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OKCupid could theoretically match people really well if they didn’t have a financial interest in making sure people don’t get off the app. Their data is remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:30 AM
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It reminds me of that quote from a woman on some Vh1 shit, like “The only difference between creepy and cool is whether you’re attractive or not, and that’s it!” However, the thing many RPs here miss is that there’s always women who will find certain types of men attractive. There’s women head over heels for sweaty, hairy, burly men who fix garage doors for a living. There’s women who are into twink-types with fucked up teeth but who dress nice. Women into cliche mathletes who learned how to at …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:54 AM
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3-4. It’s not a breeze, but it’s not hard to find dates. It was a 10 when I didn’t say anything interesting, was totally socially inept, and swiped on profiles all wrong for me. But when I was honest about “my lane” and found people I was genuinely interested in, it’s worth the effort. Finding a suitable match is a lot more work for everyone, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:08 PM
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This is discussed ad nauseam here. It’s simple. You’ve already acknowledged that born baby trumps needs of parents. Both men and women have a say over what they do with their own bodies. Therefore, neither has a say over whether the other should or shouldn’t carry to term. Men can’t get pregnant. The end. Priority goes born baby > own body > partner’s body. Any choice that allows men to opt out violates either the baby they birthed or their partner’s bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:01 PM
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Hahaha some people probably do imagine Chads have it like that. I think the biggest thing they don’t realize separates them from a chad is confidence and a lack of awkwardness. Smooth men are very self aware of when they’re creeping a woman out and don’t even get near that point. They learn from mistakes. A lot of dudes in here sound like they got shot down 3 times and gave up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:50 PM
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Any guy who thinks he’s a 8-10 isn’t an 8-10. You are not a 5 star man. Someone who truly believed he was an 8-10 wouldn’t be asking out 6s and 7s. Shit, even 6s-7s try with 8s-10s first. And even if you look like a 10, if you act like a 2, no amount of looks can fix that. The mere fact this post is written says more about your personality than your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:24 PM
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You’re missing the point. If there’s 504 men and 496 women, and there’s 248 women in relationships, how are there “significantly more” single men? Even if you account for LGB, there are more Gs than Ls, as women tend to be more bisexual than solidly gay, where men tend to play for one team or another. In the US, the ratio between men and women leaves 1,912,000 men between 18-35 who don’t have a female counterpart. The beef ain’t with society, but Mother Nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:57 PM
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Any difference is only from the sliver of a margin between the number of men and women. But for any meaningful discussion, you can assume that X% of taken women means there’s X% of taken men. Especially when there’s more men with men than women with women. So, no, there’s not more significantly more single men than women. Women just want more than a hole who doesn’t come with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:32 PM
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I was being facetious. But you’re technically not even wrong. Taste is subjective. While there are certain traits that seem universally valued (like having plenty of teeth), what counts as attractive or not varies widely, even year by year. Like curvy women are in now, but weren’t from the 60s-90s, but were for a century before that. That’s why the rhetoric that “I’m too ugly for ANYONE” rubs me wrong. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:26 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:21 PM
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Nah, your fate will be dying alone with an attitude like that. Nobody owes you shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:56 PM
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That’s not what I said. Reading is fun: Try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:15 PM
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That’s all it boils down to. People don’t want to take personal accountability for their failures. Too much cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:13 PM
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Jesus Christ you people are crybabies. But look at every other group on earth that blames everything else for their failure and see where that gets them. Y’all will share the same fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:12 PM
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That’s such an idiotic take. There’s such a huge range between those things. If you really can’t tell what’s filled with hate and vitriol, you’re the problem, not mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:07 PM
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68% of men are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:27 AM
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I was an incel. It was all my fault. Until people admit that, they will always be an incel—or a resentful bottom feeder at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:20 AM
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Who said a date they want is just attractive? They have lots of options, but they’re people who just want to plow, or who are so sex starved that they can’t even have a normal conversation without trying to “skip ahead,” or who are just outright shitty people. Women don’t just look for hot people. They look for men who seem intriguing and who have a story, or who they can make up a story about. Girls fall for a narrative. That’s why assholes get so many girls, not because they’re mean, but becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:18 AM
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You’re conflating being able to find a date with being able to find a date they want. Women can find a date easier than men. But women find partners they deem suitable at about the same rate as men. The problem is a fucking solid 4-5 dude will swipe on 8-9s and left on 4-5s, and then when he finally decides to swipe on a 4-5, radiate energy that says she’s basically a consolation and it’s obvious you want a 10. I would bet money if 4-5s here swiped on 3-4s and actually treated them like human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:08 AM
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Thanks. I can’t believe someone asked me for stats for that. I guess it’s telling just how out of touch with reality RPs are. It’s no wonder they subscribe to the shit they do. It’s a hell of a lot easier blaming Mother Nature and feminism and women and society and chads for your lack of success than it is to admit you might kinda suck and need to work on yourself. Hell of a lot lonelier, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:03 AM
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The fact that you think “feminist ideology” is the problem is all one needs to know about why you have a problem with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:19 AM
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I feel like this is disingenuous as hell. Over half of adults are married. Even more are dating. Even more are fucking. This is definitely NOT a problem “most men” have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:18 AM
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I’m not native at all. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:33 PM
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Go to a scary neighborhood at night and try to suss out which people are safe. Now imagine being in that scenario 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:20 PM
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Damn. See, this is how my sisters feel too, so I’m sympathetic to that. Besides, it’s really not anymore appropriate for someone to come and tell you they think you’re hot when you’re just going about your day as it is for salespeople or Mormons to bother you. I hate being pitched a sale for anything when I’m not looking for anything. I can imagine how much more cringe/anxiety inducing it would be knowing the salesperson is imagining what their cock feels like inside me. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:14 PM
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I don’t think it’s hard to navigate when it’s okay to talk to (hit on) a girl and when it isn’t. Just think: where would you like salespeople to approach you? Would you like people walking up to you trying to sell their MLM while you’re at the gym? Or how about work? Chances are, unless you’re already out shopping and looking to buy something, you don’t want random salespeople bothering you. It’s not that much different with women. Is she at a gym, walking somewhere, in a store? Leave her alone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:09 PM
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I’m friends with a shit ton of women who are candid about their sexploits and I’ve never heard or witnessed that in our circles. Usually, women will put up with a lot if a dude gives good head. They’ll even talk about how he was kind of small, but then talk about how they’re still gonna fuck him again anyway. Conversely, I’ve heard many a conversation about what someone’s packing and how long they lasted, but how they still haven’t found someone able to give them an orgasm. A lot of the 8s-9s in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:13 AM
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Checkmate. Where all the tall women at? I’m trying to spend retirement courtside. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:59 AM
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You’re making the first argument I made. Women want to be happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:57 AM
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That sounds highly unscientific. There are plenty of women who still care about men and manhood a great deal. However, these women are often: The silent majority. Older, in a society that overvalues youth culture and opinion. Likely taken and unlikely to ever become single once that happens. These are the women who meet their husbands through school, church, family friends, etc. Not on online dating, bars or clubs, work, etc. Sometimes caretakers or part time professionals (e.g. stylist). But un…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:24 AM
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It’s really not hard. If you had a son or a daughter, what would you want for them? I doubt any woman would want their future son to end up with a wife as demanding and cold as women are often encouraged to behave by bitter English lit majors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:16 PM
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That’s a long ass post to misrepresent something once again. You keep trying to cherry pick what I said, when it’s clearly tied to the sentence literally immediately before it. I can see you have an affinity for that, as most of your scenarios are grounded in incel head canon and not reality. I’m out. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:31 PM
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It doesn’t. The assertion is that women are fine not being married. They aren’t. It bothers most to have a ticking clock, to want to start a family but not want to get chained down to a deadbeat or abuser, to always be asked when they’re going to find someone, to see all of their friends settle and feel behind in life, etc. Many end up marrying someone they shouldn’t for a stupid reason like living up to other peoples standards, especially when young, and decide at 30/40 during their mid-life cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:23 PM
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This is a false premise not even worth arguing. Everything you’re naming off is arbitrary. Women don’t have any duties and neither do men, besides those that are self-imposed or agreed upon in a relationship. Any “demands” for male behavior are merely demands not to encroach on women. You’re equivocating not being a predator or douchebag with something women should do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:11 PM
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I hate when people don’t even seem to read what you actually say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:05 PM
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The stats are correct. Your analysis isn’t. Women want to be happily married. Dudes almost always get lazy and give up once they think they got someone in the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:19 AM
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Right? It isn’t true at all. Literally 90% of my friends always fucked everybody, and they’re all ugly. The only ones who didn’t fuck were the ones who were hella weird talking to women. You know, the cliche in every TV show or movie when a guy fumbles his words or does super corny/creepy shit and gets friend zoned. We partied a LOT too, so there were always opportunities. As long as you seem FUN, there’s always someone who will fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:16 AM
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Best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:12 AM
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When did I ever say I date people for status? You seem to have a tenuous grasp on basic dialogue. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:09 AM
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Once again, you’re literally building a strawman to knock back down. Nobody’s making the argument that old women can’t get laid easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:23 AM
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You keep arguing against things I’m not saying. I never said “every woman is attracted to older men” or “every relationship between an older man and younger woman will be happy.” It’s the same as people who reply with “vaccinated people still get sick,” when nobody claimed that they never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:21 AM
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Literally nobody said anything about lying to someone or manipulating them. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:17 AM
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That’s implied with anyone entering a relationship of their own free will. If one person is happy with their partner for XYZ and another is happy because of the status and convenience, then there’s nothing wrong with it. Life isn’t a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:22 PM
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Not really. You make it seem like there can never be mutual benefit. If people want a transactional relationship, what business is it of yours? You don’t have to want it for yourself. But in 2022, judging other people’s lifestyle choices between two consenting adults makes you the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:33 PM
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No, definitely not. But an older man has a far better chance at a happy ever after with a younger woman than an older woman does with a younger man. Young men have very little to offer older women who want more than energetic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:30 PM
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None of that has anything to do with the comparative metric of life satisfaction. Barring the person isn’t a total loser, an older man is far more likely to bring something to the table that a younger woman wants long term than the opposite. Kids, for example. A 45 year old man can start over with a 25 year old woman and still have a family. The likelihood of a woman being able to start over and have a fulfilling life with a 25 year old man and meeting his needs is slim. The man in this scenario…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:27 PM
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It’s not uncommon. And if we define “normal” by the middle of the curve, then yeah, this is normal simply because it’s prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:48 AM
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I disagree with it being as simple as hiring a prostitute. The attitude to which OP is referring and the desire to not share them with another man, or have their manhood/performances gauged against that of others is NOT mutually exclusive. In other words, RPs can want bang maids and want them all to themselves. They go hand in hand more than they clash. Prostitution is not a viable solution that would change their mind. So you’re right that it’s about more than sex. It’s about ownership. Entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:44 AM
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Depends on what you mean by “getting away.” Divorce rates and dissatisfaction both in the home and in bed are higher among women. Despite what society says or how weird it actually is, a 45 y/o man will be “ruggedly handsome,” and have plenty of prime age women he will easily win over poorer, less experienced men. Women of the same age/status cannot as often say the same. But I guess enjoy the ride while it lasts. 🐎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:29 AM
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Besides, if she’s the type to shame someone for not wanting to be hurt in a fight, she’s the type who’s gonna leave whatever macho BF ends up with brain damage after hitting a curb wrong, walking like Forrest Gump.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:24 AM
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Read some of the comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:22 AM
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Once again, you’re acting like there’s some separation between evolution of a hormone that affects function, and evolution of a neurotransmitter that affects function. If the male behavior driving said desire for dominance of/chastity in women is natural re: hormones, then so must be the survival response. And being social animals, we are driven by our neurotransmitters/hormones to fit in. Thus, docile/affectionate and less promiscuous women had an evolutionary advantage and outcompeted strong/b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:17 AM
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I’ll try to tag you next time I happen to come across anymore. But I’ve seen this sort of attitude on just about every other post I’ve read here the last few weeks. Maybe I just joined at a bad time. And I guess you can look at it like that, but even so, that’s all the more reason to stay on track. A crowd can poke holes in things a lot faster than an individual 1v1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:56 AM
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How is he “trying to be creepy?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:42 AM
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While I don’t exactly see this as an equal comparison, it does bring attention to a lot of problematic double standards women hold in the comments. I usually argue in favor of women, too, but some of these comments are mind blowing Lu hypocritical. With human being being social animals, you absolutely cannot chalk one thing up to nature and another to society’s misplaced expectations. Women don’t inherently NEED a strong, courageous man any more than men NEED a virgin. Both are societal expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:08 AM
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That’s a poor argument. Find a male in nature that doesn’t try to kill other males for females, and kills any offspring that aren’t theirs. That’s nature. Humans are social animals, anyway. So trying to differentiate a societal expectation from a natural one is stupid. Both stem from adapting to nature, and the expectations stem from wanting to follow established best practices. For men, that’s not investing in a woman who might add undue burden based on her promiscuity. For women, that’s not en…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:01 AM
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This is what I was looking for. OP is comparing apples to dog farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:46 AM
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People say it’s too much work? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:16 PM
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Historical? No. Recent? Yes. Get a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:22 PM
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You should link them to an Imgur of a dick pic. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:10 PM
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I find this extremely disingenuous. A couple days in this subreddit is enough to know that it’s obvious that what you’re talking about isn’t the behavior/belief to which the OP is referring. Like, yes, the right to women COULD mean society making more room for relationships to occur, fostering them, etc. but dudes in here actually talk like women should be granted to them like food stamps. It’s a nice effort, but ultimately doesn’t address the issue. And if you’re going to pretend that your prem…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:00 PM
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I never understood the whole shit where men whine about women chasing after their money, and in the same breath talk about wanting a woman to stay home and hold the house down. Like, if every woman suddenly was willing to be a full time homemaker when she met the right men, then women would have even more reason to clout chase, and all these RPs would be crying that women don’t want them because they’re not rich enough. What I really wanna know is what these mens’ relationship with their mothers…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:10 PM
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I love how nobody here is actually addressing the argument. It’s just one tu quoque after another. “But what about you?!” I think that’s because people know they don’t have an answer to your question that’s not overtly sexist. I find it hilariously ironic because, all to often, many RPs and the like are the same types of people who scream at liberals that nobody’s entitled to healthcare, college, living wages, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:07 PM
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You’re cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:01 PM
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You’re plain wrong. You won’t find a description of hate in Oxford, Webster, etc.; nor in any psychoanalytical theory that exclusively associates hate with avoidance. You will, however, find plenty of associations with hate and enmity or hostility. It’s the very reason hate speech and hate crime are a thing—hate encourages people to confront that which they hate, not avoid it. It is often seen as a precursor to violence, with some theorists even hypothesizing that hate is an emotion necessary to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:29 PM
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Exactly. It gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:27 AM
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Oof. That’s seriously the worst. It’s like dunking your dick in a cup of warm water that, depending on whether she’s been drinking and dancing all night, smells like it was the bath water for a large dog. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:26 AM
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You’re digging your heels in to split hairs over words. You originally argued that people who truly despise someone go out of their way to avoid talking about it. That’s just false. Yes, there are hateful people who go about things quietly. But whether hatred or disgust is expressed covertly or overtly has nothing to do with technicalities in semantics. People who hate people spend a lot of time ruminating. Whether or not they’re vocal about it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:14 PM
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Shit should’ve scrolled a bit more before saying the exact same thing to them. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:25 AM
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That’s literally not true. The most hateful forums on the internet are people who just cannot seem to stop thinking about that which they hate. Conservatives never shut up about liberals. Racists about Mexicans or black people. Fundamentalist Christian’s about LGBT people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:24 AM
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I see. I saw the post the other day about noticing people have fluid definitions of all the terms thrown around in these communities. I’m from the camp that sees RP = incel + petulant + MRA, in a sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:00 AM
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Lmfao! If you wanna keep being miserable and sit in an echo chamber where you and a bunch of other bitter people whine all day, cool. It doesn’t affect me any. And yeah, nobody likes people who whine and complain all the time and are one perceived slight away from a bitch fit in the middle of a date, or worse, while stuck behind closed doors with them. Is that news to you? Just the mere fact that your type exists is indicative that it likely has less to do with looks than personality. People wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:52 AM
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That’s literally all I see you people crying about. “I’m ugly so nobody will fuck me.” The irony is your attitudes and external locus of control are exceedingly more likely to be hindering your success than your looks. Women don’t want to fuck shitty, bitter people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:39 AM
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Hardly. RPs just want to blame outside forces and throw their hands up and bitch about how unfair life is. My whole premise is to cut that shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:35 AM
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A dollar is 6” long. I guarantee you women aren’t splitting hairs over half a dollar in height. The difference between 5’6” and 5’9” is so hard to tell if someone’s 5’2 or 6’+. Unless you’re literally side by side. 4’11-5’4” girls are NOT out here rejecting 5’6” dudes cause of their height. Especially one standard deviation away from median.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:27 AM
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That’s why male nudity is used for comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:23 PM
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All of that besides OLD kinda speaks to my point. All of those involve you in public and a woman potentially being seen leaving with you. I’m not trying to brag or rub shit in, and this isn’t some astounding number, but I’ve fucked 7 girls in the last year on the first meet. Every single one was someone who came straight over, or met at a park or something not busy or around their peers and came home shortly after. I don’t think any of them would’ve went home with me if I approached them in any …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:15 AM
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No, a taller woman would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:58 AM
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Where were you trying to hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:57 AM
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That’s so shitty, I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:56 AM
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This is just plain misguided. RPs/BLKPs are no different than any other hurt group in the world: They have very real experiences that leave them frustrated and hurt. They seek comfort or advice on how to escape it. Malicious and hateful people twist and turn their pain into anger by OFFERING explanations as to why they’re hurt. “This is what’s really happening to you.” They bend their truth to create a bias. Person’s confirmation bias is strengthened through echo chambers and self fulfilling pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:14 AM
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This. I used to be the guy who didn’t get much attention from girls in middle or high school. Even early adulthood was rough. But once I started having regular sex, I started to get bored with it. Hell, I even started being the one to complain that women weren’t really that good in bed, either (Ask a woman 20-24 to get on top and she likely doesn’t know how to ride in a way that feels good). So when it got to a point where I was doing all this shit and spending all this time out and about doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:56 AM
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I’ve seen it the other way around. Women will fuck with a short guy on the low like men will fuck a fat chick on the low. But neither wants to be picked up by one at the club in front of their friends, or explain their odd choice to their friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:50 AM
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Yeah but there’s no excuse not to. A lot of TRPs think that they shouldn’t have to compensate for something. Everyone compensates or compromises somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:49 AM
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I think it’s kind of that way with women and their weight. Shorter/Heavier men/women have to compensate more the further they deviate from “standard.” The only difference seems to be what’s more difficult. For women, it’s genuine companionship. They get laid easy. For men, it’s generating sexual desire. They find companions easy. It’s only exacerbated by being heavier or shorter. And this leads people to make compromises that they end up resenting later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:45 AM
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Idk. I’m 6’6” and that would freak me out a bit. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:34 AM
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This. TRPs are mad at the world—at Mother Nature—and they want to blame you for it. Even if they’re not trying to be mean, it’s doubtful that someone who is so damaged could enter into a healthy relationship. It’s no different than people who’ve been chronically cheated on and never give themselves time to heal; their craziness rears it’s ugly head. Pain makes “nice people” do shitty things. Until TRPs learn to handle their pain in a mature manner, there’s no possible way a relationship is going…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:31 AM
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Red pills are no different than any other group of hurt people who find it easier to blame their shortcomings on other groups, or society, or the times, etc. Other advice doesn’t matter because it’s not likely to change anything. The only question that matters is “what can YOU do differently?” The people who find success in life are the people who have a very high internal locus of control—the idea that fate is in your own hands. Incels seem to have a very external locus of control—the idea that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:53 AM
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Sort of. That’s quite the edit. I didn’t ever say most guys, though. I just said there are guys who are into it, and I think there’d be more if it wasn’t shamed. Like anal sex and swallowing used to be taboo, and now everyone talks about it like it’s no big deal. I’ve never even encountered women who didn’t, so all those 80s and 90s rhetoric that made it sound like it was so uncommon threw me off. I don’t really buy into Freudian psychology, though. It may as well be quackery nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:42 PM
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It’s not. It’s merely suggesting that sex acts that are seen as taboo within their political alignment seem to be more popular in the bedroom. That’s why it noted that a lot of #MeToo liberals reported being into stuff like BDSM that blurs the lines of their ethics. With conservatives, it tends to be more along the lines of the family unit, masculinity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:32 PM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/08/27/falwell-conservative-cuckold-fantasies/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:48 PM
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While there are always some people who like staying single, a lot of people who say they prefer it are just putting up a front. Hundreds of thousands of years of imbedded psychological needs isn’t going to dissipate in a few decades, nor be satisfied with a fling here or there. The general sentiment I hear is that women want to love men, but men make it hard. Find out what women actually like, and what women don’t. Then compromise where you can. You’ll find that most women don’t give a shit abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:32 PM
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You’re missing the point, though. What happens when all the wolves eat the prey in their habitat into extinction? Think of women as the wolves. It’s not just men who have to adapt. Sooner or later there’s going to be a majority of women who run out of who they deem as viable prospects. If the men won’t or can’t change, the women will have to in order to get what they want. I think it’ll take care of itself. It’ll look grim for a while. But people will adapt without intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:14 PM
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I mean things are already stacked in the favor of women regarding selecting sexual partners, and I don’t see any form of relationship changing that. Every facet of life is about adaptation. Good health is literally about continuing to promote adaptation via exercise and eating less. Work. Games. Competitions. Animals. Even microbiota are competitive and opportunistic. Shit that doesn’t adapt loses to shit that does. Period. I think the problem is that the losers, both men and women, date people …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:03 PM
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Men become sexual outcasts when they don’t adapt. It’s not hard. I’m not attractive at all and am overweight. Nor am I rich. All you have to do is be pleasant to be around, try to dress nice, and know what turns on the people you want. The problem is too many dudes bark up the wrong tree. Many seem to just want a true sub but aren’t actually dominant in a positive way. You got dudes trying to dominate strong women and other dudes poking their fingers together and talking under their breath with …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:57 PM
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Not really, but there’s always people who do enjoy sharing their wives too. It’s a lot more common than people are willing to admit. Neither men or women wanna talk about it because there’s still so much toxic masculinity that paints cuckolds as inherently “beta” or “bitch,” and promiscuous women as “whores” or “gross.” I’d be willing to bet that if society encouraged whatever relationship and sexual dynamics made people happy and didn’t violate any laws or rights, that more people would be open…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:51 PM
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I don’t see a problem with monogamy, per se. I just see a problem with men having an unrealistic expectation of what they need to bring to the table vs their wife. When both people work, both people clean, both people take care of their bodies, both people are interesting, and both people spice things up in the bedroom, the relationship will endure. It’s only when someone’s bored or lazy that relationship suffer. I think the problem is that both men and women spend too much time either at work o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:48 PM
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That’s called hierarchical polyamory and it’s what my girlfriend and I have practiced for nearly three years now with literally zero drama. She also doesn’t want to fuck other guys, because she understands that the risk to contracting something from another woman is exponentially less likely than from another man, as is a bad experience. The CDC doesn’t even recommend regular testing for men or women who have sex with just women who don’t have other male partners. STD risk is almost exclusively …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:40 PM
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IMO, if someone isn’t that perverted that’d they’d find it attractive, it’s no wonder people don’t fuck with their sexual energy. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:26 AM
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I think polyamory will only further this gap of haves and have nots. While more men are likely to identify as solidly gay, more women are likely to identify as bi. As far as poly dating goes, this means you’re going to see more MFF triads followed by more cuck/hotwives. Given the increasing popularity of this from PornHub statistics, it doesn’t seem too far fetched. There’s economic benefits to a three or four person household, too. Imagine only having to pay 1/3 or your rent or mortgage. Or alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:23 AM
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No, it wouldn’t make me feel insecure. It would be dope, TBH! I’d probably record it and watch it later. 😂 I don’t understand the comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:17 AM
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