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Prudent_Media_4067/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 02:19 PM
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I’d do it for a couple million
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 11:38 PM
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Coming from experience. You are setting yourself up for failure if you do. You should be friendly but can’t be friends. It may seem to work, but each of you have to move on and find a new life outside of the one you had together. Divorce is painful- so feel the pain. If you try to slow the pain by being in her life it’s just drags it on. We still go to the kids sports, school events exc.. and can sit together and be friendly. But there’s a noticeable wall up between us that I think is better for…
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 02:34 PM
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If you are like most guys, me included, your purpose is to provide and you get your self worth by being there for your partner. That’s now broken, so you need to find purpose. This is the time to develop yourself which at first feels completely backwards There’s no shortcuts or easy fixes. It’s lonely, hard and takes time. So commit to being the best version of yourself and put all of your focus there.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 12:18 AM
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If you want to get laid, go do that but do not date! You are not ready to be in another relationship and it will just continue the same patterns. Use this time to heal, find out your new identity and figure out what life you want to live. This is a great time to try new things and figure out what you actually want and like. It’s a rollercoaster. Some days suck, some you feel great, then they suck again. But every day is yours so don’t miss out on this time to set your own path. Good luck brother…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 11:21 AM
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Absolutely not. 50/50 is the norm in TX. It’s time to fight for your kids and get 50/50 custody
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 09:44 PM
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Sounds like a great deal at 20% below market value Of course run the numbers and make sure you can afford it and compare this to not buying her out and what rent or buying a new house would cost But so far it seems like a smart move
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 04:04 AM
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It will suck but you adjust and realize having some time away from them allows you to be a better parent when they are with you I can’t lie and say days without them are great, but it gives you time to do things for yourself and become a better person And you also appreciate them more when you don’t see them everyday. Hard to explain but after a while you can find the benefits in it
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 07:45 PM
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100% accurate. A lot of people have their own relationship challenges so the wives look at you as a threat. Because you moved on and are happy, so could their husband. I lost a lot of friends because of this but also I re-evaluated every relationship and realized a lot of friends weren’t good friends to begin with As much as divorce sucks, it gives you the opportunity to pick who your friends are and also who you no longer need to fake friendships with
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 01:42 PM
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It will be a roller coaster. Nice one day, nasty the next. Best advice is to be respectful but keep your distance. Women in this situation use emotions to benefit themselves. Stay the course and don’t take the bait.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 01:06 AM
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I got the recommendation here too and hope more people hear about it. Life changing for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/23 12:23 AM
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Sometimes a change is exactly what you need to get out of a funk. If you were away from your shitty wife, then that could make a impact at work, or open up doors for more money. If you can sell the house and pay off debt then you might have a fresh start. It’s hard to stay positive but, when you do you will see opportunities.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 10:37 PM
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I don’t know if this is a troll post, but if it’s real, then you are not the problem here. Your girl is a mental case and you should be glad you are rid of that mess.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 11:30 AM
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I would be cautious. She’s warm now, but what if her behavior shifts in the opposite way. I don’t think staying in the same house for a year is a good idea. That seems like a miserable thing for you and you could easily lose your temper and say/do things that she could used against you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 04:08 PM
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Not to mention that she used you to feel better about her loss. Move on and stop being there for her. Her relationships are her business and it shows how little she cares about you for bringing you in the middle of it. Hope you find better.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 06:32 PM
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Damn, that’s a intense and terrible situation. One of the big lessons I learned from this is to always have at least one guy you can go to when life gets out of hand. I’m glad you called him. Take care of yourself man.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 03:57 PM
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A couple things come to mind. First, do you want your kids to have the same marriage as you? They are learning from your marriage and chances are history repeats. Secondly, have you read, No More Mr Nice Guy? I was recommended this and it’s spot on. Who knows if your wife will want you but you can stop giving a shit about what she wants and start taking care of yourself. Who knows if divorce makes sense but for where you are right now I would just focus on yourself and figure out what you want.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 06:14 AM
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I hope it works. It has for me so far bit it’s only been a few days. I had the most direct conversations with her without worry about her opinion. It got the anger and fear out of the way. I’m ready to move on and she knows it, so last night she F’d my brains out. I think that taking power back from her is more attractive. Good luck man.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 04:57 PM
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Thanks to some advice I received on this sub,I just listened to the audiobook No More Mr Nice Guy and it complexity changed my view of my marriage and myself. My situation is similar to yours just a few years in the future. Your needs are not being met, and you will not be happy. Accept this first, then realize what you are doing is not working. It’s time to do things differently and worry about yourself first, and stop worrying about your wife. Read or listen to this book and I think it will ha…
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 04:47 PM
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Just ordered the books. Thanks again.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 03:23 PM
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Thank you for your response. I re-read it a few times and need to live by this. Especially the part where I need to change my mindset about no longer needing to be the white knight. I keep thinking about ways to help her and this will not go well for me. I do believe we can sit down at the table to work this out. I also think it would be better to do this early on, when it’s less emotional. She’s a very reasonable and good person, and I truly think we both would out our differences aside to do w…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 02:34 PM
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