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| 5 | Dad's Parenting StyleThe comments here are unnecessarily validating. I find this kind of frustrating actually - I guess that's a me problem because when I post something I am actually looking for advice not someone to tell me it's okay to feel the way I feel. You are telling him how to be somethinh you can never be. Kids biologically need the kind of approach only fathers offer, the rough housing, the playfulness, the sternness. You should really look into the benefits of roughhousing. You can never be a father and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you tell people about your relationship issues ?Oh that makes a lot of sense. I assumed that you were red pill because this is a group of red pill women. I personally hate the labels. I only frequent this forum because it's very different to the modern view of relationships and aligns more closely with my own views. Red pill is basically supposed to be a Matrix reference- and it's the realization that feminism isn't all that helpful to creating good long lasting marriages- but I kind of feel the same way about the conclusion red pill men come… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you tell people about your relationship issues ?That's actually a very beautiful aspiration and thank you for sharing as well. I have to say I tend to have a very jaded view of red pill men although I do sympathize with their struggles (I just don't like the conclusions they come to) so this interaction really helped remedy that somewhat | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/26 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you tell people about your relationship issues ?I am sorry for what you went through, it must have been very difficult to get over. It was a combination of things for me. I was actually often the friend they confided in and then I saw the other side and realized that hearing only one side of the story is an incomplete picture. And now recently a friend of mine was sharing with me her marital struggles and because the LD framework that I mentioned helped me immensely in my marriage I wanted to share with her but she wasn't as open to it and as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/26 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Lessons you wish you knewI discovered them years before we got married - when we were long distance and dropped them for a long time. I didn't understand the concept of self care until much later. Did so much that was wrong in my marriage and I am grateful I found them again last year and so grateful he has always been patient. Wish you all the best in your marriage | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/26 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you tell people about your relationship issues ?Never ever. I think it takes a special kind of woman to tell you you are exaggerating and finding such a woman is like finding a needle in a haystack. So I never share. You are going to forget that fight you had. Your friends and family are not going to forget that thing he said that made you cry. What helps me is journaling. I need to be really intentional about it though. Because if I only journal to vent it's not going to talk me down from the ledge. So I gratitude journal. And I try to searc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/26 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Lessons you wish you knewMake yourself happy. Seriously. Don't expect him to fill that role. And yeah there are reasonable limits to this but he's going to be much happier if you prioritize making yourself happy over stretching yourself thin and martyring yourself to be the perfect housewife. I ran myself ragged with the stress of trying to be the perfect housewife. And by housewife I mean whether you work full time or you don't I had this messed up idea in my head that everything needed to be perfect so I could only re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/26 12:06 PM |
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