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Wow! Glad everything was in your favor, but don’t give up on love or a relationship because of past experience with your ex wife. Not all women are created the same.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 12:47 AM
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Some of these men NEED to practice the Red Pill philosophy in order to avoid being taken advantage of! The blue pill men take the “happy wife” “ happy life” to damn seriously, absolutely not!
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 12:44 AM
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First start reading books 📚 read articles and books that will help with the process. Also, focus on you! Focus on your mental and physical health. You have to be in a good head space in order to be good for others(your kids, etc). You can work out, get into a sport, or do an activity/hobby that you haven’t done in a while. You can find new hobbies as well! You will be surprise at what you enjoy. You can also volunteer, there are so many organizations that need volunteers. Look up events in your …
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 02:46 PM
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That’s the problem. Some men are giving their love and money to the wrong one! Stop being so desperate or be in fear of being lonely. Maybe a minority of men are attracted to entitled and selfish women. That needs to come to a halt if you care about your own happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:53 AM
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Throw that happy wife, happy life crap out the door! It’s not all about the women in the relationship. Its also about you, equally. More like happy spouse(you included) happy house.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:50 AM
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I would recommend everyone to stay engage for a longggggggg time before getting married. Don’t rush into a marriage. Also be sure to vet the women, and for goodness sakes, stop ignoring the red flags 🚩 if she show you who she is the first time, believe her! Don’t let her looks distract you from horrible behavior that will bite you in the ass later.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:45 AM
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I recommend all men read No More Mr.Nice Guy
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:43 AM
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Like WTF! Who saids that???
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:41 AM
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This!
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:38 AM
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Your relationship sounds toxic. Sure your attached and you might love her, but are you okay with the roller coaster ride? I also agree with the others, she probably lost respect for you due to you accepting her behavior. You keep on saying your doing everything for her and her happiness, so yes she is taking advantage of you. It’s time to stand up, put your self first, and move on. Don’t let her back in or it will be a continuous cycle. You are not obligated to her just because you have history …
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 03:29 AM
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Yeah you have to grey rock her and just focus on the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 07:01 AM
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Get a pet or date, or do both…
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 03:45 AM
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There are many activities and hobbies to do, and being bored is actually okay. If your worried about being single or implying you want a companion, get a dog. You can also be single and date.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 03:43 AM
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You should not even have to think about it. MOVE ON! Do not even give her an option. If your hellbent on being in a relationship remember their are thousands of single women that are longing to get into a relationship, just make sure to vet properly. Make sure the next one doesn’t have the qualities you disliked about your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 04:19 AM
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You should not have taken her back the first time she cheated on you. She obviously never respected you. You taking her back made her lose all respect that she had for you, I highly doubt she had any type of respect for you in the first place. Sorry you got played, now please DO NOT ignore the red flags in your next relationship. Not every women is your ex. Also believe that there is light at the end of the tunnel. She is no longer the center of your universe and do not allow her to continue to …
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 02:17 AM
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Do not let this situation cloud your judgement! Listen to the individuals on this post. They have been through the same or similar situation. Do not break!
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 02:26 AM
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This too shall pass, you will grow stronger once the grieving stage is over. You will have so much to look forward too! I suggest getting into a hobby or something your wife didn’t like or accept. This isn’t the case for everyone. Work and exercise. There are so many ways to exercise physically other than the Gym, if the gym isn’t your thing. Read some books that will help you with this process. Try to get 50-50 custody if possible! He is your son too! Also, continue to focus on yourself, once y…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 02:20 AM
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4 times! She showed you who she was once! I’m sure she lost all respect for you when you took her back, that’s is why she continues this cycle because you allow it. Grow a back bone and let go. I do understand therapy and counseling for exist to possibly save the relationship, but once it’s at a point of no return, LET GO! Make the decision for you! Trust me, you will be happier in the long term. Also you know what not to put up with or what to avoid once you decide to date or marry again.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 02:10 AM
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If she does have a mental health issue it’s up to you to stay. She should be proper medicated and go to therapy. She needs to manage her behavior. However, if it doesn’t stop than it’s time to put yourself first.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 10:10 PM
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If she is pmsing than I understand a yell here or there during her time of the month but if it’s consent and all she does is verbal abuse her husband, it’s time to jet! She obviously doesn’t respect you to constantly scream at you and verbal abuse you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 10:07 PM
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RUN! Get the hell on! It’s not going to get any better unless she seeks help. Even then that may not be guaranteed. If you don’t put your foot down she will continue this behavior with you. She will continue to do as much as she can get away with. This is probably just a test. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 09:54 PM
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Uh, your pretty much avoiding women. You sound very jaded. Not all women are the same, it’s that particular women you were with. Stop avoiding red flags 🚩
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 06:30 PM
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This! Now it’s okay to focus on yourself for a while, however if you let years go by it seems as if your still hung on your ex or afraid to get back out there. Meanwhile, your ex is dating, probably in a serious relationship or remarried. Once your ready, go out and date and find the one for you! Edit: also focus on your kids
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:02 AM
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She is obviously cheating on you! Get away as soon as possible. If you were to forgive her, just know that you will be sharing her with another man or men. Heck you can also add women! Now and days women are cheating on their boyfriends/husbands with other women. Let her go, you deserve better!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 02:48 AM
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He was referring to his daughter. And not every man wants a women to struggle with them. There are men that are totally okay having a women that can add on, but not struggle. This is terrible advice.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 08:27 PM
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