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| 2 | Tinder advice: only getting virginsOkay, so either tinder matches you with virgins or virgins prefer you because you "look" kind? Both are nonsense. If you want more experienced girls go to bars or pubs. They will be all over. Are you sure that there are many experienced girls between 17 and 19 in your region? Tinder can match you with younger girls because the chance of hooking up is higher in such case, but I don't see how it can filter virgins for you. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Is performance needy? (Mark Manson's Models)Don't you want to touch her? If that is the case then you are doing a trick against your own will. But you want to touch her don't you? In that case it is about you and your fears. It has nothing to do with the girl. So touching is not so relevant to neediness. When I was studying at school, a was nerdy/geeky guy. So bullies loved to choose me as a victim. Other people would avoid me. So I become needy by seeking their validation. I attempted to kill my previous self for the sake of their valida… | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | The art of seduction may lead to attachment, but what’s your opinion on it leading to true love?I think true love is an illusion created by society to reinforce the idea of monogamy. Monogamy is a form of attachment. Hence, one could say that the true love is synonym to attachment. In addition, society is against pickup (aka seduction). Hence, it seems that true love is the opposite of seduction??? In the pickup book The Game Neil Strauss wrote one great sentence: "It took one bitch to bring down the Hollywood Project" (Not exact words but close) That was the bitch that Mystery thought he … | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 04:26 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?If he is sane, you can confront him when he is alone and talk about it. The theme should be "why are you doing this?" or "what is your problem?". If his justifications appear to be not satisfying to you, you go "I don't like it, don't do that again". The only way now that he can attempt to make fun of you is through saying "I don't care what u think/like" in which case you can freely tell everybody that he is a jerk(I guess this is the most appropriate word for that). Again if he is mature enoug… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being "weird"?Its in your head. You saw movies and such stuff, where conversations are going very smooth and except the same from you. If you are truly weird, you won’t notice it. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 12:17 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop objectifying and pedestalizing women?Mark Manson: Models Tell what you appretiate in them in the begining. Tell the truth and tell it all. Now you have nothing that would put them on pedistal. If you tell it all at once, it would not be seem much big of deal. Unless you are Sheckspire. Sorry if I wrote his name wrong. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Remember "Put a women on a pedestal and she'll kick you in the face"I think you are talking about investment. Showing interest is a form of investment. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl says I dress too nice?I would put it this way: “Give her another chance” | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible this girl is still interested in me? Should I ask..?You are definitely overthinking. Keeping your conversation platonic is a waste of time for you ( right ? ) You want a date. If you ask her out and she refuses => no date If you ask her out and she agrees => you have a date ! If you do not ask her out => no date You want the 2nd outcome. Simple. So ask her out anyway. The sooner you do it, sooner you will move on if she refuses. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 01:32 PM |
| 3 | I suck at approaching females, how to change this?Have same problem. I am 20. Your assumption that women dislike you is what helds us back. The truth is that we have no idea how they will react. I believe we are gonna suck for several approaches no matter what we do. Then it should get easier though. What I can recommend is training eyecontact. It is only a first step, but a step none the less. It helped me a bit. Go to subway, look in the eyes of girls. Wait until they notice and break the eyecontact. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 06:33 PM |
| 10 | I used to get hella Tinder matches, now I don’t... did something change?Tinder is a big bussiness. They want to get as much money as they can. Their algorithms to give you matches are sophisticated and classified. For instance if you pay tinder to get better matches, Tinder becomes aware that you are a client who can pay. It will give you bad matches to make you to pay more. So either be prepared to pay tinder regularly or don't pay at all. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Voice Doesn't Carry, Among Other IssuesIt could be psychological. I had problems hearing people too, even at relatively quit places. It was just like something deep inside me would like to not hear them at all. As dating coaches say not hearing is an excuse to get really close to a girl. Maybe you would like to try out that. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 05:57 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with another guy hitting on my girl?Sooner or later you will have an argue with your gf. In that case accepting that guys offer will be more probable (during the period of your conflict). Are you ready for such scenario ? You can go to those parties with your gf to send a message to that guy. It will be less reactive than going and directly talking with that guy. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 06:44 AM |
| 1 | We do everything in bed but she never lets sex happenYou should convice her that "it just happened" as Todd says. Trigger sexual desire through physical intimacy + push pull technique should be enough. And yeah girls are terrified of being a slut. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I got brutally rejected twice regarding race last night. It actually hurt.Well, it does not make sense to me. They could just say that you are not their type. That would not be rude at all. If your country is so racistic it is another reason to keep going on. The rejections of any kind makes person stronger. Some guys are born in reach families, some in poors. If the racism is the reasonof your rejection, then you are in similar situation. You can change country or try harder. I do not see any other solution. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Getting out of the "friend zone" worth it or no?My opinion is that there is no such thing as friend zone. It is your brain seeing the gap between how she treats you and how you would like her to treat you. She just does what she things is right for given situation. If someone is nice to you, no matter of your sex, he becomes bro to you. Calling you bro is just her gratitude for being nice to her. There is one basic rule that I follow with every girl, whatever she is to me. Never hide your feelings toward her. It does not mean you want some ki… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 07:15 AM |
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