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no is yes if you keep asking It often is. I've had countless girls tell me that sex is off the table when she comes back to mine on the first night. I've yet to not have sex with one of these.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:37 AM
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Well yes, absolutely do not tell her you like her, you haven't been on a date with her yet, you can't have decided that, you might like the idea of her, but this is your imagination. Tell her you want to get to know her move over drinks. Throw the word 'date' in at some point if you want to make sure there is no miscommunication.
/r/seduction02/10/20 01:40 AM
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No, if for no other reason than the person will never really provide you with closure. Sometimes I have girls go cold and they'll never get another message from me unless they send one first. I could ask them why, but they would feed me some bullshit, and the chance of messaging again are 0, you lose on all fronts.
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:16 AM
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The simple fact is if she cared, she would message you. If she does care, the only way to allow her to realise that is to not message again. If she doesn't care, well you'll never hear from her again anyway. The only way to win is to not play.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:31 AM
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Nah not too harsh, he pretty much nails op on every single mistake. No point in humouring him and using flowery language. If he acts this needy and clueless with women, he will have many more failures, he can be thankful they were all very well highlighted.
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:57 AM
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I was hoping you'd give me some advice about going slowly Don't. Escalation mixed with fractionation, always. If she likes you, this isn't going to turn her off. If she doesn't like you, you'll find out quickly enough. This way you also waste minimal time. One thing you really need to understand about women is that what they say is not what they mean. When she says she wants to take it slow, she means her attraction is very low. If you don't want to mess this up, you need to raise attraction, th…
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:08 PM
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she was returning books Your response can just be "Let me guess, 50 shades of grey". If she is at all interested in you, this will get a positive response. She is leaving you on read because the questions you ask are just very boring and elicit zero emotional response from her. From that she is presuming you will be a boring person.
/r/seduction26/08/20 09:03 PM
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I've had a lot of women tell me they would've loved if I brought flowers on a first date. When I've asked how it's gone for the guys who brought her flowers on the first date she told me they were lovely, when I ask if he slept with her quicker than me, they hesitate and say well we never actually had sex. Moral of the story, women have absolutely no idea what they respond well too.
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:25 AM
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and I don’t want to appear needy The problem is, if you choose to message her again this is exactly what you are doing. At this point you really have to cut all contact, if she messages again, "great to hear from you, how is your schedule looking in the next week?" other than that, she should never be hearing from you again.
/r/seduction18/08/20 01:18 AM
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Sounds like you aren't even getting to the point where women see your dick, so why you have decided that is one of your problems is bizarre. This is just a fabricated issue to give you an excuse to not focus on the things you can change.
/r/seduction16/08/20 10:55 PM
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If it's common courtesy, why doesn't she text you it? The 'norm' is probably to text her. The correct approach is to not text her, women read these things very well, she is going to take any texts as needy, approval seeking and attention seeking (which is exactly what they are in reality). You'd just be giving yourself more work to do on the date.
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:15 PM
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The next day, I texted to tell her I had a good time It's not your place to be texting that. it comes from a place of fear (what if she doesn't know I liker her, she might look for someone else and I might lose her, gotta let her know). From where you are now I do absolutely nothing. You have a date set, you are a man of your word. The only reason you want to contact her is fear of loss, this is your insecurity, by doing any more than you already have you are forcing her to deal with your proble…
/r/seduction11/08/20 09:06 PM
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Ah ok the whole thing is online. I mean it maximises your chances because it is a very confident way to approach her.
/r/seduction30/07/20 12:55 AM
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Ask her in front of the group if you want to maximise your chances. I would probably just give her my number on a piece of paper and say 'you seem interesting, you should give me a message when you feeling like taking your focus off this project'. I think going with the approach you want is way too weak, any guy can do that, it takes zero confidence. Unless she has extremely high attraction already, it would be very surprising to see that go well.
/r/seduction29/07/20 01:56 AM
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So you actively avoid relationships with women who like sex and aren't afraid to hide it? Bizarre mentality, they are often the best/most interesting.
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:26 PM
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Of course don't go interviewer mode, but you should be the one asking the questions and leading the interaction. And her answers are the things that you play off, it allows you to find moments to make suggestive comments and playfully accuse her of things.
/r/seduction25/07/20 12:36 AM
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Yea I mean it's hard starting out and it takes calibration for most people to be able to move things in the direction they want. This just stood out to me though because it's a complete abandonment of the fundamentals. Especially with the age gap you have to be really careful to not fuck up frame. I also wouldn't advise playing the question game until you have at least broken the touch barrier and made some slightly more sexual comments. I've done it too early in dates and it rarely pans out lik…
/r/seduction25/07/20 12:12 AM
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I asked her what she thought of me over text What possessed you to think that was a good idea???
/r/seduction25/07/20 12:00 AM
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Most girls I would ask for number within 5 messages, I would go up to a max of 10. This prevents any problem of struggling to talk to many, you filter out false positives and can take the ones serious that you have the number of and requires relatively little thought. I comment on something or just send some standard opener if nothing to comment on, then look at their reply and try to frame your response in a way that moves towards suggesting you meet, when they respond positively to that you te…
/r/seduction23/07/20 10:01 PM
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but I'm unsure if we're (or rather I) am ready for it. You are making way too big a deal out of it, just look for the moment and go for it, don't force it. I've never been in a relationship like this before, and I don't want to sour anything we have You sat in a car for 2 hours, you don't have anything. If she picks up on this sort of energy you are also never going to have anything with her. if she doesn't respond to the kiss well If she doesn't respond well it's because she isn't in to you. If…
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:55 PM
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My suggestion would be to not do the dinner date thing. How is that supposed to translate into intimacy and sex? Go for drinks, sit next to them somewhere, then you can actually focus on getting somewhere with them. meet girl off an app. have dinner together somewhere nice. she says it was really fun to finally meet. we chat a little bit, flirt a bit. it goes on for a week. then she blocks me, ghosts me, or unfriends me. I think this issue is she perceives you as weak, you probably did nothing t…
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:45 PM
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I mean when I go on a date with them they don't know that. But on the date I think they get an idea from general talk. The situation where it definitely helps are through social connections, meeting friends of friends they generally come in with higher interest. I actually found the opposite in terms of longer term attraction with them though, it was like they set the bar of what sort of person they expected me to be higher, so when I made mistakes attraction went down way more than normal. I co…
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:58 AM
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In my experience, modest wealth helps much less than people say. I'm in my 20s with close to a million and it hasn't particularly helped my success whereas fixing errors definitely has. It definitely helps for a certain subset of girls, and I'm sure if I posted pictures on places like Tinder of me wearing my Rolex or in expensive places they would select for me, but I deliberately don't do that and it doesn't really seem to be an advantage with the girls that I meet.
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:27 AM
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oh bro, how does that even happen?
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:57 AM
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Always ask yourself, if you were Brad Pitt, would her answer be the same? When I get a "busy" response, they get a "let me know when your schedule is more open" and I will never contact them again. Sometimes I hear from them again, mostly not, but them seeing you will walk away and not look back is optimal regardless of whether they are truly busy or not.
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:56 AM
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I’m always vetting and keeping an eye out for incompatibility and red flags That is literally what tests are.
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:46 AM
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That's the point, it's not actually her outlook (or maybe it is, but her saying it has no relevance on whether it is/isn't true), she is just seeing if she can rattle him. He immediately caved and tried to justify it, so she got what she wanted out of it.
/r/seduction14/07/20 10:06 PM
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If I'n being honest I would just approach this completely differently from start to end. Asking to discuss your rating is asking for trouble. It's approval seeking and your putting her on a pedestal. She should be unsure where she stands with you, yet this is putting her above you, now you get an answer like that and you are having to qualify. Asking her if you can call as well is completely bending to her. You aren't leading the interaction at this point, its completely on her terms. After her …
/r/seduction29/06/20 07:35 PM
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Why did it end at making out though is the key point? Personally I found that meeting someone then bringing up sex in text blew up in my face a lot. After a first date their should already be sexual tension, you deflate the mystery by bringing it up like this. If it went well she should already know you sexually want her. You are saying you plan to have sex with her next time you meet with these words. Women want spontaneity, this is the opposite of it.
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:51 PM
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To add to this as well, I think its likely op didn't escalate to sexual talk enough on the date and then tried to do it through text instead, does not give out confident vibes so he needs to be very careful not to make any more mistakes. Although I think he is likely texting way too much as well, also not helping his case.
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:59 AM
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They know what women think they want to hear. They know what they would say to their girl friend in this scenario. Extremely few of them know how a man should seduce a woman though. There is a saying, 'If you want to learn how to fish, ask the fisherman, not the fish'.
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:57 AM
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Yea np, I've been there before, write my whole life story on tinder before I ask for a date. You just have to realise you aren't going to talk a women into meeting you by saying things about yourself. My general approach is no personal questions on tinder, then I ask a few questions on WhatsApp and then secure a date. It also filters out time wasters. If a woman doesn't want to meet, you won't meet. If she does, the only thing that will stop her is you giving her reason not to.
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:53 AM
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Her messaging first is high interest. Her short replies are low interest. You acting like her gay friend is what brought it there. I personally have a rule of I do not send more than 10 messages on tinder. If I don't have her number by then its over. You probably just friend zoned yourself by talking too much. Then when you get to Instagram you doubled down on your mistake and talked too much. Once you have a personal contact avenue you need to transition to date asap. Fire some friendly, flirty…
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:44 AM
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This is absolutely terrible advice. OP absolutely do not even think of doing a single think this man recommends if you want to have any semblance of chance with this girl. "I think" - she likes dominant men, this is just weak needy language. "I'm sorry" - Absolutely no, needy pleaser vibes. "I don't want you to think" - own who you are and what you say, again the only reason he would take this back is to please her, its what he wanted to say, he needs to own it by not referencing it or building …
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:32 AM
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I'd like to do it 'right'. Right is what you want to do. If you want to get in her pants that is right. If you want that and hide it you are going to ruin the attraction. Of course don't force it, but there is pretty much no downside to trying.
/r/seduction18/06/20 02:29 AM
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