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| 1 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle itHe had no chin before. Now he has average jaw/chin with great height and hair plus decent facial proportions. Of course there is difference. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle itYou went from 4/10 guy to 6/10 now, no wonder girls like you more now. Take it easy, at some point you will get used to it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorYou just made up bs to go in hand with your 'arguments'. You behave like teenage mentally ill girl while thinking you are a man. That's pathetic. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:30 AM |
| -2 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to beAnd then people like you mass cold approach women and act like thats not needy behaviour. You guys are so blinded by your cult, thats sad. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 12:55 AM |
| 5 | 'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye''She was making eye contact with you from a far and then rejected you when you approached her? Damn, I thought girl making eye contact with you, means attraction. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with other menExactly. Other men dont care about you. I bet he is that weirdo talking about girls 24/7 and then crying that other men dont praise him. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with other menBut he is making clown of himself just to brag to his friends because he is a little bitch who needs other men to see how good with women he is. How can he not talk about girls when its his plan? | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?Havent seen them holding hans or kissing so you might be right. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?Just me but when I see girl that I dont find attractive, I will look at her for like 0.5s and she doesnt exists to me anymore. Wont ever look at her again. If I find girl attractive I will look at her here and there trying to establish eye contact. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?What if you catch girl staring at you multiple times but there is no time for smile. I look at girl, she was looking at me and right when I made eye contact, she looks away. Repeated 5 times in a place where there is no way of approaching. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?I always thought that but after 10/10 looking girl was making eye contact multiple times, playing with hair while smiling at me with her boyfriend standing next to her, I don't know anymore. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 11 | Women stare while men tend to peekReally? I see men staring like creeps and women glancing multiple times or staring when you don't look. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 11:22 AM |
| 3 | I asked this a few months back but how can I keep a woman’s interest?If you will say no, she has 20 other guys who will say yes. You live in imaginary world of PUA. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLYou make good money, you are hitting the gym and you still wonder shy attractive girls dont find you as a catch. I wonder why. Maybe because you are ugly/average looking and gtm has nothing to it? Hmm, keep coping that you can compesate for you ugly face sith a gym. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Dating is always summarised to looks, no matter whatJust pay someone to be with you. Great argument. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Dating is always summarised to looks, no matter whatYou guys are crazy. You are acting like you have looks or game and there is no other way. Funniest thing is that GL guys have NATURAL GAME since they were teenagers. Girls giving them attention and bombarding them with dates for years while you are reading books about PUA. You are just bunch of copers that life is fair. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Girl at GymWhat about girls who look at men multiple times? Few days ago I had situation where girl was looking at me, I looked back at her and she looked away. 20 seconds later I look at her again and she looks down again but this time I kept looking at her and 2 seconds later she looks at me again, keeps eye contact for a second and looks down with a shy smile. You are a woman so maybe you will know better. Just like op, I am average looking man and she was gorgeous. Not often beautiful girls give me suc… | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Tips to look more approachable?Same thing here. Tried pretty much everything and the only thing that 'works' is going out with friends. When I am out with friends and I am in a good vibe, girls suddenly smile at me and people seem more opened. Thats sad honestly, but thats how it is. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Stop listening to these losers who know nothing about hair loss. Get on finasteride and get hair transplant if you are far gone. You said you make 200k$ per year so HT cost is nothing for you. Thank me later. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:00 PM |
| 4 | Giancarlo Esposito's power stare is great for scanning.Sad what lack of pussy does to man. You are making up bs. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls just stare at me when I smile at them ?I had situations where cute girl smiled at me and I was standing there, staring at her without smile. Maybe thats brain lag/she is playing games or something? You have girls smiling back so stick to them. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I fix having the male equivalent of a ‘resting bitch face’?I have resting dick face too. I tried to force myself to smile, but then I look like psycho and I feel bad about forcing myself to smile. I guess it is what it is and you cant change that. When I am with friends, in a good mood it changes tho. Resting dick face is my 'neutral' expression. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | So I want opinionsWas she making eye contact with you? Maybe she was looking at something behind you. It happened to me plenty of times when girl was turning around and when I looked at her, she was looking behind me or at someone behind me. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it important for you to look for signs that she likes you before making a move?True, but ioi's are so random. Girl is turning around, looking at me 20 times in 5 minutes (real number) then old man comes and she does the same thing to him. If that old man didnt come, I would think she was interested but now it seems like she is weird, she prefers short, bald man in his 50s or she does that to every man she sees. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it important for you to look for signs that she likes you before making a move?Either my peripheral vision suck or it is wishful thinking. Just because you think/feel someone is looking at you, it doesnt mean they are looking at you. How many times I thought girl was looking at me, I turned around to look at her and she was just looking in my direction (no eye contact). I wont even talk about how girls are staring at you, then at guy behind you and then at old man 5 meters away. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | A genuine smile can help you big time.Smiling is huge, but when stares at you for 2+ seconds. There are girls who will look at you 20 times and if you catch her, she looks away so there is no time to smile. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Women are checking out men all the timeThats fair. I always thought that if a random girl stares at me for 1+ seconds/looking at me multiple times/smiling at me, then she wants me to approach, but when I looked around me, girls doing it to old/young/short/tall/bald men. Either it means nothing or girls like old men. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are checking out men all the timeBut if she was behaving the same way to you, you would say she finds you attractive? If that man was 40 years old then what? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:51 PM |
| -3 | Women are checking out men all the timeI agree BUT girls are checking out even old men. Just because you see girl checking you out, it doesnt mean she wants you to approach her (unless she wanted that 60 years old man she was staring at before she noticed you). She stares at you and then she will stare at your father standing next you. It happens everywhere I go. Just yesterday I saw group of teenage girls staring/giggling at old man while giving no eye contact to boys their age. Please dont tell me that teenage girls prefer 60 years… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:16 PM |
| 41 | She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?Uhh, it would be nice to be 14 years old again. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you get checked out when walking out in public?Average men think that if a girl glanced in their direction, they are interested. Eye contact for 0.5s? She wants the D without question. I see girls staring/glancing multiple times at men everywhere I go and it means nothing. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approach in the mallCrazy stuff, never happened to me. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I pussied out AGAIN and I won't allow it to happen againWhat do you mean by strong eye contact | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:36 AM |
| 6 | easy ways to be more attractiveI love that. About 99.9% of young guys are taking showers daily (I dont remember any young guy smelling bad other than in the gym) yet still they have to add it. You cant take person like that seriously. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have their guard up around me? Especially the attractive onesWhat? They are friendly to short guys because short guys don't approach and mean to tall guys because they dont want to be approached? I wonder what kind of proccesses are talking place in your brain to come out with such a bs response. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:32 PM |
| 2 | You often hear you have to hold eye contact with a girl and smile, but I never find girls looking at meI am average looking guy and girls sometimes stare at me, it is rare, but it happens. Most girls won't even look at me or will give me 0.5-1s glance so there is no time for smile. Girls are staring/checking out guys. Next time you are out and about, just look what girls do. Most of them will be busy checking out guys. Atleast that's what happens where I live (europe). I realized that group of girls are often staring at me. When there is group of girls, vast majority of times atleast one or two g… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How do I seduce my gym crush?Establish eye contact and smile at him. Do it few times. If he wont approach you, then ask him about some excersise. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 17 | Would you approach two women at a coffee shop talking to each other loudly, laughing..Smiling and looking at you. They're both cute and how would chose?I thought I am overthinking every little thing, but you beat me by far. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?From your reply you seem like dumb person. It might be hard for you to understand (or you are just pathetic manipulator) but average person might get mad at some point. You acting like he is mad 24/7 and thats why he gets no results, is just pathetic. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itBars not, clubs not, OLD not, gym not. It really seems like social circle is the best way. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | do you think being tall actually gets you girls?Most I get is prolonged eye contact or multiple glances. Random girl smiling at me first is rare in my case. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | do you think being tall actually gets you girls?Oh, ok. What are IOI's your friend gets | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:05 AM |
| 3 | do you think being tall actually gets you girls?What you mean by IOI's | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first nightOf course it is made up. 9/10 milf approached him, bartender joined, he has huge dick. He should write on /r harlequins or something. Great inagination honestly. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected more times than I can count tonight and I feel like a billion bucks.It is adrenaline. You will feel great for few hours and then sad realization will come to you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 09:57 AM |
| 2 | I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends presentYou think that "I have a boyfriend" part was soft rejection or girls just stare and smile at random guys even tho they have boyfriends? It is serious question. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | The number of incels in this sub is outstanding (you are the reason for your own failure) + common questions answeredLong story short: you were incel in your country so you fled to 3rd country, you pay young women to spend time with you and you act like seduction master. Man, if you want to see that mythical, pathetic incel, just look in the mirror. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 11:02 AM |
| 9 | Frustrated about girls that are interested but won’t bring you home?This, op is coping. By his logic, if he wasnt desirable, she would bang him there | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Wait, you said you are invisible to girls and then you say that random girls are giving you prolonged eye contact. If it is true, smile at them after 1-2 seconds of eye contact. Staring at them wont work. Some of those girls will smile back, some will even approach you. You have to do it. Start now and come back with your results. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 32 | Experience of giving my number to a girlYeah, groups of girls are the worst. From my experience, most of girls who stare/smile at me are in groups, but it is just to hard approach whole group. Good luck, maybe she will call you. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Getting rejection after rejectionHe is just cult member. If something is out of his small box, he has same generic NPC like responses. He cant even answer the question. These guys are crazy, dont listen to them. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | did my first approach todayIs 2 seconds eye contact with random girls that uncommon? I often see girls giving me prolonged eye contact but never rhought anyhing by that. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who have had success with the woman you’re on a date with inviting you back to her placeAsking if she wants a drink is treating her like goddess too. You people are crazy. If someone is simping : 'oh he treats her like goddess, no wonder he gets no where'. When you are simping : 'you see? I am different than other guys'. Nowadays this sub is cult full of delusional idiots. And yes, I know that story is made up. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:08 AM |
| 5 | How can you go from being a lady magnet one week to being invisible the next week?I noticed same thing years ago and I still don't know the reason. For example, whole week had no luck with women. One day I went to grocery store for some things, that 10/10 girl was eyeing me and then she approached me with 'hi and we started talking'. Average girls don't care that I existed and that beautiful girl is into me to the point of approaching me. Don't listen to these idiots talking about "muh you are needy" "muh, women feel you are that or that". Just take chances you have got, that… | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?They are cultists. They have few rules and zero rational thinking. If you tell them you are approaching girls without any success, they will call you desperate and thats why you get no girls. If you are not approaching, you are not confident and that's why you get no girls. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?OP said that average guy don't need PUA/dating coaches bs (I agree with him 100%) and you don't reply to that. You turn everything around and still defend that bs. Crazy how deep into that PUA cult people like you are. You can't even read because of that. You even made up bs about OP being desperate, negative vibe shiit. You behave like a girl. I bet you get plenty of girls behaving like one | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:49 PM |
| 4 | I’m not attracted to women who aren’t really hot how can i fix this?You are retarded. You dont have to sleep with girls to have standards. You talking about ego is another bs. Go to mirror and you will see the person you write about plus really low IQ and zero awareness. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:03 AM |
| 0 | I think I have less women than I deserveI like how you cultists say "fake it until you make it" but then you say "you are arrogant" if it serves you. Pathetic | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Tf is wrong with women? Am I doing something wrong?You are autistic or socially inept. If she was interested in op, she would atleast make eye contact with him. She havent seen him/is playing stupid games or ignores him. Stop with your bs man. Op did nothing wrong. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a woman holds eye contact? Is it a bad sign for guy?From experience, smile at her after about 2 seconds of eye contact. If she smiles back, then you can approach. Don't stare at her for 10 seconds. She will think that you are creep and she won't look at you anymore. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 38 | My friend is bald since he was 17, short, and does better with women that anybody I knowOh, that mytical bald, short and ugly friend who bangs models everyday. All of us heard about him but none of us met him. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Cold Approach is BrutalTry approaching girls who give you prolonged eye contact/glance at you multiple times. Your success will sky rocket. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 05:05 PM |
| -5 | Cold approach "rejections" can actually be a win-win for both partiesNo, you don't have to be rejected left and right to be successful. You just fetishize rejection. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 12:57 AM |
| 0 | All of my childhood bullies are dating all of my crushesImagine using incel as argument. Funny how it comes from incels themselves usually. Read definition and then look in the mirror. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:19 PM |
| -4 | Cold approach "rejections" can actually be a win-win for both partiesThey are just coping. Normal people feel bad after being rejected. It is normal human behaviour and no sane person will do it over and over again. You can read plenty of stories of guys who thought they were attractive, then they started cold approaching, got rejected plenty of times and got depressed. There is no virtue in being rejected, you must be psycho to think there is. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Strategies for picking up younger womenWhat do you mean by checking out | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 4 | For guys who are in 40-60s, are you guys still getting laid?I am 28 too. Taking care of myself since I was 19. Girls are still interested in me, but at 21-26 it was crazy. Girls would approach me. I dont get it anymore. Dont listen to lies and take action now. Every year you will look older and worse. Dont wait for your 'peak' at 45 or whatever. If you hit the gym, you are in your peak now. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:12 PM |
| 0 | If girls see that other girls they know/associate with are interested in a guy then they themselves will be interested in that guy (not always but I’d say frequently) even if they initially did not think that guy was attractive themselvesShe havent even look in your eyes and you think she is attracted to you. Its nice to think that but thats wishful thinking. Even if she glanced at you multiple times, it means nothing. Assumptions and wishful thinking imo. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | tips on how to have a threesome?He is making that shit up. Such a shame, that subreddit turned into delusions lately. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Have you met like extremely handsome guys who could walk into any place, literally any place, and girls would be all over them? Not just bars..You act like those handsome guys arent charismatic and just because you are, you are getting adventage on them. You are wrong. They are, you have to fake it. You are delusional and not smart. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?Oh no, he dared to point out weird girl's behaviour so I will dismiss everything he said and call him incel. White knights like you are just pathetic. You will literally make up whole new story to defend women. Funny thing is that people like you are incels in most cases. I bet you are one of them. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 12:23 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?You are looking at guy multiple times and you wonder if he thinks you are interested? Just ignore him completely and act like he doesnt exist or enjoy him approaching you. You are not careful as you stated. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?If you are older than 16, it is pure cringe to brag about having sex. I dont get how adult men talk about banging girls. Men who have the most sex, never talk about it. You can see how girls behave around them and you just know. On the other hand when guy is talking about doing something that 95% of men do, it looks like virgin who just had his first time and is bragging? You want to make them jealous or impress them? You look like loser to them and then you are crying that they are not patting … | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do people insist men who have negative attitudes and misogynistic beliefs can't find women because of it when there are so many women who fall for disrespectful and bad men?Women say that bs so they dont look shallow. Men say that bs because they have no dating life and were watching to many disney movies. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 46 | how to get a chick to suck your dick without talking?Wrong subreddit, you should try lucid dreaming. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Advice on cold approachingYou are either model who is getting approached and acting like you are working hard for your 'vibe' when in reality its all your looks OR you are mental living in imaginary world. I keen to second option. 99 percent of guys have to approach girls to get anything. If we would sit and wait for girls to feel our 'vibe' we would die alone. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:14 AM |
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