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11

I'm going to bet that the men you view as "fit but not muscular" are actually in the gym 4-6 times a week and spend quite a bit of effort on their body. Women have no idea how difficult it is to fill out a 6 foot plus frame with muscle instead of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:07 PM
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I think it's more likely women say those things to men who they already deem physically attractive but are lacking in some other department. Like when women say that the bar is in hell, they only mean that for guys they already deem physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:24 PM
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How dare you hit on me! You're not above 6 feet, and you don't make 6 figures, and you would never be considered for a Love Island season!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:21 PM
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Bingo, thousands of tiktoks by women with millions of views each being utterly flabbergasted and insulted that men they don't deem attractive are trying to match with them on hinge/bumble. They don't consider for a moment that those guys might just be possibly in their same league. Know what most guys do when someone they deem unattractive tries to match with them? Probably makes their hour/day that somebody wanted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:21 PM
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I reckon 90% of the women on here who have issues with fuccbois have an extensive history/ongoing relationships with them. Then they say "I would never" to add validity to their complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:05 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:15 PM
11

And yet she's still single. You can denounce the entirety of the male population for being wrong, or you can recognize that maybe this singular woman's approach to dating is wrong. Which one seems more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:31 PM
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Likely more than half.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:38 AM
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I've seen wives of billionaires willing to cheat with a 10/10 dj playing at their daughters' batmitzvahs. Believe me, looks trump money when it comes to true, carnal desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:06 PM
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Most of the time the woman saying that she is single by choice is really just a woman who can't get a relationship with the man she wants to be with. Bingo. Most women, even those below average, have a fwb that's 3-4 points higher than them on the 1-10 scale (attractive men are willing to lower their standards to sleep with women while having higher standards for dating them seriously), that they would commit to long term in a heartbeat. Those guys won't commit to them though, so these women cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:57 PM
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Women love to assume that they only men who are upset with the dating world right now are inbred incels who have zero success with women. The MORE success I have with women, the more disillusioned I become, because I see that all the stereotypes are true, and women lie through their teeth about what they want. Women will lie up and down about not caring about abs or muscle, but guess who started getting likes out the ass on tinder the moment I put up a shirtless photo at the beach? I've even had…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:46 PM
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Agreed, but we hear women call men "porn sick" all the time whenever they want to justify men not being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:38 PM
3

I agree, however you hear this all the time from women as a way to bring men down. "He's just porn sick" etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:33 PM
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My first husband lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:33 PM
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It's more appealing to them to start with a 10/10 that they can "fix" than a 7/10 that is already maxed out in all areas of life. If they can fix the 10/10 so that he's rich and famous, then she's set. How often does that happen? Very rarely. But, take a walk in NYC. You'll often see 7-8/10 women who are VPs at banks with an "artist" bf that's a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:17 PM
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No, these women want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:11 PM
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Certainly, I'm talking about extremes though. A 10/10 dude who is unemployed and poor will beat out a 7/10 millionaire 9 times out of 10 with women 18-45.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:55 PM
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I disagree. I've seen a 10/10 dude who is a part-time dj for barmitzvahs who lives in a basement in his parents' house pull VPs at banks, wives of billionaires, etc... despite being poor as hell and dumb as a pile of bricks. These women literally fall in love with him in the first night and risk it all just to spend time with him. You're vastly underestimating how important looks are in comparison to literally everything else. This is coming from a decently good looking, 6'3 dude who makes a mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:46 PM
10

You're ignoring the halo effect. Significantly less game is needed, and the threshold to "fucking it up" is significantly higher, if you give her that "tingly feeling".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:48 PM
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Bingo. Even if I match with a girl that is ridiculously attractive and my type, if I get the impression they aren't putting in any effort into the conversation, EVEN IF they agree to a date, I usually let them know that I have a rule not to go on dates with women who aren't excited to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:47 PM
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Based on the way you talk here, I don't think the guys you're dating are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:59 PM
14

Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:18 PM
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Yup, that sink in your stomach when you realize what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:56 PM
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This guy didn't graduate college. I've seen women who are blue-pilled, feminist, have ivy-league educations, a history of dating only CEOs, claim that looks don't matter, etc... turn into freshman girls trying to screw the star QB around this guy. Their voices change, their style changes, and they even dumb themselves down to try to attract him. You want to know what embarrassment feels like? Try being this dude's friend and have a girl's best friend invite you out/figure out your plans just so …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:15 PM
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My friend is a very small-time underwear model that DJs on the side. This guy looks like a better looking version of Jensen Ackles. He lives with his parents in a basement in Brooklyn. The things I've seen women do from IHOP waitresses to VPs at major banks to women married to very powerful men just to be fucked by this guy is insane. You ever see a really beautiful girl at a bar or club have guys line up to talk to them? It's rare but it happens. This dude had the most beautiful girls lining up…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:10 PM
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Sounds a lot like copium from a woman that's been run through/in the process of being run through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:22 PM
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They lost their hair because they run olympian level steroid cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:06 PM
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Please. I never go on dates with women I find nudes of online. Would be a waste of time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:35 PM
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Also wouldn't mind hair and eye color or other physical features. Like, imagine an app where you can vote on whether or not a match has big boobs or a big ass, and then filter based on that once enough men have voted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:31 AM
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I think it's a little messed up to assume that just because they aren't rich they are automatically gold-diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:58 AM
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You're right, at least with the AI thing we are seeing often what they posted themselves.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 11:38 PM
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There are thousands of subreddits dedicated to posting your nudes that require user verification. 9/10 of these have their face on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:22 PM
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I think onlyfans and posting nudes on places like reddit are more common than people are willing to admit/know about. Nothing wrong with it, just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:16 PM
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Appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:15 PM
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I get about 10 matches a day. If the talking goes well and we want to set up a date, I usually run the algo then. If I get matches that look legit, I just unmatch and don't bother letting them know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:13 PM
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Agreed that they are much higher, but I don't think that excludes the need to make sure I'm not going on a date with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:06 PM
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I don't want to date a rich woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:05 PM
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I actually don't like dating in my social circle. Mostly look for more down to earth women rather than the socialites that run in my circles in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:00 PM
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Like running a background check on me for their own safety? Yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:58 PM
7

Something tells me I wouldn't swipe right on you regardless so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:53 PM
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I used sex worked because that's the correct vernacular they use to describe themselves, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:51 PM
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It's a 2 minute search and allows me to filter out women who post nudes online. It's not an invasion of privacy if they posted it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:50 PM
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I'm a wealthy dude in my early 30s living in NYC, spending that much on the first few dates is normal in a city where a normal grubhub order for subway can cost $35. Online dating isn't for me because I spend money on dates, do online checks for the women I want to go on dates with, and my only alternative is arranged marriages? Seems a bit of a leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:48 PM
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I feel like you might be projecting a bit. Never called these women anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:46 PM
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I guess it depends. If she's brought up posting me on Are we dating the same guy facebook groups or doing a criminal background check on me, I would feel comfortable saying I put her through my own checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:43 PM
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I suppose it's easier for women to say that when the stakes for a first few dates don't involve them spending sometimes hundreds of dollars on meals and drinks. I would rather save that money and time on someone who doesn't have their nudes plastered all over the internet, especially if I'm dating with intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:42 PM
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I'm a hypocrite because I watch porn but won't date/marry and have kids with a pornstar. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:41 PM
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Not allegations if I keep my findings private and simply use it to inform my decision to not go on dates with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:39 PM
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So because there's more of a demand for her nudes than mine, I should be okay with dating these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:35 PM
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I think background checks for criminal records are fairly normal and often used by women for safety purposes. I've had it done on me a few times and understand the need for it after some horror stories I've heard from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:33 PM
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If I posted my dick pics with my face online for attention or money, I certainly might change my standard for accepting that in a partner. But I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:28 PM
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Wouldn't they be happier if they found a man who shared their same views? I mean, best of luck to them. The sad reality is the number of women who post content like this vastly outnumbers the number of men okay with it. And when you consider not just the men okay with it, but the number of men okay with it that meet these women's standards? We are probably talking about a few hundred to a few thousand guys in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:27 PM
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So I date a woman for a while, develop feelings for her, invest time and money, and then find out she's a sex worker or used to be? Or just posts nudes on reddit for people to give her attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:25 PM
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Never come across it. As far as I can tell, it's posted by the person on verified profiles on reddit, onlyfans (and yes, your onlyfans isnt protected by some magic algorithm from data scraping), chaterbate, or straight up porn with watermarks/lighting/a pornstar name/etc... I think the websites I use specifically avoid amateur websites for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:24 PM
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Do you ask every guy you go on a date with if he's comfortable with you screening his social media, his public criminal record, whether or not he's posted on facebook AWDTSG groups, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:17 PM
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I also look up criminal records too if they are publicly available. Saw one girl had 2 DUIs and assaulted a police officer. One of her prompts was about going to church on Sundays. You can never be too careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:16 PM
9

What about if they post on "Are we dating the same guy?" facebook groups asking for tea on you in front of 10's of thousands of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:13 PM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:12 PM
12

So because I've watched porn I have to be okay with dating a porn star, or I'm a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:12 PM
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I'm dating with the intention of marrying someone. If they've posted content online, I think it's reasonable to want to know that. I also check to see if they have a criminal record. This information is publicly available and 99% of the time posted by the person themselves. You can call me controlling, autistic, etc... but I see this as less invasive than using "Are we dating the same guy" facebook guys that women use to vet partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:11 PM
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"Unimpressive career" Girl, you probably work at IHOP with a communications degree from a community college and think you deserve some VP at a bank. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:30 PM
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bang her out of spite to raise her bodycount and increase the likelihood that she will need to lie about her past when she's ready to settle down with a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:12 PM
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I feel ya man. I went hard into looksmaxxing after something similar happened to me. Heard too many stories about my gf at the time fucking random dudes on beaches, sucking them off in cars, fucking dudes on vacations and take polaroid porn photos with them... all from a girl who gave me head maybe 5 times, never to completion, and not only refused to exchange nudes but also refused to even sext with me. Breaking point was when she told me a story about her and her friend sexting a dude together…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:07 PM
1

"I dont eat pussy man, that shit's gay"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:50 PM
2

Depends, does he eat pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:21 PM
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When you were that age, were you only dating men your own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:53 PM
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Why is that your problem to worry about that? I have a feeling these older women worrying about such things are less altruistic than they think of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:49 PM
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Hey, in just a few years ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:44 PM
10

Yes, I would say between 5-10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:27 PM
32

There's maybe 1-5% of men that can do that. Whereas maybe 80% of women can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:49 PM
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Women who are "seeking" peace are still hooking up with men, have multiple fwb, and multiple men on their "potential" roster trying to get with them that they know they can get with. "Peace" for them means peace of mind knowing they have options, and then choosing not to have a long term bf. Women define "single" very different from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:40 PM
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Because male desire for younger women is still reflective of the bitter and less physically attractive state of ALL women, even lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:02 PM
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So all a young woman has to offer is her body? Seems sexist. A young woman who is an adult and has been for, say, 5 years at the age of 23 has no agency, life experience, or self-awareness and will be easily manipulated by a 30-35 year old dude? Seems sexist. If we are doing truthful hot-takes, how about this one: The "concern" older women have for these supposed dewey eyed, mentally challenged (as you seem to describe them) younger women isn't coming from a place of altruism, it's coming from a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:57 PM
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I'm asking why the state of sex has changed to this, while being accepting of the fact that it has changed to this over the past few years regardless of how vanilla I am by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:35 PM
2

Okay, but you said you've been dating your boyfriend for over two years and was friends with him for over two years before dating... so call it 5 years of knowing current bf? ...But you had a relationship with the now ex-bf at 24 and you are currently 27? Help me with the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:36 PM
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So, the partner that was a friend for two years before you dated him, did you have significant others during that friendship period? How did they feel about this friend that you told them not to worry about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:44 PM
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You wax poetic quite often in your comments about having male friends and it not being an issue because you've never been attracted to or slept with them. But then you go on to admit that your bf/exes were friends with you first. Do you see the issue many men might have with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:39 PM
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Sex to me is a key factor in developing those feelings. There's no "waiting for emotions" before sex. The emotions don't properly develop and escalate in a healthy way if sex is off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:08 PM
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Remarkably easy, actually, but that's because I'm one of the guys actually benefiting from the new paradigm. Doesn't make my point any less valid. If however, you have some sort of source from the past 5 years, I would love to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:43 PM
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All before dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:53 PM
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I guess you could call me a chad if that makes you feel better. I'm just a dude who has some success with women and I'm attracted to them at various levels. I'm not saying what they did was wrong, and I think icks are in and of themselves irrational, but... so is attraction. I wish I could choose who I found attractive and who I fall in love with, life would be a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:46 PM
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That's fair, but sleeping with someone post sex involves a level of intimacy and trust that goes beyond the physical. I can definitely find someone attractive enough to have sex with them, but if I don't vibe with their personality, or get the feeling that I wouldn't feel safe with them being alone in my apartment as I sleep, then I will politely call them an uber and walk them to it. Sounds weird to have that standard for someone I had my penis inside of just an hour before, but it's a real wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:44 PM
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it's not that weird to appreciate the stink of healthy people you're attracted to. That's exactly my point, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:53 PM
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There's honestly very few things less attractive in the world than someone who is mean to their parents for the "cool" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:47 PM
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Welcome to 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:49 PM
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A recovering drug addict chose recovery over addiction. An aging woman didn't choose to age and have her options limited, she settles for that reality grudgingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:37 AM
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I've done exactly that in several places throughout the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:17 AM
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I don't bring it up casually, it's usually part of a much larger discussion when we are having the "exclusive" talk and developing feelings. Like, "we are serious about potentially dating, so let's be exclusive... also, do you have a history of cheating, are you still close with any ex, hang out with fwb, helped someone else cheat", etc... usually N count comes up naturally in such a discussion. It's never been a dealbreaker for me with the exception of when I was 26 talking to a 22 year old who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:59 PM
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Finally, someone with an actual example. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:51 PM
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I think the majority as saying that they wouldn't tell their partner, and break up with them if asked (notice how these comments saying this don't reveal the number more often than not). My guess is these are the women who would lie if they actually snag a guy that they really like and don't want to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:30 PM
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Mine is 29 and I'm 33 years old and I've been sexually active for a little over 20 years. I'm always honest about it. I don't care about N counts in my partners (mine is kind of high for my age bracket, but those experiences have never stopped me from being head over heels in love with someone and 100% faithful to them, so why should I assume it changes how someone else can experience that same love?), just the lying regarding it, especially since I don't care and communicate as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:11 PM
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None! haha. I still know most of the women, and they are all either happily single, happily married, or in LTR - all ranging from 23-40 years old as of right now. Some have kids, others don't, none of them are mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:09 PM
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Oh we broke up for myriad other reasons, mostly associated with infidelity, lying, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:07 PM
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Same. Like, I won't date someone with a history of cheating. But I'll sleep with someone who has cheated before, so long as they aren't in a relationship and using me to cheat. Although I suppose that's hard to ever know if you're being used in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:33 PM
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Yea, I've never cared to ask a ONS and those aren't the girls I would consider dating anyways and I'll likely never see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:23 PM
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I've been in 3 LTR, and had years of not having sex in between. Lost my virginity at 12 in kind of an alarming way. 29 partners in my early 30's as a guy is normal, I think, for men with successful careers who aren't hideous and have been active in the dating scene. Could be wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:57 PM
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church
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:52 PM
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mi'lord
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:48 PM
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Agreed - in my circle of friends it's understood that this discussion happens fairly early on. I personally don't mind the number so long as it's not something crazy like 50 when she's 25. I care more about a history of cheating, fwb that are still best friends, etc... I would rather know those things before or during the "are we exclusive" talk as feelings are starting to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:46 PM
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Damn, if this is in the realm of preposterous and fantasy for you, you must either have very few friends or ones that aren't sexually active. Nothing about what I'm saying is weird or uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:42 PM
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Sounds like you need to socialize with people more. This is just one of many excuses people have when fiddling with their body count. I've had guy friends say they don't count girls they think are fat or below a certain rating, like 5/10. If you honestly think the above claims are internet lies, you need to go outside and touch grass brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:36 PM
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k if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:33 PM
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Oh yea, in the US many groups of girl friends will travel together to other cities just to have judgement free experiences with strangers. Hence the whole "hot girl trips" and "hot girl summer" vacations to miami, nashville, ski resorts, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:28 PM
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Mine is 29, and I'm very honest about it. I've been sexually active for almost 20 years though. I'm not ashamed of my number, nor do I think anybody should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:25 PM
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I mean, you go to Nashville for the weekend with your friends and fuck a random person, fairly easy to hide. Forget the friends, many people solo travel and can hide numbers that way. I know people who say one night stands don't count, especially if they are out of country. Me personally? I don't care how many people you've slept with just so long as you're clean, never cheated, aren't close friends with them anymore, and don't needlessly lie about it. I don't bother asking, so it's always weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:24 PM
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