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| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Yeah sorry I was kind of harsh and rude. It’s hard for everyone to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Not by any lummox in her vicinity. Even if a woman likes to be perused, she needs to go out of her way to make sure she’s around guys she wants to be with. She can’t wait around and hope one of the bozos she meets in the bar can talk about something other than pussy and lifting. My take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Research shows they do in some areas. But you have to figure they can get spoiled or neglected in their home lives and need some years for work and college to get them on an even keel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".I can understand that. It must be tough to have that in the back of your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Oh the desperation comes when women sit back and just wait for what they want. It’s entirely self inflicted in cities. Also, a person has to become someone that who they want would date. Like the example of someone who wants a person who loves the outdoors. Develop that part of yourself for yourself and it will increase your chances. Too many people have the princess in the castle way of looking at the world. A guy isn’t going to just find you and rescue you. My two cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 2 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Oh, I get your point. If you want someone in their early twenties it sucks being you. If you don’t want a woman old enough to have sense, I don’t know what to tell you. 🤷♀️ it’s the downside of women being valued for their youth and looks. That sucks for men too. The amount of growing up people do between 20 and 30 is huge. Thanks for the recommendation, saving your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".That’s my point. Women are socialized to wait and accept the “tons of options” who want them for their pussy. 🙄 they aren’t socialized to be assertive and to risk the sting of rejection. It’s not outlandish to think you can hook up with someone who likes hiking, art or whatever else you’d like to share with someone. But if you want someone who hikes, you have to put yourself out there and join a social group. They aren’t just going to fall in your lap while you’re having a beer at the Dew Drop I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Are you kidding? You know there are women who are really bright, educated and talented who want their brains match. I know I’m tired of guys who’ve never cracked a book except when they had to for school. I used to ask guys all the time if they read this or that author or liked science fiction. My mistake was that I didn’t go out of my way to find where people like that hung out. Instead of hoping to run into one at a party of yahoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 16 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Nah. Trust me, there’s girls out there who are desperately searching for a guy with half a brain. Who wants to do something cool like go to the museum instead of getting drunk and stupid and watching football or some other boring stupid thing. The problem is, women don’t go out and assertively get guys they want. So they end up watching the game because that’s the guy who approaches girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 03:10 PM |
| 3 | The activating signal of women's arousal is different than men's. Generally, men are activated internally, by sight, women are activated externally, by a man's activeness and touch. Feminism teaches women to wait for an internal cue, and men not to entice women, preventing their stimulating signal.I mean feminism doesn’t really teach women who they should desire. That’s a man’s misperception as you see men complaining feminism doesn’t provide dating advice. Feminism’s concern is that women don’t have sex they don’t want. Women only want to be touched by men they are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What does gender equality look like?Tell me I’m not having to explain this stuff to a woman. It’s never going to be egalitarian because we have different reproductive roles. The men here would never in a million years put themselves out like you want us to do with them. Men will never agree to support another man’s child thru welfare, it’s all talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 10:42 AM |
| 1 | What does gender equality look like?Sorry, you all stood around and watched while women were sent off to mother baby homes I don’t feel sorry for you now. Now you know what it’s like to be left holding the bag. Get back to me in a couple hundred years about tit for tatting and we’ll talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 09:15 AM |
| 0 | What does gender equality look like?Because you assume that abortions are done so women can be freed of financial responsibilities. There’s other reasons since it’s a medical procedure to terminate a pregnancy. A woman can very much want a child and need an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 12:10 AM |
| -2 | What does gender equality look like?How are they similar? A man will never experience anything comparable to an abortion. They seem similar to you because you keep a tally of who gets what decision so you compare things as though they are checks on a list instead of the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 0 | What does gender equality look like?That still doesn’t mean an abortion and nutting and running are comparable like at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.I don’t know where you are getting the impression that men are told being nice and good is the way to success. Does anyone think the men in power are kind? Anyway, everything society says about itself is 1/3 truth, 1/3 bullshit and 1/3 wishful thinking. As any woman whose been told our society cares about and protects women will tell you. Men do kill us for things like thinking we have a right to leave a relationship. That’s why we’ve made it so there’s hell to pay if you raise a hand to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Come to think of it there is something broken about the way society talks about men’s issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do men not understand that marriage is meant to combine financial assets? It's not your money anymore , it's the family's moneyYeah, probably it’s deeply socialized into women or even hardwired that they need a good provider. It makes sense because think of how being pregnant or sick and pregnant or nursing or having an infant can make a woman vulnerable. The deal is, that now it’s not as easy for a guy to graduate high school, get a union job and have a house and family. I don’t know what the answer is. My dad left me admiring other things in men than money. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What does gender equality look like?Good answers but a man will never need an abortion. Legal parental surrender is fine. Don’t equate getting an abortion to being legally absolved of a monetary obligation. They aren’t similar at all and you are minimizing the extra obligations women bear due to their reproductive role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do men not understand that marriage is meant to combine financial assets? It's not your money anymore , it's the family's moneyAre you stuck in the 50’s? I know a woman who graduated Ivy League and went into a six figure job. She supported her husband for years while he got his stem doctorate. Now they each make six figures and her job provides all the health benefits. Oh and she paid off his student loans with her savings. Run with a better crowd my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 07:22 AM |
| -3 | WhyI have no issue with FDS.Female solidarity is needed. Why don’t you band together with other men to address your high suicide and homicide rate. Instead of shaming each other and trying to place yourself over women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 07:15 AM |
| 3 | What does the typical day of an "average woman" and "average man" life look like?That’s bullshit alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Parents are busy and letting kids isolate with their computers. I think especially boys emotional development is ignored. It needs to happen when kids are young. Help them develop a circle of friends, hobbies that get them out of the house and interacting with people. Help them find what they’re good at so it raises their self esteem. All this is just as important as knowing the logistics of how to ask a woman out. Young women like to have fun. Not because they’re shallow but because they’re hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Should clients of prostitutes be villanized?Ok one would use German law here. This is like saying because there are different definitions of “battery” I can’t use the word when someone has been convicted of battery. Anyway, a world protocol was signed that has the elements of moving a person, not necessarily across borders, coercion and exploitation. Those things have all been defined. It has been difficult because different definitions have been used. I agree with you. Terms need to be clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Should clients of prostitutes be villanized?Trafficking was the crime they committed. I don’t know why another word should be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Good talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:00 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?So women are never able to break up with a dude or get therapy? I think you just find the process annoying. Which is ok. But it doesn’t mean women can’t eventually sort their shit out and get a therapist or dump the loser who has been cheating on her. We see the evidence that they are able or you wouldnt know any dudes who’ve been dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 5 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Ok, that's the difference between what men and women want when they are venting problems. Men think a solution what's needed, women want to vent. If they are problem solving they wouldn't be venting. Obviously lots of women end up going to therapy or breaking up with men so they aren't unable they just have a different process than you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 7 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?So the women you work with can’t think through a problem. Like the copier is out of toner or Frank didn’t get the report in on time they do what.....,.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Should clients of prostitutes be villanized?Legalization actually increases trafficking. There are legal brothels in Germany. Paradise, a 12 story brothel, was busted for pimping and trafficking. Supply doesn’t keep up with demand. When guys would go in there and most of the girls were from Eastern Europe, what did they think was happening 🙄. What was anyone thinking. So, sure guys who don’t stop to wonder if they are raping trafficked women, guys who pay a broken down crack addict are immoral. In ethical prostitution I don’t feel the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?The majority of men aren’t criminals abusers or deadbeats. And you’re just a little self absorbed. You’re talking about women being insecure or dumb enough to hook up with bad men and you wonder how that’s not fair to you. How about it’s not fair to the women getting abused and not knowing they deserve better. That sucks too, right? Now I agree the bare bones dynamics of dating is harmful to a lot of men. A woman can be shy and introverted and guys will approach her. But if you are telling yours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:50 PM |
| -2 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?You mean people complaining about how their SOs treat them but not getting something better? Wanting a healthy relationship but settling for toxic ones? That’s the way people act dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?Ok so I go around Reddit and see men posting about how they like big tits. I talk to you and you say you like an A cup. Am I supposed to say STOP LYING 🤥. You act like there’s one woman code you need to figure out that will unlock all women. That we can’t be different. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?So you don’t need to learn about women from talking to women? How’s that working out for you guys? It’s funny how you all come to the same conclusion from your studies. There’s numerous women on this site saying all kinds of different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Do men or women have a better understanding of the average dating experience of the other gender?So how does he know it’s women’s problem if they won’t admit it? This is why so many of you guys are full dunning-Kruger about women’s experiences. You figure you know better than them, don’t listen and what they supposedly “really” think magically aligns with your average Reddit bro circle jerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV - I think a lot of women's issues with dating could be solved by waiting, or abstaining from sex.Your brain filters reality. A gratitude journal is where you make lists of things you’re grateful for to provide balance. Like at least you’re glad when there’s a thunderstorm you have a roof over your head. Things like that. I’m always grateful for the Chesapeake bay. It helps open you up to reality. At least it does me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV - I think a lot of women's issues with dating could be solved by waiting, or abstaining from sex.Quit being such a negativistic sad sack and buy a gratitude journal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 3 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveHalf you guys seem to have negativistic personality disorder. I dated one of those guys once. It wasn’t his looks or the fact he made less than half of what I made that led to me dumping him. It’s that every conversation with him was fucking excruciating. Same energy here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | How do men want women to behave?Girls pressure each other too just not as much. There’s a lot of pressure from boys not to be prudes or vanilla. Pressure for girls to send nudes, etc. But yes I agree, in high school boys are shamed for being virgins and it’s wrong. Especially since it’s more than fine that a teenager hasn’t had sex yet. Men and women both have pressures and we often don’t understand what the other goes through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 05:02 AM |
| 5 | How do men want women to behave?Sure. I was bringing stuff other people had said into our conversation. It’s ok for guys not to want a woman to have had lots of partners just because it’s his preference. I think a lot of men have bad feelings about that. Maybe jealously I’m guessing. They don’t need reasons like it makes women shitty or fucks up their love hormones. It’s ok to just care without rationalizing it. Reasons Like it’s ok to judge women because they get sex easier than men do. I hope that’s clearer. If not, 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 5 | How do men want women to behave?People shouldn’t do that. They probably shouldn’t use incel as an insult but it’s hard when a guy is saying shitty stuff about women. But there’s nothing wrong with a guy being a virgin. Hell, we forget that some men value sex in a relationship or are in a strict religion. Guys are allowed to grow at their own pace and make their own decisions about sex too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 02:55 AM |
| 7 | How do men want women to behave?Yeah, well, women can say I don’t like my husband hanging out with some chick without making a zillion, evo-psych reasons for it. It’s ok for you all to care about stuff, you don’t have to act all logical about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 02:52 AM |
| 10 | How do men want women to behave?What’s that got to do with anything? And sex isn’t hard for some men so do they lower their value by having lots of sex? Also, it’s easy for women to get laid because men are easy but somehow that makes women look bad? Just admit men are sexually jealous and go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 0 | If you're unhappy with the status quo, how *should* things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them?He can beat his dick to a harlequin romance novel if he wants. I’ll judge, but it’s a free country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | If you're unhappy with the status quo, how *should* things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them?Where did I say I want to ban porn? I’m saying this guy needs women to be available in porn so his dick doesn’t lead him into stupidity. Show me the lie? And I’m not a Prohibitionist because I think grown women should be able to make their own choices. I’m not their mother. But I’m also not some stupid lib fem knitting pussy hats and telling everyone porn empowers women. Not to mention trafficking and rape that does go on. Or the porn that goes too far for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | If you're unhappy with the status quo, how *should* things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them?Ok but then you are reliant on the porn industry which can be harmful to women. It’s not on women to crank out porn so you don’t pick shitty sex partners. How about you sort yourself out without needing women? Jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | If you're unhappy with the status quo, how *should* things be instead? If all men and women 100% obey your advice on how they should live their lives in a way that would make things better, what would you tell them?I think there is a common definition of humble and then there is humility as a virtue which a person uses to balance becoming too prideful. Since there’s a connotation of balance I’d say it’s having an accurate view of oneself. Seeing yourself as shitty isn’t balance either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Sad reality of this worldWhy don't you all actually go out and interact with a variety of people instead of sitting around coming up with hare brained theories about how the world works? It's like you've decided to find the most effective ways to make yourselves social cripples and went all in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How LVM be like🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:28 PM |
| 9 | I just went to r/GenderCritical for the first time, their Peak Trans hypocrisy is amazingWhere do you think these insecure narcissists learnt all these tactics from? Where do you think they learnt all this behaviour from? Where do you think they learnt these nonsense reasoning thought processes from? They learnt it from the same type of people who hid behind Buzzfeed generation fake feminism. Thatś where all this new form of identity politics started. It's flattering you think feminists invented this, but it sounds more like shit that's been going on since cave people stopped grunti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/02/20 07:06 PM |
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