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Give him time My boyfriend said it first and I had a hard time saying I love you back then It took me a while because I had never said to anyone before and I don’t take the saying lightly so I wanted to be sure I think it’s normal for some people to pull back a little when the word love comes into it so give him time don’t pressure him to say it back I would even say to him it’s ok if you need time to say it I just want you to know that is how I feel Definitely have a conversation but don’t pres…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/24 01:09 PM
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Absolutely not Any relationship with a female “friend” is also inappropriate Myself and friends have always said that male friends just want to be your friend because they want to sleep with you I even heard it said from a girl on vanderpump rules😆 But yeah no it’s not controlling either
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 10:10 PM
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You need to speak to him about it because this could end badly I don’t say this to make things worse I say this from experience I don’t think men and women should be “studying alone” Your fiancé most likely wants to sleep with her and if she’s willing it will happen So save yourself the heart ache SET BOUNDARIES and speak your damn mind It’s ok that’s she’s more beautiful than you per say but for him to tell you that is not cool If he’s marrying you he you should be his number one beautiful Idk …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 08:09 PM
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Tell your boyfriend before things get ugly between you too If he truly loves you then he will take what you say into consideration Also it’s always best to just speak your mind specially with your boyfriend
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 11:01 AM
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Lol i say don’t think about it too much just let yourself transition into it When I got engaged I asked myself this too Now we have a house (we aren’t married and not living together yet) What has been happening is that I come over cook food make his lunches clean up and go home Basically a maid at the moment haha except we get to cuddle and hang out I also am not working and just focusing on working on our wedding and getting the house ready for when we are married lol I feel like these were th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 03:46 PM
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Yes thankfully We do have a church and they are what keeps us accountable This is a hot take but I also believe that true Christians know that we do not live in the Old Testament, we live in the new and Gods word clearly says one man and one woman and what it says about adultery and divorce. the Bible May speak about having multiple wives but at the end of the day it’s the law of the lord that matters not what Solomon decided to do They made a choice, idk if God allowed it but approval of it is …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 02:35 PM
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Phew so sorry to hear this I’m not married yet but I feel I had to share this My fiancé is redpill Christian, I think the Christian aspect is what keeps him in check But we met online and when we were first dating he was curious about all of that stuff. there was one point where he was still seeing someone else and I kinda knew but didn’t know for sure, he was honest and told me but that blew up our relationship, i couldn’t handle it and I broke it off completely and he just kept trying to reach…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 02:12 PM
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Just hope you tell him cause things come out one way or another
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 06:27 AM
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Don’t get too stressed out about it. Don’t consume so much content that tells you that you will be alone forever because of this. You’re very young and are realizing at a good age your mistakes. All you can do now is go forward, take care of yourself and wait for the right man to come along for you. Obviously that is a choice you have to make to wait from now until your husband and it’s not an easy one. I believe that you can do it and you will be better for it. My body count is a few higher tha…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 01:48 AM
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No It’s not. Radical feminism seeks to completely abolish the patriarchy which is something you want to take part in by being a housewife and having a husband take care of you. By just ven having a man is going against radical feminism. This is what I mean by playing two sides, having your cake and eating it too. Wanting to be a radical feminist but also wanting to lead a traditional life. Don’t get me wrong you can definitely go and do school and have a career and also get married. That’s the b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:15 AM
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Right I get your point but that’s not radical feminism then, idk I think you’re trying to play two sides.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 06:06 AM
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Your views are very polar opposite and you will end up hating eachother. Just leave you’re still young and find someone more like minded. I’m surprised he’s even with you or you with him. You will most likely find someone else as you’re still young and if you don’t well at least you didn’t stay with someone you would resent. What I don’t understand here is that you claim to be a radical leftist feminist and feminist yet you chose to date this guy and don’t follow the independent woman mentality?…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 05:20 AM
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I really think it’s relative, it depends on the person you speak to. You will find for some it’s a big deal and you have seen and for some it might not be. I think don’t focus on what someone else is going to think about your body count but what you think of it. I personally think it’s best to wait or if the deed it done to not do it anymore, specially as a woman, but that has more to do with how I feel about it and from my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 02:11 AM
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Yes i think that will be really good! He will feel loved even if you just ask him in my opinion. You can always find time to go have some solo time while the both of you are in Amsterdam. Just because you travel together it doesn’t mean you have to be together 24/7 Just give him reassurance
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 03:18 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting to feel good about yourself. You’re missing the point 😭 he’s scared of losing you and probably feels excluded
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 01:29 PM
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Well it’s not impossible, it’s hard, but not impossible. You can abstain and you should. we just don’t have self control now a days, aren’t taught values and morals and it’s now seen as normal to just give your body to anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 05:13 AM
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I mean Honestly having a body count at all is not good, but in this day and age if you’ve only slept with 3 people that’s a miracle lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 05:00 AM
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No one knows exactly who they are compatible to. people change all the time. We are always evolving. If you’re attracted try dating and getting to know the guy you might be surprised. You probably don’t even know him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 04:21 AM
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Solo dating? Sounds like you really want to be single. You’re working on making yourself looks pretty and want to travel alone on valentines? and you’re wondering why he’s questioning your motives and doesn’t want you to travel without him?? Imagine if he was working out a king himself look good feel good and then he told you he wanted to go to Amsterdam (sex capital of the world) by himself? What exactly would you think??? Just break up with him you clearly want to be alone and “find yourself” …
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 04:14 AM
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Im 29, I was a virgin until I was 19, I was shy but I was pressured to lose it, I thought I was a loser for not having had sex yet. Not waiting is one of my deepest regrets in life. It caused me so much heartache, I was told to have fun and enjoy and date and all that bullshit. I didn’t want that I just wanted to stay home and date and not expose myself but I did it anyway because I thought I was a loser. Just wait, don’t do it, I felt dirty many times even just doing other sex things it always …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 04:18 PM
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My fiancé is Irish, with Russian roots. they are … interesting lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 12:07 AM
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I think your might be on the wrong sub 😭 I would never tolerate my husband cheating, it would take a lot of convincing on his end for me to stay married.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 10:58 PM
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You need to relax!!! It’s normal because as women we are built to be dependent! Men are not. They are mainly independent. My fiancé and I don’t live together and I miss him like crazy 5 minutes after he drops me off and leaves for home. He says he misses me but it’s rare. I text him more than he texts me and we barely talk on the phone because he goes to bed early. And wake up really early for work. I see him 3 times a week and it has been like this for about 2.5 years. What keeps me sane is the…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 01:52 AM
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Yes that too!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 12:55 PM
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Don’t order the most expensive thing, don’t drink or limit yourself to one drink, be yourself, dress pretty not vulgar, be nice, ask questions, don’t spill things on yourself lol Don’t try so hard to be this feminine thing you’re might be imagining in your head.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 05:15 AM
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He’s probably a very respectful guy and doesn’t want to get too involved yet because he might feel you will leave him which is exactly what you want him to do. Do you want a guy who’s going to respect you and get to know you first or a guy who is going to be all over you? Maybe he wants to wait until marriage? Maybe he doesn’t like you. Idk ask the guy!!
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/23 06:19 AM
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I agree I didn’t understand why this post was in this thread
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/23 04:12 AM
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I was going to say the same! Making him sos em thing will be more valuable. Even if it’s just a card with a love note idk a scavenger hunt a letter with a soap you made, literally anything that is hand made I learnt this early on in my relationship. My fiancés parents are also wealthy but he is very frugal and doesn’t like stuff and things so even buying him a t shirt is an issue sometimes. He has one of each thing and that’s enough. I could buy him tools but those are things he should pick out.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 03:18 AM
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Stop dating 2 men at once for starters lol I will never understand the logic behind dating a bunch of people seriously at once, it’s why you’re confused Leave guy a alone once and for all and try you’re shot with guy b I have a feeling you don’t really know what you want and either way you might end up leaving either guy so what does it really matter Choose the one you haven’t left in the dust 3 times already 😭
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 10:50 PM
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I think you’re already starting to resent him and you will just emasculate him in the future because you don’t see him as the man in the relationship. There’s a lot of different things happening here tbh, you’re independent, you are “successful”, you might even think you’re better than him (I’m not saying you do think this way but sometimes we think this way without realizing). I think you have a few choices, stay with him and take a chance that he will find a job as “good” as your’s but you mig…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 01:33 AM
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I just wanted to love and be loved by someone kind, funny, masculine. When I was younger I wrote down what I wanted in a man but it was mainly physically what I wanted and some personality traits which were the kind funny ect. This was a long time ago but I do know that God gave me exactly what I asked for 😭 a tall blonde freckled man that was strong, kind, funny and independent. I think I even wrote down things like didn’t play video games, likes nature, active ect He’s all of those things. BUT…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 05:49 PM
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It’s kinda different for men even though it is kinda gross But I think it defintiely has to do more with his motive and mental space Like did he cheat a lot, why did he do it, I’m weary of very promiscuous men because they can sometimes not kick the habit but most men just play around until they find a girl they really like My fiancé cheated on his ex but he has been very very open about everything he has done in the past it took us a while to get past things but idk we have worked through it al…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 01:31 AM
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You should go to your husband and ask him to help you control this. I’m not married but I also have a shopping problem, I went to my fiancé and asked him to help me control it, he took my credit card and just checks up on me makes sure I’m not spending too much it has worked and I’m working to pay off my cc. I’m only depending on my debit card right now and since I don’t make a lot of money I don’t have much to spend anyway. My bank sends me notifications every time I spend so I’m forced to see …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 12:44 AM
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My fiancé is like this in terms of picking a place to eat but with bigger decisions he really steps up and takes over the decision making, I think as you grow your relationship you can kinda of leading him to be a leader. With my fiancé at the beginning he was more passive but the longer we have been together the more of a man he has become. I attribute it to being at church and having Godly and manly council as well as me being more feminine and stepping aside to let him be a leader
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 02:06 PM
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Appalachias homestead, little house living, the cottage fairy, sewlo artist, timo and Marie shely, Elliot homestead, sage lilleyman, red bull cliff diving, Meghan livingstone, 100 bible stories, proverbs_31life Traum piano and ballet and opera house Commentary I like Candace owe s, Brett cooper and I kinda but not really like pearl. These I watch very sparingly because I don’t think watching too much commentary is good for us.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 05:14 AM
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I feel like they aren’t always going to appear “high value” specially in their early 20s, some have done the work on their own and were raised right so they will be from the beginning but the right woman can make any man become a high value man
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 06:55 PM
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Oh yeah it’s going to hurt and you have to just allow yourself to feel and give yourself time to heal, I always say go back to God, I think sometimes he puts us in those situations to number one protect us and number two to bring us closer to him. He may need you to go a certain way but you’re going the opposite way and usually that causes heartache because it’s not Gods will for your life. I hope that makes sense. So I think maybe you need to stop your search spend more time with God, find what…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 02:03 PM
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I used to have this happen too and I went on so many dates with guys I really liked and wanted to be with. Now I look back and I’m so thankful they did that because I didn’t waste my time and spend months and years with some of these guys and I’m now engaged to the literal love of my life. So don’t stress about it if they don’t want you good riddance and thank God they didn’t waste more of your time and energy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 01:53 PM
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I believe I became more submissive in the way of like stepping aside and not letting my opinion rule over everything. I also have noticed myself becoming more feminine, I’ve always been girly but now it’s like turned up to a max, the way I dress, how I take care of him when he comes to see me (we don’t live together yet), the things I say and don’t say, how I take care of myself ect. I do also have to say that I think me being adamant on marriage and not living together before getting married fr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/23 02:24 PM
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With my fiancé it took a while to get where he is, he is a great leader but at the beginning of our relationship he wasn’t the way he is now. This is what I have seen that makes him a great leader: He tells me no. But still listens and shows me love. He listens to my input but ultimately tells me what he thinks is the best in a certain situation. He is frugal/financially I dependent/very good with money (this is a trait he had from the beginning and one that I think is important to have before g…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/23 02:11 AM
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Hahah yes I’m an esthetician and wear spf almost daily so got the anti aging secrets down lol From my understanding we will all be give a new body after death so there will be no marriage at all in heaven. But regardless i will enjoy this one on earth while I have the chance💕
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 02:32 AM
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Oh thank you, I hope he doesn’t🙏🏽 I want to get old and wrinkly with him. There’s no marriage in heaven so I hope we get long lives together lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 03:52 PM
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I usually just say that doing these things is what makes me happy and feel useful, it’s the least I could do specially if I’m a stay at home wife. It brings me joy to clean and keep my home tidy, and at the end of the day those are my womanly duties in my home. Everyone runs their house in a way they want and this is what works for us. Im not married yet but I know that I personally prefer to have control over the kitchen and organizing so having my fiancé help me (when we live together) would b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 03:36 PM
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I think you should wait. As a man they have less to lose than a woman. For you if you give yourself to him it might hurt you more in the end if you two break up. He might lose respect for you, idk just anything could happen. Just because he’s had people before you doesn’t mean you should too. Men and women are not equal on that level. And if you do you might feel terrible after wards and regret it. I wish I would have waited,I don’t have a lot of sexual partners but now that I am getting married…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 11:17 PM
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