ProphetVA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to Get A Girls Number by Prophet from VA		ProphetVA	/r/seduction	08/05/12 07:57 PM
0	[FR] Wingmanship and Closed-off Body Language		ProphetVA	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:30 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	fun and easy way to remove fear of approaching I like this. It's a simple game that has a definite end (so it sort of feels like an FTC) with a promise of something free. It would also work great later on in the set as a precursor to qualifying. Dice or poker chips are cool, but depending on how much money you want to spend on this, you could also also go to those little machines you see at the front of grocery stores and grab some goofy toys there. Or maybe hit a dollar store and get children's party favours like those fake diamond rings or…	/r/seduction	27/08/14 05:25 PM
4	Telling women that you're anxious, nervious, scared etc. This can work if you phrase it right and feels authentic.. As if you're feeling a connection with her and you're not sure why you feel like way. Tell her "I actually feel kind of nervous around you. Why is that?" I think that's one of Mystery's lines. Happy sarging, Prophet	/r/seduction	29/04/14 04:29 PM
1	How to get the girl to choose the date? As everyone else has already said, you MUST be the one to lead. Either invite her out to something you are already doing or just being the alpha male and make a plan. If she's REALLY against something you've planned, she will tell you and you can just do something else (don't get reactive). But otherwise she will just be happy to be out on a date with someone who isn't a puppy-dog and is taking charge for once. Personally, my favourite way is to show the girl my Bucket List and take note of thin…	/r/seduction	25/04/14 06:17 PM
1	Assertiveness vs Neediness I think the divide here is the difference between WANTING her and doing what's necessary to get her but ultimately still being confident and self-fullfilled on the odd chance that she's not interested, and NEEDING to get her because she fulfills something that is lacking in your life. A needy man will beta himself and change his beliefs and actions in the hope of getting her to come around. An assertive man will pursue her with certainty and a strong sense of self.	/r/seduction	24/04/14 04:40 PM
1	How do you transition after a breakup? Hey man, this can be a tough time as your pair-bonds break and you go through the sadness of your relationship ending. What I would suggest first is to just start by going out with your friends and hanging out. If you have PUA friends, great, and if not just go out for some drinks with some buddies and chill. When you're out and having fun, push yourself into opening some sets. Don't focus on closing or getting laid, especially if you're still getting over those feelings for your fiancé. People …	/r/seduction	24/04/14 04:32 PM
3	Help a starter out and test your knowledge of gaming women! If you're just going out and practicing, STOP thinking in terms of "I'm going to talk to that girl because I want to have sex with her, but not with that one so there's no point of approaching." If you're working on defeating your AA and building your game in general, spend the next couple of months without going out with the expectation of sex. The next couple of months should be purely for approaching EVERYBODY. Mixed sets, large groups, unattractive girls. If you ever catch yourself thinking …	/r/seduction	22/04/14 03:20 PM
7	what do you text girls you've just hooked up with the day after? Personally, unless one of us had to leave before the morning, I like to go and grab breakfast with her. If you want to see her again, spend that time building more comfort to demonstrate that you weren't just using her for a one-night-stand. If one of you has to leave, call her later in the afternoon. Real men call the woman the day after (although admittedly you sometimes do have to resort to texting if she's the type that never picks up her phone). Tell her you are very glad to have met her la…	/r/seduction	07/04/14 04:04 PM
3	The number one excuse keeping you from success with women (In my humble opinion) Upvoting for the truth of this. Just open. Someone needs to make a t-shirt for this. The Three Second Rule exists for a reason. Having a solid canned opener helps with this too so you're not constantly trying to figure out what to say and getting trapped in "analysis paralysis".	/r/seduction	07/04/14 04:00 PM
2	Do you guys ever sit there, after a night of going out, and wonder what the fuck did I do wrong? Hey man, I've been there many many times. Dealing with rejection is tough at first, but over time you will develop thicker skin and I PROMISE that things will get easier. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself to pull. I don't think there's a single PUA in the world who pulls EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. Instead of being so hard on yourself for getting rejected, focus on what you can improve. I can think of plenty of times where Mystery and I were sitting in his hotel room - with no girls - and Mys…	/r/seduction	26/02/14 04:24 PM
1	So I feel like every woman will reject me because of my height, and it's irrational as fuck. Neil Strauss is 5'6" and he is one of the best in the world at cold approach pickup because he comes in under the radar and is able to work his magic without intimidating the set. There will always be some who will be more attracted to tall men than shorter men, but that won't necessarily make or break your game if your approach is solid. Simply conveying the attractive parts of your personality can easily overcome this minor obstacle, but there are other physical things you can do to make yours…	/r/seduction	26/02/14 04:12 PM
2	What advice would you give to someone caught in this negative thought cycle: The first thing I would ask is how he will think that other people will see that he's not getting laid. Is he afraid that other people will look at him and be like "Well that guy's clearly a virgin"? In which case all he has to do is clean up his style a bit. Or is he afraid that people will see him not be able to pick up and go home alone? In which case all you have to go is point out that even the greatest PUAs go him alone sometimes. Rather than going out and focusing on "getting laid", which…	/r/seduction	08/05/12 08:03 PM
2	How to be a wingman They should all be covered here: http://venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2498	/r/seduction	05/05/12 07:25 PM
11	How to be a wingman Hey man, here's a barrage of links for you! The original Wing Rules by Mystery: http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24 Being a Wingman: http://www.venusianarts.com/how-to-work-with-your-wingmen/ How to DHV Your Wing: http://www.venusianarts.com/how-to-dhv-your-wing/ And a great little FR I did that shows it all in action! http://www.venusianarts.com/fr-wingmanship-and-closed-off-body-language/	/r/seduction	03/05/12 04:52 PM
5	How do I make more friends? One of the commonly missed keys to building a social circle is to be the guy who introduces everyone to everyone else. Even if you just met some people from group A, introduce them as if they were your good friends when you merge them with group B. Try to remember one interesting detail about the people you meet, so as you introduce them you can intro them. This makes it appear as if you just know everybody, which will drive your social value through the roof as people see you do it over and ove…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 04:49 PM
2	Calling All Ents: How you deal with dropping the bomb that you like drugs. I personally like to qualify girls on whether or not they smoke weed. Usually I bring it up as an off-hand comment during a story, like "so she rolled us a j and we went to this fire-dancing show where..." And then at some point I'll cut the thread and be like "You smoke weed right?" as if it just occurred to me. If you have attraction, some girls will even lie and tell you they do or that "tried it once" to try to impress you. And if she doesn't like it, she gets an IOD because I'm a little les…	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:21 PM
1	How important is it to make the first step? Yes, in 99% of interactions the woman will wait for the man to make the first move. And even before the interaction she will expect the man to approach her. However, as you get better and better at the game and when you have a lot of percieved value (social value, preselection, calibrated peacocking, etc) a particularly confident/drunk/outgoing may approach you first. Usually though, they will still just hover around your group and display subtle invitations that you should approach them anyway.…	/r/seduction	30/04/12 06:00 PM
2	Any advice increasing interactions when you work the typical 8-5? Well props for getting out Thurs-Sat at least! You mentioned your lunch break? Is there a place you can go nearby to open some sets? Like a food court or a particularly busy coffee shop? Is there a busy coffee shop near your home or work that you can stop by in the morning to pop a set or two? What about your commute too and from work? Do you drive or take public transit? Can you take public transit easily? Depending on where you are you can usually get an extra set or two in each way. Also, if …	/r/seduction	30/04/12 05:50 PM