ProzacLady Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	New commercial for GoGurt where the Dad is the only parent shown, and apparently he does the shopping. Yay dads!		ProzacLady	/r/MensRights	07/10/11 11:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Am I being too cynical about these women's motives? Wow, now that is cynical. Forever alone?	/r/MensRights	18/03/12 07:26 PM
2	Mother uses child support money only to buy 500$ shoes for herself [Facebook] I can't believe that people actually think a comment on a Facebook photo is evidence that something happened, i.e that she purchased shoes at all.	/r/MensRights	17/03/12 08:09 PM
5	New commercial for GoGurt where the Dad is the only parent shown, and apparently he does the shopping. Yay dads! Not sure if everyone can access this video, but Facebook was the only place I could find it. I did a double-take when I saw it on hulu.com. My husband was a stat-at-home dad for our kids' first few years of life, and during that time we got uber-sensitized to how dads were portrayed on TV, especially in sit-coms and commercials.	/r/MensRights	07/10/11 11:26 PM
5	NY cops tell women not to wear skimpy outfits while rapist who loves skimpy outfits is loose, feminists freak out! My comment on the article, which I doubt will ever get a response there: "Serious question. If there were a rapist in NYC who was ONLY targeting women wearing yellow hoodies, would you want the police to stop and tell you that if you were wearing one? I'm offended by the assertion that the police are warning women "instead of capturing the rapist," as if the two tasks were equally easy to accomplish."	/r/MensRights	01/10/11 07:48 PM
1	Remember when feminists attacked MRAs for opposing sexist t-shirts against boys? What if I buy it for my son? :)	/r/MensRights	02/09/11 08:19 AM
2	Five recent stories including a graphic photo of burned stained courthouse steps from protest suicide which made me realize men really are being unfairly enslaved in a conspiracy of silence in family/divorce courts and we need to pass laws to stop it - now. Here's a list of reforms needed. I meant cheating by purposely making less money. Sounds crazy but I've known both mom and a dad who did it.	/r/MensRights	26/06/11 11:56 PM
0	Five recent stories including a graphic photo of burned stained courthouse steps from protest suicide which made me realize men really are being unfairly enslaved in a conspiracy of silence in family/divorce courts and we need to pass laws to stop it - now. Here's a list of reforms needed. I didn't say the dad should pay. My husband was a stay-at-home father for the first three years we had kids. If we had gotten a divorce, say, when the kids were 3 and 2 (they are 19 months apart) I would have been OK with supporting him as an at-home dad as much as I could have, because I value that for my children so much. (The only reason he went back to work after three years was that I lost my job. I've worked part-time or from home for the past 7 years and am going back to work full-time no…	/r/MensRights	26/06/11 04:21 AM
0	Five recent stories including a graphic photo of burned stained courthouse steps from protest suicide which made me realize men really are being unfairly enslaved in a conspiracy of silence in family/divorce courts and we need to pass laws to stop it - now. Here's a list of reforms needed. So everyone works full-time? I'm not criticizing the idea, just imagining the particulars.	/r/MensRights	26/06/11 03:42 AM
-1	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself No -- the purpose of a parent is to provide for his or her children. I never said anything about his ex-wife. Not one word.	/r/MensRights	26/06/11 01:09 AM
0	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself I'm happy to be your anonymous internet punching bag. But I will not be bullied into revealing my personal experiences with this issue to defend myself to you. I was not sarcastic earlier when I said it was a good thing that you forgave your father, but surely you realize that not everyone gets to that place. Anger, resentment, hatred, rage, and an inability to forgive are also perfectly normal reactions. You forgave; I never could, and I know others never could. And as a mother, I really can't …	/r/MensRights	26/06/11 01:06 AM
-4	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself I'm not blaming him for being a victim of the system. But he gave up, and the real victims are his three kids.	/r/MensRights	25/06/11 11:30 PM
-4	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself What he did was abandon his children. And please, don't make assumptions about who I am or what I know or how I know it. Good for you for forgiving your father. Not every child of a parent who commits suicide can get to that place. I'm glad I provided an outlet for your rage. Must have been cathartic.	/r/MensRights	25/06/11 11:26 PM
0	Five recent stories including a graphic photo of burned stained courthouse steps from protest suicide which made me realize men really are being unfairly enslaved in a conspiracy of silence in family/divorce courts and we need to pass laws to stop it - now. Here's a list of reforms needed. Child support and ex spouse support should never exceed ability to >pay. Specifically should not be based on gross pay before taxes and >specifically must leave paying man/woman with ability to support >himself/herself. So I've known both women and men who have tried to cheat the system by quitting jobs and moving in with family or making less money on purpose. How would you dealing with this issue? (By the way, I think anyone who does this is an ass.) Payments should be set aside for child care…	/r/MensRights	25/06/11 11:16 PM
-6	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself Like you said, so fucking what? I'd pretty much do anything rather than leave my kids with a dead mother. Parents who commit suicide anger me to no end--this man is no different.	/r/MensRights	25/06/11 10:38 PM
-6	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself I just read it...skimmed much of the middle, to be honest. It's definitely a portrait of a man on the edge, but as a mother, I have to say, I'd be willing to suffer the ups and downs and inequalities of the legal system forever rather than leave my children with no mother at all. I'm sorry, but I think what he did is unforgivable, and I feel huge sadness for his 3 kids.	/r/MensRights	25/06/11 10:34 PM
-6	Thomas Ball set himself on fire on the courthouse steps and left a note outlining the abusive family court system as his reasons for killing himself Came here to say this. Yes, the system sucks but he admitted he could have made a few calls and come up with the money. It sounds crass but as soon as his daughter turns 18 he's much less likely to be at the mercy of the courts. Then he has a whole life as a father ahead of him.	/r/MensRights	25/06/11 09:35 PM
1	I am a nice and pretty and really down to earth gf of 2 months. now Im preggar by my ex. Hes a asshole. You're a nice guy, will you sign the birth certificate? We can be together in happiness for 18+ yrs. Only women can stop paternity fraud. Only women can stop paternity fraud? Only men can sign their own names.	/r/MensRights	13/06/11 03:36 AM
1	I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children Shenanigans!	/r/MensRights	06/06/11 02:04 PM
8	I'll admit it, I'm terrified. OMG. Calm the fuck down. I'm months away from 40, have lived all over the United States and have never once known a woman who made a false rape claim or a man who was falsely accused of rape. I don't know a woman who lives her life in fear of being raped. 90% of my friends have stayed married -- therefore, no custody issues, and those who have gotten divorced have been able to deal with the situation like adults. You sound like the parents who are afraid to let their children be out of their sig…	/r/MensRights	16/05/11 04:17 PM
1	US mum convicted of baby microwave murder I actually think the opposite is true. Think of the most infamous people who have killed their own children. Susan Smith; the woman who drowned her kids in the tub; the woman on trial now for killing her toddler; the other woman who drove into the lake. There are many more. Offhand, without googling, I can't even think of notorious cases of men killing their young children, except when they also killed the mother -- in other words, the entire family was victim.	/r/MensRights	14/05/11 07:05 PM
0	Woman who has dated 15 millionaires admits she only wanted their money...and now she's teaching her 11-year-old daughter how to be a gold-digger I wish! :) My husband and I are definitely blue collar and surfing the lower end of middle class. A friend's mother tried to give us this advice when we were tweens: "Marry the first time for money and the second time for love." I completely fucked that up!	/r/MensRights	09/05/11 05:36 PM
-3	Woman who has dated 15 millionaires admits she only wanted their money...and now she's teaching her 11-year-old daughter how to be a gold-digger How is this a men's rights issue? No one forced any of these men to give her money or gifts. Sucker born every minute, and I guess some of the are millionaires...	/r/MensRights	09/05/11 02:58 PM
-2	If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace. And if you don't manage to keep it on an even keel once or twice, your partner should be forgiving of that because of circumstance. Not consistently, of course, but aren't our partners there so that we can let off a little frustration in a safe space?	/r/MensRights	06/05/11 02:36 AM
4	If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace. No. No. I'm betting he doesn't.	/r/MensRights	06/05/11 02:35 AM
2	If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace. OK, is it really news that hormones and mood are related? Or that hormones and PMS are related? Isn't the logic a bit obvious here?	/r/MensRights	06/05/11 02:35 AM
4	If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace. Amen sister. I also have PMDD, and I'm glad you mentioned it here. The flipping of the switch is intense, and some women who have PMDD don't rage, they get super-depressed and suicidal. Have you tried taking an anti-depressant in anticipation of those 2 days? It really helps. Talk to your doctor.	/r/MensRights	06/05/11 02:33 AM
8	If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace. She's a lucky woman in that you understand there there is "realness" to PMS and hormonal fluctuations. Take good care of her.	/r/MensRights	05/05/11 08:17 PM
3	If you ever let your girlfriend / wife get away with 'hormones' or 'PMS' as an excuse for their crazy behavior, you are reinforcing that behavior and they will do it again. So please stop fucking accepting that excuse. Require reason or replace. A little sympathy -- when it truly is real pain and real mood swings -- goes a long way, I've found. I am surprised how painful my periods have become in the past few years as I've approached 40, and I gave birth twice without drugs, so I know pain! And the mood swings? Oh man...weepiness, mood swings, and general grumpiness. But my husband coming up to me and saying, "Can I get you a heating pad" or, "Can I rub your back," will diffuse any oncoming bitchiness more than calling me on it or telli…	/r/MensRights	05/05/11 08:09 PM
1	How the hell do you smile? Practice in a mirror. Seriously. Practice in a mirror and note how the muscles in your face feel when you have a stupid smile, a cute smile, a "trying to hard" smile, and then use that muscle memory to deliver the smile you want when you need to.	/r/seduction	13/01/11 07:07 PM
0	Its not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it. But how can you help it if you sound like Ned Flanders? Be an actor. Your role? Playing a man with a deep voice? You can train yourself into it just like you can train yourself into an accent.	/r/seduction	05/01/11 09:35 AM
3	What to do when the question "So how many partners have you been with?" comes up. Beware of this trap, gentleman. There is no correct answer. When I was dating my husband, I asked him for a number, and my girl-mind wanted (seriously) his number to be both higher and lower than mine. I didn't want him to have slept with fewer people than me...that would make me a slut in his eyes. I didn't want him to have slept with more people than I had...then I would feel less desirable. I'd try the flirty non-answers below, but some girls will press you for an answer. Your best bet is to …	/r/seduction	05/01/11 09:27 AM