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Seems like I’ve lived in the shittier states
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:04 AM
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I definitely gave you the legal definition. It doesn’t count being forced to penetrate as rape. That’s an issue we’ve known about.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:31 AM
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No? The legal definition of rape is “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim”. Which is problematic for various reasons.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:15 AM
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Don't care. I hope someone you love gets cancer, dumb cunt Men like you are the reason for misandry ❤️
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:07 PM
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Is this post satire?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:59 PM
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Yeah. Still a pick me ❤️
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:42 PM
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RemindMe! 2 hours
/r/MensRights01/05/24 08:22 AM
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Whaaaaaaat?! You don’t just absolutely love the look of soft dick while they’re actively peeing? Craaaaaaazy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:31 AM
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Literally do not care. Just don’t be weird. Piss and leave like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:28 AM
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What is this sub? Why are we downvoting comments that agree the punishment for RAPING A CHILD should be so severe?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:58 AM
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Why is this comment downvoted?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:57 AM
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What does this mean in practice? What is the privilege of every day life? Genuinely asking
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:44 AM
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Does this have anything to do with the legal definition of the word “rape”?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:43 AM
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This is the way
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:23 AM
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And men have a harder time getting help due to the whole “be a man” thing 😩
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:23 AM
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slow blink
/r/MensRights29/04/24 09:48 AM
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Surely this wouldn’t be enforceable. Slander is also illegal but proving it is nearly impossible.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 07:43 AM
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Men will, in fact, do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:14 AM
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Depends on the year
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:37 AM
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I want to kms What? lol why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:08 PM
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I literally did not say that lmfao. We are talking about how some men refuse to listen to specific women who have differing opinions. I’m aware that some idiots won’t date men under 6’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:57 PM
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We’ve literally not been talking about women’s struggles at all. Don’t be salty and start using fallacies on my comment instead of engaging with the topic at hand. Go make your own comment and be “original” there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:38 PM
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That’s not what I said. These things matter in different ways to different people in varying degrees. For example: let’s say youre 5’6 and blonde. I don’t like blonde men. Never have. Not my thing. That will make me less likely to be attracted to you.. whereas being 5’6 was never going to be the issue. It wouldn’t have mattered if you were 6’ either.. I just don’t like blondes. They remind me of my family. Sooo.. getting on Reddit and bitching about how short you are and how some chick (me) at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:36 PM
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Bit of both. I like to have them measure cuz men over estimate themselves… and some, funnily, underestimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:29 PM
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Ah ah ah. Get this shit off my comment. No one said this but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:25 PM
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Enough to be comfortable making the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:23 PM
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I didn’t generalize. I spoke only for myself. Which plenty of women do. Those women don’t care. You can include the women who generalize too.. they don’t care. That’s plenty of women who don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:23 PM
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Obviously not enough to write a peer reviewed study about it, but 60+ gives me a bit of experience to feel fairly confident
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:21 PM
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I love that you think I had a good childhood and I’m in a stable relationship because of what I said. That’s quite the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:37 PM
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What a smug belief to hold Let me guess. Normal childhood and teenage. Was loved had sex currently in a relationship with a good man Well good for you To me you just look privilege lucky naive and just spoilt The kind of feeling you would get when seeing a sone of a millionaire just talking about poverty as if he has a flying fuck of an idea? That's how I feel when I see people like you even breathe You’ve actually never been more wrong about someone in your life. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:33 PM
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Your BF is coincidentally 6’4 No? The man I spend my time with is 5’6 🤣 And dick size does matter to a degree. I won’t say it doesn’t. It’s just not as precise as the men here try to make it sound. Everything isn’t as black and white and headlined as they want it to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:45 PM
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There are too many people on the planet. So obviously no. But just because you’re NT and attractive doesn’t mean you can have the women you specifically want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:10 PM
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It’s always a maybe. There aren’t really any hard answers in all this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:00 PM
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And I fully agree that it’s garbage. But you can’t say that here without people getting really upset lol. Average is for sure bigger than 5.1”. But I’ll settle with just saying that my experience has a higher average than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:58 PM
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All it means.. is that in my experience.. normal is closer to 6” than it is to 5”. Because normal is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:56 PM
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Ultimately? No. But if height isn’t the issue in this scenario.. there’s an implied chance you could rectify why I’m not interested if you accepted that it’s not your height. Maybe not. But still also maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:54 PM
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We weren’t talking about the most desired height. We were talking about what’s normal to people. I said that it’s subjective based on what you’re exposed to. Hence.. 6’4 is a normal sized man to me. 6’2 looks short to me because of my family. My normal is not the same as yours. And your little graph doesn’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:53 PM
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You’re blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:49 PM
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And that’s.. not my experience. Most guys are above the suggested average in my experience. And I’m not out here making men drop trou before going home with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:49 PM
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I was saying that my family is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:48 PM
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Oh for sure. But that’s not why they dig in their heels when someone disagrees with them. If I tell you height isn’t that important to me so you being 5’10 isn’t why I won’t fuck you., and you proceed to yell at me about the top 20% and what a liar I am.. it’s because you don’t want to think about why I might actually not want a piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:47 PM
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Blue pill is the antithesis of the red pill. Blue pill are normal people who don’t think the red pill holds any water. You need to read your definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:44 PM
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I already am. What are you talking about? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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I grew up in a family of really tall people. Even my aunt is 6’2. I’m accustomed to men being 6’4.. that’s “normal” for me. It’s all subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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You’re not blue pill lol There is no 20%. That’s all ridiculous and based off a crap study.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:34 PM
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It depends on what you’re exposed to. Knowing there’s a piece of paper out there that says the average is 5.1” doesn’t matter all to me with my experience being that penises average larger than that by and large. “Normal” is just what each of us have the most experience with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:33 PM
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I’d argue that “average” is pretty subjective too in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:31 PM
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Your study says that hip to shoulder ratio is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:30 PM
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I really think “normal” is kinda subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:19 PM
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Because this says “discussion” and not “question for men”.. my running theory is that people like that need something uncontrollable to blame for why they’re unlikable. Otherwise they’d have to hold themselves accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 PM
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Of course there’s humane death lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:08 AM
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Bear attacks are rare. Bears don’t want to attack humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:04 AM
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He could also be a rapist. The point is that you don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:56 AM
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I mean… it is. Obviously it would be hell during.. but I’m not gonna remember getting eaten. I’m dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:55 AM
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True. But don’t forget women’s long history of poisoning their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:23 PM
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…Yes, having children is important to ensuring your society and way of life continue into the future. If westerners stop having kids, you won’t be here in 200 years. The Chinese and Indians will. And? I literally do not care about the race of people who make it. I won’t be here in 200 years anyway.. I’ll be dead. Why does it matter if the whole world is Chinese in 200 years? Ain’t fuck all special about white people that we need to survive the test of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:55 PM
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I had a guy cat call me and try to follow me into a shop. Terrifying. But yay special treatment, right ?/s
/r/MensRights20/04/24 01:21 PM
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I actually believe.. it doesn’t matter. I’m not going to sit around wondering if people are liars lol. Makes no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:19 PM
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You have a very twisted view on marriage and very clearly do not view women as individual humans either feelings and wants and rich inner lives. I’ve not really ever seen anything like it outside the .is website.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:14 PM
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You should read about women poisoning their husbands before no fault divorce was legal ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:12 PM
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Less divorce means more husbands dying under “mysterious circumstances”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:07 PM
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Not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:05 PM
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Oh.. that’d be having babies, of course. Didn’t you know we’re obligated to pop out children? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:02 PM
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In past time, yes. But not necessarily due to traditional values themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:57 PM
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Oh no. We certainly aren’t the happiest on earth. You just don’t sound like you grew up here. Or.. if you did.. it was a really strange pocket in the south.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:56 PM
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She did make the effort. That’s how she got to the point of giving up lol. She asked him to help or work on something or change or try or whatever over and over and over.. he didn’t listen. So she gave up a little more every time he didnt listen to her. Then she finally left. And he had 5 million chances to work with her.. he just didn’t. She already cried herself to sleep for months. She’s just done mourning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:28 AM
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This is what it is. But the time she leaves.. she’s ahead mourned the relationship and started the healing process. It just takes a while to truly let go of hope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:22 AM
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I wouldn’t either if it made me a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:21 AM
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I dated a guy for years who wrote me love songs.. made hand made thoughtful gifts.. planned the future.. whole 9. But he was cheating on me the whole time with 5 other people. He had a second gf he was official with. People do weird shit. Sex is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:20 AM
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Do…. Do you think that because they used the word “traditionally” that that means they’re referring to traditional gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:10 AM
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Tag me when he tells you that men being virgins for too long is bad for their mental health and society as a whole or some dumb shit so I can read it too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:00 AM
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You are one of the scariest people on this sub. Are you American? Surely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:48 AM
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I’m genuinely horrified by the comment you’re responding to.. to the point where I don’t know what to say to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:45 AM
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She was not. She also wasn’t happy with him cheating on her constantly and beating the kids and her not being able to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:43 AM
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Literally none of this is true. Like… not a word of this is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:42 AM
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I think…. You fundamentally don’t understand why divorce happens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:35 AM
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Love isn’t unconditional but that doesn’t mean it has to stop. It means that if your partner acts like shit.. you won’t keep holding on and loving them. Because that’s not realistic. But even parental love isn’t guaranteed to be unconditional. Unconditional love is an unhealthy, impossible expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:49 PM
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Which is hilarious. Because.. why would that happen? Where are the real life examples of this phenomenon? I don’t see them when I touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:10 PM
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Cool. It’s not a person though. It might tide some people over. Some weirdos might be ok with it. But it’s not people.. won’t replace them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:50 AM
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We have this same conversation every day on this sub and every day the answer will always be “women are not a monolith. Different people value different things.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:46 AM
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Being rich does not give you charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:39 AM
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This rhetoric is so stupid. Especially from a virgin who doesn’t date men. “Cheaters usually” cheaters usually nothing. People don’t always announce their ill intent upon contact. Such a ridiculous ignorant thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:03 AM
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Like.. this is very clearly not representative of average men. I do occasionally see some really good conversations in r/AskWomen. I do see a lot of a similar vibe in the feminism subreddit.. in my opinion. But less so than… whatever this is.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:35 AM
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Yall are so unhinged.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 08:28 AM
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This guy lives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:22 AM
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There’s a happy medium. Don’t get married as a virgin. But don’t sleep with everyone either. I have a fairly high body count and while I don’t regret it.. looking back I could have done without some experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:58 AM
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Yall ever talked to an ai? It’s not gonna replace anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:41 AM
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Imma be real with you.. it doesn’t sound like you’ve ever actually looked. This post very much makes it sound like you’ve been on a few dates just because it’s what people do and not because you actually wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:19 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:54 PM
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The post is gone
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:41 PM
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Gosh.. maybe it’s cause I’m from New Orleans but.. no they aren’t. Still shouldn’t whip them out in front of kids.. but do not go to the French Quarter if you think boobs are as sexual as dicks. Boobs are everywhere. Regardless. Boobs aren’t inherently sexual. They’re for feeding babies and we just sexualized them for whatever reason. Mothers nurse publicly.. definitely not always with a towel. So. No. I don’t think they are on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:19 PM
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That’s not a mistake. That’s assault. I’m not going to mistakenly grab your dick as a joke. Where I’m from, both sexes get fired for assaulting people.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 12:07 PM
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The desperation came from your comment. It is your world view. It applies to you. You believe it is acceptable and normal to accept any person no matter what. Just because you want to be touched by a woman. It’s not. That is how people get more damaged than they already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:55 AM
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If I was asked.. I’d say that perhaps men who don’t think women can be funny.. don’t actually like women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:18 AM
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Oh my fucking god. Being short is not why people don’t you. I promise. Ugly is subjective. My besties husband is ugly to me.. she thinks he’s hot. Whatever. There are oodles and oodles of short ugly dudes in happy relationships all over the place. It is not these dudes outsides that are preventing them from getting women. It’s just not. I am willing to bet damn near every guy in here is just a regular looking guy. Hell.. I had some guy message me from this sub all butthurt talking about how shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:06 AM
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One. Are boobs and penises on the same level? And two.. idk what to say about peeing on someone in front of other people and then spitting urine into the crowd. That seems like felony assault tbh. That’s disgusting. Some people aren’t into masturbation. I have dated men who didn’t care if I did and men who didn’t want me to. Find the right person for you. Has nothing to do with accepting male sexuality.. everyone’s got their own reasons for it. Usually some form of insecurity.. which has fuck al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:57 AM
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I don’t think there’s a big explanation. She’s just not that into you. That’s it. There’s no deeper reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:29 AM
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Because they blame everyone but themselves. I have yet to meet anyone who perpetuates these ideals that is also tolerable. I’ve met a few guys who are discouraged and confused but still engage and can be talked to pleasantly.. those guys have hope and I wish them the best. The dudes who perpetuate the rest of this garbage are alone for a reason and it’s best they stay that way until they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:11 AM
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Mmmmmm….. agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:06 AM
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Desperation exists because women dont date losers? Women do date losers. They do it all the time. If you don’t meet the standards to be hypergamy-ed onto.. do better. Why does society owe anyone a match? Why should someone who has goals and standards and some idea of what she wants.. give all that up for people she doesn’t want? Plenty of women will date losers. Losers just don’t seem to want to stop focusing on the women who don’t want them long enough to see the actual state of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:03 AM
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I think the issue is that we do care about looks.. just not the looks you think we do. There’s a lot of guys trying to force what they find attractive in a man on women and that’s just not how it works. There was a guy arguing about this a while back and he posted a picture of what he thought was a peak attractive man.. all women would just have to find this guy attractive.. I click the link and it’s some model looking guy with extremely sharp features. Very young looking (very early 20s maybe) …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:12 AM
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Your world view speaks of your own values, friend. And I’m aware of how it works. I just have no basis to tell that person they aren’t normal when they didn’t claim anything for me to say that about. You tried to make a point and it didn’t work. Your desperation for a partner is not healthy. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:47 AM
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Oh no. Just the part about the people here not getting relationships. I believe that. They also made no statements about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:35 AM
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Most people on here Seems accurate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:23 AM
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Asserting that something isn’t normal doesn’t negate the subjectivity of life. Your complete lack of self esteem, self worth, and sense of self is.. not normal. As decided by society and mental health professionals. You’re still experiencing life subjectively tho.. clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:52 AM
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Life’s a subjective experience. Plenty of men disagree with you. But good luck having anything successful with someone you don’t like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:44 AM
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Oh. I must have forgotten due to all the brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:39 AM
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That’s.. not normal. That’s desperation and probably mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:38 AM
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No no silly.. it’s because women are slaves to their animal instincts and can’t help but be attracted to all of the exact same 20% of men. It’s evolution at work. Hold on… there’s an app? No one can speak to me without a screenshot of their SMV from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:37 AM
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I imagine it helps to also be seen repeatedly in the same place just as a way to ensure you’ll be seen again. I’m not gonna develop a huge crush on some guy I saw once on the other side of the bar.. but if I keep seeing him.. I may just say hi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:30 AM
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Topic aside… the men have to agree too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:27 AM
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I swear that study is more responsible for these guys not getting laid than anything else. Exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:17 AM
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This has always been my advice and I always get yelled at for suggesting it. Being “known” is the biggest obstacle to overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:10 AM
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Apparently. I can’t do enough stretching for the gymnastics here. I have so many questions 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:07 AM
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The replies to this post are a yikes. No laughter? How boring and lifeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:01 AM
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Uhh. Depends on stuff. My sex drive is fairly reactive unless I’m ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:11 AM
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Quick question.. what does this have to do with what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:10 AM
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Bro. Dude. Buddy. Prove it beyond a shadow of a doubt. You can’t. So stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:40 AM
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Which is lovely. But it is not, in fact, objective fact. Why no one wants to just admit that it’s beyond me. Also.. it’s 58k added up together from various studies the potential for error is enormous. You can’t even tell me if the data was collected correctly and yet here you are.. refusing to admit that statistics are not hard facts outside of their sample size. This is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:39 AM
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You just said.. you cannot tell me with 100% certainty.. because there could be deviations. What the fuck is wrong with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:14 AM
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I don’t care about this anymore. My opinion was that the average of 5.1” is wrong for the general population and if you measured every man in America it would be bigger. That’s my opinion. Neither side of this argument can prove or disprove that with absolute certainty. The rest is just dudes who need the average to be 5.1”. Statistics about a sample size of 58k are not facts about the rest of the population. It’s all extrapolated assumptions. I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:13 AM
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This whole argument is so stupid. Stats are only facts about the the sample. Once you apply them to the untested general population they become estimates and could very well be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:34 AM
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Can you confidently tell me that the suggested average is 100% accurate when applied to the general population and would be reflected if we somehow measured every man in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:18 AM
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I literally don’t. This is such a stupid thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:17 AM
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Can you confidently tell me that the suggested average is 100% accurate when applied to the general population and would be reflected if we somehow measured every man in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:17 AM
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I have never even heard of that. That’s so dumb. But I guess so was eating tide pods so whatever
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:50 PM
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Mm. I put my thoughts about what was written into an ai to help make it coherent and “proper”. Easier that way.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:49 PM
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What do you think it is?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:22 PM
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don’t want to accept that they’re garbage Does this prove the “you need a better personality” response to incels or have I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:13 PM
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Sure. Issue still being.. the statistic isn’t only a fact when applied to the specific individuals in the study. Outside of that study.. it’s just data. Not fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:56 PM
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That’s lovely. However. Statistics are not hard facts. And they cannot be used as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:15 PM
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Why would I engage with you when you’re hostile as hell? I have zero interest in your link or your opinion. I didn’t step to you aggressively. Take a chill pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:59 PM
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I’m aware that some stats work for some things. Dick size isn’t predicable however. Stats do not work for something so randomized. Idk what to tell you guys. The average varies from state to state and most of the states report an average over 6” 🤷🏻‍♀️ clearly something is amiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:54 PM
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Yes it is. I asked it to put what I wanted to say into more cohesive words and it did. Perhaps you should try it. 58k isn’t enough. Statistics arent hard facts. Sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:52 PM
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While it's true that calculating an appropriate sample size is a crucial step in statistical analysis, it's also essential to consider the context and the specific characteristics of the population being studied. 58k might be considered a large enough sample size in some cases, it may not always be sufficient for drawing reliable conclusions, especially when dealing with populations as vast and diverse as 165 million men. Factors such as immense variability within the population, the presence of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:21 PM
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Statistics can be unreliable for several reasons. Firstly, sample size alone does not guarantee representativeness. Even with a large sample size like 58k, if the sample isn't properly randomized or stratified, it may not accurately reflect the diversity within the population. (Even with a sample size of 58k, it's important to recognize that while it may seem large, it's still just a fraction of the total population, especially when dealing with a demographic as large as 165 million men. Therefo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:16 PM
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6.4. Give or take. If you’re going to argue with statistics you have to be willing to acknowledge their limitations. Which you are not willing to do. Whoever was arguing with me wasn’t willing to either. Stats are soft facts… more food for thought than any actual truth. 58k out of 165 million does not a hard fact make. I could be right 🤷🏻‍♀️ we won’t know until they survey the rest of those millions of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:36 PM
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So…. Don’t. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:51 AM
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I mean.. no. Obviously not.. that’s how it gets done though. But I think college is a scam anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:45 AM
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Your exploration of masculinity and the discourse around toxic masculinity is incredibly thorough and thought-provoking. It's evident that there's a growing recognition of the detrimental effects of rigid gender norms and societal expectations placed on men. By delving into the roots of toxic masculinity, we gain a deeper understanding of how historical and cultural influences have shaped these harmful ideals over generations. Your analysis of the manifestations of toxic masculinity highlights t…
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:40 AM
0

are you stupid? Nice ad hom. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:02 AM
1

Is her boyfriend paying her bills? Why couldn’t the guy work and take classes?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 08:48 AM
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It’s not stupid. It just is what it is. There will always be people who struggle to find a girlfriend or a boyfriend. As society grows and learns and changes.. there will be periods of adjustment. I believe that’s what we’re in. Millennials are the first generation to truly grasp how big the world is and have unlimited access to all of human knowledge. That is bound to change how we interact with each other. We all get to adapt to this new way of life with no guidance at all.. I just don’t know …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:19 AM
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Of course. Unless the sample size is enormous.. everything is all speculation. It always boils down to anecdotal evidence anyway. If neither party in the debate is willing to accept that statistics are not hard facts and are severely limited in their reliability.. the debate isn’t going to go anywhere anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:02 AM
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Mmmm… I believe that happens. Should be a crime. Like stealthing is. And poking holes in condoms. Is it possible for men to only sleep with women who have physical proof of birth control to avoid this? Such as being able to feel the strings of an iud. Or being able to feel the implant. Or the one that’s a hoop that sits around the cervix.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:45 AM
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Can the last two of your points not be said about any age group?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:29 AM
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Did this apply to women in their 30s who don’t want kids? If they still ask questions like that
/r/MensRights12/04/24 04:19 AM
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I think statistics work for some things. If there’s a big enough sample size. The studies I see quoted all over here just don’t have big enough sample size for any of the conclusions to be considered relevant outside food for thought. People in these debates use their stats as hard facts.. a “gotcha”.. and they simply aren’t. The limitations of these studies are so that they’re useless. My most recent fight about this was regarding the average length of American men’s dicks. It’s supposed to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:17 AM
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I don’t know what this is supposed to mean.. but it doesn’t change the fact that burden of proof is on him for his stance in this debate to have any credit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:05 AM
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Technically, if he were arguing that water is h2o and someone disagreed.. he’d still be responsible for the proof. That’s just an easy win tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:04 AM
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Ah. I don’t know what I meant by my own comment. That must be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:58 PM
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You must be better at reading than me cuz I don’t see where I said any of that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:49 PM
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You can’t say “most young men” anything at all if you didn’t actually survey most young men. It’s useless. It’s just trending. It’ll go away. It’s because people use all this rhetoric and prey on lonely young men for profit. Once the grift stops working.. this will go away and be replaced by the next internet fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:35 PM
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Statistics mean literally nothing to me. I didn’t stutter. I said I have never seen the struggles listed here. I’ve never even heard men say shit like this outside of these weird niche communities. Most men don’t know anything about the red pill. “Look harder” is a dumb thing to say.. obviously they exist.. seek and you shall find or whatever. But it’s still all chronically online nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:23 PM
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This sub is so surreal. I have never seen the struggles they list here. Even the weird ugly guys I know have girlfriends or have had them since I’ve known them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:05 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:03 PM
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Burden of proof is on you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:54 PM
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Source to all this complaining? I’d like to read it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:26 PM
3

The wealthy people I have encountered all have an entitled air about them. It’s hard to explain. It’s almost like.. a different culture. I just don’t vibe with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:32 PM
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As opposed to.. fake women? You think we just lie to each other? We’re all just super secretly awful shallow people to the point where we guard the information like rabid raccoons? Just because you don’t like it.. doesn’t mean it’s some conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:12 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:13 PM
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Well.. the second guy is an immediate no go. Too old and I don’t get along with well to do people. And the first guy.. I mean we just wouldn’t have anything in common. So either way I’m unhappy.. which means neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:12 PM
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Is neither an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:23 PM
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I wouldn’t go on a date with a guy I’m “meh” about. That’s stupid and pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:51 PM
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OLD forces people to choose solely based off looks. That doesn’t happen in real life. I mentioned it elsewhere, but I am weirdly exclusively attracted to men with a specific type of big nose.. I won’t swipe on a guy without one. Why would I? But in real life.. I’ve dated all kinds of men and found them attractive too. They always had things about them that were attractive enough to replace the lack of the specific visual thing I like. My favorite ex was 5’4 and half black/half Native American.. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:49 PM
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It’s unfortunate that we can only truly compare famous people. The point wasn’t that they aren’t elite. The point was that we all like different elite men. I think Timothee Chalamet is absolutely hideous. My sister and her little friends think he’s fine as fuck. If you take that theory and apply it to regular men.. the pools of women who find one specific guy attractive become much smaller and more specific. Just because of exposure. More people who have seen you.. more people to potentially fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:27 PM
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I must not have been clear. Dating sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:23 PM
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Huehuehue. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:15 PM
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In good faith.. these shows all look a bit old. Are there newer examples of this? I can’t think of any, but I might have overlooked it
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:08 AM
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I was teased for having big boobs in high school. Should I second guess their attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:05 AM
0

A better question would be “how many women feel like they’ve settled” and then go from there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:39 AM
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Did you read this back to yourself at all to see how it sounds or just hit “reply”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:37 AM
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And no one’s idea is the same! The dudes in this sub think that we find all the same facial features attractive and body types/sizes completely overlooking that they themselves do the exact same thing. Personally.. one of the most beautiful men in Hollywood is Adam Driver. A ton of women don’t agree with that at all. Alternatively, a myriad of us would fuck the breaks off Jack Black. I know they like to bring up that they’re rich as if that explains it, but look me in my face and tell me bumping…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:25 AM
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But… we are attracted to “average men”.. which by your definition I assume means “under 6ft, making less that 6 figures, not famous, not a super model”.. tons of those men are wifed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:10 AM
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I do not have children because I hate children 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:05 AM
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And you know what? There’s more of those negative people than not.. and we all have a different idea of what’s negative and what’s tolerable and what’s enjoyable. Personally, I cannot stand loud people.. there are videos of Jason Momoa out at a bar throwing hatchets and he is so loud. He spends the video screaming “yee haw”. I hate it. I would never enjoy his company let alone want to sleep with him. Most people don’t truly get along with most people… and that leaves an even smaller pool for dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:04 AM
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I have genuinely only ever heard the 666 requirement bullshit from men in these subs. I have never had a real woman say anything of the sort to me. One might say “wow he’s so tall.. that’s hot” but that has never once meant “fuck short guys I would never date one”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:59 AM
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Yeah no. Dating is the worst. God himself could come down here and say “this is the man I have chosen for you” and I’d still expect it to be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:56 AM
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It is. It’s all dumb. But.. here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:42 PM
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There’s not much else to take away from it. They try… and then they stop. Damn near two completely different people. This is an incredibly common phenomenon. And sure. You could. I’m not stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:39 PM
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Men definitely do a lot of pretending to get laid. They do not continue pretending once official, however, and stop trying to maintain the relationship. Hence…. Men don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:12 PM
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In the manosphere, redpilling refers to embracing the idea that men’s unhappiness and lack of sexual success is the fault of women and feminists. Men who do not accept this reality are referred to as bluepilled. The term black pill refers to accepting the futility of fighting against a feminist system. Blackpilled incels are encouraged to either commit suicide or “go ER”/be a “hERo,” referencing Elliot Rodger’s 2014 Isla Vista murder spree that has been called an act of misogynistic terrorism. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:11 PM
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Some men do. I’m sure. Majority do not. I can’t speak on women as I don’t date them and have only seen myself and my friends try to keep relationships together with spit and duct tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:00 PM
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Ah, the classic 'men and women aren't equal' argument, brought to you by the Department of Oversimplified Analogies. Yes, we get it, men and women have physical differences. Congratulations on noticing. But reducing the entire concept of equality to a simplistic comparison of physical strength is like saying apples and oranges aren't equal because one is rounder. Newsflash: equality isn't about being identical; it's about having the same rights, opportunities, and respect regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:46 PM
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I too have been punched for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:15 PM
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lol no You can’t just make sweeping generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:46 PM
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Good on you. It’s rough out here in the trenches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:39 PM
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It’s all a failing attempt to find a reason why they aren’t included in these women’s choices of partners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:37 PM
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At what point did “child predator” stop being a severe mental illness? Jesus. The only time I lust without stimuli is during ovulation. Before and after that.. I can seek out stimuli to activate the lust, but without the conscious effort.. I don’t feel lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 PM
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Why shouldn’t she?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:24 PM
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I have looked men directly in the face and said “I don’t like you.. fuck off” and they still did not fuck off. Perhaps they couldn’t tell emotionally unavailable if it smacked them in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:22 PM
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As I get older.. the less I believe in the whole “find the one and start a life” thing. Men simply do not try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:19 PM
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You won’t find that here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:09 PM
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It's quite a bold move to throw out statistics like 95% or even 70% without any evidence to back it up. Making up your own statistics to prove a point isn't exactly the most credible approach. The truth is, the reasons behind makeup use are diverse and personal, and trying to generalize the motivations of millions of individuals based on your own assumptions isn't a solid foundation for an argument. Let's stick to discussing the actual complexities of makeup use rather than relying on unsupporte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:17 PM
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I guess I just haven’t seen that. “Teen” was the most searched word in porn for years.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:09 PM
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Labeling all women who wear makeup as deceptive is a sweeping generalization. That's precisely why I brought up the idea of makeup as an art form – to highlight its potential for self-expression and creativity. Assuming that makeup is always used with the intent to deceive is just plain shortsighted. Sure, some individuals may use makeup for that purpose, but to paint all makeup wearers with the same brush is just bad faith. Let's not overlook the myriad reasons why people choose to wear makeup,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:05 PM
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Bringing up makeup as an art form isn't about focusing solely on its usage by the majority. It's about recognizing and celebrating the diverse ways in which people engage with makeup. Just because the majority may use makeup for everyday purposes doesn't negate its artistic potential or its significance as a form of self-expression for many individuals. By acknowledging makeup as an art form, we're not discounting its everyday use but rather highlighting its multifaceted nature and its potential…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:53 AM
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No it’s not.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:52 AM
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…this does happen to women.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:49 AM
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Just because the majority of women use makeup to enhance their features rather than transform into walking art installations doesn't mean it's not an art form. Art comes in many forms, and the skill, creativity, and expression involved in makeup application are undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:47 AM
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I don’t shit post. Anything you read.. I meant.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:03 AM
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Ah, resorting to dismissive attitudes and gender stereotypes to deflect from the lack of substance in your argument? Classy move. But hey, if you're not interested in actually engaging in a meaningful discussion or defending your stance, then maybe it's time to reconsider why you're even participating in a debate forum in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:52 AM
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Assuming that going to a bar automatically grants permission for unwanted advances is not just outdated, it's plain wrong. Nobody owes anyone else their time or attention, regardless of the setting. And suggesting that being "standoffish" somehow reflects poorly on someone's character is not just disrespectful, it's downright absurd. And let's not even get started on your generalizations about women being ruder or meaner. It's as if you've never considered that maybe, just maybe, some women migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:47 AM
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This is not how debating works. You’re not even defending your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:32 AM
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And how would you recommend that be done?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:31 AM
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Just being here makes me a shit poster? lol. Interesting take but sure.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:30 AM
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I’m not. I think this sub is absolute garbage 99% of the time and the women who post the dumb shit OP mentioned are just pickmes.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:25 AM
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I mean.. yeah. I’d tell a woman the same thing. If you’re not prepared to accept the consequences.. don’t take the risk. This seems even more important to men since they don’t have control over the final decision to keep the baby or not.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:23 AM
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You know, it's interesting how you dismiss makeup as "NPC" when, in reality, it's one of the most individualistic forms of expression out there. From the ancient Egyptians to the Elizabethans, makeup has been a part of human culture for centuries, evolving and adapting with each era. Every stroke of eyeliner, every dab of lipstick, it's all a reflection of someone's unique personality and style, rooted in a rich history of self-expression. Insecurity simply isn’t the main reason makeup is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:15 AM
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Well, I guess if we're sticking to the "insecurity" narrative, it's easier to put people in neat little boxes, right? But hey, why bother exploring the complex reasons behind someone's choice to wear makeup when we can just slap on a label and call it a day? Let's not muddy the waters with inconvenient truths like individuality, creativity, and personal expression. So sure, if it helps you sleep better at night to believe that makeup is solely about insecurity, go ahead. But the real world doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:51 AM
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This is such a refreshing comment to see here. Thank you.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:38 AM
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Ah, makeup, a timeless form of self-expression cherished through the ages. From the intricately painted faces of ancient civilizations to the bold statements made on modern runways, makeup undeniably holds its place as an art form. While some may argue that the use of makeup signifies insecurity, let's shift the narrative. Makeup isn't solely about covering flaws or conforming to societal norms; it's a tool for empowerment and creativity. Just as one might choose a particular outfit or hairstyle…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:28 AM
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No idea. Give it a go. Let’s find out.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:10 AM
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it’s her call now. I’ve never understood this. Why did he get her pregnant knowing that he’d have no real say and it would ruin his life?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 05:30 AM
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It's quite remarkable how you've managed to pack so many outdated stereotypes and misconceptions into one argument. Let's unpack this, shall we? Firstly, the notion that women hold a "sexual monopoly" is not only archaic but also wildly inaccurate. Consent is a fundamental aspect of any sexual encounter, regardless of gender. Suggesting that women have sole control over who gets sex and when is not only insulting to men but also undermines the agency of women themselves. Both parties in any cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:21 PM
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Your argument seems to oversimplify the intricate dynamics of human relationships and societal structures. Reducing the complexities of gender dynamics to a simple equation of libido is not only reductive but also dismissive of the multifaceted nature of human interactions. Firstly, suggesting that men's higher levels of horniness give women an "upper hand" implies that relationships and power dynamics are solely determined by sexual desire, disregarding emotional, intellectual, and social aspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:14 PM
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Tell them not to talk to anyone at all about it and get a lawyer. Or. Tell them to ignore it entirely. By brothers ex tried that. He completely blocked her and didn’t mention it to anyone outside the family. He neither confirmed nor denied if anyone asked. It went away. Luckily she didn’t take it further and it came out she was fucking his best friend. So.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Shut up. Is the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:00 PM
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That’s actual magic (if you believe in such things). So yeah.. but using period blood is the standard practice far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:38 AM
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*period blood. Don’t forget the best part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:36 AM
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Depends entirely on who I’m around and what’s going on. I’ve been in relationships with men who had me wanting every day.. and I’ve been in relationships where I thought maybe I was asexual. We also cycle… maybe four days before my period I can’t be arsed.. but.. being in a relationship with a man I want and ovulating will have me gnawing at the bars of my enclosure for a week 🤷🏻‍♀️ when I’m single I want sex almost as much as when in a good relationship.. I just have no one to aim it at so it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:05 AM
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This sounds like a sexual dysfunction.. cuz I stay hungry for the dick I want
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:20 AM
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Are you under the impression that abortions cause amnesia and those women forget they were ever pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:31 AM
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The main argument I present is that no one is entitled to your body. They can’t force you to donate kidneys or marrow because it’ll save a life. A nonsentient “clump of cells” as it were, should not have more right than the fully developed human it’s feeding off of. The woman’s body doesn’t even want it in there ultimately.. what with the chemicals it has to make to hide itself from her immune system
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:07 AM
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I mean.. no. How you get them is how you’ll lose them. But ultimately it’s not you who owes her partner loyalty.. it’s her. So go for it, I guess. Doing her man a favor.. if it hadn’t been you it’d be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:51 PM
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Pot calling the kettle black, doncha think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:21 PM
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I don’t know which parts of the internet you’re on.. but over here we don’t want 18 year olds in porn and would prefer for them to make that choice for themselves once they have some life experience and self awareness under their belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:31 PM
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I suppose the next question is to ask if you live amongst the wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:04 PM
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Personally.. I don’t think it’s the salary that’s making any of the difference OP has seen. It’s probably just different socioeconomic standards amongst a tax bracket we don’t live in. Wealthier people have their own culture. It would make sense to me that leaving your wife after she has your child might make you look bad to the boys at the water cooler in a way that could effect your ability to climb the corporate ladder. I dunno tho. Just a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:28 PM
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Oh no.. I’m aware 60k is pretty good and definitely above the poverty line. I’m not the OP. The point is that this is where people post their takes about dating and stuff. This theory on hypergamy falls squarely in line with the point of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:20 PM
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That’s… kinda what this sub is for. Peoples opinions on this kind of stuff. You seem to be in the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:15 PM
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I mean.. no. Not ignoring so much as.. just.. speechless. I’m just surprised they let you talk in here. Mensrights really are sending their best advocates. I’m flattered.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:33 PM
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cuckys
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:23 PM
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Yeah my definition of a pedo is the actual definition. But go off, king. You’re one of those guys who’s hates feminists so much he just became the exact same thing but in reverse. Have a good day, buddy. (Also when you pluralize something you gotta use “ies”. Just “ys” is possessive and doesn’t make sense.)
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:10 PM
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No? Lmfao. What on earth. I can’t even agree with you jokers without yall being assholes. She’s literally a creep rapist. She should be put under the jail. Pedophile just isn’t quite the right term. It bothers me when everyone lumps all child predators into the same wrong category. Then creep ass people can say “I’m not a pedophile they’re not prepubescent children”. We need to demonize the correct terms so these people can’t escape being labeled as anything less than monsters. Or whatever mumbo…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:03 PM
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“Used” that’s real nice. Love the whole dehumanizing of women thing that happens here. Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:41 PM
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You can express whatever you want. You may not touch without permission and you may not beg/coerce.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 10:20 AM
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I can't believe that Bryce prefers Van Patten's card to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:16 AM
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Never said it was. Just seems like an odd thing to complain to us about.. since the level you say this was taken to is clearly not a pervasive school of thought amongst the majority women. And sure, I get that. Raise your sons well and hopefully they won’t fall victim to abusive relationships.. but it happens. Be there and supportive if it does. All you really can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:15 AM
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It's very cool, Bateman, but that's nothing. Look at this……… Eggshell with Romalian type. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:12 AM
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Why are you wasting time thinking about people you have no intention of being involved with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:50 AM
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She barely meets the qualifications for pedophile.. a pedophile is attracted to prepubescent children. She’s a rapist. Edit: it’s hebephile guys. She’s a hebephile. Use the right terms so people can’t duck deranged behavior.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 08:31 AM
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You don’t think this might end in a bunch of men getting shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:48 AM
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I mean. I might. Idk. I didn’t read what you said after you completely disregarded the entire message of this specific thread and went on a whole tangent about something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:39 AM
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I mean… look around this sub. Are many men not miserable? Look outside. Look at the rates of mysterious deaths before no fault divorce was a thing. It’s there. It’s getting better for women and it seems like a good portion of men don’t know how to fit into a world where women are genuinely their equals on all levels but (usually, not always) physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:39 AM
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You typed all that out instead of just telling the homies they look fetching today. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:36 AM
1

I will acknowledge that men who don’t know how to appropriately be emotional are unattractive. Just like unregulated women are. I will acknowledge that boys are raised to be as unemotional as they can be. That’s wrong and causes many problems. None of those things are excuses for anything though. Adult men are just that… adults. Be the change you want to see in the world. Emotional men who are well adjusted and express emotion in a healthy way are highly coveted among their functional women coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:25 AM
2

We don’t genuinely know much about our ancient ancestors. I’d like to think things were more equal back when we genuinely did need each other. But I agree that became less and less as we advanced. I’d have to sit down and go find the point in history where the traditions of treating daughters like property became a thing. I know at least as far back as biblical Greco Roman times women were not allowed the same freedoms as men and were considered property. The whole “virgin until marriage” is an …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:22 AM
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The answer would be men for most parts of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:05 AM
4

Since you have this book and have read it you can take a picture of the page you got your stat from and post it here ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:42 AM
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Women have been bought and traded and used as status symbols and disallowed from autonomy for most of history. Having a “better like than someone else” isn’t the same as not being oppressed. Some slave owners treated their slaves well and their slaves led nice lives… they were still oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:41 AM
3

Interesting. I’d love to learn more. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:30 AM
2

Ok. Where are the links to articles proving that women weren’t considered history through most of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:59 AM
1

Never said they were. Neither did you. Post the links that explain how women weren’t oppressed/property through most of history
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:57 AM
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Can you post some articles about how women in history weren’t considered property for most of it? I’d love to read where you got that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:31 AM
3

Short according to the men here’s standards, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:23 AM
9

Do they show this entitlement by not being interested in you by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:19 AM
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Ok but there’s literally nothing we can do about this specific issue. Men need to be nicer to each other in the way that women are. That’s the answer to this specific issue. Women being nicer to men makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:07 AM
16

Look at that subtle off-white colouring. The tasteful thickness…… Oh my God. It even has a watermark.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:39 AM
1

Very creative. I had to quote him cuz I knew he’d delete it and gosh it was just too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:19 AM
0

What’s to be curious about? If you told me all women have been raped.. I wouldn’t be surprised. Far as I’m concerned.. we either have been already or it hasn’t happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:42 AM
3

Yes. Put it in more functional numbers. How many women do you know? Is it more than 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:43 AM
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Your reality trumps mine. Nice argument. You are the worst person here btw. Actual idiot I just realised it's you banana bitch. Stats are 1 in 4. Nice ad hom tho. Really makes you seem like you’re right and a safe man for women to share their rape stories with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:37 AM
4

The stats are 1 in 4 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:35 AM
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Right. Cuz men are robots and women are hormones. No. I don’t think it’s misogyny. I think it’s willful blindness and ignorance. But we can agree to disagree.. you’ll never truly understand and I’m happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:30 AM
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What do horoscopes have to do with this? Aside from you attempting to discredit and belittle me based off my sex. Your belief in statistics doesn’t make any of us any safer. I’ve been raped. My mom, my sister, my bestie, my bartender, my librarian, the girl at the counter.. at what point do we accept that even 1 in 4 is ridiculously common and stop being shitty towards women for not wanting to be caught unawares? And why does it affect you enough to be shitty about it? You’d think you’d want wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:18 AM
1

Watching my best friend.. SAHP. But ultimately it’s probably a personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:11 AM
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And most people don’t report. So. The data is useless. Unless you believe that men rarely get raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:09 AM
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Ah yes.. women are the delusional ones.. for.. checks notes not wanting to date people they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:05 AM
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They must not have felt comfortable enough to have told you. Or you only know a couple women. Because that’s not even statistically possible. But thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:43 AM
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“Luckily” nothing. lol. That’s not how it works. I will likely never be kidnapped by a serial killer.. that’s true. Won’t catch me taking chances tho. Cuz that’s the thing.. most people aren’t dangerous.. but the consequences of being caught by that 1 psycho lands you in the Toy Box Killers sex dungeon. I’ll be cautious and hyper aware of my surroundings instead, thanx.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:42 AM
10

Excellent. How can I tell with 100% accuracy which man is uncivilized?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:30 AM
3

What is a tomboy anymore? I thought it was just supposed to be girls who don’t like dresses and catch lizards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:12 AM
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Not sure what you mean by that.. but no. I know a ton of women from all walks of life. Starting with my own mother and moving onward..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:04 AM
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Why do we have to talk about this every week? Why is it so hard to accept that men are scary and let it be? If you’re not a monster.. then you aren’t the man we’re talking about are you? So why be up in arms? I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped. I think that’s reason enough to be scared of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:52 PM
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Stay under the blankies. No but.. yeah men are the only scary thing in the night 🤷🏻‍♀️ never really had much of a city bear problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:48 PM
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I personally don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped. In the full meaning of the word. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:47 PM
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My bad, g. Lemme be clear. I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:46 PM
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I wonder what planet they’re on Why? Is there something else in the dark you’re scared of?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:46 PM
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No. But how are we supposed to know which is which? If you’re not a danger to women.. why are you concerned by them being worried about the men who are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:42 PM
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The blue pill exists solely to be the antithesis of the red pill. As a joke. But uhh.. yeah. Ok. Please link me the study with the irrefutable proof of how we evolved and exactly why. Since it’s so simple.. it’ll be easy.. cuz all scientists agree, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:10 PM
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Isn’t it not super common in Europe? I imagine America will catch up. Most the people I know leave it up to the father.. and often the father chooses to circumcise because he was and doesn’t know any differently. My brother was snipped for medical reasons and he wants to do the same to his kids. Edit: I just asked two men and they both said they’d also get their sons circumcised Edit edit: makes absolutely ZERO difference to the woman as long as it’s clean and functions properly. Don’t let any w…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 01:38 AM
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That it’s almost always medically unnecessary and makes absolutely zero difference for the woman so it’s dumb they care at all?
/r/MensRights05/04/24 01:29 AM
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Sure I’ll break it down. Be respectful. You aren’t “right” about anything. You can’t be. No one has these answers for sure. So debate me if you like.. but don’t be a dick. Who mentioned faithful loving partners? That has nothing to do with anything either. Are you making this emotional because you’re emotional or because I’m a woman? Having more than one fresh baby to a single man is impractical.. especially in a survival situation. But in order to properly debate this.. we need to establish how…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:02 AM
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Before I read all that, what does marriage have to do with evolutionary biology and sexual psychology? Nothing. You brought up marriage. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:21 AM
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A divorce rate proves nothing outside of an inability to effectively choose a mate/an inability to effectively be a mate. It has little effect on our actual needs? Nature doesn’t give a fuck about your happy marriage.. it cares about the continuation of the species. You can’t effectively do that in a poly “spread your seed” situation. That’s just the fact of the matter. Most especially not back when we lived in small tribes. Spreading your seed/not having one mate would ruin your gene pool and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:37 PM
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Ehhh. Evolutionary biology and sexual psychology is ultimately all just guesswork.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:53 PM
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The whole message of the movie was that the men don’t need mojo dojo casa houses to be happy.. it actually made everything bad too. Just like it had been before. And too much Barbie was also bad. The point of the movie was that we need each other and Ken doesn’t need Barbie to be a person.. he’s a person outside being her sidekick. He’s Kenough. Too much Barbie is bad and hurts Ken.. too much Ken is bad and hurts Barbie. At no point did I at all think the message was “man bad. woman good.”. I fe…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 12:05 PM
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It probably depends on the sex drive if the girl involved.. I like sex too much to just occasionally hook up with some random or whatever. I’m gonna wanna fuck multiple times a week.. if I’m doing that then I’m gonna want just one stable guy to sleep with. Now I have 2 boyfriends. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah. It’s nearly impossible to go after someone for saying something in passing once. Without the repetition it’s fairly irrelevant. So.. the advice applies to both sides.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 07:50 AM
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I think it’s a case by case basis.. I don’t think it’s a gendered issue 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:51 AM
1

I’ve had rumors spread about me too. That’s not what anyone is talking about. What’s the name of that fallacy where people take what you’re saying as literally as possible while ignoring the realities of life? I know there is one but I don’t care enough to go google it. Sure.. some people are cunts. Congrats. But enough people aren’t for this concern to be irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:45 PM
1

Then it’s not because you asked them out, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:32 PM
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But that’s not your argument is it? You’re trying to assert that women want to lead the lives of influencers. Different topics. All that tells us is that you have a problem with influencers specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:25 PM
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Because being very very specific in what you’re wrong about points to the issue being personal for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:33 PM
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This is inherently untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:32 PM
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It’s not even a city problem. The women like this are few and far between. Most people grow out of wanting to be internet famous, I think. It’s a newer phenomenon.. but my brother and baby sister both had the dream… grew out of it tho. Cuz it’s just not attainable without luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:16 PM
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Not wanting kids is almost always a bit deeper than “detrimental to looks” lmfao. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:11 PM
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This is almost absolutely what’s going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:05 PM
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It’s not about me being approached. I did nearly all the approaching. Over and over. I’ve been looked into my face and told I’m not their type more times than I can count. Because that’s how it works. Shocking initially.. I’ll give you that. Because I grew up in a society that told me I’m what every man wants. But eventually you realize that human attraction is pretty specific. Majority of men aren’t actually willing to just accept anything that walks by. Some men like them thick and won’t accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:48 PM
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It’s just not how it works in practice. I’m a blonde woman with big tits.. the basic of western beauty.. but I work in an industry where you find out real quick that everyone likes their own thing and I’m not even remotely everyone’s cup of tea. It’s not as simple as yall want it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:32 PM
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I don’t understand how this is invalidating anyone. Strangers don’t remember strangers. I’m not saying “no will remember you ever because everyone hates you”.. I’m saying “no one remembers decent strangers enough to sit around talking shit about them after they’re gone”. If anything you’d think that’s comforting. That’s like being worried people walk around thinking about your zit and then telling people about it later.. they don’t. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:28 PM
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Narrowing down the pool of potentials as far as you can will produce faster results
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:28 AM
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I have. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:43 AM
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…how? Are all yall living in tiny towns and only asking out your friend groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:42 AM
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Don’t forget that nearly the majority of women don’t want children anyway these days. So.. that’s already a lot of women that don’t want your genes regardless. And… uh…. Yeah? That’s what I said. Most people aren’t attracted to most people. That’s how it works. And on top of that.. we all like different things. AND when you throw OLD into it? Wooooo. How fuckin complicated is that? It’s super hard to take good pictures.. there’s no way to actually convey anything about you as a person.. AND.. me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:28 AM
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I can see that being the reality. Ultimately, I’d think it would be easier to just go alone instead of trying to gauge the atmosphere of each location on each night and trying to put together an A team on that information
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:22 AM
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Why is it a slow uncomfortable thing to realize not everyone is attracted to everyone? Shouldn’t that be like… common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:20 AM
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I have literally never once ever talked shit about a guy for just asking me out OR heard a woman talk shit about a man who simply asked her out. That only happens when the guy is an asshole or a creep about it. Where did you make that up from? Or do you explicitly try to date high schoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:14 AM
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Makes sense. I imagine you’d have better luck if you’re alone tho. Groups of men can be intimidating and having another woman there definitely defeats the purpose unless she’s actively involved in being your wingman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:41 AM
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Ok. I have never understood need for moral support around being told no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:36 AM
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I have never understood the fear of being told no. Like.. she’s just done you a favor. You’ve now narrowed down the pool of potentials. And if she’s really shitty about it.. she told you she’s a bitch and that’s an excellent piece of information you’d definitely want to know sooner than later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:31 AM
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Yall are aware that the blue pill crap is literally just the antithesis of the red pill to mock it, right? Like there is no “blue pill”. There’s normal people who don’t think about this junk and then there’s Red pill. Blue pill only came to be when normal people found this awful place and then stuck around for the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:55 PM
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or whatever else. You now damn well this sub is mostly just men complaining about how women are all sharing the same 20% of men because we’re all sluts for Chad. Don’t even pretend that it’s not. Any intellectually stimulating conversation here is an anomaly.. not a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:48 PM
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Send me a cool grand or I don’t believe you. Jk. No but really.. I didn’t say they don’t use socials. I said there aren’t any actually rich men on this website crying about how women don’t want them cuz women are all whores or whatever else. Idk. Maybe trust fund babies are little bitches. I guess that could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:19 PM
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If we’re in our late 20s early 30s then I’m going for the guy with 3 past relationships. If we’re in high school then I would prefer the virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:58 PM
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Age is integral. How old are these men? How old am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:46 PM
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You need better woman friends if that’s your main experience with them. I have worked in industries you’d think women would be the cattiest and never had any of these issues.. so either you need to surround yourself with better people OR you’re making this up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:07 AM
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And you learned to be ok with that? Pushed yourself through it? That’s not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:12 AM
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Why would using someone as an experiment hurt you? How old are you, friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:37 AM
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This is the wrong place to get the male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:45 AM
0

Did you miss the part about damaging each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:43 AM
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He wouldn’t be here. Yall clearly haven’t met actually rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:02 AM
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This is a stupid idea and a great way to hurt everyone involved and leave them damaged for the next person who might actually value them/you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:15 AM
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Like with anything else in life.. there’s just no knowing. Worrying about it simply doesn’t help anything. A virgin can cheat just as easily as anyone else. Might as well focus on the attributes that make your time together pleasant instead of focusing on what might happen in the future. Anecdotally, I am a whore. I have never cheated. My first husband? Was a virgin when I met him.. and he left me for a 17 year old 🤷🏻‍♀️ worrying is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:19 PM
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Depends on who you ask. I don’t care about body count because.. why would I? They either want to be with me or they don’t.. body count doesn’t affect that at all. They’re going to cheat or they won’t.. worrying about it doesn’t serve me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:09 PM
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Yeah ok 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:15 PM
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Rich men just buy what they want. They don’t come here to complain lol. They don’t need to. Have you ever met an actually rich person?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:10 PM
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So, how come women believe only broke guys use Reddit? You’ve misunderstood. They are here.. the difference is: Successful men aren’t making dumbass comments in the pill communities. Successful, well adjusted, decent men don’t have these cockamamie opinions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:12 AM
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They come and go pretty quickly. You gotta be quicker. Usually the crazies who talk like that delete comments. But they are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:07 PM
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What their are Player who still live at their mommy’s basement and swimming in lady’s 💀 Damm that’s humbling What? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:00 AM
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If you don’t work.. how do you eat and receive medical care and have a roof over your head and electricity? Do these men that drop out of society just go full frontiersman?
/r/MensRights22/03/24 12:08 AM
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You post pictures of all your sexual conquests on your Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:02 PM
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Yeah. I don’t believe you. Which I know doesn’t matter.. but I’ve never in my life met a man who’s successful with women that talks like that.. but I’ve met plenty of dudes who live in their moms basements who do 🤣 It’s irrelevant though. I saw you say that all women are attracted to the same shit so already I know you have no idea what you’re talking about. Have a good day tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:06 PM
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I will never understand the phenomenon of men coming up with their own sexual fantasies about other men and then deciding that must be what women want since it’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:36 PM
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I think often times it sends a message that that person has discovered who they are and they’re confident enough to be that person. I don’t wear makeup. It’s time consuming and I don’t care enough. I don’t care what anyone thinks about that tho.. I know I’m stunning when I want to be. The rest is irrelevant. So if a straight man is wearing fingernail polish.. perhaps it’s because he knows he’s masculine and his nails being a color doesn’t change that about him. The rest is irrelevant. There must…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:34 PM
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Hold up… wait a minute… why is this true? All the men I’ve ever known who wore nail polish were 100% sex magnets. I think I got my appreciation for men like that from Spike 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:08 PM
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I also have a crush on this man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:01 PM
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I think we have different ideas of what the man loving her more looks like. She still loves him in this scenario.. so she’s not going to treat him poorly? Because that’s not how you treat someone you love? I’m not saying the guy is in love and the woman is just there for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:50 PM
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I don’t think it has anything to do with power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:42 AM
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Source?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 07:59 PM
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My side is essentially just the opposite of OPs. I believe (and have been told by little old ladies) that the man has to love you more. I also believe that a man knows really quickly if he loves you.. and if it’s not there almost immediately.. it never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:23 PM
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That’s not how the discussion is had though. Neither side is ever willing to compromise and accept that it might just be a relationship to relationship situation. I have never in my life seen a relationship work out where the woman is the more interested party.. but I’m willing to accept that might work for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:53 PM
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At some point.. we either acknowledge anecdotal evidence as actually evidence or we stop asking subjective questions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:45 AM
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I have had the opposite experience 🤷🏻‍♀️ this argument always ends up with the obvious two camps having nothing but anecdotal evidence to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:35 AM
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Hello fellow women! How about those men huh? Wows.. can’t believe you’d want to be young looking and not look in the mirror and see a stranger due to aging for as long as possible. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:45 PM
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Watching you reply to literally every comment has been riveting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:47 PM
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Oh wow. Since men get murdered more and I’m much weaker than a man AND have the statistically more preferred parts.. I feel so much safer. Thank you. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:50 PM
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It probably wouldn’t help, if it makes you feel any better. I have one of those and a similar story to go with him. We finally saw each other again after years of radio silence. Hugged. And then immediately fucked.. in the car.. like teenagers. And that helped nothing lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:56 PM
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Men who take issue/offense when women are cautious are so sus. Imagine knowing terrible things happen to women and then being mad when women try to avoid those horrible things at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:37 PM
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I got followed out of work once and did the whole “turn the same way to make sure” thing. Popped into a bar fast af and told the bartender I needed help. God bless the bartender 🤌🏻 wasn’t the first time.. won’t be the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:35 PM
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Oh but he has a FWB so he’s good 👍🏻 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:20 PM
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Here is an article
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:06 PM
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An appeal to extremes fallacy is a bad-faith argument. This is because the way in which it exaggerates or distorts a viewpoint or argument in order to make it easier to dismiss or rebut doesn't really engage with the root issue or the core argument in a fair or logical manner. The end result tends to be rather dismissive or condescending, and it doesn't really encourage productive and meaningful discussion or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:34 PM
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Appeal to extremes fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:32 PM
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This also plays a huge part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:13 PM
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Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:06 PM
2

Tu quoque.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:49 AM
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Are there a lot of accidental elevator sneeze shootings? Just curious how often your scenario happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:29 AM
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Ooooo.. this is a super good answer. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:28 AM
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300 won’t cut it. You need 7000 souls to become a vampire ascendant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:21 AM
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That’s super gross of her and I’m sorry that happened to you. She’s an idiot. We’re both avoiding the scary road, know why? Cuz you’re as human as I am and if they get through you? I’m fucked. That’s not a chance I’m willing to take with either of our lives. She’s clearly never seen a murder documentary or a scary movie. Next time. Let her walk the scary road alone. Can’t save everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:20 AM
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I just value my life more than you do, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:17 AM
7

Maybe men think it’s “weak” for them to be frightened? Idk. It’s probably almost definitely social conditioning. And yeah.. guns are a good idea. But not everyone can have one. They aren’t legal in all places of the world.. so it’s not a sure fire solution. Plus.. I’d like to make it to a peaceful death without the trauma of being attacked and then having to kill someone, you know? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:06 AM
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I too have been in danger and experienced violence. More than once. I’ve been followed home by absolute creeps. I don’t understand either. It wouldn’t bother me at all if men were more careful and situationally aware. I don’t know what exactly.. I can’t put my finger on it.. but men who get mad at you for wanting to be as safe as possible? It’s sus. It has an almost.. predatory undertone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:03 AM
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Ok. And I won’t go outside with a metal rod during a lighting storm either. I also wear my seatbelt, look both ways, read warning labels, google interactions between medications, and chew my food carefully. We aren’t stupid for not wanting to die and doing our best to avoid it. Ted Bundy got his victims by pretending to need help. He preyed upon how trusting those women were. I’ll be damned if that happens to me. Richard Ramirez raped and murdered his victims by sneaking into their houses throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:00 AM
11

My answer didn’t change? I don’t understand. Men should be more concerned. More responsible. That literally negates nothing I said 🤣 My answer doesn’t need to change because men are more likely to get murdered by other men. There’s still a chance I could be murdered by a man.. isn’t there? Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:46 AM
11

And my point is.. yes it is. I like being alive. I want to keep being alive so badly that I’ll be extra careful. Why wouldn’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:42 AM
18

I read your post. You asked a question. I answered it. The answer to the question doesn’t change because more men are killed by men. Perhaps less men would be murdered if they were more worried.. like women are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:40 AM
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It’s because men know how dangerous men can be. And we know how dangerous men can be. We all have either been assaulted at some point to some degree or we know someone who has. Or both. We’ve heard the stories and watched the documentaries of murderers and serial killers and cold cases. Idk about anyone else.. but I’d rather have a ton of pictures of license plates than end up a revisited corpse in the woods (see: Ted Bundy)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:38 AM
13

I would agree with that. I have often been astounded by how bold men seem to be. When my best friend would go on dates.. she’d send me a picture of her outfit, a picture of the guy and his name and number, and then his license plate. Did I ever need to use that information? No. But it sure would have been devastating not to have it if I did. Do men do stuff like that? Do they fear dark parking lots? Do they fear walking home alone? Walking at night? Why not? My theory is that they overestimate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:07 AM
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So you’re telling me.. men are strong enough and crazy enough to kill other men.. to the point where they do it all the time.. and I, a 5’5 120lbs woman, am supposed to be comforted by that? That doesn’t track. Not only are men more likely to be unhinged.. men are also more likely to just kill people who might actually be able to fight back? And here’s little ole me.. definitely can’t fight back very effectively.. and I’m not supposed to be concerned? If all those men couldn’t defend themselves.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:54 AM
22

Exactly. I really prefer not to be murdered. Men being more likely to kill each other doesn’t make me safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:46 AM
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If I get murdered and then two men get murdered right after by the same dude.. am I any less dead? Actually.. if 300 men get murdered and then I get murdered.. am I any less dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:36 AM
65

Oh that’s easy. It’s cuz of the very real threat of being murdered by a man 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:13 AM
1

My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:40 AM
32

They’re with average women. Because nearly the entire population is just average. And to be honest.. I see more of these dudes batting out of their league than not. Just because you need a man to look like a movie star to be attracted to him doesn’t mean the rest of us share that affliction. What’s attractive is an enormous spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:41 AM
14

I just downloaded Tinder and set it up as a man and swiped for a good 15ish minutes.. didn’t see a single laundry list. Can’t be that many. Also. 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:37 AM
14

Not everyone uses apps. And not everyone has a laundry list of requirements on their profiles. As of 2023 only 30% of US adults have ever used OLD. And of those how many are prudish jackasses? The numbers are negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:21 AM
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Lmao. Which is super funny cuz I’ve only ever heard the dudes in these communities mention these definitive rules. And every time, a slew of women appear to disagree.. and every time the men accuse the women of lying or something 🤣 such a strange phenomenon. Beauty is subjective and most people have a range of what they’ll find attractive. No well adjust adult is walking around with a clip board going “oh youre only 5’11… oof. Sorry pal”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:32 PM
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Lmfao. Why do yall insist on this ridiculous list? As if short, poor, overweight, average men everywhere aren’t in relationships 🤣 go outside. They are the majority of the population and they have girlfriends and wives and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:16 PM
1

Here it is. The answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:04 PM
9

I can’t think of a single time ever that my body count matter to anyone I give a shit about 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:59 PM
5

Slut shaming never stopped me from doing what I wanted. My sister is horrified of being considered a slut though. Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:56 PM
0

Twas just funny that you were all my notifications 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:42 PM
1

Source? I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:44 PM
0

since they hate men. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:44 PM
0

Are you stalking me? lol. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:05 PM
1

But you didn’t reply to my comment with the intention of engaging with me. You didn’t even really address what I said. You hopped onto my comment and immediately tried to shift the spotlight onto you and then throw out some manipulative crap about “because I’m a man”. That’s not an effective way to have a conversation, now is it? I don’t expect you to understand that though. Also. The ad hominem makes you look dumb. You should cut that out.. it immediately disqualifies you from the debate and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:59 AM
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This must be a Gen z thing because I have no idea what’s even happening in this post. Yall are letting apps dictate how you treat people? 🤣 Regardless.. you can do better. That’s the thing.. there is always better. There always has been better.. apps have nothing to do with that. It’s up to each individual to decide when they’re done with their search for what they want. And you don’t owe anyone anything.. no one does. I thought that was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:24 AM
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While I am not genuinely a misandrist, as I do love men.. something that makes me feel as though I may as well throw up my hands and just hate all men is the men on Reddit. The ones who have these conversations. The men over in mensrights too. All the hateful crap they spew. Their inability to have open, constructive conversations about their point of view. Their inability to debate effectively as they often devolve into all sorts of fallacies. Their ridiculous amount of generalizing. How stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:16 AM
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Link me to the post about the inverse of the situation OP is discussing that I commented on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:34 PM
9

The tu quoque fallacy is not an effective method of discussion 🤣 try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:33 PM
9

My comment is about my personal experience 🤣 I didn’t generalize or assume anything. You took that and made it about you without even trying to engage in a dialogue about what the post is about. That’s not effective communication 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:32 PM
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That’s my experience as well. My running theory is that because they don’t care about the issues their SO brought up.. they aren’t important issues. Unfortunately for them.. the 15th time I ask you to do something.. I’m beginning the process of being over the whole relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:28 PM
11

And are we talking about every woman? No. You’re trying to generalize my anecdotal response to the post.. you can’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:25 PM
18

Because we’re.. talking about me.. Those are also super common issues so it’s not a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:22 PM
15

Sure. But we’re talking about me, aren’t we
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:20 PM
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Nope. I am entirely blunt and as specific as I can be to avoid exactly that situation. I’ll be damned if someone’s gonna be able to excuse their shit behavior by blaming me. Also.. somehow.. I don’t see how “pick up after yourself” or “don’t raise your voice” or “please text me when you’re going to be late” and other related issues can be misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:15 PM
12

Yeah. I reply to the topics at hand. You should try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:12 PM
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Is that what this post is about? No. Anecdotally.. Here’s another issue with y’all. You pick the worst times to try to make everything about you. Me: “Here’s my experience on this specific topic we’re discussing.” You: “But what about MEEEE??? 😢” Go make a post about the inverse situation and then we can discuss your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:06 PM
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Yes he is. Because it is. Because if the issue isn’t worked out.. if there’s not a compromise made.. if there’s no effective communication.. the marriage will end. That shit piles up and strangles the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:46 PM
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The amount of times I’ve looked a man in the face and told him exactly what was wrong and exactly what I needed and he just completely ignored me lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:43 PM
1

Because that’s what this conversation is about. What is wrong with you people? If you wanna talk about shitty women.. make a thread about it. Whataboutisms suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:11 PM
1

It’s just being careful. That doesn’t mean I walk around thinking everyone’s a rapist. The thought process doesn’t get that far. I walk around thinking I need to be situationally aware and do my best to avoid any sketchy situations. The people around me are irrelevant. I can’t tell who’s dangerous and who’s not just by looking. I’d behave the same way if there were no people around.. don’t walk down a dark alley. Lock your car door when you get in the car. So on.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 07:39 AM
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I guess there’s a chance that would happen. In my experience.. the relationship ending is when I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:25 AM
2

Yeah. Enjoy your life but be safe. Like wear condoms so there’s less chance of baby trapping and such.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 06:01 AM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:57 AM
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Yeah, the Toby thing was super fucked. He’s a cool guy. A little intense but I’d expect that from a guy who made his living being so energetic
/r/MensRights11/03/24 05:02 AM
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It’s not about being a “good person” the way you mean it.. it’s about being developed enough to handle the responsibility of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:58 AM
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Honestly the “not all women” and “not all men” thing bothers me. Because it is all people. All people are potentially a threat. It’s safer to assume they will assault you than not to. It encourages situational awareness. I’ve been assaulted by men and women. Women are worse by far in my experience. Assault by men is scarier, but women are entitled and gross because they’re women and don’t see themselves as a “threat” so they do what they please. I’m not saying to be scared and never go outside o…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 03:12 AM
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What works is never slacking off in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:36 AM
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That’s what we’re talking about. Pretending to be something you’re not to secure the relationship and reverting to your useless, inept true state when you’ve secured the bag, as it were. The whole comment were replying ti was about the man doing less and less and less to maintain the relationship. Emotional neglect. Clark Kent, in this metaphor, is the complete lack of effort said man slips into after he’s done pretending to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:50 PM
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Putting on makeup isn’t completely faking your ability to connect and care for someone. Pretending you genuinely care for someone just to turn around and emotionally neglect them once you’re comfortable is a really shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:38 PM
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Then they shouldnt be in one. If who you are as a person isn’t enough to get you into a relationship and you have to fake a bunch of stuff to attract people… well.. you’re not a very good person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:31 PM
1

Nahhhh. I think that once the chores things get to the point where people turn to Reddit.. it’s just too late for like 99% of marriages. The husbands gotta put in the effort from the jump cuz once a man becomes your child.. it’s hard to see him as anything else and doing the laundry now and then won’t fix it. No amount of chores is likely to bring back the sex. But staying on top of the chores indefinitely will aid greatly in keeping it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:41 PM
1

…no. There just isn’t anything arousing about having to follow a man around the house and clean up his messes. Having to take on the entire mental load for the house by yourself isn’t an aphrodisiac. Having to do everything yourself while he sits on his ass every chance he gets makes him unfuckable. At a certain point he just becomes a nuisance.. a child. Not sexy. So.. yeah. You’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:21 PM
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Ok and? I asked for the source. It’s not that difficult. Am I supposed to scroll through a TON of headlines to try to find this one or can OP just post the link?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 11:50 AM
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You don’t know where you got this video?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 11:17 AM
1

Couples counseling isn’t about convincing the other person to fuck you lol. 9 times out of 10 the bedroom is dead because the husband turned into a loser. The counseling is supposed to help the couple figure out where shit veered off the right path. And honestly? It’s probably as simple as the husband doing some chores and being emotionally present and interested in her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:36 AM
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Source?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 09:22 AM
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Yall are aware you’re the male version of feminazis.. right? Is the super hateful stuff only acceptable when men do it or?
/r/MensRights10/03/24 05:56 AM
2

Or just have none. Fuck them kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:25 AM
1

No. Do you know what this sub is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:19 AM
1

It does not. You’re still an adult. Person B is working full time. If you see something that needs to be done.. do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:12 AM
2

Yo. Buddy. What the fuck does this mean? Lmfao yall are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:43 AM
1

I mean.. sure. But my comment made sense.. so..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:07 PM
1

If you don’t speak English, reply in your native tongue and I’ll figure out what you’re trying to say. Unfortunately, this comment doesn’t make enough sense to even guess what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:48 PM
1

MGTOW is toxic. Whatever the female equivalent is is toxic too. Remaining single because you can’t find what you want has absolutely zero to do with needing to heal lol. You can’t heal from not wanting to date the people that don’t meet your standards… it’s not a problem. The difference is Idk where yall get this crap. It’s not true lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:27 AM
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This is it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:09 AM
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Is this post coherent at all? Violent men are hot. On tv. I will not be signing up for a real man who finds himself in fights.. that’s a character flaw. Who cares if he can fight? Can he carry? Felons need not apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:51 AM
1

No. lol. Shits toxic as hell over there. I support the basic concept tho.. be single. It’s ok to be single if you’re not happy with your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:38 AM
3

Avoiding romantic relationships is not a degree of isolation lol. You can have tons of friends without dating them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:53 PM
0

No one’s debating that. Fetishizing criminals in general is just different than fetishizing rapists. You’d have to find the number of women who fetishize rapists for any stat about women into criminals to be used in this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:05 PM
1

I guess, in my mind, it seems like being into rapists because they’re rapists is different than simply being into criminals. Same vein maybe, but different subcategory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:16 PM
1

First.. the article is just describing a fetish. A strange one.. but whatever. Second.. I think a ton of women assault people all the time.. we just don’t talk about it and men are less likely to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:12 PM
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I’m not sure.. what hybristophilia has to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:47 PM
-3

This post is hilarious. What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:10 PM
2

Just gonna throw my hat in here as a “I have an aversion to having kids” person. Mark me down as an “I have an aversion to children as a whole”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:01 PM
3

Why does not having kids make someone a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:58 PM
1

Or just.. don’t have kids since it’s such a burden
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:55 PM
5

Dude wants to get paid to raise his kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:55 PM
1

Honestly we shouldn’t even be expected to explain why. I don’t see how it’s my responsibility to make other people comfortable with me not wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:52 PM
1

I’m never going to have children and it doesn’t matter if XYZ is true or not cuz I won’t change my mind….. because I hate children. Does that make it make more sense? How’s the calibration? Cuz people don’t typically get super understanding when I say that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:51 PM
4

Isolating yourself and simply choosing not to date are not the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:19 PM
3

Genuinely.. what is the issue? Everyone gets rejected sometimes. Sounds like you’re living a normal, regular life where not everyone to find attractive feels the same way about you cuz that’s statistically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:18 PM
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I feel like we need to acknowledge that what’s attractive changes constantly. There was a period in history where fat people were considered the most attractive. There was a period in history where women went out of their way to give themselves huge foreheads. There was a period in history where men wore heels. It’s all ever changing. Even just in our lifetimes.. remember when heroin chic and flat chests were the thing for women? And then somehow we got to the Kardashians. Like… just chill out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:15 PM
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Aren’t you just grumpy. No one asked you to engage with me. It’s honestly so goofy to reply to me just to tell me you wanted me to say more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:01 PM
2

I hope yalls moms find this post. Buncha nasties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:33 PM
2

He asked a stupid question. I offered an answer. Here we are.. debating. Seems to be working just fine. The answer to his question is no. Hard and fast. As was implied by my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:20 PM
1

I have no intention of helping anyone here in these comments. This is a debate sub. Not an advice sub. No one takes the advice given here anyway 🤣 Nothing is over until you’re dead. It’s a dumb question. Also we can’t tell anyone it’s over for them with any modicum of accuracy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:03 PM
1

No. It’s because it’s a fucking stupid thing to ask. Don’t ask if it’s over.. ask how to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:56 PM
1

I reckon it’s got something to do with upbringing and mental illness. There’s probably a specific combo that makes the attachments deeper/harder to shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:56 PM
1

It’s almost definitely not what either of us think it is, but it’s fun to theorize. I have the opposite experience lol. I have seen men claim that movie kinda style of love. I have a few guy friends that are hopeless romantics and would move mountains. I’ve also been loved that way.. he passed away, but he told me that a man who truly loves you will “break the world” for you. I think that’s true. I think your friends who just kinda are going with the flow maybe don’t know any better. I’ve seen m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:34 PM
2

Qué será, será.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:03 PM
1

If she’s not growing in love, then obviously leave. I just don’t think it’s good for the woman to be the most interested in the relationship. At least in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:01 PM
1

Now I’m not a scientist and I can only speak anecdotally, but I live in the school of thought that women should seek out men who love them more. This is because I am convinced men can’t grow in love. I am convinced that they simply know very quickly who they’d Liam Neeson the world for and that exists statically. Whereas women can grow in love over time.. might start out not super into a guy and thinking he’s just average.. but end up worshipping the ground he walks on and thinking he’s the sexi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:09 AM
0

Closer to two years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:06 AM
0

I am also capable of such love. I think it might be a thing you either have in you or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:05 AM
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It’s over for dudes who ask if it’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:02 AM
2

I too am on here frequently saying the same things. You can’t tell these dudes anything. They need things they can’t possibly fix to be responsible for their failures or they’d have to acknowledge it’s their fault. Unsurprisingly, it’s almost guaranteed that someone will say “oh but he’s your ex so ha!” any time I mention 5’4.. little do they know.. if I could resurrect him, I’d insert myself into his pocket and never leave again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:00 AM
1

Never cheated in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:57 AM
3

5’4 died on impact in a motorcycle accident. 5’6 cheated on me with several people. I didn’t end those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:56 AM
2

I’m 5’5. My greatest loves in life were 5’4 and 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:26 PM
2

Varies too much for it to be a factor I can actually quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:22 PM
2

Confident and witty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:26 PM
2

Hi there OP. You’re wrong. Being neurotic isn’t as forgivable as you think it is and it makes everything much much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:11 PM
2

Uh.. I mean yeah. It can be switched off though. I prefer to be with a man I can just shut my brain off around.. and it’s a good sign of I feel I can. But it’s not a deal breaker either way, ultimately..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:45 AM
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No no.. she’s over the wall. Has no value. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:36 PM
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Exactly. Where are the posts about how every man here could be dating/hooking up with his “looksmatch” but he’s not cuz he wants “Stacy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:25 PM
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I’d argue it’s hard to like someone for who they are when they refuse to be vulnerable and learn to effectively communicate their feelings.. like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:16 PM
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See also: The Fruitloop factory theory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:12 PM
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Found Dominik Mysterio
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:06 PM
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The cheerleader in high school only wanted the captain of the football team and now we’re all bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:05 PM
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No. But that’s a me thing. I got cheated on by a “straight” guy with a guy when I was much younger and it fucked me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:08 PM
0

They can and they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:42 AM
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Not a real one. Dean Winchester can get it, but he’s not real. Jensen Ackles cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:32 AM
14

Hey guys, real quick.. break up with women you aren’t compatible with. It’ll help.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 11:08 AM
7

Ohhh. Is that what that one means? Yeah.. I don’t care about that one because people can use their bodies how they like and it makes no difference to anyone else. I’m not on the whole virgin hunting train.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:57 AM
3

I think you omit… Nope. Think again. in my circle Get a new circle. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:55 AM
5

You think we don’t talk about our “icks”? Lmfao. Are you good? My sisters the only one with weird “icks” and that’s just cuz she’s 20. My best friends fiance is 5’3. I think I’m the only one in my immediate group who’s with anyone who’s tall. And I didn’t do that on purpose. Shall I ask them all how tall all their boyfriends have all been? The whole 6’ thing is ridiculous. Sure, some women care. Most don’t mind. Same as with anything else. My husband works with a bunch of married men under 6’. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:21 AM
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Excluding the one I don’t understand, cuz the wording is weird so I can’t confirm nor deny… I can offer nearly my entire Facebook friends list. It’s anecdotal. But.. so is your statement. Birds of a feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:05 AM
3

The one about the 3 men in her 20s makes no sense to me, but the rest are pretty easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:57 AM
1

Depends on what you mean by traditional. Join the Amish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:37 AM
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This 100%. Porn is terrible for people. I hate when people act like porn is some natural needed thing. It’s not. It’s very new. The population somehow survived without it for how many years? People can survive without it.. trying to argue otherwise just makes people look dumb imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:13 AM
0

No. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:18 AM
2

Nah. Bad take. There’s a difference between being introverted and being socially inept. My husband is a huge introvert. Total recluse. He has friends. People like him. He’s married. Telling someone they need to go touch grass if they want to meet people isn’t advice to weed out introverts. It’s advice to get you up off your couch and go figure out how to socialize because clearly something is wrong. i promise you.. the introverts know how and can if they decide to. This shit is something else en…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:13 AM
2

Why lower her standards at all? She can get what she wants.. no reason to force herself to like something she doesn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:26 PM
-1

I think some men.. most maybe.. operate under the impression that tv “assholes” are real. They are not. If men like Rip Wheeler existed.. they would definitely take all their wives. But he doesn’t exist.. And any man who might seem similar? The women chasing him will end up in a women’s shelter before they end up happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:10 PM
1

It’s stupid because it doesn’t work. You might get lucky, but if I’d grown up with OLD.. I’d have missed some really amazing people simply because they didn’t have the right size nose in their pfp. That’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:04 AM
1

Still a completely stupid method 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:57 AM
2

Absolutely. Online dating is bullshit. It occurred to me when I realized I’m attracted to very specific celebrities but my boyfriends were always way more varied visually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:47 PM
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Never have I ever punished feminine behavior 🤣 one of my favorite drinking buddies we lovingly all called “momma” and he is a man. Y’all just can’t fathom how something not being your preference doesn’t mean you hate it and think it’s subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:51 AM
3

…no? My husband just keeps getting sexier to me lol. Sorry you date people you aren’t compatible with outside of infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:49 AM
0

Also.. don’t marry someone if you don’t know whether they’re this kind of person or not.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 01:47 AM
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The “could” part is irrelevant. All people can cheat. You’d be surprised what kind of dusties get a girlfriend after being single for years and then cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:45 AM
2

Not a thing outside transactional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:34 AM
37

I think this is true. Just because a guy don’t immediately take your breath away visually doesn’t mean he won’t get more physically attractive over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:31 AM
0

Beats me. I’m not attracted to myself. I’m some people type and not others like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:18 AM
0

Ryan Gosling is ugly. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:11 AM
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most of us would agree they’re at least above average looking. Best looking guy I can think of off top? Adam Driver 🤌🏻 and a lot of people do not think he’s good looking at all. Which I don’t get but whatever. The point is that my 8-9/10 will be different than yours. I don’t find Jason Momoa attractive. He’s not ugly, but he’s not for me. Ryan Gosling is unattractive. One of my closest friends is obsessed with Alexander Skarsgard. That man is ugly. There’s no point in hashing it all out.. becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:10 AM
0

It’s not a privilege to not be attracted to someone you’re attracted to? We clearly don’t have the same type. I’m not willing to sleep with just anyone and no one should be. How hot you think someone is means nothing to me. People aren’t food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:25 PM
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Men who call other men cucks are undatable to a large segment of women. This is it. I have not been able to figure out how to explain this. In my opinion, the men who are here because they can’t get women aren’t here for any of the reasons they think they are. IMO, it’s really hard to be ugly to everyone. Money doesn’t matter to all women. Height is irrelevant to a large portion of women.. and so on, right? Because we’re all different. Now, keep in mind that the men on these Reddit posts are a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:19 PM
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That’s a ridiculous hypothetical. You can’t base your perception of reality off ridiculous hypotheticals. If the only way you can make your point is by assuming a situation that bears no resemblance whatsoever to reality, then you don't have a point worth making. Put women in a room with those guys and a bunch of others. Women will flock to different men in the room. I choose neither of these men. While guy 1 isn’t ugly, he’s not attractive to me either. That’s how preferences work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:50 PM
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Do you want to have sex with people you’re not actually attracted to? I don’t. Hes not ugly. He’s not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:44 PM
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We know that. It’s just way broader than the red pill makes it. Beauty is subjective. I can acknowledge that guy one is not ugly, but he’s not my type either and I wouldn’t pick him out of a room of men. People you think are ugly? Someone else thinks is hot. Being “not ugly” and being “wanted by everyone” are not the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:22 PM
9

In my reality nearly all the men my husband works with are married. There also mostly all short bearded men with bellies. So. You’re not the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:40 AM
3

Depends on the day and the garlic bread 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:12 AM
6

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:02 AM
1

Would you say being a provider is in men’s nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:58 AM
11

So is everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:54 AM
3

This is exactly what I was saying. You can’t talk to these people. Not having sex will not harm you. That’s ridiculous. Go ask a monk. People choose to be celibate for all kinds of reasons. And then here comes this guy.. it’s too much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:53 AM
2

Sex ≠ food
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:47 AM
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What on gods green earth are you talking about? All I said was that I prefer my men a little more masculine presenting and I’m only offended by grossly over exaggerated femininity. Like.. how is that a problem? I don’t have an issue with feminine guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:32 AM
5

I’m sure it’s all my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:08 AM
1

Very astute response. Your intelligence is overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:22 AM
2

most people are uncomfortable admitting. I agree with this. I also think it depends on the person looking. I have a friend who has a much higher threshold for how much feminine energy she likes in her men. I prefer mine masculine, but a little femininity is ok. What really gives me the ick tho.. is exaggerated femininity. When not even women act like that… that gives me the ick. the “ick” concept mostly occurs with people you most likely weren’t compatible with to begin with I agree with this to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:09 PM
1

Well obviously. Fuck her. I’m asking why there’s outrage on this sub over wording that says exactly what happened.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:33 PM
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Uh-oh! Are you having big feelings? Maybe we should take a moment to really think about what it is that’s upsetting you? Can you take some deep breaths for me so we can figure it out together?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:31 PM
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I’m sorry. I forget that people don’t universally know areas just because they’re tourist destinations. Nola is short hand for New Orleans and Bourbon St is the main tourist attraction of New Orleans. It’s a ton of bars and strip clubs. I’ve known some women in my life that were very much against sex work being legal. I’ve never understood that. If you don’t like sex workers.. don’t become one. It seems very simple to me. I would think having equality would mean that we have the right to do what…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:29 PM
3

I’m wary around friends. Family isn’t an issue as I never speak to my father or brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:09 PM
1

I love getting downvoted in this sub for asking a question. Then I must not be whatever feminists are now. Cuz they sure as shit wanted the step clubs to stay on Bourbon a handful of years ago. Taking away those women’s income for “feminism” doesn’t feel very feminist to me.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 06:21 AM
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Oh no I did do that. There are more that don’t say rape. And I found plenty where women were also accused of rape. You can too if you follow your own advice, chief
/r/MensRights15/02/24 05:55 AM
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Maybe take a step back and choose to exercise the advice you’re giving me? It certainly seems like you’re coping with losing our arguement earlier hard by pretending i’m mad to make you feel better 🫣 Sometimes when you’re talking to someone and they’re not listening.. you have to simply walk away. That’s a big life lesson you’ll learn eventually, little buddy. Are you feeling a little better after those deep breaths? Maybe take a phone break to eat something and drink some water. It must be hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:24 AM
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You’re just completely going off about how upset I am while not making any actual points, Congrats. i am not upset whatsoever. I expect dishonest arguements and replies from many of the women on this sub so… don’t know what to tell you, this fantasy about me being upset is your own fabrication lol. I know it’s hard to read things and not understand your feelings about them. But it’s not nice to attack people and mock them. That’s why I said maybe we needed to take some biiiiiiig breaths and coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:13 AM
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I’m 0% emotional. You appear to be the one hysterical about your paranoia. It’s ok to have big feelings, but if you have nothing nice or productive to say when you’re having those big feelings.. it’s best to say nothing at all. I know it’s hard to control your words sometimes, but maybe we should count to 10 and see how we feel afterwards? You certainly can’t think critically about how different peoples lives all are while you’re so upsetti spaghetti.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:08 AM
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Yes we get it, rapists everywhere, around the corner, bush, every second man, we get it rape is what you assume that every wants to do to you. Hey there buddy. Welcome to my main comment. I know you’re super mad that bad things happen to people all the time, but you’re doing a super bad job expressing your feelings. Maybe you need to take some deep breaths and come back to this post when you aren’t feeling so emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:05 AM
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No. I’m not afraid of “consequences”. I’m afraid of being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:14 AM
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That’s not a consequence. You fighting for your life isn’t a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:12 AM
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Yeah see.. assaults assault. If you’re genuinely scared for your life.. beat her ass. Otherwise call the cops. A woman breaks into your house at night and scares you? Kill her. We aren’t talking about that? There are no “consequences”. You can act however you like as long as you follow the laws of the land you’re in. Some people won’t mind. Some people will. But consequences? Punishment? No. Not a thing. If you’re a dick to someone and they punch you in the mouth.. that’s not a consequence. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:10 AM
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You can’t legally physically retaliate against someone taking your hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:07 AM
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He’s not ignoring. He just doesn’t like the answer and prefers his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:05 AM
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What consequences for bad behavior are you referring to? Cuz last I checked… there really aren’t any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:05 AM
2

So we do want the government to have all our dna on file and in a specific database somewhere that notifies people when their father has another baby?
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:35 AM
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What’s it called now? Original feminism? Those women who don’t identify as feminists.. what do they identify as? I’m of the opinion that men and women are of equal value and should have equal rights. As far as I know, aside from the roe v wade thing (which I’m not sure is a sex thing outside of.. I don’t think men should be involved in the decision making for women’s bodies however these women out here voting against making abortion available are a huge fuckin issue too), I’m pretty sure we all …
/r/MensRights15/02/24 12:59 AM
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I agree. It’s unfortunate, and mind boggling, but women in strip clubs are often animals. I don’t have much experience on the male side, but in female strip clubs.. woman tend to behave very entitled and very much like it’s ok for them to touch/assault strippers simply because they “aren’t men.” I know dancers all have different experiences, but more strippers than not dislike women customers for this reason. Or the come with their boyfriends and act soooo pathetically insecure the whole time. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:07 PM
1

Do you need more links? I genuinely don’t understand yall
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:01 PM
1

She is. That’s what the article said. She is looking at 50 years. Will it be 50? Who knows. But that’s what’s she’s looking at.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:01 PM
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I knew a male stripper who had been groped so aggressively, it tore his foreskin. Women in strip clubs are generally awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:58 PM
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You’re fishing for a specific answer because you don’t like my answer. You’re not going to get the answer you want just because you want it. Some people would be. Some people wouldn’t be. Tons of people are scared of geese. I’m not. Does that automatically make me the rational one? Or is everyone just different with different life experiences? There are tons of reasons man might be scared of a woman. You invalidating all those reasons based on your own caveman thoughts is shitty and selfish. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:07 PM
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Again. I would be. Others would be. Others wouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:53 PM
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Megan Pauline Jordan, 25, who taught at Hungary Creek Middle School in Henrico County, pleaded guilty to four counts of carnal knowledge and one count of indecent liberties of a minor, which are all felonies Carnal Knowledge of a Child: Under the Code of Virginia Code 18.2-63, "carnal knowledge" of a child who is 13 years old or older but under 15 years old is class 4 felony. Carnal knowledge of a child does not involve the use of force and is sometimes referred to as "statutory rape." If force …
/r/MensRights14/02/24 02:01 PM
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And I’m the one cherry picking. Shall I post every article on the whole internet? Y’all choose the weirdest shit to be upset about. Why not talk about an actual issue instead of complaining that the word “rape” specifically wasn’t used? It’s absolutely not the case that men are overwhelmingly referred to as rapists in these articles. Give me a link for one where a man is called a rapist and I’ll show you one where a woman is. Yall can downvote me to hell. But this sub is garbage. You make everyt…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 01:55 PM
1

Saw it on Facebook.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 01:50 PM
5

I would be. Anyone could be. And some people wouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:47 AM
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Found one! https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2015/01/28/english-drama-teacher-male-rape-charges/22487627/
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:41 AM
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It happens all the time. You pretending like it’s weak or bad or something is part of the problem. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:39 AM
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Can’t find one?
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:33 AM
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It seems like both sexes are accused with “sexual assault”. No mention of “rape” so far. Besides.. if I can’t find a bunch immediately that all say rape when it’s a man.. doesn’t that disprove this whole thing already? It just doesn’t look like rape is a word they use for these cases. I see felony sexual abuse.. no “rape” tho.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:22 AM
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Should I keep going with links? There’s hundreds of them. None of them have said “rape” so far. Can you find me one that says “rape”? So far I see both sexes being accused with “sexual assault” occasionally but no mentions of “rape”.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:21 AM
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Ok but I’m really just confused by yalls outrage. I think all of those guys got bail too. She didn’t.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 10:40 AM
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What’s wrong with how the media phrased it? She admitted to it, she’s being held without bond.. facing up to 50 years and they quoted several people saying she was a creep and flirted with this kid publicly. They also said it was super brave of whoever reported it to the police and it’s good she’s off the streets. Called her a predator. She got caught and she’s looking at spending what’s likely the rest of her life in prison and everyone’s happy about it. What’s the issue? Also I heard about thi…
/r/MensRights14/02/24 09:56 AM
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Mmm.. probably women who don’t respect boundaries because they’re “women and therefore can’t be threatening” …Not. Also the drunk kissing strangers thing has always creeped me out. Guess that kinda goes with the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:33 AM
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20 and still single? It’s over for you /s If you’re not attracting people in Canada.. you won’t be attracting people here. Get right with yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:30 AM
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Because we’re on the internet. I can ask the same question about men.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 09:35 PM
4

Have you tried, non sarcastically, communicating your needs?
/r/MensRights12/02/24 10:19 PM
1

I just don’t make excuses for not being disciplined. Especially if you’re in a relationship. If you’re in a relationship and you’re still watching porn, youre a piece of shit 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:59 PM
1

If I was single I’d jerk off. I just wouldn’t use porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:44 PM
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It’s not proven that anything happened. if we start exercising capital punishment on unproven cases.. a lot of men will die.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 07:22 PM
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Oh no. I’m not at all saying this is an acceptable thing. It’s not. I was commenting on your breakdown of the article.. nowhere does it say she raped anyone. And I’ve personally seen people selling coke sit around and do a couple lines before continuing with their days. Could be that situation 🤷🏻‍♀️ 7 minutes just doesn’t seem like enough time to have sex with a kid in a bathroom at her place of work. Idk. I’ve never fucked in a public restroom so i don’t know for sure.. but running through it i…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 07:11 PM
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I don’t understand.. the article said they were in a bathroom for 7 minutes and no one knows what happened. Sounds like a drug deal more than sex. Also that’s not a flattering picture lol EDIT: forgot for a second where I was. I DONT CONDONE WEIRD TEACHER. I just don’t understand why this is posted here.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 06:24 PM
1

I prefer the Big Mac. It’s the Chad of fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:33 PM
3

Masturbation is fine. Porn is bad. Keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:17 PM
3

It somehow got completely missed that I was talking about mcchickens 🤷🏻‍♀️ I said Thank youuuuu. Such a stupid concept. Men will fuck mcchickens. Nothing matters. And then some dude replied They wont get in relationships with them though. And now we’re here. Dating mcchickens, I guess. Or not dating them. I don’t know anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:16 PM
2

If these mcchickens are sentient.. is it a kink to fuck them or is that just the animal magnetism mickeyDs at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:41 PM
2

The wait. He deserved to never date me at all, really. But here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:50 PM
5

I’ve been talking about a literal mcchicken
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:48 PM
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Yeah I don’t know what that means. Great waste of our time tho
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:48 PM
1

idk what ck means
/r/MensRights12/02/24 11:33 AM
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Goddamn those filthy women.. How dare they checks notes have fun, wear clothes she wants to, and have friends!
/r/MensRights12/02/24 11:24 AM
3

Agreed. Yet another example of literally learning nothing about actual mens rights issues from the mens rights sub
/r/MensRights12/02/24 11:22 AM
3

Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:10 AM
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Nope. Its just got more details. He waited 4 years. And then cheated on me. And then found out his son ((that he already had when we got together)) wasn’t his and then his baby momma cheated on him and had some other dudes baby. Same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:04 AM
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We know absolutely nothing about both parties in this situation, but...you made him wait 4 years. It's more than likely he was fucking the baby momma the whole time. The more surprising part here is that you expected a man to be celibate for 4 years. I very much did not expect him to be celibate. Lmfao. Where the FUCK did I say that? He asked me out and I said no.. he was younger than me and really hyper.. not for me… I continued to see him all over because we had similar jobs and ran in adjacen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:47 AM
2

Hey, sweetheart, do you know what a mcchicken is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:28 AM
4

Literally has fuck all to do with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:10 AM
0

Don’t. He deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 AM
1

I’m not having them. I can’t do it. I have no idea how people raise children.. especially boys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 AM
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Yeah.. he waited those 4 years too. And then cheated on me 2 months in with his baby momma. Wild. I even let his ass halfway move in. Shoulda left him where he was. Buuuut.. his son ended up not being his. He stayed anyway and she cheated on him and had some other guys baby. Life’s a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:57 AM
5

Say it ain’t so 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:36 AM
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It’s from Apple Tree Yard. It’s on Hulu, I think. Strange crime drama. But I enjoyed it. Violent rape scene in the beginning tho.. fair warning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:31 AM
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In my experience, women cant fuck mcchickens. Which is probably why they don’t. I’m sure the attention is flattering anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:18 AM
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I’m not making excuses lol. I’m explaining reality to a bunch of idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:17 AM
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Gotta say, buddy. Definitely haven’t been able to talk my way out of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:04 AM
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You don’t know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:49 AM
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I’ll just shapeshift and disappear into the night
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:48 AM
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It’s not about power between men. It’s about power over the victim. You can read about it. There are various schools of thought, but after watching a few serial rapist interviews… it definitely isn’t just sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:39 AM
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Thank youuuuu. Such a stupid concept. Men will fuck mcchickens. Nothing matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:25 AM
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I mean.. or he matured. I made a guy wait 4 years once. Wasn’t long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:24 AM
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That or he’s into it. I thought most rapists got off on the power struggle? All around just seems safer to submit once you know you can’t run.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:06 AM
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Which is what? My wrists both fit in one of his hands! There is no opportunity. I’m too weak. God forbid he starts hitting me to get me to cooperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:03 AM
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Can’t now. Long COVID has made me disabled. But that also means I’m safe in my house 99% of the time. So 🤷🏻‍♀️ but that’s not the point. Victim blaming is just dumb.. and hurts more than it helps The point is that fighting back isn’t a simple option. Not everyone has training. And even the ones that do, aren’t guaranteed to win. Judging how anyone responds to assault is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:00 AM
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Damn. Wish I’d thought of that years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:34 AM
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Like during the attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:32 AM
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I get it. Just surprised we’re having this conversation in 2024. Ops gotta be a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:32 AM
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Ok so you’re just some fucking dude trolling the sub. Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:22 AM
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In that split second your brain is only thinking about survival. For some people that means fighting. For others, it’s freezing. It’s also situation dependent. Neither reaction is wrong and I don’t see why this blatant shaming of women who didn’t or can’t or wouldn’t fight back is necessary. The body does not care if you’re raped.. it only wants you to live. And sometimes that means doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:21 AM
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Nope. But I am deeply happy you’ve never been violently assaulted. That’s good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:19 AM
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Can’t forehead him. I’m too short. Now I’m on my back because this is rape so I can’t kick him. I can’t bite him either. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:17 AM
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You can’t explain yourself to me. So don’t waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:04 AM
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You should be ashamed of yourself. Honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:03 AM
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How am I gotta get to his eye while he’s holding both my arms and I’m too small to break free? I have no formal training. I’m panicking. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:03 AM
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This is a super bad take. Fighting back can and often does make the attack much worse. Love this scene
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:01 AM
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What analogy do men need to understand that fighting back isn’t really much of an option? Unless you’ve had formal training.. it will very likely make everything worse. A man can hold me down with a finger if I just trying to sit up without outright struggling. Imagine what he could do with both hands and all his weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:58 AM
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Yeah no. Using her nails isn’t gonna make a difference aside from maybe gathering evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:56 AM
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Anyone should do what they need to do to survive. That might not be fighting. And that’s perfectly ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:54 AM
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What kind of victim blaming bullshit is this? Clearly you’ve never been attacked. My best friend fought like hell when she was sexually assaulted. She ended up in the hospital.. still raped.. with a broken nose and a broken hand. The fighting made it worse. Idk what to say besides.. go fuck yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:54 AM
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It’s about porn. That’s the question. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:43 AM
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Who’s talking about fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:24 AM
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But testosterone! If I don’t have my porn I’ll fall out of society and cease to function! And then all my friends will too! And women will starve to death because men made this whole world and women can’t work sanitation jobs or anything useful! If women would just go back to fucking people they don’t want to to survive we’d all be fine!! /s Need, my ass. You’d think they’d be better able to control a state they seeming live in constantly. I go from completely disinterested to ravenous once a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:56 AM
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Dating apps are garbage. I know I’ve swiped passed tons of guys who probably would have made me happy at the time. Unfortunately, what makes up for not quite being someone’s type is personality. It just is. And reading a dorky little summary isn’t enough to convince me. Plus I’m not convinced people even realize what they’re attracted to. I’m nearly 30 and only just realized that every man I find attractive outside social situations have a specific nose shape. How fucking stupid and trivial is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:30 AM
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Right? Like I know the whole “men are strong” stereotype can be harmful but look me in the face and tell me you can’t stop googling something. Weak loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:17 AM
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Thank you. Jesus Christ. There’s a lot of excuses on this post and not a lot of reflecting on why they’re dating shitty people who clearly dont value them.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:08 AM
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I’d assume they swing. But she could have also just been being facetious.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:06 AM
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For instance. This helps nothing and fails to discuss any actual issues. The comments are just hating feminism. Here’s the answer: it’s a tradition. Should you not wish to partake in said tradition.. discuss this with your partner. Tell them you would love a Valentine’s Day gift too. Anyone who loves you will.. get you a present. Problem solved. Feminism isn’t involved.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:04 AM
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I think maybe a large part of the lack of stealthy comes from.. being annoyed that we’re told over and over that we’re living some privileged lifestyle. Mentioning how awful receiving unwanted attention is is met with “oh cuz he wasn’t Chad?” instead of acknowledging that most people are friendly and will talk to you. It’s social contract. And that’s not the attention we’re referring to. I had a guy just yesterday tell me he’d appreciate the unwanted attention. Like.. motherfucker I’ve been foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:56 AM
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Not that I’m aware of, no. The most helpful discourse about men’s issues seems to come from people who are neither of the two extremes. And i just haven’t stumbled across specific communities dedicated to encouraging understanding instead of just wanting to circle jerk hate. You’re more likely to find helpful education by asking inside the less radical feminist groups. There are plenty of “feminist” men and they are willing to actually discuss the issues we face and the difference between our ex…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:44 AM
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I’m gonna say yes. At least for me. Especially the whole “I can’t stop” mentality. It’s weak and revolting. I have zero sympathy and will always think that their wives deserve better. So yes. Porn gives me quite a negative view on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:29 AM
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You can be here. But it’s not exactly a welcoming community. If you’re trying to learn about actual mens rights issues.. this isn’t the place.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:27 AM
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If some guy was making me mad uncomfortable and giving him my number was the only solution and he made sure it was actually my number before leaving me alone… I simply wouldn’t text him. The act of having my number isn’t cheating or sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:22 AM
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Nah. I like this one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:19 AM
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Would love to see it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:18 AM
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Except not everyone else is paired up. There are plenty of solo people being friendly.. just because they appear to know eachother doesnt necessarily mean they do. Follow suit and make friends. If you don’t try.. complaining about women and culture and whatever is just dumb. Since its your fault first and foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:16 AM
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Bro. I never said it was a good thing. I said Christian’s do also preach about circumcision being clean or whatever. That’s it. I’m not here to debate the ethics or morals or history or lore. I don’t give a shit about any of the other shit yall are trying to catch me with. There are absolutely Christian churches that advocate for and push circumcision. I’m not a Christian and my rights haven’t been violated regarding any of this. Stupid fuckin thing to say.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:35 PM
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I don’t. It’s just also a Christian thing. Which is all I said. This is precisely how you guys get your feelings so hurt. Jeez.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 05:13 PM
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I’ll pass that along to my mom’s Christian pastor at the church I grew up in. I’m sure he’ll be thrilled
/r/MensRights11/02/24 01:30 PM
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If it makes you feel any better.. that’s not what the comment said when I replied to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:01 AM
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A handful. But hardly any one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:42 AM
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Average men are also getting laid. I helped more than a couple of them myself. Dont nit pick. My statement applies to casual sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:35 AM
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He only mentioned socializing. If you’re only talking to women to try to fuck them.. that’s part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:34 AM
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You spend a lot of time as a woman who only fucks tall guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:21 AM
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That’s gotta be what it is. I think they’ve just got this fantasy so deeply planted in their heads that women are constantly always being bombarded with adoration. Is it more than dudes? Probably. Is it all the time every day? No. We have to make efforts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:21 AM
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I’m not sure why these guys just assume women in bars are being approached at every moment. Sure, it happens, but I spent plenty of time sitting alone enjoying my own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:28 AM
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Yeah just because it’s not a shitty college bar doesn’t mean it’s for “old people”. Dont go to weird shitty college bars. Idk why you think my bar experiences were all super exciting. I have spent countless hours sitting at the bar by myself just chatting with the bartender on shift. Pick a bar. Become a regular. Get to know the other regulars. Be a functional adult who doesn’t only leave the house to try to hunt women. Profit. How do I know this works as a woman? I’m the woman it worked on. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:10 AM
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Christianity very much promotes circumcision. It’s kinda gods whole thing. He thinks foreskins are unclean or whatever. He even made his whole army get circumcised before a war once.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 12:59 AM
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Yeah no. You’re drinking in the wrong bars then. Drinking alone at home sucks. It’s boring. That’s for depressed people. You’re not gonna win this. Bar culture is my culture. You’re either young and at weird young people bars.. or you’re projecting. Because no one fucking cares about you enough to form an opinion on you simply existing. You’re just making excuses because going to a bar alone scares you. Again. Groups of men in bars are easily my least favorite patrons. I’d rather you be in there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:54 AM
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No they just aren’t doing it for you. Date better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:49 AM
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lol. Yes you can. There’s no rule that says you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:45 AM
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And what’s hot to each one of them? Were different, my dude. The “average” guy I think is hot won’t always be the guy the next chick thinks is hot. Average men are in relationships everywhere lol. You are surrounded by “average” men some chick thinks is hot enough to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:45 AM
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I fully and wholeheartedly disagree. People go to bars to drink. If you’re in a bar where people give a fuck about how many friends you have… you’re in the wrong bar. I have spent an obscene amount of time in bars and I can’t think of a single time anyone gave a fuck about that. If anything.. groups of men are what sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:43 AM
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I was open to talking to anyone. It’s a tourism heavy town so I met lots of people. And alcohol makes me friendly. And I didn’t have a requirement really.. it’s mostly a vibe thing. If I showed you pictures of the men I’ve seen naked.. they’re all vastly different from each other. From 5’4 to 6’8. Different jobs and backgrounds. I guess there are certain ethnicities I never had sex with.. but I’m not sure that was a conscious thing. Like I don’t think I’ve met an Indian man who was interested in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:41 AM
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Y’all are so scared of your own company you’ve come full circle and now think being in public alone is a bad thing. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:29 AM
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I have also been to a few tool concerts. Plenty of women. More at the Korn concert I went to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:27 AM
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This is such a wrong assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:26 AM
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That’s not a rule. I spent most of my free time in bars when I was single. Dive bars, mostly cuz I prefer the actual alcoholics. Then I got married and I haven’t been to a bar since. I knew plenty of single women who operated the same way. Maybe it’s a location thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:24 AM
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I’m just here to argue and laugh at bad takes. This subreddit is garbage and none of it translates to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:24 AM
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Used to approach the men I desired. Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:23 AM
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Here’s what you’re missing. I will do whatever it takes to have air conditioning. If I have to ride on a garbage truck to do so because men let their weakness consume them.. I will. It’s not difficult. Plus.. sanitation workers make good money. If men stop and all that’s left are women? We’ll get it done. No ones going to allow life to come to a permanent crashing halt. It’d take a minute to sort it all out.. but I’ll be damned if I have to sit in a hot house all summer. Any man whose only motiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:27 AM
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You didn’t say scared to approach. You said scared of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:47 PM
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Yeah. Random men are scary. I don’t want to fuck them. Who wants to fuck someone they’re actively scared of? wtf? You said it there.. men are scared to approach. That’s different entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:43 PM
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Right. So men will stop doing things and women will simply throw up their hands and accept it. We’ll all live is discomfort and squalor. It’ll be awful. Because a woman would rather be uncomfortable and live in a house with holes in the roof than fix it herself. You’re right. Gosh. Whatever will we do? Well all have no more electricity because women can’t be bothered to run wire and work at power plants. Air conditioning? A thing of the past. Without men.. we’d choose super difficult lives of ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:32 PM
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Is it “fear”? Or can most women just not be bothered? I don’t view “I’d take it if it was offered” as the same as “I want it so bad I can’t stand it”. Only one of those will end with a woman making a bold move.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:25 PM
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Nah. If she’s scared to approach you… you’re not attractive. You’re scary. I don’t think women are in social situations looking for sex nearly as often as men think they are. I can’t think of a single time I ever went out specifically to find a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:23 PM
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Thennn… they didn’t want it bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:12 PM
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Obviously you’re over 6’, make 6 figures, have a big dick, and a gym bro bod. Duh. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:07 PM
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I’m just curious to know if you’re agreeing or disagreeing with my claim lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:40 AM
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I don’t understand this combination of emojis tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:38 AM
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Women don’t just.. have yeast infections and live like that lmao wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:31 AM
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While I agree.. it depends entirely on who you ask in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:30 AM
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It was a ton of people. God that was such a long time ago lol. I remember seeing Matt Smith naked. That whole ordeal was so strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:55 AM
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On my side of the internet, when Chris Evans accidentally posted his dick.. everyone was vehemently against violating his privacy. There was a lot of debate amongst people I knew and the majority decided it wasn’t right to look at it. It depends on the people you know. I knew people who were disgusted and horrified by “The Fappening” and I knew people who looked at all of it. I had friends unfriend other friends over this. There were rants on Tumblr about it being wrong and disgusting to look. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:50 AM
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The longer I live, the more I discover that I was raised in a church of lies. I have always been told that story was about how he shouldn’t have masturbated and it’s so bad to jerk off that it would be better to commit the sin of.. fucking a hooker, I guess. I never questioned it, why would I? Just went and read the story.. how rude to so grossly mistranslate something very clearly not about jerking off at all. This is like when I found out the men don’t actually have one less rib (because god m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:37 AM
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Well.. I’m not fat. I’m not ugly. And the sex is amazing. So.. idk what to tell you 🤷🏻‍♀️ not all guys are horny all the time. That doesn’t mean anyone’s fat or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:11 AM
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How many people are on this planet? That’s a drop of water in the ocean. I hate statistics. So stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:07 AM
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Ok cool. You meet a woman. She tells you a virgin. She has your kids and you have a super happy marriage. 40 years later you find out she lied. What do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:06 AM
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The day they do an actual study with big enough number to even remotely be considered enough to guess the worlds horniness rate.. is the day I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:05 AM
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I didn’t say he was or wasn’t interested in sex. I said I’m more horny. Clearly.. if he’s not horny.. he’s not interested in sex at that moment..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:03 AM
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At a certain point anecdotal evidence is just evidence. Its fine. Were all pretty used to yalls inability to let go of the narrative that makes you some oppressed special snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:02 AM
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Because men are pathetic? At some point you’re gonna realize it’s never once been about the women. It is always about the men. Men are all so violently disgusted with themselves that they actually believe that when they touch a woman.. her value drops. As if the touch of a man is so horrifically vile that it seeps into her and ruins her for all time. It’s sad. That and the whole “being worried about having a small dick and being bad in bed” thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:00 AM
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I never said he wasn’t interested. I just said I’m more horny. That could mean anything. You’re the one that jumped on my comment to be a prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:57 AM
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Never had a problem. Or known a woman with a problem. In fact, I have more married hoe friends than not. But it’s whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:55 AM
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Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:54 AM
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The thing is that yall don’t listen to the actual trends. Everytime this is talked about a bunch of women appear to say “well.. I’m actually really horny” and then all of you go “oh yeah sure” and completely ignore it. You come to these conversations with preconceived notions and absolutely no desire to learn anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:53 AM
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I know it’s really hard for you people to grasp that everyone’s different. Trust me. This isn’t the first time I’ve had comments like this. It makes me laugh.. how angry you are for no reason. How wrong you are. Kinda sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:51 AM
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Hey man.. All I know is the mechanic behind it. Everything else is just character based. If the man never chooses to commit and doesn’t settle into oneitis.. he won’t experience the oxytocin and won’t bond effectively. I don’t like a lot of guys know that and I’m willing to bet.. most guys don’t commit wholly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:39 AM
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As if you know anything about our situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:31 AM
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iirc, men make oxytocin just the same as women do. Testosterone just blocks it. Men’s testosterone lowers after a certain courting period and him choosing to commit.. that allows the oxytocin to get through.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:17 AM
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I have what you guys call a HVM husband so.. I’m doubting that’s what happened 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:40 AM
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If it were. I would not have gotten chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:39 AM
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As a woman who is consistently hornier than her husband.. it’s a case by case basis, not a generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:36 AM
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No. That’s just insecurity. Instead of those men learning to death with whatever was bothering them.. they hurt the people making them insecure. Another example of this is an aspect of slavery. The whole “black men are hung” thing came from that time period. It was because white men were terrified of black men stealing their women. It was taught that black men were nothing but animals who fucked like demons with big dicks. You can look that up. Really weird way to try to stop women from fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:33 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I have also been there and fucked that. Ridden the carousel more than once. There’s not a dick on that carousel or off it that is worth the relationship I have now 🤷🏻‍♀️ and my husband? Couldn’t care less about my body count. Neither could any of the other men I’ve been in relationships with 🤷🏻‍♀️ which is.. not a particularly small number either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:27 AM
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Men who wanted to control women. Probably religious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:25 AM
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That sounds like a problem with the guy not being happy with anything tho. “Mids” are people capable of love and having fulfilling relationships. Being mid affects nothing. So.. at that point nothings good enough and there’s no reason to try
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:24 AM
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If a man is not providing something she wouldn’t be having sex with him This is true in some cases. There are sugar babies. That’s fair. Some women are gold diggers. Also true. But that’s the minority of women. You simply cannot explain the majority of sex being had with your logic. Plenty of men don’t offer anything at all.. and they’re having plenty of sex. Women are the choosers on human mating, the male behavior regarding sex is entirely result of women choices. If women are holding until me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:30 AM
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Certainly. But just because the insecure/religious minority is louder it doesn’t make it a biological instinct. If these men who care had been raised in homes and societies that paid no mind to body count.. neither would they. It’s not biological. It’s a learned behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:15 AM
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It's because women use sex as. a tool to get what she wants, The women I know use sex to.. (hopefully) cum. So I guess you’re right.. just not for the reason you think you are. They treat intimacy as something without value, The men are just as guilty of this. So they are worthless by their own standards. I suppose that explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:12 AM
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Can’t say I’ve ever experienced this as a concern from men interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:08 AM
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Not a scenario I’ve ever come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:07 AM
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Women are the sex that get pregnant and are at a higher likelyhood to get an STD because of penetration. In today’s world.. this is irrelevant. I have never known a woman to be choosy for these specific reasons. These factors are more likely to effect if she’ll demand he wear a condom or not. Not off the act will happen at all. Women have sex with the men on top of the hierarchy because they don't want to fuck scrubs ( again good, that's fine). But the reaction is that men at the bottom have zer…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:06 AM
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This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:56 AM
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Because that’s what these “wannabe chads” think that actual men believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:56 AM
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If it were a biological instinct, it would be widespread and the default. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:53 AM
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I don’t think there is solution. I think it’s just kinda.. part of the risk. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:51 AM
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If I had to guess.. they were raised traditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:30 AM
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You read what I said and decided what it meant and called me arrogant. ASD in women is not “rare”. It’s suspected to be 4:3. That’s not rare. It’s not even rare in boys. It’s a “common condition”. Get off my comment with your semantics bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:18 AM
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u/TheFutureIsNow1990 I feel you. But the alternative (you go into the restaurant together, and not a single girl checks out your guy, and one or two glance at you with a flash of contempt) is also hellacious. I don’t care if they check my guy out. I’m not out with him to impress anyone lol. I’m out to enjoy my life.. I have no desire to be anxious or compete with anyone. Im not at all preoccupied with what anyone else is doing.. I’m looking at him. And I wouldn’t be with him if he weren’t doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:14 AM
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I wouldn’t mind. It depends on the guy. Is he ok with having no experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:10 AM
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I would rather pull out my fingernails with rusty pliers than be in a relationship that causes “competitive sexual anxiety”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:01 AM
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Dude. It quite literally is underdiagnosed in women because women present differently. You’re arrogant for coming into my comment and just saying whatever the fuck you want without actually researching the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:40 PM
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sToP aCtInG sO aRrOgAnT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:11 PM
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No it’s not. It’s just under diagnosed because it presents differently in women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:26 PM
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But you’re not a virgin.. so.. you’re not worth $100 either by your own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:32 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:01 AM
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People of both sexes fall in love for various reasons on a case by case basis. Personally, I fell in love with my husband before we had sex. He is the funniest person I know and that’s what got me hooked initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:00 AM
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Healthy for.. everyone. You can’t effectively have a disagreement with someone and remove feelings from that situation. The feelings are part of the disagreement. Being able to communicate those feelings is of upmost importance. Especially in arguments and disagreements in your romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:38 AM
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Why in gods green fuck would you spend 10k on a ring? Dont entertain women that want 10k rings. In this economy?? Thats ridiculous. Oh. And no one has ever “nut inside a uterus”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:35 AM
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You actually can’t have a healthy argument without the word “feel” so..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:45 AM
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This is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:38 AM
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Your boyfriend talks shit about her cuz he’d still fuck her. Dudes who are over their exes don’t have bad things to say about them.. because they have nothing to say about them. Beware the guy who talks about his exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:38 AM
-5

Is this your first day on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:08 AM
12

No one assumes it’s easy. No one cares. That’s the part of this that no one likes.. no one gives a shit how hard it is for you. Get it done or don’t. We’re all working on something and no one else cares about it. Welcome to life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:45 AM
-2

I am honestly so tired of this question. Go outside. That’s how you meet people. Go do things you enjoy. Stop only going outside to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:09 PM
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Again. We can’t feed, house, or medicate the people we have now. That means there’s too many people. Gfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:25 PM
1

I’m ignorant because you said so lol. We aren’t even talking about that. There are too many people on the planet. Jesus. Reading comp is hard but it’s not that fuckin hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:06 PM
3

Because I said we need to scale back? Lmfao. Did you think I just meant America? Or? There are too many people. Not only are we killing the planet.. but we can’t even feed/house/medicate the people we already have. gagf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:49 PM
2

Jacob Elordi He’s a decent looking white dude. Nothing to write home about. Pete Davidson He’s funny. Post Malone Hideous. No idea what that’s about. MGK I drunkenly called him ugly to his face once. Dudes a spaghetti noodle. Who are you asking for what’s attractive? It sounds like you watched a couple targeted tik toks and made some sweeping generalizations lol. You know who’s pretty? Discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:28 PM
1

Guess yall better get real comfortable with homesteading and having strong family bonds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:23 PM
0

Oooooo.. you’re so edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:21 PM
5

You’ll be dead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:42 PM
11

I have often wondered this too. Society doesn’t need more people.. we need to fuckin scale back lol Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:39 PM
4

What in the fuck lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:38 PM
3

If I asked someone 100 years ago Shit.. just go watch some of the old scifi movies 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:36 PM
9

That’s all this existing thing has ever been lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:35 PM
3

This is a fetish. Not a solution.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 02:40 PM
2

She deserves to be rescued from whatever cult she’s in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:34 PM
1

If you say so. All my bosses are beat and I still got the xp for it. What level are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:03 PM
1

Want a cookie?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:59 PM
5

Different strokes for different folks! I’m glad you found someone who appreciates you for who you are ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:46 PM
11

Keeping this joke, thank you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:11 PM
29

He beat all my bosses in elden ring for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:35 PM
2

Huehuehue But to actually answer.. depends on the guy. But sex work is safer. You didn’t specify what kind of SW. Catch me in the strip club boyos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:07 PM
3

I’m aware. Just not understanding the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:21 AM
4

Assuming that’s true… what does that have to do with anything at all lol. And why do you say that like it’s a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:29 AM
8

No offense.. but are you being intentionally dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:18 AM
11

You’re still missing it. Hes not asking permission. She was never going to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:02 AM
17

Well.. some of us aren’t worried about “being in control” and don’t mind passing the baton back and forth just so everyone feels heard and valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:16 AM
25

100%. And it works the same way in reverse. These guys are so weirdly obsessed with being in control and being the “alpha” they can’t even just do the little things that make your partner feel valued. Like.. we both know I was never going to tell you you couldn’t go.. but I appreciate you asking me anyway. It makes me feel like you care about my feelings and needs.. while giving me the opportunity to care about yours and be supportive of your social life or whatever. Plus I like being the cool w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:29 PM
21

You missed what he said. Hes not actually asking. Hes telling her he’ll be out later than expected while also giving her the opportunity to say “ok but actually we have a dinner date with my parents tonight” or “honey could you actually maybe skip that? The kids have fevers and I’m not feeling so great myself” outside of anything like that.. his wife will say “that’s fine babe, have fun”. Because that’s the unspoken way it works lol. No one is actually being subservient. No ones “in charge”. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:25 PM
2

Kinda shitty thing for your wife to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:10 PM
5

aren’t going to be mature No. For sure not. But I wouldn’t make punching walls sound like some “coping mechanism”. like a wall Yes. Like a wall. But like I said with my plates example. It’s about the controlled setting and not harming yourself. A rage room allows for that. Punch a wall in your room is neither of those things. It’s just a lot of self pity that I’m seeing from this guy. But it’s Reddit.. doesn’t really matter to me what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:33 PM
4

Hey man. Never grow. Don’t get better. Be stagnant. Break your hand. No skin off my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:28 PM
3

This doesn’t sound like a good situation for you to be in. I would say that she needs to be able to remain loyal regardless of her intoxication level. I have been drunkenly kissed a handful of times. I hate it, but it does seem to be just part of being drunk around women. You’re likely gonna get kissed sometimes. I, however, have never initiated the kissing. It’s not hard to not touch people.. even while drunk. And I’ve been some kind of drunk as fuck. This doesn’t look good for her character an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:21 PM
1

it’s the inanimate wall It’s his wallet, actually. My comment was that it’s an expensive way to deal with negative emotion. imaginary second person He said he punched walls instead of punching people. The implication is that there is, in fact, a second person present. that’s your idea No. That’s the actual real truth. Violence (to one’s self or to frighten others) is not a healthy response. You mentioned a rage room.. that would be a healthy method. I support this method. Another suggestion I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:12 PM
4

Then you’re harming yourself? Can you afford a broken hand if you misjudge the force you use? Not many people can. Violent outbursts are not a “coping mechanism”. I understand that someone did something to you that pushed you to that point.. and I’m sure whatever that was was really shitty. But you control how you respond. Harming yourself or frightening someone because you’re upset isn’t the correct way to handle any situation. If you cannot afford therapy, perhaps you could do some reading on …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:02 PM
5

Yeah no. We weren’t talking about why he punches walls. Just that he does. We weren’t even talking about a specific instance of it. Just in general his “coping mechanism” is to punch walls. That’s not healthy. That’s not an adult way to handle your anger. Violent outbursts have no place in.. really.. any day to day situations. Even if she.. idk.. cheated on you with your dad.. punching a wall is an inappropriate response. Has literally nothing with whatever bullshit you came up with lol.. good o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:52 PM
5

No.. but maybe get an actual coping mechanism. Or talk to a professional about why your coping mechanism is violence. Also repairing walls isn’t free. Unless you just.. don’t repair them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:30 AM
4

You offered. I’m just trying to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:20 AM
9

What a scary and expensive “coping mechanism”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:17 AM
0

Second this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:03 AM
7

Honestly.. break it down further for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:01 AM
5

Oh please mansplain it to me. I simply do not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:51 AM
13

This’ll be good. Why shouldn’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:48 AM
12

What data are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:43 AM
9

I’m afraid I don’t understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:42 AM
-1

Gotta say that I think society is awful for men too. I just also think it’s mens fault it’s that way.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 01:41 AM
82

Hey guys.. is it strictly lesbian to make women cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:09 AM
45

The answer to this is.. no. Dont get in a relationship if you want to sleep around. Anyway. This is rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:57 PM
1

Oh shit you’re right. It’s been 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:04 PM
5

When I wear make up.. I wear it to feel extra pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:59 PM
1

We met on discord actually. I was grinding Elden Ring while just sitting in a vc and he popped in. I needed help with a boss and he volunteered. After that we played games together every day for a while, until I drove 12 hours to meet him. I never left 🤣 it’s been about 2 years now. Edit: fixed time spent. To be fair it feels like it’s still 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:11 PM
1

Depends on her sexuality. Potentially all the same if she’s bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:04 PM
1

If it gets to the point where you feel the need to actually look, yes. Before that, I believe your partner should be open about their phone. He has my code. I have his. Neither of us ever use it. It’s just a token of good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:02 PM
3

How would you be able to tell the difference between friends she finds attractive and friends she doesn’t if she didn’t tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:00 PM
1

Sure. But you can’t make someone be monogamous with you. You have to just hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:00 PM
2

Oh we don’t go through each others phones. The option is just there. I don’t feel the need to go through his phone.. there’s just that extra level of openness between us. He has my code if he needs it, and it’s my job to make sure he never reaches a place emotionally where he feels like he needs it. Also, I’ve never had a friend group like that. My friends have always been separate from my romantic relationships. Not on purpose.. they are constants where the men weren’t lol. I wouldn’t go anywhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:58 PM
2

She might think her friend is attractive too tho. And are you sure he doesn’t find her attractive? Whether or not they’ve fucked doesn’t mean they can’t. What’s stopping her from fucking her friend that isn’t stopping her from fucking her ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:51 PM
1

So what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:28 PM
-1

Telling someone who they can and can’t be friends with literally is controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:27 PM
2

Yes they do? Why is that unhinged? I see no reason why my husband shouldn’t have access to my phone. And I don’t understand your second sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:26 PM
1

What about her hanging out with a guy friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:21 PM
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I have two guy friends I believe wouldn’t even if I offered. I also only have 2 guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:05 PM
2

I didn’t ask for it. He offered it of his own volition when we got serious. He had assumed I would want it. So I gave him access to mine in return. He’s never asked to see my phone. I’ve never gone through his.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:00 PM
0

To each their own, I suppose. I’ve just never found the presence of the relationship to really be the factor that makes the difference. Doesn’t seem to be a reliable indicator of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:57 PM
-4

Honestly we probably don’t even use the term friend the same way. I just think it’s dumb to try to control who your SO talks to 🤷🏻‍♀️ if they want to cheat.. they will. Men of all calibers make themselves readily available to your girl at all times. If your girl respects you.. she’ll go to lengths to keep all her interactions with anyone outside your relationship G rated. It’s her responsibility to police herself.. not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:26 PM
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Idk man. People have friends. Not all relationships end with some residual longing. Some people just aren’t meant to date and break up amicably. If they’ve been friends for years before you arrived on the scene.. I don’t think you have a right to tell her she can’t be friends with her friend anymore. And if she really isn’t harboring weird shit for her ex.. you’ll be included and she’ll be transparent about it. I have exes I can talk to because they respect me and my relationship. I also have ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:02 PM
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Ok so not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:41 PM
2

You’re doing great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:50 PM
-1

If you’re talking about regular people… then no. We don’t all generally agree on what makes a man attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:44 PM
2

What kind of whack ass science did you just make up on the spot? Lmfao You’re doing great, sweetie. Keep arguing your point just like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:41 PM
-3

Actors don’t count 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:40 PM
7

Still in my prime lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:39 PM
2

I don’t understand.. how are we not saying the same things? Aside from me using “developing” because I don’t believe this life lesson necessarily requires aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:38 PM
0

Weed is legal in California. Not a crime. it happened once With a specific avoidable trigger. It won’t happen again unless she smokes again. You clearly do not understand psychosis. This conversation with you about subjects you clearly do not grasp.. is pointless.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 12:36 PM
-2

She’s not dangerous if it was an isolated incident brought on by drugs.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 12:30 PM
2

Also this is a forum. The point is to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:22 PM
2

I didn’t use the word mature. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:21 PM
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This is irrelevant. Depends on where you live. If you go to Destin, Fl most of the people there are gorgeous. If you go to New Orleans off season.. most people are ugly. Both are riddled with couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:55 AM
2

I don’t care if it’s real or not. It’s the term he was looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:51 AM
1

Social contagion effect is not applicable in this context lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:47 AM
-1

I agree. I have access to my partners phone, but I never use that. Definitely a trust thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:46 AM
-2

In my opinion, it’s impossible to make such sweeping statements because what’s “attractive” is subjective 🤷🏻‍♀️ and here lies the overly common impasse in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:05 AM
1

“Social contagion effect” lmfao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:36 AM
-8

Her compromising with you to make you comfortable is hoe behavior? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:35 AM
1

I agree wholly. I also think it’s important to “avoid even the appearance of evil” in these situations. I have a few “exes” that just kinda still vaguely exist (be it just friends on Facebook still or something similar) and I wouldn’t ever be in a situation to be alone with any of them. Not because anything would happen.. but because the potential for any doubt or lies or anything isn’t worth my relationship. The situation has never come up and it’s not a conversation I’ve ever even had to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:40 AM
-2

Is this at all situational? What if she’s very purposely never around him without you and you have unfettered access to her phone should you require it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:32 AM
1

What is older? This is too broad of a question. Would I date an 80 year old? A 60 year old? No. But when I was 23 by boyfriend (rip) was 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:16 AM
7

I had the same thought lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:15 AM
0

Thank you! I think so too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:13 AM
1

The situation is more nuanced than this. I know the idea of someone being able to commit murder is shocking, but a psychotic break cannot be held to the same standards reality is. This isn’t a gendered issue. It’s an issue of people not understanding mental illness or our judicial system. To prove someone guilty of a crime you must prove actus reus (guilty act) and mens rea (guilty mind). Clearly they couldn’t prove mens rea in this case.. so she couldn’t be found guilty.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:13 AM
2

I feel like this is grossly misleading. That’s not an accurate summary of what happened with that woman and her boyfriend (rip).
/r/MensRights26/01/24 08:50 AM
4

One of the reasons I am so attracted to my husband is because he, very literally, helps old ladies with things. Without being asked. If he sees an old lady struggling with something, his first instinct is to help her. I have witnessed this many times.. it’s always at the grocery store where little old ladies need to reach things, lift things, carry things outside, and so on. As far as I’m concerned.. a true leader and protector cares for all those around him and uses his strengths to help whenev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:42 AM
10

two cheeks of the same butt Snort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:34 AM
1

I’m still in my prime lol. And no. Not intentionally. It occurred to me that I was essentially trying to date my dad (Not literally.. I guess that’s just the men I subconsciously thought were normal). I had a boyfriend who was yelling at me and he yelled verbatim something I’d heard my dad say to my mom as a kid and it rocked my whole perception of things. I began being more aware of my choices after that. That was several years ago. Since then, my list had only gotten more and more precise as I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:31 AM
-2

This is a fantasy no developed woman holds. One grows out of this once the fact that men like in the movies don’t exist is driven home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:58 AM
0

I agree. I’d argue that if you’re being nice for the right reasons.. it wouldn’t come up in a discussion about getting women to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:56 AM
1

I’m willing to bet this is 100% of the problem. The dudes here are likely all just basic looking dudes who got rejected by the head cheerleader in highschool and recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:53 AM
1

Like literally 100% impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:49 AM
0

I agree. As I’ve aged.. I’ve narrowed down what I’m willing to accept in a man and it’s gotten pretty specific. Being kind (especially to animals and children) is very high on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:45 AM
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Hmmm.. makes me think OP isn’t a very nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:43 AM
1

I reiterated what you said about not sleeping with people who don’t hold your values and then responded to your answer to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:39 PM
2

You shouldn’t sleep with people who don’t hold the same values as you. We have very different ideas of what “evil” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:19 PM
2

How is “get therapy” at all bad advice regardless? It certainly can’t hurt to go see a professional about what is bothering you. They can help you more than the strangers on Reddit can. They might even be able to help you bitch about how mean those awful terrible women telling you to get therapy are in a more constructive manner. Also, I don’t need a degree in anything to know hateful words when I see them 🤣 getting therapy for pent up anger is a good first step. Maybe you should.. get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:16 PM
1

Yeah.. I’m gonna say no to that. Being approached is great and all.. if you even pick up on that being what’s going on. The whole “struggling with social cues” doesn’t go away when you aren’t the one initiating the exchange lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:00 PM
1

It’s Reddit. I don’t care either way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:58 PM
6

Oh didn’t you hear? Being autistic is super easy for women cuz boobs. People overlook autism completely if you have boobs. /s if that wasn’t obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:43 PM
2

The vague threat in this comment is laughable. Telling you to get therapy is sound advice. If I didn’t think you had some fairly alarming psychological issue therapy is meant to help you with.. I wouldn’t have suggested it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:41 PM
2

What’s your definition of “evil”? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:23 PM
3

Idk why this is getting downvoted. I find guys who date guys tend to be at least a little gay.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 04:38 PM
3

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:13 PM
3

If the dick was that great and not far from attainable.. why would she be in a relationship with anyone else anyway? Y’all vastly over value dick. Even “good” dick is a dime a dozen. The market is over saturated with dick. Ultimately, what matters is the person attached to the dick. It’s not that hard to be good enough at sex to keep a woman satisfied when she loves you and her emotional needs are met. But yall aren’t ready to talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:58 PM
2

The quality of fuck is irrelevant. The dick is always available. Even if it’s not at that moment.. it will be again soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:49 PM
11

I’d wager that “error” has something to do with them being in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:15 PM
2

Believe me when I tell you.. dick is always available
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:59 AM
5

I’m sure you’d love to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:24 AM
16

Do you mean demisexual? Also I just can’t really see her as something worth fucking. Is a wild choice of words there. Lil Freudian slip
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:29 AM
4

Your first mistake is assuming we remember anything that vividly lmao. It’s more like.. I remember that I enjoyed the sex. I don’t remember anything about it though. Certainly not enough to fantasize about it. And also.. what a waste of time. If I wanted that dick that badly.. I’d be under him. Not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:35 AM
2

Or completely tanks. I’ve dated some hotties who turned into repulsive swamp creatures over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:30 AM
2

A healthy relationship is pretty “boring” comparatively
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:27 AM
3

Actual chemistry has nothing to do with abuse cycles. My husband is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. It’s been a fairly “boring” baseline buzz the whole relationship. An argument here or there but not so much as a bump or a dent.. let alone peaks and valleys. And yet the chemistry we have is electric. Not everything is about yalls “bad boy” fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:23 AM
1

As long as the base chemistry is there, it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:20 AM
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And like… I would… but this honestly kinda feels like a weird sex thing lmao. I bet no women will say dirty, awful things about themselves to me Ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:03 PM
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I mean.. I’m asking why you think it’s physically impossible. I can name things about me that I wish I were better at/with, but why is that considered taking an L? I don’t think it’s fair to view having autism as “taking an L”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:15 PM
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Physically can’t.. list some of our faults? What makes you think women physically can’t do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:59 PM
2

If women disappeared men would just start raping each other more lol That’s where the violence would come from
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:17 PM
7

They’re invisible because I can’t see them and we aren’t talking about them. The point was that this conversation wasn’t about amenities. And no. Believe me. Those women don’t need a man. They aren’t raised to need them either. They can throw up a barn and plow a field with the best of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:27 PM
8

That’s not the type of needing anyone’s referring to. Regardless.. A woman is entirely capable of living without a man and without the modern amenities you’re referring to. There are still communities of people who live that way. Reminding us of the invisible man who provides us all with electricity while we’re talking about the sexes not needing each other is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:14 PM
1

I’m not sure what social media has to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:02 PM
9

You mean like.. cuz men work at electricity plants and shit, right? That’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:55 PM
2

I’m not understanding what you’re trying to say here. Are women not equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:46 PM
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I guess it depends on whether or not you’re comfortable being called a cougar by your friends all the time. Even if it doesn’t apply. And “robbing the cradle” even if it doesn’t actually apply. People make jokes about stuff not realizing that it can be off putting for people. I don’t care, personally, I’m not old enough to be a cougar and he’s not young enough for it to be robbing the cradle so the jokes are just silly. But I could see people who are more sensitive, like my sister is for example…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:48 AM
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Mine is 6 years younger so I can’t really answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:44 AM
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I’m crying 🤣 Tattoos don’t mean anything. That’s just your prejudice. I know what dilated pupils was supposed to mean. Boy have I got news for you about suburban soccer moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:33 AM
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Crazy to watch you claim to literally be the target of this discussion so you have hands on experience and they still tell you “actually I think you’re wrong” lmao. What you’re saying makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:18 AM
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You’ll have to forgive me. Based on the subreddit we’re in I took young to mean young as it does so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:38 AM
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Not super serious. No. I was being more facetious than anything about that. But the sentiment rings true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:26 AM
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Swoon? No. But it’ll get your foot in the door. Women are going to be far more likely to acknowledge polite men with respectful vibes. Also.. why are young women brought up so often? Stay away from 20 year olds. They don’t even know what they want yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:25 AM
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I imagine that’s deeper than just how it appears on the surface tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:18 AM
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It’s really just the difficulty getting out, I think. It took my mom YEARS. To finally leave. I left that situation at 16. And then spent years trying to convince her to leave too. It just seemed so daunting to her. Plus the whole “stay for the kids” thing.. which is so misguided imo. She was right though.. leaving him ended up being really difficult. They’re officially divorced now and he still makes everything as difficult as he possibly can. My baby sister is 14. My dad fought bitterly for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:15 AM
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That’s really cool. Now do manipulative and abusive. I know it’s really hard to accept that most men are not very nice. I promise it doesn’t make you less than what you are. You can just listen. It’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:06 AM
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very interesting We can talk about shit moms if the topic comes up. Kinda hard for a mother to demonstrate male behavior.. but go off. this is just poisoning the well I know you see the quotations. Do you maybe not know what those mean? Do you struggle, perhaps, with nuance? yeah being deprived Not an excuse. Irrelevant. Look dude. We’re talking about different types of people. Go find an incel forum and then come back to me. No one here has a problem with regular weird dudes. We aren’t talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:05 AM
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If you’re how you describe.. what makes you a “nice guy”? Clearly you aren’t what we’re talking about if you’re genuinely not problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:57 AM
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I will never understand this argument. Just because women don’t approach you.. doesn’t mean they don’t approach anyone ever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:49 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:48 AM
2

The duality of man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:48 AM
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I love so much that your descriptors are completely useless. Tattoos? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:43 AM
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Well sure. Those people exist everywhere. But you definitely don’t find country respect anywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:41 AM
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Not looking for it ≠ never engaging with humans
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:04 PM
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Only if you pair not looking with “doing absolutely nothing with your life and being a couch blob with no substance”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:51 PM
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Bored is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:47 PM
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Oh I can definitely see how that could be true. I have no idea how such a large portion of.. the world tbh.. got so twisted up over women. It seems like a lot of history has a lot to do with trying to control us. Kinda makes you wonder why exactly that started. Was it always sex? Or did something happen to make so many men hate women both outright and subconsciously? Or maybe they did it to each other. Everything is always about dicks with them. The graffiti in Pompeii cracks me up.. everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:46 PM
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That’s an interesting delusion you have there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:35 PM
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I never really noticed that because this place is a nightmare that I’m still not completely convinced isn’t some big collaborative joke.. but you’re right. Sounds like 14 year old boys in a locker room trying to give each other advice about sex even tho they’re all virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:34 PM
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Maybe we can call it the “kinda scary country momma” effect 🤣 I think there’s something to be said for teaching young boys to value girls. I don’t think we’re superior, but women are kinda magic. I can’t remember which culture it is, but they view women as “sacred” because we can create life. I really think elements of that concept should be more wide spread. I truly believe that if more men did have that specific “yes ma’am” respect.. wed see significant improvement in all the crappy relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:30 PM
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I believe casual sex can have its place. But too much of it seems to cause problems. Not in a “slut” kinda way, but I think it causes a lot of damage unintentionally. Take fuck buddies for instance.. more often than not one of the buddies always catches feelings and it accidentally turns into a traumatic emotional experience. Nothing necessarily bad has to happen, but that little rejection or that inability to fully express once self out of fear or embarrassment or whatever.. that has to be dama…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:24 PM
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I grew up watching bonanza. Always had a bit of a soft spot for that little Joe type charm 🤣 turns out that’s real btw.. they do actually get raised that way still. They just really are at work 🤣 and in the Midwest in tiny farming towns.. but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:18 PM
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“Nice guys” aren’t nice. I am absolutely convinced actually nice guys are too busy working their asses off to be on the internet referring to themselves as nice guys. Need to watch some cowboy movies or something. See examples of what a little “yes ma’am” respect and some callous handed confidence does for a man. Jk. or am i?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:12 PM
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Absolutely. Being an established human being with a sense of self is super important. It’s probably one of those “you find it when you’re not looking for it” types of things. Most people are violently repelled by desperation. Honestly there’s far more to life than having great sex too. Sex is very important in its own right.. but it’s still such a small part of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:03 PM
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Very “good” story? What a wild way to jump into a conversation. Prick. Again.. you don’t have to be a genius to be a manipulative jerk. You just have to be charismatic and only care about yourself. You guys really oversimplify this just to turn around and over complicate it arbitrarily. Also.. not rare. I have yet to meet a woman who hasn’t dated a narcissistic/manipulative/abusive man like this. Yall just really don’t wanna believe what we tell you, huh. Not sure why you’re threatened by the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:46 PM
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It doesn’t take a genius to be a manipulative piece of shit. It kinda works out naturally. Men like that attract broken women. And there are a lot of broken women. There are a lot of men who failed their daughters so they grew up not knowing what love is supposed to look like. Manipulative jagoffs attract anxious women. Unfortunately a lot of us are anxious. It’s just one of those opposites attract things. I’m not even really sure how to explain it outside of that. And I mean.. “nice guys” just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:37 PM
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Just because you think a certain way.. doesn’t mean everyone else does. It must be such a sad, empty life men like this live. Sex absolutely consumes them. They can’t even make human connection without sex being the center of it. You’re wrong. You’re wrong and you make men look bad by asserting these poorly thought out arguments. Be honest about who you are without making it everyone else’s burden to bear. You don’t have my respect, but you have my pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:29 PM
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I just wouldn’t expect to see a thinly veiled confession by some guy about how he wants to fuck his sister.. you couldn’t waterboard something like that out of me.. lol I also can’t imagine having a thought and then being this confident that it’s some universal truth. Im astounded by the things people will just say out loud..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:21 PM
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I know a lot of you really struggle with the idea of women dating these “assholes”. You all fail to really understand the kind of person you’re thinking of when you say that. The best example I have is my dad. My dad is charming. Everyone always loved my dad. He had all the jokes.. knew so many things.. had so many stories. My dad is smart and funny. He made good money my whole childhood, worked hard. Always had friends. Life of the party. To the point where no one believed me when I said that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:17 PM
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Maybe it was a hot day and her mom keeps the house at 75. Maybe she was on the way to the gym. Maybe that’s just how she likes to lounge. What does male sexuality have to do with being at home with your brothers? That should be the safest place in the world to dress how you’d like. Why are you sexualizing people and then getting mad at them for something you chose to do? I don’t see shirtless men jogging and think “what filthy whores! Those jezebels! Don’t they know that straight women like shir…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:45 PM
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And if I saw a woman wearing clothing in her house I’d think she’s a woman in her house. No one ever put on shorts in the privacy of their own home so they could sexually attract their family. I mean.. it’d make more sense if you were saying that home is the only place she should dress that way. Your argument is weird and perverted in a way most people aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:16 PM
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Yeah. Mines all little dogs and cool tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:31 PM
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Finding other people attractive doesn’t make your partner unattractive. A beautiful actress isn’t going to suddenly become ugly once you’re in a relationship. I didn’t get married and then suddenly think Jensen Ackles was just a basic looking guy lol. I fell in love and decided to spend my life actively with one person and having him be the apple of my eye. My eyes still work tho. So do his.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:26 PM
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Yeah no, buddy.. being turned on by your siblings isn’t normal. Not a shared experience. That’s just you (and any other incestuous lurkers).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:53 AM
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Thank god your sisters don’t wear shorts… or else you’d be turned on by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:46 AM
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All I’m reading here is that you’re turned on by the idea of your sister wearing booty shorts and decided to make it everyone else’s problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:36 AM
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You’re the one sexualizing her for her brothers. For some reason. It’s time to stop watching step brother porn. Siblings can’t be sexual to each other unless something is deeply wrong. My little brother is a grown man.. if he wanted to walk around on a speedo like a weirdo.. it wouldn’t be sexual to me. It’d be my brother being a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:34 AM
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Shhhh thats a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:36 AM
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And this is another of the posts in this sub that makes me wonder if this is actually about “men’s rights” or if it’s all just sad man revenge porn
/r/MensRights20/01/24 05:20 AM
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May you find everything you want in life and still feel empty 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:18 AM
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Men and women are not the same. We are of equal value and deserve equal treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:10 AM
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Sure. And the idea that body count matters at all is your opinion. A lame one. But all yours regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:29 PM
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This is a case by case thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:35 AM
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Absolutely.. but we can grow. At a certain point it’s their fault for not doing anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:17 AM
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I don’t have a comment for this as I have no experience with being overweight so I’m not sure. But I do strongly believe that “thiccc strong” is peak man. Actually strong. Pick up a car strong. That looks like thick arms and a bit of a belly. Body builders aren’t actually strong. That’s just aesthetics.. kinda nonfunctional muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:05 AM
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I mean.. I guess I don’t know. It’s really hard for me to wrap my head around the idea of such a wide scale problem that I just haven’t really run into in my life. How can that be possible? I’m not trying to deny that there may be things like this happening.. I just struggle to understand some of them. Maybe no one is “right”. Maybe it’s a case by case situation? Maybe there are pockets of men who feel they experience these types of things and they somehow manage to exist fairly silently outside…
/r/MensRights19/01/24 03:48 AM
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No ones talking about that crap rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:29 PM
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Nah. I’m not speaking from a financial standpoint. I’m just talking about 6’ 6” handsome face Chad passing on his genetics more than regular Joe. Also I’m being entirely facetious here. I remain of the opinion that none of this is real. And yes. Actually successful people have to be huge psychos to be able to step on the heads of their peers just to get ahead. Luckily for men everywhere.. that’s often not the deciding factor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:53 AM
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I think if men actually improved as a whole, it might be a pretty seamless transition for a lot of people. Right? We’d just be teams. Equals, but he carries heavy things and I can get the last few Pringles out of the can without making a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:45 AM
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I think the decline in the quality of men has a many factors at play. But we can start with our food and all the crap that gets put into it. I’m not a clean eating nutcase, but it’s kinda wild to hear how much of the food in America isn’t sold in the UK.. cuz it’s trash. Lack of mental health care. Porn. And you know what? A lack of having anyone to teach them what the fuck they’re supposed to be doing. Like we likely had the ability to smell pheromones and similar at some point. But we forgot h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:40 AM
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I thought the weak, sickly, and old weren’t fit to serve and stayed home. Which reminds me.. if you look at old photos of wars.. so many of the men are so good looking. Just my personal theory.. those stupid wars killed a lot of our grade A American beef stock and that’s why you don’t see many guys that look like that anymore. The unfit stayed behind, lived and bred. Which.. I mean is technically evolution. But going the wrong way. Like with the black plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:15 AM
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6 figures like… isn’t a requirement. Y’all made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:04 AM
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It’s not eugenics if it happens naturally because men can no longer force women to settle for mates they aren’t attracted to and/or stay in marriages they aren’t happy in. No ones planning anything. No ones getting castrated. Life just continues exactly as it is now. In theory.. if what is said in this sub is true.. we’d end up with the cream de la crème of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:04 AM
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It couldn’t be the result of hypergamy. Women haven’t been selecting men for whatever they choose long enough for there to be such a wide spread scourge of frail men. That would be a side effect of allowing poor genes to be passed down because our evolved mate choice process got fucked. It will make a comeback only in that men are going to start oppressing women again so they can get laid without too much trouble?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:00 AM
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I don’t see that as eugenics. It’s more just.. how the cookie crumbles. Nature doesn’t care exactly who makes it.. or why. There’s no government or other authority running this operation. It’s just people being allowed to choose their mates how they want to. Since beauty is subjective, I’m sure the gene pool will always be a bit diverse. But I’d be genuinely surprised if we suddenly had solid proof that men today are as strong as our ancestors.. in physical strength or will or what have you. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:53 AM
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If they haven’t been able to git gud in 40 years.. doesn’t that speak of weak stock? Obviously there are men who are able to attract mates and don’t struggle with getting laid. Are they not just the stronger stock? Don’t stop at the 50s keep going.. take us back to the Vikings. The Spartans. Do you think there weren’t a bunch of weak men then too? What would be done then? Would you just sit in the tavern and complain about how unfair it is that the guys who can actually provide and protect (in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:11 AM
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Oh but it is a new set of competition criteria. That’s natures whole thing. We might be smarter than the beasts, but our species survives in the same way as theirs. A male must convince a female to let him get some. It’s the same for nearly all animals.. there are a few that do it the other way or avoid eachother all together.. and bugs are just weird af.. but all in all.. the female wants the most suitable mate. To give her offspring the best chance at survival. Hypergamy is no different. Obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:04 AM
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You don’t have to No.. don’t have to. But in a world where men think a nice natural bronzed full face of makeup up is “no makeup”.. there’s definitely a certain amount of expectation. Doesn’t bother me much anymore, but it did when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:56 AM
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Arguing is nerve wracking. I am so so so bad at keeping my thoughts in order during an argument. So I practice here. Idk if that’s what OPs is doing but I also come here just for the debates.. not because I think any of this is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:53 AM
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Yeah.. hate to burst your bubble here, but they had fun hair colors back then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:50 AM
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I’m honestly so confused as to why they get to want their list of shit attributes and that’s normal and healthy and good for society.. but women having a similar list is bad? We’re also, apparently, taking over the work force.. we’re so much better educated and more qualified now that we’re allowed to work..? Or that’s what I heard these guys say. It honestly just sounds like nature correcting itself.. the men created a society where the undesirables were able to pass on their undesirable genes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:47 AM
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A nice looking modest girl that isnt fat with a near zero bodycount that gives you peace of mind when you get home that doesnt nag you and is feminine. See.. men can say they want women to essentially have no life experience and have no desire to experience any life before meeting him and that’s ok.. but women wanting their own list of things is bad and means we’ve been raised wrong? Perhaps it was actually men who had been raised wrong and were on the right track now.. our turn for a little lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:38 AM
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Why isn’t the answer to hypergamy just… git gud? Like.. if the game has been updated.. dropped new DLC.. do you adjust or just sit in forums complaining about the patch? I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:30 AM
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Sometimes there are posts in this sub that are really interesting and the comments are educational so I get to learn stuff I probably otherwise wouldn’t ever be exposed to. Other times I see shit like this and scroll through the comments and it fuckin boggles my mind. It feels almost like we’re living on completely different planets.. topics like this get talked about like it’s some wide spread thing that all men are experiencing and it’s some movement. Saying shit like “men are finally walking …
/r/MensRights18/01/24 08:54 AM
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I have the same question. My running theory is that they just like to complain and it makes them feel better to voice their masturbatory revenge fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:00 AM
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The men who can’t be “good men” don’t deserve love anyway. I’m “blue pilled” because the blue pill is literally just a mockery of the red pill. I’ll be no pilled, if that helps. Yall are colorblind as fuck cuz you’re all taking the wrong pill 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:22 AM
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Who’s “most of us”? Outside of the internet guys are doing just fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:37 PM
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I’m not sure where you got that number considering there are no approved tests for HPV in men so there’s no way to know how prevalent it is
/r/MensRights17/01/24 03:04 PM
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The downside for women is the sucky men. So yeah.. something should be done, I agree. What I said is objectively true. Just because you don’t like the harsh reality of it doesn’t mean it’s a middle schoolers opinion. For an unfortunate amount of history men didn’t really need to try to attract a mate.. women needed men for basic rights. That’s not as true anymore.. so now there’s a bunch of young men mad that they can’t get a wife as easily as their father and grandfather did but no idea how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:57 PM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ the freer women are to choose their own paths in life.. the less they want to fuck a good portion of men. That doesn’t make dating fucked.. its just means we’re finally seeing the quality of the men on the market.. gestures vaguely at everything tadaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:59 PM
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Men get HPV too and pass it along sexually. Is there an oral cancer scourge among women I’m unaware of?
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:24 AM
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Shits fucked up. Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:20 AM
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Is he a good guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:01 AM
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Don’t we know by now that open marriage doesn’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:26 AM
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Autonomy is the freedom to do what you want with your body. I don’t want to sleep with anyone else. Neither does he. The definition of autonomy is satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:47 PM
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If he wants to. I can’t stop him. He wants us to be exclusive though.. so I assume he doesn’t want to sleep with anyone else, therefore it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:43 PM
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Sheesh. Angry. Does your theory go both ways? Can you force your man to fuck you based on entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:55 PM
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Feeling super sorry for you tho. Wanting to and having to are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:53 PM
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As a married person.. marriage doesn’t mean anyone loses bodily autonomy. How could it? I can still choose to do what I like with my body.. so can he
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:47 PM
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Im not sure about the rest of his life, but certainly for several years after childbirth. Based on how helpless our babies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:13 AM
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It’s not about being labeled a slut. It’s about not wanting to be used. You have to make a man wait in order to know if he’s actually interested. If a woman isn’t trying to slut around and is actually trying to make a connection.. she might decide to hold out to see if he’ll stay for her as a person, not just for pussy. That’s not being worried about being a slut. I’d argue that the only downside to being called a slut is how mean men can be to women they deem sluts. I remember being younger and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:26 AM
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Slut shaming doesn’t have the effect you think it does. The only women who give a shit about that are the ones being abused by religion/old women on their way out. The rest of us? Don’t care what anyone else does with their pussy. All slut shaming tells us is that you’re mad you can’t get any. Can’t get any pussy so you get angry and call women sluts. It’s like the guy in our dms who tells us we’re so gorgeous and amazing until we say we aren’t interested and then his tune changes to “fat ugly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:05 AM
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To be completely honest.. I don’t think I know/have met a woman who isn’t a slut by the PPDs standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:43 AM
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Well now you have to throw a party in 4 years 🤣 love me a fellow hoe turned housewife 🤗 (or jobwife lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:41 AM
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Yeah. It’s called “living your life how you want to”. If you want to have casual sex.. have it. The pros and cons of most things are subjective. There are other animals who fuck for pleasure. It is what it is. All you have to do is simply not do it if it’s not your thing. Modesty and chastity are made up concepts. Live your life how you want to and let other people do the same. (As long as it’s legal and everyone’s consenting, duh)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:55 PM
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We are logical and emotional We know right from wrong. Im excusing behavior. You are. You’re trying to make excuses for people who rape by giving them an out for it. I already said it, but I’ll say it again.. if you’re not capable of controlling yourself.. you shouldn’t be allowed in society. Not even all animals rape.. surely we’re more evolved than them. I just don’t understand how you can so readily forget that not only men are rapists. I swear you guys can only focus on one issue at a time a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:15 PM
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Couldn’t care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:51 AM
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You’re an autistic woman? So you can speak on it? But I can’t say anything about men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:48 AM
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I didn’t say anything about the problems for anyone lol. I said your theory about it sounds like you made it up. Why are you in competition with women? We aren’t competing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:41 AM
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Oh yeah? Name 5 of their songs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:23 AM
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I feel like you could always just wear a ring and let that do the talking for you. I’m not sure why those women announced it to you. I only say that when I feel like a guy might have the wrong idea or might be getting too friendly and I want to just politely make sure we’re all on the same page. Or maybe you’re hot and they’re reminding themselves they’re in relationships. It’s hard to know.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 01:17 AM
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It just seems like they got their idea of autism in women off a tv show. Or they meet nerdy chicks and decide that must be autism since women can’t like dorky stuff unless they’re autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:50 AM
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This reads like youve never met an autistic woman.. you just kinda saw something on tv once and decided that’s real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:45 AM
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Ah yes.. those sexy sexy meltdowns
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:06 PM
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Bro it’s literally called postpartum psychosis when they use it as a plea of insanity in court. Post partum depression isnt used in an insanity plea lol. You’re the one trying to make a point by conflating terms. Yeah.. postpartum psychosis? The one where they start hearing voices and have delusions and shit and somethings super fucking wrong? Yeah that’s not just a little hormonal disturbance. That’s something else entirely and therefore.. can’t be brought up in this discussion. Unless you’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:06 AM
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Those aren’t bad faith questions. Your response just sucked. You can’t tell me how postpartum psychosis is the same as testosterone making you horny… because it’s not comparable. Just saying my questions are in bad faith doesn’t make them in bad faith nor does it absolve you of having to explain your point or concede. You can step down if you like.. I’m sure someone else will be bold enough to try to actually compare those two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:46 AM
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Oh ok sure. Being assaulted applies to you too. Being baby trapped. Why would you go into a relationship scared of your divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:44 AM
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I asked some questions. Are you going to answer them? How are those situations at all relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:42 AM
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Excuse me.. most men won’t get genuine interest? What? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:40 AM
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This is a good one. I heard it as “if you’re confused about whether or not they’re into you… they aren’t”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:39 AM
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Personally? Going into a new relationship? It’s finding out he’s a psycho too late and getting beaten or raped when I inevitably upset him at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:36 AM
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I’m not saying don’t have that fear. But letting it be your biggest fear seems a little misguided
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:29 AM
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stop using PMS/their period Couple questions: Where did yall come up with that narrative? Also how is a woman being grumpy/bitchy/whatever because she’s in pain and bleeding the same as literal rape? Can you explain how these situations are analogous please? Postpartum Yeah so.. please link me a scientific, peer reviewed article that states postpartum psychosis is comparable to men just being horny. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:28 AM
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I’m aware that we’re animals. Trust me. I argue that regularly. However we aren’t thoughtless. We aren’t dogs. Were very closely related to chimps and bonobos. Were anatomically most similar to bonobos. Yet.. we are neither. We are, to our knowledge, the only kind of animal that has higher intelligence. Bonobos have sex for pleasure and live mostly in peace with each other.. Despite these high rates of sexual activity, instances of sexual violence remain remarkably low. It’s almost unheard of fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:36 AM
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Men accept this because it gives them an excuse to be animals. So basically a man being horny is more mind altering than me being horny at a time in my hormonal cycle where my body’s sole purpose is to hunt semen for the purpose of getting pregnant.. and that’s why them saying they can’t control themselves cuz of testosterone is ok? Sure pal. I’m not afraid to acknowledge biology. I just think that if these men can’t handle their own hormones in a way that doesn’t involve assaulting someone.. th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:36 AM
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I think it’s harmful to allow testosterone to be used as an explanation here. It’s not. If it were all men would have these issues. They don’t. Most don’t. It’s not testosterone. It’s never learning to police your own actions. Testosterone doesn’t make you place your own wants and desires over someone else’s. Being horny doesn’t make you any less capable of conscious thought. I might be feeling hornier than I can contain at the peak of ovulation.. but I know my husband is uncomfortable if I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:10 AM
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I wasn’t critiquing your technique. Promise. I just asked cuz hands say a lot about a person, imo. Find a place you’re comfortable.. but not too comfortable. A place with booze. I’m not suggesting you take up alcohol, unless you find a drink helps a bit.. but the environment it creates is just easier to be awkward in. Once you realize that everyone’s just there to have fun and drink.. it’s easier to be less worried about the various social contracts we’re meant to keep up with. I know people can…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:23 PM
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Are those your hands chopping onions? lol Idk where you live. Some places have dork bars. Those can be fun.. or too corny. You could find a nice bar with a good kitchen in it and use food as your ticket into conversations you can carry a little bit. A bar is the suggestion because it’s a watering hole. All kinds of people go to bars. And I don’t mean clubs. I do mean just a bar.. probably has a dart board.. music isn’t too loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:11 PM
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I can appreciate the spirit of not wanting to make people uncomfortable.. but perhaps you’re taking it a bit too far. Which isn’t to say.. go be pushy. But do you maybe have a lady friend you could have help wingman for you? If not that’s fine too. Assuming you’re of age where you live.. my advice will always be to find a bar you like the atmosphere of (I like dive bars, but they aren’t for everyone) and make yourself a regular. Even if you start by just sitting by yourself for a while. Get to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:02 PM
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Mines waking up to a message that he’s dead. Had that one happen before.. I can’t describe the shock and pain. There are worse things than someone doing you the favor of narrowing down your dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:44 PM
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That’s your biggest fear? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:42 PM
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I don’t identify with anything you just described. My husbands feelings are his feelings… it’s my honor as his wife to be there to listen to whatever he needs to say.. hold him if he cries.. and then help him find a solution, in whichever way we can, when he’s ready. And I’m not even the most emotionally intelligent of my lady friends. Yall need to streamline your process. Open up quicker.. if the response is poor.. move on. Stop building entire relationships with people you don’t even get to kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:36 PM
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I really feel like those things aren’t analogous. How about.. my mom isn’t dead. I’m not going to walk around and assume that mom’s dying isn’t awful just because it hasn’t happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:07 AM
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This is an excellent comment. Wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:49 AM
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Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:49 AM
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Because if your only interaction with women is non-sexual, you can't really understand women have a sexual side too. It's not their lived experience I don’t understand this.. I don’t have any lived experience outside what I have experienced myself but I still believe other things exist outside of my scope/ability to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:11 AM
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Don’t wait for marriage. But definitely wait, I think. Not terribly long. Just make em work for it a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:54 PM
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It’s not about that. I just am bad at space crap in my head. Hard to conceptualize sizes of things I haven’t seen. Dick.. of any size.. does none of that to the general populace. That’s some fanfiction you wrote yourself. The sight of just a dick never made anyone I’ve ever known wet. I’ve certainly never heard of actual drooling.. what are we gonna do? Eat it? Are we hungry? More goes into making women wet than just.. a dick existing. Part of the reason the female orgasm is so illusive. Were en…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:44 AM
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Just because it’s not your thing.. doesn’t mean it’s harmful for two consenting adults. There’s no expense to his mental health… being degraded makes his dick hard. I don’t get it either, but whatever makes them happy is none of my business (so long as it’s all legal).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:32 AM
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No.. those men can and do find partners. I have a friend who prefers small like that. She has vaginismus.. works for her. I have another friend who prefers hand stuff and just doesn’t care about dicks. Takes all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:31 AM
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I know what it is. I just can’t like.. mentally picture it for some reason. And nah. Most guys I’ve had sex with were around 6. A few outliers, but most just regular
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:29 AM
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No.. it makes some people cum hard. That’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:28 AM
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I couldn’t care less if I get downvoted or messaged. I’m not on this subreddit because I’m sensitive. That being said.. too small absolutely does exist. It’s just way smaller than you think it is. I do genuinely think micro penises are a tragedy.. not because it says anything about the person, but because it simply doesn’t work if it’s too small and everyone (except for whatever examples anyone comes up with to argue with me) deserves to experience a fulfilling and consensual sex life (if that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:26 AM
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I don’t really understand girth measurements tbh. So idk what that means. I dunno man.. in my experience, the average “5.1” is hard to come by and most dudes are between 6-7ish. I’ve kinda always felt like someone’s measuring wrong because it doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:21 AM
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Nah. Actually I dated one of them for a while and the sex was really good after we figured out how to make it work for us both. I dated another for a couple weeks, but he was “too scared” to fuck me and disappoint me and then he “borrowed” my car for 4 days.. so that didn’t last. I only met one guy who was too small to actually penetrate and that was in highschool.. we’re still friends. He’s married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 AM
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I have never experienced this.. neither as a woman who’s had sex with men who weren’t very well endowed and as a woman with other woman friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:15 AM
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Obvious rage bait. But I’ll play. “Too small” is subjective and not something I came across very often when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:12 AM
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Ok but how do these people know who’s got a big dick and who doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:11 AM
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What’s “big” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:11 AM
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Why? It’s not unhealthy to enjoy degradation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:10 AM
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The narrative that men are super pushy and horny all the time is pretty engrained into everything. It’s hard to remember that that’s all bullshit sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:26 AM
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I’m not saying we should force those people. I am saying that you can literally just get a test and if the kid isn’t yours.. go to court with it. There’s no reason to ask the mother unless it turns out not to be yours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:26 AM
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And when they do a study that asks every woman alive about their sex drive.. I’ll believe it. Until then.. women are as horny as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:34 AM
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Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:33 AM
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I never said anyone was unworthy of love. What? Lmao. Basing love off of some economic nonsense is stupid. Men aren’t the table. There is no table. If you’re in a relationship wondering what your partner brings to the table and feeling superior to them.. you’re in it for the wrong reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:03 AM
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I’ve been divorced. I didn’t get anything out of it.. because it’s not that simple lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:15 AM
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Must have missed the part in my marriage certificate where we agreed to all the economic stuff you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:03 AM
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Nothing. You’re trying to boil relationships down to some weird business agreement. Men can take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:53 AM
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…hey buddy. I’m not sure if you know this, but we aren’t lions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:51 AM
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This is such a horrible take. Just another internet stranger who thinks they shouldn’t have to actually try in order to attract a mate. What exactly do you offer than women can’t do for themselves? Help with rent? Get a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:33 AM
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I’d say arranged marriages are unnatural lol. Sorry you have to actually attract a mate. Must suck to have so little to offer people that no one wants you. We do live in the animal kingdom. Having central air doesn’t make you suddenly not driven by a bunch of instincts. Your argument here is suuuuuuper sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:28 AM
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There are actual people walking around proving otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:24 AM
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Crazy how many dead beats dads there are who completely ignore their kids and pay nothing when you’re here to be dramatic as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:22 AM
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Its legal in the United States to do paternity tests lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:38 PM
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You can literally order them offline
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:32 PM
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No. I assumed we were all growing and becoming better people.. not staying the same kind of uncomfortable that makes people call you a school shooter. I know the school shooter type.. they aren’t pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:26 PM
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You haven’t grown at all since school? Thats rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:17 PM
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Sure but you don’t anything about anyone else. Why be mad about business that isn’t yours
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:17 PM
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My one bestie tells be stuff. That’s about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:15 PM
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Ok so you’re upset about guys happily raising their kids because you don’t trust their partners? Do you know how crazy that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:11 PM
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Oh ok. So then they can feed a literal baby for a week and get the test done. Problem solved. No need to even talk about it. The proposed solution to your problem is readily available. No injustice at all.. just lazy men who want to complain and do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:55 PM
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So.. get the test right when it pops out. I’m sure you can feed a baby for a week without being too put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:51 PM
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I don’t get it. Why would you want your partner to know you doubt them and think they might be an awful terrible person capable of cheating and then lying to your face for the rest of your life? Further.. why are they cumming inside people they think are so morally bankrupt?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:49 PM
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Then just go get a test 🤣 it’s that easy. You don’t need her permission. Go do it. And when the kid is yours.. just never mention the test and feel stupid forever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:43 PM
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But that’s what this is about. It’s about causing issues. Otherwise they’d just.. do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:41 PM
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It’s because it’s not actually about the dna of the child. It’s some weird control thing or something. Cuz you’re right.. a concerned party could absolutely just get that done and keep it entirely to themselves and cause absolutely no issues in their relationship. And yet here we are.. reading yet another post about making them mandatory. The only reasonable conclusion is that it’s not actually about paternity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:39 PM
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Don’t identify as an incel if you don’t want to be labeled a pathetic school shooter type loser. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:44 AM
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