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I am aware of how bears eat people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:02 PM
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Don’t have one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:23 PM
0

The question isn’t about if you’re definitely getting attacked (although my answer doesn’t change). It’s just seeing either in the woods on a normal day.. that’s why we choose the bear. Bears prefer not to interact.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 05:21 AM
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I’m not going to explain what I mean here. You can dm me if you’d like to understand. Regardless. There’s a reason women are choosing the bear and it’s not because “that’s how 99% of the world live their lives”.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 05:06 AM
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I understand what you’re saying. I just would rather take my chances with the bear. I fail to see why that triggers so many men
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:58 AM
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I’m just in New Orleans. Men harassing women is normal here 🤣 wish I had the same privilege you do.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:57 AM
-7

So choose the bear 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:41 AM
-1

Yes. And I am constantly harassed by men. What about this doesn’t make sense? This scenario is not about whether or not I’ll see a bear? I’m guaranteed to see a bear. The bear is just significantly less likely to fuck with me than a man in the woods.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:18 AM
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Yes. But the situation itself offers the hypothetical man an opportunity that most every day encounters don’t. The question is not would I rather see a bear or a man in a public setting
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:05 AM
1

Seems like I’ve lived in the shittier states
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:04 AM
1

Yes and you are 1000x or whatever it is more likely to encounter just the man or is your question based on fantasy I don’t understand
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:35 AM
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Yes. That’s true. So can men. Why does it bother you that I think the bear would be a better option? I do not understand why you guys care. I just think the hypothetical bear is more likely to leave me alone than the hypothetical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:34 AM
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The question is.. if you were walking in the woods alone (as a woman) would you rather come across a regular bear or a regular man. With no expensing circumstances. Women are choosing the bear. Switching that to a whole different question including little rooms and super small time constraints is.. dumb. And not the point.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:33 AM
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I definitely gave you the legal definition. It doesn’t count being forced to penetrate as rape. That’s an issue we’ve known about.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:31 AM
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And yet, if we as men say "I 'have had negative experiences with women and because of that I can not tell which women will hurt me and which will not and thus I am cautious of all women" we get called "Incels and "Misogynists" or we get told "A woman can't hurt you in the same way a man can" I have never seen this. And if nothing else I have never said this. Some guy replied to me here and said that a false accusation ruined his life so he would also choose the bear.. and I said i understand. Ho…
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:26 AM
-4

That is true. That also doesn’t change what’s being said. Not even two days ago I had a guy sit down next to me and continuously grab my thigh. I asked him to stop. The bartender asked him to stop. He wouldn’t stop and had to be physically removed. Like yeah most dudes are nice.. but dudes are also very often not nice.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:17 AM
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No? The legal definition of rape is “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim”. Which is problematic for various reasons.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:15 AM
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You’re missing the point. I can tell by your silly question.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:11 AM
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There is no comparison. The whole point is that men are not like bears.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:08 AM
-1

Idk man.. less than a dozen non fatal bear attacks per year? That’s an awful low number. Especially since you know people run into bears all the time.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:06 AM
13

Can you point to where I mentioned masculinity for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:03 AM
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There aren’t any. You just don’t like what I have to say
/r/MensRights02/05/24 12:15 AM
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Black bears are the nicest of the bears lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:09 AM
-2

Whatever you say
/r/MensRights02/05/24 12:08 AM
1

Lmao no? This sub is such a mess
/r/MensRights02/05/24 12:07 AM
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I notice them all. Because I’m watching them all. We can agree that most men are harmless.. I agree with that. The issue is I can’t tell which aren’t
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:54 PM
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Maybe. But after years and years of nothing working.. it shouldn’t have been so hard
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:52 PM
1

I don’t know which words to use to make it make sense. I’m not holding you accountable. I don’t think you’re a rapist. I don’t know you. And if I saw you in the woods, I wouldn’t see your face and think “oop.. that’s for sure a rapist”. You’re just someone I don’t know. I can’t know your goals or desires. They could be nefarious. So I won’t risk it. It’s not personal.. I just want to make it to tomorrow the same as you. I wouldn’t stop to help a woman I don’t know on the side of the road either.…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:51 PM
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Nah. It’s part of being here.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:38 PM
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I don’t have an echo chamber. But some guy here just told me he hopes someone I love gets cancer.. so.. idk about being “heard”
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:21 PM
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Me too. Then I can stay high and get on disability ❤️
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:20 PM
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No. I have a bad heart. I can’t run very long at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:20 PM
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And the man could be a psycho. It’s a “pick your poison” scenario. I pick bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:19 PM
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That’s absolutely awful. I completely understand why you would choose the bear. I wouldn’t want to risk going through that again either. And that’s the point. Thank you. I hope everything gets better for you.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:18 PM
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Sure. But at this point in the discussion.. it’s a “pick your poison” argument. If I have to pick how to die.. I pick car.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:15 PM
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I think it’s birds of a feather. The women out here are typically just as conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:14 PM
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That’s not the implication. Yall insist on taking it that way and refuse to listen to the actual discussion. That’s on you. I can’t help if you don’t want to listen.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:14 PM
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No. But I have been in the woods with a cougar.. I imagine it’s a similar sensation.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:13 PM
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I have heard it from the man’s perspective. I don’t know how to help you understand if you don’t already. Some men get it and some men don’t. I don’t understand the difference. It must be a life experience difference of some kind.. it must allow some men the empathize while others just take offense. Idk.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:12 PM
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Don't care. I hope someone you love gets cancer, dumb cunt Men like you are the reason for misandry ❤️
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:07 PM
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Disabled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:06 PM
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I mean.. if you’re asking.. I’d rather drive a car than find either in the woods.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:13 PM
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Is this post satire?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:59 PM
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In my experience, living in Iowa (having lived), the farmer/blue collar men are not on Reddit and are paired up more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/0T0tpgLVT4
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:39 PM
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My best friend has endometriosis. It took her years to be taken seriously.. she finally convinced them to do an exploratory surgery and now she’s fixed.. after her doctors were shocked by the state of her insides 🤷🏻‍♀️ seems to be a condition that doctors don’t take seriously
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:33 PM
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See?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:28 PM
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Of course 🤭
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:26 PM
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If you want to ask the question in reverse.. you have to ask the same question. Ask your question you think would have men saying women are horrible creatures.. and then ask it in reverse. Don’t compare your question to the bear question. That’s not how it works lol. I’d choose the woman, because free sex. What the fuck is wrong with you people? You’re literally the man we’re scared of in the woods lmfao
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:24 PM
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If I’m out on a walk and I see them both.. I am statistically more likely to be attacked by the man. That’s all it is.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:21 PM
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That person isn’t interested in a conversation. Neither am I.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:20 PM
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Don’t change the scenario to fit your narrative. Would you rather see a woman or a bear in the woods? And why?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:16 PM
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The whackados on either side of this discussion help absolutely nothing. The crazy women who make it actually an “all men are rapists” thing and then these men who can’t seem to sit and think about it and say shit like “don’t call us if you get attacked a bear” are the reason we’re even having this discussion at all. I will never understand peoples propensity towards taking everything personally and being offended and aggressive. I do not become enraged when men talk about shitty women who false…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:13 PM
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You’re messy.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:02 PM
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No? Lmfao what are you on?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:01 PM
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I can only form an opinion based off my anecdotal experience. I don’t have a choice. Lesbians still get assaulted. Turning gay isn’t the answer. But again.. no one on my comments is saying that all men are rapists.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:01 PM
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Sure. I agree. But not in the proposed situation. A woman commenting on a post about preferring a bear is not the same as a woman accusing someone directly
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:59 PM
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Have you been in the woods with a bear before?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:50 PM
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I think the point is less about what’s more palatable (rape vs being eaten) and more about the chances of either happening. In a better world.. it would absolutely be safer to see a man off in the woods instead of a bear. The bear is a wild animal.. you’d think your own species would be safer to be around. But in this world.. statistically.. the bear is safer in that scenario. That’s fucked. And I think that’s the point.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah. Still a pick me ❤️
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:42 PM
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I have.. not blamed anyone for anything. At all. You’re willfully misunderstanding me to be a jerk. Boring.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:37 PM
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There’s no hate for anyone but you in my heart 🥰
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:36 PM
1

I don’t think I am. I hope you get picked though. Go be aggressive somewhere else.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:36 PM
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You are willfully misunderstanding. Are you also under the impression we’re talking about guaranteed prolonged contact with either… not simply walking through the woods?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:35 PM
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No.. I love more than one. We are talking about internet stories. Not names to faces real people. When my brother was accused.. I did not believe the woman. These are different situations. Believing women on the internet harms no one. Believing women who are actually attempting to accuse someone directly and get them in trouble.. is a bit more nuanced and you know it is
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah no. At least not here on my comments, anyway. Here the idea is that a regular woman is out on a walk. She can either see a bear in the woods.. or see a man. Any interaction with either is not guaranteed. The choice is hers. Now, I’m of the school of thought that a man is more likely to try to approach me. I am probably safe. But I’m nervous. I know I cannot fight the man and I cannot outrun the man. Everything goes smoothly.. he just wanted to make sure I’m ok. He leaves. To me that is more…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:30 PM
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It’s not about boooo men. It’s risk assessment. Bears are known to leave people alone. Men are not.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:17 PM
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I absolutely cannot escape the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:14 PM
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If you don’t want to have a conversation about this is a respectful way.. fuck off.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:13 PM
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You’re so angry. Bear.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:12 PM
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I have made it abundantly clear that I don’t hate men. I love men. I’m lying on one right now. But it doesn’t hurt me to believe, again, that at least one man in every woman’s life is a piece of shit. I’m willing to believe at least one woman in every man’s life is a piece of shit. Why aren’t you?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:12 PM
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This is a single encounter hypothetical as far as I know.. not living in the woods. Lemme go find the link: According to FBI crime statistics rape occurred at a national rate of 42.6/100k people in 2019. 9% of those were by strangers, so your overall national risk of stranger rape in the US is ~3.83/100k in 2019.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:02 PM
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I’d rather watch a bear eat my guts than watch some man cum to my screams while I die. Come on.. I’m dying either way here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:00 PM
1

Irrelevant. I don’t know why. He could have just as likely followed me for all I know.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:55 PM
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I suppose I’d have to ask how you know the accusations are false? Based of my anecdotal experience with men and my woman friends’ experiences with men.. I am willing to believe the stories of women on the internet. My willingness to believe these stories, however, doesn’t affect my overall opinion of men. It is easy enough to believe that one man in every woman’s life has done something unspeakable to her. That’s even statically accurate to assume. So where does the issue begin?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:54 PM
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There’s a roughly 3.83/100k chance of being raped by a stranger. There’s a 1/2.1 million chance of being attacked by a bear. Bears are fairly peaceful creatures that prefer to avoid humans. Their behavior is predictable. They’re just animals.. they hold no malice and have no ulterior motives. The same cannot be said of the man in this hypothetical. The bear, statistically, is safer.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:42 PM
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All the men who struggle with this have fundamentally misunderstood why women say they prefer the bear. Also bear attacks are more rare than man attacks. Idk how that gets glazed over. Edit: they banned me. So if you care.. dm me. I’ll debate you there lol
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:32 PM
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People are psychos 100%. Even women. But statistically, I don’t have to be as scared of women. And.. it’s just not what the conversation is about. The conversation is about men.. and bears. I’m aware that being eaten by a bear is gruesome. I’ve heard the sound bits from the grizzly man thing. I know about the Russian girl who called her mom while the bear at her. I get it. I can’t imagine how painful it would be. However I’m more scared of the horrors men are capable of. The worst thing a bear w…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:55 AM
1

What do you mean? The question is “would you rather be in the woods with a man or a bear?” I say bear. Bears are more predictable. If the bear attacks me I will die quickly as food compared to the many sadistic, cruel things men are known to do. That’s it. It doesn’t mean I hate men.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:15 AM
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It’s not about being a hive mind, my guy. It’s that I know a bear would likely leave me alone. A man likely would not. That’s it. It’s no deeper than that.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:02 AM
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Girl, you're right, sweetie, you'd feed a bear, and it would be one less misandrist 🙇🏿‍♂️ I don’t hate men. I love men. But you hoping I get killed is why I choose the bear 🥰
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:36 AM
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RemindMe! 2 hours
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:22 AM
1

Yep. And then I’d be dead so it wouldn’t matter.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:36 AM
1

Uh. Yeah. I’d rather be dead than be raped again.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:35 AM
3

Whaaaaaaat?! You don’t just absolutely love the look of soft dick while they’re actively peeing? Craaaaaaazy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:31 AM
1

Literally do not care. Just don’t be weird. Piss and leave like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:28 AM
1

Not remotely. I do what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:12 AM
1

What is this sub? Why are we downvoting comments that agree the punishment for RAPING A CHILD should be so severe?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:58 AM
1

Why is this comment downvoted?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:57 AM
0

What does this mean in practice? What is the privilege of every day life? Genuinely asking
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:44 AM
2

Does this have anything to do with the legal definition of the word “rape”?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:43 AM
-1

This is the way
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:23 AM
-1

And men have a harder time getting help due to the whole “be a man” thing 😩
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:23 AM
-2

Sure. But I don’t know that. That’s the issue. We know what bears are doing in the forest. We don’t know what men are doing.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:07 AM
-3

He’s not as scared of me if he’s raping me lol. Both will leave me alone.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 08:29 PM
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The thing is that a bear would likely leave you alone. And if it didn’t…. You wouldn’t remember the attack anyway cuz you’d be dead
/r/MensRights29/04/24 05:16 PM
1

I think you haven’t spoken to enough women if that’s your belief
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:15 PM
1

I guess I don’t understand the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:04 PM
1

That’s enough social standing. Anyone who needs you to be popular isn’t with you for you. That person is weird and shallow. If I love you and you don’t have friends… you’re gonna meet mine and they’re gonna love you. Because they love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:01 PM
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I like the quiet guy. It’s a preference. I don’t mind no friends. There’s a time and a place. Do you socialize at work? Do you have “work friends”? Because I’ll take you to meet mine at the bar. I don’t need you to be a social butterfly.. I am one. I need you to temper me. It takes all types. Making generalizations helps no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:47 AM
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Not anyone I know over here in New Orleans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:34 AM
1

Seems like a silly issue to be taking as an adult. Or you’re in the wrong place socially. Cuz we don’t care over here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:27 AM
2

How old are you? 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:10 AM
-7

slow blink
/r/MensRights29/04/24 09:48 AM
-2

Surely this wouldn’t be enforceable. Slander is also illegal but proving it is nearly impossible.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 07:43 AM
1

No, I mean women aren’t dying to see random dicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:42 PM
1

Dick pics aren’t very impressive anyway so that’s not a good judge of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:54 PM
1

The kind that ends in not remembering it at all so it doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:53 PM
1

Would I rather my daughter be eaten alive vs sexually assaulted? What kind of rape are you imagining? Something you think is gentle? Have you been raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:47 PM
1

I think the strongest correlation they found was nose size
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:06 PM
1

Unfortunately height doesn’t seem to consistently correlate to penis size. Any correlation between body measurements is so slight that you can’t accurately guess penis sizes based on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:56 PM
1

Right. I know it’s making you weirdly angry. But being eaten alive ends in nothing. It’s awful and then it’s over. Some people prefer that over surviving rape and then living with the trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:35 PM
1

In attractiveness? Or just “tall guys have big dicks”? Cuz they do not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:34 PM
1

People are comparing being dead to having to live with PTSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:27 AM
1

Men will, in fact, do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:14 AM
1

Not being able to have friends. I know this is not the place to talk about this, but for example, I came back to town to visit this week and suddenly there’s a bunch of bickering over dibbs on me and I didn’t even know any of them liked me.. I want to go back to when they were all just my bartenders. Idk what changed. It’s crushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:16 AM
1

Dick size does not correlate with height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:07 PM
1

If that’s your reality.. I can’t argue. I don’t care. My opinions are my opinions.. some of them just really bother the people here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:06 AM
1

Nothing is normal for him. He’s a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:53 AM
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Depends on the year
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:37 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:03 AM
1

There is no truth here. Only educated guesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:01 AM
1

And I’m saying it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:50 AM
1

It doesn’t matter. You can get mad and be rude.. but we live in different worlds no matter how emotional you are. A piece of paper telling me a random number does not change my experience. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:39 AM
1

Don’t need help. Just always interesting. Most of yall end up being super normal looking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:36 AM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:19 AM
1

Curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:19 AM
1

Genuinely I’d be interested to know. What ethnicity? Since you measure in kgs, I assume you’re not American
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:15 AM
1

So you’re not short, fat, ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:10 AM
1

What does that have to do with the shit okcupid study?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:06 AM
1

What’s stopping you? Incredible disfigurement?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:05 AM
1

5’9. Sorry g.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:03 AM
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Because.. in the face of a woman saying “no that’s not what it is” holding on to it.. is stupid. Which I have explained. It is possible to be rejected for any reason.. that doesn’t mean that reason applies to every woman alive. Therefore.. focusing on the unchangable things instead of acknowledging that everyone is different and your height or whatever maybe not be the issue.. makes you unable to take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:19 PM
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I want to kms What? lol why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:08 PM
1

You’re refusing to hear me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:05 PM
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I literally did not say that lmfao. We are talking about how some men refuse to listen to specific women who have differing opinions. I’m aware that some idiots won’t date men under 6’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:57 PM
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We’ve literally not been talking about women’s struggles at all. Don’t be salty and start using fallacies on my comment instead of engaging with the topic at hand. Go make your own comment and be “original” there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:38 PM
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That’s not what I said. These things matter in different ways to different people in varying degrees. For example: let’s say youre 5’6 and blonde. I don’t like blonde men. Never have. Not my thing. That will make me less likely to be attracted to you.. whereas being 5’6 was never going to be the issue. It wouldn’t have mattered if you were 6’ either.. I just don’t like blondes. They remind me of my family. Sooo.. getting on Reddit and bitching about how short you are and how some chick (me) at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:36 PM
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Bit of both. I like to have them measure cuz men over estimate themselves… and some, funnily, underestimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:29 PM
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Not really. Maybe more strictly classist.. but looksmatch has never truly been a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:27 PM
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Ah ah ah. Get this shit off my comment. No one said this but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:25 PM
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Enough to be comfortable making the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:23 PM
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I didn’t generalize. I spoke only for myself. Which plenty of women do. Those women don’t care. You can include the women who generalize too.. they don’t care. That’s plenty of women who don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:23 PM
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Obviously not enough to write a peer reviewed study about it, but 60+ gives me a bit of experience to feel fairly confident
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:21 PM
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I also reject that idea. From my understanding.. blue pill is just the idea that people are all individuals and there is no surefire way to be successful always. Just because some women like tall guys.. doesn’t mean all do. Some don’t care at all.. some prefer shorter (me). And there’s no point in sitting around scheming about it like the red pill does.. cuz nothing matters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:19 PM
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I love that you think I had a good childhood and I’m in a stable relationship because of what I said. That’s quite the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:37 PM
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What a smug belief to hold Let me guess. Normal childhood and teenage. Was loved had sex currently in a relationship with a good man Well good for you To me you just look privilege lucky naive and just spoilt The kind of feeling you would get when seeing a sone of a millionaire just talking about poverty as if he has a flying fuck of an idea? That's how I feel when I see people like you even breathe You’ve actually never been more wrong about someone in your life. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:33 PM
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Your BF is coincidentally 6’4 No? The man I spend my time with is 5’6 🤣 And dick size does matter to a degree. I won’t say it doesn’t. It’s just not as precise as the men here try to make it sound. Everything isn’t as black and white and headlined as they want it to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:45 PM
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If that were all it took to make men happy we wouldn’t be here and they’d all be with their looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:37 PM
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There are too many people on the planet. So obviously no. But just because you’re NT and attractive doesn’t mean you can have the women you specifically want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:10 PM
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It’s always a maybe. There aren’t really any hard answers in all this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:00 PM
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And I fully agree that it’s garbage. But you can’t say that here without people getting really upset lol. Average is for sure bigger than 5.1”. But I’ll settle with just saying that my experience has a higher average than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:58 PM
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All it means.. is that in my experience.. normal is closer to 6” than it is to 5”. Because normal is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:56 PM
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I don't like the that you laugh at everything. I expect more victimhood from you. Disappointed. Victim of what? 🤣 I’m not a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:56 PM
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Ultimately? No. But if height isn’t the issue in this scenario.. there’s an implied chance you could rectify why I’m not interested if you accepted that it’s not your height. Maybe not. But still also maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:54 PM
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We weren’t talking about the most desired height. We were talking about what’s normal to people. I said that it’s subjective based on what you’re exposed to. Hence.. 6’4 is a normal sized man to me. 6’2 looks short to me because of my family. My normal is not the same as yours. And your little graph doesn’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:53 PM
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I’m not contradicting if bluepilled people are all I come across. Normal people are bluepilled 🤣 red pill men don’t go outside imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:51 PM
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You’re blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:49 PM
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And that’s.. not my experience. Most guys are above the suggested average in my experience. And I’m not out here making men drop trou before going home with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:49 PM
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I was saying that my family is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:48 PM
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Oh for sure. But that’s not why they dig in their heels when someone disagrees with them. If I tell you height isn’t that important to me so you being 5’10 isn’t why I won’t fuck you., and you proceed to yell at me about the top 20% and what a liar I am.. it’s because you don’t want to think about why I might actually not want a piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:47 PM
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Blue pill is the antithesis of the red pill. Blue pill are normal people who don’t think the red pill holds any water. You need to read your definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:44 PM
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I already am. What are you talking about? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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I grew up in a family of really tall people. Even my aunt is 6’2. I’m accustomed to men being 6’4.. that’s “normal” for me. It’s all subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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You’re not blue pill lol There is no 20%. That’s all ridiculous and based off a crap study.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:34 PM
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It depends on what you’re exposed to. Knowing there’s a piece of paper out there that says the average is 5.1” doesn’t matter all to me with my experience being that penises average larger than that by and large. “Normal” is just what each of us have the most experience with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:33 PM
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I’d argue that “average” is pretty subjective too in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:31 PM
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Your study says that hip to shoulder ratio is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:30 PM
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I really think “normal” is kinda subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:19 PM
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Because this says “discussion” and not “question for men”.. my running theory is that people like that need something uncontrollable to blame for why they’re unlikable. Otherwise they’d have to hold themselves accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 PM
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Depends on the person, I suppose. I find remembering rape and PSTD flashbacks to be almost more unpleasant than the original experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:18 PM
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I mean sure. Says I’ve been raped before and would prefer to avoid a repeat of that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:17 PM
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People actually do that for livings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:16 PM
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Of course there’s humane death lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:08 AM
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Bear attacks are rare. Bears don’t want to attack humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:04 AM
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He could also be a rapist. The point is that you don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:56 AM
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I mean… it is. Obviously it would be hell during.. but I’m not gonna remember getting eaten. I’m dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:55 AM
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True. But don’t forget women’s long history of poisoning their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:23 PM
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No. Approach. Be charismatic. Be fun. But also go away IMMEDIATELY if you’re not welcomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:05 AM
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If you need that to understand potential consequences then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:58 PM
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It’s not the money. It’s the presence of the father. But ultimately the money is most important
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:57 PM
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I mean. Yeah. Leave women alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:56 PM
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Where? My statement is objectively true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:55 PM
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It’s such a complicated and difficult question to answer. But ultimately.. what affects the situation the most is the wellbeing of the subsequent child. The child didn’t ask to be born and will only be a functional adult if it’s raised well. If a man took the risk to have a child…. He should have to make sure that human being had a good childhood. There’s no other way that works. If you don’t want kids.. don’t fuck. Otherwise you’re accepting the risks. And that does mean making sure you don’t f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:24 PM
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I agree. I think if a woman likes you… you’ll see her a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:52 PM
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He didn’t cold approach so much as pretend to be injured and ask for help. Not.. quite the same. But otherwise, agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:48 PM
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Have you considered…… boohoo? If a woman wants you to know that she likes you.. you will know. If you’re not sure.. she doesn’t like you enough to be sure you know. And you aren’t missing out. This sub is so ridiculous. It’s not supposed to be comfortable to insert yourself into strangers lives with no invitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:47 PM
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What in the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:44 PM
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…Yes, having children is important to ensuring your society and way of life continue into the future. If westerners stop having kids, you won’t be here in 200 years. The Chinese and Indians will. And? I literally do not care about the race of people who make it. I won’t be here in 200 years anyway.. I’ll be dead. Why does it matter if the whole world is Chinese in 200 years? Ain’t fuck all special about white people that we need to survive the test of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:55 PM
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Oh no. Traditional gender roles might be fine at the basest point. But everything else that went with it was awful and should never happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:54 PM
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Oh no. Definitely not. Most people are just decent human being who are capable of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:45 PM
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I had a guy cat call me and try to follow me into a shop. Terrifying. But yay special treatment, right ?/s
/r/MensRights20/04/24 01:21 PM
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I actually believe.. it doesn’t matter. I’m not going to sit around wondering if people are liars lol. Makes no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:19 PM
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You have a very twisted view on marriage and very clearly do not view women as individual humans either feelings and wants and rich inner lives. I’ve not really ever seen anything like it outside the .is website.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:14 PM
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You should read about women poisoning their husbands before no fault divorce was legal ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:12 PM
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Less divorce means more husbands dying under “mysterious circumstances”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:07 PM
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Not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:05 PM
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Oh.. that’d be having babies, of course. Didn’t you know we’re obligated to pop out children? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:02 PM
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In past time, yes. But not necessarily due to traditional values themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:57 PM
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Oh no. We certainly aren’t the happiest on earth. You just don’t sound like you grew up here. Or.. if you did.. it was a really strange pocket in the south.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:56 PM
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She did make the effort. That’s how she got to the point of giving up lol. She asked him to help or work on something or change or try or whatever over and over and over.. he didn’t listen. So she gave up a little more every time he didnt listen to her. Then she finally left. And he had 5 million chances to work with her.. he just didn’t. She already cried herself to sleep for months. She’s just done mourning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:28 AM
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Men don’t need women either.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 01:25 AM
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Wow. Crazy how we watched two completely different movies.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 01:24 AM
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This is what it is. But the time she leaves.. she’s ahead mourned the relationship and started the healing process. It just takes a while to truly let go of hope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:22 AM
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I wouldn’t either if it made me a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:21 AM
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I dated a guy for years who wrote me love songs.. made hand made thoughtful gifts.. planned the future.. whole 9. But he was cheating on me the whole time with 5 other people. He had a second gf he was official with. People do weird shit. Sex is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:20 AM
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Do…. Do you think that because they used the word “traditionally” that that means they’re referring to traditional gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:10 AM
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Tag me when he tells you that men being virgins for too long is bad for their mental health and society as a whole or some dumb shit so I can read it too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:00 AM
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You are one of the scariest people on this sub. Are you American? Surely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:48 AM
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I’m genuinely horrified by the comment you’re responding to.. to the point where I don’t know what to say to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:45 AM
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She was not. She also wasn’t happy with him cheating on her constantly and beating the kids and her not being able to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:43 AM
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Literally none of this is true. Like… not a word of this is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:42 AM
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I think…. You fundamentally don’t understand why divorce happens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:35 AM
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Love isn’t unconditional but that doesn’t mean it has to stop. It means that if your partner acts like shit.. you won’t keep holding on and loving them. Because that’s not realistic. But even parental love isn’t guaranteed to be unconditional. Unconditional love is an unhealthy, impossible expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:49 PM
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Which is hilarious. Because.. why would that happen? Where are the real life examples of this phenomenon? I don’t see them when I touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:10 PM
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spits on your face How do you like it now? spits again Who is stupid now? That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:10 PM
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Oh. You’re stupid. Ok. Carry on, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:37 PM
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Wrong? The actual definition of the word is wrong? That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:34 PM
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Murder - the unlawful premeditated killing of one human being by another
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:29 PM
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Can you give me the definition of the words “murder” and “literally” real quick?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:24 PM
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I don’t believe that at all. He’s not charismatic. He preys on men’s insecurities. Those aren’t the same things. LA Knight is charismatic. Andrew Tate is just a grifter who knows how to speak to one specific subset of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:57 AM
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Cool. It’s not a person though. It might tide some people over. Some weirdos might be ok with it. But it’s not people.. won’t replace them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:50 AM
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Is.. not charismatic..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:46 AM
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We have this same conversation every day on this sub and every day the answer will always be “women are not a monolith. Different people value different things.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:46 AM
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Being rich does not give you charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:39 AM
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It’s not about feelings. It’s about the fact that you can’t prove something without testing it 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:20 PM
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Statistics are not absolutes when extrapolated to the greater population. Sorry guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:38 PM
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Oof. Yeah I bet that happens too. Maybe doctors are just shitty. I wonder if they’re taught something in school that makes them such assholes about stuff? Like.. why wouldn’t you be in pain if you’re diagnosed with some that.. surprise surprise.. causes pain?
/r/MensRights14/04/24 09:47 PM
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As a woman with a chronic illness.. I am taken more seriously if I bring a man to my appointments. Do with that what you will.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 12:22 PM
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It’s not about being sexist. If I wanted alternate views.. that’s one thing. But a woman can only speculate.. we don’t experience life as a man. That’s not the information I came here looking for. Men can’t truly understand being a woman either. I wouldn’t ask a man about a woman’s issue.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 11:27 AM
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Right. Whatever you say, sweetheart. You are the authority. Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:15 AM
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No. That’s not what cheating comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:14 AM
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I mean.. I don’t really want to hear about mens issues from a woman. But I definitely don’t want to hear about mens issues like this either.. the echo chamber of hate isn’t very educational
/r/MensRights14/04/24 11:13 AM
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You mean you can notice when they start cheating if you know what to look for? Or are you saying that once you’ve been cheated on enough to might start to notice a trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:15 AM
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This rhetoric is so stupid. Especially from a virgin who doesn’t date men. “Cheaters usually” cheaters usually nothing. People don’t always announce their ill intent upon contact. Such a ridiculous ignorant thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:03 AM
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Like.. this is very clearly not representative of average men. I do occasionally see some really good conversations in r/AskWomen. I do see a lot of a similar vibe in the feminism subreddit.. in my opinion. But less so than… whatever this is.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:35 AM
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u/CoolYak1774
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:29 AM
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Yall are so unhinged.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:28 AM
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This guy lives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:22 AM
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I came here too looking to learn about mens actual problems.. But this isn’t the right place. All you’ll find here is reasons to be misandrist. Resist the urge lol.. these are definitely not average men. There are places to learn about mens actual issues.. from men willing to discuss and answer questions tho
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:18 AM
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There’s a happy medium. Don’t get married as a virgin. But don’t sleep with everyone either. I have a fairly high body count and while I don’t regret it.. looking back I could have done without some experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:58 AM
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Yall ever talked to an ai? It’s not gonna replace anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:41 AM
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You’re not allowed to point that out here. Can’t you tell? This isn’t a men’s rights sub.. it’s an anti woman sub. If you ask any questions or make any real suggestions you’ll be treated super poorly.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 07:32 AM
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Imma be real with you.. it doesn’t sound like you’ve ever actually looked. This post very much makes it sound like you’ve been on a few dates just because it’s what people do and not because you actually wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:19 AM
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Not what I believe. You’re rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:38 PM
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I don’t read past “are you stupid”. If you want to engage.. do so respectfully or fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:28 PM
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My understanding of facts and absolutes is why I know that statistics are not hard facts when extrapolated. You don’t have to prove anything. It’s you who doesn’t seem to understand that when you extrapolate stats to the general population, you're essentially making educated guesses based on a sample. This introduces uncertainty because the sample might not perfectly represent the entire population. Factors like sampling bias or variability can affect the accuracy of extrapolations, making them …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:00 PM
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You’d die 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:55 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:54 PM
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The post is gone
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:41 PM
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Gosh.. maybe it’s cause I’m from New Orleans but.. no they aren’t. Still shouldn’t whip them out in front of kids.. but do not go to the French Quarter if you think boobs are as sexual as dicks. Boobs are everywhere. Regardless. Boobs aren’t inherently sexual. They’re for feeding babies and we just sexualized them for whatever reason. Mothers nurse publicly.. definitely not always with a towel. So. No. I don’t think they are on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:19 PM
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That’s not a mistake. That’s assault. I’m not going to mistakenly grab your dick as a joke. Where I’m from, both sexes get fired for assaulting people.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 12:07 PM
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The desperation came from your comment. It is your world view. It applies to you. You believe it is acceptable and normal to accept any person no matter what. Just because you want to be touched by a woman. It’s not. That is how people get more damaged than they already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:55 AM
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Have you ever been outside? Why are you under the impression only Chad gets women/relationships? And yeah. Some people have hybristophilia. Some people eat shit too. We don’t judge the entire population off people’s weird fetishes. Hybristophilia doesn’t support your biased world view. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:48 AM
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Yall are so ridiculous with this. You really think some piece of shit woman beater got his girl by being himself? He walked up to her and punched her and she said “my hero” and went home to be beaten more /s. No. Shitty dudes are typically charismatic as fuck. To the point where.. eventually you learn that if a guy is too nice… if you click too well… if he’s too interested… it’s cause he’s a psycho. Hard lesson to learn if you weren’t raised by a loving father. Nobody starts dating someone knowi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:25 AM
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If I was asked.. I’d say that perhaps men who don’t think women can be funny.. don’t actually like women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:18 AM
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Oh my fucking god. Being short is not why people don’t you. I promise. Ugly is subjective. My besties husband is ugly to me.. she thinks he’s hot. Whatever. There are oodles and oodles of short ugly dudes in happy relationships all over the place. It is not these dudes outsides that are preventing them from getting women. It’s just not. I am willing to bet damn near every guy in here is just a regular looking guy. Hell.. I had some guy message me from this sub all butthurt talking about how shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:06 AM
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One. Are boobs and penises on the same level? And two.. idk what to say about peeing on someone in front of other people and then spitting urine into the crowd. That seems like felony assault tbh. That’s disgusting. Some people aren’t into masturbation. I have dated men who didn’t care if I did and men who didn’t want me to. Find the right person for you. Has nothing to do with accepting male sexuality.. everyone’s got their own reasons for it. Usually some form of insecurity.. which has fuck al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:57 AM
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I don’t think there’s a big explanation. She’s just not that into you. That’s it. There’s no deeper reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:29 AM
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Because they blame everyone but themselves. I have yet to meet anyone who perpetuates these ideals that is also tolerable. I’ve met a few guys who are discouraged and confused but still engage and can be talked to pleasantly.. those guys have hope and I wish them the best. The dudes who perpetuate the rest of this garbage are alone for a reason and it’s best they stay that way until they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:11 AM
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Mmmmmm….. agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:06 AM
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Desperation exists because women dont date losers? Women do date losers. They do it all the time. If you don’t meet the standards to be hypergamy-ed onto.. do better. Why does society owe anyone a match? Why should someone who has goals and standards and some idea of what she wants.. give all that up for people she doesn’t want? Plenty of women will date losers. Losers just don’t seem to want to stop focusing on the women who don’t want them long enough to see the actual state of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:03 AM
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I think the issue is that we do care about looks.. just not the looks you think we do. There’s a lot of guys trying to force what they find attractive in a man on women and that’s just not how it works. There was a guy arguing about this a while back and he posted a picture of what he thought was a peak attractive man.. all women would just have to find this guy attractive.. I click the link and it’s some model looking guy with extremely sharp features. Very young looking (very early 20s maybe) …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:12 AM
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Your world view speaks of your own values, friend. And I’m aware of how it works. I just have no basis to tell that person they aren’t normal when they didn’t claim anything for me to say that about. You tried to make a point and it didn’t work. Your desperation for a partner is not healthy. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:47 AM
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Oh no. Just the part about the people here not getting relationships. I believe that. They also made no statements about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:35 AM
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Most people on here Seems accurate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:23 AM
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You forgot height. woeman It’s wahman to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:06 AM
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Asserting that something isn’t normal doesn’t negate the subjectivity of life. Your complete lack of self esteem, self worth, and sense of self is.. not normal. As decided by society and mental health professionals. You’re still experiencing life subjectively tho.. clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:52 AM
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Life’s a subjective experience. Plenty of men disagree with you. But good luck having anything successful with someone you don’t like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:44 AM
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Oh. I must have forgotten due to all the brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:39 AM
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That’s.. not normal. That’s desperation and probably mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:38 AM
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No no silly.. it’s because women are slaves to their animal instincts and can’t help but be attracted to all of the exact same 20% of men. It’s evolution at work. Hold on… there’s an app? No one can speak to me without a screenshot of their SMV from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:37 AM
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I imagine it helps to also be seen repeatedly in the same place just as a way to ensure you’ll be seen again. I’m not gonna develop a huge crush on some guy I saw once on the other side of the bar.. but if I keep seeing him.. I may just say hi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:30 AM
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Topic aside… the men have to agree too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:27 AM
6

I swear that study is more responsible for these guys not getting laid than anything else. Exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:17 AM
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This has always been my advice and I always get yelled at for suggesting it. Being “known” is the biggest obstacle to overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:10 AM
4

Apparently. I can’t do enough stretching for the gymnastics here. I have so many questions 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:07 AM
5

The replies to this post are a yikes. No laughter? How boring and lifeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:01 AM
1

Gun to your head. You’re willing to bet your life that if we took a survey of the whole population.. the average would still be 5.1”? And no. Fuck do I care about the size of men’s dicks? I just hate it when people use statistics as a “gotcha”. They aren’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:47 AM
5

Uhh. Depends on stuff. My sex drive is fairly reactive unless I’m ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:11 AM
15

Quick question.. what does this have to do with what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:10 AM
1

Are you “girl inches” the same used for a ruler or nah? Cuz you best believe I had that skinny fuckin kid measure his dick for me 🤣 shit was enormous. Fuckin size of my forearm just about. Mortifying. Only one I’ve ever seen like that tho. I saw one close to that scary but wooooo.. that was something else. Definitely rare if you ask me. So I mean.. yea. “Basically don’t exist” is probably a good way to describe them. But they are out there. I guess there’s a guy out there with 13.5 inches and an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:05 AM
1

Yes. About the sample collected. They cannot be extrapolated to the population with certainty. The extrapolation is based only on assumptions and cannot be taken as hard facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:25 AM
1

Nah. Dick length isn’t really thaaaat important to me. 5.1 is unfortunately small in my opinion, but I’d take a thick 5.1 over a thin 6anything any day. Plus.. no two dicks are the same even if they measure the same. They’re all shaped differently and used differently. One 6” might be better than another depending on the size of the head and who’s using it. My favorite dick I’ve come across? 7” on a good day. But every other 7” I’ve met.. just hurt and I didn’t care for it. Although I did date a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:57 AM
0

Bro. Dude. Buddy. Prove it beyond a shadow of a doubt. You can’t. So stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:40 AM
1

Which is lovely. But it is not, in fact, objective fact. Why no one wants to just admit that it’s beyond me. Also.. it’s 58k added up together from various studies the potential for error is enormous. You can’t even tell me if the data was collected correctly and yet here you are.. refusing to admit that statistics are not hard facts outside of their sample size. This is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:39 AM
1

Why would I have a problem with what I like? I never even said what I like. It’s sure as shit not 6.4
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:24 AM
1

You just said.. you cannot tell me with 100% certainty.. because there could be deviations. What the fuck is wrong with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:14 AM
0

I don’t care about this anymore. My opinion was that the average of 5.1” is wrong for the general population and if you measured every man in America it would be bigger. That’s my opinion. Neither side of this argument can prove or disprove that with absolute certainty. The rest is just dudes who need the average to be 5.1”. Statistics about a sample size of 58k are not facts about the rest of the population. It’s all extrapolated assumptions. I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:13 AM
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This whole argument is so stupid. Stats are only facts about the the sample. Once you apply them to the untested general population they become estimates and could very well be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:34 AM
1

Can you confidently tell me that the suggested average is 100% accurate when applied to the general population and would be reflected if we somehow measured every man in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:18 AM
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I literally don’t. This is such a stupid thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:17 AM
1

Can you confidently tell me that the suggested average is 100% accurate when applied to the general population and would be reflected if we somehow measured every man in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:17 AM
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I have never even heard of that. That’s so dumb. But I guess so was eating tide pods so whatever
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:50 PM
0

Mm. I put my thoughts about what was written into an ai to help make it coherent and “proper”. Easier that way.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:49 PM
1

We’re saying the same things. I just don’t believe that that extrapolation is worth anything in a debate. I don’t think a lot of the stats quoted here are worth anything. I think people use the information as a “gotcha” when it’s really just one of the possible outcomes. It’s not the reality. I could be right. So could the study. I reckon there’s probably math for that. But none of it matter, in my mind, because not enough people were asked. I believe in what I can see and what can be proven. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:34 PM
-5

What do you think it is?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:22 PM
1

This is so frustrating. The average is the average… among those specific people. You cannot apply it to the rest of the population as a fact or a truth. The point is that the study is not absolutely certain. It cannot actually prove its findings outside the study itself. Therefore.. I could be right. We will never know and it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:17 PM
1

And I do believe the average isn’t 5.1”. I will continue to do so and we can argue forever if you want. But it’s still just an opinion. Always was. I believe it’s 6.4ish and neither of us can prove beyond a shadow of doubt that it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:01 PM
1

She claimed they’re hard facts. You replied to her and joined the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:59 PM
1

Why does it bother yall so much that I have an opinion based on my lived experience? And yeah.. I have measured some dicks lol. Men also will send pictures of their dicks next to objects.. even rulers. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:56 PM
1

Statistics are not hard facts because they are based on interpretations of data rather than immutable truths. They involve collecting, analyzing, and interpreting data, which inherently involves some level of uncertainty and subjectivity. Additionally, statistical analyses often rely on assumptions and simplifications that may not fully capture the complexity of real-world phenomena. As a result, statistical findings are always subject to revision, reinterpretation, and contextualization. While …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:47 PM
1

You can Google that statistics aren’t hard facts. They’re soft facts. Idk what to tell you. Facts have to be proven. You cannot prove these stats once you apply them to the general population.. therefore.. it is not a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:45 PM
0

don’t want to accept that they’re garbage Does this prove the “you need a better personality” response to incels or have I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:13 PM
1

don’t want to accept that they’re garbage Does this prove the “you need a better personality” response to incels or have I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:12 PM
13

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:10 PM
1

People who have the same experience agree with me. People who haven’t.. don’t. It makes no difference to me. I believe the average dick in America is a little over 6”. I believe lots of things. So you do. If you gave me your opinion on this and you agree with 5.1”.. I could tell you why I don’t agree, but ultimately there’s no actual proof for either claim. So it’s irrelevant. I will likely live and die in a world where 6ish” is the average dick size. If your world has smaller dicks in it.. who …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:08 PM
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No. Never said it was. It’s an opinion. All I’ve ever said is that I think the average is bigger than 5.1” and if your measured every dick in America.. I believe the numbers would prove it. That’s an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:58 PM
1

Sure. Issue still being.. the statistic isn’t only a fact when applied to the specific individuals in the study. Outside of that study.. it’s just data. Not fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:56 PM
1

A fact is something proven to be true. You cannot prove the average dick is 5.1” without first surveying the entire population. Therefore.. not a hard fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:55 PM
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That’s lovely. However. Statistics are not hard facts. And they cannot be used as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:15 PM
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Why would I engage with you when you’re hostile as hell? I have zero interest in your link or your opinion. I didn’t step to you aggressively. Take a chill pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:59 PM
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I’m aware that some stats work for some things. Dick size isn’t predicable however. Stats do not work for something so randomized. Idk what to tell you guys. The average varies from state to state and most of the states report an average over 6” 🤷🏻‍♀️ clearly something is amiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:54 PM
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Yes it is. I asked it to put what I wanted to say into more cohesive words and it did. Perhaps you should try it. 58k isn’t enough. Statistics arent hard facts. Sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:52 PM
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While it's true that calculating an appropriate sample size is a crucial step in statistical analysis, it's also essential to consider the context and the specific characteristics of the population being studied. 58k might be considered a large enough sample size in some cases, it may not always be sufficient for drawing reliable conclusions, especially when dealing with populations as vast and diverse as 165 million men. Factors such as immense variability within the population, the presence of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:21 PM
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Statistics can be unreliable for several reasons. Firstly, sample size alone does not guarantee representativeness. Even with a large sample size like 58k, if the sample isn't properly randomized or stratified, it may not accurately reflect the diversity within the population. (Even with a sample size of 58k, it's important to recognize that while it may seem large, it's still just a fraction of the total population, especially when dealing with a demographic as large as 165 million men. Therefo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:16 PM
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6.4. Give or take. If you’re going to argue with statistics you have to be willing to acknowledge their limitations. Which you are not willing to do. Whoever was arguing with me wasn’t willing to either. Stats are soft facts… more food for thought than any actual truth. 58k out of 165 million does not a hard fact make. I could be right 🤷🏻‍♀️ we won’t know until they survey the rest of those millions of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:36 PM
6

So…. Don’t. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:51 AM
5

I mean.. no. Obviously not.. that’s how it gets done though. But I think college is a scam anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:45 AM
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Your exploration of masculinity and the discourse around toxic masculinity is incredibly thorough and thought-provoking. It's evident that there's a growing recognition of the detrimental effects of rigid gender norms and societal expectations placed on men. By delving into the roots of toxic masculinity, we gain a deeper understanding of how historical and cultural influences have shaped these harmful ideals over generations. Your analysis of the manifestations of toxic masculinity highlights t…
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:40 AM
0

are you stupid? Nice ad hom. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:02 AM
1

Is her boyfriend paying her bills? Why couldn’t the guy work and take classes?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 08:48 AM
2

I can’t and don’t care to empathize with the shitty dudes in this sub, that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:28 AM
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It’s not stupid. It just is what it is. There will always be people who struggle to find a girlfriend or a boyfriend. As society grows and learns and changes.. there will be periods of adjustment. I believe that’s what we’re in. Millennials are the first generation to truly grasp how big the world is and have unlimited access to all of human knowledge. That is bound to change how we interact with each other. We all get to adapt to this new way of life with no guidance at all.. I just don’t know …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:19 AM
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Of course. Unless the sample size is enormous.. everything is all speculation. It always boils down to anecdotal evidence anyway. If neither party in the debate is willing to accept that statistics are not hard facts and are severely limited in their reliability.. the debate isn’t going to go anywhere anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:02 AM
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Mmmm… I believe that happens. Should be a crime. Like stealthing is. And poking holes in condoms. Is it possible for men to only sleep with women who have physical proof of birth control to avoid this? Such as being able to feel the strings of an iud. Or being able to feel the implant. Or the one that’s a hoop that sits around the cervix.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:45 AM
4

Can the last two of your points not be said about any age group?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:29 AM
3

Did this apply to women in their 30s who don’t want kids? If they still ask questions like that
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:19 AM
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I think statistics work for some things. If there’s a big enough sample size. The studies I see quoted all over here just don’t have big enough sample size for any of the conclusions to be considered relevant outside food for thought. People in these debates use their stats as hard facts.. a “gotcha”.. and they simply aren’t. The limitations of these studies are so that they’re useless. My most recent fight about this was regarding the average length of American men’s dicks. It’s supposed to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:17 AM
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I don’t know what this is supposed to mean.. but it doesn’t change the fact that burden of proof is on him for his stance in this debate to have any credit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:05 AM
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Technically, if he were arguing that water is h2o and someone disagreed.. he’d still be responsible for the proof. That’s just an easy win tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:04 AM
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if this was just click bait Because it gets them views. I can see things like tinder causing issues just because it is such a bad, awful way to make select. But I really struggle to see how these other platforms would keep people single. Being able to see each others lives seems like it would cause more of that famous person effect where people think they’re closer than they actually are. And maybe it makes people think they’re ugly.. all these filters and stuff.. I doubt the brain can different…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:00 AM
3

Ah. I don’t know what I meant by my own comment. That must be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:58 PM
2

You must be better at reading than me cuz I don’t see where I said any of that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:49 PM
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You can’t say “most young men” anything at all if you didn’t actually survey most young men. It’s useless. It’s just trending. It’ll go away. It’s because people use all this rhetoric and prey on lonely young men for profit. Once the grift stops working.. this will go away and be replaced by the next internet fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:35 PM
2

How would our comments on Reddit posts affect societal perception? There’s literally no reason to lie here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:32 PM
2

You can’t take any stats about this stuff seriously. It’s all speculation and no hard facts. Until they are able to survey the majority of the population.. stats are only applicable to the specific group that was sampled. And sure, but why wouldn’t this theory affect millennials now? The younger ones (at least) use all the same platforms. It’s not like Gen z is the only Gen to use Snapchat and insta? I am worried for Gen alpha and the younger Gen z tho… idk if I’m old or what but those kids are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:30 PM
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Statistics mean literally nothing to me. I didn’t stutter. I said I have never seen the struggles listed here. I’ve never even heard men say shit like this outside of these weird niche communities. Most men don’t know anything about the red pill. “Look harder” is a dumb thing to say.. obviously they exist.. seek and you shall find or whatever. But it’s still all chronically online nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:23 PM
2

That’s all it can be. We’re all here just debating opinions. Only people like you aren’t actually willing to discuss anything..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:10 PM
0

This sub is so surreal. I have never seen the struggles they list here. Even the weird ugly guys I know have girlfriends or have had them since I’ve known them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:05 PM
1

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:03 PM
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Burden of proof is on you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:54 PM
1

60% of gen z What’s the sample size for that study? You can’t just make stuff up. As if millennials didn’t have MySpace and Facebook and Instagram and vine too 🤣 come on dude. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:53 PM
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60% of gen z What’s the sample size for that study? You can’t just make stuff up. As if millennials didn’t have MySpace and Facebook and Instagram and vine too 🤣 come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:53 PM
22

Source to all this complaining? I’d like to read it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:26 PM
2

Is that.. all you have to say? Lmfao. Nice debate. Enjoy your shit world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:24 PM
2

many women in their early 20s According to.. you? dating apps literally back up this Most people don’t use OLD. And.. the whole thing is set up for shallowness. It’s not an accurate representation of anyone’s actual values. A little critical thinking goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:23 PM
2

What’s the point of being here if you’ve already decided you’re right and anyone who disagrees with you is just lying for some nefarious reason? Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:40 PM
1

Because you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:39 PM
1

Sure. Shallow people exist. This isn’t a new discovery. But majority of people aren’t shallow. Why would you want to date a woman like that anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:44 PM
2

I know it’s a wild concept.. but talking to people and listening to them to learn will do wonders for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:32 PM
3

The wealthy people I have encountered all have an entitled air about them. It’s hard to explain. It’s almost like.. a different culture. I just don’t vibe with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:32 PM
2

At what point does a bunch of women disagreeing with something become evidence there might be more than one way things are? There isn’t a statistic on the subject you can provide that actually means any of this is true. It’s just cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:29 PM
2

I’ve read bits and pieces of that book and it’s all just LARPing and pandering imo. Whatever she allegedly experienced is not the universal male experience. So it’s about as credible as anyone else’s and even less compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:19 PM
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As opposed to.. fake women? You think we just lie to each other? We’re all just super secretly awful shallow people to the point where we guard the information like rabid raccoons? Just because you don’t like it.. doesn’t mean it’s some conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:12 PM
1

I suppose I haven’t had sex with anyone with a fat pad significant enough to hide that much of their dick so I don’t know about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:16 PM
4

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:13 PM
7

Well.. the second guy is an immediate no go. Too old and I don’t get along with well to do people. And the first guy.. I mean we just wouldn’t have anything in common. So either way I’m unhappy.. which means neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:12 PM
1

Makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:09 PM
10

Is neither an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:23 PM
2

Spoiled? Because I prefer to get to know people before meeting them? Anyone who doesn’t have the time to exchange messages.. and who has no interest in getting to know me.. isn’t someone I’d want to spend time with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:33 PM
1

Thanks for noticing.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 03:16 PM
3

A few? Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:08 PM
0

Since you said it.. it must be true 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights11/04/24 03:06 PM
2

You don’t just read the profile and then go on the date. Silly. You talk to them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:02 PM
1

That’s convenient to your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:58 PM
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I thought that this was said cuz of the whole “morgues prefer to hire women” thing?
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:57 PM
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I wouldn’t go on a date with a guy I’m “meh” about. That’s stupid and pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:51 PM
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OLD forces people to choose solely based off looks. That doesn’t happen in real life. I mentioned it elsewhere, but I am weirdly exclusively attracted to men with a specific type of big nose.. I won’t swipe on a guy without one. Why would I? But in real life.. I’ve dated all kinds of men and found them attractive too. They always had things about them that were attractive enough to replace the lack of the specific visual thing I like. My favorite ex was 5’4 and half black/half Native American.. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:49 PM
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It’s crazy to me that yall want so badly to be heard and understood. You want the world to change. But if anyone asks any questions.. you immediately resort to ad hom. I cared enough to ask to be educated to better understand. Now I don’t. Good job.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:32 PM
0

Wow. Idk what else to say. Just wow.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:31 PM
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It’s unfortunate that we can only truly compare famous people. The point wasn’t that they aren’t elite. The point was that we all like different elite men. I think Timothee Chalamet is absolutely hideous. My sister and her little friends think he’s fine as fuck. If you take that theory and apply it to regular men.. the pools of women who find one specific guy attractive become much smaller and more specific. Just because of exposure. More people who have seen you.. more people to potentially fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:27 PM
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I must not have been clear. Dating sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:23 PM
5

I’m not personally insulted. I’m not offended at all. You’re just super angry
/r/MensRights11/04/24 02:23 PM
1

🤣 once I noticed it, it’s kinda funny 🤷🏻‍♀️ it applies less in practice because being funny and kind and witty will get someone into my pants, but famous people? Who I’d swipe on while using OLD? All have big noses. So goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:19 PM
1

Huehuehue. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:15 PM
5

It’s funny cuz you don’t know anything about me, you don’t know me and never will, but still felt the need to try to tear me down. That’s not very Chad. Also.. blue pilled people like sex. So idk what your issue is with me saying “I’d fuck the breaks off” anyone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:13 PM
-30

In good faith.. these shows all look a bit old. Are there newer examples of this? I can’t think of any, but I might have overlooked it
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:08 AM
8

I was teased for having big boobs in high school. Should I second guess their attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:05 AM
-8

What should it have said to make the part about men’s needs equal to the part about the women’s?
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:56 AM
-7

You are on so many comments with this fake crap. It’s not helpful or conducive to intellectual conversations. It makes this sub look bad.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:48 AM
-9

It’s true. But I think the difference is negligible compared to the harm circumcision can cause. Safe sex is the way.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:45 AM
-15

privileges at the cost of men’s suffering. Which privileges are those? That cause men’s suffering. Out of curiosity.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:42 AM
29

People who dont condemn child predators are, in fact, child predators themselves. Full stop.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:40 AM
0

A better question would be “how many women feel like they’ve settled” and then go from there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:39 AM
1

Did you read this back to yourself at all to see how it sounds or just hit “reply”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:37 AM
1

I mean.. I’m not attracted to either extreme of the body type spectrum.. but anyone I am attracted to always (annoyingly) has a big nose of a specific shape with only a few variations 🤷🏻‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:34 AM
2

What’s important to note is that we do not see blue pilled men posting stuff like this. They say men are blue pilled because of their success with women.. but I say already having the personality to be blue pilled is the key. Some people… are simply intolerable. Take the Alpha Dom “dating coach” guy who was recently laughed off Tik Tok. He was laughed off the platform for his weird pseudo red pill “alpha” nonsense. There isn’t a single thing he could do to make himself more attractive to more pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:33 AM
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The fact that you just said “becoming alpha” signifies a fundamental misunderstanding of what is generally attractive.. which is likely part of your problem. Getting out of it is good tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:28 AM
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And no one’s idea is the same! The dudes in this sub think that we find all the same facial features attractive and body types/sizes completely overlooking that they themselves do the exact same thing. Personally.. one of the most beautiful men in Hollywood is Adam Driver. A ton of women don’t agree with that at all. Alternatively, a myriad of us would fuck the breaks off Jack Black. I know they like to bring up that they’re rich as if that explains it, but look me in my face and tell me bumping…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:25 AM
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But… we are attracted to “average men”.. which by your definition I assume means “under 6ft, making less that 6 figures, not famous, not a super model”.. tons of those men are wifed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:10 AM
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I do not have children because I hate children 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:05 AM
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And you know what? There’s more of those negative people than not.. and we all have a different idea of what’s negative and what’s tolerable and what’s enjoyable. Personally, I cannot stand loud people.. there are videos of Jason Momoa out at a bar throwing hatchets and he is so loud. He spends the video screaming “yee haw”. I hate it. I would never enjoy his company let alone want to sleep with him. Most people don’t truly get along with most people… and that leaves an even smaller pool for dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:04 AM
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I have genuinely only ever heard the 666 requirement bullshit from men in these subs. I have never had a real woman say anything of the sort to me. One might say “wow he’s so tall.. that’s hot” but that has never once meant “fuck short guys I would never date one”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:59 AM
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Yeah no. Dating is the worst. God himself could come down here and say “this is the man I have chosen for you” and I’d still expect it to be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:56 AM
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Okie dokie. How many people were in the study you’re quoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:48 AM
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men don’t have much intrinsic value I swear to god I only ever hear this from dudes in the red/black pill groups. So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:58 AM
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Great questions. Because it’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:46 AM
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Ok. That’s called an opinion. You’re allowed to have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:49 PM
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It is. It’s all dumb. But.. here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:42 PM
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There’s not much else to take away from it. They try… and then they stop. Damn near two completely different people. This is an incredibly common phenomenon. And sure. You could. I’m not stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:39 PM
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Men definitely do a lot of pretending to get laid. They do not continue pretending once official, however, and stop trying to maintain the relationship. Hence…. Men don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:12 PM
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In the manosphere, redpilling refers to embracing the idea that men’s unhappiness and lack of sexual success is the fault of women and feminists. Men who do not accept this reality are referred to as bluepilled. The term black pill refers to accepting the futility of fighting against a feminist system. Blackpilled incels are encouraged to either commit suicide or “go ER”/be a “hERo,” referencing Elliot Rodger’s 2014 Isla Vista murder spree that has been called an act of misogynistic terrorism. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:11 PM
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Some men do. I’m sure. Majority do not. I can’t speak on women as I don’t date them and have only seen myself and my friends try to keep relationships together with spit and duct tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:00 PM
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It’s shitty and shouldn’t happen.. but men give you way too much power when they falsely claim to have had sex with you. You lie about me.. I’ll lie about you.. yeah we fucked. And he moaned his mom’s name when he finished.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:58 PM
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Ah, the classic 'men and women aren't equal' argument, brought to you by the Department of Oversimplified Analogies. Yes, we get it, men and women have physical differences. Congratulations on noticing. But reducing the entire concept of equality to a simplistic comparison of physical strength is like saying apples and oranges aren't equal because one is rounder. Newsflash: equality isn't about being identical; it's about having the same rights, opportunities, and respect regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:46 PM
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I too have been punched for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:15 PM
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lol no You can’t just make sweeping generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:46 PM
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If you have the option and they’re nice.. why ignore that option and fuck the nerd? I don’t understand what men want. As if they’d give up a babe for a loser just to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:41 PM
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Good on you. It’s rough out here in the trenches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:39 PM
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It’s all a failing attempt to find a reason why they aren’t included in these women’s choices of partners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:37 PM
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It’s a frequency fallacy. They see posts about these situations and then assume it’s normal because there’s a lot of those posts… forgetting that this website is available to an absurd amount of people from all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:34 PM
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At what point did “child predator” stop being a severe mental illness? Jesus. The only time I lust without stimuli is during ovulation. Before and after that.. I can seek out stimuli to activate the lust, but without the conscious effort.. I don’t feel lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 PM
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Why shouldn’t she?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:24 PM
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I have looked men directly in the face and said “I don’t like you.. fuck off” and they still did not fuck off. Perhaps they couldn’t tell emotionally unavailable if it smacked them in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:22 PM
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As I get older.. the less I believe in the whole “find the one and start a life” thing. Men simply do not try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:19 PM
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You won’t find that here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:09 PM
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I don’t think they do, no. And how foundation changes a woman’s face entirely is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:06 PM
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It's quite a bold move to throw out statistics like 95% or even 70% without any evidence to back it up. Making up your own statistics to prove a point isn't exactly the most credible approach. The truth is, the reasons behind makeup use are diverse and personal, and trying to generalize the motivations of millions of individuals based on your own assumptions isn't a solid foundation for an argument. Let's stick to discussing the actual complexities of makeup use rather than relying on unsupporte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:17 PM
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I guess I just haven’t seen that. “Teen” was the most searched word in porn for years.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:09 PM
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Labeling all women who wear makeup as deceptive is a sweeping generalization. That's precisely why I brought up the idea of makeup as an art form – to highlight its potential for self-expression and creativity. Assuming that makeup is always used with the intent to deceive is just plain shortsighted. Sure, some individuals may use makeup for that purpose, but to paint all makeup wearers with the same brush is just bad faith. Let's not overlook the myriad reasons why people choose to wear makeup,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:05 PM
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Bringing up makeup as an art form isn't about focusing solely on its usage by the majority. It's about recognizing and celebrating the diverse ways in which people engage with makeup. Just because the majority may use makeup for everyday purposes doesn't negate its artistic potential or its significance as a form of self-expression for many individuals. By acknowledging makeup as an art form, we're not discounting its everyday use but rather highlighting its multifaceted nature and its potential…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:53 AM
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No it’s not.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:52 AM
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…this does happen to women.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:49 AM
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Just because the majority of women use makeup to enhance their features rather than transform into walking art installations doesn't mean it's not an art form. Art comes in many forms, and the skill, creativity, and expression involved in makeup application are undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:47 AM
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Appeal to the majority fallacy. It's true that many women do wear makeup, but it's essential not to generalize or stereotype based on gender. Just like any aspect of personal grooming or fashion, the choice to wear makeup varies greatly among individuals and is not inherently tied to gender or insecurities. Some women wear makeup regularly, some occasionally, and some not at all. Similarly, there are also many men and people of all genders who enjoy wearing makeup as a form of self-expression. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:42 AM
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The classic 'blame it on something uncontrollable' tactic. It's convenient to point fingers at factors like height or weight rather than taking responsibility for personal growth and improvement. Sure, there are aspects of ourselves we can't change, but focusing solely on those is just an excuse to avoid self-reflection and growth. Instead of lamenting about height, why not focus on developing confidence, charisma, and empathy? These are qualities that can be cultivated and are far more attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:13 AM
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I don’t shit post. Anything you read.. I meant.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:03 AM
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Ah, resorting to dismissive attitudes and gender stereotypes to deflect from the lack of substance in your argument? Classy move. But hey, if you're not interested in actually engaging in a meaningful discussion or defending your stance, then maybe it's time to reconsider why you're even participating in a debate forum in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:52 AM
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Assuming that going to a bar automatically grants permission for unwanted advances is not just outdated, it's plain wrong. Nobody owes anyone else their time or attention, regardless of the setting. And suggesting that being "standoffish" somehow reflects poorly on someone's character is not just disrespectful, it's downright absurd. And let's not even get started on your generalizations about women being ruder or meaner. It's as if you've never considered that maybe, just maybe, some women migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:47 AM
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This is not how debating works. You’re not even defending your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:32 AM
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And how would you recommend that be done?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:31 AM
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Just being here makes me a shit poster? lol. Interesting take but sure.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:30 AM
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I’m not. I think this sub is absolute garbage 99% of the time and the women who post the dumb shit OP mentioned are just pickmes.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:25 AM
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I mean.. yeah. I’d tell a woman the same thing. If you’re not prepared to accept the consequences.. don’t take the risk. This seems even more important to men since they don’t have control over the final decision to keep the baby or not.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:23 AM
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You know, it's interesting how you dismiss makeup as "NPC" when, in reality, it's one of the most individualistic forms of expression out there. From the ancient Egyptians to the Elizabethans, makeup has been a part of human culture for centuries, evolving and adapting with each era. Every stroke of eyeliner, every dab of lipstick, it's all a reflection of someone's unique personality and style, rooted in a rich history of self-expression. Insecurity simply isn’t the main reason makeup is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:15 AM
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I haven’t looked into it, but I know there are disorders that affect the ability to perceive people’s faces.. so that could play a part. It’s likely just that they never really spent much time looking at women who are truly wearing no makeup so they can’t see it for what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:55 AM
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Somehow I doubt you needed much convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:54 AM
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Well, I guess if we're sticking to the "insecurity" narrative, it's easier to put people in neat little boxes, right? But hey, why bother exploring the complex reasons behind someone's choice to wear makeup when we can just slap on a label and call it a day? Let's not muddy the waters with inconvenient truths like individuality, creativity, and personal expression. So sure, if it helps you sleep better at night to believe that makeup is solely about insecurity, go ahead. But the real world doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:51 AM
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This is such a refreshing comment to see here. Thank you.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:38 AM
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It’s like that guys who think some women aren’t wearing make up… but really they’re wearing a bunch of it it’s just a “natural look”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:33 AM
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Ah, makeup, a timeless form of self-expression cherished through the ages. From the intricately painted faces of ancient civilizations to the bold statements made on modern runways, makeup undeniably holds its place as an art form. While some may argue that the use of makeup signifies insecurity, let's shift the narrative. Makeup isn't solely about covering flaws or conforming to societal norms; it's a tool for empowerment and creativity. Just as one might choose a particular outfit or hairstyle…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:28 AM
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I think some people (guys) suffer from some kind of face blindness where they can’t tell what’s makeup and what’s not so they get scared and angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:18 AM
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No idea. Give it a go. Let’s find out.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:10 AM
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Stop replying the exact same thing to all my comments. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:31 AM
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it’s her call now. I’ve never understood this. Why did he get her pregnant knowing that he’d have no real say and it would ruin his life?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 05:30 AM
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God forbid I ask for clarification.. how dare I
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:52 PM
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Ah, the weary lament of those who clutch desperately to outdated notions of gender roles and accountability. Your argument seems to dance around the core issue of bodily autonomy with the grace of an elephant in a china shop. Firstly, the analogy of "choice to cost" being 1:1 is as simplistic as it is unrealistic. Life, especially in matters as complex as parenthood, rarely adheres to such tidy arithmetic. The notion that legal abortion rights somehow grant women unchecked power over men is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:09 PM
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I’ve addressed both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:07 PM
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It seems your confidence in your own research has blinded you to the wealth of scientific evidence and expert consensus that exists on this topic. While I'm impressed by your determination to stand by your beliefs, it's worth noting that confidence does not equate to expertise. Your insistence on oversimplifying complex biological processes and dismissing established scientific knowledge as mere trolling is both laughable and telling. Perhaps it's time to take a step back from your echo chamber …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:51 PM
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you dope Classy. Just because you linked multiple studies doesn't automatically make your argument valid, especially when they're cherry-picked and fail to represent the broader population. Quality over quantity, my friend. Perhaps try finding studies that actually support your claims next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:34 PM
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It's quite remarkable how you've managed to pack so many outdated stereotypes and misconceptions into one argument. Let's unpack this, shall we? Firstly, the notion that women hold a "sexual monopoly" is not only archaic but also wildly inaccurate. Consent is a fundamental aspect of any sexual encounter, regardless of gender. Suggesting that women have sole control over who gets sex and when is not only insulting to men but also undermines the agency of women themselves. Both parties in any cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:21 PM
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Your argument seems to oversimplify the intricate dynamics of human relationships and societal structures. Reducing the complexities of gender dynamics to a simple equation of libido is not only reductive but also dismissive of the multifaceted nature of human interactions. Firstly, suggesting that men's higher levels of horniness give women an "upper hand" implies that relationships and power dynamics are solely determined by sexual desire, disregarding emotional, intellectual, and social aspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:14 PM
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While I admire your confidence in oversimplifying complex biological processes, it's clear that your understanding lacks depth. Comparing penis growth to the predictability of African traits is not only reductive but also ignores the vast array of factors at play in human development. Your assertion that external factors are inconsequential in penis growth is akin to claiming the Earth is flat in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. Science has long recognized the influence of envi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:03 PM
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Ah, so you're cherry-picking lines from the study to deflect from the fact that it was conducted within the kink community, not representative of all women. Fascinating tactic. But hey, if you're into selective reading, let me remind you that the study's methodology doesn't magically validate your sweeping generalizations about women's desires. Maybe try engaging with the full context next time before accusing others of dishonesty. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:55 PM
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Let’s not sidestep the issue at hand. Encouraging everyone, even those with expertise, to continue learning and exploring new perspectives is a fundamental aspect of intellectual growth. A truly adept biologist would recognize the complexity of biological phenomena, including factors beyond genetics that influence traits like penis size. Let's keep the focus on the topic, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:09 PM
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Well, it's cute that you're so confident in your oversimplified narrative, but the world of genetics and biology is a bit more nuanced than your "no shit Sherlock" approach implies. While genetics play a role, pretending that environmental factors and individual variability don't matter is like saying everyone's destined to be a carbon copy of their dad. And as for your dismissal of legitimate research, let's just say that the internet isn't the only place you'll find credible information. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:52 PM
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Aaaaaaand go read more about it. Kisses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:46 PM
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Yeah.. that people on the kink community like to do kinky stuff. Thanks for clearing that up for me. Your stats are useless to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:46 PM
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1580 female participants recruited from the kink community Why are you trying to use statistics from the kink community as hard facts regarding the general population? Did you read your own source? Of course a ton of women in the literal kink community like to be spanked lmfao. The second study.. I couldn’t find the sample size and their methods seem a bit dodgy.. so I can’t form an opinion either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:51 PM
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…ok. So that discredits you right there.. because penis size isn’t entirely genetic by any means. Generally speaking, it's believed that size does have a genetic component. Studies have found that there is a correlation between the size of a father's penis and the size of his son's. However, it's important to note that genetic factors are not the only influences on penis size. Environmental and hormonal factors during development can also play a role in determining its size. Additionally, the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:32 PM
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Google harder darling 🥰 they’ve grown 29% ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:51 PM
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That’s.. objectively not true..? Have you not been to the part of the internet where men like that too? 🤣 and it’s a fetish so it’s not even a majority of either sex that’s into that stuff. Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:51 PM
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Ok. 5.1 and 5.5 are too small 🤷🏻‍♀️ sorry. I pinky promise you that if they asked the actual entire population.. the average would go up significantly (in penis measurements). You know dicks have grown 29% in the last 30 years? How crazy is that. It’s tickled me pink when yall get so up in arms about this. Super telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:50 PM
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…right. As a person who has sex with men, what’s your body count? What’s your sample size?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:33 PM
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You guys can hate it all you want. The average is bigger than it used to be 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:33 PM
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Tell them not to talk to anyone at all about it and get a lawyer. Or. Tell them to ignore it entirely. By brothers ex tried that. He completely blocked her and didn’t mention it to anyone outside the family. He neither confirmed nor denied if anyone asked. It went away. Luckily she didn’t take it further and it came out she was fucking his best friend. So.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Shut up. Is the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:00 PM
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That’s actual magic (if you believe in such things). So yeah.. but using period blood is the standard practice far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:38 AM
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*period blood. Don’t forget the best part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:36 AM
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Right. Ok. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:23 AM
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Good news! Penises are getting bigger worldwide ❤️ congrats boys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:42 AM
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….right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:41 AM
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Whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:10 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ so you say. I know what I know. Whether you believe me is irrelevant. Go do your own research and report back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:58 AM
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lol. No. I wouldn’t say that’s what it is. Although I’m beginning to think maybe this is such a point of contention here because all the guys struggling with it have less than 6 inches of dick. Which.. still isn’t many dudes to be fair. So it doesn’t change my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:31 AM
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They laugh.. but they usually do it. Not all guys have tape measurers so you get creative. It’s easier to get them to send pictures of their dick next to things for size reference. A coke can is a bit less than 5 inches 🤷🏻‍♀️ or pictures of their hands next to things and then their hands on their dicks 🤣 it’s a science 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:09 AM
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Depends entirely on who I’m around and what’s going on. I’ve been in relationships with men who had me wanting every day.. and I’ve been in relationships where I thought maybe I was asexual. We also cycle… maybe four days before my period I can’t be arsed.. but.. being in a relationship with a man I want and ovulating will have me gnawing at the bars of my enclosure for a week 🤷🏻‍♀️ when I’m single I want sex almost as much as when in a good relationship.. I just have no one to aim it at so it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:05 AM
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This sounds like a sexual dysfunction.. cuz I stay hungry for the dick I want
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:20 AM
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Women don’t know how rulers work so this comment makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:10 AM
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Bodies can do gross things 🤷🏻‍♀️ it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:55 AM
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Sounds exhausting. I’d be sore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:42 AM
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its sex with someone that isn’t the same person You’d think they’d just be poly then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:41 AM
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As a woman… my body has almost made the grossest smell I’ve ever smelled coming from a person. So I get it. I think dudes in clubs just like to focus entirely on what’s at hand. I just always like the stark contrast of it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:12 AM
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It’s not. You just don’t like that we’re all different. In truth, we can’t even all agree on actors. They’re just the crème de la crème so they get more women agreeing over them.. There just isn’t a “basis”. You cannot accurately predict who a woman finds attractive without knowing her specific preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:36 AM
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Are you under the impression that abortions cause amnesia and those women forget they were ever pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:31 AM
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The main argument I present is that no one is entitled to your body. They can’t force you to donate kidneys or marrow because it’ll save a life. A nonsentient “clump of cells” as it were, should not have more right than the fully developed human it’s feeding off of. The woman’s body doesn’t even want it in there ultimately.. what with the chemicals it has to make to hide itself from her immune system
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:07 AM
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I’m sorry. Yes. You all have big dicks. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:03 AM
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Which is the human way lol. Never seen a bird with an arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:57 AM
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Because we aren’t. Whatever instinct we might have had is gone. It’s been replaced by modern technology and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:56 AM
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It’s unfortunate that humans don’t operate that way. Be nice if you could tell a good mate off a color instead of just guessing and hoping based off whatever each individual likes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:55 AM
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My entire argument has been that liking big dicks is a rarity.. it’s a fetish, not the normal. I’m just also telling you that 5.1 isn’t the average in the trenches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:53 AM
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I’ve lived all over America so I don’t think it’s location. And both. I have definitely asked for rulers and explained what “bone pressed” means to my fair share of men 🤣 ultimately you can feel 6ish+ inches once you know what you’re feeling for 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:51 AM
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So you say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:55 AM
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That’s fine. It’s not right 🤷🏻‍♀️ dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:52 AM
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I understand what the study says. I’m just telling you that I’m pretty confident those of us actually fucking the dicks will tell you that 5.1 isn’t seen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:51 AM
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Thank you 🤌🏻 I’ve seen my fair share and 5.1 just doesn’t happen often. Big is awful… I dumped a guy who was big because he was big. That’s when I accepted that I don’t like big dicks 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:50 AM
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I don’t believe in it either. I think we evolved away from it with the advance of technology and then lost whatever instincts or drives we had before 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:49 AM
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Like I said…. Whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:48 AM
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I’m just not gonna argue with someone who thinks sweeping generalizations are useful in an argument about people’s preferences 🤣 I look at actually big dicks with a sense of horror.. and dicks I don’t want with complete indifference. I disprove your theory.. never mind my friends who have also recoiled from dicks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:43 AM
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Certainly would be.. if humans were subject to the rules of the rest of nature. Since we’re not.. you’d think men would let it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:41 AM
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….whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:39 AM
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Idk where they find those men for those studies. Not a big enough sample size.. cuz it’s not right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:37 AM
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God bless ‘em 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:33 AM
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Then you like big tits 🤣 plenty of men are not moved by big tits and prefer ass.. turning down a woman with big tits and no ass. Men are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:31 AM
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6 to 6.5. 5.1 is way smaller than most people realize, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:30 AM
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The locker room of strip clubs always cracked me up because of this. Outside that door they’re goddesses that men throw money at for attention. Inside the room tho.. they’re just gross normal people 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:29 AM
0

I will die on the hill that that’s not the actual average too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:28 AM
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And many men prefer smaller tits and receive flak for that. The pressure is there. “Big” dicks just hurt for plenty of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:28 AM
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Takes a bit to figure out what you like personally if you’re told what to like before you experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:26 AM
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I’d argue you’re lucky for having experienced that. Behind the curtain is a strange place, but you can’t put a price on understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:25 AM
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I’m aware. Because we don’t function off nature. So men using it and trying to pretend like they’re just naturally so horny they can’t help it is bullshit. If nature were such a big deal.. weak men would never reproduce. That just doesn’t serve their purpose so they ignore it and cherry pick the parts of “nature” that excuse their poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:24 AM
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“Big” dicks are painful to a ton of us. That link (that I skimmed) didn’t even say what size they’re talking about. The size women want is 6.4 on average. That’s not “big”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:22 AM
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I’ll die on the hill that women are just as horny. Just as filthy. It’s just not a meme like men’s sex drives are 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:15 AM
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What women like is fairly subjective in practice. We may agree on various actors, but in day to day life our tastes vary greatly.. and.. has nothing to do with books.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:13 AM
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what proof I’m not gonna look for studies, but an example I’ve experienced of this is the whole “big dicks are better” concept. They’re not. But the pressure to want them is pretty intense when you’re a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:11 AM
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I have. But it’s always a medical issue or extreme trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:10 AM
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If men want to go by nature rules and pretend we’re all slaves to our biology then they should also understand that the weak don’t get to reproduce and stop complaining. The female chooses the one she thinks dances best or has the brightest colors or whatever and the ones who can’t dance and are born/hatched with weak colors die alone. Nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:08 AM
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I mean.. no. How you get them is how you’ll lose them. But ultimately it’s not you who owes her partner loyalty.. it’s her. So go for it, I guess. Doing her man a favor.. if it hadn’t been you it’d be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:51 PM
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How does it affect society in a way that is a problem? It’s not a good example of what you’re upset about, I don’t think. She’s definitely super boring but neither of the guys that are into her actually have any free will about it. Edward can hardly resist the smell of her blood and is drawn to her because of that. And the wolf, Jacob, isn’t even actually into her… he’s actually attached to her unconceived baby and his entire focus changes when Rigamarole is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:39 PM
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How does this affect you enough for you to be upset about it? If a below average women thinks she can get a giga chad.. why is that an issue? twilight Have you read twilight? Just curious. disney movies I don’t see how these apply to what you’re saying. Like… all the women in Disney movies are beautiful? And animated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:31 PM
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I mean… Edward can’t resist her because of how her blood smells. Jacob can’t resist her because he weirdly somehow sensed he’d be creep bonded to her future baby. The “giga chads” fighting over her had no free will about it. Doesn’t really work as an example of what I think OP is trying to say. And I’m trying to understand what OP is upset about. I’m not dismissing anything.. I’m trying to clarify. Once that happens.. I’ll happily address whatever is going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:27 PM
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And that’s what upsets you? You believe below average women should never have access to “giga chad”? I’m just trying to pinpoint the actual issue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:23 PM
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Pot calling the kettle black, doncha think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:21 PM
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I don’t know which parts of the internet you’re on.. but over here we don’t want 18 year olds in porn and would prefer for them to make that choice for themselves once they have some life experience and self awareness under their belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:31 PM
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Sure but the next progressive step is what I described. Bella is just a plain boring girl who gets 2 giga chads fighting over her. You’re simplifying the book down to absurdity. The next evolutionary step is below average girls with 2 giga chads fighting over her. So… you’re upset because these teenybopper books will cause “below average” women to get laid? Is that… what I’m to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:15 PM
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I suppose the next question is to ask if you live amongst the wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:04 PM
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50 shades of grey and twilight are both what I described though, and they're super popular so... Umm.. yes those are books. Both of which are notoriously trash. Idk anything about 50 shades but Bella wasn’t 25 living with her parents. She was in high school lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:41 PM
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Uhhhh.. probably depends entirely on the woman in question since we aren’t a monolith. But you could maybe take some shows like Bridgerton/Queen Charlotte or Outlander and then just add actual sex to them.. and call that porn. “I cannot breathe when you are not near.. I love you, Charlotte. My heart calls your name.” And then just add some realistic sex and keep the show going. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:35 PM
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You could just say “I have nothing to add but I want everyone to know I hate women” instead. Save you some typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:30 PM
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Personally.. I don’t think it’s the salary that’s making any of the difference OP has seen. It’s probably just different socioeconomic standards amongst a tax bracket we don’t live in. Wealthier people have their own culture. It would make sense to me that leaving your wife after she has your child might make you look bad to the boys at the water cooler in a way that could effect your ability to climb the corporate ladder. I dunno tho. Just a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:28 PM
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Oh no.. I’m aware 60k is pretty good and definitely above the poverty line. I’m not the OP. The point is that this is where people post their takes about dating and stuff. This theory on hypergamy falls squarely in line with the point of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:20 PM
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That’s… kinda what this sub is for. Peoples opinions on this kind of stuff. You seem to be in the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:15 PM
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Why would I go anywhere when I have all the attention I need right here 🥰 thanks, friend.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 03:12 PM
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Not a victim. Never claimed to be one 🙋🏻‍♀️ good looking out tho. Yeah anyway.. so when a word ends in a constant.. you add ies to make it plural. I’m assuming the singular version of “cuckys” is “cucky”.. that ends in a constant. So.. it ends in “ies” in English. Just adding an S makes it seem possessive. Like “babies” vs “baby’s”.. babies is plural.. baby’s is possessive singular. So.. overall “cuckys” is just bad grammar. Hope this helps.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:40 PM
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I mean.. no. Not ignoring so much as.. just.. speechless. I’m just surprised they let you talk in here. Mensrights really are sending their best advocates. I’m flattered.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:33 PM
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cuckys
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:23 PM
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Yeah my definition of a pedo is the actual definition. But go off, king. You’re one of those guys who’s hates feminists so much he just became the exact same thing but in reverse. Have a good day, buddy. (Also when you pluralize something you gotta use “ies”. Just “ys” is possessive and doesn’t make sense.)
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:10 PM
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No? Lmfao. What on earth. I can’t even agree with you jokers without yall being assholes. She’s literally a creep rapist. She should be put under the jail. Pedophile just isn’t quite the right term. It bothers me when everyone lumps all child predators into the same wrong category. Then creep ass people can say “I’m not a pedophile they’re not prepubescent children”. We need to demonize the correct terms so these people can’t escape being labeled as anything less than monsters. Or whatever mumbo…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:03 PM
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“Used” that’s real nice. Love the whole dehumanizing of women thing that happens here. Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:41 PM
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Forgive me, I may be having a bad brain day, but are you saying that when people want to date successful people that that’s gender inequality? Or did I read that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:52 AM
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You can express whatever you want. You may not touch without permission and you may not beg/coerce.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 10:20 AM
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Make your own 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights08/04/24 10:16 AM
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I can't believe that Bryce prefers Van Patten's card to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:16 AM
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Never said it was. Just seems like an odd thing to complain to us about.. since the level you say this was taken to is clearly not a pervasive school of thought amongst the majority women. And sure, I get that. Raise your sons well and hopefully they won’t fall victim to abusive relationships.. but it happens. Be there and supportive if it does. All you really can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:15 AM
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It's very cool, Bateman, but that's nothing. Look at this……… Eggshell with Romalian type. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:12 AM
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Why are you wasting time thinking about people you have no intention of being involved with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:50 AM
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Time and a place, darling. You must let points about other things be made without trying to steal the spotlight for yourself or no one’s going to listen to you. Women cannot make brotherhoods for men. Women trying to be there in place of those brotherhoods makes it worse. Like I said. There’s nothing women can do about this specific issue.. and I did say “specific” didn’t I?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:03 AM
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I agree. Shouldn’t be too terribly hard for women posting opinions to prove they dated the man in question. Such communities would need heavy modding.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 08:52 AM
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What’s stopping you? lol
/r/MensRights08/04/24 08:49 AM
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She barely meets the qualifications for pedophile.. a pedophile is attracted to prepubescent children. She’s a rapist. Edit: it’s hebephile guys. She’s a hebephile. Use the right terms so people can’t duck deranged behavior.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 08:31 AM
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What does what women are attracted to (which is individual and subjective) have to do with gender equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:16 AM
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I’m not dismissive of men’s issues. I’m dismissive of men’s issues being used to strawman out of a conversation about how men need to be kinder to each other. If you want to talk about the changes needed for men in general.. I’ll find you on posts about that. But this comment.. this conversation.. is about how disgusting men are to each other. And how yall need to cut that shit out and be there for each other in the way that women are. Focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:15 AM
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Why are you not building brotherhoods right now? As an adult with adult man friends? What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:01 AM
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What… what instincts are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:00 AM
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You don’t think this might end in a bunch of men getting shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:48 AM
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This thread is about how women have a sisterhood that men don’t have. I said men need to figure out how to build that amongst themselves and women can’t help build a brotherhood. You went off on some fucking tangent. Build the brotherhood, my guy. Compliment the homies. Be the change. Stay on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:47 AM
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I mean. I might. Idk. I didn’t read what you said after you completely disregarded the entire message of this specific thread and went on a whole tangent about something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:39 AM
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I mean… look around this sub. Are many men not miserable? Look outside. Look at the rates of mysterious deaths before no fault divorce was a thing. It’s there. It’s getting better for women and it seems like a good portion of men don’t know how to fit into a world where women are genuinely their equals on all levels but (usually, not always) physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:39 AM
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You typed all that out instead of just telling the homies they look fetching today. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:36 AM
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I will acknowledge that men who don’t know how to appropriately be emotional are unattractive. Just like unregulated women are. I will acknowledge that boys are raised to be as unemotional as they can be. That’s wrong and causes many problems. None of those things are excuses for anything though. Adult men are just that… adults. Be the change you want to see in the world. Emotional men who are well adjusted and express emotion in a healthy way are highly coveted among their functional women coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:25 AM
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We don’t genuinely know much about our ancient ancestors. I’d like to think things were more equal back when we genuinely did need each other. But I agree that became less and less as we advanced. I’d have to sit down and go find the point in history where the traditions of treating daughters like property became a thing. I know at least as far back as biblical Greco Roman times women were not allowed the same freedoms as men and were considered property. The whole “virgin until marriage” is an …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:22 AM
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The answer would be men for most parts of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:05 AM
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Since you have this book and have read it you can take a picture of the page you got your stat from and post it here ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:42 AM
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Women have been bought and traded and used as status symbols and disallowed from autonomy for most of history. Having a “better like than someone else” isn’t the same as not being oppressed. Some slave owners treated their slaves well and their slaves led nice lives… they were still oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:41 AM
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Interesting. I’d love to learn more. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:30 AM
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Ok. Where are the links to articles proving that women weren’t considered history through most of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:59 AM
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Never said they were. Neither did you. Post the links that explain how women weren’t oppressed/property through most of history
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:57 AM
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Can you post some articles about how women in history weren’t considered property for most of it? I’d love to read where you got that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:31 AM
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Short according to the men here’s standards, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:23 AM
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Do they show this entitlement by not being interested in you by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:19 AM
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I’ve never seen this claim here tbh. I know people with tattoos are looked down on.. I’ve just not heard that specifically before. Also.. It’s 2024… why are we still acting like tattoos are anything more than people putting art in their bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:46 AM
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Ok but there’s literally nothing we can do about this specific issue. Men need to be nicer to each other in the way that women are. That’s the answer to this specific issue. Women being nicer to men makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:07 AM
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Look at that subtle off-white colouring. The tasteful thickness…… Oh my God. It even has a watermark.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:39 AM
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On your part. I’m sorry you don’t like how common it is for women to be assaulted.. doesn’t change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:25 AM
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I literally didn’t? Where did I say “every woman ever”? 🤣 I said once you add the ones who didn’t report and the ones who haven’t accepted that that’s what happened.. and then gave an example of a woman who hadn’t accepted that that’s what happened 🤣 yall really out here reaching on your tippy toes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:04 AM
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Please don’t psychoanalyze me. Thank you. You don’t even know where I met any of the people I know. You know nothing about me. I haven’t claimed You keep saying 75% as if 3 out of 4 is a substantially large number. It’s not. Perhaps 1 out of 4 is so many women that once you add the women who don’t report or haven’t accepted what happened to them as rape.. you end up with a number that includes nearly all women. My own mother claimed to have never been raped.. until after she divorced my dad and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:25 AM
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Very creative. I had to quote him cuz I knew he’d delete it and gosh it was just too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:19 AM
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What’s to be curious about? If you told me all women have been raped.. I wouldn’t be surprised. Far as I’m concerned.. we either have been already or it hasn’t happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:42 AM
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Yes. Put it in more functional numbers. How many women do you know? Is it more than 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:43 AM
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That’s stupid and not what I said at all.. but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:42 AM
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Your reality trumps mine. Nice argument. You are the worst person here btw. Actual idiot I just realised it's you banana bitch. Stats are 1 in 4. Nice ad hom tho. Really makes you seem like you’re right and a safe man for women to share their rape stories with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:37 AM
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The stats are 1 in 4 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:35 AM
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Right. Cuz men are robots and women are hormones. No. I don’t think it’s misogyny. I think it’s willful blindness and ignorance. But we can agree to disagree.. you’ll never truly understand and I’m happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:30 AM
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The reality is that rape is disgustingly common. That’s the reality. It happens alarmingly frequently. The stat is 1 in 4. That’s A LOT of women. If 1 in 4 of men were baby trapped.. you’d be careful where you came wouldn’t you? Or would you be here telling men to chill out because most women are good people and just because nearly all your guy friends are stuck in baby traps doesn’t mean it’s gonna happen to you! Stats are in your favor. And sure. We all know most men are just tryna make it.. l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:25 AM
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What do horoscopes have to do with this? Aside from you attempting to discredit and belittle me based off my sex. Your belief in statistics doesn’t make any of us any safer. I’ve been raped. My mom, my sister, my bestie, my bartender, my librarian, the girl at the counter.. at what point do we accept that even 1 in 4 is ridiculously common and stop being shitty towards women for not wanting to be caught unawares? And why does it affect you enough to be shitty about it? You’d think you’d want wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:18 AM
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God. You dudes that are so against women being cautious are such creeps. I don’t care about the stats. They’re great and all.. love that someone guessed some percentages based of a random number of people. Wooo. But it still happens and I actively don’t want to become a statistic. I wear a seatbelt for the same reason. If yall were have this up in arms towards the actual monsters who cause this issue.. maybe this wouldn’t be a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:14 AM
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Watching my best friend.. SAHP. But ultimately it’s probably a personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:11 AM
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And most people don’t report. So. The data is useless. Unless you believe that men rarely get raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:09 AM
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Ah yes.. women are the delusional ones.. for.. checks notes not wanting to date people they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:05 AM
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They must not have felt comfortable enough to have told you. Or you only know a couple women. Because that’s not even statistically possible. But thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:43 AM
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“Luckily” nothing. lol. That’s not how it works. I will likely never be kidnapped by a serial killer.. that’s true. Won’t catch me taking chances tho. Cuz that’s the thing.. most people aren’t dangerous.. but the consequences of being caught by that 1 psycho lands you in the Toy Box Killers sex dungeon. I’ll be cautious and hyper aware of my surroundings instead, thanx.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:42 AM
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Excellent. How can I tell with 100% accuracy which man is uncivilized?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:30 AM
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What is a tomboy anymore? I thought it was just supposed to be girls who don’t like dresses and catch lizards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:12 AM
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Not sure what you mean by that.. but no. I know a ton of women from all walks of life. Starting with my own mother and moving onward..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:04 AM
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Why do we have to talk about this every week? Why is it so hard to accept that men are scary and let it be? If you’re not a monster.. then you aren’t the man we’re talking about are you? So why be up in arms? I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped. I think that’s reason enough to be scared of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:52 PM
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Stay under the blankies. No but.. yeah men are the only scary thing in the night 🤷🏻‍♀️ never really had much of a city bear problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:48 PM
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I personally don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped. In the full meaning of the word. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:47 PM
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My bad, g. Lemme be clear. I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:46 PM
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I wonder what planet they’re on Why? Is there something else in the dark you’re scared of?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:46 PM
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No. But how are we supposed to know which is which? If you’re not a danger to women.. why are you concerned by them being worried about the men who are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:42 PM
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Are.. are we talking about the literal process of physical evolution or are we talking about how our bodies work and how that affects our survival chances and why we might have evolved to behave in certain ways? lol. No ones talking about alleles. Genotypes aren’t the topic here. Men being meant to be monogamous for the survival of the species is what we’re talking about. Why did we evolve to have useless babies for so long? How does that affect the survival of the tribe? You can offer me theori…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:25 PM
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….evolution exists. Fact. How evolution works? Theory. Guesswork. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:15 PM
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The blue pill exists solely to be the antithesis of the red pill. As a joke. But uhh.. yeah. Ok. Please link me the study with the irrefutable proof of how we evolved and exactly why. Since it’s so simple.. it’ll be easy.. cuz all scientists agree, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:10 PM
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Not one single time have you solved the issue of the man in question being related to all the women around him. What does a peer reviewed study have to do with evolutionary biology? It’s all guesswork. What we know to be true about ancient history/evolution changes constantly.. because we don’t actually know anything. But please… link me to the study that solidly answers all these questions about our purpose with irrefutable proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:36 PM
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Grandma holding your babies doesn’t make them easier to feed.. nor does it handle the issue of having very few unrelated women nearby? I know you want to believe you’re meant to sleep around and that’s your excuse for not liking monogamy, but it doesn’t work. Maybe just.. be poly and let that be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:15 AM
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I LITERALLY addressed why genetic diversity would be difficult to maintain? How would she know the strongest man in her tribe is weak if she’s never really seen any other men? You also failed to address how these men would be able to care for their many babies? You’re having this discussion in bad faith and intentionally misunderstanding me. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:11 AM
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Isn’t it not super common in Europe? I imagine America will catch up. Most the people I know leave it up to the father.. and often the father chooses to circumcise because he was and doesn’t know any differently. My brother was snipped for medical reasons and he wants to do the same to his kids. Edit: I just asked two men and they both said they’d also get their sons circumcised Edit edit: makes absolutely ZERO difference to the woman as long as it’s clean and functions properly. Don’t let any w…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 01:38 AM
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That it’s almost always medically unnecessary and makes absolutely zero difference for the woman so it’s dumb they care at all?
/r/MensRights05/04/24 01:29 AM
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Sure I’ll break it down. Be respectful. You aren’t “right” about anything. You can’t be. No one has these answers for sure. So debate me if you like.. but don’t be a dick. Who mentioned faithful loving partners? That has nothing to do with anything either. Are you making this emotional because you’re emotional or because I’m a woman? Having more than one fresh baby to a single man is impractical.. especially in a survival situation. But in order to properly debate this.. we need to establish how…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:02 AM
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Before I read all that, what does marriage have to do with evolutionary biology and sexual psychology? Nothing. You brought up marriage. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:21 AM
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A divorce rate proves nothing outside of an inability to effectively choose a mate/an inability to effectively be a mate. It has little effect on our actual needs? Nature doesn’t give a fuck about your happy marriage.. it cares about the continuation of the species. You can’t effectively do that in a poly “spread your seed” situation. That’s just the fact of the matter. Most especially not back when we lived in small tribes. Spreading your seed/not having one mate would ruin your gene pool and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:37 PM
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Ehhh. Evolutionary biology and sexual psychology is ultimately all just guesswork.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:53 PM
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The whole message of the movie was that the men don’t need mojo dojo casa houses to be happy.. it actually made everything bad too. Just like it had been before. And too much Barbie was also bad. The point of the movie was that we need each other and Ken doesn’t need Barbie to be a person.. he’s a person outside being her sidekick. He’s Kenough. Too much Barbie is bad and hurts Ken.. too much Ken is bad and hurts Barbie. At no point did I at all think the message was “man bad. woman good.”. I fe…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 12:05 PM
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It probably depends on the sex drive if the girl involved.. I like sex too much to just occasionally hook up with some random or whatever. I’m gonna wanna fuck multiple times a week.. if I’m doing that then I’m gonna want just one stable guy to sleep with. Now I have 2 boyfriends. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:08 AM
1

Yeah. It’s nearly impossible to go after someone for saying something in passing once. Without the repetition it’s fairly irrelevant. So.. the advice applies to both sides.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 07:50 AM
0

I think it’s a case by case basis.. I don’t think it’s a gendered issue 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:51 AM
1

50% is too high a number. You’re not listening and I don’t care. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:35 PM
1

And you think men with money have no choices? Explain that one to me. Or don’t actually. You clearly think your experience as a man applies to all men.. and my experience doesn’t count simply because I’m a woman? So I can’t possibly understand? I have spent copious amounts of my time (years) watching the phenomenon yall are talking about.. but because what I observed doesn’t fit with your narrative.. it doesn’t count? Maybe you and your friends are just in that minority that is just that despera…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:28 PM
1

That random people might make something up about you? You’re not even talking about people you’ve approached
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:56 PM
1

I’ve had rumors spread about me too. That’s not what anyone is talking about. What’s the name of that fallacy where people take what you’re saying as literally as possible while ignoring the realities of life? I know there is one but I don’t care enough to go google it. Sure.. some people are cunts. Congrats. But enough people aren’t for this concern to be irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:45 PM
1

Then it’s not because you asked them out, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:32 PM
1

You’re gonna tell me who they hire? 🤣 I’m the one who’s worked the industry for years but you’ve been outside so you know better. My bad, g.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:27 PM
5

I read the post. The lifestyle you describe has nothing to do with being an influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:25 PM
4

That’s not a lifestyle remotely unique to influencers.. most people who live like that are not influencers. What do influencers have to do with anything? Since when do people not want to be wealthy and pretty? “Travels a lot” has fuck all to do with influencers. “Child free” has fuck all to do with influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah. So. Influencers are often partnered with brands, promoting products or services to followers in exchange for monetary compensation, free products, or discounts. These content creators have access to a large audience and can share information to persuade others through their authenticity and reach. Simply being “pretty, rich, and childfree” has fuck all to do with it lol.. it would seem to me that “influencer” isn’t the word you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:09 PM
4

I was just making sure that’s your definition before asking you why the actual definition of “influencer” doesn’t matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:01 PM
5

….and you think that defines “influencer”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:58 PM
5

People don’t just expect to be influencers. What are you defining as “influencer”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:47 PM
6

But that’s not your argument is it? You’re trying to assert that women want to lead the lives of influencers. Different topics. All that tells us is that you have a problem with influencers specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:25 PM
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Because being very very specific in what you’re wrong about points to the issue being personal for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:33 PM
6

This is inherently untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:32 PM
1

You’re being intentionally difficult, right? If a business hires all sorts of women and pays them to create an environment.. and then those men only entertain their specific type of woman.. imagine that in a situation where all types of women aren’t guaranteed to be at lol. If I’m the only woman at the bar and I’m surrounded by men.. the chance they all find me attractive isn’t a given. And the chance at least one finds me compelling enough to approach.. is next to zero. So if I only go out once…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:24 PM
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It’s not even a city problem. The women like this are few and far between. Most people grow out of wanting to be internet famous, I think. It’s a newer phenomenon.. but my brother and baby sister both had the dream… grew out of it tho. Cuz it’s just not attainable without luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:16 PM
4

Not wanting kids is almost always a bit deeper than “detrimental to looks” lmfao. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:11 PM
1

Depends on your goal. If you’re being paid to humor men to create an environment where they’ll spend money and get drunk.. you approach all men. Any women who work in service industry will tell you the same things women who spend their time sitting at bars do… men aren’t out here throwing themselves at any pussy who smiles in their direction. They don’t need to. The portion of men that gets talked about here.. is the exception. Not the rule. Men are pickier than you think. Even the awkward ones.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:10 PM
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This is almost absolutely what’s going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:05 PM
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I approached all men. Regardless of appearance. You can’t have a logical answer about a situation you’re unfamiliar with. Also.. The 20% thing is so stupid. This isn’t Hollywood. We aren’t all attracted to the exact same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:01 PM
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Just another person who thinks something must be a certain way so they take that assumption and apply it as law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:54 PM
1

It’s not about me being approached. I did nearly all the approaching. Over and over. I’ve been looked into my face and told I’m not their type more times than I can count. Because that’s how it works. Shocking initially.. I’ll give you that. Because I grew up in a society that told me I’m what every man wants. But eventually you realize that human attraction is pretty specific. Majority of men aren’t actually willing to just accept anything that walks by. Some men like them thick and won’t accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:48 PM
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It’s just not how it works in practice. I’m a blonde woman with big tits.. the basic of western beauty.. but I work in an industry where you find out real quick that everyone likes their own thing and I’m not even remotely everyone’s cup of tea. It’s not as simple as yall want it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:32 PM
0

I don’t understand how this is invalidating anyone. Strangers don’t remember strangers. I’m not saying “no will remember you ever because everyone hates you”.. I’m saying “no one remembers decent strangers enough to sit around talking shit about them after they’re gone”. If anything you’d think that’s comforting. That’s like being worried people walk around thinking about your zit and then telling people about it later.. they don’t. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:28 PM
3

Is the takeaway of this post supposed to be “you be happier if you settled”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:18 AM
2

If you put a > before a quote.. it does the thing you’re wanting to do Like this. No space after the symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:15 AM
0

Narrowing down the pool of potentials as far as you can will produce faster results
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:28 AM
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“Me and my friends” in the job I was in prior to Covid for as long as I was in it in the city I was in it… I believe I can speak for majority of us. I’m from Nola. Which is where the crazy people come from.. you made this us. Women don’t do this. No perfectly nice, respectable man is being talked about after being turned down.. you know why? We don’t care. No one cares enough to talk about you after you’ve walked away. It’s weird of you and any man to assume that we remember you. Unless you did …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:51 AM
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I have. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:43 AM
2

…how? Are all yall living in tiny towns and only asking out your friend groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:42 AM
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Don’t forget that nearly the majority of women don’t want children anyway these days. So.. that’s already a lot of women that don’t want your genes regardless. And… uh…. Yeah? That’s what I said. Most people aren’t attracted to most people. That’s how it works. And on top of that.. we all like different things. AND when you throw OLD into it? Wooooo. How fuckin complicated is that? It’s super hard to take good pictures.. there’s no way to actually convey anything about you as a person.. AND.. me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:28 AM
2

I can see that being the reality. Ultimately, I’d think it would be easier to just go alone instead of trying to gauge the atmosphere of each location on each night and trying to put together an A team on that information
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:22 AM
0

Why is it a slow uncomfortable thing to realize not everyone is attracted to everyone? Shouldn’t that be like… common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:20 AM
2

I have literally never once ever talked shit about a guy for just asking me out OR heard a woman talk shit about a man who simply asked her out. That only happens when the guy is an asshole or a creep about it. Where did you make that up from? Or do you explicitly try to date high schoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:14 AM
2

Makes sense. I imagine you’d have better luck if you’re alone tho. Groups of men can be intimidating and having another woman there definitely defeats the purpose unless she’s actively involved in being your wingman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:41 AM
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Ok. I have never understood need for moral support around being told no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:36 AM
2

I have never understood the fear of being told no. Like.. she’s just done you a favor. You’ve now narrowed down the pool of potentials. And if she’s really shitty about it.. she told you she’s a bitch and that’s an excellent piece of information you’d definitely want to know sooner than later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:31 AM
1

I have also just discovered elsewhere that people think our hunter-gatherer ancestors were starving violent animals? Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:09 PM
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The men who say stuff like that can’t get women to knock on their gates.. so they pretend it’s cuz they have such high standards. It’s goofy and interesting to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:16 PM
1

Yall are aware that the blue pill crap is literally just the antithesis of the red pill to mock it, right? Like there is no “blue pill”. There’s normal people who don’t think about this junk and then there’s Red pill. Blue pill only came to be when normal people found this awful place and then stuck around for the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:55 PM
1

or whatever else. You now damn well this sub is mostly just men complaining about how women are all sharing the same 20% of men because we’re all sluts for Chad. Don’t even pretend that it’s not. Any intellectually stimulating conversation here is an anomaly.. not a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:48 PM
1

Send me a cool grand or I don’t believe you. Jk. No but really.. I didn’t say they don’t use socials. I said there aren’t any actually rich men on this website crying about how women don’t want them cuz women are all whores or whatever else. Idk. Maybe trust fund babies are little bitches. I guess that could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:19 PM
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If we’re in our late 20s early 30s then I’m going for the guy with 3 past relationships. If we’re in high school then I would prefer the virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:58 PM
12

Age is integral. How old are these men? How old am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:46 PM
1

You need better woman friends if that’s your main experience with them. I have worked in industries you’d think women would be the cattiest and never had any of these issues.. so either you need to surround yourself with better people OR you’re making this up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:07 AM
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Hardly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:15 AM
3

And you learned to be ok with that? Pushed yourself through it? That’s not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:12 AM
1

Why would using someone as an experiment hurt you? How old are you, friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:37 AM
3

This is the wrong place to get the male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:45 AM
0

Did you miss the part about damaging each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:43 AM
1

He wouldn’t be here. Yall clearly haven’t met actually rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:02 AM
2

This is a stupid idea and a great way to hurt everyone involved and leave them damaged for the next person who might actually value them/you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:15 AM
1

Does this comment make sense? I feel like I’m having a stroke. I gave you links to studies and stats for my claims. You thinking it’s odd only proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:49 AM
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You don’t have to admire something to be ok with it lol. I just don’t see how you can walk through life thinking men are so worthless and disgusting that they detract value from the women they touch. The stats are ridiculous (here’s an article about the study) You can’t live your life off them. They also say that people who are satisfied with their sex lives are more likely to cheat. Statistically, less attractive women are less likely to cheat.. are you going to not have a healthy sex life and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:05 PM
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You had one experience.. I had the exact opposite. That’s exactly why the stats are useless. You have absolutely no idea which side of the statistic you’re on. Worry is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:49 PM
1

I know what the papers say. It’s just not real life applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:52 PM
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Cheating isn’t a body count thing.. it’s a character thing. If you’re going to be cautious.. you must be cautious of everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️ and I mean… you should be anyway.. people are garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:26 PM
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Like with anything else in life.. there’s just no knowing. Worrying about it simply doesn’t help anything. A virgin can cheat just as easily as anyone else. Might as well focus on the attributes that make your time together pleasant instead of focusing on what might happen in the future. Anecdotally, I am a whore. I have never cheated. My first husband? Was a virgin when I met him.. and he left me for a 17 year old 🤷🏻‍♀️ worrying is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:19 PM
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Depends on who you ask. I don’t care about body count because.. why would I? They either want to be with me or they don’t.. body count doesn’t affect that at all. They’re going to cheat or they won’t.. worrying about it doesn’t serve me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:09 PM
3

Yeah ok 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:15 PM
2

Rich men just buy what they want. They don’t come here to complain lol. They don’t need to. Have you ever met an actually rich person?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:10 PM
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So, how come women believe only broke guys use Reddit? You’ve misunderstood. They are here.. the difference is: Successful men aren’t making dumbass comments in the pill communities. Successful, well adjusted, decent men don’t have these cockamamie opinions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:12 AM
2

They come and go pretty quickly. You gotta be quicker. Usually the crazies who talk like that delete comments. But they are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:07 PM
1

What their are Player who still live at their mommy’s basement and swimming in lady’s 💀 Damm that’s humbling What? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:00 AM
1

Men absolutely do not want “intimacy” with other men. See? You don’t know what intimacy is. You just think it’s sex. And.. it’s not. Intimacy does not mean sex. Yes. If men are obligated to build your house, provide you with electricity, heat, water, protection, taxes, roads, cars, petrol, schools, hospitals and the myriad other things men are obligated to provide you with. But they aren’t. “Obligated” is the wrong word. You are not legally or morally bound to build houses or work at any of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:53 PM
4

If you don’t work.. how do you eat and receive medical care and have a roof over your head and electricity? Do these men that drop out of society just go full frontiersman?
/r/MensRights22/03/24 12:08 AM
1

Sure. But they didn’t wake up and clean your house and make you breakfast lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:37 PM
1

In the first date? They didn't know me before hopping into bed with me a few hours on a date prior. No. That didn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:27 PM
1

I assumed you’re a loser not because you might be a normal looking dude.. but because you lied about women waking up and cleaning your house and making you breakfast 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:18 PM
1

You post pictures of all your sexual conquests on your Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:02 PM
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Yeah. I don’t believe you. Which I know doesn’t matter.. but I’ve never in my life met a man who’s successful with women that talks like that.. but I’ve met plenty of dudes who live in their moms basements who do 🤣 It’s irrelevant though. I saw you say that all women are attracted to the same shit so already I know you have no idea what you’re talking about. Have a good day tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:06 PM
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I will never understand the phenomenon of men coming up with their own sexual fantasies about other men and then deciding that must be what women want since it’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:36 PM
1

Listen up, fellas.. Men need emotional support too ♥️ check up on your homies and learn to communicate your feelings with each other so you can have intimacy in your life outside of just one woman. failing to uphold their end of the social contract What social contract is that? Are we obligated to keep men company and fuck them? I don’t remember signing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:53 PM
2

You obviously aren’t reading what I’m saying and you’re definitely not using critical thinking. Bring this up with your therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:52 PM
1

Lmfao. Don’t make it about race, first of all. Secondly, it’s women’s fault if they suck and it’s their responsibility to go get the help they need. Just like men. Talk to your therapist about your crap views and self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:49 PM
1

No. If any adult sucks it’s their fault. But we’re talking about men. Hence my word choice. I’m in therapy, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:19 PM
1

I define healthy productive manner the way it’s defined in psychology. The science of how wrong you are. Men and women aren’t different. That’s society you’re raging against. And men have controlled that long enough for all the “big boys don’t cry” shit to be their fault. You can’t deny that. It’s not going to change until yall start raising your sons differently. Get therapy. This is a learned skill. It’s your responsibility to learn how to properly communicate and emote. There is no “men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:17 PM
1

Because I don’t believe men grow in love like women do. I believe it’s either there initially or it’s not and nothing can change that. I don’t believe men and women love the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:52 PM
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I simply don’t agree. Going to the gym doesn’t make you of greater value than anyone else. I know plenty of men who don’t go to the gym at all that are lovely people. It’s an irrelevant personal choice. And nothing’s gonna catch up to me lol you don’t know me well enough to even kinda make a suggestion like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:38 PM
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I think often times it sends a message that that person has discovered who they are and they’re confident enough to be that person. I don’t wear makeup. It’s time consuming and I don’t care enough. I don’t care what anyone thinks about that tho.. I know I’m stunning when I want to be. The rest is irrelevant. So if a straight man is wearing fingernail polish.. perhaps it’s because he knows he’s masculine and his nails being a color doesn’t change that about him. The rest is irrelevant. There must…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:34 PM
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Im not introverted. I’m a bar fly. He’s the introverted one 🤣 but that’s not an issue. We have different lifestyles 100% but it’s because he wants to work out for hours a day and I’d rather put ice picks in my eyes.. All you’re doing is making these snap judgments on other people’s value based solely off your own values. You think him being a gym rat is more valuable than my being a bar fly so you think he’s of higher value. I’m just naturally in shape and never needed/wanted to go to the gym. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:14 PM
2

Hold up… wait a minute… why is this true? All the men I’ve ever known who wore nail polish were 100% sex magnets. I think I got my appreciation for men like that from Spike 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:08 PM
1

I also have a crush on this man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:01 PM
2

Let’s use a different example. Say he was a foodie instead of a gym rat. That wouldn’t work for me either. I don’t like trying new foods. I don’t like traveling either. Am I of less value because I don’t want to travel the world trying weird food?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:58 PM
2

I don’t want the opportunity. I don’t want to change who I am for someone. That’s not authentic. And I’m not giving the opportunity either. I don’t want someone to change who they are for me. That’s stupid. There are so many people on this planet.. why change who you are for someone? Your sense of self is supposed to be stronger than that. Being able to chameleon and having no set values is mental illness. We make fine friends. I encourage him and he encourages me. Our lives are better for havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:53 PM
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I weigh 120lbs at 5’5. There’s nothing wrong with my body by society standards. I just don’t care to spend my free time in a gym. We don’t value the same things. That’s ok. It has nothing to do with my actual value. I can date a muscular man who isn’t a gym rat if I want to. A man who doesn’t make going to the gym his whole personality and doesn’t expect me to go with him.. but instead wants me to play video games with him and go to concerts and stuff. Because he and I would have more similar va…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:29 PM
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Sure.. a value thing as in: we value different things more than others. That doesn’t make me a lower value than him. It just makes us different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:16 PM
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It’s based on enough to be friends. Not enough that we’d get along romantically. Example: He’s the very active gym rat type.. I’m the opposite. I don’t want to be with someone who’s going to drag me on hikes and make me go to the gym and eat healthy. I don’t enjoy that. I like video games and dive bars 🤣 but we’re both huge dorks with impeccable memes and I don’t mind listening to him talk about his passions.. so it’s enough to be friends, but not enough to combine our lives. Friendship. I’m not…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:02 PM
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A large portion of it is, yes. And until recently I’d say it was all men’s fault. But if Gen alpha is broken too.. that’s everyone’s fault. And as an adult man? Yeah. It’s your fault. Communication is a learned skill. Learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:57 PM
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I have a great guy friend who doesn’t want to fuck me. He and I value different things and have very different hobbies.. completely different life styles. Should I take offense to him not wanting anything sexual/romantic with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:53 PM
1

I think we have different ideas of what the man loving her more looks like. She still loves him in this scenario.. so she’s not going to treat him poorly? Because that’s not how you treat someone you love? I’m not saying the guy is in love and the woman is just there for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:50 PM
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No. That’s wrong. Yall wanna act like you’re not human.. And then yall wanna talk about some “male loneliness epidemic” as if you don’t do it to yourselves. Learn how to have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:48 PM
3

How about some liberTEA?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:47 PM
3

That is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard on here tbh. I can’t imagine taking friendship as an insult. Not everyone is romantically compatible. That’s ok. That’s not something to take personally? Like.. no wonder you guys are so miserable and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:45 PM
8

Well sure. Because men, by and large, don’t know how to share their feelings in a healthy productive manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:50 AM
13

Wait so.. being a guys friend is insulting to the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:23 AM
5

men evolved to be better with solitude Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:13 AM
13

You are aware that friends are supposed to use each other as emotional support? Right? That’s what friends do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:04 AM
1

I don’t think it has anything to do with power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:42 AM
1

Source?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 07:59 PM
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My side is essentially just the opposite of OPs. I believe (and have been told by little old ladies) that the man has to love you more. I also believe that a man knows really quickly if he loves you.. and if it’s not there almost immediately.. it never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:23 PM
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That’s not how the discussion is had though. Neither side is ever willing to compromise and accept that it might just be a relationship to relationship situation. I have never in my life seen a relationship work out where the woman is the more interested party.. but I’m willing to accept that might work for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:53 PM
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At some point.. we either acknowledge anecdotal evidence as actually evidence or we stop asking subjective questions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:45 AM
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I have had the opposite experience 🤷🏻‍♀️ this argument always ends up with the obvious two camps having nothing but anecdotal evidence to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:35 AM
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Hello fellow women! How about those men huh? Wows.. can’t believe you’d want to be young looking and not look in the mirror and see a stranger due to aging for as long as possible. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:45 PM
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You said we’re having sex for different reasons lol, that’s why I fuck. So. I was surprised men don’t fuck for those reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:26 AM
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Are men not having sex cuz they like it and it feels good? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:02 PM
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Sweetheart. Destin is packed full of millionaires. It’s a wealthy area. The crime there is from moron spring breakers being drunk and stupid 🤣 I’m 2021 Destin had a median household income of $81,827
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:11 PM
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Most of my awful experiences happened in Destin, Fl 🤣. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:48 PM
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Layovers for me 🤣 good luck out there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:53 PM
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I’ve been raped. More than once. All 3 of my best friends have been raped. My sisters been raped. My mom’s been raped. Her mom’s been raped. I can’t currently think of a woman I know who hasn’t at least been sexually assaulted. Crazy that you’re holding to how low of a chance it is.. but we all know multiple women who have experienced it and have probably mostly all experienced it ourselves. If anything…… we aren’t being careful enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:50 PM
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Watching you reply to literally every comment has been riveting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:47 PM
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Oh wow. Since men get murdered more and I’m much weaker than a man AND have the statistically more preferred parts.. I feel so much safer. Thank you. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:50 PM
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It probably wouldn’t help, if it makes you feel any better. I have one of those and a similar story to go with him. We finally saw each other again after years of radio silence. Hugged. And then immediately fucked.. in the car.. like teenagers. And that helped nothing lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:56 PM
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Men who take issue/offense when women are cautious are so sus. Imagine knowing terrible things happen to women and then being mad when women try to avoid those horrible things at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:37 PM
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I got followed out of work once and did the whole “turn the same way to make sure” thing. Popped into a bar fast af and told the bartender I needed help. God bless the bartender 🤌🏻 wasn’t the first time.. won’t be the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:35 PM
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This is… wildly false 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:25 PM
3

Oh but he has a FWB so he’s good 👍🏻 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:20 PM
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Here is an article
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:06 PM
1

“Female nature” is actively disagreed with by a bunch of women regularly Believe what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:18 PM
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“Once” lol. Ive never even met a man who meets those requirements 🤣 it’s a joke. A meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:07 PM
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Just add me to the list of women who’re here to tell you you’re wrong and I’ve also dated plenty of short men who didn’t make 6 figures or have a 6 pack because.. who fucking cares lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:46 AM
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And yet here we are.. disagreeing. Bunch of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:30 AM
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Accidents are, by definition, unintentional. Look, buddy, you’re clearly incapable of empathy or expanding your horizons or even understanding. You live your life as carefree as you like. I’ll live mine how I want to. Telling women to be less careful is such a weird thing to do. Why does someone else’s concern for their own safety bother you? Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:29 AM
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While it's true that the chances of being in an accident may be higher than being murdered, the risk is still very real and serious. It's also important to consider the intent behind each type of harm. Accident are usually unintentional, whereas murder is a planned and premeditated act, which adds another layer of threat and uncertainty. In terms of the idea that it's only rational to fear your partner but not other men, that's also not quite accurate. The reality is that we can't predict where …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:03 PM
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A red herring involves introducing an unrelated or irrelevant point in order to distract from the main argument or to change the direction of the discussion. In the conversation we’re having, the argument was about whether my concerns about my vulnerability and being a potential victim were valid. The issue of weapon use is still related to the point about vulnerability, so the use of this point would be considered a strawman rather than a red herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:02 PM
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He’s lying about his “observations” 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:52 PM
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The fact that some people have survived murder attempts doesn't mean that it isn't a serious and devastating experience. The potential for death and long-term physical and psychological damage are still very real and frightening possibilities. There may be some cases where people have survived in a remarkable way, but that doesn't make it any less frightening to consider. The prospect of this kind of threat is enough to create a real fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:50 PM
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By focusing solely on the size and weapon aspect, you’re essentially ignoring the main point and instead arguing against a distorted version of the initial argument. So, your response is actually still a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:46 PM
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The conversation devolves into this because saying “your list is wrong. We don’t actually feel that way. It’s a meme” doesn’t seem to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:40 PM
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I have to assume this isn’t entirely true. If it were.. I can’t imagine OP would be asking this question at all. Regardless.. fuck anyone who doesn’t care that you feel the same things they do. That lack of empathy speaks to me of narcissism and no actual care for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:39 PM
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Yeah. Old things get deleted eventually. I mostly forget stuffs there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:35 PM
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An appeal to extremes fallacy is a bad-faith argument. This is because the way in which it exaggerates or distorts a viewpoint or argument in order to make it easier to dismiss or rebut doesn't really engage with the root issue or the core argument in a fair or logical manner. The end result tends to be rather dismissive or condescending, and it doesn't really encourage productive and meaningful discussion or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:34 PM
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Appeal to extremes fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:32 PM
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This also plays a huge part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:13 PM
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Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:06 PM
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It might be true that accident deaths are more common than murder, but that doesn't mean that there's no difference between them. Accidents are usually spontaneous, unplanned, and unintentional, whereas murder is a premeditated act with a deliberate intent to cause harm. The severity and lasting impact of murder makes it a much more significant risk, and it's only natural to be more fearful of something with such dire consequences. I may survive a car crash. I won’t survive being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:59 AM
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Tu quoque.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:49 AM
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You appear to be ignoring the significant difference in severity and predictability between accidents and intentional harm. It's true that accidents can occur and result in injury or even death, but those dangers are usually fairly low-level. These incidents are usually relatively spontaneous and cannot be predicted or mitigated in advance. The likelihood of being murdered as a woman by a man can be reassuring in the sense that it means that we're not likely to experience such a situation. Howev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:35 AM
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Are there a lot of accidental elevator sneeze shootings? Just curious how often your scenario happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:29 AM
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Ooooo.. this is a super good answer. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:28 AM
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That is not what he needs 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:24 AM
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300 won’t cut it. You need 7000 souls to become a vampire ascendant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:21 AM
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That’s super gross of her and I’m sorry that happened to you. She’s an idiot. We’re both avoiding the scary road, know why? Cuz you’re as human as I am and if they get through you? I’m fucked. That’s not a chance I’m willing to take with either of our lives. She’s clearly never seen a murder documentary or a scary movie. Next time. Let her walk the scary road alone. Can’t save everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:20 AM
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I just value my life more than you do, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:17 AM
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False equivalence. Those situations are not analogous. While there is a threat of danger in both situations, the nature and circumstances of the threats are very different. The potential harm posed by other things is usually relatively minor and can typically be mitigated by taking basic safety precautions. On the other hand, potential harm from someone with the intention to murder you is much more serious, and it's not always possible to reliably predict or prevent such a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:17 AM
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Maybe men think it’s “weak” for them to be frightened? Idk. It’s probably almost definitely social conditioning. And yeah.. guns are a good idea. But not everyone can have one. They aren’t legal in all places of the world.. so it’s not a sure fire solution. Plus.. I’d like to make it to a peaceful death without the trauma of being attacked and then having to kill someone, you know? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:06 AM
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I too have been in danger and experienced violence. More than once. I’ve been followed home by absolute creeps. I don’t understand either. It wouldn’t bother me at all if men were more careful and situationally aware. I don’t know what exactly.. I can’t put my finger on it.. but men who get mad at you for wanting to be as safe as possible? It’s sus. It has an almost.. predatory undertone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:03 AM
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Ok. And I won’t go outside with a metal rod during a lighting storm either. I also wear my seatbelt, look both ways, read warning labels, google interactions between medications, and chew my food carefully. We aren’t stupid for not wanting to die and doing our best to avoid it. Ted Bundy got his victims by pretending to need help. He preyed upon how trusting those women were. I’ll be damned if that happens to me. Richard Ramirez raped and murdered his victims by sneaking into their houses throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:00 AM
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My answer didn’t change? I don’t understand. Men should be more concerned. More responsible. That literally negates nothing I said 🤣 My answer doesn’t need to change because men are more likely to get murdered by other men. There’s still a chance I could be murdered by a man.. isn’t there? Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:46 AM
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And my point is.. yes it is. I like being alive. I want to keep being alive so badly that I’ll be extra careful. Why wouldn’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:42 AM
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I read your post. You asked a question. I answered it. The answer to the question doesn’t change because more men are killed by men. Perhaps less men would be murdered if they were more worried.. like women are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:40 AM
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Answer my question then. We’re all just chillin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:39 AM
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He won’t. The answer doesn’t help his narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:39 AM
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It’s because men know how dangerous men can be. And we know how dangerous men can be. We all have either been assaulted at some point to some degree or we know someone who has. Or both. We’ve heard the stories and watched the documentaries of murderers and serial killers and cold cases. Idk about anyone else.. but I’d rather have a ton of pictures of license plates than end up a revisited corpse in the woods (see: Ted Bundy)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:38 AM
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You mean.. do I live my life doing my best to avoid unnecessary dangers? Why yes. Yes I do. It’s why we wear seatbelts and use turn signals. Why we have the FDA. Why we read warning labels. Why we own guns. Why we lock our doors. Why we look both ways before crossing the street. Things can just up and kill you. There’s a recording of a 911 phone call where a man is desperately trying to save his wife because she started choking on a marshmallow. She died. His cries are haunting. I won’t play chu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:33 AM
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I would agree with that. I have often been astounded by how bold men seem to be. When my best friend would go on dates.. she’d send me a picture of her outfit, a picture of the guy and his name and number, and then his license plate. Did I ever need to use that information? No. But it sure would have been devastating not to have it if I did. Do men do stuff like that? Do they fear dark parking lots? Do they fear walking home alone? Walking at night? Why not? My theory is that they overestimate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:07 AM
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I have POTS which causes me to pass out if I stand up too fast so.. I mean.. yeah actually 🤣 Regardless.. answer the question. Is there a chance I could be murdered by a man? Yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:02 AM
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Unfounded? Is there a chance I could be murdered by a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:56 AM
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So you’re telling me.. men are strong enough and crazy enough to kill other men.. to the point where they do it all the time.. and I, a 5’5 120lbs woman, am supposed to be comforted by that? That doesn’t track. Not only are men more likely to be unhinged.. men are also more likely to just kill people who might actually be able to fight back? And here’s little ole me.. definitely can’t fight back very effectively.. and I’m not supposed to be concerned? If all those men couldn’t defend themselves.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:54 AM
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Exactly. I really prefer not to be murdered. Men being more likely to kill each other doesn’t make me safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:46 AM
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If I get murdered and then two men get murdered right after by the same dude.. am I any less dead? Actually.. if 300 men get murdered and then I get murdered.. am I any less dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:36 AM
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Oh that’s easy. It’s cuz of the very real threat of being murdered by a man 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:13 AM
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Sure. I was just bringing the whole thing full circle. Though I don’t see why the 35% who like OLD matter in a discussion about how people are suffering due to over abundance of options and/or laundry lists
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:12 AM
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Ultimately we don’t have enough stats to know exactly why the percentage of that age group is struggling. Or even how they are. How many of those 9 million people think OLD makes things harder but also have no problems meeting people in other ways? What percent of them are socially inept? There are a lot of questions that need answers before we can blame OLD or the imagined pervasiveness of these “laundry lists”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:03 AM
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Ohhhh. My bad 🤣 Ok so what’s your point lol let’s debunk that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:51 AM
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….Your whole post is about them struggling because of laundry lists. You bright up dating apps.. not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:50 AM
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I didn’t think the 35% that think it makes finding a partner easier mattered to this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:41 AM
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That’s the part I quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:37 AM
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There are 53.5 million adults 18-29. 53% of 53.5 million is 28.3 million. According to your source only 33% of that demographic thinks OLD has made finding a partner more difficult.. that’s 9.3 million. That’s 3.6% of the population of the US. The number is negligible. OLD is not responsible for your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:25 AM
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Once you read the entire article.. the numbers get dwindled down to negligible. Not enough people both use and struggle with dating apps for this to be as common as you want it to be. Again.. I swiped around for 15 minutes and saw zero laundry lists in anyone’s profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:02 AM
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Your own source says “Three-in-ten U.S. adults say they have ever used a dating site or app, identical to the share who said this in 2019.” immediately when you open it Again. 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:43 AM
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My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:40 AM
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🤡🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:43 AM
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They’re with average women. Because nearly the entire population is just average. And to be honest.. I see more of these dudes batting out of their league than not. Just because you need a man to look like a movie star to be attracted to him doesn’t mean the rest of us share that affliction. What’s attractive is an enormous spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:41 AM
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I just downloaded Tinder and set it up as a man and swiped for a good 15ish minutes.. didn’t see a single laundry list. Can’t be that many. Also. 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:37 AM
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Not everyone uses apps. And not everyone has a laundry list of requirements on their profiles. As of 2023 only 30% of US adults have ever used OLD. And of those how many are prudish jackasses? The numbers are negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:21 AM
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Lmao. Which is super funny cuz I’ve only ever heard the dudes in these communities mention these definitive rules. And every time, a slew of women appear to disagree.. and every time the men accuse the women of lying or something 🤣 such a strange phenomenon. Beauty is subjective and most people have a range of what they’ll find attractive. No well adjust adult is walking around with a clip board going “oh youre only 5’11… oof. Sorry pal”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:32 PM
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Lmfao. Why do yall insist on this ridiculous list? As if short, poor, overweight, average men everywhere aren’t in relationships 🤣 go outside. They are the majority of the population and they have girlfriends and wives and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:16 PM
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Here it is. The answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:04 PM
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I can’t think of a single time ever that my body count matter to anyone I give a shit about 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:59 PM
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Slut shaming never stopped me from doing what I wanted. My sister is horrified of being considered a slut though. Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:56 PM
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Ok. What is anecdotal evidence? Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:43 PM
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Twas just funny that you were all my notifications 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:42 PM
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Source? I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:44 PM
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since they hate men. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:44 PM
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Lots of things happen. Doesn’t seem relevant tho. Most women have women friends and love each other. Most women are supportive even of strangers (see: women’s restrooms). I worked in a women only industry for years and only had maybe 1 or 2 rivalries in that time. Taking something you’ve observed in a minority and applying it to the majority in a sweeping generalization doesn’t work. That’s like me knowing that men assault women so I say “since men can’t help but to assault women” as if that’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:38 PM
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Again.. do you know what an anecdotal means? It’s not supposed to be conclusive 🤣 who ended the relationships They did. I’ve only broken up with a couple guys. doormat We’ve never met, but I’m not a doormat. Believe me. mind games Never once have I suggested playing mind games. Continuing to date your partner and getting to know them continuously isn’t mind games. lack of love Poor cleaning habits that have been spoken about is a lack of love. And a lack of respect. Go find the article “she left…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:17 PM
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Are you stalking me? lol. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:05 PM
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Weak analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:43 AM
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The fact that using Ad Hominem makes you look dumb isn’t ad hominem. I am not attacking you instead of your argument. I am making a statement outside our conversation. I am not supporting my position in this debate by telling you not to use ad hom.. therefore.. it’s not a logical fallacy. Your use of tu quoque is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:30 AM
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Oof. Ad Hom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:12 AM
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But you didn’t reply to my comment with the intention of engaging with me. You didn’t even really address what I said. You hopped onto my comment and immediately tried to shift the spotlight onto you and then throw out some manipulative crap about “because I’m a man”. That’s not an effective way to have a conversation, now is it? I don’t expect you to understand that though. Also. The ad hominem makes you look dumb. You should cut that out.. it immediately disqualifies you from the debate and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:59 AM
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I do. Thanks for checking in with me tho 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:46 AM
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Pursuing your SO and “playing games” are not the sane thing. That’s why you’re never supposed to stop dating her. Don’t stop getting to know her etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:12 AM
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This must be a Gen z thing because I have no idea what’s even happening in this post. Yall are letting apps dictate how you treat people? 🤣 Regardless.. you can do better. That’s the thing.. there is always better. There always has been better.. apps have nothing to do with that. It’s up to each individual to decide when they’re done with their search for what they want. And you don’t owe anyone anything.. no one does. I thought that was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:24 AM
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I wouldn’t call it pining. It was dating.. where I was the only one invested in a future. And I regret each relationship and should have left sooner. A hard learned lesson. Also. Never claimed to be a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:13 AM
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Do you know what the word “anecdotal” means? when the man stops trying, things fall apart Of course they do. A one sided relationship can’t last forever. Her liking the man more will drag the relationship on way longer than it should go.. but ultimately being neglected destroys you from the inside out. That seems.. obvious. the woman needs to feel pursued Why is that such a difficult awful thing? I’m not understanding why you’re so put upon by the idea of maintaining a relationship. If maintaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:11 AM
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What is this inane psycho babble? It's trivially easy to defend my stance and the only reason I even need to explain it is because you live in feminist bizarro world where you refuse to acknowledge basic dating realities so you can have it both ways. Feminist bizarro world? I have made no feminist claims and, in fact, stated that if a woman isn’t reciprocating.. the relationship is bad (and should be left). If you want to cling to traditional gender roles, that’s your prerogative. But let’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:56 AM
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Relationships fall apart without maintenance. There is no stability without effort. The “comfort” you’re talking about is a death sentence. And no. Men wanting to chase is a very common trope. Hence the quotes. I didn’t make that up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:45 AM
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While I am not genuinely a misandrist, as I do love men.. something that makes me feel as though I may as well throw up my hands and just hate all men is the men on Reddit. The ones who have these conversations. The men over in mensrights too. All the hateful crap they spew. Their inability to have open, constructive conversations about their point of view. Their inability to debate effectively as they often devolve into all sorts of fallacies. Their ridiculous amount of generalizing. How stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:16 AM
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Nice ad hom. Really makes it seem like you’re capable of defending your stance. /s It’s because I have an anxious attachment style. Regardless, I’m quite agreeable for men who don’t have toxic shit takes that perpetuate the emotional suffering of the very men they claim to care so much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:04 AM
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Nah. If you’re not receiving affection, you’re in the wrong relationship. Nowhere did I say the woman offers no reciprocation. Get your toxic shit off my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:51 AM
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As a woman who has chronically liked men more than they liked me… I disagree with this entirely. I believe that if a man senses the woman is way into him.. he stops trying as hard to maintain the relationship. It’s the whole “men like to chase” thing. Being too easy is boring. Blah blah. But I also believe that if a man doesn’t “love” you from the jump.. he never will. Anecdotally, the length and happiness of the relationship rests heavily on the mans shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:03 AM
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Yeah. That’s what it is. I did reply to the first part. You accused women of being indirect and subtle. What did I say? Do you remember? I said: Nope. I am entirely blunt and as specific as I can be to avoid exactly that situation. I'll be damned if someone's gonna be able to excuse their shit behavior by blaming me. That addresses your first point and your second point. I, however, declined to generalize and kept the discussion about my anecdotal experience.. as I have for this entire pointless…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:38 PM
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Link me to the post about the inverse of the situation OP is discussing that I commented on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:34 PM
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The tu quoque fallacy is not an effective method of discussion 🤣 try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:33 PM
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My comment is about my personal experience 🤣 I didn’t generalize or assume anything. You took that and made it about you without even trying to engage in a dialogue about what the post is about. That’s not effective communication 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:32 PM
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If he ignored you some part of me doubts he actually got what you meant You addressed me directly. I responded to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:29 PM
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That’s my experience as well. My running theory is that because they don’t care about the issues their SO brought up.. they aren’t important issues. Unfortunately for them.. the 15th time I ask you to do something.. I’m beginning the process of being over the whole relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:28 PM
11

And are we talking about every woman? No. You’re trying to generalize my anecdotal response to the post.. you can’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:25 PM
18

Because we’re.. talking about me.. Those are also super common issues so it’s not a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:22 PM
15

Sure. But we’re talking about me, aren’t we
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:20 PM
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Nope. I am entirely blunt and as specific as I can be to avoid exactly that situation. I’ll be damned if someone’s gonna be able to excuse their shit behavior by blaming me. Also.. somehow.. I don’t see how “pick up after yourself” or “don’t raise your voice” or “please text me when you’re going to be late” and other related issues can be misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:15 PM
12

Yeah. I reply to the topics at hand. You should try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:12 PM
18

Is that what this post is about? No. Anecdotally.. Here’s another issue with y’all. You pick the worst times to try to make everything about you. Me: “Here’s my experience on this specific topic we’re discussing.” You: “But what about MEEEE??? 😢” Go make a post about the inverse situation and then we can discuss your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:06 PM
1

Wrong. That is not the comment I replied to. This thread isn’t talking about the scenario in OPs post hardly at all. The comment I replied to has its own specific scenario.. which is men faking quality of character to get laid and then reverting to being shitty after they get “comfortable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:51 PM
9

Yes he is. Because it is. Because if the issue isn’t worked out.. if there’s not a compromise made.. if there’s no effective communication.. the marriage will end. That shit piles up and strangles the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:46 PM
47

The amount of times I’ve looked a man in the face and told him exactly what was wrong and exactly what I needed and he just completely ignored me lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:43 PM
1

Because that’s what this conversation is about. What is wrong with you people? If you wanna talk about shitty women.. make a thread about it. Whataboutisms suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:11 PM
1

It’s just being careful. That doesn’t mean I walk around thinking everyone’s a rapist. The thought process doesn’t get that far. I walk around thinking I need to be situationally aware and do my best to avoid any sketchy situations. The people around me are irrelevant. I can’t tell who’s dangerous and who’s not just by looking. I’d behave the same way if there were no people around.. don’t walk down a dark alley. Lock your car door when you get in the car. So on.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 07:39 AM
1

I guess there’s a chance that would happen. In my experience.. the relationship ending is when I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:25 AM
2

Yeah. Enjoy your life but be safe. Like wear condoms so there’s less chance of baby trapping and such.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 06:01 AM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:57 AM
1

Because that’s not what we’re talking about, sweetie. If you’d like to make a whole thread about the man’s POV.. feel free. But that’s not what I replied to so it not what I’m talking about. In this scenario, the woman is being neglected and she’s actively pursuing solutions via compromises that the man fails to uphold. It’s a one sided relationship.. which is what we’re talking about. Don’t strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:05 AM
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Yeah, the Toby thing was super fucked. He’s a cool guy. A little intense but I’d expect that from a guy who made his living being so energetic
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:02 AM
1

It’s not about being a “good person” the way you mean it.. it’s about being developed enough to handle the responsibility of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:58 AM
2

Honestly the “not all women” and “not all men” thing bothers me. Because it is all people. All people are potentially a threat. It’s safer to assume they will assault you than not to. It encourages situational awareness. I’ve been assaulted by men and women. Women are worse by far in my experience. Assault by men is scarier, but women are entitled and gross because they’re women and don’t see themselves as a “threat” so they do what they please. I’m not saying to be scared and never go outside o…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:12 AM
11

What works is never slacking off in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:36 AM
2

Ok buddy. Adding the comment and then replying to me like I’m stupid without even mentioning that you edited it is shiesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:37 AM
2

You edited your comment and added that lmfao. That’s not very honest of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:32 AM
1

You’re being willfully ignorant. My original comment was that if a man is the described Clark Kent he needs to stay out of relationships instead of harming whatever women he can trick by pretending to be Superman. Yes. I’m sorry you had to find out this way, but you do actually have to put effort into relationships for them to work. Clark Kent is inept. And you literally proved her point by making excuses for the man who’s absolutely neglecting his partner. Read it again if you still don’t under…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:25 AM
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You must have forgotten what we’re talking about.. let me help. You start dating a man who in the beginning is the most affectionate partner you could ask for. Showering you in attention love and affection. It feels so surreal because this is how you would love to show up in a relationship. You are physical touch love language hands down. It's how you connect and you are feeling it. Then after 6 months that constant stream of affection which felt so effortless to receive starts coming at a trick…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:16 AM
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That’s what we’re talking about. Pretending to be something you’re not to secure the relationship and reverting to your useless, inept true state when you’ve secured the bag, as it were. The whole comment were replying ti was about the man doing less and less and less to maintain the relationship. Emotional neglect. Clark Kent, in this metaphor, is the complete lack of effort said man slips into after he’s done pretending to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:50 PM
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Putting on makeup isn’t completely faking your ability to connect and care for someone. Pretending you genuinely care for someone just to turn around and emotionally neglect them once you’re comfortable is a really shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:38 PM
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Then they shouldnt be in one. If who you are as a person isn’t enough to get you into a relationship and you have to fake a bunch of stuff to attract people… well.. you’re not a very good person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:31 PM
1

Nahhhh. I think that once the chores things get to the point where people turn to Reddit.. it’s just too late for like 99% of marriages. The husbands gotta put in the effort from the jump cuz once a man becomes your child.. it’s hard to see him as anything else and doing the laundry now and then won’t fix it. No amount of chores is likely to bring back the sex. But staying on top of the chores indefinitely will aid greatly in keeping it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:41 PM
1

…no. There just isn’t anything arousing about having to follow a man around the house and clean up his messes. Having to take on the entire mental load for the house by yourself isn’t an aphrodisiac. Having to do everything yourself while he sits on his ass every chance he gets makes him unfuckable. At a certain point he just becomes a nuisance.. a child. Not sexy. So.. yeah. You’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:21 PM
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Ok and? I asked for the source. It’s not that difficult. Am I supposed to scroll through a TON of headlines to try to find this one or can OP just post the link?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 11:50 AM
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You don’t know where you got this video?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 11:17 AM
1

Couples counseling isn’t about convincing the other person to fuck you lol. 9 times out of 10 the bedroom is dead because the husband turned into a loser. The counseling is supposed to help the couple figure out where shit veered off the right path. And honestly? It’s probably as simple as the husband doing some chores and being emotionally present and interested in her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:36 AM
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Source?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 09:22 AM
1

Well.. I hope he comes back and yall are in a happy relationship OR you find the ability to move on. I understand your pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:18 AM
1

How long have you guys been separated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:00 AM
1

Like I said. The therapy can’t help with the “love” but it can help with coping while he’s gone. Haven’t found there’s much else to do. It’ll fade a bit here and there.. just to come back just as strong as it was before. No one I’ll ever compare and he’ll forever be the only person who makes your skin buzz. But.. other people offer good things. The man who died in 2020? Changed my life. He’s a huge part of who I am today. He was my best friend. My comfort. He was as close to the prototype as any…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:49 AM
1

I guess I don’t believe in souls so I don’t share the idea that it’s some soul tie. It’s definitely something though. It’s great while you’re together and a horrible miserable curse when you’re not. I recommend therapy.. it doesn’t help with the bond specifically, but it can help with side effects of it. I’m sure it’s some mental illness or something. Sure is electric though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:34 AM
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Personally? I don’t think that’s love. I don’t know the word for it.. but it’s something else. I have one of those. It’s been 10 years for me. It’s a strange overwhelming biological drive. He’s like an intrusive thought. He’s in everything I do. It’s exhausting. But I don’t think thats love. After years and years of him being the only thing in the world that has ever truly completed me.. I don’t think it’s healthy. He could do the worst things to me and I’d still follow him anywhere if he asked.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:21 AM
1

Mm. Same boat. I believe in love.. just not the tv version of it. I don’t believe it’s a feeling or unconditional or even inherently good. I think love is a choice 100%. It’s what lust/desire turns into if you make the choice. But I don’t think it can come from a cold logic decision. You can’t marry someone for logical reasons and expect to find love there. At least not without an incredibly effort from both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:02 AM
1

No? I just wondered how old you are so I can do my best to gauge how much experience you’re potentially drawing from. I’m more inclined to believe you if you’re older.. and more inclined to tell you to be careful with your heart if you’re younger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:46 AM
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Yall are aware you’re the male version of feminazis.. right? Is the super hateful stuff only acceptable when men do it or?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 05:56 AM
1

As politely as possible, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:34 AM
2

Or just have none. Fuck them kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:25 AM
1

You know what? If it’s stops this mind numbing, pointless threat. Yes. I’m slow. It’s me. Good job, detective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:24 AM
1

No. Do you know what this sub is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:19 AM
1

It does not. You’re still an adult. Person B is working full time. If you see something that needs to be done.. do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:12 AM
2

Yo. Buddy. What the fuck does this mean? Lmfao yall are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:43 AM
1

I mean.. sure. But my comment made sense.. so..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:07 PM
1

If you don’t speak English, reply in your native tongue and I’ll figure out what you’re trying to say. Unfortunately, this comment doesn’t make enough sense to even guess what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:48 PM
1

MGTOW is toxic. Whatever the female equivalent is is toxic too. Remaining single because you can’t find what you want has absolutely zero to do with needing to heal lol. You can’t heal from not wanting to date the people that don’t meet your standards… it’s not a problem. The difference is Idk where yall get this crap. It’s not true lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:27 AM
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This is it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:09 AM
9

Is this post coherent at all? Violent men are hot. On tv. I will not be signing up for a real man who finds himself in fights.. that’s a character flaw. Who cares if he can fight? Can he carry? Felons need not apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:51 AM
1

It’s not possible for us to all need the same exact men for the best offspring. So. No. Even if we all knew how to pick the best mate just intuitively and dating became obsolete.. we still wouldn’t all choose the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:55 AM
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No. lol. Shits toxic as hell over there. I support the basic concept tho.. be single. It’s ok to be single if you’re not happy with your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:38 AM
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Avoiding romantic relationships is not a degree of isolation lol. You can have tons of friends without dating them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:53 PM
0

No one’s debating that. Fetishizing criminals in general is just different than fetishizing rapists. You’d have to find the number of women who fetishize rapists for any stat about women into criminals to be used in this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:05 PM
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I guess, in my mind, it seems like being into rapists because they’re rapists is different than simply being into criminals. Same vein maybe, but different subcategory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:16 PM
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First.. the article is just describing a fetish. A strange one.. but whatever. Second.. I think a ton of women assault people all the time.. we just don’t talk about it and men are less likely to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:12 PM
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I’m not sure.. what hybristophilia has to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:47 PM
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This post is hilarious. What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:10 PM
2

Just gonna throw my hat in here as a “I have an aversion to having kids” person. Mark me down as an “I have an aversion to children as a whole”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:01 PM
3

Why does not having kids make someone a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:58 PM
1

Or just.. don’t have kids since it’s such a burden
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:55 PM
5

Dude wants to get paid to raise his kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:55 PM
1

Honestly we shouldn’t even be expected to explain why. I don’t see how it’s my responsibility to make other people comfortable with me not wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:52 PM
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I’m never going to have children and it doesn’t matter if XYZ is true or not cuz I won’t change my mind….. because I hate children. Does that make it make more sense? How’s the calibration? Cuz people don’t typically get super understanding when I say that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:51 PM
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Men have always been allowed to be with women they find cute, pretty, beautiful etc. Women used to just have to take what they can get. Mens needs and wants were always prioritized in dating and now that's flipped. This makes a very fine point. You know the kings and other high status men weren’t just happy with women they didn’t find attractive. Like we all know they bought and stole and so on women they found beautiful.. i imagine it was like that for.. most of history for a lot of cultures. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:42 PM
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If we’re going to come at it from a biological, animal perspective.. women would sort through all the men they can and select only the very best. To father her young and give them the very best genetic chance possible. But that’s not how it is. It can’t be. If it were, we’d all be attracted to the same exact things.. and we very simply.. aren’t. Sure we can all agree certain actors are hot, but those aren’t real people.. it’s not applicable. So when you bring it down to earth and apply everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:29 PM
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Isolating yourself and simply choosing not to date are not the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:19 PM
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Genuinely.. what is the issue? Everyone gets rejected sometimes. Sounds like you’re living a normal, regular life where not everyone to find attractive feels the same way about you cuz that’s statistically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:18 PM
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I feel like we need to acknowledge that what’s attractive changes constantly. There was a period in history where fat people were considered the most attractive. There was a period in history where women went out of their way to give themselves huge foreheads. There was a period in history where men wore heels. It’s all ever changing. Even just in our lifetimes.. remember when heroin chic and flat chests were the thing for women? And then somehow we got to the Kardashians. Like… just chill out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:15 PM
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Aren’t you just grumpy. No one asked you to engage with me. It’s honestly so goofy to reply to me just to tell me you wanted me to say more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:01 PM
2

I hope yalls moms find this post. Buncha nasties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:33 PM
2

He asked a stupid question. I offered an answer. Here we are.. debating. Seems to be working just fine. The answer to his question is no. Hard and fast. As was implied by my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:20 PM
1

I have no intention of helping anyone here in these comments. This is a debate sub. Not an advice sub. No one takes the advice given here anyway 🤣 Nothing is over until you’re dead. It’s a dumb question. Also we can’t tell anyone it’s over for them with any modicum of accuracy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:03 PM
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No. It’s because it’s a fucking stupid thing to ask. Don’t ask if it’s over.. ask how to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:56 PM
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I reckon it’s got something to do with upbringing and mental illness. There’s probably a specific combo that makes the attachments deeper/harder to shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:56 PM
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It’s almost definitely not what either of us think it is, but it’s fun to theorize. I have the opposite experience lol. I have seen men claim that movie kinda style of love. I have a few guy friends that are hopeless romantics and would move mountains. I’ve also been loved that way.. he passed away, but he told me that a man who truly loves you will “break the world” for you. I think that’s true. I think your friends who just kinda are going with the flow maybe don’t know any better. I’ve seen m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:34 PM
2

Qué será, será.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:03 PM
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If she’s not growing in love, then obviously leave. I just don’t think it’s good for the woman to be the most interested in the relationship. At least in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:01 PM
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Now I’m not a scientist and I can only speak anecdotally, but I live in the school of thought that women should seek out men who love them more. This is because I am convinced men can’t grow in love. I am convinced that they simply know very quickly who they’d Liam Neeson the world for and that exists statically. Whereas women can grow in love over time.. might start out not super into a guy and thinking he’s just average.. but end up worshipping the ground he walks on and thinking he’s the sexi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:09 AM
0

Closer to two years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:06 AM
0

I am also capable of such love. I think it might be a thing you either have in you or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:05 AM
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It’s over for dudes who ask if it’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:02 AM
2

I too am on here frequently saying the same things. You can’t tell these dudes anything. They need things they can’t possibly fix to be responsible for their failures or they’d have to acknowledge it’s their fault. Unsurprisingly, it’s almost guaranteed that someone will say “oh but he’s your ex so ha!” any time I mention 5’4.. little do they know.. if I could resurrect him, I’d insert myself into his pocket and never leave again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:00 AM
1

Never cheated in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:57 AM
3

5’4 died on impact in a motorcycle accident. 5’6 cheated on me with several people. I didn’t end those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:56 AM
2

I’m 5’5. My greatest loves in life were 5’4 and 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:26 PM
2

Varies too much for it to be a factor I can actually quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:22 PM
2

Confident and witty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:26 PM
1

Hey buddy. No. Just…. No. Not for nothing, but genuinely there aren’t many regular situations more uncomfortable than being out and enjoying yourself and then suddenly having to do the emotional labor of having to figure out how to tell some joker no thanks. Telling people who might scream at you or follow you home or being super mean or kill you “no” isn’t pleasant. If you find a woman who does genuinely find that pleasant? She’s nuts and you dodged a bullet anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:21 PM
2

Hi there OP. You’re wrong. Being neurotic isn’t as forgivable as you think it is and it makes everything much much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:11 PM
2

Than as a mother who has the emotional exclusive rather than the one-upmanship tales that one Chad tells to another, let me assure u that it hasn't decreased. Take only the experiences that u can vouch for bro, and ignore all the ones- especially those 'bros' that u can apparently 'trust', that try to steer u towards the dark. Goodluck my dude.x Yeah. No idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:56 PM
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You don’t know me. But also if it’s anything like fucking the same person, I’d be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:58 PM
1

Me existing isn’t me “being emotional” lol. I’m sorry you don’t like the stats.. but they are what they are. Men cheat 7% more. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:30 PM
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learn to read Learn to make sense! Also.. no. Staying longer has fuck all to do with anything. Staying longer in a relationship that isn’t right for you helps no one. Cheating typically includes fucking other people and lying. Dumping someone is none of those things. Moving on isn’t cheating and you’re not gonna make that make sense so it fits your narrative. More men cheat. That’s just the statistic. Don’t be a cheater and it’s irrelevant to you. Life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:01 PM
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Sex shouldn’t be the only decisive action that is considered cheating. It’s not I think the person who say longer Are you saying dumping someone is cheating? That’s so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:52 PM
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How It's accurate when being loyal is defined by sexual intercourse and not by breaking the relationship for women ?! If men think women who leave are not loyal It's a correct statement , so It's valid for people to think men are the loyal gender. You probably pulled your comments from you @$$ cause there is no logic behind it Is this English?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:42 PM
1

No? It’s just accurate. And of course I don’t know why.. I’m neither a man nor a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:36 PM
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It doesn’t. It’s how the topic is approached that gets that response
/r/MensRights04/03/24 02:23 PM
2

For the rest of my life if that’s the promise I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:21 PM
2

Uh.. I mean yeah. It can be switched off though. I prefer to be with a man I can just shut my brain off around.. and it’s a good sign of I feel I can. But it’s not a deal breaker either way, ultimately..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:45 AM
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I believe this is true statistically and anecdotally And idk why. I know men cheat even if they’re happy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:41 AM
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Im not twisting anything. Men aren’t catering to my every need like I deserve but I still care if they are assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:44 PM
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Pretending the situations are comparable doesn’t help anything though. And it doesn’t make sense. If your inability to get laid makes you not care about someone being assaulted.. that’s probably why you can’t get laid. Bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:39 PM
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No no.. she’s over the wall. Has no value. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:36 PM
1

Idk. I guess I just must have missed the memo. I haven’t seen women en masse giving much of a fuck. Outside of the bikini armor of course… cuz it’s stupid.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 02:36 PM
2

It is a bit regulated. It’s unfortunate, but they can’t watch too closely or no one would make any money. People want to be “allowed” to push boundaries when they spend a lot of money. The only time that’s an issue is instances like this. If I stop that dance, I loose the $1000 they spent on the vip room because I didn’t provide the service they paid for. And they can’t simply say “no refunds” because then some dancers wouldn’t simply walk out of dances immediately for no reason. It’s definitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:33 PM
1

We must be playing different video games.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 02:27 PM
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Exactly. Where are the posts about how every man here could be dating/hooking up with his “looksmatch” but he’s not cuz he wants “Stacy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:25 PM
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The whole “needing access to pussy in order to care about other people’s safety” has never made sense to me. Right along side the “I’ll drop out of society if I don’t get pussy”. I simply cannot fathom the act of sex being the only thing worth living for. Or making the pursuit of it my entire personality. Like.. I love sex don’t get me wrong.. I’m a horny piece of shit like anyone else.. but like.. not being able to fuck who I want when I want never made me think it was anyone’s fault or that an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:23 PM
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I’d argue it’s hard to like someone for who they are when they refuse to be vulnerable and learn to effectively communicate their feelings.. like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:16 PM
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What even is his point? “Wow. Women don’t feel sad that I can’t get laid? Fuck you I laugh when you get brutalized”? What kinda point is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:14 PM
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See also: The Fruitloop factory theory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:12 PM
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Found Dominik Mysterio
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:06 PM
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The cheerleader in high school only wanted the captain of the football team and now we’re all bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:05 PM
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Nah. The kicker is that if I’d complained.. I’d have lost the money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:01 PM
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I agree with you. I believe that there’s a lot of privilege men get to live with that women don’t. But this shit? Ain’t one of them. The fact that some people aren’t able to see that we’re both privileged and oppressed in different ways boggles my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:51 PM
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What are you even talking about? Lmfao. Where in my comment did any of this come up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:20 PM
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Always loved the quieter guys who tipped for conversation and/or bought a couple drinks. God bless the people who know what strippers jobs actually are and utilize the service as intended. I have a couple guy friends I made that way. And a few old regulars I see now and then that I’m always happy to see. It’s not all bad by any means and we do have a soft spot for the guys who treat us well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:33 PM
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You’re right. It does. It’s an awful twisted thing that put a lot of people in bad positions. I can’t imagine what my male dancer friend went through in that moment where she *tore his foreskin* and he was very likely not allowed to do anything about it because at the end of the day.. he’s a man and she’s a woman. And.. he’s a sex worker to boot. Awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:29 PM
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I’ll give a man a dance over a woman any day. Maybe I just had extra bad luck, but that aggressive competitive stuff? That’s low key violent. Especially from women who don’t see dancers as women. There’s a disconnect somewhere in society that makes sex workers less than human to a surprising amount of people, but something about women who hold that view is just extra offensive. Like.. I expect Chad to try to finger me, but when Tracy does it as a “joke” I’m way more offended. Only time I was eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:16 PM
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No. But that’s a me thing. I got cheated on by a “straight” guy with a guy when I was much younger and it fucked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:08 PM
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Oh yeah. I’m fine. We just don’t talk about how aggressive women are in situations like that because they think they aren’t scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:05 PM
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One of the worst experiences I had doing that job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:03 PM
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I hate the “barsexual” thing. I was a stripper for years before covid. Women are AWFUL. I had a couple buy a dance.. the woman insisted on giving me the lap dance for her husband. Whatever. Who cares. And then she laid me down.. like faux riding me.. whatever still. And then fuckin slid down my body and BIT ME right on my clit. I shit you not. I wasn’t naked either. This was through my outfit. Who the fuck does that? Women suck. They think that because they’re women they aren’t scary.. they aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:56 PM
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I’m a woman and I’ve been assaulted by women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:41 PM
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They can and they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:42 AM
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It’s just cuz this sub has become garbo.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 11:38 AM
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Not a real one. Dean Winchester can get it, but he’s not real. Jensen Ackles cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:32 AM
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Listen. I understand that you might not be able to pick up on how a one night stand or maybe even a fwb is feeling. I get that. But if you can’t tell that your LTR partner isn’t being satisfied? You’re not trying.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:34 PM
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Why is it your responsibility to make sure your partner is enjoying sex with you? Gosh. That’s a toughy.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:27 PM
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Point to me where I said anything about where the slut shaming comes from. Ok. Now point to me where I said that it matters where it comes from. It doesn’t. None of this matters. Stop pointing fingers at an issue that not as pinpointed as you want it to be. Lots of dudes suck in bed for lack of effort and lack of willful ignorance. Lots of women have fantasies that can’t be fulfilled because tv exists and directors do a super good job making sex look like something it’s not.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:34 PM
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complaining comes from the negative Nancies Ok.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:32 PM
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Why refuse to bring that up? Bring it up. How are we gonna effectively have only half a conversation? Regardless of how many pillow princesses there are.. there’s still an issue with a lot of men’s efforts. Some women being shitty doesn’t erase the issue. Both are relevant. Unless you’re only here to bitch and not to have a productive conversation.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:31 PM
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Oh yeah. Hollywood is definitely the worst for it. As far as I can tell, passion like they show on tv doesn’t happen often and it’s not long term sustainable. It definitely makes the monotony of reality feel like there’s something wrong. Obviously such passionate and mindblowing sex is possible.. but not at all how it’s depicted, you’re right. There definitely an issue both with effort put in and the expectations. But I’m not gonna sit here and let a bunch of guys talk about this without acknowl…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 11:28 AM
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Hey guys, real quick.. break up with women you aren’t compatible with. It’ll help.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 11:08 AM
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I tend to agree with most of what you’ve said. However, in my experience and the experience of those who have shared their experiences with me.. a lot of guys don’t try. There are definitely some general tips that would work for most women.. such as.. take a fuckin second to be present in the moment and try some different angles. But that’s not something that happens often. To me, that’s just a lack of effort. And don’t try any porn stuff.. I mean.. I had a guy literally fish hook me once. No pr…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 11:02 AM
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Ohhh. Is that what that one means? Yeah.. I don’t care about that one because people can use their bodies how they like and it makes no difference to anyone else. I’m not on the whole virgin hunting train.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:57 AM
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I think you omit… Nope. Think again. in my circle Get a new circle. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:55 AM
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You think we don’t talk about our “icks”? Lmfao. Are you good? My sisters the only one with weird “icks” and that’s just cuz she’s 20. My best friends fiance is 5’3. I think I’m the only one in my immediate group who’s with anyone who’s tall. And I didn’t do that on purpose. Shall I ask them all how tall all their boyfriends have all been? The whole 6’ thing is ridiculous. Sure, some women care. Most don’t mind. Same as with anything else. My husband works with a bunch of married men under 6’. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:21 AM
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Excluding the one I don’t understand, cuz the wording is weird so I can’t confirm nor deny… I can offer nearly my entire Facebook friends list. It’s anecdotal. But.. so is your statement. Birds of a feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:05 AM
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Imma get downvoted here, but.. I mean.. idk how many men you guys have had sex with as a woman.. but a lot of guys don’t try at all. They just suck in bed. Which is the main issue. Or they’re really shitty about the whole ordeal.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 10:01 AM
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The one about the 3 men in her 20s makes no sense to me, but the rest are pretty easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:57 AM
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Depends on what you mean by traditional. Join the Amish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:37 AM
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This 100%. Porn is terrible for people. I hate when people act like porn is some natural needed thing. It’s not. It’s very new. The population somehow survived without it for how many years? People can survive without it.. trying to argue otherwise just makes people look dumb imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:13 AM
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No. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:18 AM
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Nah. Bad take. There’s a difference between being introverted and being socially inept. My husband is a huge introvert. Total recluse. He has friends. People like him. He’s married. Telling someone they need to go touch grass if they want to meet people isn’t advice to weed out introverts. It’s advice to get you up off your couch and go figure out how to socialize because clearly something is wrong. i promise you.. the introverts know how and can if they decide to. This shit is something else en…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:13 AM
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Why lower her standards at all? She can get what she wants.. no reason to force herself to like something she doesn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:26 PM
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I think some men.. most maybe.. operate under the impression that tv “assholes” are real. They are not. If men like Rip Wheeler existed.. they would definitely take all their wives. But he doesn’t exist.. And any man who might seem similar? The women chasing him will end up in a women’s shelter before they end up happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:10 PM
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It’s stupid because it doesn’t work. You might get lucky, but if I’d grown up with OLD.. I’d have missed some really amazing people simply because they didn’t have the right size nose in their pfp. That’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:04 AM
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Still a completely stupid method 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:57 AM
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Absolutely. Online dating is bullshit. It occurred to me when I realized I’m attracted to very specific celebrities but my boyfriends were always way more varied visually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:47 PM
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Women say that want all kinds of shit. A huge community of women are monster fuckers.. that doesn’t mean it’s over for human men. Most women don’t care. Those who do probably wouldn’t hold it against you anyway as long as you have a decent personality. The ones who do care enough to hold it against you? Suck. Stay away from them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:19 PM
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If you want to live in a world where that’s true.. I can’t stop you. But reality.. and women en masse.. don’t care. If you Google “do women care about height” some articles will say “they don’t” and others say “they do”. Choose what you want to believe, I guess. No skin off my nose. Yalls misery sure does seem to love company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:09 PM
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Hey man. Plenty of short dudes are out there swimming in pussy. Dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:53 AM
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Never have I ever punished feminine behavior 🤣 one of my favorite drinking buddies we lovingly all called “momma” and he is a man. Y’all just can’t fathom how something not being your preference doesn’t mean you hate it and think it’s subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:51 AM
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…no? My husband just keeps getting sexier to me lol. Sorry you date people you aren’t compatible with outside of infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:49 AM
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Also.. don’t marry someone if you don’t know whether they’re this kind of person or not.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 01:47 AM
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The “could” part is irrelevant. All people can cheat. You’d be surprised what kind of dusties get a girlfriend after being single for years and then cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:45 AM
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Not a thing outside transactional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:34 AM
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I think this is true. Just because a guy don’t immediately take your breath away visually doesn’t mean he won’t get more physically attractive over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:31 AM
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The argument that I’m making is that there are enough people on the planet for most people to be attractive to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:22 AM
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Beats me. I’m not attracted to myself. I’m some people type and not others like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:18 AM
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Ryan Gosling is ugly. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:11 AM
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most of us would agree they’re at least above average looking. Best looking guy I can think of off top? Adam Driver 🤌🏻 and a lot of people do not think he’s good looking at all. Which I don’t get but whatever. The point is that my 8-9/10 will be different than yours. I don’t find Jason Momoa attractive. He’s not ugly, but he’s not for me. Ryan Gosling is unattractive. One of my closest friends is obsessed with Alexander Skarsgard. That man is ugly. There’s no point in hashing it all out.. becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:10 AM
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You’re not making any sense. The existence of a man I’m not attracted to has nothing to do with my dating life. Whether he’s attracted to me or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:40 AM
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It’s not a privilege to not be attracted to someone you’re attracted to? We clearly don’t have the same type. I’m not willing to sleep with just anyone and no one should be. How hot you think someone is means nothing to me. People aren’t food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:25 PM
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Men who call other men cucks are undatable to a large segment of women. This is it. I have not been able to figure out how to explain this. In my opinion, the men who are here because they can’t get women aren’t here for any of the reasons they think they are. IMO, it’s really hard to be ugly to everyone. Money doesn’t matter to all women. Height is irrelevant to a large portion of women.. and so on, right? Because we’re all different. Now, keep in mind that the men on these Reddit posts are a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:19 PM
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That’s a ridiculous hypothetical. You can’t base your perception of reality off ridiculous hypotheticals. If the only way you can make your point is by assuming a situation that bears no resemblance whatsoever to reality, then you don't have a point worth making. Put women in a room with those guys and a bunch of others. Women will flock to different men in the room. I choose neither of these men. While guy 1 isn’t ugly, he’s not attractive to me either. That’s how preferences work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:50 PM
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Do you want to have sex with people you’re not actually attracted to? I don’t. Hes not ugly. He’s not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:44 PM
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We know that. It’s just way broader than the red pill makes it. Beauty is subjective. I can acknowledge that guy one is not ugly, but he’s not my type either and I wouldn’t pick him out of a room of men. People you think are ugly? Someone else thinks is hot. Being “not ugly” and being “wanted by everyone” are not the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:22 PM
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Smoking isn’t cool. Dying of lung cancer isn’t cool. Crashing and dying isn’t cool. Plummeting to your death isn’t cool. You sound young. You’re not invincible. I hope you learn that before it’s too late
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:57 AM
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It wasn’t a romantic situation. I was a bit of a slut too. Hes a moron for not also insisting on a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:54 AM
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