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| 3 | I'm very confident, capable and sociable... In foreign countries. | Prussicus | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 07:43 PM |
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| 5 | Quick tip: When rating girls, don't use a 1-10 rating system. Use a binary system instead.Better is: No sex Just sex (drunk) Just sex Girlfriend material | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Being Girl-Height in College I thought was a Blessing, in the club it feels like a CurseCorrelation =/= causation. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Unless you're a hot girl or a guy from a well off family, it's normal for your younger years (<25) to suck but don't get too down about it.Don't American universities waive tuition if your parents' income is below a certain level? | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Unless you're a hot girl or a guy from a well off family, it's normal for your younger years (<25) to suck but don't get too down about it.I disagree. I'm Dutch so we'll have to take college fees out of the equation but whilst it's true that here mostly richer kids join fraternities and go to university in general, everyone can, actually. Fraternity 'fees' are very affordable and people who aren't members are so by choice. I'm definitely pro-frat but when I talk to people who aren't you notice that they find it pretentious and a rich kids' affair meaning they're essentially reinforcing the stereotype themselves by not joining even … | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 07:17 PM |
| – | My twelve REAL reasons why you suck with women (it's GOOD NEWS for 98% of struggling men)Well I didn't mean just looks but also their person. One of the most attractive girls I met wasn't actually objectively the hottest but very classy and nice which is also important. I agree that for practice it doesn't matter, though. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:02 AM |
| – | My twelve REAL reasons why you suck with women (it's GOOD NEWS for 98% of struggling men)Okay so would you say living in the wrong place is a genuine excuse? I don't like where I live but will most likely be moving to London next September. I'm better at interacting in English than Dutch and currently live in the rural Netherlands. Also I think if your standards are high because that's what you want you shouldn't lower them. Even if 1 in a billion meets them there'd still be 7 people for you. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | It's my final semester of college and I'm a virgin. How do I get laid?He might live in like, Montana or something. | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 02:28 PM |
| 3 | I asked out my coworker and got rejected!!Step one: Become a manager too so you're on the same level Step two: Date her | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 12:22 AM |
| 4 | [FR] She didn't flakeVery well-written bro | /r/seduction | 07/01/17 09:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My take on a HB8.5Well neither of us was there so let's leave it up to OP. Anyways, I'll repeat that attractiveness is subjective and a lot of factors influence their behaviour, so you can't just say 'oh he's lying that's not possible!'. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My take on a HB8.5Okay look, she might be an 8.5 in terms of looks but that doesn't really say anything about her personality. She could be insecure, she could be really into the fact that this guy is the only one who doesn't seem overwhelmed by her, or she just likes him more than the other guys at the club. Also, OP might be good looking yet somewhat awkward at times, it's perfectly possible. What's also quite possible is that he literally implemented everything he learned here or on /r/GetSuave and that's why … | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 08:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My take on a HB8.5Well, let's presume he isn't lying for the sake of the discussion, it doesn't really matter anyway because we'll never be sure. My point was that helping a friend is better than leaving your friend stay in the cold in order to fuck a girl. Obviously he could've had both but I imagine he didn't really think about the seats thing at the time. Furthermore, if the 8.5 was so childish about the entire thing maybe she wasn't really an 8.5 anyway so he didn't miss out. If she wants to have sex with him… | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My take on a HB8.5I think you made the right choice, after all if you can't postpone sex to help a friend then you haven't picked up on this subs' lessons so well done mate. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 06:22 PM |
| 2 | NYE Milf HookupNicely done James | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirableGood one | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 09:32 PM |
| 22 | I just had my first make-out session with a sober girl in a club. If it wasn't for you guys, I would still be a socially awkward nerd. Thank you guys so much.Dunno what planet you're on but usually girls aren't easy. | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 05:56 PM |
| – | I just had my first make-out session with a sober girl in a club. If it wasn't for you guys, I would still be a socially awkward nerd. Thank you guys so much.Yeah you should, I mean, if she wants to make out after 5 seconds of talking she'd probably be up for more action! | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 04:14 PM |
| – | I just had my first make-out session with a sober girl in a club. If it wasn't for you guys, I would still be a socially awkward nerd. Thank you guys so much.Why not? | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I want to sleep with beautiful women because I was bullied in high schoolHe's right though - validation is not a good thing to desire because it's counter productive. You need to start to stop caring. Get over to /r/GetSuave and read the posts by champagnehouse. Accepting the way you are is also not good if you wanna become a better person. | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 06:51 AM |
| 1 | You see a girl you find attractive...Uni makes it too easy | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | How to fix a bad stigma on a college campus?It's okay to be creepy It's not, what you probably meant is that the things that make him creepy aren't necessarily bad. You'd be right there. The things you're doing that are creepy OP - you're probably doing them in the wrong context or too much/little. Fix that and it'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I Began Dressing and Grooming In a Way That Is Congruent To My Personality, and Here Are Some Things That Have ChangedDisagree. The way you dress is significantly more important than your height. It has way more impact on your looks and actually says something about you as a person. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 10:09 PM |
| 0 | [FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself.I know it sounds cheesy to say this but, once you do something you always told yourself you couldn't, it lifts you up. Yeah, it does doesn't it? Glad you did it and I hope something more comes of it, good luck :) | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Average looking girls are more difficult. Hot girls are way easier!Controversial opinion: Hot girls are generally friendlier and more open than average girls. Therefore easier to date/talk to. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Fat friend doesn't think he deserves a girlfriend because he's fat.If he can't exercise and eat right, just have him eat significantly less. Yes he'll be tired etc. It's not really healthy either but I don't see another way. By the way, if he can't exercise due to health issues, can he take part in the glorious act? | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How can I over come the self improvement vs self acceptance paradox?I would say improve first and then accept. How can you change if you're happy with what you have already? The process will be harder, but also faster this way. In my experience that is. | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How can I develop a social life?Paper -> Employers want you, that alone is worth 4 years of my life | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How can I develop a social life?It's probably still a good idea to go to university, though. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I conducted an experiment with how attracted girls are to accentsFake a British accent. I'm Dutch too and I always get compliments on it. Maybe if you're in the UK people won't be impressed right away but as soon as they learn that you're Dutch they'll be like omg! | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 09:17 AM |
| 1 | When I turned eighteen, I wanted to make a big change in my life as I was insecure of so many things and a little over a year later here are my results!Take it easy with the boasting mate, or you'll convince yourself that you're actually perfect like me and everyone will think you're arrogant! | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with my oneitis issue?He does have good points but in all honesty I feel like there's a certain category of girls within the group of girls I'd consider dating who are naturally better than the other ones. I mean, come on, we already use a tier system for looks, can't we use one for personality as well? I know this does promote scarcity and is also a lot more variable but you can tell the diffirence between a casual hook-up and someone you'd even want to marry right? | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision EverNoticed this when I was in London and Cambridge, I live in a small Dutch 'city' of 10k people so obviously big change. Hopefully moving there in a few years for uni. | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Ok but you treat meI'm generally for paying for dates by yourself, however you shouldn't let yourself be exploited either. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 03:02 PM |
| 1 | hey im 17 m and im kinda lost on how to make my next moveYeah but seduction isn't about getting just any girl, I thought we were aiming for the classy, elegant hot ones here... | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | hey im 17 m and im kinda lost on how to make my next moveI honestly doubt that showing your lack of decency would improve your chances but hey, do as you please. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:18 AM |
| 1 | hey im 17 m and im kinda lost on how to make my next move'Sports, music, drugs?' Seriously mate? You're seriously listing drugs as a perfectly OK activity comparable to sports or music? Wow.... | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?Yeah because I love myself and I'm more worthy of your time than anyone else! | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong?Not at all, at night time on the Streets? No. | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong?He's explaining why women wouldn't like it, it doesn't really matter if you actually are a sexist or not; What's relevant here is wether women think you are or not. | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 08:26 PM |
| -1 | Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong?Calm down, I could've lied to you to but I was nice enough to be honest :) Constructive criticism mate, read the sub a bit more, talk to some female friends and then try again. I must add that girls are generally already quite terrified of men at night time, actually even in general, when walking alone on the Streets. A friend (girl) told me that girls should Always be wary of strangers on the Streets, because if someone approaches you (especially with pick-up lines like that one) they might ver… | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 08:16 PM |
| -1 | Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong?Uh, on a scale of 1/10, how stupid are you? First of all the nighttime approach is completely wrong, but you made it even worse by using a pick-up line some rapist in a police tv-series would use... Really dude? | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 07:44 PM |
| -1 | "I love your haircut!"We can imagine this going somewhere, but without actual evidence of your succes it's pretty hard to tell wether this actually worked so... That's a horrible haircut by the way, no offense. | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit, I just asked her out.Great! Took her home? | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit, I just asked her out.Tell me what it was like when you've had it :) | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit, I just asked her out.Have fun man, best of luck. | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit, I just asked her out.Congratulations, as per usual I must ask the follow-up question: Is she hot? | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell my gf[22] it's my first relationship? I'm 27.Tell her, be honest, you don't have to be specific, maybe you can twist it into something like 'You're the first and only one I've liked in this way.' | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 05:52 PM |
| -5 | How to deal with friends who pull away a girl I am talking/flirting with?Pull them out of your life. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 09:14 PM |
| 2 | From zero to laid. A step by step guide for my younger self. (Long post)You're one of the geniuses who'd actually say it like that. | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Asking out cashiers...You can ask their number instead, of course. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm very confident, capable and sociable... In foreign countries.Aha, well I've never been to the States so I wouldn't know how well I'd get along with Americans but Britain and Germany so far seem to be much better than the Netherlands, well I wanted to go to Uni in one of them anyway so I might as well just move I suppose. | /r/seduction | 25/10/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm very confident, capable and sociable... In foreign countries.Do you mean you're more social there or in America? | /r/seduction | 25/10/15 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm very confident, capable and sociable... In foreign countries.Is it that much worse than the UK or Germany, for instance? | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Feel like a loser cause everyone has sex and relationships so frequently and I can't.Low self-esteem is extremely unattractive, it's a huge red flag so maybe that's the reason. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I get Girl-Friends (not a Girlfriend)I have too many girl-friends but no girlfriend, ughh. It's nice for advice though, you can help eachother understand the opposite sex. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Asking out cashiers...Haha, I was in the UK last week on a trip and we had to do an egg race, so I asked a cashier at a doughnut shop for some tips. Eventually we got back to her and I asked her if she was willing to give us some doughnuts, I then asked her where her accent was from for a friend of mine, he was wondering. She kinda looked like someone I knew who was from Scotland, anyways, She was nice and all, but when I asked her for a selfie with me (told her it was for arts class but that's pure BS) she was like … | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Week 6 In my class. How to I get with this girl?Ask her for help maybe? | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Week 6 In my class. How to I get with this girl?What about trying to get into a project with her? Should make it way easier plus a valid excuse to get her Phone number! | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyThis is why you shouldn't approach people at a random even if you want to, especially not in such an awkward fashion, either have a reason/excuse or they're alone and you are too and you just go up to them and be like 'Hey I've seen you around but I don't think I know you'. Don't do stupid stuff guys... Imagine some stranger you don't know coming towards you stuttering, all nervous, asking you to come talk outside... First of all your intentions are blatantly Obvious, second, yeah well... You do… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What to wesr when you invite a girl for "Netflix and chill"?You don't literally have to say 'Netflix and Chill'. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 07:30 AM |
| 2 | White girlsHispanic=White, just saying. White is not limited to Northern European. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | 15 year old guy, Has Problems. (Olders help me please)Haha no my English is perfectly fine I was just being polite :) Ja das verstand ich, natürlich ist es immer schwierig, die perfekte Mädchen zu finden. Aber wenn Sie nicht bleibt suchen sollen Sie ihr nie finden :) | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | 15 year old guy, Has Problems. (Olders help me please)Nah ok so if you're not attracted you don't want to be friends with the girl, maybe you can get some männlicher Freunden? Es ist natürlich ein bisschen dumm um zu sagen dass du jetzt keine männlicher Freunden kann haben. Also: Ist da auch eine Mädchen die du attraktiv findest? Entschuldigung für mein limitierte Deutsch. Niederländisch :) | /r/seduction | 27/09/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Who pays?I'd say that offering to pay instead of instisting to split would increase your chance of them sticking. Especially if you're dating online a date is very much a first impression and this really helps. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Who pays?Always Always Always offer to pay for the girl! You should accept it if they refuse to let you but Always offer it! It's not a lot of money anyway and a very nice gesture. I'd never insist on splitting, and only do it if she insists herself. Chivalry isn't dead! I'm a guy by the way. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend before and now I don't know what to do, it sucks!Tips for your texting game would be, well, practice. Not going to lie doing it often and improving what you perceive as your weak points is going to make it better. Saying things over text is easier but if you can see the girls face to face you should Always prioritise that over texting. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate when you and a girl are talking on a bed?Escalate escalate escalate escal... Do you even realise you're on a bed with her? | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 02:11 PM |
| -17 | This is how embracing my 'introverted self' worked when seducing women.Most? Good god... Not where I live thank god! This isn't charming at all... I wouldn't want a girl who smokes anything to be honest. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 10:05 PM |
| -23 | This is how embracing my 'introverted self' worked when seducing women.''Get stoned at the park'' I thought you were a decent person until I read that, can someone tell me wether this is normal or not for people to do? I hear it a lot on the internet but I just can't imagine someone I know doing it. If I hear people saying they do that with girl's I Always imagine some kind of Jamaican smoky room with way too relaxed people. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | If you're an American that went to a college loaded with hot girls, will any environment rival that kind of setting once you get older?No. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | how to get her number?Make up something that would require her to contact you (or vice versa). I personally wouldn't make it Obvious that you want her number for romantic reasons but that's your choice. Last number I got from a girl was a couple of days ago, she actually offered it to me (I did imply a bit though) so we could arrange when we would cycle to school together (there aren't a lot of people coming from our direction). | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you flirt? I'm completely clueless, and don'te even know what "flirting" is. Help?Make some sexualised jokes, imply things in a certain direction. Talking about a good subject helps you get some nice opportunities. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 02:25 PM |
| 3 | tips on how to pickup girls in a foreign country? is it possible?Makes it easier honestly, that way you can excuse your mistakes by pretending it's because of the language barrier if you make any. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:00 PM |
| 1 | tips on how to pickup girls in a foreign country? is it possible?Speaking proper English. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 03:59 PM |
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