisfaction for coasting through life. Idle men are bad, but women aren't objects to fix that. They should get a job (get out of mom's basement), and get some damn hobbies. Women aren't the answer. Get off the apps and learn the piano. Prestigious Universities offer free lectures on Youtube. Learn something new. Become a dope person. Collect things, get a passion. Become someone people WANT to be around. Don't do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:14 PM
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This isn't a 7 year itch lol, this is a bizarre fictional situation where the woman wants her husband to reciprocate when he's hit on, which-in a healthy relationship is the polar opposite of the right thing to do, there's nothing autistic about not flirting back when you're hit on in front of your wife. She's just noticing he's bad at sex? And he didn't have any experience before? That ship would have sailed the first time they had sex and he blew his load after 30 seconds. This woman has been …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:58 PM
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What in the world even is this? You got married and YEARS later she's just now noticing hes sexually inexperienced? Wouldn't that have been noticed during dating? And you think women WANT men to be confident and enthusiastic when other women hit on him?? I don't think when any women sees their husband's friends getting women they wonder why isn't my HUSBAND trying to score too??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:13 PM
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Doesn't that go against your post? It seems like your group/people you know are doing just fine and shouldn't give up on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:00 PM
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And you ask them their opinion on average men? How does that work? Do you know the men they're talking about so you can compare to your own standard of how you'd judge that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:52 PM
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A lot of dudes are below average lol. Especially the ones on here. What women are you referring to? Are these women in your life? Or internet women? And how do you know their views on average men and if those men are indeed above/below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:44 PM
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You're confusing desirable and average. "Average" isn't decided in someone's eyes. It's the middle of the pack. Not the luckiest, but not the unluckiest. There's so many guys on here not getting a date, having to pay to get a match, their hobbies are arguing with strangers about a gender they've only read about. You're telling me that 50% of men are even WORSE/less desirable than that?? Most people on here come across as very below average who seem to think that they're middle of the pack and ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:31 PM
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Everyone wants different things. You can't generalize over 3 billion people. People's wants and needs change on where they are in life at that moment. Your best bet is to do some self reflecting and really figure out what you want. At the end of the day most people want to be loved and to be listened to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:20 PM
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All of this insinuates that you're probably not as average as you think you are. Most of the dudes complaining on here, about the same topic phrased slightly different, are below average. They're below average in looks and certainly below average in the amount of work they're willing to put into themselves. Always making excuses about "yeah I can work out but that won't fix a face" or "I still won't be a millionaire" or "it doesn't fix height!" As if no dude under 5'6 has a gf... Get a nice hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:14 PM
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Find an equally not good looking woman. Everyone wants sex. Find the 1's 2's and 3's that everyone else is turning down. Or be happy that so much free porn is available
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:21 AM
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You see people say that on here dozens of times every day. This post isn't going to get you banned. But if you say that and phrase aggressively and full of hate like a maniac, then yeah you might then as you should lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:50 PM
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Walking on eggshells is a little deceiving lol. You just come across as a rage poster. Who cares how an average woman feels about herself? Like, they're strangers to you, why are you upset they have higher self confidence? It's just all negative posts. It's not like you're walking the line and trying to have a back and forth conversation, it's just bitching about women. I'm not sure it should necessarily be removed but do you think you're someone people want to talk to? Imagine real life, waitin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:40 PM
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Don't they not want that word used because they don't want people using it as an insult? The guy above me spelled it out and he's not banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:36 PM
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Absolutely. But those winners sharpen their skills and their lucky genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:25 PM
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What would an example of that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:27 PM
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Do you think Tom Brady just rolls out of bed and his only football interaction is when he plays on Sundays or does he probably practice and study his ass off to be the biggest winner there's been? Winners apply themselves and keep winning. If wearing fitted clothes is too much to ask you may be the one staying in your lane
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:01 PM
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The less sex labels we have for most things the better. You don't think a woman would be happier if her dude helped clean up? Cooking is perceived as feminine but women think it's sexy if a man knows how to cook. Even the stigma of men not being emotionally available is silly. Lol, as if dudes don't get insecure or care about how they look/feel. We should be past the point where men have to pretend they're sociopaths who don't have emotions. If you look good you feel better and both genders dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:53 PM
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Because it allows them to have more options. It also helps you feel yourself, give's you more confidence when you're looking good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:47 PM
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I think this is more credible towards women who'd say "If he isn't wearing designer products I won't even look at him". Those women aren't worth your time. But there's a big difference between those stuck up women and someone who'd prefer a man who can take care of himself and present himself well. If you can't show that you can take care of yourself in the most basic way like wearing nice fitting clean clothes you probably aren't ready to help take care of someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:42 PM
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Flattering haircuts are extremely underrated. But you're underestimating how much flattering/good fitting clothes can help. It'll help your presentation but it'll also help you feel yourself. You walk with a little more pep in your stop, exude confidence. You expand your options. No, it won't make you a 10. But that's a silly reason not to improve yourself. OP is right about colors too. Make those eyes pop. Find what colors are flattering to your skin tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:37 PM
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Being presentable isn't feminine lol. Do you dress up for a job interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:11 PM
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I mean, here's an entire subreddit where you're free to post about it so being silenced on reddit is a bit of an exaggeration. It doesn't seem like "men" are being silenced. It seems like the context you're posting isn't being well received. You somehow slipped in "right leaning ideology", there's a bunch of subreddits that are all about those kinds of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:51 PM
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It 100% could be. But if we escalate that far don't you think the technology will be there to make people look younger? Flatter stomachs, tighter skin, perkier tits, more youthful faces. That seems like it'll get here before immortality/living a super long time. So why still go for 18 year olds and not a mature adult seeing as superficially they'd be the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:45 PM
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You're referencing...movies. Make believe. Fiction. The twilight guys broke through floors when they fought each other lol. Tom cruise turned two people into vampires! lol. Stop making up excuses to prey on high school girls. Smh. You even went out of your way to specify high schoolers, not even college women. Creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:36 PM
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I'm willing to bet if you were at a store and some beefy dudes were checking you out, whistling at you, winking at you every day for 10 years you'd get tired of it too. Here's the difference, you have to match on Tinder. You can't message everyone you see. Both people have to say yes for the conversation to start. If a woman makes distinct eye contact with you and smiles as she walks by, go ahead and toss her a wink. (Side note, never cat call, that's so trashy). There is a huge difference betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:41 PM
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Yes. & Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:53 PM
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I think you're born a cheater or not a cheater. If the relationship is not satisfying, sexless, or anything like that, end the relationship. Some get to the point where it's not repairable. But someone should never cheat. That's basically the one thing you can't do while you're in a relationship. So it comes down to a selfish person. They obviously know better but they don't care. They either don't have the balls to end their relationship because they don't want to hurt someone (as if fucking so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:41 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. I know a lot of women who say "ew" when they see a dude who's busting at the seams with muscles and veins. I also know plenty of dudes with dad bods who have smokin hot girlfriends. It wouldn't be accurate for me to say "all women love dad bods"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:55 PM
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No one is forced to marry anyone. It's a statistic and generalization. Tere's no debate for it being fair or unfair. Other people have already referenced how wild it'd be to marry an 18-23 year old, especially if you're an older adult. You're probably not going to have a lot in common with them & you'll be at different stages in life. Also, your wife's looks shouldn't be the number one thing if you're looking for a successful marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:52 PM
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Looks get you in the door. Personality keeps you there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:20 PM
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They have had gf's, they don't now. Both have dated very good looking women. Dudes on here have a distorted view of sex. It's great but it gets to a point where if it's not with someone you're into then videogames and self satisfaction is a more appealing alternative to fucking some rando and having them linger around during your post nut 'I'd rather be alone' mood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:53 PM
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I know at least two dudes who’ve had regular accessible sex and have had gf’s who are in their early 30s who do this. Playing video games and watching porn can be a lot better than having sex with someone you’re able to just for the sake of getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:05 PM
2

I'm not saying parents have a right to say who their child can/can't date. I'm saying it's a red flag when you don't even meet someone's parents. Probably because they'll have a bunch of questions of why you're interested in their 18 year old daughter lol. Especially since they most likely still live at home with them. Again-we're saying dating, not fwb's
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:01 PM
3

Well that sure is interesting. Why don't you meet the parents? Isn't family important? Especially for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:14 PM
3

Oh so you had relationships with these girls? How did their parents react when they had you over for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:58 PM
1

That's been the theme of the week on here. The inexperienced 18 year old high school girls who make for better "kindred spirits"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:37 PM
18

If you're unsuccessful with dating your solution is to shame other men? Try working on your self esteem instead of being upset women have high self esteem. Do you think a woman wants to be dating the guy who spends his time shaming random strangers? "Yeah I saw him shaming 8 men on Instagram and knew he was the one for me". Spreading toxicity isn't the solution for happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:34 PM
2

What word would use prefer for an adult who's preying on High Schoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:23 PM
3

Your honesty is admirable since most dudes on here are dishonest about why they want someone younger. But the Mom and Dad feeling some type of way with their daughter’s partner isn’t as ideal. It kinda insinuates you know better and you know they’re going to disapprove as most responsible parents realistically wouldn’t be ok with their high school daughter dating an adult. That’s kinda where it seems like these women are more objects rather than a life partner you want a healthy relationship wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:01 PM
2

Are you choosing this person because they don't have life experiences? Because there's plenty of adults who also don't, you're not the only one. Why are you choosing a high schooler? Why specifically them when there are plenty of adult women who also haven't experiences as much as most people. Again-this is a relationship? You don't think their mom and dad are gonna wonder why this adult is with their daughter in High School??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:24 PM
1

And the rest of what I said? I'm sure mom and pop would have a lot of questions why the 25 is interested in their 18 year old daughter, how would you navigate that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:13 PM
6

You’re absolutely in different places in your life than an 18 year old kid. They have to get permission to go to the bathroom when they’re at school lol. They can’t get into a bar for three more years. What common life experiences could you possibly have with someone who’s in Gym Class instead of someone your own age? And if you still have any doubts, tell me how their mom and dad react when you sit down at the dinner table with their 18 year old daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:51 PM
1

There’s legit MIT and Harvard lectures and courses for free on YouTube. Even if you don’t use it for a career it’s super interesting to learn from super qualified professors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:28 PM
1

It’s not even a rebuttal, it’s a question that apparently no one can even answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:06 PM
2

I don't disagree with that. So the real dilemma is the 10-15% of datable candidates on both sides are out there looking for a significant other while the other 85-90% of people are landmines and sirens blaming everyone but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:40 AM
5

Honestly, as long as you're content being single, nothing is really too high of a standard. You get ONE person to be with for the rest of your life, I think you should be as picky as possible until you meet someone who's right for you. That doesn't mean some standards are dumb and once you meet the right person they might not meet specific previous standards but you won't care when it's the right person. Settling is worse than having too high of standards, you don't want to wake up 10 years from…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:08 AM
1

Why can't they be your equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:57 PM
3

How is that terrible lol? He listed a laundry list of things he doesn't like about women, nothing good. Why would he want to date something he feels that negatively about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:56 PM
-4

I mean, you insinuated women (robin) are retarded and referred to the other dudes as "degenerates" so I don't think you're above any name calling or insults. It is good to offer those things, but most women want an equal in their life, not to be the side kick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:37 PM
3

Guys should be offering all of that. When someone asked yesterday what women actually want, if they want a relationship, that's what they want. So yes, dudes do offer those things but women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:28 PM
7

That's more my question for most dudes who can't stop talking about women, but it's mostly bad about them so I'm not sure why they complain. It's like not wanting to drink Coke but complaining constantly about how much sugar it has. I have to ask, since women don't offer anything, what do you personally offer someone in a relationship if you were to choose to enter one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:57 PM
5

Companionship, love, sex, my gf cooks, someone to share your hobbies and interests with, someone to do things and travel with, someone to hold you accountable, its a good feeling to have someone who actually knows you, someone to care about you, someone to take care of you when you're sick or bummed out. There's plenty of benefits to having a partner and its really not just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:46 PM
6

Then why do you want to date them? I also have to ask, since they don't offer anything, what do you think you offer them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:44 PM
-1

Then why do you want to date them or spend your time thinking about their dating lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:43 PM
-1

Agreed. It's like being in this bubble makes them think the world hinges on men's ability to get laid. I can see why they'd think that too. And when they see a survey that large percent of men aren't having as much sex they go "ah-ha! look at this! Men aren't able to get laid!" But in reality a large amount of those dudes are choosing not to. They're choosing to jerk off to free porn instead and go back to enjoying their single life. Sure, that can have negative consequences too but it's a diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:21 PM
9

The number of men who can ask her out doesn't matter, most aren't going to be a man a woman is going to want to date. That's quantity over quality. So now all of the women are fighting for the few good men that are datable. ​ Your view on dating is similar to most dudes on here, "having to pay for dates", being strong, financially responsible and attractive, making it seem like women offer nothing, or at least not as much as you/men are putting out there. So if you don't like all of that, why ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:55 PM
1

I actually agree 100%, sex and love are some of the most basic human needs and it fucks with your brain when you don't get either. A lot of it is voluntary though, I know a bunch of dudes who haven't gotten any in a while and its because they're too lazy to try, or have different ways of passing time like xbox/pc or streaming things, porn, or just having bad relationship experiences that leave them not wanting anymore for a while, but they could if they wanted to jump into that market again. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:48 PM
4

Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:30 PM
1

I've seen that argument before, but you think that many men are going to stop their income because they're not having sex? They're not going to pay for their rent, gas and food anymore? They're going to stop what's most likely the only job they're qualified for and good at? I could see unhappiness and depression leading to lower productivity but as far as society unraveling, that seems exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:30 PM
5

Why would that make women happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:55 PM
2

What do you mean by "danger to society" like school shooter stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:54 PM
1

Yes it is. But it’s not an excuse not to improve your body. A fit short person is more desirable than a shlubby short person. Just because it won’t fix all of your shortcomings doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:55 PM
19

They’re lazy and enjoy complaining and being drama queens. You suggest a dude gets a haircut from an actual professional and they give an over the top reaction like “well that won’t fix height or make me a billionaire so why bother?” Instead of saying yeah maybe some good fitting clothes, a toned body and a haircut that fits their face could help them out a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:55 PM
3

Have you told her it bothers you and she keeps doing it? Is it like during American Dad she gets hot for Stan Smith? Like tell you a sexual situation she’d want to be in with him? And have you ever flipped the script on her and told her you bet Marge Simpson would be a generous and appreciative lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:06 AM
4

Wait, you don’t want her fantasizing about cartoon characters but you can watch real women online getting dicked down or whatever kinks you’re into??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:54 AM
2

Yikes. I don’t even want to know how you’d respond if something like the Scooby Doo gang was her thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:52 AM
6

It seems like she might be referring to a fictional/cartoon character. I think it’d be an over reaction to “throw your wife out a window” because she fantasized about Fred Flintstone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:40 AM
1

Is it fictional like Johnny Bravo or Doug? Or a real person playing a character like Jon Hamm/Don Draper?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:38 AM
2

5’7. Height never seemed to be a problem, probably because most of the ones who have that as criteria have that in their bio. Lots of matches. Mostly match and not talk. A lot of dull, interview style conversations. Somewhat interesting conversations that usually died out after a few days if a meeting up date never comes up. Had a good number of first dates, a few short terms, a decent number of sexting/Snapchats, decent number of hookups/fwbs too. Height was never a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:20 PM
1

You have way too much time on your hands. Again, write down your thoughts and send them at once instead of 5 short stories. You’re actually coming across as the emotional one with your caps lock and angry chatter. You’re certainly not winning anything. You haven’t changed my mind which is the whole point of a debate lol, especially in something opinion based where there is no factual correct answer like there is in math. I can’t imagine getting so invested in a stranger paying her bills with OF,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:20 PM
1

Oh I do lol, its wild on here. Isn't that what everyone does on these forums? Isn't the point to debate? You just seem to be pretty confident in your opinions too, but you take it to the next level with your rage. You have the same points as most of these goofballs on here, are you copying their points? It just blows my mind someone can be this passionate about strangers on OF. Who cares what someone else does to make money or in their free time? You don't have to date them. It's not even like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:56 PM
1

Lol don’t be so offended by that my guy, there’s enough women to go around especially if you fix your attitude. And don’t feel bad, you did suchhh a good job debating. I can only imagine how many minds you’ve changed about OF with your 1920’s values. They might even run out of women if those girls read your posts. Maybe you should visit it though before they shut down because you can definitely use a good wank. Do you ever go back and re read your posts and realize just how insanely crabby you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:59 PM
2

You know this is an opinion thing right? It’s not math where there’s a right and wrong answer. I have a gf lol, that’s probably why I couldn’t care less what a stranger does in their free time or how they make their money. I understand not wanting to date someone who does that, that’s cool, but to become engulfed with rage where you freak out about why that’s not ok, that’s another level my guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:50 PM
3

Why don't you make a list of things you want to say and send it all at once instead of this coked out approach where you excite yourself and respond too quickly and then have to send multiple posts. This isn't even feminism lol, some dude could make bank showing his shlong and I'd say good for him. Look how worked up you get about what strangers do in their spare time. Imagine getting so passionate and writing essays and freaking out because some hot girls like to make money on OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:56 PM
3

Bruh, I have King in my username c'mon now, simmer the rage and pay a little attention ya knucklehead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:48 PM
1

Lol you seem like such a crab ass. Gettin all amped up here with your multi posts, BRINGING CAPS LOCK INTO IT, loading up the swear jar. Maybe you should give it a peep and blow your load to something because you've gotta settle your tea kettle homie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:57 PM
-1

Oh it's way harder for women to live up to body standards. First dudes have testosterone, it's so much easier for us to put on muscle. Our tendons and bones are stronger. Our metabolism is also faster. Have you seen how many hot women there are? IRL girls on reddit and thots on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:31 PM
2

Do you have attractive female friends? Have you seen what they go through in daily life by creepy dudes? Getting crept on at the grocery store, the gym, driving, at work? Why not profit off of that? Pay rent without having to leave home. Oh no a boob! Why would I care what strangers pay for OF? Especially if they can't get laid. There's clearlyyy a demand for that service. The problem is the people who can't get laid so they project their outdated life values onto women on OF to feel better abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:05 PM
3

You sure do know a lot about onlyfans lol. Is every woman who's posed for Playboy a hooker? How is doing onlyfans lower class than actually fucking random dudes in hotels/motels and cars? ​ And for that second part, yeah some crabby dudes with prudish views can still manage to pay their bills and have success with women. Go figure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:21 PM
10

100%. I’m sure there’s a bunch who regret doing it. But the scenarios people on here come up with, where their employer sees them and fires them is very unrealistic. Again, it might happen to someone. But the dudes on here treat it like wearing a big scarlet letter like it’s biblical times
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:48 PM
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How is there always a common idea that’s asked 10 different ways in a week on this sub? It’s not a big thing. An employer is not going to find a girls only fans who he hires. If you dont want a girl whose done only fans, find someone who hasn’t. But the dudes complaining on here aren’t finding anyone in general so these hypotheticals aren’t even necessary. I’m sure some girls do regret it. But its almost 2022 and if you think showing a titty or two is a huge thing that’s unfortunate. Dudes just …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:39 PM
7

That’s why everyone says relationships take a lot of work. There’s good days and bad days. But you shouldn’t have to “pretend” to love someone. The love should always be there. Love is a very human natural feeling and it feels great to love and be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:20 PM
2

There’s absolutely no accurate way to decipher if virgins cheat more or not. “Surveys” lol. Who takes those? There’s no national data base with people’s virginity and cheating. How many people confess in those like, oh yeah I cheated. Even though I wasn’t caught let me tell this rando survey about my infidelity. Maybe less likely to divorce but have fun being that couple that hasn’t touched each other in 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:01 PM
7

You should want to treat your significant other like a prize. And they should treat you like a prize. You don’t let a prize “get away with anything”. They should respect you and you should respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:04 PM
2

Do they mean in general or sexually? Because both are pretty good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:52 PM
6

It comes across as super creepy only going for someone with significantly less life experience. Like trying to find someone who is too naïve to spot red flags. To everyone who says there's studies showing less likelihood of cheating, first, "surveys" aren't accurate lol. Have you ever thought what kind of person spends their time taking a survey? Especially about sex, virginity and cheating survey lol. ​ And finally, no one has ever answered why you don't think those women are going to wonder wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:51 PM
1

What a grim view. Once you find the right person it's a good thing to expose who you are. There's nothing better than having someone know you better than anyone. Go ahead, vet away. If people are that picky about shoes that'll last a few years, why wouldn't you be super picky when choosing the one person you're going to spend the rest of your life with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:34 PM
6

Lol what do tattoos and piercing have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:58 PM
7

Of course there’s women like this. But that’d be like watching a Chad TikTok video and generalizing that that’s how all men should behave. Everyone’s different. They want different things out of a relationship. If you dont want someone who behaves like that then find someone who doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:47 PM
1

Too high? They’ve got literally thousands of people to chose from of course they should find someone they’re attracted to. You’re looking for your forever person, and yes looks become less important as a serious relationship goes on, they are important at first. And consistent attraction helps keep a relationship alive as it goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:02 PM
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Doesn’t that sound like an entire sub that shames and blames women for their lack of dating and physical success? With studies and surveys. Chads are ruining the market. OLD is ruining dating. Simps are boosting egos. Instead of every one of them admitting they make shit choices as accepting responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:58 PM
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But it’s not just one woman complaining about that. It’s most of them. If it was one person, yeah, they’d be the problem. It’s low quality people on both sides. Bland background characters. When you’re looking for a significant other no one should settle. What they mean is they haven’t met someone who stimulates them mentally while breaking that threshold of basic attraction, common interests and similar views of the world. They probably are the reason for their lack of success but that also mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:42 PM
5

I actually agree. I’m asking since I’ve seen it suggested fifty times on here for women so I wonder why people suggest it for others but don’t do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:09 AM
4

Those people also have rent and other bills they have to pay. Most of those adult men are well into their careers. Being womanless isn’t a new thing for them. Women are absolutely a carrot at the end of the stick to peruse a good career for some people but I don’t see hundreds of thousands of dudes from doctors to policemen quitting their jobs at once because women are picky about their partners. This isn’t a new thing. They’re just going to become homeless because they pout and quit their jobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:09 AM
1

But the beef you choose to be yours forever most likely will knock you up. So you want to be as picky as you can when choosing whose probably going to be the father of your children. Way more picky than someone you’re going to be casual with, even with the preggers risk in there. Unless they’re just looking for the person with the strongest pullout game lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:29 AM
3

That doesn’t really make sense that someone would be pickier for casual sex instead of choosing the one person they’re going to spend the rest of their life with. The only person they’ll ever have sex with again. Imagine a buffet, you can pick from everything, maybe you’ll try the beef today, steak tomorrow, meatloaf on Wednesday. But if you’re going to be limited to eat one thing forever, you’re going to put a lot more thought into that final choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:48 PM
0

Have you seen Mac from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia? He has drastic body changes each season and surprise, his face changed too. I wonder if that was from his "teeth exercise" lol. Orrr he lost that weight by eating healthier and going. to. the. gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:00 PM
2

Congrats on your weight loss man, keep it up. You’re right about the quality. Even for good looking people, men and women, it’s a mine field out there. Just gotta keep on looking. But you’re right, weight loss isn’t an instant fix but it sure does help
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:47 PM
6

How do you think society is going to collapse because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:45 PM
2

Have you never seen someone gain or lose a lot of weight and their face changes too...?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:28 PM
6

Why would I or anyone else care if a stranger "gives up and checks out"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:25 PM
1

Confidence trumps all, which you get a lot more of when you accomplish short and long term goals like progress at the gym. Along with feeling better about yourself from looking better from all that hard work. Feelin yourself when your clothes fit tighter. Getting compliments from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:01 PM
7

Because life’s not fair. They have options weather they go to the gym or not and the same thing applies. If they go and make themselves more fit they’ll have even more options
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:20 PM
0

If you’re thin and you bulk up you’ll notice a difference in your face instead of looking like Skellator
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:50 PM
2

Exercise can add mass to your face if you're thin or take away mass and pop your jaw/cheek bones if you have extra mass. You're right, it doesn't fix the other two but a shorter, fit man has a lot more options than an out of shape shlubby short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:31 PM
6

I suppose the rage from reading the same posts, phrased slightly differently than the last 10 does burn off as many calories as a treadmill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:25 PM
3

Right but exercise will help lower your body fat to thin your face if you're chubby, make your jaw more defined or pop your cheek bones, or add mass to your face if you're thin. The idea of "look good, feel good" is a real thing and confidence is one of the most under rated things people don't really talk about on here. Once you've put on some muscle, hit a few personal bests with lifting you'll carry yourself and present yourself a lot better. It's not going to make you a 10 but it will only be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:23 PM
5

That seems like cancelling a date and not cheating on someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:12 PM
3

How does someone accidentally cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:09 PM
4

Isnt this post and surveys about uglier dudes getting less affection? Being fit makes everyone more attractive. More attractive people get more affection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:00 PM
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If the dudes on here spent as much time at the gym as they did reading "studies" and philosophizing how successful strangers were, they'd be getting so much more physical affection instead of reading about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:29 PM
-1

Why is this the first thing your brain goes to lol? Are you only acting like a team because she gives you sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:50 PM
1

Is this a real thing that happens? I think if a man told his ex he was going to start having sex with a toy/robot shed just feel pity for him. As far as a woman “threatening” to have sex with Tom Brady or any other quarterback, I don’t think that’s a threat lol. Does someone think they’re going to bypass security? Do they think his phone number is just listed online?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:26 AM
5

Wow lol. So if she can’t get pregnant it’s not bad? If they use a condom it’s not bad? Its shitty to cheat on your partner no matter who you are. That’s your person. You should probably reflect and be aware that you are clearly a sexist and have a very jaded view towards women. So when you’re not successful in finding someone, don’t blame OLD, Chads, other dudes or women. It’s you my man. What woman would want to be around someone with those wild outdated 1700’s view of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:10 PM
2

I think that’s a good indicator that they probably don’t only chose the top 10% of men since 90% of men aren’t single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:35 PM
1

It seems like this is only a problem for the undesirable men. Women are always going to have options so there’s no reason they should change that to be “fair”. Honestly if you have a problem in your life, fix it if it really bothers you. Hit the gym, get a good haircut, wear flattering clothes, get a hobby to be more interesting and network. And if you don’t want to apply yourself and fix it, then it must not be a big enough problem for you. Go on dozens of apps, there’s 1’s and 2’s (women) ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:55 PM
1

You don’t think people can be/do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:20 PM
1

Imagine doing that with a new business partner and thinking, this person has no idea what they’re doing. I’m stuck with this business partner? That other man is doing a great job over there. Isnt experience what every job looks for? People who’ve been through those things so they know how to navigate those problems everyone goes through
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:44 PM
5

How would you feel if your gf didn’t do this thing for you but did for 99 chads before you????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:08 PM
6

Rules for thee, not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:53 AM
5

Most people are in favor of legalizing prostitution. It’s still illegal because the evangelicals and old men in congress who actually make the laws keep it illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:15 AM
3

Fair question. OP said Same sex relationships muddy the conversation a bit, so let’s stick to heterosexual relationships. Anal sex is definitely sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:50 PM
3

If they do anything besides PiV they're still virgins. They're sexually active, but still virgins. ​ Women don't want a non virgin for the title, they want one who's not gonna blow his wad in 15 seconds. Someone who knows what he's doing. Who can make sure she's going to have a good time too. I have no idea where you think men can't be virgins or if you're just trolling but they're as much virgins as women until they have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:17 PM
6

Men generally go into careers that make more money so the prenups effect women way more. Maybe the dudes on here are so angry because they want something that doesnt exist. They want a pure virgin woman who will have sex however they want, and do it with them whenever they want it. They want a woman who will raise their kids in a traditional style but also be totally ok with a prenup. They want all of this despite not seeming to offer much in return
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:20 PM
1

What kind of things were you sacrificing before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:08 PM
2

People really do treat you differently if you’re good looking. Even dudes. People smile at you more, wanna make small talk. It’s wild growing up not good looking and having that change as you get older so you see both sides of it. Something a lot of people on here miss is, yes facial structure and genetics do play a huge role, but people also treat you better if you present yourself like a clean cut adult, with a nice haircut and well fitting clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:07 PM
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What’s that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:03 PM
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They’re still here though. It’s easy to tell who they are because they’re usually the ones with rational responses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:59 PM
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What a silly thing to care about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:12 AM
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Most adults realize their significant other has had sex before. Is it the number of guys that bothers you? Because girls in relationships have probably had way more sex and done much kinkier things with someone they’ve felt comfortable with and wanted to spice things up with as time went on. Are you bothered by all girls who’ve had sex before meeting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:07 PM
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There’s way too much “that’s not fair” conversations on here. Most women don’t care where or how their husband spent his money before they knew each other. Dudes on here put wayyy too much thought and emotion to what sex stuff their future wife is doing. She’s probably fucked someone recently. People fuck. It’s fun. Most dudes on here posting that sex history is an indicator of a successful marriage, but they don’t consider that maybe their out dated views of sex probably isn’t going to be the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:01 PM
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You really think most people thought there’s someone out there with literally no “flaws” including having a runny nose and shitting? Where were they sold this? Even Disney princes and princesses had flaws lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:49 PM
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I don't think anyone over the age of 6 thinks they'll find a literally flawless person. Especially if pissing shitting and farting are bad things lol. Me and my gf fart and laugh all the time, it's hilarious. This is the problem with most repliers on here. There's way too many overdramatic extremists on here. You suggest people to invest in themselves and they respond with I CAN'T BE BILL GATES OR GET A 12 PACK SO WHY BOTHER! No duh lol. But that doesn't mean you can't apply yourself and if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:45 PM
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That’s fair. But honestly it’s probably like that movie Hall Pass, where these dudes feel like they hit the jackpot because they can go back to trying so sleep with anyone they want to. I’d bet most are proposed by guys. But yes that has to backfire most of the time because it’s way easier for women to find whatever they’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:05 PM
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You're right that it's a lot easier for women to find someone, but it isn't unfair if both people agree to it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:57 PM
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How do you think people learn the things they like sexually other than having done them with someone else before?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:15 PM
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Very fair. I guess it would depend how important it is for OP to get what he wants. Is it because he really wants to do it? Or does he want to do it just because someone else did it? And what’s her reasoning for not wanting to do it? But you’re right, compromise is super important
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:41 AM
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But if you make her do something she doesn’t want to do, you’re being selfish. Not caring about her, your current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:53 PM
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This is very similar to the post earlier today. Did she enjoy that sex act? How long did it take for her and her last bf to do that sex act? Have you talked about why she doesn’t want to? This post insinuates you’re her bf so you’d rather do a specific sex thing because you want to even though she doesn’t. Kinda seems a little rapey. This comes across as a weird cuck porno rather than the dynamic of an actual relationship scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:50 PM
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Can’t the ice cream analogy go the other way? Someone never had ice cream but tried strawberry and liked it. But you don’t think they’d get curious what other flavors tasted like? 5, 10 20 years down the road? Still only ever tried strawberry. It almost seems like it’d be better to have someone whose tried a variety of ice creams so they know what they liked and if you were strawberry and that was their favorite, that seems like it’d be pretty successful. Opposed to the person who’s only ever tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:32 AM
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You’re not the only one if that helps you feel any better. Hit the gym, everyone looks better fit. And the endorphins will help you feel better too. So will any progress from the exercise. Try some clothes that fit well. And if you can go to a salon or somewhere that’ll cost you 30-40 for a haircut, the professionals will be able to give you a cut that’ll be the best for your face shape. It’ll get better and you’ll start to feel yourself a lot more. All that combined together and you’ll forget a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:07 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:03 PM
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It should be less of a comparison thing by gender. The real focus from reading your post is that people who apply and invest in themselves have an easier time in the dating market as they get older, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:41 PM
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Very understandable but that particular sex act might’ve taken them a while to do with their last partner so it might take them a while to feel comfortable enough to do it with you. Honestly communicating it would be the best approach before breaking it off. Let them know how that makes you feel and they can communicate to you why they’re not doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:33 PM
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So if she’s at a bar and they see a dude she’s super into, she should be a wall flower and just hope the dude approaches her? If anything that shows she knows her value if she’s not afraid to go against the grain and has the confidence to do what most women don’t do. I couldn’t imagine any dude complaining about being approached in public
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:07 PM
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100% agree which makes me wonder why you bother wasting your time respond to me lol, that gives it weight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:24 AM
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I think it’s creepier than it is gross. But gross is also accurate. Weird and inappropriate is also spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:00 AM
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If that emasculates a man, it’s too late, they’re already emasculated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:25 AM
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It means she’s confident. How would you negatively categorize someone who goes for what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:23 AM
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The scientific method? Lol you’re quite the gymnast if you’re stretching this creepy social behavior to be a “science experiment”. Most people are average?? Wow what an experiment!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:15 AM
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Women are also more sexually complicated. A dude can cum through pretty much any sort of sexual stimulation, and cumming is the best part lol. Women are all different as far as how they get off so if they find a dude who is experienced with that and can get them off that's a big plus. It's not just that, but also more experienced dudes just provide better sex. They can last longer and go harder. The reason a lot of dudes want someone with a lowww n count is because they won't have the insecuriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:21 PM
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Why would someone voluntarily be with someone who doesn’t treat them as a human? You chose who you spend your time around
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:44 PM
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Honestly it’s probably even worse now. There’s so much misinformation and generalizations out there. Confidentially echoed until people take those generalizations as facts. It seems like the blind leading the blind. Like people have read a book but never had hands on experience. And when the people who have had hands on experience, they’re brushed away by a “poll” taken by 100 randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:41 PM
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Lol yeah why not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:02 AM
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That’s fair, to each their own. But if that’s the case for older women and what they bring, what value would incels or doll lovers, robowaifu embracers and other MGTOW guys who watch porn and do hookers bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:11 PM
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If that’s true why not look for one of those older women settling down? It’s better to find someone who’s tried everything they want to try and know what they want now. A lot of dudes on here want the innocent, inexperienced woman but they don’t think that after 5, 10, 20 years they’re not gonna wonder what some other dude is like in bed? Especially if they’re with someone who never got a lot of experience in before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:09 PM
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Honestly the best advice if you’re worried about being a “beta” is find women who don’t view the world like that. When you spend a lot of time online or around certain people it’s easy to think that all women view the world as alphas and betas and whatever else. But a lot dont. There’s a lot of normal people who just want someone who will match their effort and energy. That’s where your last sentence makes the most sense. Find normal women to be friends with and see where that goes, if it doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:59 PM
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Lol I’m probably one of the few people on here who actually knows what a woman feels like. Are you arguing the definition of misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:30 AM
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In fairness, you're sharing your preference with hundreds of strangers on a subreddit that is about debating these types of things. Some of those people are naturally going to disagree with you. I'm just curious what legality has to do with anything. There's nothing illegal about dating someone with a low n count. Why won't you know happiness? And what do you mean "The suffering of the feelings engendered by partner's sexual history which you already were aware you felt in the first place"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:42 PM
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If someone notices your dick gets hard when you see a hot woman it’s easy to think that means you want to fuck that hot woman since that is what a hard dick is for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:02 PM
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This doesn’t seem like a gender specific thing. It’s a person thing. So changing your view should be relaxing everyone has this problem, not just men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:59 PM
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That’s not being misogynistic because that’s not treating someone differently based on their gender. People could say you’re creepy and preying on women because of that but it’s not illegal unless it’s someone under 18. Whose making you feel those things? No one should know about your partners sexual history besides them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:31 PM
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What are examples of these choices people make and what do you mean by “things that can go wrong”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:41 PM
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You have a terrible jaded view of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:47 PM
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You don’t pay tens of thousands of dollars for McDonalds like you do for college. If someone acts inappropriately at their job to a woman they’d probably get fired as they should. Especially if they’re in a position of power, like a mentor. Are you so jaded that you have no empathy for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:47 PM
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I think most dudes who like girls but don’t ask them out do that out of fear of rejection. It’s not easy to put yourself out there if you’re not 100% sure they’ll say yes. Women get perceived as stringing dudes along, and yes a lot do, but a lot of the time they’re waiting for the guy to make a move and change the dynamic of their relationship/friendship. There’s also a window of time that that stays open for. You can’t wait forever. Women are fine just being friends so if you show them for long…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:16 PM
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I have king in my name, that’s pretty gender specific lol. Maybe people on here have bad pictures or bad bios but OLD isn’t even close to as bad as guys on here make it seem to be. It can be tedious and a lot of women suck at carrying conversations but it’s kinda fun too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:19 PM
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It depends on what you view a high n count to be. A lot of people start having sex at a young age. Even one person a year adds up to a higher number than most people on here are probably comfortable with. A lot of people average more than one a year. Some people want to explore, find out what they do and don't enjoy. You learn that from first hand experience. Sex is also just fun for some people. A lot of people fuck around in their younger years. Lol at "studies and surveys" like you're getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:33 PM
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I used them successfully for free for years lol. They're useful for dudes too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:02 PM
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I think this is a good indication you may be spending too much time on gender based communities and arguing with strangers too much. How many times has someone changed your mind on one of these posts regarding something you felt strongly about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:37 PM
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This doesn't seem like there's anything to debate, it seems like you don't like online dating lol. Yeah people lie. But people lie on resumes and people photoshop their Instagram pictures. Even back in the day on blind dates, people don't bring up their kids right away if they have them. Cheaters have always existed. My suggestion would be don't pay for anything lol. Most apps are free, Bumble, Tinder, Okcupid, Plenty of Fish. It's all free
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:12 PM
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Yes. Treating someone different/worse than other people because of their gender (or race) is bad and it’s wild that people still disagree in 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:59 PM
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Everyone has baggage and a past. If you’re looking to OLD I’d put a lot of effort into that bio. Make it known who you are and what you’re looking for. A lot of people think the nice guy thing is a bad thing but there’s a lot of legit women looking for that. It’s a lot of trial and error, through conversations and talking to new and different people you’ll learn what parts of yourself to open up with and what stuff to save for later when you’re both more comfortable. It’s the oldest most generic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:32 PM
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If you’re a good friend you should always be happy that your friends are thriving even if you’re not. Most of the dudes on here have extremely negative views towards women and sex, probably because they’re not getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:13 PM
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Are these men their boyfriends? Fwbs? Strangers? I’ve been told my men including my friends that they lie to women about what they want just so they can have sex with them too so let’s maybe agree that people manipulate people and it’s not just women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:38 PM
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For sure. As far as number of options, you're right, woman have such an easier time finding someone, especially with OLD. But I'd argue that's where they get manipulated. Dudes pretending to be what the women want them to be while they're just looking for sex. You never know who is genuine and who's full of shit. It's easy to think any attractive person is going to be a piece of shit but a lot of times that's not the case, despite what the next 10 people who reply to this are going to say. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:46 PM
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I think what you said is they answer for most posts on here. Self confidence and knowing your self worth. Men don't have as many options but that doesn't mean you have to settle for the first person that says yes. If she sucks and doesn't contribute to the conversation and just wants free meals like most men on here think women want, then find someone else or continue being alone. They date losers because they think that's what they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:23 PM
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Don't you think it goes both ways? Everyones been taken advantage of, men and women. Men for their nice guy tendencies but how many women are told everything they want to hear and are just used for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:02 PM
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Do you do those kind acts to be nice to your significant other and make their day better or are you only doing it for the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:51 PM
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You seem to have a very negative view towards women. If it's true, these people are getting into relationships and having sex with the wrong people. Not everything is about sex. They don't always want to extract something from sex. The term "sex they give" is also out of touch with reality lol. They like it too. You should be taking care of your wife/gf/significant other because you want them to be happy and you care about them. If you're only doing it for the sex and making it seem like you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:47 PM
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There’s a difference between a crush a a plan b lol. You can have a crush on someone when you’re in a relationship, you’re going to think other people are attractive or give off the kind of vibe you like, we’re people, that part of the brain doesn’t magically turn off because you’re with someone. She never said she was going to go with that other dude if things now don’t work out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:55 PM
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When did she insinuate she was mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:32 PM
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Isnt this the opposite of a slut? If she was a slut she’d fuck everyone she wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:00 PM
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This troll post isn’t too far off of what most dudes seem to be suggesting when they complain how unfair it is that women have so many options and disregard lesser males
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:58 PM
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Probably not. Tinder’s had 57 million users and 76% of that is dudes so it doesn’t seem like the majority of women have been on there. My point was if people don’t like the idea of OLD then don’t use it and meet people the old way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:15 PM
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Looks shouldn’t be the main reason you’re with someone. Especially if you’re talking about LTRs. How that person treats you and how they make you feel, and vice versa is what a relationship is about. Looks are most important in the beginning when you do need to be attracted to someone but as the relationship moves on it’s about the other person as a person, not as a pretty object. Yes, you should take care of yourselves and put the effort into yourself to keep your partner visually stimulated bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:51 PM
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You should strive to excel in everything. You made the commitment to your significant other. You're their person. How selfish do you have to be to think you don't have to satisfy that person in all aspects of life just because you're a good father? Yes it is super important to be a good dad, do everything you can for your child but that's not an excuse to be a bad lover/husband/bf. Why be in a relationship if you don't care how the person you love the most feels? This is like saying you can't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:01 PM
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This is an entertaining sub but very dated and jaded. Yes some of their generalizations may be true because there are gonna be some hoes in the world. But please use your real world experience because most of this is out dated, over dramatic, generalizations echoed by people who have been dealt a shitty hand but they get mad at other people instead of looking at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:12 PM
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Uh then do it in real life ya goofball. No ones making you use OLD and the majority of women aren’t even on there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:20 AM
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They don’t fail to see the humanity of ugly men, they just don’t wanna fuck them lol. And that’s the problem with the analogies on here. You tell people to change and everyone over reach and becomes a drama queen like oh so I have to be a millionaire and get jacked and buy the most expensive clothes??? No dude that’s extreme. But invest in yourself so other people want to invest their time in you. Or keep screaming on the internet. That’s been working so well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:55 PM
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Lol pretty much everyone I know is good looking. You’ve been on this sub wayyy too long if you think there’s a noticeable amount of dudes fucking HUNDREDS of women a YEAR lolol. I’m sure some do. But that’s laughable to think it’s even remotely common
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:06 PM
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If dudes are struggling that hard just to get a match, how do you think they’d fare without OLD? I see this all the time on here “average looking guys struggle to even get matches” but maybe they’re not as average as they think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:04 PM
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80%...I don't think you understand how averages work lol. And if somehow that is true, maybe most of yall are ugly and should accept it? Second part, that's the problem with you drama queens. "Become the next Bill Gates poor person" No one is saying that. It's more like hey poor person, start working at mcdonalds, make money, apply yourself and work your way up to make more. Or educate yourself so you can get a better job. Go to school. Orrr keep bitching about how you're poor, that'll solve you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:59 PM
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More people aren't getting laid because there's more to do. Porn is readily available. It's easier to jerk off than fuck a stranger. No one's still there when you bust the nut. There's also way more options to spend your time now. Videogames & Netflix. The difference is that there's a lot of dudes who could be getting laid if they wanted to/tried to. They're just choosing not to. You can't blame OLD for that. The other truth is, maybe most of the dudes complaining on here are worse than they thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:52 PM
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Because this is a dude who knows what he's talking about lol. It's easy to identify the normal people on here. Who know all women aren't sluts, OLD isnt making the world burn, and realize that you get what you give in life, and if you want something you have to work for it. But most people on here just won't listen. They argue and generalize. This dude is making it work. He's giving you real world advice from someone who is successful in an aspect of life that you and most people on here would c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:39 PM
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First, no ones fucking hundreds of women a year lol, people have jobs and things to do. And I don't think everyone is less happy and insecure. There's a lot of people thriving. Yeah, people at the top are getting even more. But OLD has allowed shy people an opportunity to talk to people with the comfort of not having to approach a stranger at the gym or a bar. The other hole in this logic is you have to remember that people re enter the OLD world once their current situation is over. They go bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:17 PM
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Lol, I cherry picked? Where in your post did you mention any positive attributes towards successful women & negative attributes to successful men? I'll wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:43 PM
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Disagree 100%. The most value in a relationship is when you find someone you can enjoy your time with. Share your interests and parts of your life with. Someone you look forward to seeing when you get off of work. It's the best when you find someone who genuinely gets you. Sex is amazing and even better when you have that connection but that connection is so much more valuable and enjoyable than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:47 PM
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It's a lot easier to blame other people or try to hold other people down instead of realizing that they only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:42 PM
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Lol dude you wrote the post. You listed men: likely to be 30-35+ and have a preference for beauty, health, purity (or at least the illusion of it), peace and feminimity. You listed women: A successful women is likely 30-35+ and there is a good chance that she is either or all: overweight, masculine, disaggreable, comes with baggage and all sorts of mental issues. This has nothing to do with preferences, I'm wondering how you sum up men as these kind traits like preferences for health and beauty …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:11 PM
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I think most of the dudes here haven't got to have sex so they feel insecure about meeting a woman who's had positive sexual experiences because they'll feel inadequate. But that's a humbling thought and rather than be honest with themselves they mask it with anger at dating apps, social media, men & women. And then to double down, they "take the high road" of having a low N count, as if they have a choice lol, and shame people who have had fun sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:01 PM
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A successful man is likely to be 30-35+ and have a preference for beauty, health, purity (or at least the illusion of it), peace and feminimity. ​ ​ That was OP's description about men lol. While women were apparently mentally ill, disagreeable, with baggage, ugly and manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:55 PM
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Why is that so important to have a woman who hasn't fucked around with someone else? Is it a self confidence thing? Like you won't be as good as the former person? Sex is important in a relationship but moooost of the time is going to be spent talking and hanging out. You don't care if she's not good at convos or have similar interests to talk about when you hang out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:51 PM
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Where in the world did the association that successful women are ugly, manly, disagreeable, have baggage and mental issues? But a successful dude doesn't have any of that lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:46 PM
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Their beef from this post seems like it's with men, but honestly should be with themselves. But it's a lot easier to blame women, other men, social media and dating apps than look in the mirror and accept responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:37 PM
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A healthier sexual attitude? They're just out there living their lives. Gettin laid. This community should adapt a healthier sexual attitude and maybe they'd finally get some instead of bashing strangers for interacting with each other on dating apps lol. Obsessing about whose having sex with who, and how strangers are feeling. As if those celebs hitting on randos is the reason they're not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:34 PM
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I meant do that instead of being niche lol. If you naturally fit into a niche look because you’re into a certain genre of music or a hobby that leads you to dress a niche way then embrace that. But don’t be niche because you think it’s something someone else would prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:35 PM
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Unless you naturally fall into a niche. Then embrace that shit. But don’t try to be a cowboy because you think you might attract a girl who listens to country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:19 PM
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We aren't born hating groups of people. But when there's dozens of men constantly calling women sluts and whores and the wild anger against them, obscene generalizations, that has to stem from somewhere, which leads to the question, who hurt them to make them think like that? There just aren't as many "man bashing" posts on here from women. Generalizing "all men"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:58 PM
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Clean cut. Look like you take care of yourself. A plain tee and jeans is always a safe look. Make sure the clothes fit your body type. Confidence is the best way to attract someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:54 PM
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Honestly the simplest and most overused advice is still the best here. Be yourself or at least use that as a starting point. Don't dress like a punk rocker if you don't listen to punk rock. Everyone's different so there's no one size fits all answer. But the biggest and easiest changes are hair and clothes. If you're a skinnier dude, get some slim fit clothes so you look more fit and they're not drooping over you. If you're a huskier fella find more of a relaxed fit so you're not bulging out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:50 PM
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It’s sad how many people are saying no. Of course happiness can come from other people. Sharing experiences, stimulating conversations. We’re social creatures. That’s why people put so much effort into finding a relationship. If you can find your best friend who you also have sex with, your life will be a lot happier. Of course there’s shitty days, but there’s shitty days when you’re alone too. Not just anyone can make your life happier but the right person can
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:56 AM
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Lol what fun dates have you suggested that have been rejected for a coffee date instead? Why would you think they wouldn’t want to do something fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:47 PM
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The point of a first date is to get to know someone. If you’re on a date that means the attraction is already there, now it’s time to see if there’s a connection. Common interests, similar views/values. Is this someone you’d wanna hang out with regularly? Are they entertaining too? Do they make you laugh? Do you make them laugh? Ignore paying for a meal and what kind of male does she categorize me as and ask yourself if you’re enjoying yourself and do you want to keep hanging out with this perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:52 PM
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Why would you hang out with someone who's boring? You know you (or men) have the right to reject someone if they're not up to your standards, right? It's a two way street. Make sure they're worth your time too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:09 PM
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It sounds like you (or "these men") are looking for a FWB if it's just about sex lol. If you're taking a girl on a date then yes, have fun. You're ideally looking for a best friend who you also have sex with. That's an ideal relationship. You'll click or you won't. If you don't then move on, if you do, that's dope. But all the dudes on here who make 'having fun' while out on a date out to be a hard time, they're probably boring and don't bring much to the table if the first date is already strug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:06 PM
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If they don't have to do much other than "show up" that's on the dude. Guy's can say thank you, next, too. Women get tired of dating if its boring. Would you want to keep hanging out with a boring person? The fun is getting to meet someone new and seeing where it goes. See if you click. Find out what interests you have in common. In this scenario the woman agreed to go out so you're already off to a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:00 PM
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This seems like a good development. Most people need to have regular sexual releases and some people aren't genetically lucky or don't want to put in enough work to attract a partner they deem adequate, so VR sex seems like a good substitute
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:52 PM
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Soo like 90% of the dudes on here who just call women sluts all day and try to analyze a gender they have minimal first hand experience with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:47 PM
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...are you implying men only help pretty girls from getting dragged into a back ally? Is that reflective of your decision making?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:44 PM
1

Chemistry is when you click with someone. Like you and your best friend do. You want to talk to them. Conversation flows naturally, you don’t have to think about what to say. You can feel comfortable being 100% your weird self and they feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:04 AM
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Everyone likes a nice/kind/respectful/polite person. When it comes to "nice guys" in this context that usually means more timid/pussy. There's a big difference and the latter isn't desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:04 PM
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It's easy to develop a victim complex, since you're your own main character, you know all of your struggles so it's easy to think 'hey world, look at all this shit I've been through and no one feels sorry for me". They see life as easy for other people (this subreddit seems to focus on good looking people), so in comparison they wonder why they don't get sympathy. When the truth is, everyone goes through shit, some people just don't make theirs public, and a lot of the ones who do get disregarde…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:45 PM
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There's also a huge difference between being a nice guy and a pussy. A lot of "nice guys" are nice, but they're also timid. Being nice isn't a turn off but being a pussy is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:16 PM
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Yeah but those men on the battlefield were killed my other men, not women lol. Men got killed, women got raped and owned by a conquering group. Do you think hordes of women went town to town pillaging and raping? If you were blasted back in time and got to chose your gender you'd be a fool to pick being a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:32 PM
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This sounds like some wild biblical age bs lol. Asking men how women should "chose a husband"? Date. Meet new people, find who you get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:21 PM
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It changes when you apply yourself. Nothing's going to fall onto your lap so if things aren't going great, figure out where you can improve. Put on some muscle, earn more money. You get what you give. Also, being in a pandemic doesn't help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:02 PM
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The virgin part of the question is the only alarming part. Absolutely date the hot ones but when someone’s singling out someone who “doesn’t know any better”, that’s creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:00 PM
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They want to snag someone who “doesn’t know better” because someone experienced knows better lol. An 18 year old might think that owning a nice car is cool enough to date someone. They won’t see the red flags that an actual adult women would see as the relationship builds. The fact that virgin is specified here shines the light on just the sex part and that’s even creepier. And a little sadder. That person isn’t going to fuck someone their own age because that person has experiences to compare t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:58 PM
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It depends where you are. If you’re somewhere like L.A. you’re probably surrounded by beautiful people. If you’re in Huntsville Alabama you’re probably surrounded by obese people who don’t take the best care of themselves, so an average looking person might be considered hot in Alabama but not so much in LA. There’s no universal standard. I’m sure someone out there doesn’t think Margo Robbie is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:51 PM
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Instead, in America, the men join online forums with other dudes who aren’t having success with women and talk about them like they’re another species
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:43 PM
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Try someone else. Even just talking online. It’s hard to forget about old experiences and feelings if you’re not giving yourself new ones to focus on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 02:26 AM
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I totally understand that side. “Oh you only like me because I’m successful now.” That’s valid but this is all nature. Natural selection. The prettiest birds mate. Darwinism, we’re always evolving and the most desirable traits get passed down. We’re just a smart enough species that we understand our mating ritual/structure and we can critique it. But it doesn’t make it any less valid. I think it’s great you value your personality because it probably means you have a good one. So reflect your ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:00 AM
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It’s not a Gen Z thing. This is a repost of what unsuccessful (with women) men have been posting for forever. Even before Tinder it was a looks game. But you clearly understand the game and don’t sound as jaded as most of the people on here. If you really care and want a different life, you know what to do. Ya gotta put the time in. Work hard for more money. Go to the gym to get buff. Get a nice haircut, find flattering fitting clothes. With the success you find from that you’ll naturally become…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:39 AM
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I once suggested spending at least $25 for a haircut (it should be even more) on here and it wasn’t well received lol. Your post is right. Invest in yourself. Put some effort into yourself and you’ll have so many more options in dating/sex and life in general
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:29 AM
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Dating is like a job interview. You might meet all the qualifications that a company is looking for, but it's important to remember there's a lot of people applying for that job. And if the company is successful enough they've earned the right to hold out for the right candidate. ​ Just like you wouldn't want to date a girl with 100 things on her check list, you wouldn't want to work at a company that requires you to do 100 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:17 PM
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Swiping was more likely invented because its easy, people are visually stimulated and it's probably the most important feature in dating, at least at first. There has to be physical attraction. ​ The feature that you have to actually match to talk to someone might be more in line with your thinking but that's a wonderful feature. Not only because no one should have to be approached by someone they don't want to talk to, but because it also eliminates the confusion of "should I actually talk to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:15 PM
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This is one of the wildest posts I've ever seen lol. Why would anyone even think of, and then want to ban casual sex? I might be able to wrap my head around someone wanting themselves to stop having casual sex, but ban it for everyone else? What would that accomplish? Why would you want to stop other people from casual sex lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:45 PM
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https://gillespieshields.com/20-divorce-facts-for-2020/ Here’s my first source. Try using recent data instead of one study 4 years before the first iPhone came out. Also use that to see how many different causes there are for divorce and it’s not one oddly specific sexual detail from a 17 year old study lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:36 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.yourtango.com/2012128108/facebook-divorce%3famp Facebook & my bad it’s 33% lol. How many divorces were from FB in 2003 lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:33 PM
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No lol. This is outdated. Look how much has changed since 2003 lol. 60% of couples who get married between the ages of 20-25 will end in divorce, while those who get married after the age of 25 are 24% less likely to get divorced. Hey look, age can be a factor too. How many of them got married before 25? Facebook was listed in 20% of divorces last year. That didn't even exist in 2003. Times change. One study is never an accurate way to generalize accurate behavior. 16 can seem like a mighty high…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 08:51 PM
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While arguing with strangers on the internet id refer to my own experiences instead of a study involving how many people? When was it? What kind of town/community was it? How old were the people? Lol it’s wild a forum chalk full of calling women sluts and whores is now trying to downplay their sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 02:06 AM
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Women also don't judge men only based on their looks, especially for long term. As far as being physically fit (attractive) it's a lot easier to achieve that if you have testosterone lol so we might have more limited standard of beauty but its easier to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:15 PM
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That’s probably pretty true. It would probably help give someone more of an opportunity, like if a girl sorta liked someone new and she heard her friends raving about that person itd probably tilt her to give him a try (I think that works with both genders btw. But I don’t think if she had no interest at all that effect would be strong enough for her to take interest. And if it did it’d wear off like fads do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:04 PM
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You are pretty much right, but would you want a big ol beef cake eye fucking you from across the bar and brushing up against you when he ordered a drink? It’d be awesome if a beautiful woman did that though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:23 AM
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Dating is a product of how our society is. It’s way more complicated than other species but so is our society. Our housing situation is incomparable to a bird that has to make a nest. Everything about how we live is more complicated. We’re animals, some people are lucky and don’t have to try hard while others have to evolve and adapt or die alone like other animals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:26 PM
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That’s wild. But do you think it’s accurate to suggest that men have more social hobbies like playing sports recreationally? Idk if it’s as much of a gender thing when it comes to making friends as much as it does having things in common. Even that woman didn’t have luck until she joined a league were she was surrounded with people with the same interest. I made a lot of great friends playing hockey. We didn’t care if it was a man, woman, ugly, Chad. We bonded over hockey. Do you think there’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:19 PM
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Oo ok was she in disguise the whole time? How’d she trick them into thinking she was a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 06:42 PM
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Things change person to person, yours definitely sounds like she prefers a more traditional relationship. A lot of people do. But there’s millions of people in the country lol, there’s a giant chunk of women who’d want it to be 50/50 and probably some who wouldn’t mind being the more dominant one in the relationship. It depends where people are at in their life. Their culture or religion probably plays a role. Location, relationship structure is most likely different in liberal/conservative area…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:00 PM
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So was it on tinder/apps? Where was she trying to make friends and was she only looking for friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:52 PM
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I think what a lot of people miss is yeah it is definitely easier for them to break any dry spell. Buut once you break that dry spell you realize sex isn’t the answer even if you’re a guy. It’s really love that’s behind food and water. Idc how hokey that sounds. Look at all the serial killers (no I don’t mean white men, but that’s bizarre) they’ve all got a parent that fucked them up and didn’t give them love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:17 PM
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Is there another study you wanna bust out to defend that or that’s just your jaded view of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:06 PM
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Sure in general they do but just because men have a higher drive doesn’t mean women’s isn’t also high lol. Aren’t half of the posts on here spazzing out about women being whore and unfaithful? But that’s not a reflection of a high sex drive lol. If a lot of dudes on here decided to talk to women irl instead of referencing studies a lot of people would be surprised lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:05 PM
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Those 70% of divorces could be because they chose a guy based off of looks which I know you’re not fond of lol, and they realized there’s more than that. Shouldn’t you be happy that they’re ending their relationship and back on the market?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:01 PM
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To your point of choosing tall and dull over funny and short..maybe for a bit they’d chose tall but they’re not limited to one or the other. They’d probably look for someone who is neither of those two lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:57 PM
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Idk who you’ve talked to but most of the women I talk to have a high sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:54 PM
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Treated by shit by who, other men? Why’d she end up in therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:50 PM
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The professional world has been in favor of men for much longer than the online dating world has existed lol. There’s more male CEO’s, more billionaires are men. Heads of state? Wayy more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:14 PM
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Social circles are the easiest but besides that I’d say a hobby. Don’t force it, if you’re not into fitness don’t go to a yoga studio because there’s women there but if you are into fitness that’s a great place to start. Find out what you enjoy doing and check out the community. Even if you don’t find someone there you might make more friends and can naturally engage with their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:43 PM
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I’d say no, but the idea that guys don’t care if they’re cheated on or whatever is totally insane. I’ve lived with lumberjacks lol, I know a lot lot of tough dudes. They all cry, they all get sad and most of the time it’s about women. Manly men cry to their wives, I’ve cried to gfs. That first long term heart break is one of the hardest things to get over, man or woman. We’re all just people. You have to experience it for yourself. You can be effected without ever being in one if you take other …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:33 PM
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Lol society caters to people who try
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:37 PM
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Uh read most of the replies on here and you’ll see a wake of broken men who have an extremely unhealthy and out of touch with reality view of women. This is due to bad relationships or never getting the opportunity to get into a relationship. Of course women are negatively effected by bad relationships but this sub is flooded with men who’ve had the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 01:39 PM
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You’ll never know these answers lol. There’s study’s but how big? Does it change in rural compared to urban areas? My sincere question to a lot of people on here, a question like this pops up once a week. Why do people care so much if it’s 20/30/40/50%? Do people ask this to feel better if 80% of guys aren’t getting laid it comforts you to feel in the majority? I don’t understand. Why are you seeking this knowledge? What’re you hoping to get a clearer idea of? Will you change any of your behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:39 PM
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Relationship is the best because you know what that person likes and they know what you like. You’re also probably more comfortable. Most people can get better at sex especially if you’re a good communicator. Just like you can get better at swimming. If you can’t swim today that doesn’t mean you can’t learn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:02 PM
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If they can change you one way they can change you back lol. You wouldn’t want the experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:03 PM
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Haha that crowd just seems to be counter productive. Of course you can learn and discuss things on here but man a good majority is just bashing women with a lot of bored and out of touch with reality ideas. I think it’s a great place to pass time, I do it lol. I just meant it’s easy for people to get jaded if you just take in the information without thinking maybe this guy isn’t the person I should be getting my information from
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:34 PM
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I don’t mean to insult you but that’s how silly it sounds when you say you don’t think with a moral compass. You just sound like a jerk even if you’re not one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:15 PM
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The first rule of meeting anyone new would probably be more like avoid talking about controversial things in general, you wouldn’t want to talk about priests raping young kids even though that happens too lol Just because you delete it doesn’t mean people didn’t say it and think it. Not you personally just people on here. That’s horrifying someone could think that and then be with a woman without her knowing. It’s like someone attending a clan rally and dating a black person after that. So was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:14 PM
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Lol you do you but there’s not a big dating market for the sociopath who only cares about himself and his friends/family and doesn’t care about holding the door open for the 80 year old couple walking behind him because ‘he doesn’t know them’. I bet your gf won’t be able to wait to introduce that winner to her family
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:08 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. You don’t need to treat women like princesses. But you don’t have to treat them like they’re plotting deviants. Treat them like people. Don’t hold the door open for her because she’s a woman, hold the door open because it’s another person and it’s polite lol. Being nice isn’t meant to get you somewhere lol, it just makes society a better place for everyone to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:00 PM
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Wow that’s insanely better than I’d expect from most people on here lol. That’s awesome man, keep it up. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:57 PM
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Lol damn, I was hoping you thought they were called generals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:56 PM
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Haha the line between caution and benefit of doubt is thin. That’s why you want a lot of experiences though, to learn from failures or red flags you missed. Of course each situation is different but that’s the risk/reward of life. There’s a reason the best team in baseball loses to the worst sometimes. We know what should happen but until you do it you won’t know. Learn from your mistakes and enjoy what we still have. There’ll be shitty days but experience and enjoy as much as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:55 PM
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Has generals been a typo both of your posts? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:49 PM
1

Would you not want to fly if you could?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:48 PM
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I know it’s off topic but can I ask what goals you’re working on? I don’t mean that condescendingly, just curious what the opposite of licking boots is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:47 PM
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Holding the door open for people in general is polite. Do you not hold it for men too? That’s just rude. Be gentle? To who? The waitress? Treat them like people.. yeah be polite and kind to them, but be polite to guys too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:44 PM
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You hate them because you’re not motivated like they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:39 PM
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Regular church goers are some of the biggest freaks I’ve ever met lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:38 PM
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The answers to this reflect their view on women lol. There’s no uniform, only ugly women tell the truth and hot women lie lol. What do you want to hear, brunettes lie the most? Only trust a woman with a small butt? Take people for their word or don’t. Why ask them anything if you think they’re going to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:37 PM
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That’s just life in general though. We’re shaped through our experiences. If 2 dogs bite you over two weeks you’re probably going to be afraid of dogs for a while. At the same time you could also become a vet and learn all about dogs. Your experiences shape you. I understand what you mean about being naive and you can be right. I think a more accurate way to sum it up would be women prefer men who’ve had good relationship experiences and don’t want someone with a jaded view on the world. But tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:32 PM
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I actually do agree most probably were but you wouldn’t know that if you read the posts or comments. Wow they’re angry and creepy. That’s good though, you shouldn’t put anyone on a pedestal. We’re all just people. That’s the problem on here. There’s this bizarre spotlight on women like they’re lying whores who’ll cheat and only have manipulation or hidden agendas on their mind. Sure, some do. But some aren’t great people. But neither are a lot of guys, ugly and good looking. 95% of people here h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:27 PM
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Looks are probably the most important, true. But do you think any normal woman would want a man who spews all this weird stuff on these subreddits? Every one will use the crutch, it’s because I’m ugly but holy how, do you have any women family members? Imagine if your mom or female cousins saw these lunacy that’s on here. Women being called cum dumpsters and they’re all sluts. Everyone’s got an agenda. Omg you think they want to date that guy?? It might be his looks that’s keeping them away but …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:20 PM
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Raised not to judge because of hoe culture? Read any post on here. It’s non stop woman bashing lol. So no apparently no one on here was raised not to judge women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:15 PM
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You know most women believe in love too right? So do most normal guys. That’s why they start a relationship. More than just sex. Everyone wants someone with experience lol. Get a good job with no experience. It’s great having someone whose been in relationships before because they understand things. They understand the opposite gender after spending time memories and experiences with them. You can’t bowl a perfect game by reading how to bowl lol. You have to do it. Stop reading posts by angry st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:11 PM
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You wanna start reporting everyone breaking the “woe is me” rules too? Because that’s 90% of these posts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:03 PM
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Most people trust each other lol. It’s weird complaining on social media on a social media platform lol. But yikes from your response. This is still easily the best time to be alive lol it sounds like you haven’t adapted to it very well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:47 PM
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It’s only getting better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:35 PM
3

What made life quality better 100 years ago vs today?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:34 PM
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Maybe 30% of men are trying and the other 70% are complaining on Reddit about how tough it is to be a man lol. No ones entitled to anything, you can’t wake up and expect sex. 70% of people probably have nothing to offer another person that results in them getting laid. Try harder if you want it, or if you don’t then who cares, stop crying about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:32 PM
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Look at how many people are married or dating in America. Are they all chads? All millions of them? Worst time to alive for men? Xbox. YouTube. Medicine. You’re typing this on your phone to a community that has the same interests as you from around the world. There aren’t foreign countries taking our land and raping our women. And you can’t think of worse times?? We can have dinner made in 3 minutes. We have medicine to keep people alive. Maybe it’s you who sucks because this is an amazing time …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:28 PM
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Idk man there’s a lot of people here who probably shouldn’t be someone else’s moral compass. I couldn’t imagine asking my dad for dating advice in middle school and him telling me these girls are going to be whores, cum dumpsters, deceiving. Even if you didn’t say that, the dad giving the advice does. It’s sad life’s given them those experiences but that’s a shitty view on life when most people just live their lives and enjoy the good in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:12 PM
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This is something that should be discussed way more on these posts instead of 500 different ways of asking if attractive men and women have an easier life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:50 PM
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Shamed? In this made up scenario are you posting on FB that you watch this or what? Lol. Why are you worried about what a stranger would thing regarding the porn you watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:47 PM
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They’d probably think it was gross and wouldn’t spend more than 3 seconds thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:45 PM
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Is torturing kittens the same level as offensive to you as having a high n count or was that just an extreme analogy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:50 PM
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That’s fair. Is there a solid number that you’re like nope? What if you really liked her, you guys got along, same interests and pretty. You guys look forward to talking to eachother but she’s had sex with 15 guys, you’d stop hanging out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 01:56 AM
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Lol I mean what do you want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:59 PM
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If you’ve made it to the point where she’s willing to look past your low number you should be able to look past her high number lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:28 PM
4

What’s the rational male?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 10:48 PM
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They’re out there man lol. It doesn’t always have to be their thing. Sometimes girls get horny and instigate. Even if it’s just once in a while. It’s pretty cool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:52 PM
1

What if she’s bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:47 PM
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What if she gets on top of you and rides you until she “...extracts the resource” if that’s how you want to explain it lol. Did the geologist not extract the rock from the ground? Did the vacuum not suck up the dust from the carpet lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:47 PM
4

Until you realize sex is more than just the dick and the vagina lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:44 PM
2

Theres a lot that do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:43 PM
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Most average men think the same way you do. They’re just people lol. But that’s the real world. Holy smokes on here there’s a lot of disassociation from reality. I’m sure a lot of people have had bad experiences and I’m sorry for that but the amount of people who think there’s deception to everything and it’s unfair, and women are lying whore who’ll cheat on you and only attractive men have it easy. Wow. Not that there’s not occasional truth to that but that’s not how they spend their time, plot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 06:17 PM
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Notice I left the gym out. You don’t start off by hitting on people. You talk to them lol. Did you never date anyone from your school at any time even through college? Or know people who met their bf/gf through school lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 06:06 PM
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Who does self improvement intimidate? How does putting yourself out there at the gym, school or work make finding anyone harder?? School is literally how millions of people start dating. So many date their coworkers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 06:04 PM
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You should always do things for yourself, that’s who you’re stuck with. At the same though, it’s super healthy to have a companion of any sort. Someone to share your world with. Someone who actually knows you so they know how to make your day better when it’s not and someone who can keep you in check when you need to be checked or held accountable. Of course do everything for yourself but when you’re making a list of what you can do to make your life better you should consider adding a positive …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 05:59 PM
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Lol that’s not a problem. It’s motivation. What he’s saying is without motivation and a goal you free fall. And sex is one of the best motivation/goals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:43 PM
4

Was this someone you know or from a tv show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:20 PM
11

You change your mind on how you feel about victims of one of the worst things you can experience because strangers on a reddit page have a stupid view? ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:50 AM
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People treat you nicer, older women who work at banks or fast food places will kinda pause and smile at you. It’s nice to have options in the dating world. It’s not a drastic difference people are just nice to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:40 AM
1

Wouldn’t the opposite be true for guys? Guys who have zero sex also correlated with low self respect and being undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 04:04 PM
1

There’s a lot wrong with this lol. Making assumptions that they have no self respect because they hookup with a lot of guys. What if women thought you had no self confidence so that’s why you’re not having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 03:25 PM
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Tit for tat that’s fair. If there was a judgement it wouldn’t be actually having the sex with the sex worker but someone who has sex with one is probably doing it because he doesn’t have other options, someone who can have free sex isn’t going to chose to pay instead. So the judgement would be regarding his low desirability not the fact that he had sex with a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 03:06 PM
1

Would you have a problem with a girl with a high n count? Starfish in bed? You don’t want someone to judge your inability to not have good sex but you’re going to judge theirs in the same post lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 02:59 PM
2

A lot of women do if it’s zero or low. Most people just don’t care if it’s high lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 02:40 PM
3

It’s easier to blame women and society and other men instead of thinking maybe I should change what I’m doing because it clearly isn’t working lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 06:22 PM
3

Masculine crisis? No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:35 PM
1

It's just improving your odds. It also prepares you for when you finally do get someone. The more interests/hobbies/passions/experiences you have the more things you'll probably have in common when you find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:51 PM
4

How do you know what they have to do to keep their woman around besides what you hear on here lol. Just because you're attractive doesn't mean you're an asshole or dull. Plenty of people come from good homes, or are down to earth people, or people who weren't good looking as a kid and got better with age. How would you keep a woman around? What interests do you have that you think would make you a good partner for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:47 PM
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It’s called being an adult. Or don’t, keep doing what you’re doing if that’s working for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:23 PM
3

Why everyone’s mom is a whore too that only cares about your dad because he’s hot and she probably used her sexuality to get any success and only cares about looks? Most people on here just want to argue. What’s better advice? Take care of yourself, apply yourself and make yourself better in all ways..or listening to people on here who don’t seem to be thriving lol. These experts who know everything about women but haven’t talked with one since school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:45 PM
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What about the rest of what I said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:34 PM
2

Yes they do lol. Success is achieving goals. Set goals. Confidence is from achieving goals. They want successful accomplished and yes, attractive people. Ask any girl you know, ask your mom cousin or coworker if they’d want a mate or that is constantly improving themselves and getting stronger healthier and more educated daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:33 PM
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And most of the looks part can be fixed by getting a good haircut and finding clothes that fit. It seems like most people only post here. They’re not in sports or music subreddits too. (Not everyone). But when that dude posted where most other users from here are were active it was other subreddits like this. So what I’m saying is if people on here finally get someone..how are you going to keep them around? Can they talk about what’s going on in the world without deep undertones of how fucked up…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:29 PM
1

What? Who wants them to face any consequences lol? Judge someone on how they behave and treat people not weather or not they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:19 PM
1

Do it for yourself, it’s easy to use the motivation of finding someone to get you motivated but do it for you. Life’s better when you accomplish goals, or learn new things. When you’re stronger, healthier or more educated than you were yesterday. That’s how people acquire confidence. It’s not just a sex thing. Prepare yourself so that if you are given an opportunity like getting to meet a new women, that you’re ready for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:06 PM
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You have to invest in what you want. Yeah some people get lucky generically and don’t have to try but that’s not just sex. Tall athletic people have a better chance of playing basketball professionally, other people are just born smarter and don’t have to study as hard. That doesn’t mean someone else not as naturally smart can’t study their ass off and become something. Invest in yourself, haircut, healthy, good clothes, be interesting. Looks open the door but personality keeps someone around. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:32 PM
1

Some people sure, but most people can have success on there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:19 PM
2

That makes sense. I think guys get a sense of satisfaction of talking about it and knowing you could hookup that night but watch porn instead because it’s free, and you don’t have to leave your house and have to have that post sex I wish I wasn’t here anymore feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:56 AM
2

I’d start with asking OP his source since it’s his post and he’s actually throwing out hard numbers and percentages lol. Tinder-like apps are game changers. Wayy more people are hooking up than those numbers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:53 AM
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Those numbers are probably before Tinder and other online apps, the real numbers are wayy higher than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:03 PM
1

This is like articles that say women prefer dad bods over a 6 pack. A few might but no, neckbeards are associated with sloppy and unkempt and won’t be normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:59 PM
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Being a regular dude and having many regular dude friends yeah man most regular people are doing fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:48 PM
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Lol you know most men and women get along just fine, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:42 PM
1

“All I do is take showers and when I was working I may use sunscreen depending on time of day I was working as I work outside. But the sunscreen is more for skin cancer not so I look better” I feel bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:39 PM
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You clearly don’t know what women like lol. You thought sun screen doubled as a beauty product haha. You don’t want to listen to people who actually know what they’re doing. Keep getting your $5 haircuts and pretending you know what you’re talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:28 PM
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Block. You’re a girl so you’ve seen how someone who is interested acts. If someone wants to be around they’re not going to play games. If they come back after a while it’s because they’re bored and don’t have any other options. When they find something they’ll go after that, and when that’s over this process will go on until they or you find someone else or you block them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:33 PM
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I get it but if you guys are following it up with slandering confident men it seems like you guys were implying you’re not confident men lol, but if you accomplish things then that becomes your identity. That’s what makes people confident. Accomplishments. There’s probably a few people who should set some goals on here, you don’t want problems with women as your identity, that’s a bummer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:30 PM
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Lol most confident people are great. It’s not always sexual or alpha-y some people just love their life. Friends, job, interests. Most people talk about normal things. You can be confident too, just apply yourself to something. Set a goal. You feel good about yourself and you keep doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:22 PM
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Guys get treated better too if you’re good looking. Good looking people are more trustworthy, not just got looking women. Hot girls also wanna have sex with hot guys. For normal people the world isn’t a weird game with chads and 3 letter acronyms for everything. Good looking guys get stuff too besides sex and girls enjoy having sex with people they want to have sex with, not just get free stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:15 PM
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Shouldn’t anyone on here whose having a hard time finding a partner thank the FDA for making everyone fat? A broad generalization, if you’re fit and healthy you can be picker because you’re probably more desirable, healthy is hot. So the more unhealthy fat people there are, the more people are in the less choosy category.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:11 PM
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If it's imbalanced against the beta's why not just make a pill for them in this hypothetical world that makes them work harder and improve personal relationships without needing sex lol. It seems like most women and regular dudes are doing fine so instead of adjusting the side that's doing alright why not "fix" the imbalanced side instead..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:56 PM
1

Look man, this whole thing has been about tips to look better. If you're not interested in it then just keep doing your thing, it seems to be working great for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:21 PM
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I get seeing what’s out there for 15 minutes or so but this sounds like you spent a lot of time on there. And really got into it, “ I also felt entitlement, increased pickiness, and after a long enough time...what I can only describe as a feeling of revulsion when guys didn’t impress me enough - (a behavior that only got worse and demanded more and more as time went on)” It sounds like after a bit you stopped doing this for the experiment and did it for yourself. To the point where you allowed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:09 PM
1

It's sad when you come across someone whose going to spend the rest of their life alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:44 PM
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So they work for it. While you’re on here posting they’re at the gym. While you’re eating chips they’re eating kale. It’s work man, it sucks to do. But you look and feel better. And that’s carried into your daily life. Try it before judging people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:57 PM
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What a bizarre generalization. Pretty, confident people do worse at their job and are hated by people. By who, you and other people on here still adjusting to fit into society? Instead of hating these people from the shadows why don’t you try being confident sometime? Walk around without caring. They’re just going through their day, most likely don’t even notice you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:54 PM
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It’s confidence. You carry yourself a certain way. You probably perceive it as arrogance since you can’t actually relate to the feeling. And it is a fine line to walk. But if you’re wow’d that certain people can carry themselves in a better way than you believe they should be, maybe instead of questioning it you should try it. You might like it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 02:46 PM
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Maybe if you stopped assuming guys who they are gay, you might start trying. Then you might actually know what a relationship with a woman is like instead of reading about it. Don’t be afraid to try
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:53 PM
1

Who am I trying to white knight for when I say enjoy strangers dressing hot..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:53 PM
2

I get the frustrations but you're 100% right. There's a lot of "do I deserve" or "women do this" on this sub. It's simple though, make yourself someone that people want to be around. Make them want to talk to you. Be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:44 PM
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..King is in my name lol. I'll engage but you can see from the posts its trying to be helpful and some people get it. A lot of people sit here and blame women for ..a lot, but man just read your response here. Who in their right mind would want to sit around with your negative ass lol. That's not a good life for anyone, I hope you reflect on this and maybe make a few changes so life doesn't have to be as bad for ya. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:40 PM
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Again, I'm a guy lol. And I've had a lot of success after going a long time without success. You take it day by day, start with the first date and see how it goes. You can argue all day, but tbh after reading what you have to say I don't think you're going to get to the second date level with your toxic mindset lol. You don't listen, you just want to argue. Keep doing what you're doing, I'm sure it's working great lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:34 PM
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Bravo. This. I also wasn't successful for a long time but when you get it, you get it. Get them to want to be around you. Your friends want to hang out with you because they like what you guys to together, talk/chill. Not because you tell them you like hanging out with them. And honestly, a lot of people change what they want. They might like you going into a date and change their mind if they didn't like it or vice versa. Just remember you're not entitled to anything and neither are they. Learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:23 PM
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Nah man I've been on a lot of first dates. You're recycling what you watched on TMZ. Keep your hands to yourself and ask them about themselves. If you're worried about going to jail after a first date you're the problem. Do you worry about sexually harassing someone at the grocery store or park? Do you worry your mom is going to accuse you of harassment at home? If you grow up and have a nice dinner where you talk and don't touch you won't have any of those bizarre situations come true..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:18 PM
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Guess their intentions? A first date is about figuring out if you're compatible or attracted to that person. Finding out common interests and figuring out if you want to see this person again. That's it. So again if you're referencing celebs you're basing their behavior with tabloids you've read lol. If you behave and control yourself like you do around coworkers or your family you'll be alright lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:05 PM
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A clumsy date that can get you accused of sexual assault or arrested?? Don't grab or touch anyone, especialllly if it's just a date lol. These seem like fears from someone whose only watched movies. Go to a dinner, talk about mutual interests, smile, make eye contact, try to make them laugh. Ask them about themselves. Figure out what you have in common. Leave an impression that makes them WANT to talk to you again. A hug is standard, if you're not comfortable or don't know if you should kiss the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:42 PM
2

What kind of errors are you learning from that results in a ruined life..?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:33 PM
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Or it changed. Society is way different especially regarding women. Trial and error with core concepts is even better lol, its easier to fix and see what works and doesn't work regarding broad ideas and generalizations. Once you figure those out then you move into what details work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:20 PM
2

Then learn from it homie. Think about who writes manuals, people who know their craft. So talk to the source, talk to your mom, cousin, co worker, any woman. But if your help and knowledge about women is coming from other strangers who don't have any success that's probably not the best
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:19 PM
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I’m a guy too lol I care and it helps with women lol. Side note-sun screen is never for beauty lol. But there ya go. If your look is asshole and you only bother to shower why would a women chose to be around that over someone who try’s harder? You’ll lose every time. Just like why would you chose a fat loser girl who doesn’t try?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:41 PM
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If anything I think that should show you there is no manual because things are always changing. Who wouldn’t love being told the perfect thing to do? Just think of it like this, we all want love. This is an open sandbox. We’re all each others competition. What do you provide that’s going to keep someone interested? Why you? People wake up with a million options, do their own thing, hang with friends. What are you doing or what do you offer that makes that person WANT to text you first thing? Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:39 PM
1

A mud bath isn’t too far it’s just a lot lol. Idc what your look is, rugged, pretty body, normal dude. Just make it work. Do it right. And if it’s not working then change something lol. Or don’t, do your thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:58 PM
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Everyone’s along for this ride though for the first time. That’s how we learn, no ones handed a manual. Trial and error. I promise 95% of people outside of these echo-chambers knows what these abbreviations are. Normal people just living their lives watching their shows or hanging with friends don’t think about this. They think “I like Brian now” lol. But it’d be more beneficial for guys here to talk to women, a cousin, coworker, about advice instead of a page of guys that clearly aren’t succeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:47 PM
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It’s hard man, it comes in waves. Give it another try though, there’s bumble, OkCupid, plenty of fish. Give em all a try. A lot more people are on now during quarantine so maybe you can even find someone to talk to and kinda learn more about women first hand. That’s how we all get better. Don’t give up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:29 PM
1

Rugged is as much of an attitude as it is a look. They don’t want sloppy. A fat 50 year old dirty mechanic is rugged and they don’t want that. If they want rugged they want some guy who can take care of himself and her. Someone who can take charge and not give a fuck. So if that’s not you, you can keep doing what you’re doing or you can clean up and stop worrying about looking gay or less masculine and take care of yourself. You laugh at a mud bath, and yeah that’s far but is acne cool? Do you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:17 PM
2

How many people here are actually looking for advice on how to turn their life around especially with women? That will actually listen to advice and be willing to make changes instead of literally arguing every point or say I’ve tried it doesn’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:53 PM
1

Well good job for lifting that long. Yeah location is hard for anything. Can’t get a job either in a place that isn’t hiring. Good thing we have apps now. Get em all. Swipe away. There’ll be someone. Might take a week but you’ll get a match
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:48 PM
1

Clean beard as in not straggly. Use a beard trimmer on 3-7 settings. A price of a haircut generally reflects whose cutting it and how they cut it. Someone at a salon will actually cut your hair so it enhances your face. Not buzz a 7 on top and a 3 on the sides. They add texture. They trim your eyebrows. I know it sounds dumb explaining it to people who don’t do that but it’s such a good investment and a way to look better and you just have to sit there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:41 PM
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The gym doesn’t require good genetics. Neither does eating right and drinking water. Ok you can’t get a haircut or grow a beard? Try some nice fitting clothes. That makes a big difference too. I do try. I wake up 2 hours early to work out before work. You can argue all day but you get what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:01 PM
2

Nothing has a sole purpose lol calm down. Then don’t date a girl like that. I don’t think that’s a problem anyone on here will have to worry about. If people wanna dress hot then just enjoy it. For real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:16 PM
1

Nah man they wear it because they think the guy at the gym is hot so they’ll get his attention. How many hot girls have you ever talked to lol? Are you reading about this gossip in Teen Vogue magazine? Or have you gathered this from movies? Because this isn’t first hand knowledge. Or secondhand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:10 PM
2

I know what you meant though, lower bar. There are some 2’s everyone else can find online. Get 5 apps, say yes on all you’ll find someone. They’ll be gnarley but you’ll find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:59 PM
1

You have to want to fuck someone to fuck them lol. If your dick is hard they’re sexually attractive to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:58 PM
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She’s doing it for herself. She’s actively doing something that clearly makes her feel good or she wouldn’t do it lol. It’s not all sex. People treat you different. I get treated different at the bank in my pj’s after a night out then I do when I’m dressed nice for work. People look at you different when you’re good looking. They smile lol, you can see it. Not even sexually, old people too. It’s a good feeling. That’s why they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:55 PM
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They’re attracted to confidence stability and security. Assholes are most of those things, nice guys generally don’t display those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:42 PM
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I’d suggest talking to a hot girl who dresses slutty and ask her if she does it for herself. Otherwise it’s a bunch of guys who aren’t hot girls who dress for attention so we’re just assuming. So ask of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:35 PM
2

Don’t you think they feel good when they get the person they want lol? That’s doing it for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:30 PM
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It can be 23 anyone. 23 fat ugly feminists lol. 23 chads looking you up and down. 23 hood rat gangsters. It’s such an easy concept to understand why you wouldn’t want people you don’t desire to look at you gawk at you. They never say you can’t look at them. They just think ‘ew’ when you do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:28 PM
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Yeah and how life works is you could apply yourself to make yourself desirable and you could be the person she’s doing it for lol. Or you don’t want to so you won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:21 PM
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Why not lol. If you were in a room and there was a hot girl checking you out but also 23 beefy openly gay bikers winking at you, you’d be happy with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:14 PM
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You’re confusing she’s doing it for herself with she’s doing it by herself lol. Of course it’s for the world to see. Why do people invest in shiny cars? We love to impress people. Don’t be mad it’s not for you. You can still appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:12 PM
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People like validation. Everyone. That’s why there’s awards for everything. It’s nice to be looked at by people you want that reaction from
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:09 PM
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..to get the attention of people they want. And it works. If everyone on this sub just did that there’d be so many less posts and more people fuckin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:06 PM
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Women go to salons not barber shops. I’m telling guys to pony up money and go to a salon if you want to look better and get women’s attention. Or keep paying your $5 for a haircut and keep getting what you’re getting as far as women go. If it doesn’t bother you that’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:04 PM
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People like attention. It feels good to be desirable. You can look at it like you can look at someone else’s nice car. Admire it, it’s cool to show off a hot girlfriend like just like it’s cool to show off your nice car. You can look but just because you like it doesn’t mean you can drive the car lol. There’s no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:01 PM
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Not every girl wants commitment. It is a problem for the ones who want something serious but they’d rather be enjoying getting laid than bored at home. And it’s definitely a complement. Women are shallow too, they like sex too lol we’re animals. It’s a huge confident boost to have someone you’re attracted to think you’re sexually attractive too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:52 PM
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You get what you give. How do you spend your time? Are you interesting? What do you have in common? How’d you meet? People don’t just pop into your bedroom, are you putting yourself out there? What do you have to offer this person that when they wake up they think I can’t wait to hear from ____ today?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:47 PM
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And I’ll pay 50 lol, I don’t make bank either, invest in the right things. If you don’t care you’re at where you’re at then that’s cool. But if you decide maybe it’d be more enjoyable to chill with and have sex with, invest in a haircut. It’s like makeup for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:37 PM
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if you don’t like where you are you have to change what you’re doing because it isn’t working. Some people get lucky and don’t have to try. It’s easy to list reasons of what’s wrong with society. You can’t show up to work and expect a raise. Work for it. Or don’t. Sip mt dew all day but nothings gonna change
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:32 PM
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Drink water not soda, there’s your free skincare start. Pay at least $20 for a haircut. Its the easiest way to flatter your face. If you can grow a beard, do it in a clean way. A beard is literally makeup for guys. It breaks up your face. Exercise. That’ll lead to more water which leads to cleaner skin. It’s just a matter of trying. You get what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:21 PM
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