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1	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Sorry to hear about that and thank you.	/r/MensRights	28/06/17 03:23 AM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Actually the opposite. I remember very little about my parents being together, but what I do remember was all very negative. Hers divorced around when she was 8 or 9 and she remembers much more. Very abusive towards each other, verbally and physically.	/r/MensRights	28/06/17 03:19 AM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. This is what I was wondering. I found some paperwork that we can fill out and turn into the state with our agreement on custody that covers everything. The only problem with that is that it's 10+ years old and I could not find any indication that the paperwork is still valid and used, anything new, or anything at all.	/r/MensRights	28/06/17 03:09 AM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Why not, I guess. I mention what is off the top of my head. She obviously wants marriage, says she doesn't(past experiences show this is not the case). Not the biggest deal, but it's been pilling on friction throughout the years. I made my view on it very clear before we got together. Our only common interest is music. That's it. That's how we started dating, lots and lots of concerts. Everything else either of us are interested in or have a passion about the others eyes glaze over. We both try …	/r/MensRights	28/06/17 03:03 AM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. I totally understand. It's been something that I have been struggling with for nearly 2 years. There is more than just "I don't feel it anymore" and we have gone to counseling. We have vastly different views on what our relationship should and shouldn't be. It has started to get to the point that our daughter will be effected if we stay together and if we do, we will probably end up hating each other. That would definitely not go in my favor. I feel that we both think it would be better for her …	/r/MensRights	27/06/17 01:33 PM
1	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Haha. I felt special there for a while. I guess it's doing its job.	/r/MensRights	27/06/17 01:00 PM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Thanks. This helps a great deal. make sure you aren't in a common law marriage. We are not. I have made sure of this over the years. We only meet 1/3 of the requirements in the state of Iowa. What I am looking into right now is finding a lawyer and do what I can(your suggestion seems to be the route I will probably take) and have a lawyer look over it and give any advice possible. I may be able to afford a lawyer in small increments, but going into court will be impossible(I have been working on…	/r/MensRights	27/06/17 12:46 PM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Alright, thanks. I'll start looking into this. I found paperwork from about 10 years ago for Iowa that a couple (unmarried) can fill out with their own child custody agreement. This seemed to be legally binding(as far as I'm aware) and I can't find any info on if this paperwork is still used for the state. My thought was to have that filled out and have a lawyer on backup if anything goes sour. Would that be a good idea? I don't know how I could get the money for one honestly.	/r/MensRights	27/06/17 09:08 AM
–	Looking for guidance. S/O and I will be separating, have a daughter and unmarried. Woops! Posted that on the wrong account. No biggie. I just don't want it on my history for now. Thank you! I tend to lurk all over reddit and don't really post much. I'm a little surprised that anyone would recognize my user name. A little flattering :)	/r/MensRights	27/06/17 08:28 AM