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When women are that comfortable talking like that in among their co-workers, it's a sign you're way behind enemy lines. You do what men have had to do, you ghost in plain sight. You tell them what they want to hear, you don't argue with them about anything political because, frankly, who cares what they think anyways? You become a decorative ficus plant, you blend in. Otherwise they'll begin plotting against you with the aim of getting you fired. If you were a man I would advise you to start mak…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 07:05 PM
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4 months? We used to call this a, "pen pal". You shouldn't even be accepting "gifts" from people you've never met, let alone getting perturbed when they don't show up. Aside from time spent internet chatting, neither of you has really invested anything so, having any real expectations at this point is premature. Ask for a meet-up. Something fairly casual, like lunch at a halfway point (depending on how far away you are from each other) between where you live. If you like the vibe, suggest your n…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 06:47 PM
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I see. It sounds like he wants a SAHW, while you are more partial to a work + daycare/nanny type arrangement? Even unemployed women can find a way to cheat if they really want to, so he's going to have learn to trust your judgment and commitment at some point but, there are a LOT of marriage horror stories out there that began with, "My wife went on a trip for work..." so I do understand his apprehension. Perhaps you can find a compromise you both can live with.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/25 10:21 PM
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Honestly, unless it's for the express purpose of starting a family, I don't really see these demands as reasonable. You're not overnight traveling regularly for work or going out for drinks all the time after hours with co-workers, are you? I don't really see why he's so suspicious...
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/25 09:46 PM
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The "wife treatment" is a myth. You do things for people you care about because you want to, not because you're trying to con them into signing a contract without really knowing who they're dealing with.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/25 08:59 PM
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She gets it. Men don't want to hear, "Tell me what to do" anymore than women do. When a couple makes each other's needs a priority they will, in time, develop an attentiveness and sensitivity to those needs without needing overt instructions.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/24 07:45 AM
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Those are all reasonable concerns and I can't fault you for wanting to protect yourself from each of those very real pitfalls. Just to expand on what I said; The reason men attach so much importance to a woman being genuinely sexually attracted to them (and have become super sensitive to the lack of those indicators) is because it seems to be a strong indicator for the longevity and quality of a relationship. No man wants to end up on r/deadbedrooms asking why his wife suddenly cut the sex to a …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/24 09:35 PM
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Due to the state of the SMP, "No sex before commitment" often sounds like, "You don't inspire enough desire in me for spontaneous sex but, I'd be willing to eventually trade it for a financial and/or emotional commitment".
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 07:36 PM
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How long do you wait till you start bringing up talk about serious exclusivity or marriage? Do you immediately ask them about their finances and career? Guys don't want to go on dates that feel like an HR performance review. Also, men today are more acutely aware of the biological forces governing women in your age group and will be on guard for any hint of "baby rabies" or "marriage mania". Try and consider things from men's prospective and get away from seeing them as purely a means to your en…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 06:57 PM
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Very few mgtow guys are serious about it, just as the vast majority of women that claim they're going "4B" aren't actually going to stick to it. Both are a phenomenon that exist almost purely on the internet. I've never heard either spoken of irl conversations before.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 02:24 AM
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This is true. Many mgtow advocate for vasectomies for men that are certain they don't want children.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 01:50 AM
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MGTOW is basically just no marriage, children and no-cohabitation. MGTOW guys still date and have girlfriends but they're just not willing to be sign covert contracts that involve state backed seizure of their assets via family court. 4B sounds closer to what MGTOWs used to call "monk mode", which is basically no dating, sex and limiting contact with women as much as possible. It was the fringe of the fringe.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 07:08 PM
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If he were describing this relationship I would diagnose this "demon" as you putting him through shit tests. These "tests" are a subconscious thing women do when they're uncertain of a man's viability as a mate or his willingness to invest longterm. Identify where your anxiety about the relationship is originating from and then consider how best to approach communicating these concerns to him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 08:41 PM
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I hate to say it but, much of what calls itself "red pill" on the internet...isn't. Guys that are too caught up in F&F, Whatever & Pearl's content have a very limited and often skewed perspective on male/female dynamics and you should be wary of them because their knowledge is mostly theoretical and hasn't been refined through trial and error. Coming to your marriage bed a virgin doesn't guarantee a successful marriage nor does having premarital sex doom you to "the streets" but, do realize that…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 05:17 AM
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