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They'll reconcile it by not replying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:56 PM
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When they agreed to keep it casual. He doesn't owe her a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:48 PM
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They want to have casual sex with the guy. No need to play them. This is true. However, women will inevitably push for commitment with the best man they're fucking and if he refuses, they'll rewrite the narrative to make him into an asshole who tricked her. That's why casual sex/FWB situations with women tend to be temporary and the length of such arrangements is typically contingent on the woman's satisfaction with the situation. Either she convinces him to become official or she finds another …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14925mq/personality_is_a_fucking_meme/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:14 PM
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Don't forget how strong and independent they are as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:00 PM
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You realize that people can look up these studies on human sexual behaviour and still be fine dating. Are the authors of the original study suddenly broken for investigating these topics? Why are you even on this sub then if you don't want to properly debate? Especially in this case where the OP at least provides research on the topic. Don't attack someone's character if you're too lazy to debate their points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:25 PM
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Do you really think the red pill would've picked up so much steam if it didn't actually bring results? As for the comments on providing data, yes, that's something people do when they debate by backing up their claims. It's less disingenuous than you building up a strawman of guys who follow TRP being miserable losers. I'm assuming you haven't even looked at the sidebar from the original TRP subreddit which lays out the core beliefs/actions. But then that would be arguing in good faith, can't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:03 PM
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You sound like the neckbeard here, why are you so offended by his comment? Women don't even like watching women's sports, look at how abysmal their support of the WNBA is. The crux of the matter is that people (yes, both men and women) want to watch the pinnacle of physical prowess which is why men's sports are so much more popular than women's sports. In sports where the difference between men and women doesn't hinder enjoyment, men will happily watch the women play (UFC, tennis, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:53 AM
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By your logic, wouldn't that make you a lesbian? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:15 AM
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both sexes are equally guilty for behaviors of both women and men And like that, we're back to their main point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:07 PM
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u/princess8inch thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:01 PM
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If only we lived in a world where the outcomes of our respective decisions didn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:01 PM
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If you're a Chad the dynamic flips.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:18 PM
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I'm good, it's a waste of my time. You haven't presented anything that contradicts because the research itself is trash and not valuable. Straight out of the anti-vaxxer handbook lmao I understand that admitting insecurities is challenging. Maybe one day, you'll face your insecurities. I understand that admitting you might be wrong is challenging. Maybe one day, you'll acknowledge your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:12 PM
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You're free to investigate the methodology on your own. I've presented you with a plethora of excerpts from studies showing the link between high sociosexuality (i.e. high body count) and infidelity, which contradicts your original statement that worrying about such things is irrationality born from insecurity. If you aren't willing to put in at least some effort, you're being disingenuous. It's akin to anti-vaxxers refusing to look into scientific sources that contradict their ideological viewp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:02 PM
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Thanks for the info. The sources I have are from a male-dominated subreddit so the bias makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:59 PM
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I've been informed that depending on the study, the variance explained can be higher for men, the same for men and women, or higher for women. Regardless, the link between sociosexuality and infidelity is well-observed: ​ Factors found to facilitate infidelity> Number of sex partners: Greater number of sex partners before marriage predicts infidelity As might be expected, attitudes toward infidelity specifically, permissive attitudes toward sex more generally and a greater willingness to have ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:49 PM
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High sociosexuality has a significant positive correlation with infidelity in the literature, for both men and women. However, one study found that sociosexuality explained 0.45 of the variance in infidelity for women but only 0.25 for men. If this was common knowledge, men would care more in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:42 PM
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That's really the crux of the matter, isn't it? It's why women don't understand men being upset at being labelled the nice, safe boyfriend/husband type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:50 PM
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These FB groups lend credence to the red/black pill talking point that women by and large tend to find the same characteristics in men attractive and due to hypergamy, knowingly and unknowingly, end up dating the same high-value guys, essentially forming soft harems. Given the extremely lopsided ratio of men to women on dating apps, what are the chances that women date the same guys enough to warrant forming such groups, if not for hypergamy-induced mating choice overlap? Sorry that you have to …
/r/MensRights15/03/23 05:38 PM
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What you're missing is the fact that being a good person doesn't factor in at all. It's all about looks, status, money etc. That's the RP view which is not mainstream BP knowledge. The way people talk about incels is hilarious. "Women can smell the misogyny in you" lmao. Some of the most misogynistic men on college campuses are athletes and frat guys but they get laid the most. Evidently being a good person has no bearing on one's success with women. It looks like we're in agreement here though,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:03 PM
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You're in agreement with red pill talking points then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:28 PM
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Of course there are always exceptions to the rule. But you can still use correlative trends to make educated decisions about potential partners. I've had experience with women. It's not like I'm entering their data into a spreadsheet in order to make calculations lol But I do think people would benefit from taking a more rational approach when it comes to dating instead of going solely off of emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:35 PM
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Well yeah no shit, I'm not autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:33 PM
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Of course, I believe both men and women should be better informed on the links between high sociosexuality (essentially high body count) and infidelity. It should be considered reasonable to not date someone based on this information but even broaching the topic nowadays is considered faux pas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:35 PM
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High sociosexuality is correlated with infidelity in the literature. It's not an irrational belief, the data supports it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah those top guy live in a different world. I had a buddy in highschool who was good looking guy, popular and a state-level wrestler. He was well-known across multiple high schools in our city. One time he became official with a chick he'd been banging and she posted a picture of them on a date. He showed me his insta dms; literally minutes after she posted 10+ girls had blown up his phone angry af.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:31 AM
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That limited data is still more valuable in debate than your anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:43 PM
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You're fighting a losing battle. You'll find this disingenuous approach to debate isn't limited to just PPD but all of Reddit. A related topic is high sociosexuality and its positive correlation with infidelity. This is a well-observed correlation in the literature but even when I post excerpts from multiple studies people still get upset and try to refute the data using anecdotal arguments. What's hilarious is these are likely the same people who admonished anti-vaxxers for dismissing scientifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:42 PM
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Yeah, it's definitely a binge-able subreddit. r/IdiotsInCars is another good timesink lol I find meditating helps reduce addictive behaviors, including excessive social media use
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:06 AM
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I should have phrased myself better. My issue with the comment you replied to isn't that it highlights caring about body count as sexual insecurity (which I agree, it is) but rather the implication that it has no basis in reality and is a delusion born from male insecurity. The evidence suggests the insecurity is justified and logical (i.e. we are in agreement here).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:01 PM
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Divorce isn't inherently wrong, neither is infidelity (if it's a quick precursor to a divorce already in the making). Sure, human relationships are nuanced and nothing is ever black-and-white but you can't hand-wave these correlations away; it's disingenuous. Your post asserts "'Body count' metrics don't really help determine anything". The literature strongly suggests that this is false. People wanting monogamous relationships are statistically better off choosing someone of a lower sociosexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:56 PM
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I minsinterpreted your comment. I agree that it is insecurity and doesn't deserve the shame it gets. However, regardless of the semantics concerning insecurity, the original comment that you agreed with spins men caring about women's N-count as being largely a result of their sexual insecurity. The issue I have with this is that it's the same old rhetoric that a women's body count has no bearing on her future behaviour, which is false based on the literature. If we get back to the topic at hand …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:44 PM
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It's not insecurity lol. High sociosexuality is a significant predictor of infidelity. Men have evolved to be highly sensitive about a woman's sexual past due to paternal uncertainty; the literature suggests that they are justified: . A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (pg.6) Haselton, M. G., …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:04 PM
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Nah I just call it like it is. I replied to your original post with those studies I mentioned, let me know what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:01 PM
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Body count is the strongest predictor of infidelity, divorce, dissatisfaction and STDs. Factors found to facilitate infidelity Number of sex partners: Greater number of sex partners before marriage predicts infidelity As might be expected, attitudes toward infidelity specifically, permissive attitudes toward sex more generally and a greater willingness to have casual sex and to engage in sex without closeness, commitment or love (i.e., a more unrestricted sociosexual orientation) are also reliab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:50 PM
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Of course she is. She's just less likely to cheat compared to a thot. I've spent enough time in the rave/partying scene to know not to trust thots for monogamous relationships. However, this all just anecdotal on my part. I'll reply to your post with some studies tomorrow on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:14 AM
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Facts, I'm sure a significant number of men have been burned by taking thots seriously relationship-wise. Better to just keep it casual like all the dudes she banged to rack up that N-count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:49 AM
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It only seems weird because it's a reflection of your insecurities about your own (presumably) high N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:36 PM
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Lol the majority of women wouldn't have the balls to risk getting rejected like that. There are a few that do though, props to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:29 AM
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Reverse the genders, I doubt Reddit would have taken kindly to a grown man physically and verbally assaulting an 11 year-old girl. Peak women-are-wonderful effect, can't believe the majority of comments defending such psychotic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:21 PM
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wow, what a joke lmao
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:09 PM
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Ah I understand now, I agree. I was too hasty in proclaiming women are sexually obsessed with top 20% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:34 PM
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Fair enough, but if you hang out in certain circles (usually the partying types) you'll see the "evidence" for shit like this constantly (although this guy was definitely an outlier due to his clout).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:30 PM
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Sorry let me input my data into the autist algorithm; golly gee looks like my friend was in the top 4.5678% of men! Also Seth Rogen is a horrible example, guy's mid when it comes to physical attractiveness. Who gives a fuck about his money or fame, he still doesn't elicit raw sexual desire in women. You're right about top 20% being too generous though. This story happened back in high school. My friend was known at all the local high schools, so compared to the average high school guy he wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:23 PM
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Lol yeah man, I made up this super specific story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:14 PM
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Lol nah. You must not know any top 20% men. They have women clamoring to have sex with them but especially to lock them down in a relationship. I had a buddy who was a state-level wrestling champ and a good looking guy. He went official with a girl and she posted a pic on his Insta of them on a date. His phone immediately blew up with angry texts from ~15 other girls he was casually sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:14 AM
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I mentioned this earlier on the sub but these people have built up a Frankenstein version of TRP in their heads. If they actually wanted to argue in good faith, they would have read some of the material on the TRP Sidebar or atleast The Rational Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:27 AM
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Yeah the sub's always arguing against some TRP bogeyman. If you're going to argue in good faith, at least have read some of the material in the TRP Sidebar or even just The Rational Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:44 PM
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Imagine having the audacity to respond to the plethora of studies he linked with the wikipedia article for misogyny lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:36 AM
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Appreciate the well-laid out argument but you're wasting your breath. Someone who doesn't understand this intuitively is too blinded by their dogmatic beliefs to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:07 AM
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Attractive men who pull on the regular are significally more likely to be red-pilled (whether naturally or through investigation) than your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:53 AM
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I'm Punjabi, born and raised in Canada. The Punjabi community here is the complete opposite. They tend to have strong communal bonds and date/marry exclusively other Punjabi Jatts. This includes the second-generation kids born here like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:16 AM
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Yeah the meme makes zero sense if you actually apply any level of critical thinking to gender dynamics lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:33 AM
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Big ups for putting in the effort and entertaining this person's brain-dead comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:52 AM
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Probably the most unintentionally entertaining person on this sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:28 PM
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Honestly man, it isn't worth writing these paragraphs. You're not going to change the minds of people who get upset at the notion that men have lower standards than women across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:53 PM
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The world's critical, societal-level infrastructure is still set up and maintained by predominantly men. If this infrastructure were to take a major beating due to climate change, perhaps even to the point of collapse, who do you think will be saving y'all? But go ahead, keep your hands on that wheel, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:05 AM
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Nah, no need to justify yourself. Your post's a breath of fresh air compared to what we typically see here. It's fun to theorize about these things even if there's no scientific basis to back then up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:08 AM
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No, you don't understand, no matter how high your libido is. Do you realize how arrogant it is for you to downplay a legitimate greivance men have based on your own lived experience? It'd be like claiming I understand what it's like to be a woman because I have a low sex drive lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:51 PM
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It doesn't matter if they know about the pill color classifications because the default way of thinking regarding relationships is blue-pilled. It's not something you choose to believe like TRP or the black pill. I agree that is a sizeable number, but you could argue that TRP has grown so much in recent years in direct response to the trends in the marriage rate and male sexlessness you outlined in your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:13 AM
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Lol you're acting like the number of men who follow TRP is a significant percentage of the male population. The vast majority of males are blue-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:25 PM
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I agree that attractiveness is largely objective but male measures of female attractiveness are skewed due to biological factors (hormone differences, differences in sexual strategy, etc.) As a good-looking guy, most women aren't pleasant to look at without makeup imo. Although it's not like I can rate my fellow men objectively in order to draw comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:17 PM
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You either lack reading comprehension or are being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:09 PM
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But that goes against other such threads concerning women's body count where women reply by saying the majority of men they know don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:39 PM
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You realize he's trolling about the trillionaire stuff, right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:01 AM
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Anything works for the top X-percentile attractive men on dating apps. I have a buddy who's a good-looking guy, gets hundreds of matches on Tinder. He'll straight up open with "nice tits, let's bang" and chicks will come over to this place. See also the Tinder Nazi experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:28 AM
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Facts man, any guy who has a decent social life in college knows that the top guys basically have a monopoly on chicks. It doesn't mean average men don't get any play, but the disparity is in your face. Hell, chicks will go up to these guys and ask them out lol. Ask your average guy how many times they've experienced that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:33 PM
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I mean, wasn't that sub always mean-spirited? I think anyone frequenting a sub dedicated to hating and making fun of a group of people probably has mental issues of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:50 PM
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You can't make this stuff up lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:28 PM
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It isn't any different. It's funny because men here use exactly what she typed in order to get them to understand why men get hurt when their SO was more sexually open with the men she slept with before him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:10 PM
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Relationships are just prostitution with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:53 PM
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And it just so happens that men are the ones who ask in the vast majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:01 PM
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Spend some time in sexually charged environments (clubs, festivals, parties, etc.) and you'd have to be blind not to realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:38 PM
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Lol aka marriage for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:01 PM
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Well in their head they're different from all the other girls Chad's banging and eventually she'll get his commitment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:37 PM
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well, in this case even if you do have kids with a tall guy, your own height genetics will be the limiting factors (i.e. higher chance of your kids ending up short because you're 5'2")
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:43 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:03 AM
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Your time spent texting before meeting up irl depends on how attractive you are. My friend gets hundreds of matches on Tinder and he asks for a number to meet up in the first few messages. They usually come over to his place after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:54 PM
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I think it depends on whether you went to college or not. There you'll run into chads like the ones you're describing and they're definitely getting the lions share of sex on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:34 AM
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Yep, you nailed it. A good example is NBA athletes. They use high-end escort services when they're on the road. Their wives know and are okay with this arrangement because it comes with the territory of marrying a gigachad. As long as the wife remains the main woman (i.e. the resource dump) everything's good in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:16 AM
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Yeah these discussions usually proceed on the assumption that womens' standards are somehow objectively correct. Most men just have lower standards for appearances/cleanliness and that doesn't mean filthy or w.e.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:30 PM
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It's like they don't realize sex is an avenue into relationships. Sure, women settle for the guys they get into relationships with (compared to the men they fuck casually i.e. men with options), but they still seem happier than a guy who hasn't hugged a woman in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:14 PM
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Can't believe that you actually have to comment this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:12 PM
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Current literature suggests that high sociosexuality is correlated with a higher rate of infidelity, which lines up with what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:08 AM
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Because women want the best genes whereas men just want to spread their seed. Because of this, women are constantly comparing and contrasting the men in their lives. That's why even really short girls still want tall guys because being taller than her isn't enough, you need to be taller than the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:05 PM
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In my experience, if they show indicators of interest (prolonged/repeated eye contact, close proximity, smiling at you etc.) and you respond with inaction, they tend to take it as a rejection and act accordingly (i.e. become cold, distant, frustrated etc.). I've experienced it many times at concerts and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:02 PM
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Best advice in the thread. Don't underestimate the social aspect of dorms, sets you up very nicely 2nd year onwards regardless of where you live at after.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:38 AM
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Realize that life isn't that serious. How can you have resentment for your father when he's just going about life like anyone else, as pitiful as his lifestyle may seem? Nothing we do actually matters. Humans just construct elaborate belief systems to keep us going day to day. TRP is one of many such systems. At the end of the day, your success in terms of the gym, money and women is as meaningless as your dad's existence, in spite of whatever lies your ego tells you. Any resentment against your…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:41 AM
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