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| 1 | Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive?I live in France and I can tell you that 179cm is more than enough to get girls here, I'm 167cm and never had any issues, and I would say that most people are around 175cm regardless of the statistics, don't worry about your shoes ! | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | I find myself overthinking the second date after a good first date, is this common?I like the second date to arrive fast, like 3 or 4 days after the first one. Like the first one on a wednesday, bars are usually more calm during the week, making the date more intimate. Second date during the week end, ideally a fun activity on saturday, on second dates I tried bowling, canyoning, hiking, kayak, everything worked quite well, and if she doesn't want to pursue at least I had legit fun. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about getting recognized at your local date spotIt doesn't matter what the bartender thinks, they are probably used to not interfers in customers intimacy, you can even sympatize with her as you're a regular and use it as a social proof, she could even wingwoman you, could be fun for her and break her routine. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 31 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.Well, you may have fucked up, but I think you did great for a first approach, keep approaching and everything will seem more natural. As a side note I'd like to have some inputs about aknowledging the friends, what do you think of something like "You all are beautiful, but you (the targeted girl) especially are gorgeous" ? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all say to a girl you match with on the apps but she doesn't reply to that initial messageForget about it, they have hundreds of messages, so she may not have seen yours, or can't respond to anyone, or whatever, just move on. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 08:40 AM |
| 2 | How to daygame when the universe is against you?Always be in a good day then. That's something you can work on, having a bad day, bad thought, bad whatever, put it aside, thinking about it while walking on the street probably won't change the situation anyway, so stop thinking about it. There's also a thing I'm applying sometimes that I've learnt from my boss, he told me that before every meeting he has to talk on he did some power poses in front of the mirror, saying things like "you're the best", "everyone loves you" and he would appear muc… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | is there something wrong with you if you are not into BDSM?Well, different people have different desires, there's nothing wrong with you for not being into that. Thing is, when someone has experienced bdsm, or any other "unusual" practices and really enjoyed it, it might be hard for them to come back to conventional sex only and enjoy it as much, so it's worth discussing about. Masculinity is quite relative, each persons have their own interpretation of it, for some it means accepting who you are and having no fear of being judged nor seeking for accept… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:51 AM |
| 12 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.OnLine Dating I guess | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | what does a sub male do in a relationship?You have this subreddit that could help you r/BDSMcommunity Also The New Bottoming book has all you need to know to start as a sub. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:53 PM |
| 15 | Fuck me baby ?? CringeNot really, sex life can be completely decoupled from the rest of your love life, as an example, there could be couples that are loving, equals, respectful in their day to day life, but during sex they go full bdsm, dom/sub (even though bdsm stuff implies respect and trust, but that's another subject), that makes the moment even more intense and awaited. Sex time his the moment where you are supposed to let yourself go without fearing any judgement from your partner. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | What is your go to first date outfit and appearance?Color is dark blue, cut is slim, same cut for the shirt, but this depends a lot on your morphology. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:14 PM |
| 3 | What is your go to first date outfit and appearance?For me it's black T-shirt, black watch, dark blue jeans and yellowish Timberland boots. Can swap the black t-shirt with a white one, I also have golden glasses if I don't have my contact lenses. Simple, yet effective in a lot of situations/activities. EDIT: I'm a white/mediterranean guy, only specifying it because clothes color also depends on skin tones. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.Actually there could be multiple reasons behind it, attractivity is relative. A 10 for the majority of girls could be seen as a 6 for some. She could also think that the guy is out of her league so why bother. Or maybe his bio wasn't convincing to her. I've met a few girls that are what we call sapiosexual, meaning they're sexually attracted mostly by the intelligence of the guy, so they first filter on the bio if there's typos -> left if it is not original -> left if there is too much emojis ->… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:42 AM |
| 7 | The “Age knowing” thingIf your guess is above her age, you could slip a "well, what about I offer you a drink/ice cream/whatever so you could forgive me ?" with eye contact + smirk, never tried it but this could lead to some interesting reactions. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:36 PM |
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