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| 5 | Cant wait to go | Prudent_Survey_5050 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/25 07:45 AM |
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| 15 | A WarningIf you want loyalty get a dog. NOTHING TRUER HAS EVER BEEN SAID. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/25 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?Thank you. My dad, with his faults, is amazing. As much as I loved my mom, that's since past away, she tried to take him to the cleaners. He built our house in the middle of the woods by himself The foundation, framing, roofing,drywall, electrical, plumbing . Everything except for hvac. Well, he did put a coil system in the two fireplaces and only buys propane once every few years, lol I was 8 years old at the time and can still tell you at 45 where to hit bigger rocks with a sledge to split the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?Thank you so much for your response. My schedule is the hardest part, to be honest. I'm up between 3:30 and 4 am every morning. Because of my RA, it takes about a half hour to be able to just bend my fingers. Then I do the dishes, pack my lunch and lunches for the 3 kids(because she will have a melt down trying to feed them). Usually, 1 or 2 days a week i meal prep for the week. Then I'm usually out the door no later than 5:45 am. I clock in at the jobsite between 630 and 7, depending on the dri… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/25 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?So when I got home from overseas 14 years ago, I got custody of my oldest 2 within a month. Then, I lost it 6 months later due to becoming homeless. My ex-wife took EVERYTHING and got knocked up by a former buddy of mine. At that point, I started drinking very heavily. Met my 13 year olds mom, but I did not plan on another kid. We were co-dependent drinkers. We have him, I get sober, and she doesn't. I fight for 16 months to get full custody, which is a whole story in itself. I met my 2nd wife. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/25 08:32 AM |
| 5 | Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's?Nope, my oldest son graduated collage last year and my daughter graduates collage next year. I have custody of my 13 year old surprise son I had with a different woman after my first wife left me while I was in the army. I'm 45 and ready to break off my engagement with a woman that's 35 with 6 and 7 year old girls. It's not that I don't love her but when my parents and best friend of 25 years seen how she treats my son and I they finally understood. I should know on buying a house in the next we… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Going through it pretty badYou are so right I was sober for 9 years then started drinking through my divorce. It was 2 years of hell. Sober 3.5 years now | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 08:31 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone feel like their attorneys are just one big money scam?12 years ago when I got sober and went after custody of my 1 year old son I hired my in the elevator of the court house with tears in my eyes right after the first court hearing. He warned me that it was going to be a marathon not a sprint. Long story but he was mid range for the cost but worth it. I've had custody since then. The worst part for me was having to wait for her to run put of money for a lawyer to prove she was still using drugs and lying. Because of her accusations against me CPS a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Feminists are always complaining about women's mental load, but what are some examples of mens mental load?Not being able to talk to anyone about ANYTHING. From being the only income and being told "you just don't wanna be at home" when I'm working 50 hours a week to pay the fucking bills so we don't have a daycare bill. To carrying my dead sister out of her house and going back to work the next day because ya know BILLS. Friends killed overseas and no one understands. Being expected no matter how much pain I'm in with my autoimmune disease to get up at 4 am and go to work. I'm 45 and have been sober… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/25 11:09 AM |
| 5 | The bullshit research on "mental load"This right here. I'm 44, and a self employed carpenter. My older kids are out of collage and I have a 12 year old son. My fiancée is 33. Her 2 girls are 5 and 10. I PAY ALL the bills so she can stay at home which is OK until the other day. She was talking to my step mom about my dad just retiring. (My dad and her have been together 25 years)My step mom made the comment "yeah his dad ALWAYS was working or doing stuff on the property and still is now after retiring ". My fiancée chimed in saying t… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/25 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I absolutely despise the phrase "real men"I find it so interesting and frustrating. The "be a man" mind set. I'm 43, 5' 9" 178 lbs, full sleeve tattoo, served in the ARMY (infantry), ran a crane and have rough framed huge custom homes my whole life, also did cage fighting for 3 years in my late 20's. I'm now engaged to a very amazing woman who has two daughters who are 4 and 9. There dads are not involved at all and I'm adopting the 9 year old after the wedding. My older two are in college. I'm rebuilding my life (whole other story) and… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 09:01 AM |
| 2 | How many of you had single fathers or (former) step-fathers that went above and beyond after a divorce?Here in west michigan you have a few religious organizations that are contracted through the state. Lutheran services recommended i go to the YWCA for wife beater classes. I was forced to go with the risk of never seeing my son again if I didn't. Even though it was only an accusation. No police or hospital report. That accusation and others was what my attorney and the judge caught her lying about in open court under oath. She only did it to drag it out hoping I would mess up. Well never give a … | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How many of you had single fathers or (former) step-fathers that went above and beyond after a divorce?I had to fight CPS,LUTHERAN SOCIAL SERVICES and the court for over a year. Only when she ran put of money for a lawyer was mine able to prove that the accusations about abuse were totally made up. Funniest part was when the judge called her an outright liar in court. I had proof stacked higher than mt everest but it didn't matter because I was accused of abuse on her. I fought like the third monkey trying to board Noah's ark and man was it pouring. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 2 | How many of you had single fathers or (former) step-fathers that went above and beyond after a divorce?My ex wife left me when I was in the army. She took both kids 5 and 6 at the time. I got an honorable discharge and got custody. Down side is I lost EVERYTHING, home,tools(was a carpenter before) my dog. Hell her boyfriend who used to work for me even knocked her up. Due to no income and not qualifying for public assistance we became homeless and my kids moved back. I dove head first into severe alcoholism and cocaine use. Fast forward a couple years my girlfriend gets pregnant. Has my Youngest … | /r/MensRights | 29/11/20 09:29 PM |
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